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Of people who have experienced domestic violence at some point in their life, lesbians report the most abuse. And if you read the study, you would know that they report men as their abusers most of the time.
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:38 AM
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Do these women know you're actively trying to get them pregnant? Because that is what you're describing. There is no difference between actively trying to get someone pregnant and just regular unprotected sex.
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:03 AM
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if they wanna keep my baby I don’t mind. You mean youre letting random women you dont know decide whether youre going to become a parent or not? If youre on the hook to pay/care for a child or not? Because its not THEM keeping YOUR baby, its YOU giving THEM complete control over your permanent life choices. Do you want to become a parent right now?
/r/seduction07/07/24 10:29 PM
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The guy at my work that all the young women admit to having a crush on is 5'4 at most. He's really charming and funny, and he has a girlfriend
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 02:05 AM
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Found the pedo
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:03 PM
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This is incredibly rude and dismissive of OP's feelings. Her husbands behavior is not normal, and trying to blame a womans valid feelings on her period is remarkably tone deaf and unhelpful
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 06:34 PM
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Life isn't fair to anyone. Learn to cope with it. You won't whine your way into happiness and success
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:32 PM
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Cope
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:24 PM
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Okay I hear you, but you should get it out of your head that there will be no changes in the relationship. You're making the biggest change by moving in together. That will Inherently change the dynamics of the relationship. It's natural for relationships to ebb and flow. It's okay. The relationship will change and you need to learn to be comfortable with that, but don't forget you get a say in how the relationship changes
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 02:34 PM
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Stop putting yourself down. Full stop. You're working so hard to convince everyone here that you're a worthless human being and he's an angel simply for putting up with you. What do you get out of that? That's not the attitude of a HVW. That's the attitude of someone who will get taken advantage of. Wheres your confidence? HVW have confidence in their worth, and they act like it. You're worth in the relationship is equal to his, even if your roles are different. Don't devalue your contributions …
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 02:31 PM
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And hardly any guys can't get a 22 yr old women to move in with them! You're the prize! Your worth is MORE than £250k a YEAR! You are worth the world and if you convince yourself that you have to EARN the right to marry this man because of his income, then you're relationship will be doomed. If you both love and RESPECT one another then there is nothing to worry about. You're worth is inherent, you're born with it, you don't earn love by cooking and cleaning. If you put all your self esteem in t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 04:56 AM
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What do you mean "no changes in other aspects of (your) relationship?"
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 04:39 AM
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Those are things you can get from someone else, easily. You deserve to feel safe around your partner. The longer you stay, the worse you'll feel in the end. There is no light at the end of his tunnel. Lvm like this only bring down women, your SO should uplift you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 07:40 AM
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How are other women going to know you got rejected? Unless you tell them or only seek out women in the same social circle, they won't know or care. Even women in the same social circle probably don't care unless you give off creep vibes. You're punishing yourself, for being rejected. If you want love, rejection is mandatory.
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:59 PM
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/r/seduction04/03/21 08:32 PM
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¯_(ツ)_/¯ Whatever you gotta say to convince yourself, dude. It doesn't effect my dates
/r/seduction20/02/21 01:20 AM
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No one said you were making shit up. I'm sure this technique has a name, anything can be given a name. Doesn't make it good. Just because you're dumb enough to listen to pick up artists, doesn't mean the rest of us are
/r/seduction20/02/21 01:03 AM
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Most people don't date just to get their dick wet. Some people actually want genuine relationships
/r/seduction19/02/21 04:51 AM
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You date to get to know someone. On a first date you literally don't know them. Even if you texted beforehand, that doesn't tell me much about a person. Trust is earned. The date is the chance to earn her trust. Every date I've been on where the guy tried invading personal space like that, did not end up getting a second date. It was abundantly clear he didn't care about my boundaries, comfort level, or getting to know me. He just saw me as the quickest avenue to getting his dick wet.
/r/seduction19/02/21 04:50 AM
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Across from her on a first date! Next to her if you've already established a physical relationship. I went out with a guy who sat next to me in a booth, on our first date, and it was wayyyy too intense and way to physical for a first date. If you want her to know that you respect her space, sit in front! It will build trust, so she knows you're not just going to push yourself into her bubble without permission. When a guy sits right next to me on a first date, that tells me that he isn't interes…
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:47 PM
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When you put it this way, it makes it seem like the woman doesnt get a say whether or not she'd like to touch or kiss
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:41 PM
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I mean she sees you at the gym, she knows you want to go out, and she hasn't approached you herself? She's just not into you bro. The ball is in her court. Walk away
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 03:01 AM
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lmao this comment is a great example of what OP is asking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:31 PM
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Being alone and being lonely are not the same. People in relationships feel lonely too.
/r/seduction07/02/21 06:11 PM
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"treat women as people" "UhH TeRIbLE ADvIce"
/r/seduction07/02/21 03:01 PM
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r/niceguys
/r/seduction07/02/21 02:59 PM
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Because you're projecting your loneliness onto the lone wolf. The lone wolf is not lonely, and you're not the lone wolf.
/r/seduction07/02/21 02:56 PM
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Gender roles are what you described, not gender itself.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 10:49 PM
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Having a strong sense of self is what protects you from being grounded by rejection. Someone who knows what they like, what their values are, what their goals are, and what they will and won't put up with have a strong sense of self. Someone who knows that how others treat them is not a reflection of their worth. When people treat you poorly it's because they have issues which they are projecting onto you. An example: last year I was going into a Dennys when a homeless man stopped me and asked m…
/r/seduction08/01/21 04:42 AM
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academic persuit Academic discussions require you to back up your claims. Thats how your argument gains credibility. Without credibility your comments are the equivalent of a toddlers rambling You can't even spell academic pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:27 AM
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Thanks! That's what I figured. Seems this dude has some unresolved misogyny clouding his judgment. I hope he gets help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:21 AM
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That's a lot of claims, and not a single source to back them up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:35 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 02:15 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 07:56 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 07:07 PM
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Having been cheated on by someone else doesn't mean he gets to take that out on you. That's not your problem. He has to deal with his baggage from previous relationships. Yall really need to sit down and have an adult conversation. His insecurities are going to (or already have) drive a wedge in this relationship. Also "having some controlling tendencies" is a big red flag, whether you think it's abusive or not z it's likely to escalate due to his own insecurities. He doesn't get to control you …
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 05:08 PM
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Except yall call any person who says something nice about women a simp. Not just men who pay for onlyfans ¯_(ツ)_/¯ yall just don't like people being nice to women
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:32 PM
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If it don't apply, let it fly
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:24 AM
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Every single women has a story like this. It's not just 3%
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:23 AM
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This is like saying you hate bird watchers and also illegal poachers. Leave the bird watchers alone man
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:17 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 12:41 AM
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Feel free to speak up for yourself. I set boundaries with other people even when my boyfriend is present. “That’s not appropriate” or “I’m not comfortable with that” goes a long way.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 10:01 PM
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I’m subscribed to this sub for the bitter rambling unhinged nonsense that make up 80% of the comments on any PPD post. It’s like watching people argue about whether the sky is green or yellow. But neither group will step outside and look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:41 PM
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Try again https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.businessinsider.com/bmi-is-bogus-best-way-to-tell-if-youre-a-healthy-weight-2016-9 https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=106268439 http://healthland.time.com/2013/08/26/why-bmi-isnt-the-best-measure-for-weight-or-health/ https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/255712.php https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.livescience.com/amp/39097-bmi-not-accurate-health-measure.html Studies: https://www.karger.com/Article/FullText/368783 https://onlinel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:38 AM
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It’s not just a random few, anybody who lifts or does sports or has a physically demanding job can and do very easily get caught up as “obese”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:12 AM
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Then you’re already skewing the statistics. People with a lot of muscle mass are counted as over weight or obese. You said yourself that you’re considered “obese.” Sure no one looking at you is gonna think that, but basing research off of BMI will give misleading results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:34 AM
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BMI has been proven to be a really bad way to measure appropriate weight. It does not account for muscle mass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:50 AM
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A few millimeters of bone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:31 PM
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Repression is not the same as oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:32 PM
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Perhaps the answer is the repression of female sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:17 PM
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None of your comments are convincing enough to make me believe that women tell you shit, dude. You sound delusional, keep telling yourself that women are just lying dumb sluts. I’m sure that’ll work out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:47 AM
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When a girl who regularly sleeps with dudes on the first date puts "I don't do ONS/sleep on the first date" it is an embarrassing front put up by a woman who doesn't want want their sluttiness lead to them doing slutty things. How do you know theyre doing this? That’s speculation. A lot of people know what they want and don’t want and they’ll tell you, believe them. It’s called communicating. You just assume they’re playing games because YOU are. I match with women all the time, the ones who jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:54 AM
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What you’re describing sounds a lot like manipulation. As long as I have known women, I have known them to have otherwise poor guy screening super secret tactics that anyone can easily figure their way around Yea manipulators, will “figure their way around.” Anyone is susceptible to manipulation. This is a moral/ethical failing on the part of the manipulator and not on the person attempting to communicate their needs. If someone is trying to “figure their way around” someone’s screening tactics …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:12 PM
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Most women I know can turn off their feelings and jump to another man in an instant. Even the ones who get married arent doing it for commitment but rather the status, parties, and resources they extract. On average they dont really value blue pill type thinking of love and loyalty. Girls just want to have fun. You just claimed that women apparently are all sociopaths who control their feelings like a light switch. This is not how humans work dude. If your experiences are like this, then you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:03 PM
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I’d be investing in some turbo vibrators
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:43 PM
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Source for this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:42 PM
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Not saying I know what it's like to be a woman Your entire comment makes that painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:39 PM
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Right?? This dudes comment is SO out of touch with reality that it’s actually funny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:38 PM
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wrong “50% increase in suicides in women and girls from 2000 to 2016” Increase in suicides overall the past decade, mostly for young people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:33 PM
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The sample size was 27 women. Lmao. This isn’t a credible ~study~ at all
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:28 AM
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I mean examples of healthy coping mechanisms for men. Like what are some actual ways they can deal with and process their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 10:38 PM
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No... it's not. There are plenty of healthy masculine outlets for dealing with emotions. What would be some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 10:26 PM
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Oh my godddd did you even read the previous comments?? He literally is a rapist what do you think sexual penetration of an unconscious women Is?? What do you think this is. Please tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:19 PM
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Lol I won’t hold it against you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:01 PM
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I didn’t quote California penal law at all. I quoted your first article, AND he was convicted of : Felony Sexual Assault. Guilty on three charges sexual penetration of an unconscious woman sexual penetration of an intoxicated woman assault with intent to commit rape He did technically rape her, which is a shitty way to dismiss rape btw. he absolutely raped her. He is a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:35 PM
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From your first article: All forms of nonconsensual sexual assault may be considered rape. Sexual battery is used interchangeably with sexual assault. https://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/what-difference-between-sexual-battery-and-rape.htm Brock turner was found behind a dumpster, on top of the naked, unconscious, body of the survivor, raping her. Two bicyclists rode by and saw him raping her, they fought him off. There is no instance of rape without sexual assault. He raped her. He s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:59 PM
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Oh my god so not only have you still not googled the definition of sexual assault. you don’t know a single detail about the Brock turner case okay good bye, I can’t argue with an idiot. We are not operating on the same level of intelligence. Pls get back to me when you develop some reading/comprehension skills. Bye Edited for spelling. Glad I only misspelled a word and didn’t have a fundamental misunderstanding of sexual assault on a post about sexual assault that’d be really embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:06 PM
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~women posts thoughtful comment about the sexual assault epidemic~ “UhMmmm JuSt SAy yOu HatE MeN” lmaoooo😂 Triggered bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 11:59 AM
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😂 I’ve falsely accused 0 men of sexual assault. What does this even mean. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 11:47 AM
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⁠He was not convicted of rape but sexual assault. LMAO rape is sexual assault, you dumbass. no one is convicted of rape because the legal term is sexual assault/battery. I can’t believe you had the confidence to post that and you literally couldn’t even be bothered to google the legal definition of rape. Shows a lot about the people my comment upset. So you still don’t know Brock Turners survivor’s name huh? Hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 11:45 AM
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I gave a legitimate attack on your argument and you’re now countering with ~I know you are, but what am I~ which doesn’t makes you any less wrong, only more childish. Please grow up, and seek help for your subconscious prejudice against women. Good bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:08 AM
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You’ve just employed a tactic called “whataboutism” it’s a real term, google it. It’s a tactic to draw a conversation away from its intended message, in order to silence those speaking about it. You don’t care about men, you just want women to be quiet. Male sexual assault survivors deserve their own conversation, not to just be used as a tool to silence women survivors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:47 AM
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So in your world, we live in a society full of men that rape women and very few women lie about rape YES Women have been screaming about this being their reality for decades. You’d really rather believe that half the goddamn population is plotting against the other half? There is no grand conspiracy here. Women are begging for people like you to listen and take this seriously. There’s a few things most women know for sure but can’t always articulate because we are not keeping numbered lists of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:30 AM
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I never said they couldn’t be. They’re humans, we all can be that way. stop deluding yourself to think 70% of rape survivors are lying bitches. You sound completely out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:03 PM
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You just pulled a bunch of numbers out of your ass to just to yell that women are lying bitches. These are delusional ramblings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:36 PM
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This comment is just dripping in misogyny. Just say you hate women and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:11 PM
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Found the rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:45 AM
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Proof?? That’s blatantly false and you have no idea what you’re talking about, and your hate for women is showing It’s estimated that nearly 63% of rapes are never even reported, only 2-10% of reported assaults are “false.” The number of unfounded cases, ones which don’t have enough evidence to prove, are categorized as “false” accusations, that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen, just that there isn’t enough evidence for a prosecutor to bring charges. Out of 1000 rapes, only 230 are ever reported, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:03 PM
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He’s being charged with assaulting 87 women, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:24 PM
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I think you might have decide if this kind of life is something you can see yourself doing long term? If you’ve communicated that you’d like more quality time together and you still don’t feel like your needs are being met, ask yourself, do you really see his time freeing up even after he gets his degree? He seems to enjoy the busy life, it seems he would be the type to fill the time he degree is taking now, with his career in the future. If he hardly slows down now, what’s going to make him slo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 01:59 PM
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If the friendzone exists, it’s because people put themselves there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 11:58 AM
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I know, but someone complaining about being lonely, doesn’t mean they’re not working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:22 PM
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Because; like somehow it’s possible to start being attracted to people they aren’t I can’t just go into my settings and turn on the “attraction” toggle. their life is shitty and there’s nothing that they can do about it I only ever hear people say this about themselves tho. People that say this usually are met with comments about how they can try and improve their situation. Be it job wise, look wise, or personality wise. I’ve never told someone that there isn’t something they can do to improve …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:28 AM
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Women definitely hear both of those, and men are also told to ~raise their standards~ like somehow it’s possible for anyone to just start being attracted to people they aren’t. Both blame the person, both are dehumanizing. I think this is the crux of the post is that loneliness is not quantifiable, humans experience it deeply whether they’re male or female. Suffering isn’t a competition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:52 AM
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I don’t think girls dont get blamed for being lonely. I always here that girls are lonely because they wont ~lower their standards~ and that it’s their fault in that way. I think both get blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:25 AM
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You’ll only be happy if you find a healthy relationship. That takes work, that means these people met their partners standards. It doesn’t mean they grabbed any man who said they’d fuck and married them and crossed their fingers. Not to mention this only takes marriage into account. People in healthy relationships a lot of time end up married, the people that got together and broke up because the relationship was bad/unhealthy are not counted here at all. Still haven’t proved me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:28 PM
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Anybody with confidence, respect, and hygiene can get sex. Tall guys without those things are in the same boat as short guys without those things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:27 PM
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Yea that doesn’t change the fact that women are just as lonely as men, you havent disputed anything OP said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:22 PM
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Yea you didn’t refute anything I said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:21 PM
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Having high standards does not equal absence of self improving. They aren’t mutually exclusive. This post is about validating that women feel just as lonely as men. It’s not about getting anyone out of loneliness. It’s about understanding that it fucking exists across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:52 PM
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Actually I’m glad you brought up this study. Let’s talk about it. Married people scored higher on self reported happiness. Single people scored next highest, then divorced people were last. Divorce is the result of unhealthy or bad marriages, no happy healthy marriage ends in divorce. Single people looking for a relationship are not looking for an unhealthy/ bad relationship. They’re looking for a happy and healthy one, and this study suggests that they would be happier if they found one. I agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:48 PM
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You haven’t refuted a single thing I’ve posted. All my points are valid and still stand. If you’d like to actually address my argument please do, I’d be happy to respond. But I’m not going to sit here and debate that the sky is blue with someone who won’t look up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:33 PM
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You brought up a point to an argument that hasn’t been made here. Quote the part of the post where this is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:29 PM
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You’re having a different conversation than what’s in the post. If you want to talk about self improvement, please make your own post then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:58 PM
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You’re entire argument is built on a self applied label of “incel.” You^ did this to yourself, you^ are calling yourself an incel. you^ are refusing to address your traits which inhibit you from forming the relationships you want. you^ are not some special outlier just because you^ call yourself incel. It’s not an actual disease or mental disorder. youve^ maligned yourself^ from society. The incel label does not mean you feel loneliness deeper or worse than someone who does not. You aren’t speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:55 PM
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Yes and?? Everyone runs the risk of being socially rejected?? What’s your point here My point was to say that women are not automatically socially accepted. Girls are bullied, girls are rejected by their peer groups, girls are mocked for their ~girly~ interests. Social rejection is not a male phenomenon. I’ve honestly never met a single person who, when the kardashians are brought up, have a single positive thing to say. Not even you, calling these people I’ve never encountered “airheads.” again…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:01 PM
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And you are incredibly arrogant, patronizing and pathetic if you think I can’t tell the difference between actual friendship, and manipulative romantic interest. These friendships, most of which, spanning nearly a decade; and which are built on mutual communication, trust, respect, support, humor, and shared interests. And that these guys have actually been manipulating me and lying to me for years to get in my pants. Get over yourself. Not everyone is as shitty at making friends as you. I’m no …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:45 PM
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You haven’t refuted a single point I make, instead point out that I’m applying logic to a problem. Yes I am. Thank you. I’m glad you’ve realized that you are not using logic to approach this issue. You might find different results in your dating life if you did. Every problem should be reviewed with emotion and logic in mind When your desperate, when your starved of human contact and connection you dont care about these idiosyncrasies your talking about. You just want relief from the lonliness i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:36 PM
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Splitting what your studying into groups, is how you do any studies. Not to mention you obviously didn’t even read it, they divided them into three groups: people in healthy relationships, people in bad relationships, and single people. And single people scored higher on every category measuring happiness, against BOTH groups of people in relationships, except 1 area where people in happy relationships scored higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 01:38 PM
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She doesn’t address it for men either. This post isn’t about that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:37 PM
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Dude what are you talking about?? Healthy relationships are a partnerships. They are built on mutual; communication, trust, support, compassion, respect, intimacy, vulnerability, and compromise. THIS is how you work on yourself, regardless of gender. If someone realizes they are lacking in one of these skills, they can address it. Research how to fix it, and continually work on it. See a fucking therapist if you can. They can look very different from couple to couple. There is no perfect person/…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:00 PM
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Ted Bundy had fans, OJ Simpson had and still does have fans. Ability to make money or have fans does not equal social acceptance. I’ve never heard a single person say the like the kardashians. They are marketable, people love to hate them. They are not accepted as good by society/culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:12 AM
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all the good ones are taken by 30 blah blah •I’ve never heard a single woman say this aside from maybe in a bad rom com. Also not sure what it has to do with you assuming women don’t work on themselves. Also based on the advice women get in all the dating advice subs here except for RedPillWomen, which all the other women mock because they differ from the "women shouldn't have to contribute to a relationship in any way shape or form •I frequent these subs and I have never seen a post where the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:10 AM
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The amount of cognitive dissonance in this comment is astounding. OP talks about undesirable men, you started going on about “ugly” men, which is subjective and not the same. “Ugly” men can and do get laid, and LTR all the time, those men are not undesirable. just because someones uglier than you would like or doesnt want a relationship with you isnt this tragic issue. •First of all this doesn’t make sense, women don’t care that other people are ugly or don’t want to date them. But they most cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:58 AM
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Where does she say that woman aren’t self improving ? That’s speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:14 PM
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How is being with someone who makes you feel worse than when you were alone, BETTER than just being just alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:06 PM
1

Disliked people are marketable too. Everyone loves a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:50 PM
1

It’s good you have self reflected on your actions, I think that’s a habit everyone should do, but people are too afraid to be wrong or take responsibility for their actions. That’s admirable of you. As far as the not having goals thing, I call it expectations. I think it’s good to not go into things with expectations. The idea that something has to happen a certain way, and not being flexible about it isn’t healthy. Functionally we are talking about the same idea though. I agree that viewing any…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:49 PM
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I think the point of our arguments are different, I believe we are on the same page generally speaking. But my original comment was to point out four things: That men can have platonic friendships Men and women can have platonic friendships with each other Men and women both must to actively seek out socialization if they want it. Women aren’t drowning in male attention like you think I chalk all my up friendship male or female to the fact that I am very good at seeing right through people’s bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:23 PM
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It’s already legally enforced tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:35 PM
2

In past years I’ve had guy best friends, it’s very possible to have things in common with women, I did theater in high school and I was friends with guys there. I /used/ to go to church and I had guy friends there as well. The guys I used to sit with at lunch in high school got me a job with them a few years after we graduated. I even introduced one of them to his current gf, we are all platonic friends. I recently became friends with a guy (I initiated) whom I share multiple classes with. He’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:30 PM
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I feel you, I’m 25, and nearly the oldest person in all of my classes. I commute to campus 3 hrs total everyday, so I’m not on campus for parties, not that I’ve been invited to any, or have much extra time for socializing. In my job I don’t have coworkers, just my 2 bosses who are in their late 30’s and not exactly looking to be friends with their “employee” ya know. Aside from that I have about two friends, one is a flight attendant so she’s gone a lot, and the other is a math teacher, so she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:40 PM
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Right? These people think women are just FIGHTING off socialization at every turn, but ONLY from the ugly people ¿ Human interaction involves work. Friendships involve work. Relationships involve work. It takes at least two people to interact, 1 person can’t just do nothing and then be upset when they get nothing? Women have to actively seek out socialization just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:06 PM
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I believe men have platonic friends because I have male platonic friends, and those men have their own platonic friends. I don’t think the world is fair to everyone?? I believe it’s possible to have a friend, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:52 PM
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If you believe this, that’s pathetic, and objectively not true, I’m sorry you don’t see the value of friendship my guy. I could see how you wouldn’t have friends if this what you base your interactions off, in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:33 PM
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right here And single moms can’t get pregnant alone, men are getting them pregnant. If you don’t want to ~subsidize~ the lives of single moms, one could argue that we should make it illegal to leave a women you’ve gotten pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:28 PM
1

sounds like you just haven’t had a platonic friendship, or don’t see value in them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:26 PM
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College is just where I’m at, I’m 25, I’m not new to the world. Are you saying men have no platonic friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:25 PM
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I never said that someone wouldn’t want to spend time with me. I said if I don’t go actively looking for socialization, it does not just fall in my lap. Socializing requires effort, for men and women. Just me going about my day to day life does not mean I will interact with anyone. I’m a full time college student and for the first 6 weeks of classes the only people who talked to me, on this massive campus full of men and women, were professors and clubs trying to get recruits. I’m not upset by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:52 PM
1

What part of my comment are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:35 PM
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Being able to make money does not = socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:12 PM
1

The average person making $50,000/ year contributes just $36 for food stamps and about $6 to the other social safety programs a year. obliterating those programs won’t level the dating field, man. That kinda change has gotta be cultural or social
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:11 PM
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It’s really not, you’re just not looking for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:02 PM
2

The trolls are out tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:59 PM
0

This isn’t true, just post “What do y’all think of Cardi B/Miley Cyrus/ Nikki Minaj/ Anne Hathaway/ Beyoncé/ Lea Michelle/ Kim Kardashian/ Kristen Stewart/ Taylor swift/ literally any fat women on here” and the comments will not be accepting at all. And I’m not saying they have to be, but let’s not pretend people just accept all women, I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:58 PM
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This is not true, if I just go about my weekend I have to actively seek out company. There aren’t texts coming through that I’m avoiding, there aren’t people coming up to me on the street asking me out, there aren’t people showing up to my house trying to get me to go out. If I want to socialize I have to try really hard. It doesn’t just fall in our laps, it’s work for everyone. You haven’t heard of these women because you’re not looking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:49 PM
1

You’ll be paying just as much in taxes whether or not welfare was implemented. They’d just use your money for something else, i don’t care if my taxes help feed children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:57 PM
1

“In 2019 in the west no gets in a relationship without fucking first, except maybe very religious people.” I’m 25 hun, and you’re still objectively wrong about this lmao no matter what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:44 AM
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“I Then you have either an unattractive personality, bad taste in men, absurdly high standards or are not actually attractive. I'm guessing it's the standards or taste in men.” Like I said I’m not looking for nsa sex, I’m looking for a LTR, in no way would that mean I should lower my standards. People settling for lower than their standards (I’m not talking attractiveness wise) is why so many people break up, get divorced, are generally unhappy with their relationships. I’m not trying to waster …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:19 AM
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men with low confidence, self pity, and obvious disdain for women are the most lonely frustrated men. Short guys can still get sex and LTR if they’re not walking around obviously feeling sorry for themselves because of their height
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:01 AM
1

What’s the get out of jail free card?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:55 PM
1

No one is stopping your from having your parents arrange your marriage man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:54 PM
1

How many children of single moms are you paying for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:54 PM
1

Please leave your house and interact with people, this is not how the world actually works man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:52 PM
1

Lmao what will any of this accomplish, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:50 PM
1

Many women do ask guys out, guys are chicken shit and I’ve asked out more than 1/2 the guys I’ve ever gone out with. Many guys I know have been asked out by women. Not all women are all passive, sure some are but some men are too. Men and women are all humans and we’re all diverse as fuck in our personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:49 PM
1

What do you mean “need to be properly told what it takes?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:44 PM
2

I’d argue that older women have an easier time getting into relationships because older men tend to be ready to settle down. I’m in my 20’s, I’m conventionally attractive, and every time I go out with someone they say they’re looking for something “casual.” I’m not, and have yet to ever find someone who whom I share a mutual attraction with, who’s looking for a LTR. Women in general have no problem getting nsa sex, and men in general have no problem getting a LTR. But men have trouble finding ns…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:38 PM
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This isn’t true at all, height standards aren’t imposed upon men as much as they think. The only people I truly hear saying short men won’t get dates...are other men. In real life short men get laid and into LTR’s all the time. My first kiss was at 21. He was 5’4” and he dressed nice, smelled good, made me laugh, and had a lot of confidence. My brother married a girl 2inches taller than him, 3 years older and “out of his league” attractiveness wise. But he made her laugh, he’s confident, and wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:32 PM
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