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Women love to be with men they can "fix" when the reality is they can't. Cheaters, losers, jealous, toxic, controlling and treat them bad.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/n6bqhd/the\_ultimate\_guide\_to\_passing\_shit\_tests\_this/
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:34 PM
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This is a classic shit test. Use one of the 5 possible ways to respond to any shit test.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:31 PM
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I live in Austin but would not put the city not even on a top 10 when it comes to attractive women. We have a few but the big cities in the west coast and northeast win in that for sure.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:25 PM
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Mira a shit test, use one of the possible 5 answers
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:56 PM
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Well this was either a shit test or damn milk products.
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:24 PM
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I'd like to add one more option to "how to pass shit tests": something that's on your frame but not on hers. In other words, take what she said and go into a completely different direction.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:37 PM
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I would like to suggest an addendum to this amazing advice: close the door if things are not going well. NEVER leave the door open, half open, half closed, whatever. Close the door. Tell her to her face "I'm done, I'm gone".
/r/seduction12/05/21 09:54 PM
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Totally agree with the title. I still use Neil Strauss's great teaching in this first book with my own spin: only text a woman to get her to go out with you or to reply to her. When they are not replying, it is probably because they are with a guy who did exactly that, or THEY are texting the guy who asked her out. NEVER EVER text a woman something like "wyd". They probably won't reply because they are too busy replying to the guy who asked her out. Be firm when you send a text to a woman. Have …
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:22 AM
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I usually do like Hitch: I move 90% forward and she's interested she will move the other 10%. I've been doing this for about 5 years and it has always worked.
/r/seduction28/02/20 06:58 PM
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No problem. Good luck!!!
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:32 AM
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Start by changing your mindset. Start wanting to be confident. Forget about all the stuff you feel you fall short on. Write them down and do a little bit every day to improve them.
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:22 AM
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Take it day by day. I'm also 31 and I've dated plenty of women from different nationalities. I also had a dry period, I couldn't pick up not even a book at a library, let alone girls. Be confident, take charge, forget your past. It's not easy but l like my girlfriend says, those who want it work on it. Sounds like you know what kind of girl you want. Now you just have to get out there. Look at the shit test post somewhere in this community. It taught me a lot. I'm sure you will need it. Women wi…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:50 AM
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Just because you re talking to girls it doesn't mean you are hitting on them. We are social animals. Doing what I wrote before is going to improve your chances of not only getting girls but also meeting more people. I'm telling you what I used to do. After a lot of work and reading good advice people post here I was able to find my own game and meet the woman of my dreams. I still come back because I play the infinite game, I want my woman to fall in love with me every day, more and more. That m…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:37 AM
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I understand. Asking something sexual too soon could be bad unless she's really into you. You have to go by step by step. Do something and if she doesn't react negatively, escalate. Get closer, touch her, talk about that weird couple grinding over there and how they are almost doing it in the dance floor. Talk about how you know exactly what the couple that just left is going to do. Get her to laugh, take charge, escalate, then disappear for a little, talk to some other girl for a little, get th…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:07 AM
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It doesn't have to be a literal sex joke. For example you can use Michael's joke, from the office. She could say something like "Oh my God it's so big!" And you could go with "That's what she said". The point is to get her to laugh and get her thinking about sex in the back of her mind.
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:55 PM
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Start by trying to find out what she's into. Then talk about it for a little bit. Next, try to make her think about sex with a joke or something and start touching her for a brief second. Ask her to dance and talk a little more. Increase the length of the touches and get closer to intimate body parts and then finally kiss her. From there you can escalate to passionate making out, have your hands all over her body... Make sure you feel the woman first. If she's not into you she is not gonna react…
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:49 PM
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I would add "build sexual tension". A lot of guys don't realize but this is super important. Do it at least once a day.
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:03 PM
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I've heard that before. One thing I learned about women is that not everything they say reflect what they truly truly want deep down. One thing that happened in my case was that one night me and her were at the club and pretty girls that I knew asked me to dance. That drove her nuts. My "wingwoman" (one of her best friends) told her "you're just gonna let him go like that?" I'd say start saying no, start showing her how awesome you are in addition to showing her that you are also being desired b…
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:30 PM
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I would say teasing, make her laugh and touching are good ways. Text only to ask her out. Don't over think... Something along those lines.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:25 PM
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I've been there. In fact, I am in love with this one amazing woman right now and I was like that. She never responded to my advances while I was like that. Neediness kills a woman's desire to have you. One day a couple of months ago I decided that it was enough. I didn't want to obsess over her because I knew that if I did, even if we got together, it wouldn't be a good thing. I went to stare at the sunset in a nice spot here where I live, had a cigarette (the last one I've had in a long while) …
/r/seduction07/01/19 04:45 PM
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I've had exactly what you had. Only the other day I was reminiscing about when we saw each other again for the first time after 5 years. We dated for a year but things didn't work out because we lived in different states. 11 years have passed since we broke up. In the first few years after everything happened I missed her. However, she has another life. We now live in different countries, different hemispheres even. She got married, has a kid. I followed a dream I didn't know I had, something I …
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:13 PM
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Only text her to ask her out. Since you two just met, try something like "hey, I'm going to be in neighborhood such and such, you should come out".
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:44 PM
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I would say 50/50 as to wether or not this could be a shit test. You would ace it either way with the awesome response you got from the guy before me. Watch out for shit tests, fellas!!! Good luck!!!
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:44 PM
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Getting a girl is like qualifying for the FIFA world cup. Actually winning a girls heart however is like actually winning it. To actually win her, you gotta keep her excited, every day. The game reaches a whole new level after you get her. Good post, bro.
/r/seduction25/09/18 12:52 AM
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That mind set is good but I take it a little further: no one owes me anything, ever, no matter what I do. I've disappointed myself with people who agreed to do something for me or with me, but changed their mind. This mindset has made me a lot stronger.
/r/seduction11/09/18 01:04 AM
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I use one of the following... Say "You know that moment before a kiss... There's all this tension... All this anticipation... It feels really good..." And do it. Say "Would you kiss me right now?" If she doesn't pull away, go for it. Then after you kiss you say "I didn't say you could kiss me" Tell her there's a piece of something in her eye brow and she needs to close her eyes so you can't take it out for her. Lightly touch her eyebrow just to create some suspense then kiss her. Those never fai…
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:54 AM
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The guitar thing to bring chicks to my place... That's genius!!! Based on your story, to me it seems like you were very romantic and some girls freak out with that stuff if they are not looking for a committed relationship. Nothing wrong with that, some girls will love you for it, some will freak out. It seems to me that the daddy thing wasn't an issue but you deff need to be more playful when using it. As men, we are all subject to this. You just need to keep pushing. Getting help from the fell…
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:24 AM
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Move on! Always have two or three girls so text to. Or go out and meet new ones.
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:02 PM
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Sehr gut!!! Let us know how it went! I see a lot of guys texting without a purpose, but you did it my friend, and succeeded!!! For all of you guys who text girls without a purpose, STOP RIGHT FREAKING NOW!!! Text to ask her out and if she says no, move on!!!
/r/seduction17/08/18 07:06 PM
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Awesome article!!! You're the man! The teasing thing made me score several times. Making women laugh without being a clown and eye contact are two things that I always do and it always works.
/r/seduction13/08/18 04:25 AM
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This is one of the best advices that I've seen in this sub!!!
/r/seduction09/08/18 10:57 PM
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Only text a woman with an objective in mind: meeting her for example. I've always done this and it always works. Don't ask, tell. Something like "I'm going to place X, you should come". If the girl is into you she will go or apologize for not being able to go. If she doesn't reply she's probably not interested.
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:58 PM
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Based on my experience, you could have, but only after a couple of drinks and escalation. The thing with women is that they lie a lot to not come out as "easy".
/r/seduction23/07/18 12:02 AM
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When she got there, I already had the movie tickets and the pop corn. We got her a drink and went into the theater. She loved it!
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:23 AM
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I went out with a 37 year old woman last Sunday. All of those questions will rise for sure. In my case, they happened days before during a party at a friend's house. First you need to define what you want with this woman: a serious committed relationship, fwb or a one night stand. Second, if you are planning to be a relationship, you need to ask yourself those questions as if you were her and be honest. If you're not planning on dating her, you could say what she would like to hear based on the …
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:37 PM
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Sorry for misreading, I had a lot of drinks last night and just woke up. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:50 PM
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I think a good starting point is to doubt 100% what all women tell you. Based on what I learned in this awesome subreddit, I would say that the next step would be texting her only with a goal in mind, which at this point should be taking her out. Try to take her out as a "co-worker" first. Take her for lunch during the work day, for example. Regardless if she says yes or no, invite her to do something after hours next, possibly after the work day, for drinks or something, on a Friday night. Whil…
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:41 PM
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Any subreddits with guy styles stuff? For clothes and haircut? I've been looking and can't seem to find any. I follow a few on Pinterest but they seem repetitive after a while.
/r/seduction15/07/18 05:01 PM
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