| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How do men feel about women texting them first? | Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broad | aneptuniangrl | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 03:26 PM |
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| 1 | [21F] how do you become a challenge for a guy who likes a challenge?Got it | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | [21F] how do you become a challenge for a guy who likes a challenge?I wouldn’t say a serious relationship…3 weeks max and I’d be okay | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | [21F] how do you become a challenge for a guy who likes a challenge?a bit confusing what ur saying but I’m hearing just be myself | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Girls when they are drunkThis is a good mindset. There have been times when I was drunk and I realized dudes tried to take advantage of my lower inhibitions. It’s not cool at all and typically lands them in hot water. More guys should think like you. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 04:40 PM |
| -22 | How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem?LMFAOOOoooo | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 0 | What to talk about with a girl on a date?Well one, don’t use the term females when referring to women. It separates you even further from understanding they are human beings. Two, if ur compatible with someone u can virtually talk about anything and they will respond. I find myself talking less and less bc I don’t care to talk to ppl I’m not really interested in. Maybe seek out talkative women that will fill in the blanks where u can’t. If ur compatible with her, u will find the energy to talk. What I noticed guys barely do nowadays is… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The possible nature of the black womanThe title is not it. Sounds like ur not treating them like human beings. Anyways, I fear any woman who is defensive asf is afraid you’ll kill them. End of story | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?Ignore her brother! | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever appropriate to approach girls on my college campus?I agree doing it while walking on campus might go bad if she has somewhere to be | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women with parentsLiterally. It’s very embarrassing and tasteless | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:16 AM |
| 8 | What do older women find attractive/sexy about men? (Not older but I’m going to assume the libido | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it a turn off to women if you have no social life/no friends?No it’s not that deep but it depends on how u say it. U say it miserably and she’ll think ur a loser but if ur cool about it then what’s there to not like? | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 02:54 AM |
| 21 | Anyone else feels whenever a girl is comfortable/very friendly around you, she likely isn’t romantically interested ?Eh feelings are too fluid to place them in a yes/no box. Sometimes yes it’s true if I’m overly friendly to a guy I just met, it’s bc I don’t find myself attracted to him in a romantic way. But there are guys that make me feel extremely comfortable around them and I have a crush on them for that. Typically guys that I cannot be myself around even if I’m attracted to them are not the right ones for me. So it’s definitely fluid. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How to Proceed?Idk when it comes to guys on dating apps asking to see me and I’ve known them for like a day or so it always turns me off. I’d have to chat for at least a week to really know if I’m comfortable. And if I sext u, leave it in the app. Respectfully | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a baddie on Tinder but I fucked up.Tinder burnout is real and u are probably 1 out of 100 guys who have shot their shot. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 13 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsShe probably didn’t want u to kill her | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree. Looking for a good sext. Don’t ruin it by asking To meet | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to look for and grasp the subtle signs women show?Those are our obvious subtle hints. I feel like most women are very subtle with how they pull moves bc were taught the man makes the first move. Some will outright tell u they’re attracted but for others we use our body language to show attraction. If you study body language from videos and books and real life experience I promise it will make u learn if ur making a woman uncomfortable or interested | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 9 | How to look for and grasp the subtle signs women show?Women do games too and line you up for YOU to make the first move. But you’ll know bc of body language. They will allow u into their personal space and look at ur face. If ur talking and having a convo and you see their eyes roaming your face and ur lips that’s a sign. They lean into you. If u guys brush arms or legs or something and they don’t remove themselves that’s another hint. The way we talk, we can plant seeds in ur head (if the girl has game). | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 01:56 PM |
| 5 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):This is Reddit not the fucking SAT | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 02:25 AM |
| 0 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Boo 👎 | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 02:24 AM |
| -10 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Ur giving me pedophilia vibes honestly and so very ignorant. Ur entitled to ur opinion but it is a dumb one | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 9 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):False once again and highly misogynistic still. This is not a biological fact. It’s probably a common opinion amongst men but not a fact. Do you know how many women have a high sex drive over 30-40? Do you know how many women are 30+ and still get mistaken for being in their 20’s? Like if anything one can say men peak before women bc their dicks stop working by themselves once they hit 50 | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 10:37 PM |
| 27 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Highly misgynostic and hypocritical. The OP point was to stop romanticizing youth and u add something to boost the self esteem of guys while making women feel like shit for getting older. I know this forum is mostly for men but damn. Women don’t peak at 25. That’s why there are 29 yr old women feeling like shit bc they should have it all when they’re still young asf too. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 07:42 PM |
| -1 | Lose interest to girls when they start liking meMaybe ur not entirely straight? | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | 10 Points To Myself | Feedback from Exposure TherapyWhy not? We know how girls think and what they talk about in group conversations. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityPlease let them know | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 0 | 10 Points To Myself | Feedback from Exposure TherapyI read every post men make everyday on this sub. If you treated us like u we’re trying to make a friend, you would get far. And Number 7, what u say still matters. And if ur going to be brutally honest, u better have shit going for u or ur feelings is going to get hurt. You can’t walk up to a girl and say I want u and have nothing but penis to offer. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 0 | If you’re a “nice guy”, I would strongly consider not getting married. Here’s why:It’s not about being a nice guy they’re NOT INTO YOU AND ARE BEING NICE ABOUT IT. You could be kind asf but if nothings there it ain’t there. U sound butt hurt, i hope you move on from whoever hurt u | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for shifting your mindset away from girls?Also join sports at school if u want a distraction. This will keep u in shape and u may pick up girls bc u play basketball or football or something. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Any advice for shifting your mindset away from girls?Guys. U either have game or u don’t. Befriend girls ur age bc theyre feening for boyfriends. U take one on a day show ur manners and respect and if u feel insanely attracted and she feels the same (she’s allow u to be in her space, touching u while talking, hooded eyes etc.) ask if u can kiss her or lead ur conversation into sexual or ROMANTIC territory. Ur living a different life from ur brother so stop comparing urself. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Talking to girls at work(food & beverage)I agree this way if they’re up for convo they will talk more and if they’re not cruising for dudes they would just “okay” you | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 04:21 AM |
| 4 | In need of advice and a pep talkBro go be miserable elsewhere. Find a job | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | In need of advice and a pep talkTake time to be single and appreciate urself again and then enter a relationship when ur comfortable | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Moves after grinding in the clubAsking for their snap or Instagram or number. If not move on. Sometimes we don’t want to get to know the guy we made out with drunk last night. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 6 | My 3 year dry spell ended last nightWhy give him sex if he’s not going to be any good at it? We’ve got to at least like u so there’s something in it for us. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 7 | My 3 year dry spell ended last nightGuys Women always expect u to make the first move. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Whats up boys, I want to tell you about my first date in a while.She might’ve been nervous. I give weird side hugs too and she doesn’t want to give u the wrong impression that she wants sex just yet which is why she didn’t send any sexual signals to you | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in public transport that are wearing headphones?As a girl who wears headphones, it’s annoying when ppl talk to me with them on or ask me to take them off | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to approach a group of girls on the street?Slightly difficult bc it depends on where ur at, and what ur doing. I think you said u were 17 so it’s completely normal to ask their ages up until like 25 bc u want to make sure nobody is underage. Just seem super friendly and ask like three questions before u directly shoot ur shot at the girl u want. U could ask where they’re from if u care, what school they go to, u could even be honest and say ur nervous talking to them. They might be like aw it’s okay bc I know I respect guys who can come … | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to approach a group of girls on the street?Say hey guys, my name is blah blah and i think u guys are pretty, do u mind if I know ur names? Or if it’s at night ask them what they getting into. Tap into ur player ways bro | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Got the cheekNoooooooo if she cared for u to know she broke her phone she would’ve said it directly to you | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Tips on how to approach a group of girls on the street?I agree with building a rapport with all the girls bc some guys try to cut the girl they want off from her friends but it’s actually super rude. I’ve had guys stand right in front of me to talk to my friends. Very rude and makes the girl uncomfortable sometimes. Now Girls in groups are always going to be cautious bc of safety reasons so be chill use small talk compliment them all but with the girl u like give her the most eye contact her friends will notice from this that u like her the most. Th… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Is being too horny a bad thing?Flirt with him directly. Much body language and googly eyes. He’ll get the picture | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Do women enjoy giving head ?I hate it so much. It’s so much work and painful after 5 mins. I have moved to only doing it for people I genuinely have feelings for and want to please. I get why she may find it disgusting because dicks leave a smell on ur upper lip that is just... Plus it can feel degrading. It’s a full time job. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 5 | How would you seamlessly lead a conversation to innocent flirting?This is a hard question because you have to know their flirting style. Teasing is how I flirt. If you feel the energy is playful, start lightly teasing her. Maybe tease her sneakers and if she laughs and says something like omg stoppp, say ur kidding and compliment her. a LIGHT compliment. You don’t want to blow ur cover too soon. Something that could be taken innocently but still rings a bell in her head. Innocent sexual innuendos work too for me. It’s more of a bolder approach but if u say the… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best thing someone has ever told you that made you feel attracted to them?When they’re upset with their partner they communicate to work it out | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 7 | why do girls upload a lot more of selfies or picture of themselves in their stories than males?Women like looking and feeling pretty. I would say honestly as a girl who does this, there is a healthy dose of narcissism. But when you’re young and pretty, you want to document it so when you’re old, you really appreciated how you looked. Or at least that’s why I take so many pictures of myself. It’s not really about validation for all of us. Plus can you blame girls if it is? We grow up with strict beauty standards slapped onto us and dream of our best selves. When we reach that, we want to s… | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 9 | Direct Game - Being Brutally Honest and Telling a Girl You're Attracted to HerI wish more guys would do this honestly. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For in Girls)This post is trash. The girls who are time wasters are women who respect themselves and don’t want to fuck a random guy on tinder who’s probably not even good at sex anyways. This post is low vibrational as fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 05:18 PM |
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