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You just don't agree with the comment, the comment itself is very clear.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/26 08:09 PM
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Unless you struggle with reading comprehension, that comment should be crystal clear.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/26 07:29 PM
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Hmm bit of an odd opinion to have, is this only restricted to relationships or does in include other things? Like if a parent, after their child was hurt, in a moment of rage thought about fighting the person responsible, would you say they are as bad as someone that has actually done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:38 PM
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So a guy that has only thought about being with lots of women but has not actually done it is a whore in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:25 PM
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As long as everyone is aware of how attractive they are without massively overrating themselves, everything shall work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:26 PM
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It does not make it impossible, especially after healing. I have said multiple times, I can be patient if after the healing process effort is made. Men everywhere get told to always keep dating their wife to maintain their marriage, I am just asking for the same, some effort. If she says for herself that sex is done forever I will not force her but make my exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:58 AM
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I have been patient for this long, if there is observable effort and not just it being put off after the healing period then I can be patient. Of course, every thing has limits. I don't see myself be celibate for a year consecutively in marriage barring medical issues that make it impossible to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:02 AM
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While I take on a bigger load of chores and childcare that I am able to take on, I would appreciate if she would use the downtime to rest and if she's facing body image issues/insecurities to use part of that time for self-care. Be that a nice long bath, a haircut, maybe a light workout. This is of course after the initial 2 months of healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:05 AM
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Of course, this would be my wife we're talking about. I would be understanding to all the feelings that happen as a result of giving birth. What working with looks like for me is taking a bigger load on so she can rest and recover, possibly take time to do things that do make her feel great in her own skin again. I also love kids so I do see myself being an involved father, which should all make it a little easier for my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:03 AM
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I understand that, I would not be expecting the same frequency but I would like to see effort to work with me on this. Everything in a relationship and marriage requires work, otherwise it slowly decays. I am very understanding of how tough it is, but I am only looking for effort to remedy it, because otherwise resentment is bound to happen if you feel like your wife can't put in effort to also be your partner and not only a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:40 PM
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That is not what I said and it is definitely not applicable to me, I am saving myself for marriage for religious reasons and also expect the same from my future wife. I am just asking a question to gauge what your views are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:19 PM
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Assuming they knew the guy they were hooking up with was a shitty person before having sex with him, why would you be interested in those women? Are you insinuating that women that have hooked up with a bad person are automatically tainted? I don't get this argument you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:45 PM
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I have a tremendous amount of respect for mothers, a 2/3 month period post partum is 100% understandable. When it gets to a year or 2 years it gets a bit ridiculous. I would never cheat but if I felt like my spouse after enough time and with sufficient support does not do anything to be my partner anymore I don't see a reason to stay. This is of course after multiple attempts to get through to my spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:26 PM
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I find it so funny how some don't want to admit to it as to not come off shallow. It's like the "I don't only date tall men, I've dated a variety. Oh btw here's my 6'4 fiancé."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:31 PM
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Different era, hypergamy has always been a thing but has ramped up massively with globalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:27 PM
5

100%, they should just stop denying that they aren't atleast as shallow as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:25 PM
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As long as that is true on both sides, I agree. That does not happen all the time though, most of the time there is an imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:08 PM
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100%, if a man would use the term "emotional labour" about talking with his girlfriend he would be rightly ridiculed. It's just an excuse to not be there for your partner because you don't actually like your partner, maybe only for what they can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:50 PM
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You can and should be both, otherwise you are just being used for your utility but not truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:31 PM
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Whenever someone brings up "mental load" or "emotional labour", I immediately can't take that person seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:28 PM
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Courting is only worth it for a woman that only allows men that have courted her to sleep with her. Anything else and you feel like a sucker. Especially if this has been repeated and was not a one-off. (that she regrets)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:04 PM
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If a family member is able to murder somebody (not out of self defence) they can go fuck themselves
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/18 03:16 PM
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