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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated onOkay all NVM behavior but also what I think about is if you wanted your wife to lose weight for the sake of health and personal preferences at least make it easier for her? Like why does she have to save up the money for gym clothes and a membership? He’s the one that wants it so bad he better fund it. And I bet she’s doing all the domestic labor at home so she’s unable to take care of herself to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 11 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoThat's why I didn't agree with how she handled it even tho what she said was facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 03:44 PM |
| 13 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoThank you queen 💕 the comment above made me feel dismissed ngl. Like IM not FDS enough or something 😅 take care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 215 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoThat’s exactly what I was thinking. Had nothing to do with the way she responded to him. We need to stop analyzing the stuff these LVM say to us and save our time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:35 PM |
| 55 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoThat’s exactly why I found this to be pick me. My time is too precious to entertain you any longer than I have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 04:56 AM |
| 46 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoI was quick with the caption bc everything I had typed out got erased because I accidentally “exited” out of the post. I thought it was pick me behavior from the very beginning because she was the one that asked him out initially. Plus with the first date being a coffee outing. Can’t control the way you interpret my post, but wishing you well in your own journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 04:15 AM |
| 33 | Please don't approach anybody's grown-ass son...Cracking up rn because I am that beautiful 22 year old virgin 💖 Never went to persue a guy, they've always come to me. Even the super shy ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 27 | Sitting in a Starbucks and hearing the following conversation between two womenYes it hurt for me to sit there and not say anything. I would have told her that she should focus on herself and her children because she obviously doesn't need him. He adds nothing but drama to her life and she doesn't need that. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How I met my HVM husbandJust curious OP, how old were the both of you when you started dating and got married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:34 AM |
| 8 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”I have a new crush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:51 AM |
| 6 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.I love this subreddit. This actually came up in my fyp a couple days ago and I had to stop watching it because of the pickmeisha garbage she spits out in the beginning. "Ha ha ha... 🤪 I just love paying for dates. I'm so cool 😌" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:59 AM |
| 16 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningOmg ladies I wish I followed this. Two years ago a month into Dating my ex who would end up being abusive I broke up with him because I didn't have a good feeling about it. He seemed like a great guy on paper and I had "no reason" to end it asides from little nuances (ex: he didn't have the level of education I would want my future spouse to have-- which looking back, is valid!!) and an overall intuition. Well... He bad mouthed me to a bunch of people and basically framed me as crazy which guilt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The clearest display of “if he wanted to, he would” that I’ve ever experiencedYess 👏🏾 good insight. Honestly never thought of it that way and it makes a lot of sense. I will add here that I come from a cultural backgrounds where often pick me mom's will coerce their daughters info marrying man because he has a prestigious Career such as in medicine as you medicine. But as you pointed out it's not Indicative of being a HVM anyhow With that being said, he was a little different. He failed out of school that he didn't even have to pay a dime for. Which to this day blows my m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:49 AM |
| 16 | The clearest display of “if he wanted to, he would” that I’ve ever experiencedThanks for sharing OP! May I ask what it was that made you two incompatible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 06:55 PM |
| 14 | The clearest display of “if he wanted to, he would” that I’ve ever experiencedThey're out there even in NVM form... My last ex that ended up being abusive worked three jobs because he was ambitious to pursue several endeavors such as getting out of debt, starting his business, and getting a better home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?Hey sis I went through the entire thread and just wanted to say that I didn't think you said anything disrespectful at all. I honestly think OP was pulling "what about ism" here when you clearly stated that they're welcome to disagree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?Thank you so much for sharing sis omg. Could you please share the quran translation you mentioned? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?Salam OP, I just wanted to thank you for posing this question because it's been on my mind lately especially when it comes to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?Salam sis! Eid Mubarak and thanks for the tips ☺️ can you explain the outfit one again please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't let it go to your headMy ex threw out all my clothes that I left at his house (lived with mom). I had a lot of stuff there because we were cleaning out my dorm and my own mom was in the middle of buying a house/ moving so we were packing everything up there anyway and I only really left winter clothes at the ex’s since it was summer. Anyway we broke up a month later and he threw out all of my clothes. When I kept texting him to drop them off he never answered. Then I finally just said okay leave them on the porch and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Happy Halloween ladies!Now thats scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 13 | Choose wiselyI come for a culture where women are expected to get married at a young age and if not it’s seen as a failure for the family. It’s cause they want to keep us trapped in this cycle I’m now realizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 6 | I would be laughing with this wouldn't be so true😔This is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Imagine....Thank you. Yes I’m feeling my confidence in myself slowly sinking and I doubt myself more. I’m unfortunately financially reliant on him and I live with him so those are the only things keeping me here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Imagine....Yes. I let a lot of red flags go to the side. Now I’m paying for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Imagine....He is. I’ve completely fallen into the trap he put me in and am trying to find a way out. I unfortunately live with him and am financially reliant on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 51 | Imagine....QUEEN!! How did he react to it? My soon to be ex, always says that the things I find “breakup worthy” actually aren’t big deals.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | like a mother!!! mad props to herWith this being said, queens got any recs for a brand to start buying sneakers from? I’ve been only wearing Nike for a couple years now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Always put yourself first, ladies.24 years ago despite telling my lv dad to leave her alone, my mom eventually fell for him when she was 17. Her parents saw through him and told her to focus on school instead as she got accepted into med school two years later (the country Shes from you enroll after hs). Instead she decided to run off with my dad, got married, and dropped out of med school. Twenty years after ether met, my mom had to divorce my dad because he was having an affair with the bride of the wedding they met at, for a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 9 | Mood when I found this subIt’s from season one of America’s next top model. Her name is ebony and the scene is from when she got picked to be on the show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:41 AM |
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