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I started shaving my head at 23. I would’ve considered hair transplants if I’d had the money, but given that wasn’t an option I just shaved it. People went from overestimating my age by several years to underestimating it. Unless you can afford high end follicle transplants (the ones which don’t leave obvious signs), you’re better off just biting the bullet. Bald won’t be to many people’s preferences, but you’ll certainly do better than if you were tried to disguise it, and it’ll rarely be a dea…
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:39 PM
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I was 26 when I had my first kiss. I’m now 37 and feel absolutely no shame about admitting that. For some people this stuff is easy, for others it isn’t; the only people who would judge you pathetic for having a hard time are the kind of people whose opinions count for exactly nothing.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:57 PM
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I was raised to believe it's wrong to want things (i.e. not just sex, but anything), think about how that one messes you up.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:27 PM
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That’s a good way of putting it. It’s like compound gains, you don’t need to take big swings (say approaching strangers in a bar), lots of small swings will compound to get you to a point where you cross that threshold from having nothing (romance-wise) to something. Bigger swings might let you win bigger, but many live happy fulfilled lives without doing that.
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:45 PM
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To some extent it was luck. My personality is to be somewhat mischievous and stir up light playful trouble. I was at a house party where I was doing this to a friend, and I noticed a girl was giggling. So I added her on FB, chatted without any particular agenda, but enough that she got the opportunity to get to know to me. Eventually things escalated. I’ve never really done approaches, so almost certainly seen less action than I could have and can’t really offer any advice in that area. One thin…
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:55 PM
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I was in a similar boat, I had my first kiss at 26, first real girlfriend (more than one month) at 31. All my girlfriends have expressed some kind of amazement that nobody had snapped me up, or said that they think I don’t actually know how attractive I am. My point? Just because you’re struggling to kick-start your romantic life, that’s not a reflection on your attractiveness or your worth as a potential partner. In my case, I was (and still am tbh) just a bit socially weird, but not so weird t…
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:52 AM
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Well i'm objectively more attractive than I was in my twenties, because I have relatively decent posture and a respectable amount of muscle. I don't feel more confident though, i'm no more likely to approach now than I was then.
/r/seduction02/02/18 12:47 PM
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Mostly spot on? That's Daniel, of Daniel y Desiree. More-or-less the most popular bachata couple in the world right now. The moves he's doing are pretty basic ones, because he doesn't know the level of the followers, but what he does know is how to make the moves and followers feel amazing
/r/seduction16/08/15 11:43 PM
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I feel obligated to mention that it's incredibly hard to do moves like that nicely when the girl is drunk. I dance salsa 4 nights a week, and even the great girls become serious liabilities when drunk (same is true of us guys, thankfully getting drunk is relatively rare in the salsa world).
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:53 PM
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26, and for a friend it was 28
/r/seduction02/12/13 09:37 AM
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Shoulders back and down, not just back. If you have a slight hunch for sitting at a computer all day, just moving your shoulders back will accentuate the hunch. Move your shoulders back and down, it'll accentuate the triangular shape of your traps, as well as your chest (without it looking like you're just trying to shove your chest forwards).
/r/seduction12/04/13 03:14 PM
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I came across similar advice in various books about depression and mindfulness meditation. Once you start learning about the mistakes you've been making, you can't help but spot them in others. It's incredibly hard to resist the temptation to intervene, but doing so almost never works. For example, with depression the most common piece of unwelcome (and harmful) advice is to just pull yourself out of it. Yet the irony is that this is exactly what you must do, it's just a step you have to lean fo…
/r/seduction08/04/12 12:44 AM
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I can't duel before I've had my tea.
/r/seduction03/04/12 04:55 PM
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I'm a Brit, and I would say she's a 7.
/r/seduction03/04/12 03:43 PM
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Momentary look of surprise, followed by a cheeky "sure, if you like"
/r/seduction27/03/12 06:19 PM
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As a counter-example. As a shy person who has spent the last two months unemployed, I have gone for periods of 2 weeks or more without human contact except for the cashier at the supermarket, and I've hated every minute of it. For a long time I've thought I was an introvert, because I do find social situations tiring, but I also hate being alone (despite it being how I spent most of my time). I think a more likely explanation is that I'm an extrovert, but I currently lack the skills to enjoy soc…
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:15 PM
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I was 26 (I am still 26). Frankly, the few seconds of awkwardness very quickly becomes a distant memory once the several minutes/hours of awesomeness replaces it.
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:16 PM
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