| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to make inexperienced partners/dates comfortable | Comprehensive | anicknameyo | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 0 | How to approach men (or women) in "unusual" environments | Outer Game | anicknameyo | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 09:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.Yup, so idiotic | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Empathy saved my game and dating life, it can save most of you on here.Butthurt much I see | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Best way to go about having fwb or hookups without lying?Damn right | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Best way to go about having fwb or hookups without lying?Yeah but why manipulate someone into having sex with them by lying? Just be direct and tell her, then move on or have a good time depending on her reaction. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seemYou have women who somehow like what they cannot have (personally off putting but well), simply want attention or you just simply don't come off as desperate and ready to fuck everyone coming across. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guyDepending on the woman, I've seen some having crazy libido. I don't think a lot of women are shown how men are also hurt being treated as a vibrator basically. My guess is that there are so many twats throwing women away after sex and only use them for sex, that it doesn't come across their minds that there are men who also want to have sex with respect | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you reject a girl nude without beign offensive/coming off as a dickI had a similar situation: A close friend looked at me, even stared at my crotch and chest many times. I wasn't sure whether and how to address it to her. But I thought that what I would like our friendship to be, is to be able to talk about everything with respect. So I told her how I perceive it and that it makes me feel uncomfortable. She was kind of trying to play it down first which pissed me off, I started to describe what I'm thinking when it happens and how it makes me uncomfortable. She… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Asking for number without starting a conversation?Greet her, say why you're approaching (most people feel overwhelmed by being simply asked for their number) and ask I she'd mind to grab a drink or coffee with you. Straight to the point and respectful | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesThat would've have taken balls and a brain | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 01:39 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesNot everyone girl is gonna "dress up" with makeup, hair blabla. Some girls are comfortable without it and still interested. So depends on the girl. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesYou could just fucking ask/communicate if she's down to clown? Why assume things all the time, just ask | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesYeah, as if clothes automatically indicate someone's sexual intentions, sheesh. This dude's in need of a reality check | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How much time should I spend with her exactly?Communication, man, communication. If you're not sure, just let her know that you'd be happy to spend time, but respect her schedule/if she has other plans. Then you'll see how much time she's willing to spare | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Attracting women who are in a relationshipWhat are these flirt signals? Describe them please | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Could this be the reason women say they want nice guys?Women as men want to be treated respectfully, not hard to understand. If someone wants to be stepped on, that's still consensual (aka fetish) or a mental health issue. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Could this be the reason women say they want nice guys?Aw man, but I thought knowing a few hundred women isn't representative for ALL the women? | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | 1- 10 how can the voice increase your value?It's like a nice suit, increases your attractiveness but isn't q game changer | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:15 PM |
| 17 | What does it tell about a girl who was determined to have casual relationship after divorce?Ho life.. Dude let people do their thing. I think it's better that she's not jumping head first into another marriage that probably ends in a divorce | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Good looking boys are having sex with most of the girls secretly. MASSAttractive people who have not a certain type or standard, get laid often. I honestly see more unnattractive getting laid, because they simply take every chance with anyone | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date going bowling and dinner any tipsSee if there's physical attraction. Communicate that openly and tell her that it would absolutely help you to know if there's physical attraction. People have their own pace when it comes to such things, so try figuring it out if the first thing is there: attraction | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I have a girl over my home right now who is withholding sex what to do?"That other bullshit".. No wonder some women are cautious, they don't wanna be treated as sex dolls and then thrown away. It's just as if she got her food paid and then walks away. You both have clearly different expectations. Be honest with your intentions and choose women, who are ok with escalating quickly. And don't feel entitled to sex, you don't owe that shit to anyone | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:58 PM |
| 3 | I have a girl over my home right now who is withholding sex what to do?Telling her you have other women to fulfill the needs sounds like a*s man. Just let her know what you'd liked but are not fucking entitled to it. If you're both not on the same page, communicate it and let it be | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Any tips?Go without expectations and accept there might be or not be a good encounter, having a good time should be your priority | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 0 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionNothing wrong with older women, you should've learned how to please 'em ladies if you paid attention | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:28 AM |
| 5 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionSubmissive = I want someone who does exactly what I want without hesitation or resistance, Fuckbuddy = I want no responsibility nor commitment So how does that sound attractive to women? If you made sure they're enjoying it too, that's another story. It sounds like you want a real life sex doll, fulfilling only your needs without considering the other party. Guess you need a stupid girl with low self esteem | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:50 AM |
| -3 | how to get physicalCommunicate it, say "this might be sudden, but I would really like to kiss you, is that ok? ' Don't simply touch her out of the blue without asking | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 82 | How can I learn to talk to women?Treat them like humans, because they are humans. Throw away all the bullshit PUA crap that tells you to say cringy A and then B. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | 7 Things 'Nice Guys' Don't Understand About WomenYeah, maybe some are indeed. It's kinda getting cringy when other guys don't respect the woman's rejection and try to convince them by being nice. That's then manipulation for me | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?Yup, can't know the answer if you didn't ask. And always be respectful about it | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | how can i be more masculine?Have the balls to be respectful and authentic, unless you're searching for girls that are insecure or have mental health issues. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Recommended therapy to help me?More like self esteem than ego. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | 7 Things 'Nice Guys' Don't Understand About WomenThere are different kinds of women as there are different kinds of men, not that hard to understand. Well, there are still idiots who think otherwise, but those are - well - idiots. As for nice guys, they're a bunch of losers, trying to manipulate women under the disguise of being nice while in fact, have no respect for them. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Learning to dance is an amazing skill to get closer with womenI think it also may work so well because you're fairly attractive or attractive for the girls you're going for. Been to some salsa parties to dance, not necessarily pick up. I've seen some people connecting but you see a large majority of old geezers and not so attractive guys trying to get laid, it's to say the least, annoying for most women and looks pathetic. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch?Why don't you want to stay in touch, especially with the girls you haven't slept with? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I (23f) got drunk and ended up messing around with my BIL (35m). [F= fiancé]You both fucked up, he seems to be the bigger shithead though as he even doesn't show any remorse. Both break up with your partners, let them be happy and search for other people that will be faithful to them. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | At supermarketsYou or the girls? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | At supermarketsThe dinner idea is an interesting approach. How old are you and how old were the girls you approached? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:53 PM |
| 5 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?If you try it on the real confident ones, that shit will bore the hell out if them. That's something you do with low self-esteem, insecure girls, not women. I like them grounded and confident, it's way more fun in bed | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 4 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?It's also not working when one side is not damned for being honest about it and the other has to pretend it's not an important part in their life. This is why we have that damn "if she says no she means yes". That shit would go away if we didn't condemn women having an opinion on things, bashing them. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girlSelecting a partner by their relationship status might not be the smartest choice if you notice how many are together with douchebags (well unless they want douchebags) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?I hope it's ok to ask, how did you feel about it? I guess that there might be a emotional part that doesn't want to be single/alone and tries to stick with the relationship but knows that she's not attracted to you. Being alone is terrifying for a lot of people, because they don't want to deal with it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?What kind of ladies? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Yeah sex is a physical act, would be weird if your mathematical skill would matter in this case | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?So they told you you're unattractive but still find you hot? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?It's just that it depends on the person if they prioritize looks and to what extent. There are women having mental issues and therefore going for the (good looking) assholes, some just overlook the shitty character for the looks just like some men do too and want to get off, some want looks and character so there is lesser amount of options and some are satisfied with something in between | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!Be polite, respectful, communicative. When in doubt, just ask and don't assume things. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:06 PM |
| 5 | What are the best spots for a first date? What are the worst spotsEven though you might just want to hook up, it gives off cheap vibes just as the cheap bar | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | How to date the hottest girls ?The thing is, even if someone is conventionally attractive, they might not be a 9 or 10 for everyone. I personally think Adriana Lima is a fucking 10, but I know a lot of good looking or less good looking people who would rate her a 6/7. If you're gonna chase after your personally rated 9/10, then at least make sure to offer them something too. No one wants a fucking hillbilly going after attractive people and demanding way too much on top. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How to view women as people?God damn that's a sad question but I'm glad you're honest that you don't view women as human beings (Kinda a start to a better development I hope) Think about the advices that were given, people are people, fuckable or not. No wonder a lot of women don't trust men, I kinda feel for them. Got an acquaintance that got so frustrated, that she started to only talk to people she is attracted to, because most of the other men (work etc) would see her only as fuckable doll. Totally understandable | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Salsa, Bachata, social dancing, is it worth it, for picking up women?Been going to salsa parties and classes and let me tell you one (or two) things; There's nothing more pathetic and frustrating to see someone trying something they don't even like for the sake of getting laid. The women know the difference between a guy doing it for the dancing or for the potential hookup, unless they weren't attracted to you already, it was just fucking sad to watch. Neither of both parties had fun too, so just don't buddy | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Getting a girl to lose weightHope she reads your post and gets fit.. just to ditch you and get a guy that likes her the way she is, not what she could be to his taste | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Finally a fucking decent answer | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 89 | What the fuck is wrong with you guys?Glad someone says it. There were some decent responses in between the hundreds of dumb, disrespectful ones at least, but man, the amount of incels is scary. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 4 | What the fuck is wrong with you guys?Not surprised if she ditches him that same way she ditched her ex | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Was messaging a girl I met at a party, high sexual tension. Then I crossed the line a bit, which bothered her and killed tension. Interest was very high so it's salvageable, but how to bring back tension after fuckup?Guess you were unlucky and wrong women, experiences differ | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’Huge difference between nice guys and truly nice guys. Girls can tell the difference between "he wants to only get in NY oants"-nice and the "he's being respectful "-nice. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Was messaging a girl I met at a party, high sexual tension. Then I crossed the line a bit, which bothered her and killed tension. Interest was very high so it's salvageable, but how to bring back tension after fuckup?Unless she loves dudes fucking up, she won't be texting | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:37 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Communication is key, be a man and talk to her. Don't beat around the bush, same as you want people to be straightforward, you should be that too | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Kinda sad to see that there are men/women who are open towards friendships with the other sex, but can't find it easily because most of the people are too sex-driven etc. Appreciate your open mind, there are way too many people thinking it can't work, didn't consider that's more a personality problem | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Was messaging a girl I met at a party, high sexual tension. Then I crossed the line a bit, which bothered her and killed tension. Interest was very high so it's salvageable, but how to bring back tension after fuckup?Own it and apologize sincerely, got shown several times how much that helped since you show you value her as a person | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 12:53 AM |
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