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| 23 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?This is essentially Balkan men too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:20 AM |
| 186 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.“Lol it was a joke!” follows up with 5 outraged paragraphs a strange sense of humor. Also I’ve noticed a lot of men (but especially in those subreddits) have a hard time arguing literally any point without insulting the other party consistently. It’s so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 54 | Don't trust men's words, trust their actions.I’d say trust the pattern! Our world is made up of patterns, everything has a pattern (flowers, climate cycles, time, you name it). Watch the patterns of a man you’re vetting. Does he apologize but never make an effort to change anything? He’s not sorry. An apology is essentially a recognition of what you’ve done wrong and a commitment to not repeat that mistake. If a man repeats certain actions more than once, you can safely assume those are his patterns. Some people break out of patterns easy,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:28 PM |
| 8 | My gripes with dating menThis is such a perfect comment to the point it should be a post of its own!!!! Bravo, you said all I’ve been wanting to say so straight to the point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 72 | I love it when the trash takes itself outIt’s amazing to me that men have become so open and relaxed about it? “Why yes, I love to ogle, objectify and masturbate to as many women as possible, surely you don’t have a problem with that?” This isn’t normal, this is something to be ashamed about, it’s absolutely disgusting and weird it’s being so normalized by anyone but especially that it’s gotten to the point that men are comfortable revealing this info on a FIRST DATE. Then surprised you don’t wanna a second date... so far gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 08:32 AM |
| 94 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingLmao literally I knew two things almost certainly when I originally saw the above post 1) that I’d see in this group later again 2) he watches porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 65 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Oh man I wish I had an award to give you right now. Thank you, this is it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 114 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.I don’t even argue with those goons. It’s such an echo chamber of rage and spite and they’re soo convinced they’ve got it all figured out from behind their keyboards. It’s exhausting but entertaining in that sad way, like when you read choosingbeggars! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | What is "Casual Sex"?Same same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 6 | What is "Casual Sex"?Same for me. If there’s no commitment, it’s not serious and then it’s casual. I guess maybe a long term fwb that’s ACTUALLY a friend wouldn’t be a casual relationship, but the sex part definitely would be Edit: speaking from my previous viewpoint of being single: casual sex for me is any sex where I’m not emotionally invested in any way (be it one night or a multitude of nights over a period of time) or if I am, I must learn to temper my expectations in the case that the other person didn’t feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?But they could learn? My boyfriend is super into bicycles, he first got on a bike when he was 3 he did bmx and mountain biking and works in a bike shop as a bike mechanic and stares at bikes on the street the way most men do at women. I came to the relationship like, oh there’s more to it than 2 wheels and a frame? But I just have a general interest in everything and was open minded about learning what holds his fascination that way, so in the past 3 years I’ve learned so much about bikes and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:25 AM |
| 12 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?In Berlin I’ve observed it is literally a cakewalk for most men as long as they’re not painfully awkward / shy /incapable of simple conversation. Loads of drugs (which can remedy the previously mentioned failures in certain cases) and 3 night long parties in hedonistic clubs (at least it was like this before corona). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 6 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?Something about a guy into art too. This was always a necessity for me. Can be music, literature, painting, film, anything. But definitely an extensive knowledge in any art field was for me always a good sign. It’s a different level of connection, you share your favorite piece, you analyze it together, you make connections about things that are similar, you can go to shows or museums together. You collect records, books, paintings. It’s an environment that forges more interesting people, and it’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:12 AM |
| 78 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼Tbh I was like on the fence with this post, thinking like, it’s uncool to ditch your kid(s) regardless how much you end up paying in child support. But this comment made me think, like, were the genders reversed we’d be relieved if the father even payed 80 percent child support month 2 month. And she was upfront from the jump, and is still giving monetary support even way beyond what’s expected.... yeaaaaahhhhh... Despite the fact she was clear at the beginning she’s still giving her child more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 4 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”Hope u don’t mind but I creeped and am assuming you speak Bulgarian ? It’s гол охлюв . Which I’m assuming is just “naked snail” 😂 it’s the same in Serbian and German, very apt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 3 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”But a bit bigger than a snail, like about the size of a finger approximately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 11 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”In that post someone suggested her ex bf was putting them in her house to fuck with her? It’s a lot but so is blending up slugs and feeding them to your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Please don't give them any more excuses..I’m going through this right now. I feel like the more I cook, the more the desire grows. At first it was a challenge to even think of anything and find the will to put in the effort. Now I gladly read new recipes, watch cooking videos or think about how I would recreate meals I eat elsewhere. Like with anything, it’s about getting past those fundamental building blocks that require effort and attention and then it becomes a joy and a creative exercise. Luckily my boyfriend enjoys getting into h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Taste of his own medicine!😬😬I was so into his vlogs 3 years ago, I’ve dropped off since then and had no idea any of this happened. I’m not surprised tbh, a lot of the jokes were mad misogynistic, like the way they portrayed Corinna from the jump. I was a diff person then and didn’t lend it much thought but in retrospect ... wtf😐? With her specifically her entire image was almost purposefully curated to be specifically “dumb” and “slutty” from the random scenes they showed of her and it was easy to do with that format, 15… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 14 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.In my city this is one of the strains of predominant style. And it doesn’t matter who he’s interested in, the point is a lot of girls would be interested in him way before any average looking guy. My boyfriend was similar to this look when we first met, some people thought he was gay at first glance since it wasn’t the standard but he got girls, girls, girls. And it becomes obvious quickly that he’s not. It’s just a mix with elements of 60s 70s 80s 90s psychedelic, post punk, glam, art rock, hai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 25 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenI feel like a lot of these lvm/nvm are worried that if the fds message gets to enough women, they’ll end up having to pay for a lot of meals without any promise of sex 😂 But it should be that way, only then will they start to appreciate a women’s TIME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:54 AM |
| 14 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenSame same, in a very happy relationship so I don’t really need to vet men moving forward, but it’s helped me reflect upon my past relationships and experiences with men and what I was doing wrong. I wouldn’t change it now because I’m mega happy with a hvm but I have a lot of friends that are still single that I see making the same damn mistakes, staying unhappy and dissatisfied while giving way too much of themselves and I alwaysss send them this way. The patterns are so ingrained in us this pla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:49 AM |
| 29 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.He says they’re 2 near the beginning Edit : I think?? “2 females x 2” . Fuck I don’t know anymore, what’s that supposed to mean. Why do some men have to make everything so difficult to understand -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 18 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?PPD is so annoying for this. I literally almost have an aneurysm from the sheer idiocy of the male commentators every time I read any thread there. They have so much energy to talk shit about women and our preferences plus argue with us about how we perceive the world all the day long but not to take a fucking shower and pick up a meaningful hobby where they might get the chance to have a conversation with an actual irl woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 36 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?I have found that the men I find attractive tend to be calmer and sweeter than the ones that are unattractive. Just confident and charming and not so obsessed with being right and always having the last word. Obviously not a rule but that’s just my general experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 189 | Show them the same amount of respect they show you!It’s also fear for me. I guess I’m a bit paranoid, I’ve heard horror stories about men’s egos not being able to take being rebutted by a women. I don’t know who’s happily violent or someone crazy carrying a knife. I really wanna get into to some self defense courses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 24 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREIt’s crazy to me how many women here are agreeing with you, maybe like one or two that don’t fully but still do mostly and the only people here disagreeing with you are men, insisting that women DO enjoy casual sex actually because anecdotal evidence! Why won’t they listen? Then eventually they’ll end up in a dead bedroom after a woman has become exasperated with the bullshit one sided sex, has become tired of feeling constantly devalued and they’ll shocked pikachu face. Instead of listening, pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREI wish I had a free award to give you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 08:50 AM |
| 4 | The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complainYou’re delusional if you think the majority of men are kind to us. Even the mostly decent and compatible ones are overwhelmingly selfish and concerned with themselves. Even here, the conversation/issues on PPD coming from men are nearly ALWAYS about how women have it easier when it comes to... you guessed it! Sex! It’s all most guys seem to care about and they will always always always put on a show and pretend to be the most open and understanding guy in the world until they get you in bed and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 10:45 AM |
| 7 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.Mmm no I never compared Hooters to child abuse. I’m not sure why you’re so vehemently defensive of hooters but go off lol. And yes private health insurance is one thing, it’s not what I’m talking about.. in my country, Germany, everyone is required by law to be registered with at the very least a public health insurance company and it is paid for from your wages. If you don’t have a job, the government pays for it. Private health insurance is for upper middle class to wealthy and it’s only incre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:47 PM |
| 16 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.It’s cool it was a good job and all, that isn’t really the whole point. It’s still, in essence, really negative towards women. The whole business model is based upon objectification and it inherently places a higher “value” on women with bigger/shapelier breasts than women without. It essentially discriminates against women that don’t and solidifies the idea in men’s minds that women enjoy the male gaze, especially when they’re scantily clad and all smiles. Tbh everything you’ve mentioned should… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:16 AM |
| 33 | Almost burnt outOh man I used to say I’m sorry so much. Maybe it’s because I’m Canadian (jokes) But I’ve really made an effort to roll it back. I feel like I used to say sorry so constantly even in the most innocuous situations to the point I’d even had people tell me to stop saying sorry too much. It was insecurity to a huge degree, I was afraid people would leave me or hate me and I never wanted to impose on someone even slightly so I’d just spit out a sorry in passing as a kind of self defense against potent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏My boyfriends’ friend said to me recently “you and your sister are identically pretty, it’s just that she’s more attractive because she’s shorter”. I’m 5’9, she’s 5’7 and my boyfriend and his friend are both 6’0. I really didn’t want to care but it’s hard to hear something like that and think “ok does that explain some things?”. Her and I are just one year apart and really close like, absolute best friends but we’ve been getting compared to each other by everyone our entire lives because we’re j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromThe men truly putting in the effort are rarely the ones complaining in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 12 | The 🎇a u d a c i t y🎇Lol my friend was like this. I went on a date once and the guy was terrible. Tried to make fun of my music taste the entire time (he thought his country jazz or whatever the fuck it was the pinnacle of music taste) then when we got to the bar it was pretty full and we found a spot and I was like “I’ll sit here and reserve it” and he was like “no, let’s go order first” and I was confused like ok... might lose this spot but whatever. We get to the bar and he orders a beer and I ordered a water. Ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Women and gynomorphismLol wtf. Maybe in America 🤷🏻♀️I’m in Europe and have a lot of friends my age that live alone. Men here tend to keep their flats tidy and in order. And I have several friends who are constantly adding or building new shit around their flats, (lamps out of bicycle frames, LED’s taped behind furniture, wooden boards with various things drilled in, loads of plants). One friend in particular just ended two relationships with both girls mega into him because he wanted to focus on himself and he is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends?That’s fair too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends?I mean it’s not just abuse. It’s unsavory experiences. It’s mistakes you make in your sexual life because you’re young and you’re not experienced or secure or mostly, disciplined enough to say “nah. That’s uncool”. People make mistakes as they’re growing into their sexual identity or sexual morals and I feel like going over these mistakes and discussing the circumstances related to them with someone you trust more than anyone with an air of empathy and opening a conversation of why it happened a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends?Crazy to hear that since I’m 100 percent the opposite. I know it will hurt to hear at certain points but I’d rather feel that hurt full on and out of the way at the beginning so that I’m not shocked by anything down the line. The first bit was hard but now we’ve developed such an intense honesty and openness that I trust him with my life and nothing anyone could possibly say about him would shock me. I wouldn’t be able to live with a huge question mark between us regarding ANYTHING. If I have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 11:02 PM |
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