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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Is it a good idea to try to set up the second date before the first date ends?I would only take it as far as wrapping up the first date with "I had fun, we should go out again sometime" if they seem receptive to this and agree; text them in 1-2 days to make plans for a second date. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Consistently hanging out with a girl?As much as you're feeling self-conscious/hurt about the relationship conversation you had you need to play it cool. She knows where you are at and how you feel. You've said your part. If she does truly need time to process this you will know in time. If she is still dancing around making plans or seems uninterested perhaps she was alarmed by the relationship talk you guys had and is unsure of how to proceed. The best card you can play right now is indifference. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Made my first approach todayAs previously mentioned: set up a date ASAP. Try to keep the confidence from your initial pickup in your text. Give her the time and place to meet to minimize her effort. Congrats btw | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I want to compliment my crush's eyes while dancing with her, tell me howSure. You are over-analyzing this, man. Saying something like "you know, you have really beautiful eyes" and smiling is fine. Just don't make it sound rehearsed or forced and you're fine. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 06:39 PM |
| 11 | Why do some girls take their friends away when you approach in a club?I was kinda orbiting? This is most likely why. Girls will notice almost immediately when a guy is hovering and trying to make eye contact. The longer it occurs the more of a turnoff it is for them. An approach to a group should within seconds of locking eyes with a girl. I challenge you to try that next time you are in the club. You will see results. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl accepts offer to go on a date but then...Redirect the conversion back to going out together. "So how does (insert venue here) on Thursday sound?" and leave it at that. A lot of times girls on Tinder just want to be told time and place. Minimize her effort. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 08:16 PM |
| 2 | A different fear of rejectionI think you need to focus on self-confidence. That's what stands out most to me after reading this. The "nice guy" text is almost always spawned from a girl sensing that a guy is not confident in himself and starts to see him as weak or just a friend. You are overthinking the whole Snapchat thing as well. Even if you have to fake it, I challenge you to act like the most confident guy in the room the next time you go out with one of these girls. You will notice results. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 03:23 PM |
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