aneedhelpaccount Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Never tell a man about your past! Literally young enough to be his kid	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 04:51 PM
1	She had me in the first half 😂 Honestly a guy being poor if he works hard is one thing—not everyone comes from a background where they can be well-off no matter how much they work. But even a guy with a less-than-stellar job can have a nice clean house with actual furniture and a car and be an attentive and giving and caring partner. 100% of the time in my experience mattress-on-the-floor guys have been awful partners. It says so much about them. Whether it’s being lazy in the relationship or expecting the partner to clean al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 06:54 PM
34	These men don't deserve a glance, let alone WIVES. To be fair the cleansing cloths were the nicest way she could go about this, telling somebody to clean their shitty ass must be difficult and I hope I never have to do it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 06:52 AM
5	Let's share the best and worst gifts we have ever received from a man. What discerns a LVM/NVM from a HVM in terms of gift giving? Worst: four years with somebody who typically got me nothing, but third year together he got me a book, fourth year he got me a $35 practice amp off craigslist that he stole back when we broke up, along with my bass that I bought. Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 01:43 AM
12	New red flag I won’t ignore: if his ex (or ex’s) blocked him, you probably should too. Yup. If his prior relationships were healthy, and truly just ended due to differences, he won’t be talking about exes like they were demons from hell. He might have one or two truly bad relationships, but if they were all “crazy” run like hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 06:13 AM
1	No surprise here ladies. When I was 18 I went to a debate he did with a pastor who runs a charity to help women out of the porn industry. I remember thinking Ron Jeremy was a decent guy because he donated his earnings from this debate tour to the pastor’s organization. Honestly I was more surprised then thinking that he was a “good guy,” and not very surprised at this revelation. Porn actors in general consist of women who’ve been so fucked up by predatory men harassing them (or worse) from a young age that they think m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 03:26 AM
1	What exactly is a healthy relationship? They exist although I honestly believe they’re exceedingly rare. My current partner is a dream—but it took like ten years of abusive or one-sided relationships with SEVERELY low-value men (I’m talking like, a dude I took care of financially who was terrible in bed, a dude who threatened to literally murder me multiple times, and a dude who used to compare me to his gay female best friend constantly and unfavorably. Not to mention the guys with so many horrific red flags we never had a relationsh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/20 03:10 AM
41	What exactly is a healthy relationship? Does he listen without getting angry or making it about him and his feelings if you express hurt or discomfort or when you set a boundary? Does he actually show real interest in you and your career and hobbies? Does he understand the “girly” things or does he belittle them? Does he do his share of the boring stuff? Chores, bill paying, etc. Does he go out of his way to do nice sweet things for you daily, like remembering your favorite coffee and bringing it to you, leaving a sweet note, basicall…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 10:09 PM
3	When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXT Either that or he’s lying to you to try to pretend you’re the only woman he’s “ever really cared about.” I think this is a massive red flag. I’ve had men try to pull this shit and it just screams misogyny and they don’t even know it. Like, being hung up on an ex is bad, but refusing to acknowledge you’re a human with a history and acknowledge where you went wrong in past relationships that started off good is also a red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 08:31 PM
2	Another day, another woman with standards is shamed by LVM and Pick Me’s They’re actually pretty comfortable. It’s like an assertive wedgie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 08:03 PM