| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached? | Fundamentals | ancientweasel | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 08:49 PM |
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| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?I filed for divorce. I see why you have the frame you have. Low quality. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?Are you drunk? | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?They talk like they are all still trying to get thier third lay. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?You care about these particulars more than me. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?Indeed, it's pretty evident in these comments. I built up a body count before I got married. Now that I am songle again, I don't care if it goes up much. In fact I hope it doesn't that much. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?" giving up No I lost interest, why would I try with some chick I discovered I don't want? | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?We have different definitions of failure. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?I find it exhausting. Many of these women have little to offer but looks, and for enough guys that is plenty so they are baffled when it isn't. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?Ok, I am more than 50% for sure. I get a pretty quick sense that I would not date this person even if she is hot and go. I can say that it seams to me women are not really used to being approached. I get the feeling that being approached and then the guy bailing cause they are boring is something they are really not used to. I wish we all did it a lot more TBH. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?Yeah, this is what I mean. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?" It’s not their fault, mate! You didn't read. I only approach women who have sent pretty clear choosing signals. I mean that I see them looking at me more than once. Or, they place them selves in my general area and etc. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?I am saying if she rejects me I don't care. Better now than later. If some chick isn't very interested or isn't very interesting I am not going to spend time trying to change her. My question was about how often guys who approach women decide to just end the interaction. We are getting sidetracked. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?Probably not. If she is that slippery she's not for me. If she rejects me, it's a 99% chance she saved me wasting my time. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?I guess I don't care so much about practice. I did this stuff before I got married and now I am single again. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?They are not the same thing. I am only interested in women who are interested in me. If she shows disinterest or is just boring or stupid I am out. My point is that this is never discussed that I can recall. It's like a gap in the collective understanding. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.This, we need to maximize all three. The dating market is rough even when you are attractive. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Blocked by a another girl when approachedJust look at the girl you want to talk to and say, "want to walk around"? If she says yes offer your arm and walk her away. Then you can move around with her, lightly touch and bump into her and stuff. Leave the other one there with out saying anything. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching men?If weird shit happens just walk away. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get women comfortable inviting you over to there's when they only wanna go to yours?You should have told the truth. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Banned From Tinder and Hinge, Help RequestedWhatever metadata they can scrape. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Text help. What to do when she doesn’t seem enthusiastic to meet up again?He already texted and she hasn't responded. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Banned From Tinder and Hinge, Help RequestedI also don't know if they can fingerprint your device via hardware info. So if you bought a used phone it's possible the last owner was an asshole. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Banned From Tinder and Hinge, Help RequestedUse a VPN in case they flagged your IP from some previous user. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CologneI use sandlewood oil and that is it. It never smells off to anyone. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Text help. What to do when she doesn’t seem enthusiastic to meet up again?Wait at least a week before texting her a second time, and another two weeks before a third if you absolutely must. But I would say walk after a second non response. Definitely do not text soon and when you do don't be needy. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorThanks for minimizing. I'm sure it will be helpful. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorI don't feel like it. I feel like I get used. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 07:06 PM |
| 15 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorWildly. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorI would really like a long term girlfriend. I have not found it hard to have hookups but have found it very difficult to find someone interested in actually investing in a relationship. The women I meet are willing to get intimate, but as soon as their schedule gets busy and then they just punt on the "relationship" because they know they can start a new on off Hinge anytime they please. Even a top 10-20 % man is less valuable than friends, family or career and is the first thing to go. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety? Switch to This Mode InsteadI like to think of approaching with the goal of seeing IF I would ask this person for their number. Some of the time probably not. Why would I want a number don't want to call? That is insincere. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 01:21 PM |
| 4 | How do I initiate touch without freaking a girl out or being too forward?Start by brushing against her and notice the reaction. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Just got a rude wake up call today, and not sure what to do.I like a simple "Hi" as just a test of interest. Just say "Hi" and if she doesn't respond very positively just walk away. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 11:52 PM |
| 9 | Just got a rude wake up call today, and not sure what to do.Happens to everyone. Just get back on the horse. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.Don't be too literal. It's the frame. Not the words. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.Act like you are already their boyfriend. See if they play along. It also filters out the cold fish. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.I am in 1% physical condition for 49 year olds and most women still say no. It's just how it is, women can't date every dude who walks up to them. To think they can is just idiotic. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:13 PM |
| 22 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.Learn to be COMPLETELY detached from the outcome. Your job it to go tell the universe what you want because you are being honest and eventually it will pay off. 90% of women are unavailable anyways. Knowing you'll probably have to ask out 20 to get a date makes it easier to just not care. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | They bring me expectations and then disappearOnly twice? You need to work harder... | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 02:39 PM |
| 6 | This is how to respond to the classic shit-test: What makes you special and why should someone date you”Her: “What makes you special and why should someone date you?” Me: "You first" | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I Slept with 40 Women Last Year From Real Life Approaches - Here are 7 Lessons I learnedI am curious how many of these women where tourists with their guard down because they where finally in Barcelona? It seems like it could be an essential component. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Girl looked at me funny for saying i was aloneIt's hard to know in the moment, which is why it's good to always be detached. Especially this decade with the current abomination that most people call their social skills. | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 07:03 PM |
| -2 | Girl looked at me funny for saying i was aloneMost women see going out alone as a sign of confidence. She was just not into you and negging likely. | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there any other advice then “just do it, it gets easier” for getting over the fear of rejection?Change your definition of rejection. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 02:23 PM |
| 11 | I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap...Jesus man, read what you just wrote. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 10:37 PM |
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