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DISCUSSIONandheaven/r/RedPillWomen21/03/18 04:38 PM
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It’s subjective and I think men and women show emotions/react very differently but can be equally as emotional. But sure, I am a woman but, I can concur that generally women are the more sensitive and emotional sex. But I think there is good reason for it, and it can be used in positive and practical ways once you learn to control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 07:18 PM
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Completely disagree. Everyone needs BOTH, I’m a woman and I need to release energy through exercise and movement in general. As any healthy young person does. As well as plenty of men need time to relax in a quiet space and read a book or something.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 05:07 PM
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Well of course a Christian therapist will be more socially conservative (generally). Do you go to church? Are there pastors you can speak to? Would they help you get in contact with a good therapist? If not, I would still look online for a Christian therapist. I would worry less about if they’re RP, as long as they are genuine and comforting and sound in their doctrine. Bless you, I hope you find a good therapist. I have had to see one too for anxiety. I will pray for you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 12:54 AM
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Nothing wrong with this, you wouldn’t want him to be overly excited to have children immediately as you aren’t married. Try to imagine his perspective, a very normal reaction for a 24 year old man to have about children is “I’m not ready yet”. It is more rare to find a man who is ready to have children at 24. A positive is that he does believe you’ll be a great mother.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 12:50 AM
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I would say yes, it’s too soon if it’s evening. I wouldn’t want to be in a situation where I was alone with him in a house/hotel by a third date. That can insinuate something, and you wouldn’t want to be in that situation. Every situation is different though, depending on if you know you will both respect boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 12:45 AM
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I weigh only a bit more than you and same height but in a warm climate. During the winter, it does get below 40. “Feminine clothing” is subjective, to me it just means, flattering the womanly shape/something that makes me look delicate. A focus on colors could be good, pastels/white, as well as neckline. For necklines I find showing collarbone/chest but no cleavage to be really feminine and pretty, but still long sleeve. I also like the focus on jewelry and hair to look feminine, keeping my hair…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 12:58 AM
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My grandmother has passed down this large cookbook to my mother- of which I will hopefully get when I start a family of my own! My grandmother and her have both written their own recipes on pages, and/or printed out recipes. I’ve added a few to the book too. I like your binder idea, I would do that or get a great cookbook from a chef or type of cuisine you like and just add pages to it with family/personal recipes.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 12:46 AM
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Thankful to have such a loving huge family & bright future. So thankful to be living in the country I am, finding meaning in life, and having a safety net. I am beyond blessed and always need to remember that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 01:24 AM
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The hookup scene is never worth it. I never engaged in it either, I’m your age and in a somewhat similar situation. I promise, the fun of our youth is NOT hookups- while we are young the fun truly lies in lack of responsibilities. We can make very spontaneous decisions like going for a hike very early in the morning, seeing friends and staying out late to see a concert, having a ton of time to spend on hobbies we enjoy. There’s nothing wrong with going to parties! Spending quality time with peop…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 05:55 PM
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Proper ventilation is number one! Secondly, candles or good cooking:)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 05:57 PM
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Possibly why my mother is the most beautiful, upbeat and energetic woman I know over 50; she was able to quit working when she had her first kid late 20s and literally never had to work again. This is pretty much a dream because my father is so successful. But wow, do I hope I maintain energy and beauty like her.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 12:34 AM
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Of course! It’s important to put things into perspective. My mother is somewhat traditional & she always said; unless you’re actually being harmed in a marriage, or otherwise having your rights truly infringed upon, you will just divorce, and get into a new relationship with the exact same or new problems. No ones relationship is stress or issue free. You just have to decide if it’s worth it all. I’m so glad I could help you
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:11 PM
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The consequences of trading up are more horrifying! Be realistic, a man you love (who sounds so lovely) has one common male problem that he’s already began working on. Things could be so much worse! The chances of finding a man like him who also doesn’t have a problem is so astronomically small. Most likely you’ll find someone not quite as good with just a different issue. I could see you helping him & the situation improving. Trust your gut! Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 07:19 PM
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He’s showed that he really wants to change, I’d stay with him if you really love him.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 05:08 PM
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You’re right, I meant the smaller details, like hair color & such
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:42 PM
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It’s relative, every man likes something different. It could be exponentially higher or lower depending on who you ask.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 01:41 AM
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They’re completely reasonable things. And every relationship is different. I would comply if my SO asked these things of me. Pretty much all of them I enjoy. The fact we’d have to go through a legal contract to make a promise like this feels very wrong to me- to other couples, perhaps they’d like it. I would prefer to have a verbal agreement, my preference. Edit: he has most likely signed many contracts in his life, this is perhaps how he handles a serious promise as a celeb.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 09:03 PM
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If you cannot grow your hair past your shoulders- do not bleach it. Your hair will most likely remain at about jaw length or shorter if you bleach it for a prolonged period of time. Take very good care of your natural hair and it will suit you. There really is no need to bleach it- men generally prefer long hair, so my advice is to keep it healthy and long. Edit: lightening it to brown could be another option if you’re willing to risk length
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 07:38 PM
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Dishwashing isn’t even the worst chore
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 07:51 PM
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Victimhood and generally assuming men & women are equal biologically, and because they are not,they fix them socially so they have the same outcome(example: less women in tech/STEM, so they offer huge scholarships/jobs to women over men with the same experience or more). Wanting women to manage both a career and family, saying women can do both male and female roles while males aren’t expected to do both female and male roles. Generally hurting gender relations. Making women and men resent each …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 07:50 PM
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I really understand it, while I’m not experiencing heartbreak, I feel pretty lonely. Seeing friends and staying beautiful really helps- and making plans to do things. I have booked some tickets to shows I want to go to- I’m sorry and I hope you feel better soon. Focus on the future and your happiness, it will benefit you & the people around you :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:56 AM
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That is one way to come to that conclusion. It can also be women are naturally more empathetic/nurturing as well. They vote for more liberal policies on average for that reason. Men are usually more okay with a competitive world
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 12:23 AM
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Generally men are more conservative leaning than women. That’s pretty natural, it’s healthy and normal to have disagreements with your SO politically. Make sure they’re locked up safely if you ever have children of course! Congrats on your relationship
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 03:19 AM
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Is this news to anyone? Of course higher status men prefer healthy/slim women
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 07:40 PM
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Dessert, love, affection, do something fun together,
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 04:42 PM
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You’re a wonderful woman, and loyal. That is interpreted as so much respect from a mans perspective. Encouraging him to do better and helping him, as well as making yourself better are such admirable things. Be disciplined and dedicated. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 03:43 PM
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Why would you want to taunt someone you could potentially care about? I hate the stress of a jealous man in my life. You can entice a new person in your life in a much healthier way where no ones feelings are hurt or emotions manipulated negatively
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 12:58 AM
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Please marry him before you have children
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 10:59 PM
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His jealousy was absolutely overboard. I am sorry you dealt with someone like this- he isn’t someone you would want to spend your life with though, it’s good he is out of your life. He definitely has some growing up to do.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 10:57 PM
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I’m always so curious what dating websites women use on here- what do you use?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 10:45 PM
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This is so beautiful, I always think such big picture but this is very grounding and real.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 10:38 PM
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Definitely can be done, however I really suggest putting the career aside when you have babies, ideally for their first 4 years of life if you can, not work at all. Those are crucial times in a humans life to form many skills/to socialize. - not speaking from experience! Just an ideal
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 10:35 PM
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