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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Vulnerability and attraction | angry_voices | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:49 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Vulnerability and attractionThank you. Looks like sound advice to me. I'll work on that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and attractionThat makes sense. So in your definition, "owning your flaws" doesn't count as "vulnerability", did I get that right? | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and attractionIt wasn't romantic advice. It was a general talk about vulnerability and shame. And I think I'm being missunderstood here: I know that being a whiny baby is not attractive. I'm talking exactly about the same thing that you are talking about: That I don't care about being perfect. I just have the feeling that this alone triggers some women to lose attraction. Not whining, not seeing her as my mother, just simple, plain owning my flaws. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and attractionI agree with you. Oversharing is not the problem, since I have no intention of sharing real personal stories with someone I just met. I just don't want to lie about things. I don't want to pretend to be someone I'm not, just to come across as "alpha". I'm afraid of heights and I'm not ashamed about it. That kind of stuff. I don't want to fake being bullet proof, because I'm not. I realize that a woman I'm dating is not my therapist. But I don't want to be a random douche that's so full of himsel… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and attractionThank you. Being myself is way more comfortable than portraying to be someone I'm not. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!!You're welcome! | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 01:55 PM |
| 11 | FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!!Take my upvote and my congratulations. Starting is often the hardest part. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How to Not be a Nice Guy Without Being a Complete Jerk?I forgot: Of course r/howtonotgiveafuck :D | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 4 | How to Not be a Nice Guy Without Being a Complete Jerk?In my opinion setting boundaries is important. Learn to say no. If someone is upsetting you, tell them in a calm and nice way. Stand up for yourself. Be the real you without trying to impress or please other people. I know, easier said than done. Here are some resources, that you may find helpful. I read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" a few years ago (I forgot the author's name). This can be a good start. One book that is highly recommended by many people is Mark Manson's "The subtle art of not… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 02:09 PM |
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