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Since this is a relatively low-effort, drive-by post, I was going to popcorn this like everyone else, but I remember trying to negotiate desire like this (not quite, but similar enough) during an old relationship, so here's some drive-by responses that might help you get started. Summary: Sidebar. None of this is a substitute. You want r/AskMRP for newbie questions. You can't negotiate desire on a calendar. Being the man, you have to initiate; your needs decide the calendar. Throwing a tantrum b…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 01:55 PM
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This keeps getting better and be—WAIT, NO, MAKE THAT WORSE. Gentlemen, DON'T give in to curiosity. And report this for the troll post it so clearly is.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 12:32 PM
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Is there some kind of “Consider honest till proven troll” rule on here? I came here yesterday, saw this, reported it as a troll (Even if it's true it's more offtopic than an AskMen 10 ways to keep your wife satisfied and happy article). Today: 100+ comments. Come on people, it's clearly someone having a laugh at MRP's expense. I don't post on here often so I don't have a horse in this race, but this sort of bizarre post is best left to the lads at TRP to pick to pieces.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 12:29 PM
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For what it's worth, I've read some Buddhist and Vedic literature, and a lot of it is pretty rambling. It is supposed to make you reflect on a broadly same point through a bunch of statements, some of which may gently contradict each other but share a theme. You are supposed to think about them, and derive your own truth. [Okay, I'll stop rambling now.]
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 04:07 AM
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That makes sense, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 10:17 PM
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I'm not one of those “Just destroy the shit test, bro! What are you, some kind of pussy?” guys (well, I hope not) – but have you (or any of the other people on the sub) considered whether calmly canceling further activities with her being a bitch would be a viable strategy as well? I understand that you can't expect her to take responsibility for her behavior in general, and this applies more when she is close to or on her period. But once in a while, (my theory here, please feel free to critiqu…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 12:57 PM
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The isles of Greece! the isles of Greece Where burning Sappho loved and sung, Where grew the arts of war and peace, Where Delos rose, and Phoebus sprung! Eternal summer gilds them yet But all, except their sun, is set. (That's Byron.)
/r/askMRP14/03/16 03:48 AM
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Here you go, this news item should make you positively ecstatic then.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 06:56 AM
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One possibly off-topic question: why is 'shark week' so off-limits? It isn't for us anyway. Towels are a thing. I suspect the whole mystique around shark week is a catchy double entendre phrase combined with a squeamishness among the general population about blood. You being a physician obviously don't have the said squeamishness, and can probably torpedo the 'my period just started, we can't do anything' with more authority than most. Opinions? [BTW your charts with the translation and response…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 05:33 AM
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if circumstances change, you would be okay with having kids... well, which is it? Good point, you gave me a chance to clarify my thoughts and put them into writing. Without waffling, if society reaches an inflexion point for feminism in the next five years; and tax rates and laws becomes more family-oriented and male-friendly, I would be okay with having kids. In a society with medieval-style divorce laws, rape hysteria, fat acceptance, and Meghan Trainor on the front page of Youtube, not a chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 07:11 PM
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This is a fair option if we eventually come to a head-on disagreement about things, but not really tenable when the topic hasn't ever come up. Remember that she hasn't even overtly mentioned wanting them with me, or brought them up seriously in the conversation. My question was mainly in case it comes up (always better to be prepared); and I feel like there might be a few men who share my situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:59 PM
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But be in control of birth control. IUD, V, condoms... Don't get surprised That's a very good point, will keep in mind. I wish reversible male contraception was well developed, but until RISUG is proved safe and reliable, we have to watch out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:29 PM
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Thanks. This was the most useful part of your advice, I think: Tell her you have been thinking that at your age most people are considering kids. Don't tell her you heard her mention it, by not saying that she'll think you're on the same wave length and just get her. By telling her 'I heard you say that, blah blah blah', it becomes a reaction to what she thinks, and automatically puts me in the passenger seat; whereas if I directly say "It is my decision not to be a biological parent, but we can…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:16 PM
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I like the idea of repeating 'AWALT' in your head and shutting the fuck up or at least being unreactive when you are annoyed. My batting average on this front is increasing...much much more humorous responses than previous "are you fucking kidding me!?" I am in a similar bucket, in that I actually like to argue forcefully with a mix of facts and rhetoric. Now while this might possibly be a useful skill in a town hall debate among men, it is completely useless when it comes to dealing with a woma…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 04:10 AM
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This is the problem that some veteran sedditors have been talking about. You've mostly lost it with this girl. Move on, and move (preferably) up. Find a girl who won't mess with you this much and fuck her.
/r/seduction25/11/10 04:53 AM
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I understand. Getting over AA and projecting a confident, positive attitude is probably the single most important common factor among all these cases.
/r/seduction25/11/10 04:48 AM
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Yeah, the friend-zone posts (if the OP catches on quickly) can be really good reading. I used to be a non-aware AFC one year ago, so I can sort of understand the AFC way of thinking; it's mostly due to societal conditioning and brainwashing by our feminized society.
/r/seduction25/11/10 02:56 AM
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I must admit that I have been guilty of this sort of behaviour, where I have asked question relating to one particular situation and expected point-blank answers. I'll try to correct this tendency in the future and post more general questions.
/r/seduction25/11/10 01:42 AM
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Yeah. As I can understand it, PUA is about breaking down female mating behavior and seeing what sort of male courtship actions a human female responds positively to. Not really much room for people who still laugh uproariously at penis jokes. [On a related note, I've found that the people in my social circle who constantly and unabashedly make penis/vagina jokes (without any sort of playful teasing) are the ones who are instantly LJBFed and make for quasi-gay BFFs of the girls. Anyone else obser…
/r/seduction25/11/10 12:43 AM
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That is true. I guess the element of NOT "telling a girl how you feel about her" is probably the one thing that resonated the most with me. I was still doing this incredibly AFC thing as recently as one week ago. Then it hit me, during an interview, even if you really need the job, you don't blow your enthusiasm for the job all over the interviewer, and tell them "I'm qualified, and I really, really need this job", right? You make the standard shadowboxing moves, indicate a strong interest, and …
/r/seduction22/11/10 04:06 PM
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The night after I saw her again and she was very flirty again so I went >for the kiss again and got the cheek once again. ... Yesterday, I asked her out, and she happily agreed for tonight. >Then once again she flirted with me the whole night, I went for the >kiss and got the cheek. "Training a woman is like training a dog." You're rewarding this girl by asking her out despite her rejecting you romantically multiple times. Her hindbrain cannot process that. I'd suggest cancelling on her for toni…
/r/seduction22/11/10 03:32 PM
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I'll admit that was an overstatement. No chick deserves to get roofied by a douchebag. It's just that a lot of chicks get drunk, screw a guy, and then claim the next morning that they were raped. Case in point: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duke_lacrosse_case
/r/seduction21/11/10 12:35 AM
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After reading a lot of OP's comments, she's either crazy (my original suggestion), or shat herself. Either way, some sort of romantic Rubicon has been crossed.
/r/seduction21/11/10 12:32 AM
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This. I'd go to the same one, preferably with a female friend, and then get her number. Make sure the female friend is hot. This ought to send your value through the roof. :p
/r/seduction20/11/10 09:49 PM
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This is stupid advice. Chicks who say stuff like "I don't give my number to strangers" to men they are interested in deserve to die alone and single listening to James Blunt, watching Twilight and eating chocolates. Don't make that bitch shield too strong peaches.
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:30 PM
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She might be a bitch, have some fucked up mental illness, or be plain crazy. You get all sorts, specially in the online dating world. If you yourself haven't had any particular mental disorders (like me), other people's actions can seem hurting instead of crazy (which is what they often are). In short: Next this crazy chick, move on. And on.
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:26 PM
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How old are you? Girls below 27 are incapable of discussing anything seriously (never mind their useless liberal arts degrees) and don't respect anyone who takes them seriously. Adjust your game accordingly and swoop them after making dick jokes and ridiculing them every step of the way. :p
/r/seduction18/11/10 12:37 PM
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Soldier, you're on a suicide mission (as everyone else has probably been saying.) Deep in 'just friends' zone? Check. Emotional tampon? Check. Concerned about her enjoyment more than yours? Check. Honestly, I'd suggest you move heaven and earth to try and bring ask another good looking girl (any girl...let's call her Mary) out to the date (or whatever it is). Introduce her to your old friend as just a name. ("This is Mary") and try to keep Mary's mouth shut so she doesn't gush about how great a …
/r/seduction18/11/10 12:30 PM
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I totally understand where you're coming from. On the other hand, I found that when I sent generic openers like that, "I moved here from X city and ... I like this and ...", I found I couldn't get a single response. When I used my random ridiculous opener on two girls, both replied. Maybe it has to do with my humour skills (:p), but I'm a bit surprised at how much better it is to open with a ridiculous opener rather than say something generic. I was wondering if that would work for the next phas…
/r/seduction18/11/10 03:55 AM
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This one doesn't look like a fatty. Generalizations like that probably don't make any sense in every area. I live near a college town and there are tons of college seniors/recently graduated fairly good-looking girls.
/r/seduction18/11/10 03:52 AM
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I'm not patting myself on the back. I'm an rAFC and need to pass strongly on all four points. Believe me, for a guy who couldn't even speak properly to women last year and was suffering from heavy depression, I've come a pretty long way.
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:40 PM
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One thing I could tell you (from personal experience) is that in order to temporarily assuage her nervousness, you tend to say something like "ok, no big deal, we can be friends", etc. DO NOT SAY THIS. Learn to walk away (omg that pulls girls so much. It fucks with their heads when you learn to nonchalantly walk away after building attraction. Still surprises me.)
/r/seduction16/11/10 12:44 AM
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Even getting shot down feels better than the regret of doing nothing. This. I think that being masculine, we tend to concoct ridiculously intricate shooting down scenarios in our heads, where we will be laughed at while being shot down, and whatnot. In reality, most women are much more insecure, and shoot you down very, very politely with a quiet "I'm not interested."
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:27 PM
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How sexual do you get is what I wanted to ask. I know this depends upon context, but I'm still afraid of a girl bursting into laughter if I say something overtly sexual. Guess I'll just have to experiment more and find out.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:22 PM
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I'd suggest making plans with other girls as well, and subtly letting her know about it. Leaving seems to work wonders with girls, this one even embraced me while I was (non-bitterly and very calmly) leaving her apartment.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:21 PM
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Could you elaborate? As in, what sort of lines did you use?
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:43 PM
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I am. NEXTing a girl is something new for me :p
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:43 PM
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philosorapter has four pointers that he told another AFC on the board. Lets see how I scored A few pointers: Never tell a girl how you feel about her. That is your secret. She'll want to know your secret, but as soon as you tell her, its not longer a secret anymore. No longer interesting and no longer worth working for. Show her through actions how you feel about her. [FAIL. I told her how I felt openly] If you are trying to "cash out" with a girl you have to up the ante to a respectable level. …
/r/seduction15/11/10 06:17 PM
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@cheddar: The other girl who actually fucked me came on to me after four months of (mostly unintentional) push-pull game. She was low self-esteem though. Do you think the slow burn method works better if you guys know each other, but mostly as friends?
/r/seduction15/11/10 06:11 PM
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I wasn't clinging. That's the point. Verbatim quotes from her (before I expressed interest): "I'm just going to follow you around." "I think you're a really interesting and mature person" "You look really nice in that shirt" Verbatim quotes from me (before I expressed interest) "Bring the movies" :p I know three things where I fucked up: More (perhaps too much) escalation earlier without making a move. (Maybe she got too comfortable) Logistical problems. This might surprise you, but for two peop…
/r/seduction15/11/10 06:09 PM
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This girl is on the border of that. 6, bi and hasn't had a boy/girlfriend in the last six months.
/r/seduction15/11/10 04:22 PM
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And a question: Have any of you ever done this: telling a girl you like her (/r/relationship_advice style) and had it succeed? If so, what techniques did you use? [I feel like a highschooler, but then that's basically what I am, at a high-school level of AFCness regarding girls. I'm just trying to get into the Zen of 'not caring']
/r/seduction15/11/10 04:14 PM
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I've talked with her on the street, she invited me to her apartment for some tea, and we chatted for a while. Hence the LJBF suspicion.
/r/seduction15/11/10 04:03 AM
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Don't apologize. Apologizing without good reason is beta.
/r/seduction14/11/10 07:35 AM
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I'll never be posting pics again. That wasn't cool. I feel bad. ROFL this is a men's seddit, you honestly think pics of hot women (I haven't seen them, just assuming they're hot) are not going to be remembered? That's not creepy, that's just how men roll.
/r/seduction14/11/10 07:33 AM
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You could try this. I've broken out of the friend zone before, but then it was with a good looking, but needy girl who made a move on me. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hblj9r2Snto
/r/seduction14/11/10 07:04 AM
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Thanks. Will try this.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:35 AM
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I'm not a strictly one night stand kind of person. I'm ready to explore relationships with whoever I end up with to their fullest, as long as I don't end up being the one who's being exploited.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:33 AM
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Specially since the OP himself says that it was stupid. He's looking for ways to fix it, not more people telling him "THAT WAS STUPID!!!"
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:01 AM
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I guess one lesson to take from this is: while gaming girls, never make your interest in A overtly clear to B. On the other hand, if you want to covertly indicate your interest in A to B like the quiet 'phut' of a silenced Walther PPK taking out another person, casually drop a hint about her being a 'really nice person' or something. But NEVER directly ask her. (Also could you make the target's age range clear? I guess 23+ year olds would not be that flighty and nervous about someone asking them…
/r/seduction12/11/10 02:12 AM
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She wasn't naked in my bed. She had thrown up after a lot of drinking (and talking), and was asleep. I shook her awake, she went to take a shower, came back, and her towel "accidentally" slipped. She was very groggy, and I was extremely drunk too. Maybe I should have made a move, it's just that I'm not very experienced at this. If we do get drunk again and she comes onto me, I'll go with the flow.
/r/seduction12/11/10 02:06 AM
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I need to improve the following areas of my game: Inner Game: I need to feel the confidence that comes with a man who has "seen it all" with women. My inexperience at relationships and my conservative background have held me back a lot in this regard, and at the age of 23, I am trying to develop a more positive mindset with respect to women. The book "Intimate Connections" by David Burns is really helpful in this regard. Interesting Talk/Storytelling: I have loads of stories and conversation sta…
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:48 PM
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Since you have a religious prejudice to overcome (I come from a similar background), I'd advocate getting a bit comfortable with flirting with women in a friendly setting first. The next time you have a female friend over, tease her a bit. Call her names and see as her eyes light up. If she sneezes or something, tell her with over-emphasis "You are disgusting!!!" (while keeping a cocky smirk on your face) and lean away from her and laugh inside as she instinctively comes towards you to gain your…
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:48 AM
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I guess among these, the photographer and masseur are roles that the normal guy can work towards as hobbies. And both are interesting pastimes as well.
/r/seduction10/11/10 01:50 AM
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You seriously need to read some Buddhist philosophy. Alternatively, propose marriage to her the next time you have sex. Make it romantic, with rose petals strewn on the bed, candles, and soft music playing. Get a (fake) diamond ring and stuff, and (without bending down on one knee or any of that shit), pull her towards you and ask her "Will you be my wife?" Only two things can happen a) You have a love slave for life. b) [MUCH more likely] She will be so freaked out by this that she will never h…
/r/seduction09/11/10 12:43 AM
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Use this instead. Much easier, and graphical http://www.pininthemap.com/ppb6becf3fb4815c066 password: seddit
/r/seduction09/11/10 12:38 AM
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Field reports are just a fun name for guys telling other guys how they attracted a girl. It's no different than girls talking about "How they snagged a great guy" on girls' night out. So I'd say a couple of things: try to be demure but happy, go along with the sex if you feel like it, and be sweet and accommodating afterwards. Offer to make him breakfast. If you offer a man something other than the typical American girl (who has 657+ issues after sex and is irritating), and are sweet and caring,…
/r/seduction08/11/10 12:40 PM
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This is a set of rules asking to be nexted as fast as possible. Unfortunately due to the existence of supplicating spineless herby beta schmucks, no fault divorce laws, cheerleading "you go girl" style faggots, and feminazism, some significant percentage of young and hot women might actually end up following this nonsensical bitchy bullshit.
/r/seduction08/11/10 05:11 AM
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Just trying to get the full 7 hours in before the bedroom stuff begins.
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:36 AM
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H'm. You're right in that I'm new to the whole game thing, so I might not be using the terms correctly. In layman's language, this is what I'm doing in my interactions: I'm trying to do is connect with this girl's emotions, and talk to her about exciting things that I have done so as to generate a fun and attractive image of a guy she would be ready to fuck at some point of time. As for the number, both of us have terribly busy schedules (she works a lot and is a student. She doesn't have a BF, …
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:18 AM
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I was leaving a club near my campus with a girl who was clearly DTF >when she remembered that her friend was still inside, and alone, so she >asks if she can walk back with us. Just a suggestion here: "Text your friend and tell her to meet us at XYZ location e.g. the dorm" (Of course, you won't be going to XYZ. But it will give her a rationalization to be alone with you. Often that is all these chicks are looking for.)
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:12 AM
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(From your username, if I'm not mistaken) Act like you were born in '87. Not '97.
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:09 AM
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I didn't ask for her number. I see this girl around pretty often, but I make sure that I don't get involved in LJBF type talks, mostly DHV and flirting. I'm not entirely sure I want to sleep with her (she's a 6.5-7.0 at most, single, and almost outta college), but girls like that are good for practice with the really hot ones. Thoughts? Maybe I should isolate her and try to escalate a bit the next time. Nothing to lose.
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:06 AM
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Done. Went out with her for a coffee, took the time to regale her with a DHV backpacking story while she looked on wide-eyed and said "Wooow" a couple of times. Now back at the library and going to eject quickly (Don't want to spend too much time in LJBF territory.) Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction08/11/10 03:49 AM
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We need to rip apart this chap's convos and pinpoint the mistakes he's making. The guy opens someone at a bank with no neg, no interest building, mundane uninteresting talk about withdrawing cash, and then BAM! he asks her out for lunch. Recipe for failure, afaik.
/r/seduction07/11/10 06:54 PM
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edited. That was what I meant (should be getting the hell off seddit and sleeping more so I can game chicks better).
/r/seduction07/11/10 06:48 PM
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Remember the Surangama Sutra: Do not pursue the past. Do not lose yourself in the future. The past no longer is. The future has not yet come. Looking deeply at life as it is. In the very here and now, the practitioner dwells in stability and freedom. We must be diligent today. To wait until tomorrow is too late. Death comes unexpectedly. How can we bargain with it? The sage calls a person who knows how to dwell in mindfulness night and day, 'one who knows the better way to live alone.' Recite th…
/r/seduction07/11/10 03:31 PM
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You've probably been LJBF'd. (From my experience at least) No kino is better than halfhearted kino which isn't ramped up.
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:27 PM
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My two cents: Don't try to talk to girls you barely know if you have had a string of bad luck. First get your life in order, party with your friends, make sure you are in an emotionally upbeat state. Then hit the bars.
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:25 AM
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Simple. Open a girl with some stupid "How do you know X" opener Neg with "You don't exactly dress like most hipster chicks, do you?" Interest building conversation about one of her stupid accessories (these chicks wear that sort of thing all the time, amulets and stuff) Cue to telling her about your cool adventures backpacking in Argentina with a fly local girl (DHV) Pretend to be interested in hunting. Ask her out on a date at the local shooting range. By the time she has finished expressing he…
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:19 AM
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Thanks for the excellent advice. Case closed. NEXT!
/r/seduction04/11/10 08:01 PM
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As you say, double situations. Just sort of thought the idea of having pussy back home would be good, in addition to going out and scoring some otherwise. One thing though is that this sort of half-baked thing tends to make you lazy at game. I'm leaning towards making it a total break, even if she begs to get back together
/r/seduction04/11/10 08:01 PM
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Trolls, get out of here. Please. Any heterosexual man who even thinks about answering this question with anything other than "Fuck off" (in case she's serious) or "Does he pretend you're a boy and take you in the ass?" (if she's joking) is just kidding himself. I dunno whether you're from RA, or 2XC, but this is a forum to help guys seduce girls. Not guys thinking about taking it up the ass. Sorry.
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:36 PM
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Sit him down and explain that it could be a bit creepy. To make it up, get him to go with you on some sort of a social occasion where girls (others, not the HB8 specifically) are present, wing it well, introduce him, get some numbers. On the plus side you could end up building social proof with the girls.
/r/seduction04/11/10 01:20 PM
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Possible Keep her chasing Flirt with other women Don't be jealous if she tries to make me so Impossible Have sex at places other than residence. (She's basically my neighbour in the same apartment block - that was how we got together. I see her everyday, and it's a wonder aloof game has worked even this much.) Given this, any more advice?
/r/seduction04/11/10 04:51 AM
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We broke up because I failed some jealousy and insecurity shit tests. She was hinting at breaking up, and I pre-emptively brought it up and made it a 'clean' break. I'm now looking at her merely as one cog of possible MLTRs. I'm going to keep on gaming other girls. If she doesn't like that and skedaddles, good riddance to bad rubbish.
/r/seduction04/11/10 04:47 AM
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I agree with this. Girls who seem naive or innocent can actually turn out to be merciless, smart, conniving bitches when they want to be.
/r/seduction03/11/10 10:39 PM
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Don't give her any gifts unless she gives you some.
/r/seduction03/11/10 05:31 PM
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This is amazing news More women for the rest of us here on seddit to game, bed, and fuck around with. Why are you complaining? On the other hand, though, I guess there's the argument that it's turning women into entitled bitches.
/r/seduction03/11/10 04:24 AM
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Your lack of self-worth may have been caused by something other than problems with women (seriously, I can't understand why no one has brought this up.) I grew up in a really conservative family where even so much as a kiss on television brought unappreciative clucking and guys out with girls were supposed to be 'idling their time away'. Therapy helped me so much when I could basically call my parents idiots in front of a non-judgemental dude and figure out how I had been screwed over. (Note: te…
/r/seduction03/11/10 04:20 AM
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Well obviously with a world full of desperate betaboys and faggots willing to give women validation at a word, it's no wonder women are disgusted at having sex with the majority of men :p We need men who are willing to tell women that sexual harassment is nonsense, like Russia. :)
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:07 PM
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I have this problem too, my game is tuned, and I have a lot of female friends who look really pleased when talking to me and are comfortable touching me (waist only, no asexual LJBF hugs for me thank you very much), but since all of them know each other, I'm unsure whether to use them as a platform to jump onto a girl outside my social circle, or to go for one of them and risk getting weird with everyone in it.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:33 PM
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I'd like to reiterate this with a slight modification: Have a sense of purpose when you're alone - you're on a mission, doing something, going somewhere, not just working or sitting around alone. You don't necessarily have to enjoy it, but don't make yourself feel bad every time you're alone. Understand that you need to be by yourself while working or exercising. James Bond did not get all those girls by being excessively social or hanging out a lot in clubs.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:29 PM
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19 y/o = immature, flaky, and basically useless as a stable LTR. Ignore the flakes and plow.
/r/seduction05/10/10 04:42 PM
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As to the three above points: Even though I've learned to think of women as cheating whores in general, I'm fairly certain this one isn't banging anyone else, mainly 'cause of direct visual observation, and the fact that most night, I'd be the one sleeping with/banging her. Second thoughts : possibly. We got together 8 months ago, so maybe I've failed to DHV appropriately, though I've maintained most of the basics:flirting with other girls, hands off in public and let her touch me, etc. Breaking…
/r/seduction03/10/10 12:45 PM
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Good suggestion. I look forward to doing this.
/r/seduction02/10/10 07:10 PM
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I might have been smothering her with some beta behavior earlier, which is why I want to use the lessons from the tail end of this relationship. This will be a bit painful cause we practically live next door, and are friends with other people in the building, which makes up a fairly large part of my social circle.
/r/seduction02/10/10 03:13 PM
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Sure. Will do
/r/seduction02/10/10 03:11 PM
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perhaps, yes. I'm moving on mentally as well. Just trying to get the tail end of fucks out of this one till I get the next one started. Busy life, no time for MLTRs and other stuff. I'm only 21.
/r/seduction02/10/10 03:11 PM
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Great advice : As you said-frame control. I shall do it.
/r/seduction02/10/10 03:09 PM
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Mistakes I have made : Not banging another girl in the meantime, mainly 'cause of work concerns. I'm at a crucial point in my life where I really have to put in a lot of work. Being a beta sometimes and getting emotionally cracked up in front of her (also has to do with pressures put on me by above-mentioned work) Ways I'm trying to rectify said mistakes Fooling around and flirting with 2 other girls living nearby, but didn't escalate so far. Luckily, I act like I don't give a fuck around them, …
/r/seduction02/10/10 03:09 PM
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I'm not a PUA, just a normal guy, but based on what I've learned over the last year or so, this is probably not the best way to go. I'd suggest talking about her first date, or something more romantic and sexual. Personal history and bland references to music are likely to lead an asexual LJBF conversation. If she's not going to be comfortable getting romantic now, she's not ever, so drop it.
/r/seduction29/09/10 01:23 PM
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"an email with a bunch of music albums she wanted me to send her and I figured I might as well ask when she was available next." This is a basic problem. You are rewarding this girl when she doesn't deserve to be rewarded. Ask her out on another date, possibly, and give her a chance to prove herself (in any way; we are not talking about blowjobs in a park here). If that doesn't work out, drop it and treat this as a learning experience.
/r/seduction02/09/10 11:56 AM
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I'm no expert, but I'd suggest something like this : 1) Whatever you do, DON'T sit in your room playing SC2 or whatever. 2) Go out on a road trip or something for a couple of days, visit a friend or a cousin in the city, whatever. 3) Be ambiguous and unrevealing when she asks you about where you were "I was at Pete's. Great time!" 4) Remember that since you've hooked up already, you're in the tier of people she's going to fuck. For better or worse. Even if she doesn't end up with you, you can us…
/r/seduction22/08/10 09:14 PM
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NEXT!
/r/seduction13/08/10 04:12 PM
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Even though the whole point of the PUA community seems to be that women are interchangeable, in some ways, they are not. Not really. Women are interchangeable in the same way that two different dishes of food are interchangeable. They will still leave a different taste in your mouth. Anyway, where I was going with all this is: It is that most universal of answers, it depends. If she's a soft-faced girl with a rounded chin and a timid voice who is dressed conservatively, kino escalate and try to …
/r/seduction04/08/10 01:15 PM
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