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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 623 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.Me watching The Office preFDS: I love Jim, I wish I could find a man that treats me as well as he treats Pam!! 😍 Me watching The Office postFDS: Karen was right to leave Jim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | “I don’t remember ordering my relationship off the a-la-carte menu” 💀Yes! I think there is some good aspects to the love language theory. As a tool for self-reflection, it can have some merit. But, as when anything goes mainstream, the bottom 10% will change the intention and context and ruin it for everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Do you, ladies!Kinda looks like Joss Whedon to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?I’m so sorry! You deserve better friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?Fair enough, I guess that’s the point 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 9 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?Too funny and too true 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 6 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?I’m so sorry you had to go through that, but I’m glad to know that person and their toxicity is no longer in your life. Sounds like a good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:51 PM |
| 12 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?I find that so sad too. And while I’m grateful more young women are interested in self-improvement and working up to be high-value, I don’t foresee that men will do the same to keep up. And will still feel entitled to a woman who totally eclipses him. I’m afraid for what men will do in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?Thank you for sharing! I’m going through a very similarly situation with a particular friend, which inspired this post. She got a new job and is currently dating a married man, and didn’t even tell me either thing until I found out on social media. But evidently she tells another friend of ours despite us all three being close, or so I thought anyway. It does hurt to think she’s holding back from me, but at the same time I’m thinking of encouraging it because her consistent bad choices demonstra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 9 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Her username is laurenhopelark ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:57 AM |
| 84 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Oh that’s my bad! I interpreted “nah, sis” in the context of not accepting crap. I changed it to “lies men tell.” I need to refresh myself on the flairs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 191 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”I guess if they’re both not worried about it... 🤢couldn’t be us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Cell Phone Tango part 6!You can find them on Tik Tok! You can search the username SugarCoatedSisters ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:23 PM |
| 94 | Cell Phone Tango part 6!Parts 3-5 aren’t FDS-themed, but they can be found on TikTok by user @sugarcoatedsisters if you’re interested! This one is reason why you don’t put all your eggs in one basket and don’t do anything before a commitment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on The Five Love LanguagesMy love language is consistent thoughtfulness and effort. Which imo translates best in Acts of Service and Quality Time because it’s harder for a LVM to fake long-term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍That sounds like a lovely night and I might just steal your idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍That is a very good point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:42 AM |
| 7 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍Aww thank you for finding it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | My first hate Mail! Anyone else get this message from this guy?My mistake! Thank you for letting me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 3 | My first hate Mail! Anyone else get this message from this guy?It doesn’t even make sense either. FDS teaches us to stay away from Chad so we don’t get used! I don’t get his point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 5 | My first hate Mail! Anyone else get this message from this guy?Right?! That’s my goal tbh! Better than settling for shitty men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Honestly I need a full series of this: a modern Cell Block TangoLove this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."That’s what I was thinking! Like I’ve never been drunk to the point of blacking out before, but I was always aware of what I was doing. It’s a poor excuse for showing disrespect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 3 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!The level-up goal!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 3 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!Believe me I ask myself that all the time 🤣 when you think that a guy can’t get more busted looking than that, BAM the universe has to prove you wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:57 AM |
| 7 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!Love it! 🤣 and 9 times out of ten it is definitely beer goggles lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 9 | If you don’t feel it ladies, don’t settle. Trust your gut.“I’m not being liked in the manner I prefer” is going to become my inner mantra. It’s justification enough to end something when CoMmUnIcAtIoN doesn’t work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:53 PM |
| 15 | Daily Reminder: A man’s sexual attraction to you means nothing.Very apt reminder for me today, thank you ❤️ I made a comment on another recent post about struggling with not liking a dude but still having an inner PickMeisha conflict about him finding me attractive stated in a 2am drunk text.... this is everything I needed to hear to shut that PickMeisha voice up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 10 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!I’m getting to that point tbh! Thankfully some of those friends are slowly leveling up, so there’s potential. But you can’t help someone who isn’t interested in helping themselves or has to learn the hard-way more than once or twice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:45 PM |
| 51 | If only these existed 👀FDS helps you take off the rose-colored glasses and use these instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 23 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."Needed this today, perfect timing! A dude I work with/aquatinted messaged me at two in the morning last night, drunk, saying he has always found me cute and he’s into my “body shape and all” (I’m plus sized and his exes are thinner than average) and said he’s open to ruining our friendship if I’m interested. I obviously told him no, don’t message me like this again, and that comment is insulting. He apologized and blamed it on being blacked out. I know best practice is block and delete, but sinc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 39 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!I’m using her as a litmus test for any future guys from now on! If they pass mom and dad, they still gotta get through her. She humors no man. I hope we all can have a friend like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 44 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!For context: before I found FDS I was “being nice” to a guy that looked like an uglier, porn-addicted version of Post Malone. We Trauma Bonded emotionally (never physically thank GOD), but it caused me to do mental gymnastics regarding his disgusting behavior. To keep it short, this dude, who said I was his best friend and we established we wouldn’t date, would then tell me when he was horny and whether he was craving ass or pussy. Those. Exact. Words. 🤢 I ghosted him shortly after. My friend ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:04 PM |
| 281 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -“Unless a guy shows interest in your hobbies/goals/interests, he’s low value.” Love how black-and-white, and very true, this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:05 PM |
| 6 | “The only thing you can offer me is your last name, and that’s also probably your mother’s.”I took it the same way as you! And definitely the shame imposed on single mothers belongs on the father that left. I think we can all agree on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Mood for lifeHe tried to be so belittling and she just shut him down. I wish I could manifest just half of her energy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 14 | i felt this one deep within my soulI know exactly what you’re talking about! I never understood why women were always perceived as chatterboxes and men as stoic and silent. That has never been the case in my experience and it was so exciting to find empirical evidence that backs it up! I bet there’s hundreds of male scientists trying to refute that study lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 155 | i felt this one deep within my soulLiterally have never met a man that could shut up. Not one. And they say women talk too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 2 | A very simple example of the difference between liberal feminism and FDS feminism. Body positivity is great, but women are more than their bodies.I like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 160 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Your comment has helped validate my decision to stay a virgin until I have a commitment from a HVM. I’m 28 and many of my friends are surprised I haven’t had an intimate relationship with anyone yet. I’ve had plenty of opportunities, but I haven’t met a man I’m willing to be that vulnerable and intimate yet. And sometimes it makes me feel so far behind in life that I can’t relate to any of my friends. And FOMO because evidently sex is a huge part of life for so many people, and I’m curious what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:53 PM |
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