andthomcar Archive

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3	Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women? I completely understand where you are coming from. I think it can vary somewhat based on the culture you live in but the specific dynamics of my childhood/early adulthood seem much more apparent to me in retrospect. I want to say that I am not implying that these things are true of every individual. I believe that they are better looked at as the implied cultural expectation put on people, especially where I grew up. Individuals respond differently and have different experiences that shape who t…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 06:34 PM
2	An appeal to all the feminist/anti-MRA lurkers here Ideologies are useful tools but should not be treated as some sort of all illuminating system that reveals the one true nature or structure of the world. Many of the axioms set forth by any of these ideologies are not foundationally true but that doesn't discredit that value that each of them can provide. Instead of adopting dogmatic absolutist worldviews that seek to boil our entire reality down to a digestible and consistent set of axioms we need to recognize that every person experience shape…	/r/MensRights	09/11/21 07:02 PM
1	The Female dating strategy sub has plagued my mind The good news is that you are not trying to date "women" as a whole. You are just trying to find a woman who you like and a relationship that will work for you. The problem with looking at groups of such large numbers is that you can find whatever you are looking for. Just like the women in FDS, if you are trying to find examples of men or women to validate the belief that they are terrible then there will be no shortage. However if you are trying to find a woman who doesn't hold toxic beliefs o…	/r/MensRights	13/10/21 07:56 PM
15	“Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcast It's ironic that they are promoting Jordan Peterson when even he doesn't support their claim. The issue has never been that we don't know why kids become school shooters, it's that is difficult to address the issues. Some of the more prominent school shooters have left manifestos or suicide notes that detail exactly where their head was at and none of them said "I was a happy, healthy kid until I got rejected by a woman." It's just rampant confirmation bias. They started by forming the conclusio…	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 05:02 PM
5	Are shit tests real and something you have to pass? People in general desire reassurance and validation. "Does this dress make me look fat" is a common way to ask for reassurance. Especially in a way that isn't 100% obvious. If a woman asked her husband "Do you think I look good?" then them answering yes does not feel as genuine as phrasing it in a more roundabout way where the answer they are looking for is "No, of course not. You look amazing". It's basically an attempt to get validation without "leading the witness" per say. Of course it is …	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/21 05:34 PM
3	The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that? One of the problems with ideologies is that they try to simplify reality down to a single point. The issue is that reality is too varied and messy to be encapsulated in grand generalizing statements. In reality, there are so many different people out there that you can find whatever you are looking for. There are millions of women out there who may embody everything TRP is claiming but there are also millions of women who are none of that and everything in between. If you are looking for someone…	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/21 07:06 PM
12	WHAT IS AN ALTERNATIVE? Ideology is inherently tribal. The best alternative is to not rely on an ideology.	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/21 03:13 PM
6	A GIRL'S COMMENT ABOUT THE MGTOW THAT NO MGTOW KNEW ANSWER. MGTOW is basically just externalization. There are billions of people on this earth and about half of them are women. If they're looking for someone to validate their evil female archetype then they will find it. If they spent time looking for someone that had the characteristics they actually desired in a romantic partner then they could find that too. It's easy to paint themselves as a victim because basically everyone has felt victimized at one point or another. Except once they pin all blame…	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/21 09:05 PM
1	then one who cares the least has the most power. Don’t confuse the lack of venerability with power. The only thing it means is that it’s easier to detach. For the sake of argument, let’s say power actually is the pinnacle of human fulfillment and happiness, what kind of power does it give you? You’re not going to sway hearts and minds without passion. Not caring isn’t going to help make you physically stronger. It won’t give you money or status. It won’t give you fame or expertise. I would in fact argue that detachment displays a lack of coura…	/r/ExRedPill	28/01/21 02:27 AM
6	The concept about n count is a bunch of absolute garbage Here is some science saying it doesn't cause autism. I'd like to read the papers that say it does.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/21 03:33 PM
9	I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynistic I think you have a few points but have come to the wrong conclusions. It is easier for women to find someone to simply have sex with. I also completely understand the insecurity of feeling like you are not attractive. It feels like attractive women have an innate power over you just because of the way they look. It is frustrating to have that feeling about women while also feeling like you can’t do that to anyone. It creates a power dynamic that plays directly off one of your biggest insecuritie…	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/20 03:33 PM
16	Rush Limbaugh displays the tiniest glimmer of sadness over dying from cancer and is berated for doing so. Men should be able to express their emotions, and being socially demonized by doing so even when faced with your own death is a problem. I think it's important to not let Rush Limbaugh set our moral standards. It's not okay that he was a piece of shit but he is a human being and I think it is a good thing to have empathy for his suffering.	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 04:29 PM
51	Tweet of the year Almost any comment about a group of people like this is a straw man. That’s the intrinsic problem with discussing a group of people instead of individuals or specific ideas. You can pick and choose the ideas and characteristics that you want to represent the entire group. This is especially apparent when the groups are very large or it’s not a group that you specifically choose to join. That’s why every feminist is portrayed as a radical third wave feminist and every men’s rights activists is po…	/r/MensRights	08/12/18 05:31 PM