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Feminismangels_fan/r/MensRights12/04/17 04:25 PM
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Discussionangels_fan/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 04:06 PM
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Question for RedPillangels_fan/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:54 PM
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Lol how easily it comes to a woman's mind as a solution to a problem. Christ women are terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 03:17 PM
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Mattress Girl was protesting treatment of rape victims by schools and society. Oh fuck off!!! She was not! She never recounted her supposed "rape", even though it was shown without a doubt that she consented. She certainly never tried to help Nungesser get back into school or clear his name, did she? You make me sick defending a fucking piece of shit like Sulkowicz.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 03:28 PM
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The first song... Dafuq did I just listen to?? Second is one of my favs! Love that song!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:33 AM
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I figured it was one of those songs that EVERYONE knows. I'll add a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:25 AM
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Yeah, RP always talks about the unemployed alpha beach bum slaying pussy left and right because he's hot. Or the felon that sells drugs to scrape by. I believe this to be true. Sexual arousal for women has very little to do with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:54 PM
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I can't take anyone seriously that trots out the wage gap. You're either intellectually stupid or dishonest, but either way, your not worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 05:23 AM
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Is it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:07 PM
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Women are largely turned off by a guy that is in a lower job than her. Yet feminists are pushing more and more women into high paying white collar jobs. Which is fine, but the unintended consequence is that there will be fewer men that scratch the provider itch that women have. There are no feminists talking points about changing the societal expectations that men are providers, nor are they shaming women for shaming men for being unambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:41 AM
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Well, not a baby because I don't believe a baby has sufficient mental capabilities to desire to inflict harm. Let's move that to a 10 year old. If you have a bipolar 10 year old that slaps out of anger and the intent is to hurt the recipient of the slap, then yes, that is just as violent as an adult slap. Again, violence is defined by the intent and level of harm desired, not by the ability to actually inflict the harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:40 PM
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Sure, violence is a scale. But that scale is not ability to cause harm. A slap is less violent than a punch, but a slap by a woman is no less violent than a slap by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:30 PM
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Absolutely I believe it. It's just so incredibly normalized in our society that we don't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 06:53 PM
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That is just such unfettered horse shit! Just because the muscle mass isn't there to do more damage doesn't make it less violent. Intent to do harm is what makes it violent, not the ability to harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 06:51 PM
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Yeah, my daughter would line worms up and run over them with the scooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:36 PM
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I still dispute this. Women are hella violent. We just don't recognize women's violence as violence. Personal anecdote: I've been violently assaulted by every woman that is close to me except my current wife. None of them even think of it as violence. It's just "letting him have it" and it's laughed off by the yougogrrrlz. None of the attacks were so fierce that it did any real damage, but make no mistake, women can fucking hurt you! Just because they aren't a strong as men doesn't mean they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:35 PM
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Aloof is the opposite of thirsty. Thirsty disgusts women, so don't be thirsty. Be aloof instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:13 AM
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Fuck... To the lawyers here, what is the correct vernacular to say, "this thing is highly socially unacceptable and will have severe negative consequences in your life"? Obviously the word "allowed" isn't it. What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:09 AM
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really good rap group Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:31 PM
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I EXPECT NOTHING LESS THAN PERFECTION FROM THE PPD MODS!!! OFF WITH THEIR HEADS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:50 PM
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Great story. Thanks for sharing it. Couple of things... First, you don't know if you would have dated, right? You're just making an assumption about that? Or did he say he would have dated you? Second, it sounds like the kids at school weren't necessarily his social circle, but random kids at school?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:02 PM
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It's a CMV... In other words, "is my experience a universal truth?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:57 PM
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I was mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:47 PM
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Fucking =/= dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:28 AM
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When I was dating, it was 30-35 year old women doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:27 AM
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It's the X factor. Sometimes a guy can be less attractive on paper, but god damned if he doesn't just have that it that you can't explain and that makes him wildly attractive to you. But if he doesn't get the approval of her friends, it doesn't matter how attracted she might be to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:24 AM
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Jesus Christ that was painful to watch!! Again, men need to help women because they are children in our society. I mean, could we really expect a woman to report someone to HR all by her lonesome??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:09 AM
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Maybe. I'm too lazy to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:03 AM
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I don't know that the social circle is necessarily that blunt. It's more little bitchy comments and passive aggressive shit that seems to come naturally to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:01 AM
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Hmmm... Gonna need to see something that says women are largely staying home into their 30s before I believe this is a thing. I believe this is a male thing, but am glad to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:57 AM
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This is the toupee fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:55 AM
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Are you saying it's not a problem because it isn't happening or it's not a problem because society doesn't see anything wrong with women living at home until 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:49 AM
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Is this a thing? I haven't heard of women staying with parents being a big nationwide problem like I have with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:44 AM
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Isn't this common knowledge that lesbians (especially hot lesbians) are actually very hot, and were very hot back then? As much as I support gay rights, watching 2 men kiss grosses me the fuck out!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:42 AM
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Have you never heard that term? Basically young men that live at home until their late 20s into their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:37 AM
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That's probably true. My group of guy friends is pretty laid back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:35 AM
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What are you talking about?? Women live life on easy mode and generally have zero repercussions for any bad actions they take. There are safety nets at every turn to make sure a woman never has to suffer for her bad decisions. This creates an entire society of teenage women who can't even comprehend what responsibility is, let alone be responsible. Why do you think every woman that didn't get promoted blames sexism? Why do you think women want all the rights but none of the responsibilities that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:33 AM
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Failure to launch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:26 AM
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Purge week was full on let's see how big of racist pieces of shit we can all be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:09 AM
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Airplane!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:08 AM
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I just found Dora as an Adult on YouTube. It's pretty damn funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:06 AM
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Ah ok. That sounds like a better description.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 12:36 AM
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So something in the realm of LMR?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:49 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:54 PM
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Well that's just a meaningless phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:40 PM
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Just curious, but what does a woman's sexual fantasy look like? Like, is it more on the tender, romantic love making spectrum or the "I want him to fuck the shit out of me" side?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 05:58 PM
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I agree, however, attraction is more of a "whole package" kind of thing. I'm sure you've heard how confidence is attractive. Even less good looking guys can be very attractive if they ooze confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:39 PM
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Saying something that might put women in a negative light isn't misogyny if it's true. Declaring that women are prone to hypergamy sounds bad, but it's not misogynistic. See, we live in a society where ANY negative generalization against women is seen as misogyny, even if it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:07 PM
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Am I to believe that humans are the only animals in the entire world where the male and female of the species don't have characteristics specific to each sex?? If I say that a female peacock will be more attracted to a male with a large plume, is this APALT? It's not that hard to come to the conclusion that the female of the human species responds to sexual stimuli differently than the male. It's also not sexist to say that females and males have attributes that largely correlate to each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 11:26 PM
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Halloween is an excuse for women to let their inner slut loose for a night and promote some good ol fashioned rape culture when they fuck some guy at a party and regret it the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 07:25 PM
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Every single one of these is reframed by feminists to privilege men and oppress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 07:14 PM
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Nope. Utah. I'm an Angels fan because our local minor league team (the Orem Owlz) are an Angels farm team so I get to watch the guys come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 07:41 PM
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Yeah, up to the Griffith observatory then down to Hollywood from Anaheim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 06:43 AM
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Same. I just cannot see what is so great about Bojack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:22 AM
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On vacation on California and by god if you guys don't have a surplus of just downright ass hole drivers! Drivers that use the turn lane and shoulders to bypass all the rest of us plebs waiting, cutting across 6 lanes of traffic, stopping in the middle of the road to let three passengers very slowly out of the car, pulling out of the lane that is stopped right in front of cars going 60mph that have to slam on their brakes to keep from hitting them. Jesus Christ how do you guys do it?? I want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:19 AM
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Groundhog day style
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 11:07 PM
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By working and giving them stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 11:18 PM
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Sure. But there are still a LOT of SAHMs that would never tolerate a SAHD situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:49 AM
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In the beginnings of a relationship being clingy is adorable. It's not until the puppy love wears off that clingy is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:16 AM
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You can be insecure without being clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:08 AM
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You've seriously never heard of biblical inerrancy?? Just... Wow... Okay, you're right. I'm not going to win this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:31 AM
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So.... You have you go back to 1969 to find an example of violence in the fight for gay rights?? Anything more recent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:19 AM
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Milk literally got blown away for a rainbow killstreak. Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:16 AM
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But then you're criticizing the Quran, not Islam. You can pick out a specific verse and ask how any given sect interprets that verse... Or if that verse even factors into their lives at all. I mean, the bible has a metric fuck ton of really, really disturbing verses. It has verses about killing apostates as well. But we don't go around acting as if all of Christianity adheres to these verses. I'd wager than 95% of Christians don't even know they exist. No Christian sect that I know of preaches t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:12 AM
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I didn't say zero violence. Good to see you back, jams!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:07 AM
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Not just the wives, but all of society. There are a few of the good feminists that actually really believe in total gender equality that champion this, but they are pretty silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:05 AM
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I agree. And we should most definitely criticize these Islamic sects that interpret the Quran that way. But criticizing all of Islam for the acts of these few isn't fair. Or do you believe that every single Muslim believes they should kill apostates?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:04 AM
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Gay and trans rights have been pushed through with activism and little violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 01:01 AM
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Nobody knows their roles anymore Well... That's just untrue. Men's roles are what men's roles have always been. Plus pretty much all of the woman's roles. Feminism did a fantastic job of freeing women from their gender roles, but will fight to the death to keep men providing for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:57 AM
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Naw... We're seeing the effects of the MRAs starting to creep into popular media. #metoo pushed it one step too far and anti feminism is on the rise. Demi Levato got fucking lambasted for her "prank" of sending a sex worker into her boyfriends(?) room to grab his junk. Men are refusing to marry and the media is picking up on this. Aziz Ansari's accuser was crucified by pretty much everyone. Men are refusing to be alone with women at work, which limits how far up the ladder women can go. Nobody b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:52 AM
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As an ex Mormon, I can see where they're coming from. For the lay person, the word Mormon brings up images of polygamists in compounds in Salt Lake City. What the ignorant masses don't realize is that Mormon is used by two VERY different factions of Mormonism. There's the LDS, which are pretty normal monogamous productive members of society that wear funny underwear, then there's the FLDS, which is the polygamist, compound batshit crazy Mormons. Same with Islam. There are a multitude of sects an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:40 AM
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Either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:31 AM
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I guess that's fair. I'm sure to anyone that believes their cause is good and right doesn't want to be labeled a pejorative like SJW. Since I lean MRA and anti feminism, my bias gets in the way of seeing the SJWish-ness of MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:30 AM
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I'm sure there are some MRAs that would consider themselves SJWs. But MRAs are typically more right leaning, so it's not as prevalent. I don't have a good definition of what makes a SJW. It's like art vs pornography. I can't write down a definition of when art becomes pornography, but I know it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:45 PM
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See: Punching up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:42 PM
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Do you have a specific question? If you watch any conservative speaker on campus when the insane liberals come blowing air horns and chanting to drown out the speech, a portion of those are not feminists but they are all SJWs. Some of it is because a lot of SJWs don't like to call themselves feminists, but rather feminist allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:34 PM
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Girls claim they want an emotionally available guy, but what they REALLY mean by that is they have a preconceived idea of what this vulnerability looks like, and it's pretty surface level. And a man is smart to play that surface level insecurity a bit. But never let her into your deepest fears. They don't want that and it freaks them the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:28 PM
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What the fuck???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:24 PM
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"I can't believe he called that guy a pussy! Using female body parts as a shaming tactic is so sexist!! What a dick!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:18 PM
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"You're just liked one of the guys" is a great compliment. "You're a man" isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:16 PM
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I would add small dick shaming to this list. Women are totally validated in shaming men for having small dicks, but don't you fucking dare say anything about her meat flaps or saggy tits or stretch marks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:15 PM
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Yeah. My wife says she would have downright hated me at 18, but she doesn't hold it against me because that's not who I am now. Like, at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:13 PM
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Yeah, tons! No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:12 PM
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Me at 18 resembles exactly zero of my current self. Why would I bring the stupid shit I did when I was 18 out? Nobody needs to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 10:05 PM
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I said SJWs, which feminism is a part of, but it encompasses way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 10:03 PM
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I thought that's why you fuck your boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 07:34 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to say people are not somehow allowed to complain about one instance of what they deem unfair without consideration of everything else that could also be deemed unfair - I mean how would that even work? If a man was to point out per your example that men do far more dangerous jobs than women in aggregate I would not respond with “but think of the female prostitutes!” That doesn’t seem relevant. I could buy this argument if I EVER saw SJW's lament the poor men that are "fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 04:52 PM
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This. Why the fuck would you expose your skeletons? Just keep them buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:41 PM
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Mens sexuality is always disgusting to women, and by extension, our gynocentric society. Name me a single aspect about male sexuality that isn't routinely shamed. I guess you could say that n count isn't shamed, but that's typically because hot guys are the only ones with a high n count, and they get more of a halo effect free pass. The strange thing about this article was how she insisted that he was somehow treating a woman badly by having sex with her. Fuck I'm so sick of SJWs insistence on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:39 PM
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The majority of blue collar work uses machines. You don't build phat muscles by pulling levers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:22 PM
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Not a single pussy or faggot?? You going soft on us?
/r/askMRP16/10/18 08:31 PM
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We've trained girls today that every male advance is just a prelude to them being raped. The irrational fear of men that today's girl project is nothing short of insanity! That and the yougogrllll culture that puts the idea in their heads that they GOD DAMN DESERVE a high value, attractive man just for existing. Anything less is beneath them and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:12 PM
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I mean, this isn't exactly a hard science, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:54 PM
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Okay, fair enough. Keep up the good work!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:01 AM
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Well, seeing as incels are the ones doing all the mass shootings, and incels are definitely under the purview of PPD, I thought it appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:31 AM
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Killing a loved one is a different set of crazy than mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:33 AM
2

Who said anything about monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:47 PM
6

A man has to reach the 20th percentile of men to be a high value man. A woman has to be somewhere in the top 40% to be a high value woman. So, even if what you say is true (which, it isn't), you don't have to even be that special to be selected by a high value man. And it's fucking HARD to compete to get into the top 20% for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:34 PM
4

I dunno... I've changed my mind on several previous held beliefs because of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 06:37 PM
2

Get a room...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:53 AM
3

I would change your scenario to something more realistic, like say a medium sized vicious dog that can be subdued and killed. The man and the woman are definitely stronger than the animal, yet 9 times out of ten the woman will force the man to put himself in harms way to alleviate the threat. She COULD have taken out the dog, but she won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:52 AM
1

Sprog?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 04:46 PM
1

Well, I'm reasonably attractive, so it didn't really affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 12:31 AM
1

Are you limiting this question to just how women see men or all the other batshit crazy stuff feminism does?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:35 AM
1

The first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 05:24 PM
2

Huh... TIL all the times I heard women say looks don't matter were all in my head, because apparently nobody ever says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:32 PM
5

Communication is not always done in words. In MRP, we have guy after guy after guy who talked their relationship to death with no improvement. Then they started communicating non verbally and things got significantly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:30 AM
7

thinks silently: gawd I hate when she uses technicalities on stupid shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:27 AM
1

I'll care when women are equally repulsed by prison rape jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 04:51 AM
1

Here's the thread ​ I guess it was menslib, not twox.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:39 PM
3

I mean, it is, but in this context I think we're talking more about "I don't want to do this any more" type of consent. It's a nuance, for sure and PPD isn't exactly known for nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:24 PM
2

There was one specific one where the girl didn't want to have sex, but still continued to undress him and actually put the condom on, then just laid there. She seriously thought she was raped. People who freeze like that shouldn't be allowed in public, let alone a night club.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:21 PM
2

That's a bit different than withdrawing consent though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:09 PM
4

Twox And, to be fair, twox came down hard on these girls. Basically nobody played along with her attempted victim narrative and told her to stop acting like a child and actually express herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:59 PM
1

This is my thoughts exactly!! If she's lying there dead fish style, why the fuck would I continue?? However, the other side of this coin is that apparently women are so fragile that they lack basic skills you communicate non consent, so the man must always be gauging her consent level. How fucking infantilizing that is to women!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:29 PM
5

Just make sure you actually let the other person know you've withdrawn consent. I've seen way too many posts on reddit that are like, "I withdrew consent, but never made any kind of signal that I had withdrawn it. Was I raped?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:26 PM
2

I dunno... Can you shit post like this from Ibiza?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 12:26 AM
8

I do a graveyard every year in my front lawn for Halloween and this year I bought a creepy clown. I put it in the shower so that when she opened the shower curtains he would activate and do his creepy saying and scare the shit out of her.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 10:20 PM
3

Ah... yep. I don't believe that all women are just the oldest teenager in the house and that there is a very specific kind of man that marries a very specific kind of woman that finds MRP. This view has evolved as well. I do believe that women are largely children, because our society does not hold them accountable for anything. What impetus is there for a woman to grow today? Life is handed to them on a silver platter, and if it isn't, she's a victim of the patriarchy. HOWEVER, I also believe t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 09:05 PM
1

There's a 5% ebb and flow on any given day.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 06:24 PM
2

After thinking about this, what I'd like to see is more, "This is what I think the right move is... Am I wrong?" vs "tell me what the right move is!"
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:15 PM
5

I'd say 95% agreement... I don't believe in active dread. I think if you have to terrify your wife into fucking you, you're a low quality man. Become a better man that she wants to fuck. High value men don't need to play mind games.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:13 PM
3

Oh for fucks sake... We pound it into these guys heads to not go Rambo or you'll nuke the marriage. Now you tell them to stop asking for advice and just do whatever the fuck they want?? No. Newbies need advice. They SHOULDN'T be making these decisions in a vacuum. Any good captain will ask for advice from his subordinates, then make the final call.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:05 PM
1

Well played!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:54 AM
2

Plus United breaks guitars.
/r/MensRights09/10/18 04:46 AM
1

PSA: sorry, not sorry is cringe as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:27 AM
6

Ugh... I get so tired of SJWs excusing any personal responsibility because societal structures are set up in a certain way. As if people are so weak that they are simply slaves to the structure. I personally believe that people are stronger than the left wants to give them credit for. Anybody and everybody has the ability to dig deep within themselves and find a way to become a better person. Leftists just want to turn everybody into helpless victims of society with no recourse. And, unfortunate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:22 AM
1

Not last week...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:06 AM
4

Yes, on the deeper levels, you're exactly right. I was speaking more about the base attraction between men and women. When it comes to that initial "spark", when you ask a man what it was, his answer usually matches what we expect it to be. Women tend to not really know what it was that excited her. They seem to always recite the same platitudes that we've heard a hundred times, but then we also see the guy that matches all these platitudes perfectly forever stuck in the friend zone. So who know…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:59 AM
3

Sure, I believe in trends among populations. I don't particularly like the term AWALT, but the idea behind it is sound. It seems crazy to me that we can extrapolate behavior patterns for males and females for every species on the planet, but when it comes to humans, suddenly there are none to be found?? Bullshit. We are just like every other sexually dimorphic animal on the planet. Just because someone knows some chick that doesn't fit the mold doesn't mean the mold is broken. But all of this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:54 AM
3

I don't see women defend the idea of hypergamy, but rather that women aren't slaves to it and won't jump on a dick the minute someone better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:48 AM
4

Have you ever seen the meme of "the difference between men and women" where the men side has an on/off switch and the woman side has a hundred knobs and levers and shit? I truly believe that men are simple creatures and there's not much to figuring out what we like. Women, however, are hella complicated. I don't think women even know what turns them on or attracts them to certain people. I don't believe that women lie per se, but they just can't unwind the complex quagmire that is attraction to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:42 AM
4

There is no absolute truth in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:33 AM
1

Isn't the whole fear of socialized medicine that we'll have to wait 7 weeks to see a dr?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:08 AM
1

Do you believe there are flaws in your personality? If so, could you list them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:01 AM
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I would say that many of my views have evolved rather than changed. But I did have a CMV a while back where I claimed that women who take a college spot from a man and then drop out of the work force are causing problems for men. It was pointed out that anybody that wants to go to college can. There isn't anybody not being admitted, so there is no way for a woman to "take away" a seat from a man. The only caveat I held was in the medical field. We have a severe shortage of Dr's and very limited …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:53 AM
6

Unfortunately true. BKav should have been disqualified for his temper tantrum, but it's just laughable to me how the same people who claim that the FBI did a full investigation on Hillary and Bengazi are the ones to scream the loudest how this investigation was a sham. You can't have it both ways cupcakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:31 PM
1

That triggers me that I'm just a trigger for you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 10:04 PM
3

STOP STEALING MY JOKES!!! /triggered!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:20 PM
6

Ok. You convinced me. That does seem like a fair way to select the criteria they are looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:51 PM
1

Oh... I thought we were having a discussion. You're just trolling. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:25 PM
3

STOP TRYING TO SILENCE ME!! I CAN SAY DANCER IF I WANT BECAUSE IT'S FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION AND ARTISTIC!! Brandon Flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:20 PM
3

That's exactly my point. 27 is a VERY strange place to cut the list. It reeks of selecting the data to fit your pre conceived result. Also, your point about single mother families being destructive to children could be made without introducing mass shooters into the narrative. There is plenty of evidence all over the place to suggest that the destruction of the nuclear family is wreaking all kinds of havoc on our society. I don't doubt that not having a strong father figure contributed to these …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:16 PM
2

And what do you think most women interpret "Mr Right" as? The best looking guy? Because I can tell you that attractiveness is what women call the entire package. Looks, charm, humor, body, intelligence, etc. Online is a terrible indicator of this. You have to get out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:38 PM
1

I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:36 PM
22

I always thought feminists over exaggerated the depravity of incels, but fuck... Those are some seriously messed up dudes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:34 PM
1

"Feeling degraded" is 100% subjective. How I would define it doesn't matter. Whatever being degraded means to the person that feels degraded is what it means. Case in point... You think having semen inside you is degrading. I'd wager most women do not feel degraded. Therefore, it's subjective and not under the label of "logic". Logic would say that semen is a necessary part of the reproductive process, as is having sex. Logically, our lizard brains don't know we're not trying to pro create, so l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:31 PM
3

Cooped is just a little too close to the banned word... BAN HER!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:23 PM
8

Cope....NHAGEN is beautiful this time of year!! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:22 PM
1

Feeling degraded is in no way a logical process. Can you maybe clarify what you're considering logical vs primal? I think you're conflating the two and they really don't mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:19 PM
3

Ok... So CNN pulled numbers out of their assess. So? And most deadly is not any kind of indicator of anything. All that means is they chose a higher density location and a more lethal weapon. Why would > 10 victims have any merit here? The psychology of someone who kills a few isn't any different than one who kills many.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:18 PM
1

There's something very primal and satisfying for a guy to push as deep as he can go and unload. I can see why a lot of guys don't pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:10 PM
2

Hmm... Yeah, when you put it that way, I can see your point. I often joke with my wife about blowing the budget on hookers and booze when the thought of it absolutely repulsive to me. Maybe you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:06 PM
1

Society as we know it would absolutely crumble. I know feminists have a wet dream ideal for this matriarchy, but women overall are too weak willed to do the dirty shit it takes to run it. They would all want fortune 500 jobs. It would simply spark a new categorization of oppression Olympics. Note that any individual woman is very likely to do what it takes, but women as a demographic wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:03 PM
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I just don't believe that a decent human would go there... Troll or not. If you're saying it, on some level you believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:55 PM
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It reminds me of this interview with Ann Coulter where she simply lays out the facts that children from single parent families do worse in society. Good god... The amount of feminist shrieking in the audience was laughable! https://youtu.be/0K5z7vwJg58
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:54 PM
10

What the fuck?? That was a well reasoned and thoughtful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:51 PM
8

This is actually true. Women have an INCREDIBLE amount of soft power in the form of sex. Feminists just choose to bury this inconvenient fact by shrieking "MUH OPPRESSION!! CEOs ARE MOSTLY MEN!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:48 PM
7

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:42 PM
5

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:57 PM
1

When you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Fuck off feminists! Your "equality" is blatant female supremacy, which weirdly feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:46 PM
22

The amount of blatant racism was really disturbing. I don't care if you're trolling and trying to get a rise. That shit is just disgusting. And I say this as a severely anti SJW.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:44 PM
2

REEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:41 PM
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Curious why they stopped at 27?? That seems like a strange number that was pulled out of their ass to fit their narrative. If we look at the most deadly 100 shootings, what does that data say? Edit: changed "you" to "them"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:39 PM
3

God damnit!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:35 PM
13

It's not purge week anymore. Can we stop with the blatant racism now??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:09 PM
3

She's right here!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:05 AM
2

Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:16 AM
2

Oooo oooo!! Now do me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:09 AM
1

It's a small concession to make up for the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:32 AM
2

Wait... Because men get money through unsavory means, that means women can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:57 AM
1

Who says they aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:56 AM
3

You sound like Ray Comfort. Because you told a lie does not make you a liar. Because you stole something does not make you a thief. Incidences vs patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:55 AM
1

Didn't Sargon basically say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:51 AM
1

In a court of law, sure. But the public has an insatiable thirst for vengeance and metoo/believeallwomen has given feminists and SJWs the taste of blood... And they like it! Of course none of this would stand up in court. Who cares? The public perception of the corporation is all that matters. And the public believes all women. Hell, you could even justify it as getting back at the patriarchy for the wage gap! Oh, and this is just a purge week shit post. I'm not hysterical. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:47 AM
3

I just binge watched season 2. It was a bit preachy, but still my favorite show on right now. But I would say that all of the parents are fuck ups. That's what I love about this show. How real it is. Andrews mom is probably the most normal, but she can't undo the damage the dad is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:59 AM
1

You can make money or friends, but not both. And who gives a shit if there's glass?? Metoo has never been concerned about the truth! Believe! All! Women!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:54 AM
1

Isn't it? Serious question. I always thought it was legal in certain countries. Or, at least not illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:45 AM
1

I mean, isn't rape legal in parts of the middle east? I guess that's would be what it's like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:44 AM
4

Sweet mercy mother of god thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:42 AM
1

Wow. ONE very famous guy. And even this went away in like a week. And none of the accusors got paid. Where is the outrage for Corey Feldman who has been screaming about his molestation for years? Same with McCauley Culkin. All the boys molested by priests in the Catholic church? You wanna guess what societies reaction would have been if girls had been molested?? Nobody gives a fuck about men being molested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:30 AM
1

Naw... Nobody would care if a man, gay or not, tried to cry rape. Society would laugh at him and his life would be ruined. And I'm not suggesting that you actually have to be raped. You just have to accuse your boss of doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:26 AM
2

Yeah, ban that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:56 AM
1

But why aren't YOU getting paid?? It's easy, risk free money!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:55 AM
1

That's my point! He'd never expect it! Go make a closed door appointment with him, accuse him of sexual misconduct and walk that fat check right to the bank!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:54 AM
1

Could you elaborate a little more on what you consider an incel post?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:24 AM
2

Take it to the bank man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:03 AM
1

You're not a chick. Doesn't work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:01 AM
2

Naw... Don't blackmail the guy. Blackmail the company! No company wants a metoo scandal tarnishing their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:00 AM
1

Maybe... BUT that doesn't make it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:59 AM
9

I AWKWARDLY TALKED TO A GIRL AT A PARTY ONCE AND SHE DIDN'T FUCK ME THAT NIGHT!!! I'VE TRIED EVERYTHING!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:58 AM
2

Jez would just cut everyone's dicks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:16 AM
2

This year is just a dumpster fire. None of this is fun or funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:12 AM
1

DUI doesn't necessarily mean alcohol. But I'm guessing you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:44 PM
6

1.21 giga-anuses will send you back in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:43 AM
2

on the lose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:12 PM
2

Sufficive to say, I am glad you're in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:10 PM
1

Aww hugs!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:41 PM
1

They hide the truth about Joseph Smith pretty hard when you're in the church and they lay it on REALLY thick that the devil is actively trying to sabotage the "one true church" by using anti Mormon lies. I found out that it's actually not lies, and it's incredibly damning!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:40 PM
1

Both are "Mormon", but yes, vast differences between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:52 AM
2

Yeah, as an ex Mormon, Mormonism plays up the patriarchal aspect pretty fucking hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:52 AM
1

Yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:09 PM
1

Giveban!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:36 PM
3

How do you get a hashtag to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:34 PM
1

Hold her down and cover her mouth BK style!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:42 AM
1

Can we get a lawyer to verify this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:21 AM
2

Everything is bigger in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:20 AM
10

Anything that treats women like humans with agency is going to be seen as misogynistic these days. If every word you say doesn't champion woman as the wonderful creatures they are, well, that's just hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 01:34 PM
5

Trolls aren't looking for a fight. They just troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 06:05 PM
3

She's a man hating radfem. Ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:16 PM
5

I contest your assertion that most rape claims are true. We have exactly zero idea given any not guilty verdict if the rapist got away with it, it was a false claim or a terrible misunderstanding. Feminism has done a fantastic job making us believe that any not guilty verdict is a rapist that got away with it with no consideration of #2 or #3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:14 PM
2

Did purge week start already?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 04:59 AM
1

Paragraphs are your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:30 PM
1

Do you have any concrete reasons to think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:24 AM
1

At least women get to hide all their imperfections with make up. Guys are stuck being the ugly bastards we are born as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 04:41 PM
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I heard a girl once define this as "play hard to get, don't play not to get". There's an art to the chase!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 04:39 PM
1

That was incredibly trans phobic of them! What if he would have identified as a woman??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:35 PM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 12:30 AM
1

Not gravity, but I do go with the germ theory of disease is just a theory too. And the Bible says "that which goeth into the mouth doth not defile a man, but that which comes out".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 11:26 PM
1

I had a co worker that was really smart that tried to lay the, "Evolution is just a theory" line on me. Lost a lot of respect for him that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 10:44 PM
2

My mom and I just had this exchange... Her: Why was the librarian called Atoz? Me: uhh.. Something to do with A to Z? Her: Yep!! He sorted the books from A to Z! :) Is thinking this is a super funny joke some kind of sign of dimentia??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:43 AM
3

I love how the definition of feminism changes to fit whatever narrative you need at the moment... And none of them match what ACTUAL feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:47 PM
1

Lol I love whenever US feminism is questioned, suddenly you guys are all worried about the middle east. I'm sure your middle eastern activism is just tops, isn't it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:12 PM
3

Have you ever heard of Plato? Aristotle? Socrates? Morons!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:20 PM
12

I'm going to say this once. Great... Now add /r/iamverybadass to /r/iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:17 PM
1

Something we can agree on. The right thing to do is to kill feminism and give mens rights some attention. Unfortunately, there's no fucking way that's happening in the next 20 years. Feminists will continue to scream oppression as men sink lower and lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:00 PM
1

There's no auto mod...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:55 PM
2

Interesting that so many #1's are "gorgeous". TRP confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:52 PM
4

It goes beyond being backed by the system. Female assholes, psychos and sociopaths are glorified by women as strong women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:47 PM
1

I said the top problems men currently face are worse than the top problems women currently face. I'm in no way suggesting that we shouldn't keep striving for equality, and I'm not saying women don't have fights still left to fight, but let's give SOME attention to men's issues beyond "we're working to break down the patriarchy and that will help men!" Maybe it will, but we need solutions now, not in some mysterious non-patriatchy utopia 1000 years from now. And, to be fair, I don't believe femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:44 PM
1

Naw, we've had a great discussion! I feel like I understand women just a hair more today than I did yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:39 PM
7

The problem is that women have the political, social and legal force all on their side. Good luck ever getting a feminist to admit this, but men are simply powerless against the whims of women. We probably won't actually go to jail, but any woman at any time could completely destroy the reputation of a man with zero possibility of negative consequence for her... Even if she admits she made it all up. Your whole argument rests on, ehhh... It PROBABLY won't happen to you. But if it does, say goodb…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:30 PM
2

That's a good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:26 PM
1

You're kidding me, right? Legal rights that women have that men don't: Family courts, VAWA, Duluth Model, affirmative action (both in colleges and the workplace), the definition of rape doesn't include women raping men, government funding for women's issues (shelters, healthcare, food stamps, etc) vastly outweigh men's funding... Shall I go on? As far as dick measuring, if men's issues were being addressed AT ALL, I'd gladly say, hey, we're all working towards a better world. But they aren't. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:24 PM
1

Is that important enough to you that it would be a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:19 PM
1

How would you feel about a SO that couldn't give you a mind blowing orgasm because he never seemed to be able to get you into that mind set?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:11 PM
1

You do seem a bit NAWALT with regards to sexual experiences. I think I remember you saying that because of your ADD, you require very specific physical stimulation and sex is much less emotional for you. Is that right? Also, yeah, I said it's male solipsism to think this way. I bet if you asked most women, they might be able to recall the best sex ever if they thought about it, but they aren't sitting there day in and day out masturbating to this encounter, and they certainly aren't comparing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:57 PM
1

Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:47 PM
1

Oh, I didn't mean to imply they weren't having mind blowing sex. But mind blowing sex does not necessarily equate to the best sex she's ever had either. As far as imitating the best sex ever, I would say that sexual enjoyment is 10% physical and 90% emotional. (Your numbers may vary). It's why risky, we might get caught sex is so fun! Your current partner might be able to mimic all the physical things, but can be make you feel like you did during the best sex ever? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:45 PM
2

Yup. It's kind of a self fulfilling prophecy of sorts. Any women that is honest enough to look at feminism with a critical eye will see feminism for the awful thing it has become and distance themselves far, far away from it. It's only the women who are ideologues that treat feminism like a cult religion that label themselves feminist. And, like any cult, heresy will NOT be tolerated. You cannot look at the cult with a critical eye or dare to suggest there are problems with the cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:40 PM
1

God damn right I'm emotional over this! Women are pushing men down further and further and what do we hear? "More women's rights!! More feminism!! A couple of hundred men are in power, so we need to push all men down further!!" Fuck that! The top problems men face are FAR, FAR, FAR worse than the top problems women face. Yet men are told to shut up and stop complaining because, DID YOU KNOW THAT 100 YEARS AGO WOMEN COULDN'T VOTE??? AND WOMEN TODAY ARE OPPRESSED BY THAT!?!! So, yeah, fuck feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:32 PM
1

Yeah, I read that after I posted that. And yes, you're right. In my view, high N count is an attitude, not a number. Sluts aren't labeled sluts because they fuck a lot of guys necessarily. A woman that has had lots of monogamous relationships and only fucks those guys and is loyal wouldn't be a high N count women. It was explained elsewhere that men are the gender that needs to perform for women. We are the ones that peacock trying to get a woman to select us. Part of the selection process is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:25 PM
2

The CMV isn't "Do men have unrealistic ideas about N count?" The CMV is "N counts don't exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:40 PM
1

You spot might differ from my spot, but we both would agree that the steam becomes a river, right? Just as your high N count my be different than my high N count, but we both agree there is a high N count, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:39 PM
3

What? Abortion? This has always been under attack and there are good reasons for it to be under attack. I'm pro choice myself, but you idiot feminist seem to simply refuse to admit that pro life has legitimate concerns and believe abortion is murder. I don't want to turn this into an abortion debate. I know all of your arguments against a fetus being a person and bodily autonomy and blah blah blah. What other political things do we need feminism to defend? Mansplaining and manspreading? Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:18 PM
3

I seriously doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:47 AM
3

Women are very much shitty by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:56 AM
3

So wait.. Your argument is "one guy said an N count of one is a high N count", therefore high N counts don't exist??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:47 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:24 AM
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I can't tell you exactly when a stream becomes a river, but I know there are streams and I know there are rivers. Just like I can't say EXACTLY when a woman has a low N count vs a high N count, but I know low and high N counts exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:20 AM
7

Right. feminism has accomplished it's goals. Time for it to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:13 AM
10

How in the world did you get that ridiculous idea from what I said?? Women are currently surpassing men in nearly every measurable metric. Let's focus on the men for a minute, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:58 AM
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Well, sure. In days past, we had defined gender roles and women had a place in that. Part of that place was that a woman had to marry a man in order to gain access to his resources, and in exchange the man got sex and a reasonable assurance that the offspring were his. Now women are self sufficient. There is no need to exchange sex for resources. Women are free to explore their own life for as long as it takes and are free to be as picky as they choose. Plus the internet has widen the net from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 02:20 AM
2

No. It doesn't. Like, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 10:50 PM
6

Can I use direct insults? Kids being born addicted to drugs has nothing to do with genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 10:50 PM
9

Fuck you!!! (Just hoping I can foster some ill will here)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 10:45 PM
1

Basically it's about the emotional connection more than the physical stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 07:53 PM
1

It's about presence and being dominant/submissive, making feel sexually emotionally as well as physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 07:18 PM
2

Well, yes. Women typically want to land the alpha, but when they are unable, they move on to landing the beta, but still pine for the alpha. Many women will continue to fuck alphas while taking resources from the beta they despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:22 PM
1

That was mostly a joke. What makes sex super physically good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:48 PM
5

Great sex isn't about the PIV intercourse. It's about everything else surrounding that. Any chud can jack hammer away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:45 PM
1

I know I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:39 PM
1

I thought circle jerking was allowed under auto mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:37 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:17 PM
4

You keep shifting the definition of sub par. Is it hemophilia, or is it stupidity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:14 PM
12

I could teach a chimp to fly the space shuttle easier than teaching genetics to this idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:11 PM
1

That's so interesting that you say that. When I'm giving my wife oral (which is really the only way she can orgasm), she has her eyes closed and seems to be imagining something. I've often wondered what she is fantasizing about during this time. Not sure if it's a Hollywood star or some other guy, or maybe even a past hot encounter between us? I'm like you. Fantasize away. Do what you gotta do to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:05 PM
1

Gotcha. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:59 PM
3

To their partners, sure! Why would the women here lie about their N's on the PPD sub? Plus, I don't believe women "lie" about their experiences. Their world view is so entangled with their emotions that the perception of events is what they remember rather than the actual events. Even with things like N count. "Oh, I didn't like him and we only did it once, so that one doesn't count". You can't argue with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:58 PM
2

If there's one thing I've learned, the women at PPD do not represent the typical woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:50 PM
1

What is "GGG"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:46 PM
2

Well... You broke the mold. We're talking about normal women here...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:44 PM
2

Okay, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:43 PM
1

This goes against the AF/BB strategy. Women fuck the alphas, but then fail to land him and end up marrying the beta for his resources and because he's the best she can secure. But they always pine for the AF. I think this is the question being asked. I know I'm asking you to answer for other women, but how often do you think an alpha widow thinks about her AF?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:42 PM
1

Fuck you're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:33 PM
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ITT: OP has no idea how evolution or genetics work, yet steadfastly defends his misinformed position. Edit: OP, you should take your own advice and never reproduce. It's quite obvious you have a low IQ and should not pass your inferior genes to contribute to the dumbing down of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:32 PM
3

A feeble woman's offspring isn't necessarily feeble itself. And if it is, there were pressures that would kill the feeble offspring before the strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:31 PM
2

Holy shit... Do you actually believe idiocracy is like a documentary or something?? Good god. I'm at a loss for words how dumb this line of reasoning is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:29 PM
0

Yeeeahhh... I'm seeing a LOT of "never" answers here and that's just compete bullshit. Even if it was "oh, I might reminisce once a year or so...", I could buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:27 PM
0

So basically, are any of you women here alpha widows?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:24 PM
2

You do believe alpha widow is a thing though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:23 PM
3

TRP values causal sex very highly, and to engage in casual sex, you need women. One of the core tenants of TRP is to take women off the pedestal. The more you cater to a woman, the less interested she'll be. You obviously know fuck all about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:20 PM
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That so much of what RP says is AWALT is really AH(umans)ALT. Women are teenagers? Okay, yeah, they are... But what do you call the loser that is working a dead end job and comes home and sits his fat ass in front of the xbox with a 6 pack while the wife takes care of the house? That's a teenager in every sense of the word. People just suck. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:19 PM
2

I can't tell if you're trolling or serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:22 PM
1

I'm guessing you call the cops on guys sitting peacefully at the playground too, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:11 PM
1

I'm agreeing with you. Whenever I hear a woman say she's just assertive, she's more than likely just an insufferable cunt. She's not a leader. Men that are ass holes don't get flowery words to describe their ass holishness. They are just ass holes. And, before the bloops say that "assertive" and "leader" are flowery words, no, they aren't. There is usually some overlap on the VENN diagram for those 2, but they aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:22 PM
2

Nice, friendly encouraging = kind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 06:50 PM
1

I seriously don't understand this whole "If a guy is assertive, he's a leader. If I'm assertive, I'm a bitch". Women have the entirety of yougogrrrlllzzz on their side and are praised for acting like a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 06:18 PM
2

Fuck off. You can be kind to underage women without wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 06:12 PM
3

100% guarantee there is more to this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 06:08 PM
3

Take what works and leave what doesn't. If you take away anything, it's become a man that women want to fuck. You can leave all the alpha shit behind if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/18 04:05 AM
4

Dude! Put a NSFW tag on that pic!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:46 PM
1

Gotta love when the TLDR is as long as the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:12 PM
1

Boo fucking hoo. I see 9 out of 10 men have a hard time giving up half of their paycheck to support a kid they never wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:39 PM
2

A lot of women like "teddy bears".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:32 PM
1

Naw... Women have an overall visceral disgust to male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:25 PM
4

I swear to god girls these day wear their rape victim badge like it's some kind of rite of passage. If you haven't been raped, you're somehow a lesser woman or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:11 PM
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Let's take any given rape trial where the defendant was let go. We have one of three scenarios here. The defendant DID rape the victim and was let off. The victim lied and therefore there wasn't enough or even counter evidence to prove the defendant raped anyone. The defendant raped the victim by the strict legal definitions of rape, yet didn't know that they were raping the victim. Typically a question of consent where the defendant thought they had consent, but the victim felt they didn't give…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:07 PM
1

There are plenty in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 01:31 PM
3

Lol We really can't define abuse with any degree of accuracy Still... Men are more abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 03:45 AM
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That was needlessly condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:45 AM
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I wonder if there's a phenomenon where we call the exact same action abuse if the father does it and "Parenting" if the mother does it? I would argue that the bar for what is considered abuse is far higher for women than for men, which could lead to some skewed statistics. I know with my kids, my ex screams at them constantly, yet they love her more than anything. I yell at them and they cut me out of their lives for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:45 AM
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I'm of the opinion that there is a lot of truth to traditional gender roles, and for the most part, yes, women are better caretakers of children than men. I just wish more women would admit that men are better at some things than women, but I'll not be holding my breath. I don't know that most men begrudge the woman getting custody, but rather the horrible arrangements for visitation. One day a week and every other weekend is fucking pathetic. Also if the mother is unfit to be the primary careta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:39 AM
2

Not a single XD that whole post?? What gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:33 AM
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Here's how we make it equal. The current state of things is that a woman can choose to become a parent or not. A man cannot choose. So to make it equal, we take away the woman's ability to choose. If a woman decides to get an abortion, fine. She gets to maintain her bodily autonomy. HOWEVER, the state will assign an orphaned child to that couple to raise until adulthood. Bam! Equality! Women no longer have an out from parenthood, just like men. Oh, the woman isn't emotionally or financially able…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 08:58 PM
1

I'm petty sensitive to forced SJW bullshit cough TLJ cough , but I didn't get very much from Infinity War.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:26 PM
1

You should. Fantastic movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 04:30 AM
2

I really couldn't care less. But you seem super sure that it's not looks. How could we get some other people here to verify you aren't Shrek? Any volunteers willing to have him pm a pic and give an honest, unbiased opinion? Or would them volunteering make you suspicious as well? Personally, I think you're just a troll and don't want to send a pic because it will out you as such. Edit: by troll, I mean ugly as a troll, not an internet troll. Although I have my suspicions there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 04:29 AM
2

I was quoting Thor vs Quill from infinity war.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 04:26 AM
1

Are you mocking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:56 AM
3

Maybe. But at least we could rule out if it is really your looks or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:56 AM
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Don't initiate sex and if she initiates, turn her down. How it helps: too many men that come in here are focused so much in getting laid that everything they do falls under the lens of "will this get me laid?" That's counter productive to building a MAP and becoming an awesome man that women want to fuck. Now that a guy has getting sex out of his head, he can stop placating his worthless wife and let her stew in her own irrational emotions without giving a fuck. He can work on himself.
/r/askMRP16/09/18 12:23 AM
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Any chance you could upload a pic of yourself so we can judge if you're really a good looking guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 10:39 PM
3

I'd say I fall into the category you're describing. After the divorce, I really didn't get out much. I did some online dating, but never had much success. I couldn't figure it out. My female friends all said I was a catch and a good looking guy, yet I couldn't seem to land a girlfriend. Sick of not having any success online, I forced myself to go to an over 30s singles dance. I was terrified, but I told myself I just needed to get my ass out the door and this was just a first step. I was plannin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 10:34 PM
4

Why are you being so antagonistic? I get plenty of shit done every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:45 PM
1

Mandatory "how do you write women so well?" "I write men and take out reason and accountability"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:42 PM
2

triggering ABS That's a low bar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:39 PM
2

The Martian is probably one of the best books I've ever read. The fact that this guy wrote this in his spare time as a hobby is just mind blowing. Although Artemis was a hot mess and kind of terrible. I just finished Ready Player One. Then I watched the movie and was like... Did they even read the book at all?? Like, I understand they need to take creative liberties to adapt to film, but god damn... the only similarity is the character names and the OASIS and finding 3 keys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:38 PM
2

I have a never ending list of honey dos. I expect most men would as well, but most men are too lazy to do the "manly" work that needs to be done. I think most women would be just fine doing the cooking and cleaning as long as the husband is doing SOMETHING to contribute to the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:27 PM
1

Holy shit... STOP THE PRESSES!!! Am I to understand that we live in a society with gasp DOUBLE STANDARDS???? My world just got shattered!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 04:10 PM
4

What if my grandmother is super hot??
/r/askMRP13/09/18 03:29 PM
2

Yup, totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:56 PM
11

If you have to tell everyone how awesome you are, you're probably not that awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:34 PM
2

There's a reason there isn't a similar "happy wife, happy life" for women. Men are expected to sacrifice their well being and happiness for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:31 PM
2

Is this q just for RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:11 AM
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My wife is very traditional and appreciates gender roles. She loves when I do my "manly" things like building shit, fixing shit, mowing the lawn, auto maintenance, killing spiders, etc. Watching me work out turns her on. I also give her opportunities to be feminine and I believe she likes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:58 AM
1

Remind me never to come to a party at your house. Do you put a hat out and ask for donations, or are you more organized and give everyone that attends an itemized invoice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:44 AM
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Way to completely ignore my entire argument. If the woman invites the man on a date, I would expect her to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 02:56 AM
2

You're right to get a test. Not sure how best to go about it.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 02:23 AM
3

Why? If I invite anyone to anything else, I don't expect them to pay. If I invite my buddy to go to the Angels game with me, I don't expect him to buy his own ticket. If I throw a party, I don't expect my guests to pay for 1/2 of the food. If I invite some friends over to watch the game, I don't charge them for beer and chips. Why the fuck is asking a girl on a date any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 02:13 AM
3

I agree with jez queen that the one doing the inviting should pay. If all you can afford is a cup of coffee, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 01:45 AM
1

I've always wondered... What happens if the father says no? Is it like, "oh... Whelp, guess we're done then"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:12 AM
2

Such crap. Post wall women get PLENTY of attention by good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:05 AM
1

I hate that I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:05 AM
3

So ask her to coffee. If you can't afford to buy her a cup of coffee, you probably shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:04 AM
1

Which name do the children get?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:02 AM
1

Weirdly, I found out where my progressive line is. It's me taking my wife's last name. That is such a repellant thought to me and I would never marry a woman that wouldn't take my last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:01 AM
6

I, for one, was hoping he'd just flip out and start bashing off whilst smearing shit all over himself. With consent, of course...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:19 PM
3

Sooo... Everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:02 PM
3

I'll assume you meant she's a pilot and he's a receptionist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:59 PM
1

This was something that took me a long time to figure out about my wife. She is fully in board with traditional gender roles, yet I was so caught up in "you women wanted equality!! Well this is equality!" I've since realized that a lot of women actually are just fine with traditional gender roles and that we shouldn't lump feminists in with normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:52 PM
1

One thing that baffles me is why we still a different title for unmarried and married women. Why should being married redefine you from Ms. to Mrs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:50 PM
2

I remember when the Dixie Chicks said they were embarrassed to be from the same state as GWB. They got a fuck ton of back lash as this was right after 9/11 and saying ANYTHING bad against anything America was a taboo of the highest order. I went to their concert shortly after and they had a whole section dedicated to the first amendment and I'm like.... You weren't thrown in prison for what you said...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:47 PM
1

Ok yeah, you got a point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:58 AM
2

You have to say this cause your girlfriend is watching. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:44 AM
1

There's definitely a difference between "I'll never look like I did when I was 20" and "I'm a fat ass because I had three kids" Far too many women use the "I had 3 kids" excuse to be fat and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:38 AM
0

All you need to say is, "Look, I took a look at myself and hated what I saw. I need to make some changes about myself for myself. You're going to see some differences, but it's not about you right now. It's about fixing me. But trust me, you're gonna LOVE the new me!"
/r/askMRP04/09/18 05:22 AM
1

It's a good point, and yes, my memory suffers the same flaws as everyone. It's been a long time and I don't remember the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:56 PM
1

The PMS thread was pretty eye opening for me. I really didn't realize just how many women get completely irrational while their brains are telling them that they ARE being rational. It's not until after the period that they look back and say "damn... That was irrational"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 04:54 AM
1

It's happened with a few. Like I said, totally anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 04:40 AM
1

Because it's a shared incident that we both were part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 04:13 AM
1

Nope. Slap away!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:53 AM
2

Honestly, It's a tough one for me. I see men make irrational decisions all the fucking time, so now I'm left wondering if there's any truth at all to women being more irrational than men? My personal anecdotal experiences lead me to believe yes. That women have a strange ability to warp their perception of events into some kind of twisted reality in their minds. I've had so many times where a woman would be arguing about something that flat out didn't happen, but in her head it did. Or the way i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:53 AM
0

Be careful not to confuse mentally and emotionally. I think most terps believe women to be every bit as intelligent as men. You can be very intelligent and still be emotionally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:42 AM
1

Yes. And, to be fair, the need for men to mature beyond 18 is ever shrinking as well. This is why we see so many losers stuck in their mom's basements playing video games for 16 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:32 AM
6

Okay, sure, but you're cherry picking the most charitable usage of the phrase. The most commonly used insinuation is that women have the emotional maturity of an 18 year old. Which, mind you, I don't necessarily disagree with this statement. If society does not require you to keep your emotions in check, and you never have a reason to grow, why wouldn't you have the emotional maturity of an 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:16 AM
1

https://youtu.be/1TtGQnyPZ6g
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:10 AM
2

I'd say that your ex breaking your heart counts as a broken home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:06 AM
2

Well, all of my sister's and my mom cheated on their husbands. So... There's that. Edit: I'm petty sure my dad would hook up with lounge lizards on the road, but not 100% sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:01 AM
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This isn't at all how TRP uses "Women are children". TRP says that women do not mature past 18 and are incapable of making rational decisions. That their decision making process is filtered by emotion first, then reason, where men make decisions based on reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:58 AM
1

What's the best way to supplement potassium?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:45 AM
5

cuntiness (is that a word?). If it's not, it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:53 AM
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When there are zero consequences for shitty behavior, you're gonna get a lot of shitty behavior. Men have consequences for acting shitty. Women are praised by the yougogrrrlll community for acting bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:52 AM
1

Not gonna lie... Sounds hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:46 AM
1

I was in the hospital a couple of months ago for a week. Apparently I was flirting with every nurse there. One even came to see me on her day off to bring me some banana nut English muffins. My wife was NOT happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:23 AM
1

Why do I keep getting toe cramps?? You know the ones where your toe tries to stick 90 degrees up and the ligament on the bottom of your foot is like an rubber band ready to snap? How do I keep from getting these? I already drink a fuck ton of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:20 AM
1

Your love is blueberry?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:17 AM
1

Aren't you blue though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:16 AM
1

Savage!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:11 AM
2

You're boring me now. Go troll someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:10 AM
3

Ooo... Let me find the one where RR says he bitch slaps his girlfriend while anally fucking her while she screams at him to call her a whore! One sec... Brb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:28 AM
3

One RP rule you should never break... DON'T GIVE YOUR GF YOUR REDDIT USER NAME!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:25 AM
1

He should have flagged it as trolling and deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 11:01 PM
8

I'd just like to say that PPD and the moderation here is true absolute best of any sub I've been to. Truly, thank you mods!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:55 PM
5

Oh the irony of agreeing that it's a circlejerk with a circlejerk comment! I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:47 PM
7

I've argued against the video game thing before. Decompressing by playing some CoD or WoW is a whole different story than spending all of your time playing video games. I see no difference in decompressing by watching football vs playing video games. Edit: I've never heard a red piller against cooking. On the contrary, often times men are encouraged to take over the cooking so they can cook healthier meals and "lead" the wife into losing some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:59 PM
5

A slow day should not be reason enough to let this garbage stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:54 PM
2

This post is in no way made in good faith. This is a troll through and through. It should never have been let stand, but since it has, lol is the only good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:42 PM
2

This whole thread is just so fucked up beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:02 PM
2

There's just no way this guy isn't a troll. His responses are just so blatantly trollish, I can't decide whether to applaud him or feel pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 08:15 PM
2

They're lying to themselves. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 08:10 PM
2

Right, but you don't seem to have any criteria that will legitimately change your view. Any answer of "I'm a woman and I like sex" is disregarded as lying. That's not debate. That's preaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 08:10 PM
1

It's like the old, "you had sex with a girl and girls like dick, therefore you're gay!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 08:06 PM
2

What will change your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:52 PM
5

Right... Because that's exactly what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:51 PM
3

This is some radfem awesomeness right here! Where's jam jam and lakequeen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:49 PM
2

Golf clap?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:46 PM
2

There's a difference between shy and demure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:39 PM
5

I think you should include an age range. I would imagine an 18 year old is going to answer these much differently than a 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:37 PM
1

The coldest 4th of July I ever suffered was in Tillamook. I was wearing my coat watching the fireworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:26 PM
2

You want less obvious, but fully agreed upon flags??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:22 PM
2

Men don't see violence against them by a woman as violence either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:40 AM
7

you're either doing something wrong Nice victim blaming. Typical "he did something to deserve it" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:40 PM
2

What statistics? Do you think any woman ever has been recorded in any kind of official statistic for playfully slapping her man??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:02 PM
6

A playful slap is worlds different than actual DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:57 PM
2

Naw... RP does a lot of stupid shit that I don't agree with. I don't base my self worth on what a bunch of internet strangers think of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:09 PM
0

I love Whoopies comments on this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hhCZ3xfS9Qw&feature=share I want to fucking strangle Tyra Banks when she says that if a man retaliates by hitting a woman that hits him, and we hold the woman accountable for hitting him first, that's blaming the victim. Just... What the fuck?? How is the guy that got hit in the first place not the victim??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:08 PM
2

Not having a successful something doesn't mean the something failed. Failed implies fault. There was no fault in the breakup, simply circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:56 PM
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Because they legitimately do not see it as violence. They have so many other phrases for their violence other than violence, not to mention the "he deserved it" card that women are so willing to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:45 PM
3

I so agree with you here. Calling it dread is just stupid. Dread should be reserved for active dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:30 PM
7

They both should be a death sentence for the relationship. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:27 PM
4

But we have different laws for petty theft and grand larceny. I'm ignorant in DV laws. Are there different levels of DV charges that you can be charged with?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:25 PM
2

Because someone moving away against their will is not a failed ltr. Do you believe that every LTR that ends is a failed LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:21 PM
3

That's a false equivalency fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:19 PM
2

This is why I call my wife a unicorn. Among many other things that RP would claim are AWALT that she doesn't do, she has never once struck me out of anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:15 PM
1

Would you call that equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:11 PM
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I'm really struggling to understand as well... Men are stronger than women, and if were talking fist to fist DV then men can cause more damage, therefore _________.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:10 PM
3

They really were.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:05 PM
6

Same amount of harm, no. But they should both be weighed equally as far as accountability, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:02 PM
6

I do believe we have socialized women to be terrified of everything, especially violence. I don't think other women are naturally as afraid of violence as western women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:59 PM
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Christ... She said "in terms of harm done", not in accountability. You're like on this super straw man roller coaster today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:56 PM
4

Exactly. I've argued this so many times. We simply don't even recognize violence enacted by women as violence, let alone record it as such. Statistics here are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:55 PM
6

You just contradicted yourself. If "DV is wrong in all contexts", then a slap should be equivalent to a black eye, right? DV is DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:53 PM
17

Is this the same for a man? If a man slaps you in the face, should that be a chargeable offense?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:50 PM
1

Sorry, saying one dumb thing doesn't make you dumb. But that was a dumb thing you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:42 PM
1

Huh. Good to know. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:27 PM
2

Thank you!! This is the video I've been trying to find!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:18 PM
6

Don't forget Carrie Underwoods song about destroying a guys truck because he's PROBABLY cheating on her. She doesn't even know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:16 PM
10

Something something victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:10 PM
13

That's just feminism 101 right there...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:09 PM
22

I would like to see the answer to this question as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:08 PM
7

-The point is, even though it's a bit unfair, any kind of violent act committed by a man (with the exception of firing a gun at a distance) is going to be more dangerous than the same exact act committed by a woman. This is likely why women might partake in minor violence more often, and this is why the outcome for each genders is different. Sure, if you're talking fists vs fists, I agree that it's not equal and should be judged as such. But my experience is that it's rarely fists vs fists. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:07 PM
1

I think they should be responsible for the intent. If a woman goes in all crazy, just because she didn't cause serious harm didn't mean she couldn't. Sort of like robbing a bank with an unloaded gun doesn't get you off the hook. Your intent was a loaded gun, so you'll be responsible for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:03 PM
1

This is true. I'm still not quite sure what point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:56 PM
3

Toxic femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:55 PM
1

I don't think it's fair to lump women with severe mental disorders in with normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:54 PM
3

What??? Society has deemed every single man a potential violent threat. How the fuck could society reflect men any more violently than they already do?? I think maybe you meant to say women, because women are not treated as violent at all in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:50 PM
1

You're kind of dumb, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:46 PM
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But the conversation is "men can hurt women. Women can't hurt men." Which is just false. A man can either hit or throw, both could cause significant damage. A woman can hit or throw. Women are stronger than people here want to admit, but they probably can't break bones. But throwing has every chance of being damaging. Plus women see other women throw shit at men all the fucking time on TV, and really underestimate the amount of damage throwing a hard or sharp object can have. Women are socialize…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:44 PM
2

Okay?? What does that have to do with anything I just said??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:31 PM
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Unless she starts throwing shit at him, which bloops seems mind numbingly unwilling to admit happens more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:28 PM
5

Dude, come on... She said she's not proud of it. Why are you guys piling on? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:25 PM
1

How the fuck is that stupid?? If I walk up to a 300lb roided out gym rat and pick a fight with him, can I now get sympathy because he was stronger than poor little ol me? You seem to have this narrative of women just minding their business and the guy walks in and starts beating the shit out of them. Most domestic violence is reciprocal, so why the fuck is the woman hitting a guy that can send her to the hospital??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:22 PM
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Women will grab whatever item is closest to them and use that as a weapon. That could be a plate, a lamp, a shoe, etc... Women don't need to premeditate to find a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:18 PM
1

Fair enough. I agree with you. It is on the MRP community to separate these terms out, otherwise they will be given the least charitable usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:57 PM
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Just head on over to /r/mensrights to see how often the man is arrested when he's the one that called the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:55 PM
2

Are you saying you have never hit a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:41 PM
1

Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:35 PM
2

I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:34 PM
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I've addressed this before, but we don't even call female on male violence "violence". It's comedy. When a guy is getting abused in public by a woman, people stand around and laugh. As soon as he starts defending himself and pushing back, suddenly the white knights come a-running to defend m'lady... even though they were just laughing at the guy. There have been several social experiments on YouTube that show this. In television, a guy getting beaten by a woman is used for laughs. A man beating …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:33 PM
1

Which you seemed to be saying is rare. IME, women are quick to brandish some kind of weapon. Usually some kind of blunt force weapon like a clothes iron or a plate or a rolling pin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:28 PM
2

female violence is ineffectual Female violence is often with a weapon of some kind. Even without, I don't know where women get this idea that women aren't strong. Sure, they aren't as strong as a man, but their fists hurt!! Plus men rarely use 100% of their strength when using violence against a woman. Women seem to lack this ability and always use 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:26 PM
2

You're talking about active dread. Passive dread (levels 1-6) is simply being such an awesome man that women want to fuck you. They give you IOIs and flirt with you. You don't do anything to invite the attention, but it's there none the less. There is absolutely nothing manipulative about this. You are just existing. Active dread (levels 7-12) is basically signalling to your wife that if she isn't going to fuck you, fine. You can get it elsewhere. It is not recommended for men that are getting s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:03 PM
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Why do bloops constantly and purposefully use the incorrect definitions of dread and LMR. It's like feminists that cite the wage gap even though it's been debunked a million times and the feminist even knows it's been debunked a million times. If you can't argue against something without lying, maybe you should reevaluate your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:40 PM
1

Is this some kind of weird gotcha troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:32 PM
1

Does she think there are men out there that can keep up with that? Does she orgasm 4-5 times a day every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:34 PM
1

Are they married or what? Answers will depend quite a bit on this little fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:28 PM
1

I certainly have my faults. Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 01:23 PM
1

Can't someone born into a female body that identifies as male be a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 01:21 PM
1

The internet is so weird... I always imagined you as a 30-something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:42 PM
0

What makes you believe that? That's like saying Jam Jam has always hated men. I doubt it. She's just addicted to shitty men and it's warped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 06:55 PM
2

The flaired posters, yeah. They are fucking dick heads that are stuck in a state of 3rd grade insults. Like, do they really need to include the word "faggot" in every single god damned comment?? But the average guy not so much. I think most of these guys genuinely want help in their marriages and the traditional "talk more and do more chores around the house" advice just ain't cutting it. Fix the man and the marriage will follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 06:55 PM
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There is no group of people that infantilize women more than feminists do. In the feminist mind, women are children that are incapable of making decisions for themselves and are easily seduced and pressured into doing all kinds of things they don't want to do. The fact that bloops think women are incapable of seeing through and falling for manipulation tactics tells me they don't see women as adult agents capable of rational decision making and accepting the consequences of those decisions. Conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:33 PM
2

Fair is fair. Yes, go get those needs met elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:18 PM
1

I don't think it's realistic to think that a woman will snap back to the body she had as a 20 year old. But that's not what I said. Women blame being fat on having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:02 PM
2

drives nails My wife says that wearing my utility belt when I'm building something turns her on like crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:50 PM
2

Just wait until some guy walks by that can do finances... You'll be jumping on his dick before your lizard brain can scream hypergamy!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:16 PM
2

I mean, the merpers can barely get missionary sex. How do you think they could ask for porn star sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:05 PM
1

I really despise the "I'm fat because I had kids" argument. No... You're fat because you eat too many calories and don't exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:28 PM
1

Well when you put it like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:37 AM
1

Yeah and marital rape wasn't a thing either. She was your property to do with as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:27 AM
3

I said this earlier in the thread, but the English language attaches way too many emotions to the word "love". You're exactly right that the high of new love fades, but for many of us it turns into a deeper love. Yeah, I don't get butterflies when I see my SO, but when I think about our upcoming vacation, I get excited because I enjoy spending time with her. Especially 1-1 with no kids time. Too many couples don't even enjoy spending time together. I guess some couples grow together and some gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:22 AM
1

Reminds me of this commercial https://youtu.be/K9sL4uq-S04
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:35 PM
1

I'm fine with them. Can they all stop bitching about the wage gap now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:34 PM
3

What you're leaving out is that she'll most likely get married to an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:19 PM
3

Fair enough. I know I've read a LOT of MRP victim pukes that start out as "I was alpha as fuck when we got married, then I maxed out my beta..." That's the thing with shit tests. Women THINK they want their man to change, but supplicating to her whims is the quickest way to get her to despise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:38 PM
3

that that the vast majority of these guys, imo, probably were fancied by their wives at one point and then lost that attraction for whatever reason. Well, yeah, and that reason can usually be succinctly described as "he was too beta". You can only see women respond positivity to a man going from a low value chump to a high value man so many times before you're just denying reality that many women want high value men and are disgusted with supplicant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:31 PM
3

I don't know the specifics. I've just heard of couples doing this. Now that gay marriage is legal in Utah, my ex wife is thinking of marrying her female friend strictly for the financial tax benefits, but I don't know the specifics. Neither are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:17 PM
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Maybe, maybe not... Like I said, some people get married just for the tax breaks. They aren't taking each other's money. But if she's a gold digger and he's okay with that, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:03 PM
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IMO, we attach way too many emotions to the word "love". English needs to invent about 8 new words to differentiate the different kinds of love that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:38 PM
3

I mean, this is MRP 101 shit here. I don't know why this is getting such controversy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:35 PM
3

That's a bit extreme...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:30 PM
3

Fuck feminism!!! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:28 PM
8

I do believe TRP under represents the number of attractive men that are willing to commit. To hear terpers talk, any reasonably good looking guy will be repulsed by the idea of committing to a single woman. It's just not true. I think women have much more have your cake and eat it too than TRP wants to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:22 PM
3

Ok, I see what you're getting at now. I'm still not convinced that the average man who isn't getting "love married" is going to have any better success getting "transactionally married". Most of these guys are not making stacks of cash and have some kind of great transactional pull to offer. They are losers living in their mom's basements playing video games all day. What woman would say, "oh yeah, I'm gonna hitch my offspring to that transactional powerhouse"? And how do you manage sex in a res…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:10 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:53 PM
5

God I hate this bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:49 PM
12

I never said this was optimal for the man. It's female mating strategy. Fuck the hottest men to pass on their genes while attaching yourself to the most stable provider to raise the alphas offspring. Women can love a man they don't desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:47 PM
1

Again, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:46 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:45 PM
5

As long as both parties go into the relationship with the understanding that it's completely transactional and there are no emotions attached, there's nothing wrong with that. There are married couples that get married because the tax breaks are better. They might even enjoy some FWB sex without bringing any emotions into it at all. But these are outliers. Why are we discussing hypothetical outliers? In the real world, couples pair and get married either because they are insanely sexually attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:42 PM
5

Actually, yes. There are more men that are idiots than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:26 PM
1

Are you sexually attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:51 PM
10

Naw... Plenty of wives love their husbands without being sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:47 PM
7

So you think that rolling your eyes equates to despising your husband?? Yes, many women end up despising their husbands, but they didn't start out that way. They married a person they loved, which turned to disgust after a long period of betaness. A gold digger never loved the rich guy. They married simply for the money and always despised him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:47 PM
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No. A gold digger is someone who despises the person they are married to, but does so anyways for the lavish lifestyle. Melina Trump is a gold digger that doesn't even try and hide her disgust in Trump. A woman that marries a beta bucks loves her husband. She just isn't sexually attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:00 PM
3

Graduating college says nothing about your IQ, other than you're not an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:14 PM
1

Does IQ correlate to rational though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:06 PM
1

Sigh... The point is that women are not just showing up. They put significant effort into their appearance. If you don't want to go to the gym because that's more effort than doing makeup, fine. Spend 1 hour a day doing SOMETHING to increase your SMV. Read a book. Get a hobby. Learn the guitar. If you are spending zero hours a day improving your SMV, then you have no right to complain that you aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 12:20 AM
1

Yeah, and??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 12:05 AM
2

Not at all... ANY time in the gym will improve most guys. You don't have to look like Thor to increase attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 10:40 PM
3

Ask most guys why they don't go to the gym. Do you think their answer is, "it's too much effort" or "I don't have time to go to the gym"? My guess is the vast majority of guys will say they don't have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 10:00 PM
1

Of course they aren't the same. I'm struggling to understand the point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:57 PM
3

Bull shit. If the average guy went to the gym and did even moderate weights, he'd improve his chances with women 1000 fold. But the average guy is too fucking lazy to do even this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:53 PM
4

Why would it be?? Men lament that "women have it on easy mode! They just show up and get laid" There is exactly zero reflection on the amount of time the average woman puts into her appearance. Why do guys feel like the don't have to put ANY time into their appearance and expect to get laid?? Do you know how much a guy would improve by going to the gym for, hell, even 30 minutes a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:52 PM
2

Just make sure you get consent before you hold hands!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:49 PM
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Most women get up at least an hour early to get ready for the day. This includes doing their hair, applying makeup, etc, etc. If a woman can take 1 hour a day to improve her looks, why can't guys take 1 hour of their day to go to the gym??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:49 PM
3

Idk... The social media machine? Oprah?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:41 AM
3

But they are also going to have to eat shit in the collective unconscious of culture for being net takers who made shit decisions. What?? Single mothers are heaped praise in our society!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 02:57 AM
-1

Jesus Christ. Proclaiming that men are stronger than women is not fucking rapey. Can you dilute rape any more??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:32 PM
1

Can you name me a single masculine trait that hasn't been deemed toxic by the feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:29 PM
2

I didn't realize that a guy talking to a girl is so incredibly hated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:25 PM
4

Seriously! ITT: "here's a fuck ton of research that disputes your claim". "but I fuk a lot, so...."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:22 PM
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Your evidence that women can't go without sex is womens magazines?? Do you think there might be any holes in your bulletproof statistical analysis here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:16 PM
1

Well, to be fair, the flip side of this is that men are no better. Most men have zero ambition, go work at a dead end job then come home and park their assess in front of the xbox all night while the wife takes care of the kids. The west is full of spoiled, entitled people of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:21 AM
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That's what I'm saying. Both men and women are conditioned, and both are strong enough to break out of the conditioning because we're strong. Feminism is not just a word. It's an ideology that wants to make women slaves to social conditioning and take their power away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:00 AM
3

So weird that a Q4Women would be answered by women...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 11:17 PM
1

I don't think so, just because so many women can't figure out why they're being so moody until they look at a calendar and realize it's that time of month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:50 PM
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Yep, this is exactly right. If she's being an insufferable cunt, don't scurry around trying to appease her. Just leave. She can be a bitch to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:24 PM
1

Yeah, that's possible. I do believe that the vast majority of husbands are lazy worthless pieces of shit and, perhaps exactly like you said, come into MRP decrying how they did the dishes (3 times) and he isn't getting the porn star sex yet!!! Don't listen to what women say!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:53 PM
2

aggressively trying That's the best way to make a baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:43 PM
1

Yeah, you be fair, I definitely have my time of the month when I'm extra irritable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:41 PM
3

I really appreciate your honestly and your point of view. As much as men lament the awfulness of PMS, I can't even imagine having you actually go though those kinds of mood swings, let alone the physical cramps and bloating bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:37 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. There are far too many factors that go into a personality to simply pick out one or two and assign a label to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:26 PM
1

Huh. Yeah, we must be in different circles. That would never fly in my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:20 PM
1

Well, I think anybody that is tactless is a dickhead or a bitch. It's pretty much impossible to be admired for your tactlessness. This is kind of my point. Woman is abrasive and tactless and for the life of her can't figure out why she's called a bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:13 PM
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I know these unfeminine, blunt women and I don't know any of the guys that think she's a bitch. In fact, she's much more likely to be "one of the guys" than a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:10 PM
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Of course we're all influenced by it. But you talk as if women are slaves to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:07 PM
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Jesus Christ. Why are women so weak in the feminist world that they aren't even agents in their own lives? Everything they do is because of some kind of bullshit social conditioning. Personally, I give women WAY more credit than the average feminist does. To hear feminists talk about it, women are hopelessly bound to men's whims and social conditioning. I say bullshit. Women are strong and can think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:02 PM
3

While I wouldn't call that attractive, I think your attitude is fucking amazing and I wish more people would adopt it. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:57 PM
4

It's not hypothetical at all. We hear about men all the fucking time that busted their assess doing more chores and made zero headway in the sex department.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:54 PM
4

Just to be clear, my wife has never said anything even remotely close to this. It was just a sucky example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:50 PM
0

Follow up question: How does this affect your professional life? If you are unreasonably bitchy but your brain makes it seems reasonable at the time, do you lash out at co-workers and clients and later regret it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:38 PM
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You sound more like my wife. She gets moody, but never turns into a raging bitch. Mostly she'll just say she wants to be left alone and watch a chick flick and cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:32 PM
2

Made me actually lol there. Thanks for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:30 PM
1

You give him a heads up so he's prepared, but what do you do? Do you try and take extra notice of how you're acting and reign in the bitchiness? Or do you let the emotions take over?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:29 PM
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I dunno.... women have said worse and blamed it on PMS. Where's the line between, "I didn't mean it... it was the PMS talking" and she's a nasty, ugly person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:26 PM
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My 68 year old mother just posted some quiz she did on Facebook that says she's 78% bitch, complete with YOUGOGRRRLL!! You are awesome because you're so bitchy!! So, yeah, there is defiantly a social reward for being seen as a bitch. Thanks feminism. And don't get me started on office girls that proclaim, "if he's assertive, he's management material. If I'm assertive, I'm a bitch." No.... you're probably just a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:24 PM
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Disagree. What would you say is the number one thing that a woman will say if you ask her why the sex has stopped? My guess is chores. "If you'd just help out more, I would feel so overwhelmed!" So men take on more and more of the housework, but NOTHING changes in the bedroom. Why do think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:19 PM
5

My take on the "women are teenagers" is not that women's brains stop maturing at 18 like TRP/MRP claims, but rather that there is so little consequence for women in our gynocentric society that they have little need to emotionally mature past a teenager. A woman can continue to act like a teenager well into adulthood and very few people, if anybody, will call her out on her bad behavior. On the contrary, it's seen as empowering and feminist to be a "bitch". My 68 year old mother just posted on F…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:17 PM
2

i have to be an uinrestrained cunt shrew at all times Because lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:09 PM
1

Just don't take it personally and you're fine Great advice for "I'm just sleepy", but should a guy take it personally if his SO tells him he has a tiny dick and sucks in bed......... but it was just the PMS talking? Edit: this was just a shitty example I made up. My wife has never said anything like this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:06 PM
1

I always realized in retrospect that I was acting like an insane irrational bitch This is really interesting. How is it that the next time you felt like it was completely reasonable you didn't remember the past 1000 times that afterwards you knew it wasn't reasonable and you felt remorse? Was there really no part of your brain that was like, "whoa... wait a second! I know this seems reasonable but we've been here before and it's NOT reasonable!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:41 PM
1

I thought that was WhineMorePlease?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:39 PM
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I remember this and I was disgusted that so many MRPers were totally on board with this behavior. For all the talk of women being the oldest teenager in the house, that was some juvenile bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:21 PM
1

He is highly intelligent and I believe somewhere on the autistic spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:34 PM
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Communication comes in many different forms. MRP simply says to stop communicating with words and communicate with actions. Watch what she does, not what she says. She can call you an ass hole all day long, but if she's enthusiastically fucking you and happier overall, then you are communicating effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:24 AM
1

Was it whinemoreplease that hid his wife's gloves?
/r/askMRP24/08/18 01:18 AM
1

Exactly this. He's so terrified of her mood swings that he tries to preemptively calm her down.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 01:17 AM
1

So let me get this straight... Because you were scared of her emotional temper tantrum, you pro actively took the car in to get the maintenance done, hoping that she wouldn't go full cunt mode. So... Why are you afraid of her emotional temper tantrums? Every day should be full of shit you want/need to do. When she starts acting like an insufferable bitch, leave and go do some awesome shit. Her emotional tyraids are her problem.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 01:16 AM
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But paranoia isn't his fault. If he's so awesome that other women are after him, she had better up her game to keep him, right? If she's gonna get complacent and lazy and fat, well, what value is she bringing to his life that 1000 other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 11:20 PM
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Active dread game is this. Passive dread game is just being an all around awesome guy that other women want to fuck. He isn't actually doing anything to encourage that other than dressing well and working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 09:36 PM
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I like this definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 02:56 PM
1

Lol that's so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:30 PM
1

Funny enough, that was one of my son's points. He was on an airplane and couldn't see the curvature of the earth. I told him no, you have to get into low earth orbit before you can see the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:15 PM
1

Oh... Why did I think you were raised on a farm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:30 AM
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I answered honestly. Nobody has ripped me to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 02:20 AM
2

I do and I am. It took me a long time to get here, but I'm okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:40 AM
1

What can I say... I'm a catch. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:35 AM
1

I'm petty sure she gets horny. But sex without orgasm seems to satisfy her horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:35 AM
1

Sorry to hear it, man. Learn angular and I'll hire you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:09 AM
1

You're a workaholico and you earn $8 a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:49 PM
3

Yeah, puritan religion fucks up sexuality in a big way. Mormonism takes that and ratchets up the sexual shaming by 100. All I can say is that she genuinely doesn't seem unhappy with our sex life, so at this point, I just have to trust that she's getting what she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:47 PM
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That's pretty much where I'm at now. I'm trying my hardest to accept what she says and accept that her sexual needs are being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:48 PM
1

The funny thing is that she's horny as fuck!! She's CONSTANTLY wanting sex. She just doesn't seem to have a need to orgasm. I've talked to her about this multiple times about how it makes me feel like less of a man because I can't give her an orgasm. Her response is that I'm an amazing lover and that I do everything "perfectly" and that it puts a lot of pressure on her if she has to orgasm every time, which has the opposite effect. She is Mormon and there's a pretty big stigma about masturbation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:28 PM
1

She's 43.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:08 PM
2

Okay, I'll try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:52 PM
2

There's some truth to the farmer's daughter sterotype huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:47 PM
2

Lol Ahh... thanks for the good laugh. XD (<- can't forget that, can we!)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:26 PM
3

I'll have to check it out! Sounds like it'd be very educational!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:24 PM
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Haha... If I try and fight her and "force" my way down there (here come the rape comments), she just starts laughing uncontrollably and, while fun, kind of kills the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:24 PM
1

Only if it's part of our lovemaking. She doesn't ever do it solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:14 PM
5

Yeah, I've tried, but same thing. If she isn't newly showered, she's terrified of her odor. I love a bit of... not sure what to call it... not-freshness? The distinct smell of pussy that gets washed away and takes a few hours to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:13 PM
3

Aren't you ghetto? You speak like a hood rat, so I assumed you were?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:11 PM
1

Naw.. My local minor league team is a farm team for the Angels and it's fun to watch these guys come up through the system. I got to watch Trumbo and Borjeous when they were the lowest league you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:47 PM
1

Ugh... Don't get me started on the Angels this year lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:31 PM
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Yeah, I LOVE giving oral to my wife. She, however, is so prudish about it. Like, unless we've come directly from the bathtub, no way is she letting me down there. It's really quite aggravating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:24 PM
1

Turned down how? Casual sex? Relationships? A date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:22 PM
2

I wish I knew. I heard one woman describe it as scratching a mosquito bite. There is an itch that needs to be scratched and the simple act of just having sex satiates that itch. Occasionally my wife needs an orgasm, and if so either I give her oral or we pull out the vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:18 PM
4

I see no difference between sex because she's afraid you'll leave her or cheat vs starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:11 PM
2

I do believe that we have sacrificed nature for the benefits of living in a society. If we went full on walking dead tomorrow, I'd be killed and my wife and her daughter's would be enslaved to the new over lords harem. That is the ugly of human nature. Luckily humans can mostly suppress their lizard brain and choose actions that go against our biological programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:09 PM
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First marriage, absolutely. I knew we were horribly incompatible, but I was so fucking desperate for a wife that any girl would do. Second marriage, no fucking way. I had absolutely no intention of ever even getting re married because I believed all women were horrible, controlling bitches that berate their husbands and cut off sex. But then I met my wife. She was unlike anyone I had ever dated. A unicorn, if you will. So I put a ring on it. 10 years later she's still fucking amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:04 PM
4

I think the demographic for PPD is UMC, not the ghetto. Your experiences probably don't reflect the experiences of the posters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:00 PM
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My wife is this. She claims it still feels amazing, even if she doesn't orgasm. It's a mystery to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:58 PM
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This has been a pretty constant source of contention in my marriage. If she isn't turned on, there's no way I can be turned on. I dunno... I'm wired to care about my partners pleasure way more than my own. She has an extremely difficult time orgasming anyways, and nearly impossible from penetration. She swears to me up and down that she enjoys sex immensely and that I "do everything perfectly" and that she doesn't need to orgasm to be fully satisfied. It's just so hard for me to believe that, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:56 PM
4

Obviously, your answer will vary depending on your definition of feminism. This is the only answer you need. No matter the subject, a certain percentage of feminists will decry that women who hold a particular view on the subject aren't "REAL" feminists. Those holding the view will claim they ARE real feminists. Others still will claim feminism is all about choice and if a woman chooses to do these things, she's a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 04:44 PM
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Yeah, mrp has devolved into calling everyone a faggot and not giving any real advice. It's a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:22 PM
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Totally agree. At MRP we tell guys to get a life plan (MAP) and work your ass off to achieve the goals in that plan. Your day should be so full of productive shit to do that you are exhausted at the end of the day. That doesn't mean you can't unwind with an hour of xbox here and there, but parking your ass in front of the tv for hours and days is inexcusable!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 04:16 AM
1

"Perfect for me" =/= "Perfect"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:38 PM
1

It's similar to asking did put a hard definition on porn vs art. I certainly can't put into a legal document which is which, but I know it when I see it. Same with alpha and beta. You can't legalize it, but they exist none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:36 PM
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if a wife sees other women find her man attractive But that's just passive dread. And yes, passive dread can trigger mate guarding. Active dread is going out of your way to flirt with waitresses and shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:05 PM
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No no... Not you. The asexual or disinterested partner. Whether that be male or female. Also I love the term "romping" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:16 PM
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I never understood how threatening someone to have sex with you is any better than starfish sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:08 PM
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The thing about women is they very often don't even understand themselves what does or does not turn them on. They've been so mired in a culture of slut shaming that even admitting that "You've gotten kind of fat" is so incredibly taboo to say that many wives have built up defenses in their minds to even consider that a possibility. Doing more chores around the house is like the #1 thing I hear from women. I hear time and time again how men upped their chore game but it was never enough. The sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:06 PM
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When I was 18, god damned right I was horny as fuck and sex was just a means to an end of getting off. Mind you, I wanted to make sure she was pleased as well, but it wasn't an emotionally bonding thing. In my 40s now and I prefer love making to fucking. One of my most memorable experiences with my wife was a really slow rhythm and we were just kissing for a long time. Very intimate. She's the opposite now. She just wants hard, rough sex all the time. I'm the one that is like, whoa... Slow down …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:00 PM
2

Then accept that you can't give him what he needs and give him your blessing to find it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:55 PM
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You think divorce is "not a whole lot to lose"?? That's a FUCK TON to lose. You need to implement passive dread for a while and give your wife a chance you change. Going Rambo without frame and squeaking some kind of lame ultimatum will just make her roll her eyes and up her disgust, which will cause even less sex. Fix the man FIRST, THEN you can issue ultimatums if sex hasn't increased. Otherwise he's just going to repeat the same mistakes with the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:52 PM
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My 18 year old son has become a conspiracy theorist. I'm a hardcore skeptic. It's soooo aggravating to me to watch him go down the rabbit hole. He was actually arguing flat earth with me last week. Like, legit he thought he had flat earth all figured out. I think I got a winning shot on him by asking why when we sail away from a shore with a mountain do we see the mountain slowly go behind the horizon until we only see the top? It's not just "too small" to see anymore. He didn't have an answer f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 01:03 PM
1

Lol no. Sound like the same type of person that would post the "my hands look like this so that hers can look like this" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:58 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:58 PM
1

This is one of the stupidest things I've ever read. Please tell me you don't actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:22 PM
1

My wife refuses to close the cupboard doors. I follow behind her and close them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:17 PM
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MRP would tell this guy to have his day full of shit to do. Manly shit that gets him closer to his goals. I would argue that most women wouldn't care if the guy is doing the dishes or the laundry, as long as he's doing SOMETHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:15 PM
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Women shaming male sexuality?? Tell me it ain't so!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:52 AM
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drunk toddlers Made me lol. Thanks for the laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 01:37 AM
2

Does your hubby hold you to his standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 01:08 AM
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Yeah, I'd agree those are some pretty adulting basics. I guess I should clarify that we assume the guy is doing at least the baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 01:03 AM
1

Stop thinking of every interaction as some kind of pick up. Instead, just strike up a conversation. Pick something in the environment to comment on and comment on it. If she's interested, she'll reciprocate. If not, she won't. If she doesn't, leave it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 01:01 AM
1

Like what kinds of things would you consider baseline?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:57 AM
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See, I think most men want a reasonably clean house, but they don't care about scrubbing the walls and the baseboards every month. When I lived alone, I kept my house tidy, but never did deep cleaning and I couldn't have cared less. My wife would go crazy if things weren't deep cleaned regularly. Edit: but my wife knows that's her standards and never imposes them in me, which I appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:56 AM
1

One thing my wife and I do is make it a point to show physical affection in front of the kids. They hate it, but at least they know what a happy marriage looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:53 AM
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You really should get some therapy man. She really hurt you deep. And I say this with all the genuine concern and love that I can give an internet stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:52 AM
3

How do you feel about online dating where only the top 20% are ever really selected for by women where closer to 50% of women are selected by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:26 AM
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Coming from a MRP perspective: That women are the oldest teenager in the house. Most women are running the house while their husbands come home from their shitty dead end jobs and crack open a 6 pack and park their assess in front of the PlayStation for the night. The motte/baily of AWALT. I fully support passive dread, but active dread is just flat out abuse. If you can only get your wife to fuck you because she's afraid you'll fuck some other chick, that's pretty weak. I support the captain/fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:24 AM
2

I was just going to say I swear I answered this like a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:19 AM
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Sure, that'd be great! I'm honestly looking to expand my viewpoints on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:53 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:52 PM
1

I'm banned. And so is everyone else that could provide a decent discussion. There are like 9 people that participate over there because everyone else has been banned for minor infractions. That's why I like PPD so much. There's a good mix of feminists and MRA's that give a really good back and forth and lots of perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:50 PM
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Then they just go into social programming and girls are told they can't do that and blah blah bullshit. Jordan Peterson is so popular because he's the only person currently telling boys that they matter and they are good and can do great things. Every other message they get is "girls are better" and "make way for girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:49 PM
1

Well... shit. That sucks. This is the only place I can get a good discussion. You should change that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:45 PM
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I've never once had a feminist admit they have equal rights. That discussion inevitably falls into apex fallacy territory and "how many female presidents have we had??? ZERO?? Then we aren't equal!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:40 PM
2

This is exactly right. If a woman loses their privilege, they scream misogyny. It's utterly amazing that so many women can't even see their privileges and are stuck on this false narrative of women being oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:37 PM
3

So even in your own story, you are deriding a man because he has zero ambition and wouldn't go get a job. Would you deride a woman that had zero ambition and just wanted to stay home and be a lazy mom? Society wouldn't. Society would praise her for doing "the hardest job" of being a mother, regardless of how shitty of a mother she actually is. I get your personal story, and it sounds like he is a truly lazy piece of shit that didn't work OR engage as a father and I don't want to diminish your ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:36 PM
2

Oh ya. Feminism is FULL of no true Scotsman fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:30 PM
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Well, TRP is a niche group as is MRA's. Feminism is a massive group. I disagree that most men don't want to help women. I'd argue that most men DO want to help women. However, most women don't want to help men while they still believe women are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:29 PM
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I don't want to take women down a peg. I want women to do well and succeed. I believe most men feel this way. From my experience, men have a much more overall feel for equality. They want to raise women up where necessary and remove some privileges where necessary. Same with men. Feminists only want to raise women up. If raising women up happens to help men too, well, great! The feminists will crow about how they help men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:22 PM
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Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:16 PM
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Yeah, there was a lot of that on the askwomen thread as well. "The loudest ones are the worst! They make us quiet ones look bad!" Well why the fuck are you quiet then?? Speak up!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:14 PM
1

Just in case it wasn't clear, that was a joke that going to /r/askwomen gave me cancer... I'm not really going into chemo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:12 PM
1

So true! My wife will apologize when her phone goes into a dead zone. Like... That wasn't you fault... Why are you apologizing??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:55 AM
1

Hate to tell ya, but the patriarchy is alive and well and ain't going nowhere. Women have as much power as men choose to give them. But... You are right that today's men are truly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:52 AM
1

Jesus, so much weaker!! How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:50 AM
2

Haha this happened to me just the other night. Had to get up and walk it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:13 AM
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What is FOMO?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:49 PM
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If we don't even see violence against men as violence, let alone record it as such, your statistics are meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:55 AM
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Those are awful stories. And, I'm certainly not defending or trying to say that men don't engage in their fair share of abuse. They do. But a statement like the one I referenced from OP (damn mobile doesn't let me see it) can't just go unchallenged as if it's just fact that men are the vast perpetrators of violent abuse. I can't find it right now, but 60 mins or Dateline did a hidden camera where they showed a woman hitting her boyfriend. Then they showed the boyfriend shoving the girlfriend. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:31 AM
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Well, for slapping, a LOT do this. Pirates of the Caribbean is a good example. When Jack Sparrow goes to Tortuga and gets slapped and says, "not sure I deserved that", then gets slapped again and says, "I definitely deserved that". For rape, I can't remember the name of the movie and I'm on mobile, but the premise was that one guy was going to swear off sex for 40 days. They women couldn't have this, so they plan all kinds of ways to seduce him, and finally drug him and full on rape him. He wake…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:13 AM
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Oh ya. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:08 AM
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I'm not saying it's an epidemic, or even that it happens that often. Violence is pretty rare altogether. But it's definitely treated differently between m on f vs f on m.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:41 AM
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Drunk chicks can be pretty mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:15 AM
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Sisters/in laws hitting husbands, wives friends hitting their husbands and kids... Just around. Usually it's not so much a beating as it's more of a "GAWD!!" (SLAP) kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:05 AM
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This whole list is just proof of how blind to it you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:25 AM
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Something else I've heard, but don't know enough to say more than I heard it, is that men hardly ever go 100% when enacting violence against women. Sure, a man is WAY stronger, but typically they are only using 25% of their strength. Women don't do this. They go 100% all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:51 PM
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Absolutely women are more violent than men. To say otherwise is just absurd! I see women hitting men all. the. fucking. time! Look at our society. Women slapping/beating/raping men in movies is comedy gold. Oh, that's so funny! Movies that show a man slapping a woman is prefaced with a warning that this movie contains graphic violence. Another example is the guy that flew his airplane into the house in Utah. Everything in the article and police report painted this guy as an abuser. He was arrest…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:37 PM
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In what situation do you have sympathy for women? And in those situations, is there a different standard of sympathy for men? The way you worded it sounded like the bar for having sympathy for men is much higher than the bar for having sympathy for women. The "I certainly don't have any sympathy..." makes it read like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:25 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:51 PM
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I think to a point, yes. However, I remember back in my early college days looking at the girls my friends said were "so fucking hot" and wondering what the fuck was wrong with them to think such an ugly girl was hot?? Funny that they thought the same thing about the girls I thought were gorgeous. Personal taste accounts for a lot of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:44 PM
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I wouldn't have any sympathy with a woman in that situation, but I certainly don't have any sympathy with a man. So.... normally you WOULD have sympathy for a woman, but not for a man, but in this case you CERTAINLY don't have sympathy for a man?? Just... wow... That's some top shelf misandry right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:24 PM
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So you don't think there are any problems with those inequalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:21 PM
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because I view men as almost incalculably more violent than women in general This is just so incredibly wrong that it's absurdly laughable!! We don't even call women's violence "violence". And, the rare occasion that we do, surely the man did something to deserve it. I like to offer up a very realistic scenario... You and your buddy are at the bar. You hear a commotion and look over and see a woman is beating the shit out of her boyfriend. Oh man! This is funny! She's really giving it to him! Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:19 PM
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I mean... isn't that the whole point of RP? That if you have game enough you can get hot girls??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:48 PM
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There is some confusion here. Most men will fuck a 5-6, they just aren't going to date her. Women are just the opposite. They are much more selective looks wise in who they will have casual sex with, but a charming, funny uggo can get the hot girl for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:46 PM
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True, but what I said is true for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:43 PM
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Absolutely true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:11 PM
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Well, biologically speaking, the male of a species performs for the female and the female selects the male. Humans are no different. The man must be constantly performing for her, otherwise she'll lose interest. This may or may not lead to infidelity. So, no, it doesn't really happen to guys the same way it happens to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:25 AM
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I think more than anything, TRP is trying to de-program what a lot of us learned. You know sugar and spice and everything nice made us believe that women are just more pure and are loyal companions. TRP wants to warn men that shitty women do exist... In fact a lot of shitty women exist. So stop putting women on pedestals and recognize that many will cheat. Personally I think the paranoia goes to unhealthy levels, but there's nothing wrong with changing your perspective to think maybe my wife cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:22 AM
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No, I mean that even in your list of supposedly faithful married couples, we really have no idea if infidelity has happened and they decided to work it out. You seem to be saying, "I have a list of coupes who have been married for a long time, therefore no infidelity!" I would argue it's possible there has been infidelity and you just aren't privy to it. But, possibly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:14 AM
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The sad fact is that if men were approached by women at the same rates women are approached by men, the number of loyal men would be staggeringly low. Men are loyal out of lack of the ability to cheat, not because they are more virtuous. However, there are a LOT of women that cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:12 AM
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I would argue that staying married does not necessarily preclude infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:06 AM
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I don't think so. I really think their view of women is so warped that they honestly cannot fathom a loyal, kind hearted woman. Jam jam is the equivalent from the woman side where a man does not exist that doesn't simply want you for sex and will rape you to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:56 AM
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But do you see the hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:53 AM
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Have you been over to /r/thebluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:27 AM
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It's true. If the world went full on walking dead, everything feminist would be destroyed tomorrow and we'd devolve into warring clans that use women as property and currency. And women would be powerless to stop this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:26 AM
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Substitute "women" with "people" and I'm with ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:18 AM
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TRP is the most motte/bailey using bunch of ass holes on the planet!! Whenever confronted with AWALT, they'll decry, "OF COURSE it isn't REALLY all women, you fucking autist!! Stop taking everything so literally!" But the second I tell them my wife isn't AWALT, suddenly unicorns don't exist and she's probably fucking 10 other guys right now, I'm a cuck, blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:15 AM
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Unfortunately, I don't have the expertise to go into detail about this. And I wouldn't necessarily say the education system is favoritism. I don't see that there are specific impediments put in the way of boys learning to favor girls. The talking point is that the education system is structured around how girls learn and punishes rambunctiousness in boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 09:04 PM
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Well, if it were really that women were simply doing better because they are doing better, I'd totally agree with you. But again, "doing better" in what way? Women have had areas where they have always done better than men. And I'd argue that it wasn't ok. Feminism was correct in trying to equalize these imbalances. But do you really think that women are simply doing better because they are doing better? Like, why do we need AA and gendered quotas? Those specifically put barriers in men's way wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 02:08 PM
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Wasn't there a Simpson's where Marge wins a house cleaning and she scrubs they entire house spotless and imagines the cleaning ladies finding a speck of dust and pointing at her while chanting "UNCLEAN! UNCLEAN!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:28 PM
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Mid-40's guy that has had a LOT of women tell me my little bit of grey is hella sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:12 PM
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I'm not sure what gave you that impression? There is plenty of room for everyone to do well! I'm not a zero sum game guy. That's feminism. They believe that if men are doing well, women must be doing poorly. The word "succeed" is tricky. What is considered success varies so much from person to person that I'm not sure how we quantify it. Success for some people is having a lot of money. For others it might be raising their children to become functional adults. Others might find success in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 03:35 PM
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Seriously... What kind of houses do you guys have?? I can clean the entire fucking house, vacuum and do all the dishes in 30 mins. My god, to hear women complain you'd think it takes a full 8 hours to clean the house!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:01 AM
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I'm not the one only fighting for women's rights under some misguided notion that only women are oppressed. I fully recognize that there are still areas where we need to fight for women's equality. But, unlike feminists, I also recognize that there are a lot of areas where men are disadvantaged and need help. I don't identify as feminist or MRA because feminism has become a female supremacy ideology and MRAs are only interested in blaming feminism for men's problems and not offering any actual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:42 AM
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Jesus dude! Calm the fuck down!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 02:12 AM
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Advantaged in some ways. I'm not sure why feminism insists on only framing advantage and oppression in terms of white color work. There are a multitude of other social arenas in which women are and have always been advantaged. Many of these social arenas used to have male advantages, but feminism has pushed those to be more female advantaged now. Which is fine if they would push the naturally female advantages to allow male advantage to catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 01:29 AM
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Only if you believe that every man is advantaged and every woman is oppressed. Which pretty much is what feminism believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:32 PM
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downright horrible for men Yeah, see, this is where you lose me. I would never say it's horrible for men. Men most certainly have some advantages that women don't. The problem is that feminism is fighting tooth and nail to diminish the male advantages that disadvantage women while failing to even acknowledge, or even worse outright denying, that women have advantages that disadvantage men. They are fighting just as hard to make sure women retain all of these advantages while simultaneously claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:28 PM
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I think you misunderstand the frustration. We are constantly bombarded with feminists claiming that women are oppressed when the statistics show that women are doing better in every single metric except CEOs and government representation (which is quickly gaining parity). If you look at the worst problems that the lowest men suffer, they are far worse than the worst problems the lowest women suffer. If you compare problems from each class, women have it better than men until you reach the 1%. Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 05:58 PM
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I have no problem acknowledging the male, white, cis, thin, above average looks privilege that I am swimming in. It has made my life very easy. What I do have a problem with is people demanding that I apologize for my privilege and people that claim women have ZERO privileges and are exclusively oppressed. That the guy living in the gutter is somehow more privileged than the woman living in the Hampton.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 05:53 PM
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Not necessarily. A parent may want their son to get married, but only in a world where getting married isn't a crazy stupid endeavor for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 10:23 PM
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There is a big difference between I don't want my son to ever get married vs any man would be utterly stupid to marry in today's fem-centric political climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:31 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:24 PM
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Ok, so I guess all the times I was told I'm such a great listener we're what? All in my mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:44 PM
2

You've never heard "confidence is the most attractive thing in the world"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:44 PM
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A lot of it comes from girls telling their orbiters, "You're such a great listener. You're like the perfect guy! You're going to make someone a great boyfriend!... Just not me because you're like a brother to me." You internalize that. "Oh! Wow! I'm a real catch I guess!" So you patiently wait and orbit other girls who all tell you they same thing. And you're so utterly confused because you have all these girls telling you that you're perfect boyfriend material... but nobody wants to be your gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:43 PM
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Casey Affleck was accused and acquitted, but still is treated like he just "Got away with just it". Matt Damon said something like there needs to be levels of abuse. Like, don't lump guys who awkwardly ask someone out with Weinstein. Feminists did not like this and the studio cancelled whatever role he was currently working on. Some labeled him a rape apologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 05:38 AM
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Lol I didn't even connect that, but yeah, sure, I'll go with it. I totally did it on purpose!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:06 AM
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Look, there are far, far, far, far, far more blue pill chumps out there than red pill alpha guys that want to pump and dump you. Chances are that most of the guys you date can't wait to girlfriend you up and make a wife out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:40 AM
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Come on poppy. I know you're smarter than this. This level of trolling is beneath you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:09 PM
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Your award is a "male feminist" t-shirt. Made me laugh. Good talk, son. Good talk.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 11:00 PM
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So? Since when is pissing your wife off a bad thing? I don't care if I piss her off. You were arguing that any wife would be happy not knowing. I'm countering that by saying that yes, my wife would care. Also, it should be implied that you're always looking for something better. This is a fair point that sort of renders the rest of the conversation moot. If the understanding is that I'm never settling for good enough and I'm always going to be looking for a better gig, then when I find one, it s…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 10:41 PM
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I'd have to disagree with you there. My wife would be pissed that I made such a major life change without even letting her know that I was looking. To be fair, this change very much affects her too. My wife has proven herself to be a valuable asset when discussing things. As "alpha" as I want to think I am, emotions can and do cloud my judgement. She's very good at helping me work through my emotions and see the logic of what I'm doing. She always leaves the final decision to me, but she's there…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 09:51 PM
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This sounds like you are in her frame. "Oooo.... better not tell my wife I'm looking for a job because if I don't find one, she'll shit test me. And I'm a-scared of shit tests!" There is no reason not to tell your wife this unless you are afraid of your wife.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 09:25 PM
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You make a good point. While the fact that the position you are currently in is worth 30k more, you may or may not be worth 30k more. Our reality is that a handsome man with great social skills is going to subjectively be worth 30k more than a fat neckbeard with a Cheetos stained waifu tee shirt. The ogre can look at the job market and think he's worth 30k more all he wants. Until that comes to fruition, it's wishful thinking. However, I would say that calling it "feelings" isn't quite right eit…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 07:30 PM
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If the job market shows that your current position is worth 30k more, that's not feelings... It's facts. You don't "feel" like you're worth more, you simply ARE worth more. I've actually done this before. I was underpaid by about 35k and I printed out 6 job postings for my current position and went to my boss and showed him I'm underpaid. I told him I loved working here, but I can't justify it for that much less. He raised me up to an appropriate level. In no part of that did my feelings enter t…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 05:45 PM
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Man, you guys must have some really shit wives. I guess for us guys that have wives that are able to give valuable feedback while still letting us steer the ship, I'd prefer more information than less. But, every man needs to decide for himself what level of involvement they want from the first mate.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 06:58 PM
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Just curious, but what did she say?
/r/askMRP07/08/18 02:50 PM
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What's the difference??
/r/askMRP07/08/18 02:54 AM
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I trust my wife to help me look at all sides of a major decision, and then I make the major decision. I'm not offloading of my responsibility to her. It's keeping her in the loop and getting her input. Put it this way, why would you keep it from her? Are you afraid of her reaction? That's living in her frame. If I were to approach my wife about this, I'd say, "Babe, I'm thinking about changing jobs. Looking at the job market, it looks like I'm underpaid by about $30k right now and I'm ready for …
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:20 PM
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There is a difference between asking permission and discussing your plans with your wife. I see nothing wrong with getting her input on the move. The final say is still his, but another perspective can't hurt.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 10:02 PM
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Remember that MRP is a captain/first mate hierarchy, not a master/slave. Personally, I'd discuss a major life event like this with my first mate and get her input. Obviously the final decision is yours to make, but she might have valuable input that you hadn't thought of. More information is always better than less.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 10:00 PM
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Thank you Mr Wolff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:29 PM
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What the fuck is a vodka tampon thing???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:42 AM
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Couldn't I say the same thing about feminism and patriarchy theory and toxic masculinity and sexism in the workplace and the oppression of women? If you start with the conclusion and work backwards, of course you're going to find that it fits the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:14 PM
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Isn't this like saying, "feminism itself isn't bad, it's just individual feminists that are bad"? Feminism has some good ideas premised upon very, very faulty presuppositions. Just like TRP. Feminism itself is awful. Add horrible feminists into the mix and it becomes downright toxic. Exactly like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:11 PM
2

Volcanoes are kind of your go to execution method, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 05:35 PM
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Yeah, BearSaint is a pretty awful troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 05:32 PM
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I think that's a big part of it, but it's foolish to say they don't also do it to attract hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure most women are okay being wanted for sex by the right guy. I mean, they don't spend hours getting pretty and hundreds of dollars on fashion for nothing. It's only objectification if the guy is ugly, aka creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:11 AM
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Is it possible you you could be a person AND a sexual object?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:07 AM
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Don't women typically slut shame other women behind their backs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 02:56 AM
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Should you really be commenting on something you haven't even seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 04:46 PM
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TFA was a much better movie than TLJ. I'll grant you that Kylo had the same motives as Vader. He wanted Rey to join him. He wasn't looking to kill her, so point conceded there. I would argue that TLJ is an awful movie even outside of the Star Wars context. It's just a cluster fuck of stupid shit. Inside the Star Wars universe, it's unforgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 04:45 PM
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Because every male in the movie (except Chewbacca) is deeply flawed, and every woman is a hero. Can you name a single character flaw in any of the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 03:58 PM
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Naw... Luke never challenged Vader until Empire and Vader was basically fucking around with him trying to get him to turn. Luke was beaten quite handily, and jumped. In RotJ, some indeterminate amount of time has passed and we are left to assume that Luke has completed his Jedi training. He beats Vader, but the Emperor was going to kill him until Vader turned. Rey beats Ren when she's never even held a lightsaber.... Twice! Then she can lift a mountain of boulders when Luke couldn't even lift th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:53 PM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:20 PM
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The problem here is that many hard core fans saw it ONCE. A good star wars movie would have been watched 5-10 times per hardcore fan. Okay. So maybe Disney got a few SJWs into the seats, but so what? They lost a fuck ton more by pissing off the fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:19 PM
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That's a big ass strawman even by your standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:16 PM
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Fascinating. Every single word you said is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:15 PM
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Best music in any of the Disney cartoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:11 PM
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Seriously... Why can't all dad's just let their 16 year old daughters do whatever the fuck they want and sell their soul to the devil? She's a strong independent womaaaan who don't need no man telling her what to do!! /snap snap snap
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:10 PM
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Flounder isn't an orbiter. There's no romantic interest at all there. The rest, yes, exactly. Also, be hot is all you need. Eric has NO personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:08 PM
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Yeah, Eva Green getting hate fucked is pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:59 PM
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I watched 300 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:41 PM
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He was pretty much casualty 2 after Weinstein on the metoo train wreck, so he really wasn't prepared for the shit storm that hit him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:51 PM
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Way to completely miss the point. It isn't about protecting the family, but rather making them feel safe. Society has decreed that it's the man's job to make the woman feel safe. I'd go further and say that it's biologically driven, but I'm sure the bloops here will tell me everything is societal. As long as you can make your woman feel safe, the actual ability to keep her safe doesn't matter. I'd wager that most men couldn't keep their family safe when push actually comes to shove. But what do …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:05 PM
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So, how would society view a weak man that was unable to protect his family? Judging by this thread, there is a visceral disgust for him. If "a real man" protects his family, and a man is shamed because he can't protect his family, how is that not toxic masculinity? It's no different than shaming a man because he likes the ballet or flowers, which is labeled as toxic masculinity by the ones doing the shaming. If a woman is disgusted because a man can't or won't protect his family, that's putting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:09 PM
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You're suggesting that men and women remove all gender roles, but one of the most commonly repeated one in the "Weakest thing a man can do" thread was fail to protect his woman and family. It seems to disgust women at a visceral level. How do you suggest we remove this gender role from society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:59 AM
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Does that mean men would no longer be required to protect their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:27 AM
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I think you're right. It's not toxic masculinity as much as it's rigid enforcement of gender roles. A man has very little room to shirk his societal gender roles. Doing so will disgust women. What would you say to a scrawny man that really has no hope of defending his wife and family from an attack? Is he less of a man? It just goes back to the double standards that women want to shirk their gender roles while at the same time expecting men to keep theirs. If you even dare suggest you are disgus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:52 PM
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Did you even read?? I said quite plainly that I do believe men should protect their women and families.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:41 PM
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You don't think that's expecting a man to take a beating for his woman is toxic masculinity? Does a mans broken face not hurt as much as a woman's broken face? Basically there is no freeing a man from his traditional gender roles. That is reserved for women only. Also, fwiw, I'm arguing against the idea that toxic masculinity is bad. I think men SHOULD protect his woman and family. But, the flip side is that i believe a woman who expects this protection has an equal obligation to provide sex to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:37 PM
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This thread is basically the primer for why toxic masculinity will never go away. If the feminists had their way and all traits labeled as toxic masculinity poofed away, women would be utterly disgusted with men. Toxic masculinity is highly attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:05 PM
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That's some toxic masculinity right there. "If a man isn't willing to take a bullet for a woman, he is weak and pathetic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:01 PM
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He's trolling. Just ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:55 PM
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Yeah, read his post history. Def a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:55 PM
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Ah, just read your post history. Good troll. You got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:54 PM
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That is so incredibly wrong it's laughable. Any time a woman says, "a REAL man does x for his woman" is sexism against men. I could list out a hundred different ways women perpetrate sexism against men, but I'm pretty sure you'd find a way to twist each one into sexism against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:35 PM
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That may or may not be true. Women enjoy a fuck ton of privilege that they seem to be completely blind to, or have twisted it to somehow benefit men. But do you at least agree that men have SOME forms of sexism against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:56 PM
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Fml... I come you PPD because it's NOT a protected safe space. We are all big kids here and can handle a bit of sarcasm. I don't want to turn this into FemRa where you get banned for not properly quantifying SOME feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:54 PM
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The thing is, I don't know many people that deny the women have a lot of problems they deal with. MRAs like to downplay their problem because women also get a fuck ton of privileges that men don't, but women can't seem to recognize that they have any privilege at all. I think the problem is that very, very few women will even acknowledge that men face discrimination period. A man that transitioned to a woman complaining about the discrimination that women face is old news. Add her to the hundred…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:50 PM
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That's one distorted view of feminism you got there jam jam...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:41 AM
0

This is what you get when feminists remove masculinity from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:42 AM
6

She's not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:42 AM
3

That's a paddlin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:32 PM
1

Oh. Yeah. Derp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 11:35 PM
1

Isn't it more radfems than TERFs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 10:43 PM
2

I wouldn't say they lie as much as they honestly don't know why the bad boy gives her tingles. Men are simple. She was hot. Women have a whole host of things that cause attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 02:45 AM
5

Most women have no idea what they want. Hence why they tell their orbiters, "you're like the perfect boyfriend.... For someone else, just not me.". What?? How does that make any sense??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:04 AM
2

This is why I never use Alpha/Beta. I prefer to use the terms high value/low value. I firmly believe that alphas are born alpha and there is no way for a non-alpha to become an alpha. Sure, they can mimic alpha behaviors, but they will never have that natural gravitas that alphas come by so naturally. So, yes, I agree that any guy here that self proclaims himself an "alpha" isn't one because an alpha would never have to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:49 PM
2

Congrats to the frogs!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 06:52 PM
2

Seriously. The hamster runs wild here.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 06:13 PM
3

As a man, I can't figure out why a woman that gives it up too easily isn't nearly as exciting as a woman that I have to chase. I had a girl once tell me something that stuck with me, that a lot of women confuse hard to get with not to get. There is an art to leading a man on vs shutting him down. If a woman shuts me down, I'm out. There has to be SOME reciprocation without giving it up. I guess I blame evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:49 PM
2

I didn't see anything that she brought to your relationship? So she left and... What? What are you missing? Some bitch that won't put out but expects you to fulfill all of her needs? Wow, yeah, I'd for sure want that back in my life! This sounds like a sunk cost emotion. You've put in 7.5 years with her and it's comfortable. Do you think high value men are content with being comfortable?
/r/askMRP15/07/18 05:40 PM
5

Lol so you really don't have any evidence other than "I don't like him an thats gudenuff"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:42 AM
5

Man, I don't know about this... Seems like women expect their man to entertain them constantly. Trying to have a conversation of any substance is next to impossible... Unless you consider if Kylee Jenner is REALLY a self made billionaire substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:05 AM
1

So the whole fear of decimating the coastal cities is bull shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:00 AM
1

I'm rooting for whichever team flops least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 07:47 PM
5

Even if climate change isn't real, why are so many people against clean, renewable energy just for cleaner air?? Also, you do realize that even if fossil fuels don't contribute to global warming in any way that we will eventually run out, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 07:45 PM
3

So in 2000, they said that by 2020 the rising ocean levels would catastrophically decimate most coastal cities. When I visit Huntington Beach, it looks pretty much the same to me. Supposedly we've lost a fucking shit ton of polar ice, but where is it all? I also believe that, at some point in the future, we will run out of resources we use to sustain 7 billion people. 4+ billion people will die of starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 07:43 PM
3

It is tricky, but it gets easier with time. The fact that you left to go pick up some toys is a solid bonus. It's less butt hurt and more "I have shit to do rather than sitting here listening to you bitch and moan". I would have probably chuckled and said, "okay babe..." as I left because this fight is seriously beneath me and I refuse to engage in it. But I don't think you're there yet.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:30 PM
8

lol You can be a doormat to *A* woman or *SOME* women. You can't be a doormat to "women". That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 07:22 PM
6

Right. Beta would have supplicated and DEERed and apologized. He left. He's doing fine. Until he gets frame, STFU and leaving are his best weapons. To your edit: he's a pussy fag to her for a whole host of reasons. Had he stayed, more than likely be would have just dug his own grave.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 06:53 PM
1

But did the hooker live?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:51 PM
10

Exactly. Treat people how you want to be treated EVEN IF THEY DON'T! That's some grade school bullshit. "You're mean to me so I'm gonna be mean to you back" Oldest teenager in the house indeed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:49 PM
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"When she's acting like a bitch, STFU and leave" Guy STFU and leaves "You walked out like a faggot, faggot!!!" He did just fine walking out when she's being an insufferable cunt.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 06:45 PM
6

Of course she does, but they are legitimate issues that should be discussed. Those aren't shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:47 PM
20

IF you can actually select against them. We don't see that in TRP/MRP. We see, "ALL women are like this. It's just a matter of time before your woman does [bad thing]." TRP/MRP truly believe that every single woman will eventually fuck another guy because they are slaves to their hypergamous lizard brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:18 PM
5

I guess we'll see...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:41 PM
3

Maybe... Did you forget to mention you were European before we got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:29 PM
5

Oh, gotcha. Yeah, for as much good advice as MRP has, some of it is just so fucking retarded!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:27 PM
2

I'm not saying WHATGMG is wrong, just that it's prevalent in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:26 PM
1

Are you saying I am an omega but hamstering myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:24 PM
2

Oh I have. I have several nieces that are early 20s and they bemoan CONSTANTLY about how there are no good men when the reality is that the ugly good men are simply invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:12 PM
6

Yes, and it's incredibly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:03 PM
3

But... That's actually a thing that is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:59 PM
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It completely depends on the context of the conversation you're having. If you're talking about woman as a whole, then sure, some heuristics about women are fine to engage in. We use heuristics all the time when talking about things. Most golden labs are very intelligent and have a mild temperament. If you're talking about what kind of dog you should get, talking heuristics is great. If you're talking about Jim's golden lab, all heuristics are out the window because his golden lab is a dumb, mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:50 PM
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I'm not saying my wife doesn't do a lot of awalt things. But, as an example, shit testing me is one I NEVER see. I can go where I want when I want, spend money at any time, have sex pretty much whenever I want (she's way hornier than me), etc. She just isn't a shit tester. I had mrps say that I'm an omega and she knows that so she doesn't shit test me, or I'm a natural at swatting them away so I just don't see them. But never that she's not giving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:40 PM
0

Yeah, some might extend that to "hollywood", but that's where it ends. The rest of metoo is angsty blue haired feminists at college trying to be edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:35 PM
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From what I can tell, so incredibly few people give a shit about the gender wars that it will be insignificant. Metoo is Harvey Weinstein to them and that's all they know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:11 PM
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Not bp, so I'll answer under auto mod Because it's a motte Bailey tactic used here. I can't count how many times I've told merps that my wife isn't like that only to be told that she isn't a unicorn and they are ALL like that. Then in the next breath they'll say, "SIGH we don't LITERALLY mean all women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:08 PM
4

Probably one of your best posts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:21 AM
1

Drunk =/= wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:19 AM
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Nope. Never. Creep shamed? Absolutey! With a viciousness that only women seem to be able to summon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:08 AM
2

So how exactly does this wage gap manifest? Is it at the hiring stage where they simply offer a woman less money? Is it during raise time when they give women less? Also, we have metrics to suggest that women out earn men out of college. Where is your outcry for a male wage gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:44 PM
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A guy will get creep shamed, but no fucking way any but the most insane of women are going to cry rape because a guy approached her. Jesus this is some next level paranoia!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:57 PM
11

Dude, foreplay starts one minute after you cum. ALWAYS be gaming your wife.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 01:19 PM
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Look. This sub attracts men who are in shitty relationships. Do you think guys whose wives respect them and give them sex have a need to Google "why won't my wife respect and fuck me"? No. They don't. MRP is a fantastic place for men in similar relationships. But it's a bit of an echo chamber. I compare it to a battered wives support group. If every woman in your group has the same story of being abused, it's REEEEALLY easy to fall into the trap of "all men beat their wives". Just as it's very e…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 06:22 PM
1

Yeah, because those guys don't want to commit anyways. Why would they care if a woman has a high n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 04:43 PM
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Whenever I hear a woman say a man is "mean", I immediate assume she hates that he actually has boundaries and won't let her walk all over him. In today's "happy wife, happy life" society, not giving a woman everything she wants is tantamount to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 04:41 PM
4

It should be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 04:13 PM
8

Any woman can literally beat the shit out of any man in full public and nobody will do a thing about it. Most will actually laugh. The second the man pushes back to defend himself, he's surrounded by white knights ready to kick his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 04:12 PM
2

That was just one example. I hear "A REAL man does abc for his woman/kids/whatever" WAAAAAY more than I hear "stop being a pussy". Where abc is something that completely serves the woman/kids/whatever at the expense of the man's safety and/or happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 06:58 PM
2

Great points. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 02:20 AM
1

This is some weird ass waifu fetish shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 11:35 PM
1

This is solid advice for any marriage. Will work on any wife. Recommend 11/10. /s
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 11:33 PM
1

Testosterone is a helluva drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 11:08 PM
3

My experience has been quite the opposite. It's usually the women that shame men for being babies. Manflu comes to mind. Like, make up your mind! Either we are supposed to say when we don't feel good or we're supposed to suck it up! I don't think I've ever heard a man use the term man flu. It's always women shaming men for being sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:48 PM
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When I think of "toxic masculinity", this is usually what I think of. Where feminism misses the mark is that their solution is for men to cry more. No... it's simply even allowing men to express that they have problems. We don't need to cry. We just need a listening, sympathetic ear. I have yet to see a feminist offer that ear to a man without shaming the man for daring to have problems when the wage gap and manspreading are still afflicting millions of women!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 09:20 PM
1

Fair enough. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:56 PM
3

It's a colloquial phrase. And yes, you're right. Context matters. An early 20-something absolutely has every right to be this guy. And most of society really won't judge him too harshly because pretty much every other 20-something is the same way. That's part of the college experience. Doing drugs, hooking up, playing video games, working at Burger King. But once you hit a certain age, that's a failure to launch. Also, if you're a early 20-something who is married and doing this shit, that's man…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:56 PM
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TRP is about how to get laid. You get laid by making yourself attractive to women. Women are not attracted to man-children that work minimum wage, live in their parent's basement and play video games all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:52 PM
3

Saying that there are outliers really doesn't add much to the conversation. Of course there are ALWAYS going to be a small fraction of a percent of ANYTHING that you could use to derail the overarching point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:45 PM
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You don't. But don't expect society to praise you as some sort of paradigm of manliness for it. If you choose not to serve society, you will be labeled a man-child. Feel free to man-child all you want. Just try to at least have introspection enough not to sit in your mom's basement and call women the oldest teenager in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:41 PM
5

Lol Women work today, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:39 PM
7

That's fair, but on the other spectrum, women over communicate. Like, fuck, no... I don't want to hear for the 500th time how Becky at work was mean to you. Fix the god damned problem or shut up already!! I believe women call this "venting". The whole it's not about the nail bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:36 PM
3

I'm definitely in the shut down camp. My wife hates it because she is an amazing communicator. I think it comes partly from my parents only really caring about the girls (stop being a pussy!) and my now ex wife who, no matter how hard I tried, always had a list of faults that were making her miserable, but refused to fix any of hers until I fixed all of mine. Those are some hard things to unlearn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:33 PM
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And you think whatever decisions led this person to live with their parents, play video games all day and work minimum wage are good, solid decisions?? I doubt many of these men are happy with their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 06:14 PM
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I don't think any single one of these makes someone a teenager. I play video games sometimes. It's a great stress relief. It's the combination of all of these that leads me to believe they are not adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 04:52 PM
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I agree. But if both women and men are shitty, why single women out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:30 PM
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Even so. Have you seen married men? Same thing. Most men are not some kind of stellar ideal of men. Every noob that finds MRP has the same story of being a drunk captain loser. Usually the wives are running the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:00 PM
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That women are the oldest teenager in the house. Have you seen the state of men today? Living with parents, playing video games, working minimum wage... If that isn't a teenager, I don't know what is!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 02:53 PM
1

I see what you did there! Clever!
/r/askMRP06/07/18 03:06 AM
10

Feminism did a great job at gender equality in the workplace for high paying, cushy jobs. Feminist totally fucked up the male gender role of provider. Men are still only as valuable as their utility to provide. Women are more than happy to keep that gender role assigned to men because it benefits women. However, as more and more women take the limited number of high paying jobs, fewer and fewer men are able to successfully fulfill their gender role. Feminists can't have it both ways. You can't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 07:37 PM
3

I thought OYS was a place of accountability to really reflect on the week and put words to your failures? Others reading might not even realize they have those same failures too.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 06:21 PM
2

The point is that there are other paths to greatness. You don't HAVE to lift weights to become an awesome man. Does it show discipline and physical and mental fortitude to lift? Absolutely. Are there other things you could do to get the same effect? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:41 PM
2

Totally agree. The active dread shit irritates the fuck out of me. That is so unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:11 PM
1

Bloops seem to conflate leader with dictator. They aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:57 PM
6

I've long said that the men that Google "how do i get my wife to fuck me" aren't the guys in happy, healthy marriages. Speaking from an MRP perspective, these guys that come in are losers that have to be taught how to become high value men. Those that put in the work do become high value and start seeing their wife as low value. But the main take away from MRP is that you are living the most awesome life you can live FOR YOU. Stop worrying so much about making sure she's happy and make yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:55 PM
1

If I was a woman, I'd be threatening rape to every moderately high powered man I could find for the payoff. There is literally ZERO risk to the woman and immense risk to the man, even without any proof. Just an accusation is enough to ruin a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:08 AM
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Why do feminists constantly repeat fabrications when they know they are lies?? They were never "tortured". They were force fed to keep them from dying. But, hey, if it makes your point stronger, truth be damned, right? Although I completely agree with you on the larger point. "Why don't you rally?" "We did once and some feminists yelled at us and pulled a fire alarm. What else can we do??" Fucking Christ that's some weak ass shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:03 AM
2

I'm starting to see MRA talking points pop up here and there. The message is getting out that men suffer some injustices in our world too. The recent backlash Demi Levato got for her "prank" says that people are recognizing that sexual assault done to a man is no longer comedy fodder. It's sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:00 AM
2

"Water is wet" "Can you please find peer reviewed scientific literature that specifically details that water is wet?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 02:53 AM
3

Women worked the fields every bit as much as the men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:34 AM
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I wish feminists would change their tagline from "do you believe in equality?" to "do you believe in equality and have a perpetual victim mentality?" CONGRATULATIONS! You're a feminist!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 03:59 PM
5

Personal anecdote... Father's day a few years ago and my son and I are at a baseball game. He leaves for a few minutes and comes back with a $50 Jersey and says, "happy fathers day!" I was so surprised and stunned that it took me a good 10 seconds to realize what had happened, and by then my reaction was less than what was expected. I was overjoyed that he saved up his hard earned money to get me this gift that he knew I wanted, but no amount of telling him how much I loved it and his gesture co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:49 AM
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God, so true! Women are tough and empowered, but we need to make all kinds of laws to protect them in the workplace because they can't hack it with their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 11:44 PM
5

"Just" an RN?? Why sell yourself short? That's a noble and honorable position!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 11:28 PM
7

The fuck they don't!! I've watched my wife tell her son countless times how a "gentleman should act around girls". It lines up directly with blue pill bullshit that most women would friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 11:27 PM
2

Ok, I'll give you that phrase is the equivalent. And no, there is nothing wrong with making your wife happy, as long as it's not at the expense of your own happiness. The context of this phrase is that if you don't keep your wife happy, she will make your life miserable. Better to sacrifice your desires to fulfill her desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 08:04 PM
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Everything you said is pretty much spot on when reading new accounts over at MRP. We try and teach men to stop being pathetic losers and own their shit! Although the one point I will disagree is that feminism didn't cause this. It most certainly did. The feminization of the west is a HUGE fucking problem that feminism is directly responsible for. They are pushing ever harder to turn men into women and remove all forms of masculinity. What is the wife equivalent of "happy wife, happy life" that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 10:25 PM
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She asked if we knew any history at all. I know that history. And yes, I know the wasn't the civil rights movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:58 AM
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You asked if we knew any history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:57 AM
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I know women couldn't vote. It's been blasted in my ears by feminists for 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:02 AM
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No, I'm against active dread. I'm also against withholding sex. In my view, committing to have sex with only one person is only half of monogamy. Allowing reasonable sexual access is the other half. If you withhold sex, I believe you have broken the vows of monogamy and you are just as bad as a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:16 AM
3

I'd give my left nut to see you give your left tit!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:25 AM
1

Sacrifice a dime to WHO?? If there was an actual organization that I might trust is doing something, sure, I'd donate. I don't know of any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:23 AM
3

Off topic, but what is the difference between a neo-nazi and a regular nazi?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:16 AM
5

Exactly. MRAs: "Whelp... we tried our best. Pack it up, boys! We got a fire alarm pulled on us. There's nothing more we can do."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:14 AM
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Where are RedPillSchool and Gaylubeoil setting fires to their condoms in public to protest lack of reproductive rights for men? TRP says we accept that society sucks, but we live in society and the decline is only going to get worse, so we choose to make our lives the best they can be within our shitty society. MRA says that society sucks for men and we need to change it. Feminism swung the balance too far the other way and we need a correction back to the middle. I wouldn't expect RPS and GLO t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:12 AM
5

You can be anti-feminist without being an MRA. Not sure you can be an MRA without being anti-feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:08 AM
1

I'm anti-feminist, but don't identify as MRA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:07 AM
2

Does Jordan Peterson consider himself an MRA?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:06 AM
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Yeah, this actually really pisses me off about MRAs. "Why aren't you protesting?" "We tried, but feminists were mean to us!" Jesus. Fucking. Christ!! Feminists were met with all kinds of hardships and anti protesters. They doubled down and set shit on fire and went to jail for their ideology! When MRAs start not giving a fuck if Big Red calls them a misogynistic rapist, then they might gain some traction. Until then, they are whiny babies that are terrified of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:37 PM
0

Nice Sargon throwback lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:21 AM
11

They may accept that men have problems, but they still maintain that the lowest man is still better off than all but the highest woman because of his male privilege and the oppression all other women suffer. They still define equality as raising women up to the level of men. It's fucking ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 10:55 PM
3

I'd say it's less in the sitcoms and more in the advertisements now. It's just lazy ad writing, imo. There's nothing clever about the idiot dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 08:27 PM
2

Start watching for just how often husbands are portrayed as bumbling buffoons that would likely parish without the strong wife there to keep him safe. It's everywhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 08:20 PM
3

The better question is if you could push that button for the bottom 80%, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 08:03 PM
2

I love that "rape would plummet" because it's always guys that rape, right? Don't you think rape would double because women have sexual needs and the asexual men aren't fulfilling these needs, therefore they need to take it by force? We all know there is no punishment for women who rape. Hell, they made a whole comedy movie about this and how girls full on drugged and raped the guy and it was HILARIOUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:58 PM
1

I love that "rape would plummet" because it's always guys that rape, right? Don't you think rape would double because women have sexual needs and the asexual men aren't fulfilling these needs, therefore they need to take it by force? We all know there is no punishment for women who rape. Hell, they made a whole comedy movie about this and how girls full on drugged and raped the guy and it was HILARIOUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:50 PM
3

I've gotten to the point where I really don't give a fuck what feminist women say. They can (and do) call me all kinds of nasty names. So what? I will call out anybody that proclaims themselves as a feminist as an awful human and will cut contact with that person. They are delusional at best, but they all have an overactive victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:45 PM
11

That is true!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:33 PM
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Men are lost and feminism has utterly failed them. Women still expect men to be the primary breadwinner of the household, yet women are forcing themselves more and more into the high paying jobs. You can't have it both ways. Either alleviate the breadwinner role, or leave the high paying jobs for men. And, yeah yeah, feminism is fighting to remove gender roles. I call bullshit on this. Feminism is quite happy to keep gender roles that serve women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:22 PM
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Should men own their failings to a greater degree, individually and as a collective? Yes, we should. But it's kind of hard to do that at this point in time because feminism has convinced collective society that women are oppressed and men don't have any problems that come anywhere CLOSE to the problems women have. I mean, as a man, I can't even imagine the horror of walking on a bus and seeing a man *gasp* MANSPREADING!!! Seriously... Manspreading and mansplaining are now what counts as oppressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:18 PM
1

Prioritizing, yes. Abandoning, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:01 AM
1

You pretty much jus described shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:59 AM
1

Hashtag truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:55 AM
1

Sure, that's all part of the package of being "an awesome man".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:50 AM
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My rule is that my wife gets to blow off steam ONCE and I'll listen. If it's an ongoing problem, I don't want to hear about it if you aren't actively trying to solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:42 AM
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That's not really dread. Passive dread is just having other women interested it you/flirting with you. Active dread is the husband flirting with/pulling numbers/fucking other women. Women's currency is sex. Men's currency is affection. If she's going to withhold her currency, you withhold yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:19 AM
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Sounds like your talking to MERPers rather than TERPs, so I'll answer. We say all the time that you shouldn't settle for starfish sex. It's good sex or nothing. We also say that she isn't having sex with you because she isn't attracted to you because your NOT ATTRACTIVE!! So we tell these drunk captains to turn off the xbox, put down the 6 pack of beer and become an awesome man that lots of women want to fuck... your wife included. This includes having your day full of shit that is improving you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:24 AM
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I don't think withholding sex is necessarily a power play. It CAN be, but jam jam is talking about a drunk captain being such a loser of a man and a husband that it's impossible for her to maintain any kind of respect. From what I understand, respect is a big part of sexual attraction for women, so naturally the woman will be turned off. It's a dichotomy, because women think they want a husband that worships the ground they walk on, but their lizard brain is disgusted by that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:20 AM
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You don't think that hot girls have married guys lining up to fuck them?? You don't think clubs are FULL of married men looking for a ONS? PEOPLE are shitty. Not just women. Although I will say that those who claim women cheat less than men are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:09 AM
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Disagree that it's harmless when trans women are dominating women's sports. What happens to women only scholarships? If I say I'm a woman, am I eligible?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:07 PM
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I actually didn't read the username and about 1/3 way in, I was like oh... This is a jam jam post huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:22 PM
10

You are really, really, really mistaken here. The family courts absolutely will take everything from a man and leave him destitute. And then imprison him when he can't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:09 PM
1

I always wonder who these men are cheating with? Surely not all of them are with single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:24 PM
2

You said: "A large number of those are caused by male infidelity."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:23 PM
3

Here's how. You need your day so loaded with shit to do that you are simply too busy doing shit to pay her attention. This doesn't necessarily have to be working on stuff. Maybe it's going to the bar with your buddies. Maybe it's taking the kids to the park. Whatever. When she asks you to spend time with her, you tell her sorry, you're busy with x, y and z tonight. But maybe tomorrow we can hook up and then watch a movie after? If she's been good and giving you sex, you tell her, "I was going to…
/r/askMRP19/06/18 04:46 AM
1

Strange assumption. Why would the pussy be low quality and why would she necessarily be crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:05 AM
3

Sure. You go ahead and do that. Just leaves more pussy for the men with balls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:53 AM
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I mean, she's right. Men are so fucking terrified of being creep shamed that they refuse to make a move. Who gives a fuck if some cunt calls you a creep?? Let her. Roll your eyes at her idiocy and move on. And, no, nobody is going to be metoo'd by simply approaching a woman, so put that card right back in your deck. Men have lost sight of the nature of male/female courtship, which transcends equality. Men are so fucking stuck in the "WOMEN WANT EQUALITY, SO THEY HAVE TO APPROACH TOO" that they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 09:48 PM
2

Could happen. Although, much to the dismay of the MERPers, my wife is a unicorn. She's amazing! Yeah, yeah, I've heard it all before. "You're deluded","she's not an actual unicorn", blah blah. I'll change my mind if she turns out to be a hypergamous slut that divorce rapes me. Until then, I'll trust her more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 12:14 AM
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A man that is actually going his own way doesn't need to tell everybody that he's MGTOW. He just simply goes his own way. MGTOWs, on the other hand, are crazy mother fuckers that are seething with hatred of women. They are MGTOW by circumstance, not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 01:43 AM
1

I wish I could disagree with anything you said. I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:27 AM
3

Here's a novel idea... Maybe we can start treating women like fucking adults and actually expect that they will use their big girl words to say no if they don't want to do a thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 02:43 AM
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Yes, women are more violent towards intimate partners because there is ZERO consequence of her doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 11:51 PM
1

grandparent that just past Or "passed"...
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:16 PM
9

You think gynocentrism is a made up word?
/r/MensRights04/06/18 03:12 AM
6

This is strangely absent from /r/feminism. Weird.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 11:06 PM
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Oh, there was MUCH more backlash than there was support. MRAs are getting into the public consciousness.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 10:34 PM
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This gives me hope. There was collective outrage and backlash against her for this. We're slowly getting through into the mainstream consciousness... Although I'll bet feminism takes all the credit...
/r/MensRights03/06/18 10:33 PM
1

Dread by itself may or may not work. You need to lead her as well.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 03:36 PM
1

Ah, no worries. Hard to tell tone across text.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:44 PM
1

I can't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:43 PM
3

Uhh... Not sure what you want me to comment. We had similar experiences growing up? Yay us?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:39 AM
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I can't remember anyone ever specifically saying that women aren't horny. I think it's just more of 1000 little things that you hear in jr high/high school that leads boys to believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:43 AM
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That women actually like sex and get horny. For the longest time I thought it was just a chore for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:36 AM
13

Are you leading her? You need to be in charge of all meals and make a rule that there are no sugar/chips in the house. Take her to work out. Lead your wife man!
/r/askMRP03/06/18 01:43 AM
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She's doing that because she doesn't respect you. Do the hard work to get her to respect you and you won't have to deal with shit like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 06:24 PM
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Dude, that was just a standard run of the mill shit test. I wouldn't even put that into the category of crossing boundaries. You deal with that like any other shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 06:02 PM
1

No auto mod... What's the difference between being worshipped and being put on a pedestal? Seems like a matter of degrees to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:48 AM
2

There's a poster here that I can't remember her name who is radfem. Queen-something? Jam jam is pretty damn close to radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:07 PM
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She would respond by saying it doesn't matter. The power differential in the relationship makes the womans choices irrelevant. To be fair, this is some radfem bullshit and very few feminists are radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:55 PM
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Not many right now. But the real question I think you should be asking is, should there be ANY all women boards/companies and why isn't this blatant sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:51 PM
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Huh... I don't know why I thought it was Matt Lauer. Here is the article I was thinking of... It was a Tongan Olymipan that had lotion smeared all over his body by Al Roker and several women. My bad. Matt Lauer is a disgusting creep that deserves to burn in the deepest pits of hell and I have no sympathy for his dismissal. Edit: Okay, after more digging, in a different clip, Matt Lauer grabs Hoda's hand and touches the Tongan Olympian. That's where I got the Matt Lauer confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:11 PM
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My experience of 2 decades of working in a female dominated industry is that women at far quicker to stab other women intbe back and more likely to go easier on/praise/promote men. There’s data to back that up, too. Yes, for sure on an individual level women are merciless to other women. From a societal level, women couldn't care less about men. Especially men at the bottom. No, but those with privilege do need to ask themsleves why they weren’t as concerned about “fairness” when everyone with p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:49 PM
1

What the fuck does that have to do with him being molested at spring break by 3 women???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:44 PM
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Yeah... Feminists are always screeching about getting more women into positions of power. However, from my experience, women only care about other women and have a "fuck men" attitude. This shift is happening and we already see massive blatant sexism against men with in your face "all women boards" and even "all women companies". This phenomenon is going to get worse. And the feminists will cry that men have had their turn and now men need to suffer like women have!! The country will fall and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:00 PM
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Ask Matt Lauer at spring break just how deep the double standards go. Edit: it wasn't Matt Lauer. It was a Tongan olympian that had Al Roker and some women rubbing lotion on his skin in a sexualized manner. Here is the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:38 PM
5

Seems unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:23 AM
6

Who are all these married men cheating with? Unmarried women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:14 AM
3

The tale of jam jam is a gut wrenching story of woe and misery. Not for the weak of heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:14 AM
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What boundary are you specifically wanting to establish? For most boundaries, I'd say you need to work on self improvement before you start changing up the dynamic. But, if you do decide there is a boundary that needs to be set, make sure you know what the consequence is for crossing it and make damn sure you're willing to enforce that consequence. Hopefully it's a consequence that means something to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 11:14 PM
1

I think it's more mgtows that do this than terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:05 PM
1

This is some dictionary definition autistic shit here. The meaning of the word friend isn't nearly as complex as you just made it.
/r/askMRP30/05/18 04:07 AM
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Yeah, my wife and I are great friends. She challenges my beliefs all the time and she's often right. It's my MAP, but she has fantastic insights on how to achieve my goals and often times I give her tasks to help us get there. We have a similar sense of humor and we're constantly making each other laugh. But I also game the fuck out of her. I'm constantly coming up behind her to kiss her neck and grab her tits, or throwing her on the bed and planting a big wet sloppy kiss. There is no doubt that…
/r/askMRP30/05/18 02:44 AM
2

Can you have feminist values and not identify as a feminist? Does having feminist values also mean you must buy into the underlying feminist presuppositions of patriarchy and female oppression and wage gaps and rape culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:19 PM
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STFU doesn't mean go mute. On the contrary... Be interesting! It means that you don't respond to her bitchyness. You just smirk and walk away. You should be working on your AA/AM/pressure flip etc. Stfu is used until you can master these.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 05:08 AM
3

Tightening the noose around my neck right now...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:21 AM
3

Let jam jam post!! It's always entertaining!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 11:27 PM
1

I've read the summary of the ways. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:30 AM
1

That is the most charitable definition of girls in STEM I've ever heard!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:04 AM
1

Because /r/askfeminism has a sticky that says "ways that feminism helps men!" And every feminist you ask says, "we're about helping men too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:00 AM
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Why do people not understand what HAES is?? It's not saying that morbidly obese women are healthy. It's saying that bone structure varies greatly and comes in everything from petite to amazon woman. Amazon woman is not necessarily unhealthy because she is large. Petite woman is not necessarily unhealthy because she's 80lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:57 AM
1

You're saying that when you do this, the woman of the man you belittled is drawn to you? Or just other women in the room are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:34 AM
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A large percent of men do fucking shitty work that severely puts their lives at risk because they have to or they starve. Why should I feel bad because a woman has to do the same?? At least women have this option. If men could do this, there would be a fuck ton less homeless men on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:29 AM
1

Have you seen Kevin James wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:15 AM
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Oh average women are much more likely to make a guy think he has a chance with her than a stunning hb9 that he knows is using him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:07 AM
4

I gotta admit, you made me laugh. Thanks for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:04 AM
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This is just so stupid it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:41 AM
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My wife doesn't shit test. waiting for the "ofcourseshedoesyoujustareblindblahblah" responses.* No. She doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:14 AM
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You're feminisming all wrong. It's statistical averages where it helps and individualism where it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:16 PM
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Women: "Men not going to the dr when they are sick is toxic masculinity!!! We need to end this!!" Men: "Ugh... I don't feel good..." Women: "fuck! You men and your man flu! Let me call the waaambulance."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:13 PM
1

You wouldn't grab a healthy fist full of hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 07:51 PM
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No, they already have their greasy hooks firmly in Title IX. Due process is a joke. They want to expand to the legal system and start eroding away due process under the pretense of "only 8% of rapists go to prison" or whatever statistic they've pulled out of their assess. Which apparently justifies elimination of due process so that we can convict more rapists. I mean, what agenda do you think "believe all women" and "all men are potential rapists" and "we live in a rape culture" is pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:16 AM
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True, and I would say the same about any dog. ADALT. If you pull a dog's ears, there's a good chance you'll be bitten. Does every dog bite? No. But you should treat every dog like it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:47 AM
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Careful not to conflate women with feminists. Most women are pretty rational and see feminism for the hate group that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:43 AM
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Yeah, which is why every pit bull attack you read about has the owners saying, "she's the biggest sweet heart ever!! I can't believe she did this!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:29 AM
1

Thanks! That was very informative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:24 AM
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No, I know it hasn't been passed. Just that feminists are pushing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:24 AM
2

Did you not read the second paragraph that detailed exactly how feminists are trying to subvert due process??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:53 AM
1

Thanks for clearing that up. I don't want to repeat untrue things, so I want to make sure I'm clear on this. I had always heard that men predominately got custody of the children until the 70s when feminists introduced the tender years doctrine, which switched it to mothers primarily getting custody. You said that the tender years doctrine was introduced in 1900?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:52 AM
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It basically said that in any domestic violence situation, the cop is legally required to arrest the man and take him to jail, regardless of who started the fight or if the man is the one being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:45 AM
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It's not carte blanche due process. Just in areas that feminists want. Mainly rape trials.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:43 AM
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The current Title IX witch hunts are being pushed outside of the bounds of college and many feminists are looking to increase the number of rapist convictions, due process be damned. I don't know all the legal terminology, and maybe atlas can help me here, but I read about a proposal to allow rape victims to not be required to adhere to the "face their accusers" law because of the trauma of seeing them. Sure, it's a small crack, but slippery slopes and all. We all know feminists are perfectly co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:41 AM
1

Can you explain to us non lawyers what it means to abandon a policy? It's still on the books, but is ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:36 AM
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See my reply above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:33 AM
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Duluth and tender years doctrine. There are others with specifically gendered language, but I can't remember them off the top of my head and I'm on mobile... But they are pushing hard to remove due process with the goal of convicting more men of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:31 AM
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Does it really matter how many women are feminists if the ones that are enact government policy that hurts men?? Most people in 1940 Germany weren't Nazis. Why should you care? Because these batshit crazy women have the ear of the legislators and are trying their damnest to remove due process for men. Forget all the other legal discrimination against men that is currently codified into law.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:27 AM
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Well, to be fair, we've heard sugar and spice and everything nice for a thousand years now, so we really don't need any more of it. Like Jordan Peterson said in that Kathy Newman interview, boys are craving ANYONE telling them they are good and have value. They are bombarded constantly with messages that girls are better, and men are the problem, etc. So I can understand why a group like TRP telling a boy that he has value, he would eat that like a starving man would a cracker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:20 AM
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I get what you're trying to say, and I honesty have no idea how many men are on the streets because of divorce. However, I do know that a LOT of men are divorce raped by vindictive women. The family courts have an incredibly pro female bias. I don't have exact numbers, but it's not a statistically insignificant amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:57 PM
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I mean, isn't a single man on the streets one too many?? I don't think any woman should ever have the opportunity to do this to a man. We should have exactly zero men on the streets because a vindictive woman has the power of the courts behind her to ruin a man's life. Yet, here we are. Edit for your edit: I've personally seen more than one person (both men and women) hide the batshit crazy side until after the marriage. Plus, humans are notoriously bad for ignoring red flags when we want to. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:43 PM
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For women, ATTRACTION matters. Looks are a part of attraction, but it's not everything. There is a whole formula that goes into calculating attraction, which is largely different for any given woman on any given day. For example, being funny and confident can increase attraction where looks might be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:37 PM
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This is just wrong. The risk for marrying a woman today is that she can literally destroy your life and leave you homeless and destitute. Where do you get the idea that you can cut your losses??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:31 PM
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I don't know that MGTOWs are necessarily saying women are shitty, but rather that society is structured so that if you happen to marry a shitty woman, she can literally destroy your life. And there is really no way to know how shitty a woman is before you marry her. There is very, very, very little upside to marrying a woman today as opposed to just LTRing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:29 PM
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You're right that TRP seems to have a blind spot for the positives that women bring to the world and focus on the negative aspects of women while simultaneously only recognizing the virtues of men and ignoring the negative male heuristics. A good example is this is the idea of unequal household labor. From my experiences, men are woefully lacking in doing their share of housework, but god forbid any man in TRP actually admit that. No, it's always "men work 90 hours a week doing heavy labor and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:26 PM
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When we talk about women in TRP, we are talking about populations and heuristics. Yeah, sure, there will always be SOME outliers that don't match AWALT, but most women do. It's like talking about pit bulls. Some pit bulls are the sweetest puppies on the planet and would never hurt anything. But I'm sure as fuck not gonna let my kid pull his ears! Humans are a sexually dimorphic species. We have, typically speaking, males and females. Am I to believe that somehow humans are the only animals on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:35 PM
1

Such a great song!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:27 PM
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Well that's a disingenuous response if I've ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:41 PM
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In today's climate, saying anything other than "women are wonderful" is equal to misogyny. So, yes, saying that women have flaws and aren't the perfect angels we've all been led to believe is not misogyny. TRP is partially about tearing down these harmful ideals about women and seeing them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:55 PM
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TRP will never go mainstream. If it ever started gaining traction, the feminists would double down and demonize men even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:17 AM
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Naw... That's why I use private servers. You can pay for instant 80, then just run some dungeons and do the occasional raid. I play MAYBE 5 hours a month on a weekend when nothing else is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:34 PM
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Enjoying some downtime with a video game is fine. Being a drunk captain because you spend all your free time on video games is not. Agreed. However, for every boy we turn into a man, there are still 1000 "men" who are children. I don't disagree that women are teenagers. They are. Society coddles the fuck out of women and they can get away with all kinds of shit without any kind of repercussions, which stunts growth. I just have a problem saying ONLY women are teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:25 PM
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One of my biggest changes after finding trp was to stop asking my wife questions. Instead of, "Should we go out to eat? Where do you want to go?", I now say, "I'm gonna go to Sizzler. Wanna come?" Mind you, if she says, "sizzler sounds gross tonight. How about Thai?", great! Thai it is. But this happens very rarely. I pretty much have stopped asking my wife about trivial things. I still communicate to her with big things. Basically, stop asking. Have a plan. Execute your plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:57 PM
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I'm red, but it irritates me how much disdain other reds have for women while having a complete blind spot for just how awful men are. Often times, the phrase "women are/do..." should be replaced with "people are/do..." For example, women are the oldest teenager in the house/stop maturing at 18 bull shit. Have any of you looked around at the pathetic state of men these days?? Going to a minimum wage job, coming home and ignoring everything to play video games while the wives take care of the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:50 PM
1

Laughing your lungs out at a mediocre at best joke? Well, I'm glad you're easily entertained. Keep up the good work!
/r/askMRP14/05/18 02:10 AM
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Well, yes, but women only have as much power as men choose to give them. So our society of weak pathetic men have caved to the unreasonable demands of the batshit crazy feminists and now our society is crumbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:04 PM
1

That's fair. I'm a big believer is passive dread, but active dread is just straight up abuse. And you're right. It starts with an innocent flirty encounter, then a number, then how long until you get ballsy enough to act?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:54 PM
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Pretty much sums up MRP. Soooo... Didn't answer my question why it's a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:01 AM
2

That isn't the fight at all. I'm as anti feminist as they get, but I'm not going to distort valid points. The argument is that birth control is not something that most insurances will pay for, even though often times it's not used as birth control, but as medication to alleviate menstrual pain. Plus the fact that Viagra IS covered under healthcare. Also, if PP gives out free condoms, shouldn't we expect to give out free birth control pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:32 AM
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Dude, as an ex Mormon, this isn't the place to attack religion. Fuck off with that.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 04:01 AM
1

Work on your AA/AM. "Did you have a nice talk about me? " "Oh ya! We barely even got to talk about infinity war because we were talking so hard about you!!"
/r/askMRP13/05/18 03:59 AM
1

Not necessarily... It depends on the reason you're doing it. If you're doing it as a fuck you to her, that's in her frame. If you're doing it because you haven't evolved enough yet to imitate sex and hold your OI when rejected, or if you want to clear your mind to focus on your MAP instead of steaming about your lack of sex, that's in your frame.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 03:49 AM
2

Ex Mormon here... I swore like a fucking sailor when I was Mormon. OP talks like a Mormon.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 03:41 AM
1

Hmm, I never picked up on any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:21 AM
2

I thought that was the whole "emotional labor" thing? And one of my biggest complaints with TRP/MRP is the idea that women are the oldest teenager in the house/don't mature beyond 18. What they fuck do you call all these men that come home from work, do nothing to help with the house or kids and play video games all night?? Sounds like a teenager to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:20 AM
1

I honestly don't know where you get that most merps cheat on their wives?? We don't judge men that want to do this, but it's really rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:05 AM
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The problem with this is that men genuinely do not give a fuck if thank you cards are sent, or any number of things that women do to curb the judgement of other women. Why should a man that doesn't care about this shit be expected to take half the load??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:57 AM
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I would argue that MRP blasts these men too. They are called drunk captains. We tell men to fucking own his shit and lead the god damned family, and part of that is doing his share of work. While it may not necessarily translate into doing all the "woman's work", he better fucking have his day full of projects that bring value to the family. And, sometimes that does translate into doing the woman's work, but more likely, it's knocking off the honey do list. If a man is spending most of his eveni…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:54 AM
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The men that stumble upon MRP usually find it because they're googling "How to get my wife to fuck me". How are the wives treating these husbands? If we're judging by the western female imperative, no woman owes her husband sex, so she's treating him JUST FINE. But in the real world, a man that isn't getting sex from him wife is suffering immensely. She obviously doesn't give a fuck. So MRP tells him that you can't negotiate desire, to own his shit and do the hard fucking work to turn himself in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:21 AM
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JackTenOfHearts was the most insightful merper ever. I miss him terribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:16 AM
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My face shows visceral disgust when a woman says she's a feminist. I instantly lose a vast amount of respect for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 12:48 AM
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I just got done watching Cobra Kai and Miguel's mother is your typical overprotective mom. I couldn't help but think, this is how our sons are largely being raised. Moms refusing to let their precious sons get a scraped knee or a bloody nose. It's the pussification of America. My own wife is just as overprotective as any, and I'm constantly overriding her to let her poor kids live some life! Yes, they get hurt sometimes. But they have a lot more fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:41 PM
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Maybe not, but they sure as fuck ain't fighting for any men's problems, let alone alimony reform! Sure, some feminists will actually admit that men suffer, but they won't actually turn that into any kind of actionable fix. Which, they shouldn't. MRAs need to stop fucking whining about feminism and start fixing men's shit. And men need to stop crying that a crazy feminist yelled at them during a MRA event. So what?? It's like, Jesus, they meet the most benign resistance and cry that feminism stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:55 PM
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I have never in my life seen a feminist fight for alimony reform. They're too busy fighting against office A/C, manspreading and mansplaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:42 PM
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The idea that men choose the most competent man to lead them is absurd! The man who knows how to get and keep power rises to the top of the hierarchy, regardless of competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:26 PM
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It's just too fucking risky. I've seen more than one woman hide her raging cuntbitch side for years in order to lock down a man, then suddenly turn it back on after the I do's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:54 PM
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Many women find Kevin James highly attractive. Also, Mike Rowe is not conventionally attractive, but he oozes masculinity, which women cream over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:27 PM
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radical feminists You do realize that radical feminism is not just feminists that are radical, right? It's an entire branch of feminism with it's own dogma and worldview, which is pretty significantly different than liberal feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:14 PM
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I seriously don't see any reason to get married. Just live together. Why is there so much importance on getting the state involved??
/r/askMRP04/05/18 04:36 PM
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My wife had a boss that was a raging cunt of a bitch. I mean, just awful. She hid this from her poor now husband for 3 fucking years!! She was baking him cakes, sweet and funny... All the things you'd want in a wife. Not a month after the marriage, and she dropped all that and let her true self shine. Women are MASTERS at showing you exactly what you want to see.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 02:13 PM
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That all sounds very red pill. Yeah, exactly, become the best possible "you" that you can be, then go out and actually brazenly gasp talk to women!! Every encounter with a woman doesn't need to be a hitting on either. Just strike up a conversation with no intention that it will go anywhere. Maybe 1 out of 20 times it actually does, but if not, you weren't "rejected", you just went your separate ways. Unfortunately, there are no fathers around to teach boys how to be men. So TRP is inundated with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:56 PM
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Most American men aren't Chad. American Chads just have it that much easier. Unless you're suggesting that America is SO obese that even the Chad's are fat? I should also say that you don't have to be Chad to get laid. Plenty of normal, pudgy guys get plenty of pussy. So in that, you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:51 PM
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No. Chad can't be morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:37 PM
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Why is stating an obvious truth playing the victim? Kind of reading a lot into that, aren't ya? I agree with everything else you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:16 PM
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Women don't have an abundance mentality, they have an abundance. Period. 90+% of men cannot even fathom what having an abundance is like, therefore we have to train ourselves to act as if we really do have an abundance. A mentality, if you will. This signals to women that you are a high value man, which is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:58 PM
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Good luck to you and I hope you have every happiness and success you're dreaming of! Sincerely!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:53 PM
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We all have differing degrees of psychopathy vs empathy. Based on this thread, I'm going to assume you lean more psychopathic than empathic, so sounds like it won't be a problem for you. For me, I would feel empathy for a child that I purposefully brought into this world with the express knowledge that it was going to be raised by others and only a "play thing" for me to enjoy when I feel like it. But if you can do that without guilt, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:32 PM
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I've spent PLENTY of time in MRP. Starfish is not the antithesis of porn star sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:28 PM
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Why have a family at all?? For the benefit of the kids?? It sounds like a very selfish imposition. "I want to be a career woman, but I also want to enjoy a family when I have the time..." Well what about what the kids want, which is a SAHM? Just, fuck them? You got your little toys to enjoy when you feel like it? Being a career woman and wanting a family is an incredibly selfish desire. Choose one and be the best at that one that you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:15 PM
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What a fucking idiotic false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:37 PM
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Remember foreplay for the next time starts the minute after you cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:35 PM
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Let me put it this way. Have you ever heard of Plato, Aristotle, Socrates? Morons…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:06 PM
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SEETHISISEXACTLYWHYWENEEDMGTOWANDWOMENARESOULESSHARPIESTHATABUSE...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:19 PM
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One of the most insightful men I've ever encountered.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 11:06 PM
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FML lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:27 PM
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I'm interested to know if people who do this think they're capable of breaking through that inherent mistrust I'd say I'm pretty distrustful of women. Along the same lines as women typically being more religious than men, there seems to be a gendered difference for a woman to believe things based on feeling more than facts. That isn't to say that men don't do this too, but I do believe it manifests itself more in women. One other example is women being afraid of walking alone. The statistics sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:26 PM
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Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:04 PM
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Have you ever asked your mom what attracted her to him, and what made her want to marry him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:03 PM
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Adam Lavigne too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:59 PM
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No... The story goes that Stacy uses nice guy as an emotional tampon to decry just how big of an asshole her boyfriend is. Laments, "If only she could find a guy like nice guy. He's gonna make some girl so happy someday because he's so nice! He's, like, the perfect boyfriend!" Stacy's phone dings. "Asshole wants to fuck... Thanks for being such a great listener, nice guy! You're like a brother to me!" Hugs Nice guy is left feeling utterly confused... She says she wants a guy just like me! I'm ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:55 PM
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Why is it that whenever a man is not convicted of a rape accusation the narrative is almost universally, "that guy got away with rape" and never, "that bitch totally just filed a false rape report"? We have zero information to determine guilt or innocence on either party. It is 100% as likely that she filed a false claim as he got away with it, but our geocentric gynocentric society will always skew towards the woman being believed. Hell, feminists even somehow torture this data into "most rapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:47 PM
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I really don't... You are kind of incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:12 AM
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Good and bad are secondary to hawt. Sure, girls would love a good man who is hot, but absent that, they'll take a bad man that is hot. They sure as fuck aint gonna take an ugly guy that is good, and certainly not an ugly guy that is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 05:22 AM
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Huh. Homosexuality has just barely become acceptable in the US and I don't know that there has ever been a time when male on male affection was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:16 PM
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Sounds like you got a keeper!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:54 PM
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That's playful banter, which is different than a derogatory put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:18 PM
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Seriously... Feminism needs to die in a fire!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:08 PM
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lol fair enough! I agree that derogatory put-downs are insecure, and what I wrote falls squarely into that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:48 PM
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That's a fine line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:04 PM
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I think in parts of Europe and the middle east, men holding hands and hugging is perfectly fine and has no reflection on their masculinity. That would be a masculinity death sentence in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:04 PM
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