andyhura Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Is there any guy suffering like me? This is either satire or you’re so far in the closet you haven’t realized you’re inside a closet	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/22 01:46 PM
5	Guys iam absolute loser and i need your advice Your self esteem is shot to shit, read the six pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Brandon. I feel like that should be the first place to start. Then, realize you are not a product of your environment but a product of your fears, do the shit that scares you/makes you anxious, because growth lies outside the walls of comfort edit: fixed wording problem	/r/seduction	14/10/22 09:35 AM
-2	How to let girls know u broke broke? Why don’t you choose the spot on your dates?	/r/seduction	06/10/22 04:41 AM
4	I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there. What ever happened to bros before hoes? Sounds like you need better friends man	/r/seduction	09/09/22 01:29 PM
1	Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else? You gotta look at what’s being communicated non verbally	/r/seduction	22/08/22 07:12 PM
1	You're only fooling yourself - smoking w**d/drugs are the shittiest way to lose frame. Period. I can’t gain weight without it as I lack the appetite to eat sufficiently for my bulk. I smoke when I bulk, and stop when I cut. It’s a wonderful tool for me.	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/22 02:11 PM
1	7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me? Every failure puts you one step closer to success	/r/seduction	16/08/22 04:53 AM
2	How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance? Models is also amazing, I suggest reading both as they contain different material The subtle art of not giving a fuck gives you the perspective you need to not give a fuck, and models gives you almost literally the model to get women	/r/seduction	12/08/22 03:59 PM
3	How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance? The problem is you’re letting EMOTIONS drive your actions instead of logic. Understand your emotions are not always the best course of action, just your bodies subconscious guess at how it thinks to handle the situation based on your past. Put your emotions to the side and stick with LOGIC.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:11 PM
6	How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance? Came to comment this . Read the book the subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark manson. Helped me tremendously	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:10 PM
3	Have you noticed you’re assessing her when you’re talking to her? Stop. You’re just having a conversation. I think you should assess everyone you talk to, but don’t overdue it’s so much where you are not engaged in the conversation	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:19 PM
-1	After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction? Next time say “your perception of me is a reflection of you” and walk away smiling	/r/seduction	20/07/22 11:23 AM
1	She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next step Threesome!	/r/seduction	20/07/22 08:57 AM
3	In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions? Just make observations about her and then make statements about what you observe	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:15 AM
5	Sitting outside a bar I like. Afraid to go in because of a waitress I asked out “If you pedestalize a woman she has no choice but to look down on you”	/r/seduction	19/06/22 02:28 AM
3	How do I stop being a virgin loser? Read these three books The six pillars of self esteem - Nathaniel Brandon Models - Mark Manson No more mr nice guy - Robert Glover They contain everything I think you may need.	/r/seduction	17/06/22 08:47 PM
2	Tip for men to better appeal/relate to women (from a woman) Basically have good communication skills	/r/seduction	15/05/22 02:53 AM
13	I feel like I am down bad for real and want to get up. Read the six pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Brandon. Amazing book, there’s a free audiobook on YouTube. It will help you forge a path in which you can work on yourself instead of aiming blindly.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 05:05 PM
2	Is there a place I can find examples of successful texts with girls? My texting game is A1, but I agree, only speak logistics over the phone if you’re not good at it	/r/seduction	08/05/22 03:30 PM
4	So confused Definitely oneitis. If a girl really likes you, she’ll make it easy for you.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 11:45 AM
10	How to get to the sex stage ? Make it sexual without expecting sex if that makes any sense Edit: and now that I read your post thoroughly, you don’t get straight to the point about sex. It’s the underlying subtext of a conversation more often than not. Usually a girl wants to feel like sex just naturally happened, trying to logically set it up will usually end in failure. Happy hunting’s ma boi	/r/seduction	08/05/22 09:44 AM
1	Texting my Crush Nah bro, be bold. If she doesn’t like you that’s okay. You’ll learn that yourself over time. Face the world with your chest out unafraid of rejection. You will find that you thrive better that way. If you treat her like a friend you will get just that back. If you’re open with your intentions while being real and respectful, you’ll get better results.	/r/seduction	07/05/22 09:02 PM
5	After 4 years of being TRP-aware, I finally pulled the trigger and did my first cold approach. Most liberating feeling ever. “Be the change you wish to see in the world” Start doing it yourself and maybe someone you know will be inspired to follow in your path	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/22 05:43 PM
2	Low self esteem is killing me and I don’t know what the fuck I’m meant to do Read the six pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Brandon	/r/seduction	28/04/22 12:28 PM
2	I’m gonna start working out. If you’re having trouble gaining weight this means you absolutely need to start tracking calories and figure out your maintenance calories. A caloric surplus is what will make you gain weight. Aim for high protein with each meal, in combo w the gym you will slowly watch your body transform how you wish. There’s plenty detailed breakdowns on YouTube	/r/seduction	13/04/22 01:11 PM
1	It's time i admit it: I suck with women, and i don't know how i can change that Your self esteem seems like it needs a serious checking. It very likely rubs off on people and nobody is attracted to someone with a lower self esteem than their own. Read The six pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Brandon. Here’s a link to a free audiobook https://youtu.be/mfFUVnwCNVY Also read No more mr nice guy - Robert Glover https://youtu.be/XYEFPar4D6E And Models by Mark Manson (No free link for this one so I’ll add another link of a book I also liked by him - The subtle art of not givin…	/r/seduction	20/03/22 10:00 AM
3	How can I truly work on my self-esteem? Read the book the six pillars of self esteem. Has everything you need.	/r/seduction	17/03/22 05:26 AM
1	Took the courage to talk to someone i found attractive today! I meant approaching in general, as the more consistent you are with it the easier it remains. If you approach once every 3 months it may still be very difficult. If you see her again sure strike up another convo and see what happens. Escalate, and remember, rejection is your friend, not your enemy. Rejection filters out the girls that you don’t want (why would you want someone that doesn’t want you). Also every rejection you get is a step closer to success.	/r/seduction	09/03/22 08:59 PM
1	Took the courage to talk to someone i found attractive today! Good stuff homie! Don’t forget to keep the ball rolling, as it’s easier with momentum	/r/seduction	09/03/22 02:10 PM
28	How to respond ,when you notice a girl staring at you ? “You can’t look at me like that and not say hi”	/r/seduction	08/03/22 07:24 PM
3	I’d like to approach girls but I have a thick accent You’re actions are being ruled by fear and anxiety. Move forward with courage and confidence instead, and if you do get turned down because of your accent (unlikely though) look at it as a good thing. Why would you want a woman who doesn’t like your accent anyways? Instead of thinking “I hope she’ll like me” think to yourself “I hope I like her” and weed out the ones you don’t. Success is determined how well you deal with failure	/r/seduction	19/02/22 01:15 AM
1	Is it a good idea to put myself in a situation with a big potential for awkwardness just to get out of my comfort zone? It's a party where everyone but me is the same ethnicity, I don't know most of them and there's a girl there I like whose probably gonna be hit on by a ton of guys. “Feed me to the wolves and I’ll come back leading the pack” scoop your nuts and DO IT. There is no greater fear than fear itself	/r/seduction	19/02/22 12:32 AM
0	Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy? If it’s a big part of feeling good for you, you might be seeking validation through sex. It’s just not that important in the grand scheme of things. It’s really just an endless side quest to life	/r/seduction	17/02/22 08:22 PM
2	How to deal with rejection? Yeah lmao, it’s about applying what you’ve read	/r/seduction	15/02/22 06:34 PM
3	How to deal with rejection? You’re invested too much in others’ opinion of you. Your success is based on your ability to handle rejection. The better you can understand how to invest in your own opinion of yourself vs that of others, will take the pressure off you mentally. Read the subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark Manson. Then when you’ve internalized that, read models by mark Manson. Two great books with what you need to know in changing you and attracting what you want. I think the audiobooks are free on YouTube	/r/seduction	15/02/22 12:06 PM
2	What's the worst pick up line / interaction that shouldn't have worked but did? You fucking legend	/r/seduction	10/02/22 11:39 PM
3	My first cold approach Now go do it again :)	/r/seduction	10/02/22 11:12 AM
2	Self improving but still no results with women, now what? Read the books models by Mark Manson and no more mr nice guy by Robert glover. These two will help you immensely in doing some introspective work as to why you may not be getting the results you want	/r/seduction	04/02/22 02:38 PM
38	Some Great Eye Opening Quotes From, "The Manipulated Man." A Book Which Was Written By A Woman. Oh fuck… these are good. Some hit a little too close to home. Gonna have to buy this book	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/22 10:27 PM
2	Here's my big sticking point. I need 'openers' to help with cognitive behavior therapy for my social anxiety disorder. You have to rip the bandaid off bro. Take small steps sure, but you need to soon take bigger steps to continue to overcome your anxiety or you’ll be stuck. You have to show the girl you’re confident for her to like you, even if you’re not. If she senses you’re very shy or beating around the bush, it more often than not will get you nowhere. You’ll get quicker results in beating that social anxiety by saying things that would typically not be the thing you want to say. Just be honest, and tell th…	/r/seduction	03/02/22 12:04 PM
2	I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life…. So go get up and make a change! You see the things that hindered your growth, so change that. You’re still young homie, don’t let your potential die out	/r/seduction	29/01/22 06:38 PM
-5	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring Saying you were too young for her was her shit testing you	/r/seduction	21/01/22 01:19 PM
1	[deleted by user] Hit the gym and read the book no more mr nice guy. There’s a free audiobook on YouTube	/r/seduction	19/01/22 12:09 AM
8	My Ex gf reached out.. You said in the post she dumped you and then reached out to you after 2 weeks. Your story is all over the place man	/r/seduction	16/01/22 11:07 PM
1	I’m a 25year old male and I’ve never attracted a single woman in my life. How do I stop myself from feeling so bitter and salty about this? You speak down on yourself and I’m sure that shows in how you carry yourself. Work on yourself physically ofcorse, but also improve your self esteem. If you are confident in yourself it will show and that is a major part of attraction. I suggest watching this guy https://youtu.be/z0pZ_iUiXzc	/r/seduction	12/01/22 01:06 AM
4	If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women? People need love man, till they realize it’s not the one they want, sadly	/r/seduction	14/12/21 12:32 PM
11	Masculinity and guns I understand what you’re getting at but a dude is not necessarily masculine because he has an AK-47. It makes him ‘dangerous’ not masculine	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/21 10:46 AM
15	Life is a Process of Trying on Different Hats Hello Andy, I’m also Andy. Thanks for the post, I needed it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/21 12:00 AM
32	Stop saying Alpha and Beta! Focus on developing masculine traits. I think it’s become synonymous that people now refer to alpha at the man who’s acquired his masculine traits and a beta is someone who hasn’t	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/21 04:57 PM
1	Should I [M 20] give my ex [F 20] more space, or put in more effort She’s using you for attention till she’s on to the next guy it seems bro	/r/seduction	12/08/21 07:43 AM
1	Does looks matter? My thoughts Looks matter, but it’s not everything. Just like with sex, dick size matters, but it’s not everything. Edit: changed my wording.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 10:06 AM
1	How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for? Stop living with a scarcity mindset and you won’t feel this way	/r/seduction	07/08/21 03:53 PM
5	How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for? Stop living with a scarcity mindset and you won’t feel this way	/r/seduction	07/08/21 03:53 PM
10	How to not be a nice guy online? You’re letting your fears guide you. Learn to conquer that by continuously doing that which makes you feel uncomfortable until it becomes a regular thing	/r/seduction	13/07/21 04:51 PM