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GeneralangerproblemsTM/r/MensRights23/10/21 09:54 PM
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I agree. Bodily autonomy is a very important aspect to humans regardless of gender. A financial sever should be an option to men, and abortion should be an option to women. Neither should be liable for the others choice. No one should be forced into parenthood or pregnancy.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:43 AM
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Okay so you’re anti-abortion. Was that the point of this post?
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:40 AM
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What does that mean? Are you advocating for murdering born babies?
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:28 AM
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What do you mean by this? Do you mean being able to sever all financial/parental ties as a man if the woman chooses to keep? Because I think most people would agree.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:12 AM
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Underrated comment
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:48 AM
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This sub get a lot of hate for being intertwined with the manosphere stuff. Material men are the ones who made that bs up. And I assure you no genuine woman thinks it’s cool or attractive. Be yourself, be confident with yourself, and don’t feel you need to aspire to whatever the monosphere tells you is attractive. Material and superficial will attract material and superficial.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:46 AM
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What would this look like? Provisions to protect women as mothers and provisions to protect men as protectors? What does that really mean legislation and policy wise? Could women still choose to work if they wanted to build a career? Could men and women alike choose to not have kids if that’s what they want? Could men choose to walk away from an unwanted pregnancy without financial ramifications? (Not that they entirely can anyway but they should be able to) What is considered a ‘small amount’ o…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 11:17 PM
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Yes. Did I disagree anywhere? I’m agreeing with OP.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:24 AM
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When did I say it wasn’t. I’m agreeing with OP. The term incel shouldn’t even be an insult.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 06:16 AM
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And they shouldn’t. It’s not right. My partner and I are both technically Incels because of my condition, doesn’t mean we’re misogynists like what most people would think.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 01:15 AM
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Incel is simply a descriptor IMO. It should not be attached to any negative bearing. Technically I’m a woman and an incel too. Whilst I have a partner, I have a medical condition which progresses quite severely and it leaves me unable to have traditional PIV sex. Incel at its core just means involuntarily celibate. I think when people use it as an insult they ignore the underlying mental health problems that being an incel can lead you to have. Incels at their core should be cared for as much as…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:36 AM
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Are you married? How do you know this. What sources state this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:33 AM
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What about men with high body counts? Do they make good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:51 AM
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Laughs jn unable to have sex and male partner totally fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:49 PM
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Sure. Just explaining why I said what I said I guess. The traits user described are part of the hyper fem side of the internet I guess I’ve stumbled across recently. Maybe Im spending too much time there
/r/MensRights29/05/22 05:52 AM
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It’s a trend I’ve seen going around online atm. Sorry if it’s not the case I just connected buzz words. The trend is women who embrace ‘hyper femininity’ and ‘divine femininity’ they’re all obsessed with more ‘feminine’ qualities like being empathetic and caring.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 05:39 AM
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As long as you’re practicing what you preach.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 04:55 AM
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I love violence. Nah jks but typically more feminine leaning women will be more empathetic people.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 04:54 AM
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Religious women are demanding because you have to fill certain roles - and if you don’t or if you don’t do it ‘well’ enough they’ll become distant and resentful. I’m sorry about your family but I wish you the best of luck.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 11:07 PM
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Sounds fair. Good luck to you. It sounds like you want a hyper feminine woman. Try religious institutions that is where most of them hang around.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 11:00 PM
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This is an interesting post to make from someone who’s posting in r / seduction a lot talking about the casual sex he’s having. Maybe you’re the fuckboy? Just a thought champion.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 10:53 PM
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What do you consider a ‘good woman’?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 10:46 PM
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Literally why I joined this sub. Now it’s incel behaviour
/r/MensRights28/05/22 10:43 PM
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What do you guys look for in a woman?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 10:38 PM
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And it’s pretty hurtful too. If a man came to me expressing that he was assaulted by a woman I would absolutely believe him no questions asked. I would support him too (as well as I could). We can’t keep talking about double standards but not showing the opposite gender the respect we want
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:03 PM
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I’m exactly the same. I’ll stand up for men when they are discriminated against. The naming of this poster makes me pretty upset which is why I didn’t comment on it lol - seems pretty obvious that it’s a shit name. Told my story just to make it a little more light hearted I guess to make a point - Self defence for anyone is great.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:58 PM
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Thanks King. Unfortunately it is not a fake story. Takes a sick person to lie about something like. Knew I was going to get downvoted into oblivion for commenting
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:48 PM
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Never said I agree with the naming of it did I
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:45 PM
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The fact you think I’m lying about my story is disgusting. Also notice how I mention ‘normalise self defence classes for young adults at school?’
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:43 PM
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I was out with friends after work. I left my drink unattended with him for a couple minutes whilst I talked to some of them. It was my first drink of the night I knew something wasn’t right. I got up to take myself to the bathroom obviously not looking too crash hot that’s when he grabbed me.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:41 PM
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He was fat and out of shape, I’m 6ft tall and in shape. It wasn’t hard. And the drug hasn’t started taking effect yet. I was feeling very sick after the beer I was drinking (I knew something was wrong because I had only had one beer which I stupidly left unattended with him for a couple minutes). I got up to take myself to the bathroom.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:38 PM
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Ngl I would’ve loved to have some self defence classes when I was attacked. I was spiked at a pub by a man and he tried to drag me around the corner of the bathroom building. I kicked the shit out of him until he let go of me, and as far as I’m aware nothing happened. Would’ve looked way cooler if I coulda round housed him or something lol. Anyways normalise self defence classes for young adults at school.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 09:14 AM
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Nvm I just realised you’re a bot
/r/MensRights20/05/22 10:05 AM
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Yea I would like to know what kind of things men want in return for many years of support of womens rights. What kinds of things do men want to see more women supporting?
/r/MensRights20/05/22 10:04 AM
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Sure! At least a couple examples
/r/MensRights20/05/22 09:22 AM
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What do men want in return?
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:13 AM
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I hate the ‘period leave’ debate because it glosses over the main issue - Painful periods to the point of not being able to work aren’t normal and aren’t okay. The pain should be nothing more than a minor inconvenience fixed easily with over the counter pain meds like a regular headache. Everyone - employers and colleagues - should encourage women to see a doctors if their period pain is that bad that they physically need to take time off work - I’m in the same boat and I’m currently en route to…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:03 AM
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Not according to this sub
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:55 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of men on this sub specifically talk about how they don’t support legal and accessible abortions because the man doesn’t get a say. Very upsetting. I was with you guys until I kept seeing comments like that
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:54 AM
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We do. Where are you?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:20 AM
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I would’ve agreed with you a week ago but I’ve seen too much against that in the past couple days
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:18 AM
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My period pain is extremely bad. Sometimes it’s bad enough to send me to the ER. I know I’m not alone in this issue. I don’t see why I couldn’t just use sick leave for it. But if I use all my sick leave because of period pain don’t get mad at me when I rock up to work with the flu lol. I don’t really think there needs to be period pain leave. Periods aren’t actually supposed to be painful to the point of hospitalisation/unable to do regular things - I’m in the middle of being diagnosed with endo…
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:31 AM
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Well there’s a lot of posts in particularly this sub which speak against accessible and legal abortion. I think from my perspective as a woman, the voices of the men who are pro-choice get drowned out by the voices of pro-birth men. I would like to see more men standing up for women online personally
/r/MensRights10/05/22 03:23 AM
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For sure my dude. A positive argument for why something should happen/be available is always better than tearing someone/something else down to enforce a message (negative argument). I’m obviously very pro-choice and there’s enough arguments to support why it should be a thing without dragging other people down. At the end of the day abortion concerns no one but the woman seeking one. I think there’s a lot to be said for men actively and loudly supporting access to safe and legal abortion too - …
/r/MensRights10/05/22 01:43 AM
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It’s more of a hypothetical from what I’ve seen. ‘You mandate my body I’ll mandate yours’ - that’s the attitude behind it. It’s like revenge I suppose. A lot of woman right now realistically wouldn’t feel safe having sex with a dude without a vasectomy (if abortion is illegal) even if they’re on birth control and he uses a condom. Even a slim chance of pregnancy is too much. All or nothing I guess. I can say that because I would be feeling the same. I wouldn’t expect men to get vasectomies thoug…
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:55 PM
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Thank you for your support in legal and safe abortions. I am not an American woman but I can provide some perspective from what I see on my end. We are bitter to a degree, not at men in general but because the judiciary (largely made up of old men) are making decisions on a woman’s reproductive health. We’re angry - it’s infuriating. The sex strike thing isn’t out of bitterness though - it’s out of fear. There would be nothing worse than being in America right now as a woman and getting pregnant…
/r/MensRights09/05/22 10:20 PM
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Are men not on our side? I feel like most men are pro-choice
/r/MensRights09/05/22 10:09 PM
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And that’s exactly why abortion should be legal and accessible. Good point.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 08:08 AM
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Abortion should be legal and accessible. Bodily autonomy is important for a lot of things. Men should be able to surrender having to pay child support if woman decides to keep it. Child support can be pretty draining. No one should be forced into pregnancy because consenting to sex doesn’t mean consenting to parenthood and that goes both ways. Use birth control - understand that BC isn’t 100%. Problem solved
/r/MensRights07/05/22 09:23 AM
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So the problem lies with men being fucking lazy then lmao - not with women as most RP men tend to bang on about (or at least from what I’ve observed) Can you really fault women for not wanting to be with a man who wont wash his own ass or pay attention during a date? How pathetic. But again, these aren’t just RP tendencies even if RP might advocate for it. My partner (male) of 6 years is like this and not a RP man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:16 AM
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Top 20%???? Of what? Men in general? What does this even mean. This is a number you’ve applied to yourself which means absolutely nothing. What is this 80/20 rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:49 AM
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Your high value is basic. Okay let’s go through it. fitness Yep seems pretty basic. Most people look after their health. care about looks/hygiene Again this is pretty basic and literally most people - men and women. Especially being hygienic. Is the bar for men really that low that hygiene is considered ‘high value’? Really? ‘Sorry guys anything below washing your asscrack and you’re not an alpha male like myself’. Don’t be ridiculous. This shit basic. Most of the population bathe and care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:47 AM
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Well I don’t have PiV sex due to medical conditions anyway. Also not the question being asked by OP to begin with. My question is literally an offshoot of OPs original post ‘what are the advantages/benefits to dating a red pill man?’. Someone responded with an answer which was trivial as it applies to most people looking for a partner or wanting to improve themselves. It’s literally the bare minimum - simply proving that red pill men don’t provide special, or unique ‘benefits’. So if we’re group…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:46 AM
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Projecting? Not sure what you mean by that. I’ve already been dating someone for years now. Everything you described is what an average person does to appear more attractive as well as improve themselves for themselves. So you still didn’t answer my question. What makes a red pill man worth dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:44 AM
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So….they’re like any other regular person only leaning more on the sexist side. I’ll pass. These are all bare minimums (hygiene, staying healthy). Working hard to achieve financial stability is just survival that everyone has to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:01 AM
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My non red-pilled boyfriend is all of these things too. You’re nothing too unique champ. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:59 PM
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I’d really love some Red Pilled men to comment why they’re worth dating lmao. This is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:32 PM
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Nothing wrong with self improvement. But everything else about a ‘red pilled man’ is a huge no. I’m not even convinced red pilled men like women or want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:07 AM
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Well consider me 5% then. It really does not matter to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:49 PM
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Bold of you to tell me what I will and will not date. If I loved a man but he was shorter than me that’s not going to stop me from trying to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:04 AM
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Bold of you to assume I care about any of those things. Short men are hot as long as they’re ok with dating a 6ft tall woman and I don’t care about figure as long as you’re healthy. 6 figures? Meh. Life is hard enough already without having to throw that into the mix. As long as you can save money and don’t spend it all on dumb shit constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:45 PM
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What does that mean I’m sorry I don’t use Reddit a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:11 PM
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I’m honestly not sure. My hormones are completely fucked up. I’m a woman but my testosterone is higher than usual and my libido is so small. I think it may have more to do with not liking the way I look more than anything else but yeah I am the unhorniest dog I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:15 AM
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None of this convinces me putting myself through hell. I also can’t have sex due to medical reasons and I’m likely infertile. So there’s also that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:25 AM
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Did I mention I’m also likely infertile? I said this is personal to me. Not anyone else. I’m just not interested in biological children. Not just because I have medical issues in regards to having them, but because I’m simply not-interested. Will my mind change? Maybe but unlikely. Also that’s nit how bloodlines work really. My ancestors and cousins and what not will still have children most likely. It’s just one branch that will end. Your comment says more about you than it does about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:21 AM
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There is no incentive to have children in my opinion. I don’t care about my bloodline, I care about making my own life something worth enjoying. I don’t have any interest in kids because to me it’s not something fulfilling. I’m not interested in pregnancy specifically - the effects that would have on my body would be more detrimental than I’m willing to spare. If I could make enough money I would consider older-child adoption but adoption is dollar bags as hell. Children are more expensive than …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:28 PM
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Hygiene is very important to women. Wear deodorant, a nice cologne. And care about what you wear. I don’t know if it applies to all women but a man who cares about how he dresses is really nice to me. Also probably don’t be a ‘red pill’ man. We want partners - not people who think they’re better than us. It’s an auto turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:24 PM
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Reality is I can’t change my body shape so gg I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:27 AM
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direct insult ‘no offence though lolz’ But yeah kinda disproves OPs photo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:23 AM
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Bro never once had a man simp for my body. (Flat chested, flat assed, mid size, rectangle). In fact I’ve kind of only been shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:46 AM
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I don’t care if people look at me in the gym - I’m not much to look at anyway. The only thing I care about is if someone sees me doing something wrong please correct me. My own inability scares me out of the gym more than anything lol
/r/MensRights27/12/21 08:47 PM
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In your example I’m not sure what the woman is mad about. There’s nothing wrong with having female and male and then even mixed leagues. In regards to your post, I’m a woman and I game everyday. I experience gender-based blatant harassment pretty much everytime I get on the mic. I would like to be treated the same way as the male friends I play games with - not as some sort of joke. That’s equality.
/r/MensRights25/12/21 04:29 AM
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??
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:12 PM
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This is fair but what about women already in relationships who dress up?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 01:53 AM
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Honestly yeah I don’t blame you guys. I’d do the same. I fear for my partner going into a corporate world what might happen to him for just being normal.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 10:35 PM
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I’m not saying I’m a part of FDS lmao. Just because I’m in subs doesn’t mean I auto subscribe to their doctrine. It’s just interesting to get different view points. I don’t really understand what FDS want. I think the only thing I agree with is that they’re anti-porn
/r/MensRights17/11/21 07:41 PM
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Broooo you good?
/r/MensRights17/11/21 03:28 AM
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If it helps I’ve been banned for being in FDS too.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 11:48 PM
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That’s what I said. 2x of each bathroom. ‘Each’ = men and women. That’s what it should be.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 11:47 PM
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Exactly. Which is why there should probably be 2x of each bathroom. So one is usable when the other isn’t. I was simply providing an explanation for why there are more women’s bathrooms than men’s in some cases.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 01:53 AM
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I just get it because when the sanitary boxes need to be cleaned - they have to shut the whole bathroom and sanitise the entire area (for obvious reasons). So when that happens women do need somewhere else to go. That’s the only other reason I can think of.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 11:03 PM
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Women can sometimes take longer in bathrooms due to needing to sort out menstrual stuff (also just in general needing to sit down and wipe when peeing). I think it’s good they have both options so men aren’t constantly waiting in line right? It seems like it’s just more efficient. No reason there shouldn’t be stall doors - just an explanation for why you might find women have x2 bathroom and men have only one they can use
/r/MensRights15/11/21 07:57 PM
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Honestly I get it. I think part of the doctrine comes from a place of extreme self hatred and I can understand having an esteem that low as a woman that makes you feel like absolute shit. Sometimes feeling that bad about yourself can really manifest into hatred. Some things I see really concern me and upset me. When ISIS took over Kabul, a lot of posts I saw on red pill forums were about how ‘based’ they are for putting women in their place, and that it was a good thing that women were removed f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:47 AM
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Yeahhhh I don’t think that’s a very common view in France anyway. That hasn’t been a ‘law’ in France since like the early 20th century at least. It was some Court case brought to the EU anyway because the ruling was stupid. Lot of people in these comments floating on the ‘importance’ of sex. Maybe romance really is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:08 PM
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I’m in OffMyChest. What kind of comments are the mods deleting??
/r/MensRights05/11/21 06:53 AM
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Some couples don’t want kids too and that’s fine.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 07:19 AM
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Are many men child free? I see mostly women not wanting children (not that it really matters I’m just curious to see if any men here are CF). I have no interest in having biological kids but I’d like to foster and/or adopt. Only problem is that of course it’s a lengthy and expensive process. Will I ever be financially stable enough to do that? Probably not. So the thought goes down the drain. I’m currently getting three qualifications just to hopefully get a job that keeps me out of the low soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:25 PM
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They’re simply shallow women. It took me a while to find a guy who wasn’t so shallow. Hope your mates find that peace soon. Regardless I hope you attribute less weight to looks. Why is it that important to you?
/r/MensRights25/10/21 08:59 AM
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I agree women have accelerated the beauty standards but… Low standards? Men? Yeah I’m not too sure about that. Most guys myself and my friends have encountered want a girl with big boobs and a big ass but under weigh under 70kg - hourglass figure only. They won’t date tall women, she has to have big lips (natural obviously), and be perfect in pretty much every way. Anecdotal sure, but so is a lot of things in this sub. I think both genders are to blame to some degree for the standards they set f…
/r/MensRights25/10/21 06:57 AM
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That’s not what has happened in my experience at all but ok I guess. In fact it’s usually men putting me down - not women. Why can’t we just acknowledge that all body shaming is bad? Why are we attributing oppression olympics to gender? I acknowledge that men experience gender based difficulties in their own areas and woman in their own, but appearance is a thing that affects everyone individually.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 06:52 AM
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I’m like a 4/10 looking woman. And I definitely get treated differently for it. I’m laughed at for the way I look and I’m never complimented and probably won’t be. If I tried to flirt with men I would absolutely be called creepy and get laughed at or something. This is definitely something that happens both ways. And I don’t think it a gender thing, I think societal expectations are to blame as we have raised the bar very high to be considered even remotely attractive.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 02:22 AM
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This is true and I’m sorry you feel this way. Society is very sex obsessed now days. Sex doesn’t just sell anymore, sex just is. Someone in the comments described the expectation as ‘the equivalent of slut shaming for women’ and I think that’s pretty bang on the mark. The only thing you can do is live for yourself and keep yourself happy.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 11:39 PM
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Sorry what is paternity fraud? I’m unfamiliar with the term
/r/MensRights23/10/21 12:01 AM
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I couldn’t tell you. I’ve only had the one partner for about 6 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:17 PM
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Honestly I’m not sure. From my own experience as a woman it’s been pretty bad. I was suicidal for most of high school and saw multiple psychiatrists/therapists all of which never took anything seriously. From the ones who I was with the longest for- 2 of them were female and 1 was male. The male laughed at me telling me It was ‘just regular teenage girl stuff and pretty pathetic’ even though It was obviously not right where my headspace was as a kid. The other two I had for a while were pretty w…
/r/MensRights21/10/21 09:32 PM
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I don’t think he’s average at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:40 AM
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What happened to attractiveness being subjective. I’m an ugly woman but my boyfriend stays with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:21 AM
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I don’t really follow FDS. Only agree with some things. But I would consider my partner a HVM. I cook and bake for him, because he likes my cooking. We both play video games so we’ll buy each other stuff off each others steam wishlists and obviously we game together and that’s one of our favorite past times. I help him with his assignments for Uni and he proof reads mine because I tend to miss-spell things when I’m writing in the moment. I buy him clothes and gifts a lot of the time actually jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:37 AM
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It’s subjective. How could anyone know. I tend to think better partners wouldn’t attribute such meaningless shallow physical traits to the worth of a partner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:21 AM
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Why do they have to have sexual value? If you’re trying to find someone to date you should look beyond just what they look like. You were asking about what the male equivalent is of makeup as if it’s something that ‘all men should have’ to ‘look better’. But there is no such thing. I’m an unattractive female by beauty standards but to some people I’m sure they like what they see - who knows. It’s all subjective. There’s no umbrella ‘saving grace’ for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:01 AM
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Personality, charm, her passions and aspirations, her values and morals, literally anything else that isn’t so superficial. Same goes for women seeking men too. Or same sex couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:19 AM
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Bit pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:21 AM
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Do men actually give a fuck about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:39 PM
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I live in Australia, we don’t get money for donating but I donate anyways. I invest in an ETF already. It’s just slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:25 AM
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Damn I’m doing my best. But if I’m still renting by the time I’m 30 I’m killing myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:11 AM
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I’ll give my left nut for some money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:06 AM
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Dunno. I can’t speak for all women, and ‘femenist’ isn’t much but an umbrella term. Most people are feminists because they don’t think there’s any reason for gender to limit your opportunities in life right? I’m a woman and I don’t have much interest in having biological kids although im more interested in adopting. I will likely have a higher paying job than my partner just based on our current paths, so I’m sure when it comes to adoption time, he will probably be the one taking the more time o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:04 AM
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Why was this ever debated. I’m confused. It’s simply genetics/biology or whatever. I’m still gonna aim for looking like a buff woman tho. One day
/r/MensRights17/10/21 11:17 PM
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Yep I’m ok with this. Sign me up. I’m also not American tho so gg I guess
/r/MensRights09/10/21 01:25 AM
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I’m sure my partner does want sex. But he loves me and has expressed that my health and well-being is more important than his ability to smash. That isn’t being depraved it’s being a decent human being. I don’t think you read my comment. A strong want is normal, a ‘need’ is not. We need food and water. If sex is really as important as food, water, shelter, etc then you ‘need’ help. That sounds like an addiction, no more than ‘needing’ meth or cigarettes. Wanting sex is normal. Needing sex is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:09 PM
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I think to say if you ‘need sex’ ‘it’s vital’, you have a high libido. A ‘strong want’ is normal. The majority of people get horny. But they don’t ‘need’ sex to live. If you need sex so badly to the point that if you don’t have it, you’ll rope or potentially assault someone - you need to see a doctor and a psychologist because you have an addiction. Why is my partner less human?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah that’s fair. I don’t really mind having my medical problems out in the open. Just be weary because someone who commented before got the banhammer or at least comment deleted for ‘making it personal’ after saying ‘endo isn’t real you’re just not attracted to your partner’. (I’m sorry I don’t know how to do the thing where you reply to certain parts of someone’s comment). Become less human? I don’t know what you mean by this. I don’t think my partner is any less human. You don’t need to apolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:10 PM
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Endo is not fixable. Sometimes if caught early enough it can sort of be ‘zapped’ off and it might go into remission. But most of the time it requires regular zapping to stop being so painful, or it can be treated through hormone therapy but I’d rather avoid that. I might not even have endo! I’ve only been for one scan and a couple checkups so far and the only thing they found was that I have a retroverted uterus (doesn’t explain the painful sex though apparently since mine isn’t a fixed retrover…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:35 PM
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I made a reply earlier about my own experience. I’d be interested to know what you think about it. I have a very happy, fulfilled long term relationship without sex because I can’t have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:31 PM
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It’s very sad that society is like this. That ‘most’ men would choose to throw in the towel because they can’t have PiV sex. Since you’ve decided to make it personal I’ll break it down for you. It’s taken me years only due to my own embarrassment and idiocracy. I live in Australia not the US so money was never an issue. I knew something was wrong because all my friends kept telling me painful sex wasn’t normal. And I wanted to enjoy it I really did, but I refused to go see anybody because I thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:19 PM
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Lol the acorn comment made me laugh. Very true. And I mean yeah, whilst it’s anecdotal of my own experience, I really don’t think sex is a need then in general. But I can appreciate that other people may have much higher sex drive and it would make them incompatible with other people who don’t want it as much. But even then, part of me thinks that if two people actually value each other, they’d make compromises and communicate their needs and wants to find a balance instead of throwing in the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:10 AM
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That’s completely incorrect where are you getting this information from. I’m very attracted to my partner. The pain I’m experiencing is real…what even is this comment. Would love to see what kind of sources you’re getting that from
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:05 AM
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Hahah this debate is always really funny to me. It’s such a generalisation that i don’t think can be applied as a blanket statement at all. Time for anecdotal evidence! I’m a woman and have dyspareunia - painful PiV intercourse, it’s likely caused from endometriosis but I’m currently working through doctors appointments and tests to figure out the root cause. I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years with a man. 6 very happy fulfilling years. At first I used to drug myself up before sex so I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:26 AM
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Being as objective as I can. I honestly never see this kinda stuff. I’m in far right and far left groups, I browse MGTOW forums as well as WGTOW forums and never see any of this kind of rhetoric. Objectively I do think that there is an issue with modern feminism that pushes a misandrist rhetoric. That being said, men are the most violent people and commit the most violent crimes, statistically, men who get assaulted are assaulted by other men (obviously not always - we all know that don’t be stu…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 11:05 AM
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Cheers I’ll take literally anything else over sex. Boring as fuck. Get a pocket pussy and work on your humour tho 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:00 AM
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Ok? I don’t feel like the universe hates me because I find other things more interesting than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:13 AM
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Just as well you’re not all men then. Jesus Christ people are so obsessed with sex. Why does no one care about what an actual person is anymore? Just get a pocket pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:25 AM
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I know in my own relationship, we’re both asexuals. We have no interest in penetrative sex but are still romantic and do everything else a relationship would include. That decision came from mutual discussion. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship why is society so over sexualised nowadays. I’m sorry you suffer bad cases of blue balls but believe it or not - not all men are as bad at controlling their libido and some don’t care for it at all. You are not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:23 AM
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I have no desire to cheat on my partner? Your one experience does not define what reasonable people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:22 AM
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Believe it or not, when two people love each other they sacrifice things because a relationship is push and pull, give and take. It’s not all about what one person wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:57 AM
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Believe it or not, when two people love each other they sacrifice things because a relationship is push and pull, give and take. It’s not all about what one person wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:57 AM
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I’ve been with my partner for 6 years, lived together together for 2 almost 3 years now. It took us a while but we both come out to each other as asexual (or simply non-existent libido) recently after I explained to him how I felt about penetrative sex. He felt the same, we both just didn’t want to say anything to each other about it. So like, now we live together in our romantic, sexless relationship very happily. If I was single, I’d be the same. I have no interest in sex and wouldn’t seek it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:55 AM
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I’m asexual so definitely romantic for me. I think society is very over-sexualised nowadays. If someone is genuinely interested in spending more time with me and we have similar hobbies (I have an awful lot of hobbies) I don’t really care too much about what they look like, especially what’s underneath their clothes - I really couldn’t care less. I want a partner, not a sex buddy (although I’m fully aware for the majority of people these things combine into one which is fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:36 AM
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This makes me sad (for context I’m a 6ft woman). I used to think this way only because I thought it was the ‘right’ way to think until I matured and realised it really doesn’t matter. I think relationships where the girl is taller than the boy are really sweet and tbh I wouldn’t be upset being in one myself nowadays. My boyfriend and I are the same height and I’d still date him even if he was shorter. You can’t change your height and this just straight up isn’t fair. I wouldn’t want a person to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:31 AM
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Yeah. I my long term partner and I 100% have no interest in our own biological kids. We’re 21, have been together for 6 years. I think this is for a lot of reasons. Mainly because we’re fairly asexual, having a child is a huge financial burden, and I’m worried sick about the effects of pregnancy on my body. We barely drink, never party. We just study (at the moment, almost finished Uni). Our lines of career will (hopefully) keep us busy enough. I simply don’t see a fulfilment in having children.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:41 PM
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