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Oatmeal takes less than 5 minutes to make and fills you up for a few hours. This could buy some makeup time.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 07:13 PM
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It sounds like he's using your weight as an excuse not to commit to you. If you lose weight, which you should if you're at an unhealthy weight, do it for yourself and not him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 07:12 PM
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It wouldn't matter as long as he treated me well and was committed to me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 07:11 PM
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Often as women when our instincts tell us something's wrong, it is. Ignoring this can lead to some bad situations. In the very least, validate your own feelings!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 03:38 PM
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I had this same discussion with a friend recently. She was looking at some of the profiles of men I've gone on dates with lately, claiming they were not handsome enough for me because she considers me beautiful. I had to explain to her that I'm looking for a lifetime commitment, so ability to provide/stability trumps the type of handsome/exciting combo that she values. Being hot doesn't put food on the table, and I'm also not stupid - men who are both handsome and make good providers have way mo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 03:32 PM
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I'm more focused on character than looks.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:23 PM
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Be careful about uprooting your life without a serious commitment. Besides the lying, has he discussed any sort of future or offered assistance to you in case you can't find a job there? Sounds like a big risk to take.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 03:49 PM
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If he really wanted to be with you, your being in a healthy weight range wouldn't stop him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 03:47 PM
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Do you have a skill set that can be done remotely/from home? Or can you teach English courses, tutor, revise essays, nanny, babysit, walk dogs, bartend? I think having income of your own may help alleviate your some of your concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/18 02:02 PM
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It’s a cycle that’ll only get worse. If he does or says anything truly bad to you, and you question it, he’ll find a way to make it your fault no matter what. I think the idea behind it is for you to never question him, at all, ever.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 02:11 AM
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It'll just get worse as time goes on. Does he not realize that if he never leaves the house, then someone has to do the household chores/keeping up with family socializing. Sounds like he takes you for granted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/18 02:38 PM
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Even if you cut off the older men, men in your range will still pursue you as though they are single. Nowadays you have to verify the man is single. Check his social media. Google him. Look for signs of a woman living in his home if he invites you over to cook for you. On that note, do you even know where they live? Do they withhold basic info? If you don't know all of the signs to look for, Google. If he is only asking you out sporadically, available during odd times, never met anyone he knows,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 06:46 PM
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Not necessarily to the user above but as a general question - if someone has been abused in their past, is this a red flag for having a serious relationship with them?
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 09:18 PM
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If you 100% want kids, then it's a waste of time to date someone who doesn't feel the same.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 07:40 PM
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There are lots of overweight and obese folks in the south (not to be rude, the stats are out there). If overweight people are in the majority, weight alone shouldn't stop men from being attracted to you or elicit such poor responses from nearly all of them you encounter.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 06:12 PM
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If you look cute and approachable, men will ask you out at Meetup events.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 02:33 PM
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It’s not math or science related. More in the social sciences and then an arts field. I don’t want to say more in the interest of my own privacy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 11:51 PM
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It’s much easier to find a partner with similar goals/ideals while pursuing higher ed than out in the real world. Take advantage of having easy access to that but don’t let it affect your academics. It’s not an either/or type of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 09:37 PM
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I'm in a major city on the east coast.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 07:50 PM
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Keep documentation of these encounters, with the time, date, and exactly what happened. Facts only. When you go to HR it’ll be helpful to be able to look at your notes. In general, you should always have some sort of written record of workplace issues, whether it’s in your phone notes, sending a text to yourself, or writing it down.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 07:36 PM
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Years ago my dad told me that women are stressed out due to working, and it’s harder for us. That he understood that and offered my mother the choice to stay at home. It stuck with me and rings true in my adulthood. I wish it were okay to openly admit this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 01:44 AM
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If you’re in college, you might want to just chill out and enjoy your summer. Do some relaxing things like yoga, watching chick flicks, DIY beauty treatments, mani/pedi. A month is not that long. Once you get older and into the real world, those blocks of downtime will become rare.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 11:22 PM
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This is helpful and reassuring advice for us more home-bodied types.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 02:43 PM
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If he’s assured you once that it’s okay and he seems in control of things, then it’s okay to relax and let him pay for the dates. Maybe you can surprise him for a special occasion, like a birthday, doing well on an exam, or some extracurricular achievement, esp. if he’s on a sports team.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/18 09:29 PM
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Biotin works.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/18 09:27 PM
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I agree with others that the only issue is the sex. Sounds like you want him to show his sexual desire toward you, and initiate things even if it’s not full blown sex. Maybe that’s something you can discuss with him. Can you do some research in trustworthy medical sources about how to approach physical intimacy with someone who has Asperger’s? There may even be some books on Amazon you can order that will show you ways to do that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/18 12:49 PM
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You breezed past the part where you discuss the abuse you suffered at your mother’s hands. It’s important you work through this with a therapist before becoming a mother.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 08:17 PM
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This is such an important distinction to make, but also difficult to avoid when couples are waiting longer to get married but cohabiting in the meanwhile. And particularly in cities where COL is high and it’s easier for the woman to just move in with her BF and he covers the expenses. How do you all suggest a woman navigate cohabiting in this way while still protecting themselves if the relationship ends?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 05:58 PM
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Thank you! I am attracted to younger men, as well, so I'll keep that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 09:28 PM
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I'm 31. What is the ideal age range of men for me to date? I feel that men my age prefer women in their 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:43 AM
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