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| – | CMV: On the topics of "red pill women should avoid dating red pill men" vs "red pill men should avoid dating red pill women," the latter is more true, even though people are more likely to say the formerWhat you bring to the table was not about financially because obviously that would be slim to none depending on if you needed to actually work weekends. There are other relevant factors that play into getting into this kind of relationship. Being attractive. Having a good personality. Etc. The reality is men with money can use it as a tactic to have better options when it comes to choosing women. Female breadwinners even more so. Thus my point that you need to be bringing something to the table … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 04:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV: On the topics of "red pill women should avoid dating red pill men" vs "red pill men should avoid dating red pill women," the latter is more true, even though people are more likely to say the formerWait your flair is perfect! Changing mine immediately. Also he’s insanely petulant and this entire thread is a product of a conversation he started with me on another thread where I pissed him off because I stated that since I am the one birthing the children for my family my husband and I decided I get to choose if I want to work or not. And that the chances of him securing a woman who is a high enough earner to have him be a stay at home dad are slim and entirely dependent on what he brings to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 02:07 PM |
| – | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careI fully support you telling other men not to do that. Because any man who would want to do that isn’t listening to a man who can’t or doesn’t want to about anything. My husband doesn’t give a rats ass what other men think of how he chooses to support his family, and to be very real every single one of his best friends does the exact same thing. His very best friend makes so much his wife doesn’t work, and they are childfree by choice. She actually got bored so she got a job as a cart girl at a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid carewtf are you even talking about, you seriously have lost the plot. everyone can decide what’s best for them. absolutely. i’ve already decided for me, it’s my reality. and im not sure what your issue is. no one is forcing YOU to do anything. as for the “female loneliness epidemic” which i’ve literally never heard of before…. i am not personally experiencing anything of the sort. i’m sure there is loneliness for women and men. stating it as an epidemic seems like a way for you counter main stream m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careYou sounds angry. I think one’s worth is up to them to decide. I decided what childbirth meant for me. And doing it only solidified my position. And most of the women doing surrogacy aren’t doing it because they absolutely love it, a lot do it because it pays well. So that’s a weird argument. There are women out there who don’t have children and are just wives and don’t work, so yes I think bearing children for my husband has given me a life long pass at working because we both want it that way.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careChiming in since you replied to me. My husband is a very active father. He does make a lot of money, but he is active when he’s home with us. He’s not above dishes or chores. But he also outsources because his time is valuable and he would rather be spending it with us than doing extra work outside of his work. And I know that’s not the norm but it is reality too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careI never once said childcare is a woman’s job, it’s both of our jobs. But obviously as the stay at home parent I am the primary care giver. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careWhich is my entire point. Don’t have babies with men who don’t agree to that arrangement unless you are okay with that arrangement. I wouldn’t be. Sounds like OP is blaming men for being delulu when really signing up for that arrangement when you don’t agree with that arrangement is what’s delulu. I would never agree to work and be a mother because I understand the gravity of what child bearing does to a woman’s mind and body, and personally I believe the choice should be mine so i married someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careWomen who make choices to procreate with men who don’t let them make the decision on if they want to work are not after birthing an entire human shall live with whatever they allow for. I wouldn’t procreate with a man who wasn’t absolutely insistent that I absolutely can stay home / absolutely go to work if I wanted to. My husband said just that and that’s why I am happy to have a family with him, he grasps the lifelong sacrifice that is carrying and birthing a child. A lot of men and women also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyThere is no version of life where I say yes to this crap. As a soon to be mother of two. No. Childbirth will never be 50/50. You want me to have your kids, finance our life. Period. I’m sure lots of people disagree with this but it’s 100% attainable to find a man who will provide for your family and you if that’s what you want to do. And sign a prenup and make a family plan. It’s safe for everyone, and then there are no surprises. And 50/50 is 50% of each persons paycheck, not actually 50% split… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careSo true, I just simply would not have had kids if that was my life’s situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careNo need. Didn’t settle. Found the man of my dreams who was more than willing and actually insisted I stay home with our kids and lets me utilize daycare as well after 1 yr so they can socialize and I can have time to focus on other responsibilities I have. He told me that was what he wanted early on and I was on the same page. Weird you assumed we would get broken up with. Not every man has the means to do that but a lot of men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:31 PM |
| 18 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careI guess the simple solution to this would be to not have sex with a man who isn’t willing to care for you and your children without you working. I personally NEVER would have had kids unless I knew I was with someone who would 1. Not ask me to work 2. Would let me decide / finance what kind of support was needed to fully fulfill all my responsibilities as mother, wife, and house keeper - as our village is like 1 person 3. Also very much wanted to be a father and participate in their children’s l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careIt ultimately should be up to the woman who risked her life and sacrificed her mind and body to bring life into the world and start the family. if she is happy to go to work and would want dad to be a stay at home dad then great, but men shouldn’t get to decide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:25 AM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.I am not a feminist. But we get it.. You don’t like feminists it’s the second time you have randomly mentioned it because someone has a counter argument. The amount of research on Paternal sperm on fetal development and birth outcomes has been abysmal but recent research from the last few years is coming out saying it plays a huge role in both. Doctors saying one is high risk and the other isn’t is true, they do consider one high risk and not the other. Will that change in years to come? Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:03 AM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.The person eating the food. Regardless Fat Paternal Sperm and Fat Maternal Pregnancy are both extremely detrimental to fetus/baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:23 AM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.Americans are extremely fat. It’s not an American woman issue it’s an American diet issue…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:01 PM |
| 2 | There should be female only draft.No. There shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Trying to discern prudence vs fear in a post divorce leaderI think marrying someone / still considering marrying someone who’s considering including a contractual obligation for you to abandon your future children and relinquish your rights as their mother is irresponsible. Children need their mothers. You have everything you need to know to leave and never look back. The red flag is drawn and there’s nothing redeemable anymore. This is a terrifying revelation. How you found out is really neither here nor there at this point. Tell him why or don’t tell … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/26 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Trying to discern prudence vs fear in a post divorce leaderEveryone is okay with different things in a relationship. I am not going to tell you majority of this is concerning even if I wouldn’t be okay with it. The kneeling in front of him while he proposes seems like overkill and a bit of humiliation ritual and driven by ego more than “leadership”. With that said… Full stop, if a man tried to include in a contract that if we separated the children I risked my life to create for our family weren’t mine anymore I would end our relationship with as much d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/26 02:15 PM |
| 2 | If you want kids, why?And that sentiment is absolutely worth answering with zero irritation or malice, but that’s not what OP wrote, their choice of words was rage bait at best and mean spirited and judgmental at worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why?True but the key thing is they are going against BIOLOGY. We are here to keep the circle of life going for our species. It’s entirely the point. Now of course humans are significantly more complex than animals and have a level of autonomy, and though processing that allows us to choose against our biology, but OP has it wrong, there’s nothing wrong with those of us procreating technically there’s something wrong with those who aren’t but I also don’t agree with that sentiment because not everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:03 PM |
| 3 | If you want kids, why?SAME! Like I look at women and mothers so differently now, because who I was before I birthed a human, isn’t who I am now. I feel very empowered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why?This is so beautifully said. You all are so lucky to have each other. I’m sure you are a beautiful family, and you’re raising great girls! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | If you want kids, why?Listen you’re one of those. And if being a pessimist is your vibe KUDOS. Life your negative life. That’s your right, but don’t sit here and act like you have any magic ball saying people having kids are guaranteeing their children suffering. Being unhappy is not an excuse to rain on others parades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:53 PM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why?uhm…. what? Couldn’t disagree more with whatever unpleasantness you have typed here but go off I guess… Some of you truly watch too much tv or listen only to women with bad experiences. Maybe should also point out a lot of women are with garbage men - that will really fuck up pregnancy, birth, raising children, and well your life so take that into consideration. Pregnancy - worst symptom being tired, and then swollen ankles 2 days pre labor and 3 days post labor Birth was magical - semi painful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:50 PM |
| 16 | You're not marrying a millionaire, so stop worrying about it.Or how absolutely grueling it is for men with a dream they are chasing so they can provide their wife and children with a life with freedom and less stress with hopes they get to enjoy it sooner rather than later themselves - which isn’t always the case. I have immense respect for my husband, and it’s not easy. But I believed in him before I even believed in his vision for the future because he’s a good man. There’s plenty of women I know who would never tolerate the sacrifice it takes to become… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/26 09:39 PM |
| 22 | You're not marrying a millionaire, so stop worrying about it.You meet the ones who will be some day at work. And you end up being the first marriage wives of said millionaires by sticking with them through the tough times, because the road to becoming a millionaire isn’t easy or for the faint of heart and neither is being the wife of one. And fyi most men who are millionaires or are on their way to be them, don’t want to be with women who make that their goal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/26 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Yes. Meaning would I stay after they made that choice without my knowledge. Yes. It’s 10 Million Dollars and half is mine legally. The answers a resounding yes. I would let my husband beat me up for 10 mil….. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:19 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.Oh god no. I was genuinely asking because I do not understand like the above commenter stated….. I don’t get how men are seemingly good candidates according to themselves and yet finding it hard to find a woman… Based on my knowledge of women you have to be pretty terrible to not find ANYONE. Which then lends me to believe they are not aiming within their level. Same goes for women who just can’t seem to keep a man, maybe they are all going after the wrong level of people. If 4s are going after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:53 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.That wasn’t supposed to go to you, it was for someone else but please be so for real, why would I want you to have a hard time, you’re a god damn stranger I don’t know you sir…. I don’t have the energy to pray for your hard times. That’s weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:20 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.I am so confused. Why aren’t you guys aiming lower if you’re having such a hard time i’m genuinely lost on what the issue is exactly. Are you guys looking to hook up or start relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:05 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.can you link these guys you speak of. i guarantee you with 100% efficacy i can tell you why they haven’t been laid in a year - wild first assumption is that women don’t want to just get laid by men after 29 they want to start their family with or without kids by like 28 so maybe that’s one issue….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:02 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.I truly can’t imagine procreating with a man who didn’t 1000% want be an active father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 06:59 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.As a mother currently who plans to have 4-5 kids, I have to say all of the disadvantages listed can be countered with things one can work toward. Like being good at sports, being smart and getting a good job, nepotism (joking kinda) …… I am not worried about any son I might have, having a hard time dating because it’s actually very top of mind for me to not have children who are losers in this world, and have happy fulfilling lives. Can I account for everything? No of course not. But I truly bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 06:55 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manThere are plenty of HBC women and men who don’t come out on top…. Who very much live with the consequences of their actions and are forever bachelors, alone, with cats, or with a 2-3 when they are a 7 up. The HCB women who do end up fine are probably 8-10s who are with 5-8s and I am pretty sure this person already addressed that very fact because lower tier men will accept things higher tier men won’t and vise versa with the caveat that again women care a lot less then men do. What you have to o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:36 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manThis checks as I personally find anything over 8 to be truly repulsive. 10 being maxed out and other things have to outweigh the hoeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:26 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manHBC is universally deemed undesirable, having small boobs isn’t. Physical characteristics differ greatly between men and women. Some hate a big butt, some hate giant boobs, some men actually truly love smaller breats and a smaller butt. The only physical characteristic you’re gonna find some sort of similarity to in this instance is fatness - because that one can be deemed as wrong because it’s deemed unhealthy, and unhealthy people are generally found unattractive and a biological liability. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:24 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manOh no don’t get it twisted the HBC men are sluts too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:18 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manNo. I think men think it’s wrong because (they do) they don’t like it and don’t want women with a HBC, and talk to other men who also feel the same way, and then talk about it publicly, and thus society reflects that as true from the source. Something doesn’t have to actually be wrong for people to deem it as wrong, because wrong and right is often subjective. In this case specifically it is subjective, because not every one person will feel the same about it. HOWEVER on a large scale and as far… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:15 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manWell I prioritized all the formentioned traits and body count when choosing my husband so it’s entirely possible to avoid it. But you are right on a large scale women don’t care. I just can’t relate because I 100% do care! And no we aren’t religious at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:10 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manThen to answer your question. It’s deemed wrong by men because they are the ones deeming it as wrong. Most women don’t deem women sleeping around as wrong, they just caution women from doing so if they want to land a HVM, because as stated before “men” find it wrong for women to have a HBC. The societal attitude of wrongness for women is pushed by heterosexual men, because they are the ones in the market for women, and generally they don’t want that, and yes not wanting something doesn’t inheren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:58 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manMen with a high body count are equally as slutty as women with a high body count. Gender makes zero difference. Men are allowed to want women with a low body count the same way women are allowed to want men with a low body count. The issue isn’t men taking issue with it, it’s women not taking issue with it. You have no say in how men typically feel about a women’s high body count. There’s zero to be done about it. If you think it’s unfair then women collectively need to come together and stop da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I can only assume those are tests and she’s saying one thing but is hoping you will say no i’ll pay. she likes you but if she feels the way her ig likes portray her to, then she’s not being genuine. i knew what i wanted when i met my now husband, and he had no issue with being financially responsible for our dates and excursions, it’s not inherently toxic if two people agree on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:34 AM |
| 4 | I'm trying so hard not not resent men but the internet is making it difficult. I'm starting to regret ever standing up for them as a conservative woman. How do I get over this feeling?This is so vitally important. And not just when discussing men. I unfollowed every celebrity and influencer that did nothing for me, but bring me down. Nothing against said people because they are just doing what’s best for them but truly, following the kardashians and their constant ability to to trend hop their fashion, men and predominantly their physical appearance wasn’t serving me so I stopped following them, and my time online became so much better. It was like night and day difference. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/25 05:34 PM |
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