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Even if they're older (35-45) attractive and social women can usually find a man if they lower their standards a bit. Every woman can find a man if she lowers her standards, it's just that she won't find him attractive. And instead of improving themselves, they become cat ladies and lie about being happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:59 PM
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And women could be more desperate in that age group as pressured by their biological clock. Same thing applies for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:46 PM
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Stats don't support your claim, men's sexlessness rates drop by huge amount as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:07 PM
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Young women rate dark triad characteristics as more attractive than do older women https://www.researchgate.net/publication/296623258\_Relationships\_between\_age\_of\_females\_and\_attraction\_to\_the\_Dark\_Triad\_personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:08 PM
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have more short-term success (short-term being the key part y'all leave out) They get to fuck women when they are most attractive and before she settles down with BB. Manipulation works yet women are gaslighting incels by saying they can smell their misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:44 PM
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They quite literally openly have hatred for women. Yes by posting anonymous comments. How hard would it be to act hateful if that's their true feelings anyhow? Very hard since most do not act hateful in real life. Can you back up what you're saying? Feel free to check it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:38 PM
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Yet they're getting no action when 75% of the women out there would rather be with an abusive man Because they are just typing comments on an anonymous forum, not acting abusive in real life. Women are attracted to men with dark triads, they enjoy the positives of these traits like excitement but don't want the negatives that come with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:17 PM
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would be abusive And you are guessing that off an anonymous forum? Most incels act like scum Act or write anonymous comments? Actual rapists have more than average sexual partners lol. There is a difference between actually doing something and just writing anonymous comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:15 PM
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No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that abusive, bad-natured people act like perfect partners They act like perfect partners but show their true colours to people outside the relationship. The partner turns a blind eye until that behavior is starting to be directed at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:56 PM
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But the stats don't back that up, even a little, because it's only like 25ish percent that are in abusive relationships Because most men are not abusive. Like the majority of women prefer a man that is 6 feet but most men aren't and women have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:52 PM
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Women can have sex with men they don't find attractive for money and security. That doesn't make the man sexually desirable it makes his desirable for a relationship and that's why as the relationship goes on the woman's interest in sex declines dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:14 PM
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It is because women start to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:05 AM
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Very small amount of women outearn men in certain metro areas. In 22 out of 250 metro areas women make equal or more than men. Men on average no matter what age or if they have kids, still outearn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:25 AM
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Doesn't change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 AM
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In 2/3 links women are tax negative. Women live longer than men and in most countries they get to retire earlier than men. They do less work and leech more from men's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:14 PM
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Here https://www.mm.dk/artikel/kvinder-er-en-underskudsforretning https://researcharchive.vuw.ac.nz/xmlui/bitstream/handle/10063/2852/Working%20paper.pdf?sequence=1 https://www.klikk.no/vitenskap/kvinner-koster-staten-113000-kroner-mer-i-aret-enn-menn-4402331
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:17 AM
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The social engineering everytime women are disadvantaged and cry about it will stop. Also more men will open their eyes about the fact that women are tax negative to society and the government is subsidizing women using men's money. They will start treating women like how women treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:48 PM
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They do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:05 PM
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She can get him to pump and dump her and not many old hags want that at that age. They want kids and someone bringing in money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:29 AM
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Because women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:25 PM
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The link I posted about cheating is the most recent one. Up to you if you believe it or not. You asked for sources and I gave you sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:00 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/ Attractive men are more promiscuous and promiscuous people are more likely to cheat. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-mysteries-love/202106/new-study-investigates-dark-triad-traits-and-link-promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:55 PM
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cheating not true. violent behaviour Violence in relationships is reciprocal and when it is not women are more violent. Attractive men are more likely to cheat and men with dark triad traits have more partners. These men with negative traits have no shortage of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:31 PM
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There is no shortage of good men. If women can't find them maybe they are not on these men's level and instead of improving they are spouting out bullshit about being happier alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:00 PM
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Men dont benefit from marriage more, it's just that the men women marry are better off. It's like saying married men are taller. Men don't randomly gain inches when they sign a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:33 PM
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Women get pumped and dumped because they offer nothing else other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:44 AM
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Your life anecdotes on an anonymous forum where you might be lying against actual data. I don't see any men flexing about that and it isn't embarrassing. If he is willing to fuck her that means he finds her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:50 AM
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The only difference is that money matters more but physical standards are the same. Middle aged women ar ejustbless likely to get these men than college aged women because these men have options so they settle more. That's why men's sexlessness rate decrease as they get older. It's not low standards, it's realistic standards. Men are physically attracted to their equals and women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:30 AM
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To act like only young hot thin Caucasian women are attracted to certain men is disingenuous. Let's take height for example the average woman wants a man that is 8 inches taller than her and that puts the man at 6ft and above. And women absolutely look at a man and get lady boners. It just happens less often because they are attracted to smaller percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:45 AM
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The data shows us that young women want relationships as much as men, the only difference is with old women with non existent sex drive. Also the women happier single stats got debunked too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:56 AM
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Here is a study that says that when people think they have enough money they tend to go for more attractive partners. Women marrying a man that makes less than her means he is compensating in other areas and since attractive men are more promiscuous they are also more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:18 AM
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Not just men, women also can't take rejection https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550615584196?journalCode=sppa
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:29 AM
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Yes, men will fuck anything attractive and they aren't the ones talking about personality most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:54 AM
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This is predicated on a certain group of articles All the articles use the book of the same guy which got debunked and later he had to retract his statement. I don't know why most women seem to ignore this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:48 AM
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Yes, which is only 16% of women who earn same as or more than their male counterparts, the other 84% are still behind. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:16 AM
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broke Chads are pumping and dumping endless amounts of smart educated women Because when someone has enough money they go for a more attractive partner. Also that's why when the woman is making more money than the husband, he is more likely to cheat. Most women want a man that makes more than her and if he isn't, then he is compensating in other ways and attractive men are more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:05 PM
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There is nothing showing that men who kill themselves follow that type of content. The manosphere is huge on the gym part and that's why there are less fat men than fat women and more men exercising than women. Less women have problems with loneliness and developing relationships but they attempt suicide more than men. Do they want to die or are they making it for attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:01 PM
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Women already know this, no matter how much women on Reddit are trying to gaslight about it. Half of aggressive tweets using the words slut and whore are sent by women. And other women think that promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold and unstable. 1 2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:54 AM
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Can you provide a link and show me where
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:17 PM
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Actual data says otherwise, unlike the opinion of an "happiness expert"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:07 PM
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Just like married women, people in relationships are usually the happiest. Men who make more money are more likely to be married cause women care about money more than men. Because they live together, duty sex is a thing. Women pick men that are in better health for marriage, signing a contract doesn't change anything. Men and women work similar hours but Men work more hours outside the house and women inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:36 PM
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Any proof of that other than anecdotes or your own imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:10 PM
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Pretty women are less likely to have a high body count so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:56 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-promoted-women-are-more-likely-to-divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:54 PM
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Wife getting a promotion has like 50% chance of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:43 PM
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Yes, husband not making enough is a bigger reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:22 PM
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It shows that women get bored in long term relationships. Just like with studies about their sex drive, at the beginning both partners' sex drives are high then women's drive goes down while the man's stays up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:51 PM
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Yeah and most men don't arouse women and women end up settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:48 PM
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Majority of women are like this.Not only do they have lower libido than men biologically but also their sex drive in a relationship declines way more than men's and she can't keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:42 PM
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Of course New Zealand - https://researcharchive.vuw.ac.nz/xmlui/bitstream/handle/10063/2852/Working%20paper.pdf?sequence=1 Norway - https://www.klikk.no/vitenskap/kvinner-koster-staten-113000-kroner-mer-i-aret-enn-menn-4402331 Denmark - https://www.mm.dk/artikel/kvinder-er-en-underskudsforretning All more gender equal countries than the US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:54 PM
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Less men are doing these things than women because men are less likely to suffer from it. Women are way more likely to be depressed or have other mental health problems than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:18 PM
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The core element of TRP was the radically subversive belief that women, in fact, are people too! Crazy how nowadays most people still deny that women are also people when there are all the studies backing TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:20 PM
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No shortage of good non abusive men. If a woman only gets with bad men that means she isn't good quality herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:21 PM
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Why not take the billion and just chill? Because they are in denial. Young women want relationships as much as young men, the big difference is in old women with dead sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:18 PM
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Because she is high n doesn't mean she is high libido. A woman in college can have sex once every month and have a body count of over 40 and almost no man in a relationship would be satisfied with sex once a month. Most important is how often she has sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:03 PM
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They are not happy and most women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:00 PM
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Any studies to back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:57 PM
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You don't because that's not what the stats say. 67% of men between 18-39 and 61% of women between 18-39 are looking for a relationship. The big Difference is in old women with dead sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:51 AM
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make more money on average than men in the 18-29 age bracket. Not true, majority of men in that bracket still outearn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:06 PM
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Can you drop the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:01 PM
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So you don't have the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:32 PM
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TRP is about understanding female nature, you just live with it and act accordingly in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:06 PM
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Show me the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:03 PM
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statistically men are more likely to want a relationship Compared to old women. Young women want a relationship as much as young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:26 PM
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One compared to the many supporting the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:15 AM
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It's up to women to care about male promiscuity but most of them don't because it correlates with attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:08 AM
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The guys that women pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:37 AM
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This just world thing again? Studies that ask men outside of niche forums have shown that misogynists have higher body counts and being a rapist correlates with higher body count and how being a criminal increases the chances of having a kid. Men with bad personalities have no problem getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:34 PM
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Talking to women isn't the problem. If you are attractive they will talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:29 PM
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They are shit talking women for complaining about bad men yet still going for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:36 PM
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He is not trying to guilt trip women and women are the ones that are complaining about abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:53 PM
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It’s not even “they can get good sex” easier. It’s definitely not “you can get a good relationship with someone who treats you well.” There is no shortage of men that can provide that, it's up to her to find that man. Sex doesn't give you financial stability There are more women than men in higher education, women get better grades than men and there are more scholarships for women. Again it's up to her to make good use of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:08 PM
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true, you can see that in the sexual desire change over time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:49 PM
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Are most women in a relationship with men they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:47 AM
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Yes it's called putting on a makeup. Men improve by going to the gym, women improve by painting their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:37 PM
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This is nothing new, there are women that orgasm while being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:48 PM
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Yes and most killers aren't incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:15 PM
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what news?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:52 PM
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It's strange because rapists and murderers don't have problem getting laid, they aren't incels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:38 PM
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Women under 30 are not making more than men, a very small amount of women under 30 are making more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:01 AM
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Begging for student loan forgiveness and men are still making more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:03 AM
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What outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:42 AM
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Women don't prefer bullies or abusive men only if they start abusing her. Then she starts complaining on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:34 PM
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Yes, women are not all the same. There are good women and bad women, and the bad women date bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:59 AM
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Only bad women date bad men so if a man abuses his girlfriend that means she was also abusive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:10 PM
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who have more options than narcissists and psychopaths, which is what I meant and nothing to support that claim The latter marry someone and stay faithful to her by definition Criminals are more likely to marry lol and nothing about staying faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:55 PM
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Anecdotal experience. If I fucked with sources I'd be writing a paper That's what I thought. All research that has been done shows that men with negative personalities have the most sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:48 AM
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even more source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:26 PM
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Personality matters obviously. That's why women are attracted to men with dark triad personalities and why criminals, gang members and bullies have more sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:19 PM
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Men have more varied tastes and find a larger amount of women attractive. Women in real life are as selective they just have specific filters with exact numbers in dating apps. Women overwhelmingly date men who are above 6ft (not true) Because there aren't enough 6ft men for all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:09 AM
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It's a pretty good sample. Even in a non OLD study women still prefer above average height men https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020 . In dating apps they just have specific filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:59 AM
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Men do care https://bura.brunel.ac.uk/bitstream/2438/16932/3/FullText.pdf Among 67 qualities for LTR "sleeps around" came as the 2nd most undesirable quality. Women who are virgins past 18-19 are usually uglier or socially stunted let's be real. Either that or they're religious, which case they're less likely to have sex in the first place. Ugly women report higher body counts, being more promiscuous and more in support of casual sex. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/19485565.2011.615…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:16 AM
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That's a bad boy type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:40 PM
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A bad boy type might treat you badly, he treats her well. Tell that to all the abused and raped women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:53 PM
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Same way women leave their husbands when he doesn't bring money or they just woke up one day and felt like divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:20 PM
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It's odds of marriage and not odds of that marriage not ending in a divorce. It's pretty obvious to anyone not living under a rock that any woman can find a sucker and lie about her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:13 PM
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it's not part of that but here 1 2 3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:07 PM
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In relationship men's sexual drive also stays high while woman's declines every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:11 PM
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"A large body of evidence suggests that men experience sexual desire more strongly and more frequently than do women"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:08 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/361175924_Sex_drive_Theoretical_conceptualization_and_meta-analytic_review_of_gender_differences personal anecdotes are useless when there is research done on that subject
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:11 PM
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not true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:50 PM
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women are the ones deciding to have children out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:49 PM
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what stats? https://www.researchgate.net/publication/361175924\_Sex\_drive\_Theoretical\_conceptualization\_and\_meta-analytic\_review\_of\_gender\_differences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:48 PM
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The better the circumstances for women the less they reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:46 PM
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The frequency of children born out of wedlock has nothing to do with that. Women are the ones that pushed for the sexual revolution and voted for welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:44 PM
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No he has been around enough women because the average woman has a lower sex drive than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:41 PM
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Just change biology bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:40 PM
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womens problem is sorting and so many are struggling with this or that's what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:36 PM
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Congrats you found out that men have higher sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:43 PM
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Men are also more likely to be fat No, women are more likely to be fat than men. men make more money due to sexism men make more money because they work more hours and work more dangerous jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:40 PM
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More likely to be fat, hold more debt and men still make more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:06 PM
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Single women without kids had an average of $65,000 in wealth in 2019, compared with $57,000 for single, child-free men, according to new research from the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis. This is about how much wealth they have not how much they make. 85% of single childless men still outearn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:22 PM
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Women also dominate the lowest paid degrees. At the top it's evenly split. The only reason why men still earn more is because of mothers leaving the work force. 85% of single childless men still outearn single childless women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:37 PM
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Not all women obviously but a sizeable amount will have to settle because if you look at women's standards they want above average in everything. There just aren't enough men for all of them. And women want relationships as much as men it's just that women whose sex drive is completely dead in the 40s and 50s that skew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:35 PM
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Most of men are also a tax net negative. No they are not. And education doesn't change much. Men still make more money than women and women dominate the worst majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:02 AM
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Play to your strengths, and you don't have to leverage money, foreign women find white men more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:05 PM
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And of the minority that are doing it the chances of their kid growing in a single parent household or the chance of the father being a criminal is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:56 PM
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a worthy predator
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:50 PM
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On a mass scale as a whole women contribute very little. Most of them are tax net negative and anything a woman can do a man can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:18 PM
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but at least she's thin and docile The only difference and it's fucking worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:53 PM
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Most women don't really care because body count correlates with attractiveness for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:31 PM
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That's why men don't ask, only boys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:31 PM
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everything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:57 PM
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Men are already paying for women bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:52 PM
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Men here tell women to "choose better", yet get offended when women are shown to be more picky on dating apps. Does "choosing better" only apply, when she's choosing YOU? Choose better is about his character. Dating apps have shown us that women have no problem being with a child molester or whatever if he is attractive. A woman's interest sex increases, when she has GOOD sexual experiences. Her interest in sex is high in the beginning then goes down as time passes. Most women can't match men's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:10 PM
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not only manosphere guys, the majority of men are conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:22 PM
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This is after he did the scaling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:04 AM
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I scaled each rater's ratings so that the averages are the same for all raters of a given gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:10 AM
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Not the question I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:24 PM
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So you think doing nothing is worse than doing something bad lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:12 PM
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And which one do you think is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:48 PM
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Ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:37 PM
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I don't think being indifferent is a bigger issue than pushing against it and trying to silence it but alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:30 PM
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I gave you examples, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:07 PM
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We already had the talk that majority of men don't care but you said that feminists don't even give a fuck and I showed you how they push back against men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:05 PM
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You are moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:56 PM
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Pretty sure feminists don’t even give a fuck. They do otherwise they wouldn't push back against it like shutting down male shelters and boycotting Warren Farrell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:51 PM
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Not caring isn't the same as hating it. Stop complaining about what others are doing and start doing something about it yourself. Agree this is a good advice about anyone complaining about anything, but I am not complaining right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:41 PM
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Men not caring doesn't mean they are against men's rights and push back on it, they are just indifferent. Feminists are the one that push against men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah men have an out-group bias and care more about other women than men. But when someone tries to do something it's shut down by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:24 PM
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When did Tate talk about Tinder and chad? And Tate got that many views because controversy brings attention. And if all you are doing is "well go to this sub" It's usually how it works, if you want to see or learn about something you have to search it up. How the hell is that really what men are looking for I never said that is what men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:08 PM
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Again dude you said "the focus is mostly on dating rants" and I'm telling you it depends where you spend your time. The manosphere is not a monolith, this is a subreddit about debate involving TRP so obviously you are going to see more talk about dating. If you spend your time in r/MensLib or r/mensrights you are going to see more talk that is not about dating. It all depends on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:45 PM
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Most of men's problems are shut down by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:24 PM
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If you only visits parts that are about TRP obviously you are going to see more talk about dating. In r/mensrights there is rarely talk about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:07 PM
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It's getting drowned out depending on what part of the manosphere you visit. Obviously if you spend most of ur time here you wouldn't know. And nothing is being done because of pushback against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:59 PM
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Not if they are attractive https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0217152
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:33 AM
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but they don’t describe men under 6 feet as “bullet dodged” No they talk about them worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:45 PM
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There are more male sluts than female sluts so who are the male sluts sleeping with? According to CDC 40.8% of men have 10 or more sex partners but only 24.5% of women have that many In the 18-24 range there are more men than women with 0 partners in the past year but also more men than women with 3 or more partners And here again in the first graph there are more promiscuous men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:19 AM
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People calling it exploitative have no problem consuming products turned on by third world slaves by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:18 PM
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whereas guys don't care about looks Who says that? And it's known that women settle for looks in LTRs because they find very small subset of men really attractive. That's why as time goes on they desire less sex in marriage and LTR and are more likely to divorce or end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:22 PM
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Biden knows about the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:00 PM
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The more attractive the better, as long as she lets you fuck her the rest doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:59 PM
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Attractive men are more promiscuous and promiscuous people are more likely to cheat so maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:54 AM
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If the average height was 6ft women would still want above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:18 PM
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Both of the links mention Paul Dolan which have been debunked already https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:21 PM
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Difference is sex drive not who tries harder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:07 PM
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Women still care about resources in a partner way more than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:01 PM
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No it's just that women are physically attracted to very small amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:54 PM
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Nowadays 80/20 is being randomly used by both men and women. The only place I've seen it is in that OkCupid graph that women find 80% of men physically unattractive. Which is true if you look at women's physical preferences you can see that most of them desire above average but still settle because they don't want to be alone and 2 incomes is better than 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:56 PM
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one of the biggest reasons why "masculinity" or the "number of good women" is declining is because of the lack of great father figures. Why is she deciding to have a kid with someone who won't be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:31 PM
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Maybe only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:23 PM
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I said IDK and frankly I don't care why they lie, just that they lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:14 PM
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I literally told you that the number changes when they hooked to a polygraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:58 PM
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They are still lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:53 PM
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IDK maybe they fear judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:21 PM
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Where are all these women lying about their n-count? You can see how the number changes when they are hooked up to a polygraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:15 PM
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They earn more and pay higher taxes. The majority don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:51 PM
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women are wonderful, men outgroup bias, women ingroup bias all at play this is a surprise only to someone who lives under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:56 PM
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Women want a man that just gets it and doesn't overanalyze things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:13 PM
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I think most women downplay the danger of men. Most women are not overly neurotic like the ones on social media or at least thankfully they don't act like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:00 PM
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It makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:13 PM
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Under 30 is not 18-24
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:24 PM
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that same study showed men having more sex Not in the 18-24 demographic. We all know it's easier to get laid as a man as you get older since women start to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:03 PM
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I gotta imagine they’re not hard to find on dating apps True they can always find a single mom there looking for a provider and hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:33 PM
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They don't pursue toxic women, they pursue attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:24 PM
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For men, attractiveness was the most important factor in predicting dating appeal. Men viewed physically attractive women who were high in borderline personality traits to be more appealing than women who were less physically attractive and low in borderline personality traits. Men are drawn to physically attractive women despite them having bad personality traits. It's no secret that for men the most important thing is attractiveness. But all things being equal men prefer nice girls https://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:06 PM
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By show me I mean show me something like this but for men https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:45 AM
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cmon pops you can't find anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:49 PM
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I said "show me that men are attracted to that type of women"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:26 PM
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about men no longer being the ''prize"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:21 PM
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Ah that post got removed and the OP got banned, but sure u/poppy_blu if you can show me that men are attracted to that type of women then I will also blame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:12 PM
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Men as a collective are dangerous. Small percentage of men are dangerous to both women and men. Majority of men are more pro women than they are pro men or anti women. have anything "outside" to do By that I meant they work at their job more than their wives. abusing their wives Do you have stats on that. I can't find one for married couples but in relationship half of it is reciprocal and 70% of nonreciprocal violence is initiated by women. and children Mothers more likely to abuse children tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:40 PM
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specifically male partners Yet women are attracted to these men. They just don't like when the violence is done on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:16 PM
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Acting like "women are wonderful" effect isn't a thing, that men don't have an outgroup bias, that they don't show more emphaty to women and what not. Most cops are men. Wives do more work around the house while men work more outside the house (400 hours more than unmarried men) and bring in the most money of any demographic. When you combine the numbers it's pretty close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:14 PM
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AA?/BB is not about a woman wanting a hot/dangerous guy but settling for a safe consistent choice. The ideal for most women is AB a guy who is both hot and brings in good money but not many can get that perfect guy so they instead will have sex with the hot guy and settle on looks for a guy with resources because they want kids and women care about money in a mate more than men. It's called dual mating strategy. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16594832/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:51 PM
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https://www.marieclaire.com.au/why-do-men-cheat Their decision to cheat comes from the desire to experience the love and affection they expect to receive from their wife, but has faded over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:46 PM
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Theories about what? I said men cheat because his wife's libido doesn't match his' (proven by science) and also his wife doesn't want to have sex with him as much as he'd like (proven by science) and that's why he cheats. You are the one that is providing 0 sources and is just trying to spin the words and give them new meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:24 PM
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Yes and men want to have sex more often so they are going to seek it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:56 PM
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Almost no man is going to say these things in real life obviously this is an anonymous forum. In real life you wait for her to get angry/drunk and spill something out or vet for other things that correlate with promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:53 PM
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they still want to have sex with their spouse They don't tho https://postimg.cc/Bt2b0Nzt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:47 PM
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Frequency might not decline because men insist on having sex and see that she is not as passionate about it and they decide to cheat with more enthusiastic woman. why are they marrying Because duty sex is better than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:52 PM
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I'm not blaming them, I'm just stating facts. Libido = sexual desire Women's sexual desire declines more in a relationship thus she is less enthusiastic about it and men want excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:29 PM
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I'm not putting the blame on women, cheating is bad no matter what. Women have lower libido, sexual desire declines more and are more likely to have unenthusiastic sex and men want excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:07 PM
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They're basing these averages on ~200 couples in the Bible belt..... and nothing about this https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/ ? 11,5k adults
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:42 AM
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and the diferences we observed were averages. They say on average man's sexual drive is higher than woman's. And women still have sex as often despite desiring it less and less so if that isn't duty sex then idk what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:03 AM
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Show me a study that shows that women's sexual desire doesn't decline in LTR and in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:50 AM
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Nowhere does it say that women desire more sex than men. I'm not denying that it happens, obviously there are outliers but on average men desire it more https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/ and https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71520.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:20 AM
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Post links to the study done by Mark
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:56 AM
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it's just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:40 PM
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women were likely to engage in sex even when they did not desire it. if it ain't duty sex then idk what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:35 PM
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it says it in the part you quoted, women don't desire it yet still have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:25 PM
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women give unenthusiastic duty sex to the "husband material" guy, shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:10 PM
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It's both sexual desire desire to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:49 PM
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Men cheat because their wife can't match his libido and doesn't want to have sex with him. Multiple studies have shown that woman's sexual desire declines in LTR and in marriage while the man's stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:10 PM
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Yes and THEN have sex. Haven't you heard about making the husband material guy wait while she gave it easily for the short term guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:25 PM
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Of course you can. Majority of women still want kids and will settle on looks for things like another income and stability. They put more emphasis on attractiveness for short term and money for long term aka dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:11 PM
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Most women are not attracted to most men and are most physically attracted to things out of men's control. If you as a man don't fall in that category then offering a transactional relationship for somewhat consistent sex is a good deal as long as you don't overcommit like marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:17 PM
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Men are more likely to leave their sick wives than women are to leave their sick husbands. And women are more likely to leave their husbands if he loses his job, she outearns him, or she gets a promotion. Genders care about different things. Single, childless women are happier than married women who have children. This got debunked already. Married men work longer than every other demographic and if a woman decides to marry someone that makes less than her then he is compensating in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:47 AM
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Paying child support doesn't prevent single moms from birthing kids alone. But ending welfare will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:37 AM
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"nerd" And that guy is apparently famous and I can't find anything about his wife so obviously she married up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:18 PM
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Single mothers are poorer because they have to look after kids at a young age. Kids born under single parents end up being poorer more likely to drop out of school etc and thus repeating this cycle. Abortion was available in all states before this year yet single motherhood only went up. I have another solution to prevent this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:00 PM
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Yeah them procreating with criminals and deadbeats, ending up as single mothers, expecting the government to pay, raising the kid in poor low income household which increases the kid's chances of ending up as a criminal and repeat that cycle. Great thing for the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:01 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103117304195
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:19 AM
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He should treat women with sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:12 AM
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rumors being spread about their sexual history. Lol, how do you experience that on a date, it's women that gossip and do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:53 PM
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Women can't find a man good enough, are not attracted to their looksmatch and they also have lower libido so don't want sex as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:14 PM
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or more based on general cultural associations? Yes, western culture in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:08 PM
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Bully. https://www.insider.com/bullies-have-more-sex-according-to-a-new-study-2017-12
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:58 PM
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AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:33 PM
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Men are just being confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:22 AM
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Condoms? I agree women should be able to choose that without pushback but also understand why some people are hesitant because it can't be reversed and and many people think sperm is cheap, eggs are valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:33 PM
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They are 99% IF used correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:02 PM
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Actors have existed before social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:00 PM
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Having a child is preventable by using contraceptives. Tying your tubes is permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:53 PM
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Imagining is different than actually seeing it. Social media use increases depression and is more likely to affect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:44 PM
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Tying your tubes is meant to be permanent and like 28% of women have regrets about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:41 PM
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Remove the internet so people won't be exposed to that many people to pick from, will have more grounded standards and won't constantly compare themselves to millions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:53 PM
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What year was that? Very few women alive today had to experience that. Because they pile up debt and want the government to forgive it afterwards. Women hold 2/3 of the student debt. Guess from which gender most of that money for forgiveness comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:17 PM
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Owning property and owning a bank account are ancient talking points. I think some college majors are useless and they just pile more debt. Abortion is not birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:41 PM
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What rights do they want to take away? And women are still dependent on men thanks to the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:25 PM
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The problem with feminism is the lack of accountability and hate on men despite men still being the backbone of society and are funding the mistakes of women by large. When women get taste of equality like with the abortion bans in some states they start complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:44 AM
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Women are largely not that way. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:33 AM
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there is no obligation to get pregnant and give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:07 PM
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in Texas women must give birth what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:34 AM
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If you can't be sure then don't fully commit and string her along for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:11 PM
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A lot of women still want to have kids and it's best to have them in a 2 parent household because more money or a lot of single mothers are looking for providers on dating apps. That's basically what beta bucks means, it doesn't have to be a millionaire just someone stable, less exciting and bringing in money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:56 PM
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and find a good guy to settle down with later. And many can't that's why they are deciding to be alone rather than settle with their looksmatch. And men know that women lie about their body counts there are studies done about it and it's finally nice to see it being admitted here by a woman. And it's true that men can't tell exactly if she is promiscuous but they can screen for traits that correlate with promiscuity and thus avoid these women or use them only for sex or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:05 PM
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Teamfight Tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:10 PM
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You bitch about feminism and policies that favor women but how many of you even vote? Voted Republican and Roe got overturned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:49 PM
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No they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:00 PM
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https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html Women do too but because they find a very small amount of men attractive and that mostly includes the men with same traits, they can't all get him so they settle in LTR with someone that brings other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:20 AM
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Women also prioritize looks. Women outside of OLD are willing to settle on looks because they aren't exposed to that wide array of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:05 PM
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I mean no shit the data from dating apps is a huge revelation. When women have a huge amount of men to pick from they all go to the same men with the same traits and rate most men as unattractive. But not all of them can get the same man so they start complaining that all men act like the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:02 PM
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You never hear them talk about the men with this issue Because they are not dating men and aren't attracted to men and most women don't care because body count correlates with physical attractiveness in men. I don't care about comparisons but most women do end up settling because they can have NSA sex with a guy more attractive than them and that's why in marriages and in LTRs they get bored and their sexual desire declines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:16 PM
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He is massive. A much needed voice. Top G.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:40 PM
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We already know that women are attracted to psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:47 PM
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Gay men still have the sex drive of men so obviously they will find more men attractive. Women are only attracted to a small percent of men and that includes the same traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:46 PM
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With that much money and status you can get more and hotter women than a regular attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:47 PM
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Better than anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:51 PM
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There is enough data that proves the contrary. Women like bad boys that are nice to them. Women pick men like that and then start complaining that all men are like that when he starts acting bad to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:48 PM
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Fit doesn't mean attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:52 PM
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Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:24 PM
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Because he is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:49 PM
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Men are not turned off by taken women, they will still flirt with her if she is attractive, but her being taken doesn't automatically make her more attractive. Pre-selection only works with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:52 AM
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I told you can't tell if a woman is like that or not and most women are like that anyways so chances are pretty high in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:22 PM
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Studies show most women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:13 PM
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You can refuse to marry anyone who doesn't satisfy you sexually. I didn't say anything about that. Women's desire for sex drops but not the frequency of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:41 PM
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You can't know that for sure and no woman is gonna say that outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:55 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-philosophers-diaries/202105/is-getting-married-bad-deal-women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:49 PM
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And I don't know any man who would be happy to hear that his wife settled for him and doesn't desire to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:03 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29957149/ Women don't want to be treated like equals, they want to be put on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:55 PM
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Because men have higher sex drive and are attracted to their wives. Most women settle and their desire for sex declines. Marriage or LTR where people live together is the most consistent way for a non very attractive guy to have regular sex even if it is duty sex. But it's not really a detriment for women, they are also happier when they are in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:37 PM
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Only a person who has never had a ltr would say that. Yawn, I don't use personal anecdotes, only studies that have examined numerous couples. In two longitudinal studies (one spanning one year and one spanning four years), the researchers found that, on average, women’s levels of sexual desire were not only lower than men’s at the beginning of their marriages, but much more variable than men’s. Men’s levels of sexual desire stayed higher and more constant than women’s throughout the duration of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:22 PM
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Women picked status and not physical attractiveness so they don't mean the same thing obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:25 AM
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If they meant physical attractiveness they could have picked that like they did when choosing short term partners. Status is job and how much money he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:11 AM
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I said that women pick comfort and resources for long term relationships and these are the parts from the studies. Whereas women have been found to prioritize status in long-term mates For ideal long-term mates, men prioritized physical attractiveness and women prioritized social status. emotional motivations were more strongly endorsed for sex in committed relationships whereas women spent the highest proportion on status and resource-related characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:00 AM
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Only women's desire declines while the man's stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:48 AM
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Women pick attractive for short term and comfort and resources for long term. http://www.mysmu.edu/faculty/normanli/Li2007.pdf https://www.researchgate.net/publication/270650361_Women's_Motivations_to_Have_Sex_in_Casual_and_Committed_Relationships_with_Male_and_Female_Partners https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16594832/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/255683170_Mate_Preference_Necessities_in_Long_and_Short-Term_Mating_People_Prioritize_in_Themselves_What_Their_Mates_Prioritize_in_Them Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:21 AM
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No divorce if you don't get married. And "Interestingly, although women's sexual desire declined over time, couples' sexual frequency did not, suggesting that women were likely to engage in sex even when they did not desire it." So you can also expect frequent duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:36 AM
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You can in no way conclude women with higher N counts are “almost always more dissatisfied,” that is abjectly false. Yes, you can. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31483198/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:26 AM
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As long as he is guaranteed to not get divorced and the woman giving him regular duty sex then it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:52 AM
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Internet, women being exposed to a huge amount of men and not being attracted to their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:50 AM
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Contrary to what a lot of people on this sub think, men often get away with doing the bare minimum in terms of dating/relationships. The hardest part to pass is the looks threshold. Once the man passes this he can probably abuse her and she is going to stay with him. That's why so many women procreate with deadbeats and criminals then stay single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:49 AM
36

and (mis)reporting due to social norms might explain the inconsistency Men lie up, women lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:15 PM
0

So they are only doing the BB part. Most women don't have a high libido that can match the opposite gender. Women settle in LTRs that's why their sexual desire goes down and men's stays the same and higher than woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:15 PM
1

Women pick attractive men for short term and money and comfort for long term. That's why in LTR and marriages women have lower sex drives and get bored because they settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:56 PM
3

Women want to be treated like kids it is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:47 PM
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Women are graduating at much higher rates than men and out-earning them in several cities. The days of them being dependent on men are gone. That's why there are less marriages and more women deciding to be single. Just because she makes a lot doesn't mean she doesn't want her partner to make even more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:15 AM
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correlated with a lower divorce rate in women That's because people marry within their proximity and these women can marry richer men thus are less likely to divorce because money is a big factor when a woman decides to divorce. There are studies that show that women care way more about money in a partner than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:01 PM
1

Laughing my ass off no woman ever finds 50% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:57 PM
1

Now they will look at ur profile and more normies will come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:17 PM
2

Most old people like teachers in school and relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:29 PM
0

were more likely to have it sooner in a relationship. You better hope lol a woman making you wait in her 30s probably has been burned way too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:34 PM
0

She is my ltr partner and I still don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:26 PM
3

She ain't a wife and frankly I don't really care, I still get to put my dick in a warm hole and if she doesn't like it she can leave anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:20 AM
1

Andrew Tate is not RP and most of these normies who are watching the videos don't know that such thing as the sidebar exists and know even less about all the studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:53 PM
3

Women can stop breeding with deadbeats and criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:51 AM
2

The end goal is equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:39 PM
1

Who cares still got to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:39 PM
3

Use BC yourself, take plan B pill or demand the man to use a condom and don't sleep with him if he doesn't, all 3 are easy ways to prevent pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:59 PM
3

Woman can choose to keep the baby when the man doesn't want it and force him to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:56 PM
3

A man can't choose whether the woman keeps or aborts the baby and he can't financially abort either so now women in some states also don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:43 PM
3

Mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:31 PM
3

Women drive 85% of the consumer purchases and care more about money than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:15 PM
0

"Do you think abortion bans are about equality?" Abortion bans are about religion but it also brings us closer to equality so it can be about both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:13 PM
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It is equality, both genders have it bad now, but it is equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:58 PM
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It brings us closer to equality and women don't like that a single bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:53 PM
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Unpopular men reported less support for casual sex than popular men. ​ Unpopular low mate-value women reported more support for casual sex This is in tact with surveys that attractive men and ugly women have the highest numbers of casual sex partners. Women changing their socio-political attitudes have more to lose because they benefit more from them than men and the money for these things mostly comes from men. Here is a study that when woman is rejected by an attractive man she becomes more bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:12 PM
1

What does genuine even mean? If he was unattractive and couldn't get anything but now he can because he has worked hard then why should it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:39 PM
1

It's not and most women can't satisfy man's sexual needs to the fullest and lose interest in sex while in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:41 PM
2

Are you applying the halo effect to dark triad men because you find them attractive? Look it is alright we can't change who we are attracted to but what annoys me is when women complain about abusive boyfriends. These people have always been like that they don't do a sudden 180 degree turn he just isn't completely abusive to her yet but to other people and she should have picked on these cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:12 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245 Physicality was held constant. Women rated the high DT character as significantly more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:34 PM
2

Studies show women are attracted to dark triad men so obviously they are looking for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:02 AM
1

But it doesn't matter how he behaves with others as long as he is nice to her, that's why many women complain about abusive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:52 AM
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Nice to you and it doesn't matter he is asshole to others until the day he starts abusing her and then she starts complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:40 AM
2

Multiple studies show women are attracted to assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:37 AM
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Him being attractive is a given lol else why are you with people you find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:30 AM
2

Cmon https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wmekaz/comment/ik0zxwm/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:25 AM
2

Isn't that what women want? Someone that is asshole to everyone else but her until he starts to abuse her too and she goes on to complain about how all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:16 AM
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If they know about the pills then they do have a choice to not marry and give her all his resources and just string her along for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:19 PM
2

The nice guys and sensitive men need to fix themselves and become less of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:05 PM
6

Most promiscuous guys aren't "high value" They are high value aka physically attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:10 PM
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OP is 6'4 so obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:50 PM
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I’m not sure why women don’t feel the need for relationships or are more comfortable single Because women have lower libido and are attracted to smaller portion of men. And about the part of being more comfortable it's because she is never single the way a man is single. She can go about her life without worrying much about finding a partner because men are the ones that do the approaching she just has to expose herself in social settings. For men unless you are very attractive no one is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:41 AM
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There are not enough attractive men to go around since women find very small portion of men attractive and you find these women attractive since you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:43 PM
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Any woman any time has options it's up to her if she likes them (most do not but sill settle for things like money and comfort). For men the largest sexless demographic is between ages 18-24
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:24 PM
1

You saying it does doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:10 PM
0

No. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25062930/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:52 PM
2

He is sleeping with them because they are easier and give sex in hopes of securing a relationship. Hot girl knows her worth and is more likely to make him wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:12 PM
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These types are more likely to abuse her and leave some kind of trauma and it's just about avoiding damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:54 AM
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0 accountability as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:27 AM
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Because women like denying the truth despite there being 100 different sources on the subject confirming the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:15 AM
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Not you but studies over personal anecdotes https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:06 AM
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These men are more likely to cheat and abuse their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:23 PM
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Yes we know there are studies done about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:19 PM
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Men find a larger amount of women attractive and dating for almost all of them is a numbers game. Doesn't mean he doesn't find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:55 PM
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Women also want to feel attractive and desired. That’s why it doesn’t mean much to us when some random shmuck is begging us for sex just because we have a vagina. He finds her attractive and wants to have sex with her is that not enough? Or you take it as him begging you for sex and not real desire because he is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:40 PM
1

That ratio is for Tinder and doesn't account for women who delete their accounts when they get sex or don't get it. Looking at surveys the ratio between young men and women who have used the app is close.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:06 PM
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Not only on this subreddit but on Reddit in general. They start with the shaming tactics real fast. Like women in general are more neurotic but on Reddit it seems to be way more than in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:58 PM
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Many men want to but can't, many women can but don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:17 PM
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The OP said that he has never heard that phrase outside the manosphere so I was just trying to help him out. I agree less people are using the "looks don't matter" bullshit and more people have switched to "looks matter but it's your personality" while experiments have shown that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:55 AM
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Hypothetical question that's never going to happen. Look women can match with whoever they want but then as you said they complain about being pumped and dumped then feeling jaded and angry because a guy above her league doesn't commit and uses her only for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:22 AM
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It’s weird that I’ve never heard “looks don’t matter” anywhere else except the manosphere. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/eupljz/comment/ffqp1qx/?context=999
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:50 PM
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As far as I know there is not data that shows men having unreasonable ratings for women and filtering them on crazy standards like 7 feet height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:07 PM
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You obviously haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:58 PM
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There is no data about older women and the difference in their behaviour in online dating. I agree dating apps give women too much choice and thus they are not attracted to their looksmatch and people in their real life proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:53 PM
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You've never been to mainstream subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:35 PM
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If thats the case then why do so many women complain about pump and dump Because they ignore those guys' messages. I literally showed you data that women are way more likely to initiate contact with the top percent of men and for these men she might be good enough to fuck but not good enough for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:34 PM
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Dating apps are becoming more natural every day with more younger people starting to use them and gender ratio is not that different when you take into account a wider variety of apps. Also that stat about more men than women doesn't include all time profile stats just the registered accounts when the data was extracted and women can make profiles and then delete them after trying sex once. Men find larger amount of women attractive that's why they message more women. he's not really into her an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:39 PM
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Men aren't the ones rating 80% of women as below average and setting more filters for 7ft men than 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:01 PM
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People here still don't get it huh talking using the word ''deserve''. There is no deserve, if you can get it by lying or stringing along then you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:49 AM
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No woman is easy for the average fat guy in North America. But if you are in shape and don't have other disadvantages you can lure the fat girl to sleep with you faster in hopes of locking a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:26 AM
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The husband goes to family dinners with his ex wife AND the kids. His now girlfriend is jealous and insecure and wanted to make his husband feel the same way. My takeaway is never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:49 AM
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More women are using dating apps and more sexlessless rises because they don't find the guy that is in the IRL environment attractive. Yeah they have shown what women find attractive when they can pick between a huge amount of options and it's usually the same traits that any other woman picks, and online they can be more honest than IRL because they can avoid judgement. More people are using dating apps so this is changing. Can you show me links where this happens with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:45 PM
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Yeah the most bluepilled people are women, attractive men and those men who lucked out early like in highschool and got a partner for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:32 PM
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Almost everyone loses their virginity in their lifetime and most people get in a few LTRs during their lifetime. Considering that dating apps have shown us what women find attractive and how they rate majority of the men then it's fair to say that most of them settle in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:16 PM
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There is no evidence for these claims. https://www.nber.org/papers/w19023 https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-promoted-women-are-more-likely-to-divorce https://www.chicagobooth.edu/media-relations-and-communications/press-releases/when-women-earn-more-than-their-husbands The remaining 4/5 have incentive to participate because women later in life decide to settle and want family and men want sex. All these pills help men navigate and get what they want and never overcommit to Chad's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:43 PM
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And the biggest reason for the decline is that more and more women are starting to earn more than men and women who make more than their boyfriends are less likely to marry and a woman getting promotion or outearning her husband has like 50% chance of ending in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:19 AM
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Women would care even less about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:08 PM
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https://www.amherst.edu/media/view/239672/original/Alexander+%26+Fisher+%282003%29.pdf https://www.jstor.org/stable/2090775?origin=crossref&seq=1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:46 PM
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There are literal studies that people lie about their body count and tell the truth when attached to a lie detector.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Under "survival of the fittest" or some apocalyptic scenario no one would have rights and most of both genders will have it bad but women worse because men are physically stronger. And in civilized society it's the men at the top that decide what happens and if they don't like something they are going to make changes like with abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:30 PM
2

Women are the majority of voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:17 PM
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They are physically and sexually attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:15 PM
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Men are physically stronger and the majority of people in power are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:03 PM
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They are attracted to women but they don't worship the ground women walk on so you think they don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:55 PM
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They will as they get older and start to settle. The largest sexless demographic is ages 18-24.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:39 PM
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Only if you are certain that they lie about other things too. There are studies done that people lie about their body counts and I don't know if there are studies done that people lie about other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:59 PM
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IDK why would they lie anonymously but they still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:40 PM
2

This includes people up to the age of 49 and people lie on self reported studies about their body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:23 PM
2

Any man can cheat with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:48 AM
3

Depends how she got it and how old she is but yeah 4 being unreasonable is a little too far since it's probably way below the average for women in today's climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:12 PM
0

-young -36 choose one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:42 PM
2

According to studies men care about it and women here are using personal anecdotes. If women really believed that only insecure guys care about it then they wouldn't be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:40 PM
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"it has nothing to do with me how am I going to judge a person based on a past I wasn't part of" stupid argument ngl would you date a murderer or a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:36 PM
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But we were talking about attempting to cheat. There is no data about who attempts to cheat more. If ugly men want to cheat they can do it any time they want with a prostitute. which study says that? https://www.esquire.com/uk/life/a17209/women-happier-uglier-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:16 PM
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So your source is an example including a celebrity? If he can get a hot famous woman then he is high value. There is nothing that supports the claim that attractive men cheat less and ugly men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:45 PM
0

Or that they cheat less so we might as well assume that It's equal. I told you that more promiscuous people are more likely to cheat and most attractive men are more likely to be promiscuous. With that in mind is there any reason to choose the unattractive man? According to a study women with a less attractive partners are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:42 PM
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Most things people were arguing over here have been proven by studies and most OGs left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:34 PM
0

There is nothing supporting that unattractive men try to cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:11 PM
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Same with women complaining about all their partners being abusive or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:54 PM
1

True fat women are more likely to be promiscuous and promiscuity correlates with mental health issues and other addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:51 PM
-2

In fact they do the most. Can you back that up with sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:43 PM
0

Promiscuous people are more likely to cheat and most attractive men are more likely to be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:23 PM
4

Under "survival of the fittest" no one deserves shit, you get what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:21 PM
1

Narnia as in Narniafox? that user?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:54 AM
0

Show me how it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:46 AM
-1

while women are most happy when single. They are not, this myth has to end. Both genders are happiest when they are partnered up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:04 AM
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No one has to ask women that, they will do it by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:22 PM
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This sexlessness loneliness thing is overblown ngl almost all people in their lifetime have sex and have a LTR for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with throwing it around obviously the problem is when she then lies about it or tries to hide it. And it's not resentment it's that any woman can get a high body count and it usually comes with other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:48 AM
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Anything above 10k and I'm picking the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:26 AM
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Man can be above average and overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:07 PM
1

Arteta cooking sesh maybe they will finally be back in the CL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:03 PM
0

You are mentioning anecdotes instead of showing studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:15 PM
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If you are talking about the lying part then we assume all of them are lying, so the promiscuous women have even higher chance to cheat on their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:02 PM
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Slut and a hoe both mean the same thing - promiscuous. These studies don't distinguish between these words and most people in real life don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:01 PM
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This is just useless word play.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:44 PM
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Studies like that are to avoid people like these, obv the chance of them cheating isn't 100% and cheating hurts less if you ''Trust no one, have a plan to snipe everyone you meet"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:40 PM
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Yes everyone can cheat if they want to and you are using personal anecdotes while study shows they are more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:12 PM
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They can be a loyal loving spouse in public and cheat behind their partner's back without the public knowing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:38 PM
1

Correlation does not equal causation You can say that about anything. The fact of the matter is that promiscuity correlates with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:14 PM
1

Promiscuity doesn't cause mental problems but the women with these problems are more likely to be promiscuous. How can the man be insecure when she most probably hides her promiscuous past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:33 AM
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Yes promiscuity correlates with all that and not spurious since it's been proven by studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:42 AM
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The sole reason men don't want to marry 'sluts' is that they feel insecure about the fact that she's been with other men, and are concerned that they won't measure up. Also the higher risk of cheating, divorce and all the other mental problems that is associated with promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:38 AM
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If we're willing to date you, we're also willing to fuck you casually. This is not true, either you wouldn't see men complaining about their gf making them wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:59 AM
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You could also argue that mothers inadvertently encourage their infant and toddler boys to be more emotional than they do their infant and toddler girls. What? They do not. Mothers push gender stereotypes more than fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:53 PM
7

Both men and women overrate woman's looks in reality most couples are looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:38 PM
2

how often does this happen As often as the attractive guy wants it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:38 AM
0

Show me where it says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:41 PM
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https://www.amherst.edu/media/view/239672/original/Alexander+%26+Fisher+%282003%29.pdf https://www.jstor.org/stable/2090775?origin=crossref&seq=1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:50 PM
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Dude most people have below 7 as an average number of partners. This includes old people and also it's been proven that women lie about their body count on self reported data.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:55 PM
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Married men live longer, report being happier, earn mor and kill themselves less then single men. because those are the so called ''marriagable men'' the woman doesn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:55 AM
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