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| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionDo I? I've indulged many of Alan Watts books on the subject. And while it has its applications, it shouldn't be the main course, but a side dish to life. It’s an indescribable pleasurable sense of deep fulfillment and genuine happiness and joy that’s only achieved through giving up possessions and attachments and spending hours meditating and focusing the mind. The need for sex goes out the window. This is a great example of one of my main points. By doing so, you completely detach yourself from… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionI get this, and support this notion. It's better to be anti fragile than fragile. I even mentioned at the end that a man is best if he lives a life of experience. However, to take some control over your life, to avoid using the 3 antidotes as a means of ignoring basic instincts and becoming a boring, nonreactive person out of sync with life itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionI did not say that. Nore did I approach this from a place of seeking others validation, without seeking your own validation first. There are 8 primary desires hardwired into us. Survival, food, freedom from fears, sexual companionship, comfort, to be superior, protection of loved ones and social approval. What I am suggesting is by applying the 3 antidotes, without careful application you risk going in a direction which is a disservice to appeasing your core desires. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionInteresting, I'll have to add the book to my list | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionYou don't need sex to survive as individual. You need sex for human survival. You don't have sex doesn't meant humanity will end. Other people will have sex and humanity will still survive. I am under no illusion that people can continue their life without sex. Yet, this shit is hardwired into you deeper than you'd like. It pokes around your subconscious and manifests in unpleasant ways if unattended to. And as such should not simply be ignored. It's all come down to need vs want. Do you need se… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionI think this is a great answer, I am under no illusion that stoicism does contain many benefits. And so does the use of the ego. Often I find that men don't use these tools to control their desires but merely ignore them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 0 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionI think you've hit it perfectly, but I am under no confusion. Stoicism and unemotional are often conflated together. They're hard to separate and it's often confusing for new people when learning and applying these philosophies to understand how to utilise it effectively, in the modern world. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionYou're missing the bigger picture if you chose to boil my core argument down to caring what other peoples opinions of you are. But lets role with that for a second anyway. You should care what other peoples opinions of you are. Let me rephrase that, you should selectively care what other peoples opinions of you are. Why? Some peoples opinions matter in life. Reputation takes years to build and cement. Peoples perceptions of who you are, and who they want you to be reflect on how you get treated … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:05 PM |
| 0 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionAlright I'll play devils advocate with this. What brought you to this conclusion. And why is being egotistical nessasarily a bad thing, if it has its uses? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | The Dangers of Buddhism, MGTOW & Stoicism to Mens Life MissionFucking lol, I did not know this. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How to earn 6 figures?How can anyone make 6 figs? Easy 2 ways: Tech Sales Online Sales Most people, with any type of background, can work their way into a tech sales job if they bust their arse off. You sell multi-million dollar software and take a 1-10% commission per sale. Easily achievable for someone in their mid to late 20s Online sales: you sell 1 $60 product 5 times a day each day for a year. 60 x 5 x 365 = $109,000 How do you get into online sales? You teach yourself: Copywriting (most important skill you can… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 04:58 PM |
| 2 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?I agree, I sobered up, quietly grabbed my car and left her to wake up confused in the morning. I think it was Andrew Tate who said "It's better to die the hero (e.g. next a bitch without giving her a reason and have her mourn you as 'the one') Than to run your mouth and become the Villain" Anyway 3 days later neither of us have made the effort to communicate - which speaks for itself. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 04:48 PM |
| 2 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?I think you raised a valid point there: All in all, turn offs that don't stem from physical disgust are cases of giving too much fucks of the wrong kind. If I'm being completely honest with myself. Emotionally I care a lot, and its because I've come out of a 2 year Monk Mode looking for something low maintenance, while I can focus on my business. I think I caught feelz without even realising it. Fuck! Anyway, I appreciate the comment, I feel like it helped me figure something out. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 04:44 PM |
| 5 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. Both from me ignoring (questioning even) my own standards and her being an impulsive skank. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 07:55 PM |
| 5 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Thanks for sharing, and providing an interesting way to reframe it | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 05:55 PM |
| 3 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?haha valid point! | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Good point and I will thanks, gets hard to listen to it when your emotions blind you at times. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 18 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Dude. You're fine. I wouldn't even try and go near her in these circumstances. It's fine for your dick to say "no, not this one, too filthy". This is natural. Appreciate it man, just that voice in the back of my head that says "Maybe I'm broken and should see a Doctor" Thanks for the reassurance. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 03:24 PM |
| 6 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Thanks for reassuring this, appreciate it. And done | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 02:48 PM |
| 4 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Thanks man, good to know I'm not fucked in the head. Ghosted her | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 02:47 PM |
| 28 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Definitely a human who takes action and is GTFOing, thanks for your insight | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Good perspective on chunking goals. I've been avoiding meditation as I generally focus on mindfulness as an alternative, but i', willing to try if there's tangible differences/benefits to the approach? I exercise daily - just depleted of energy generally :\ | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Great source, thanks for sharing. The second video really highlighted some of the points better than I could grasp. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Unaware of my sleep quality. Wake up occasionally but fall back instantly. Struggle to get out of bed at times though (but thats human?) I'll certainly pay attention to my caffeine intake | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Interesting. Any relevant sources you'd recommend on the subject? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?At one point but I moved away from it a couple of months back. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 09:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Hmm interesting, I've never heard of mediations being used for that before. Truth be told, I've got the book but I'm not a fan of the way it's written. It's currently at the bottom of my book list - I'll attempt it again | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?I use to use modifinal but just purely coffee atm/sometimes preworkout if I'm zombified. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?Yeah I've noticed my attention too shifting to low priority tasks,and a general apathy for the main ones. I'll try and note my hours I sleep and see if that makes a difference :) | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you're burnt out?At least I know it's "normal" haha I'd like to but any girl semi worth it takes time and energy. Then again fat chicks and hookers | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to be funny / witty?Wit is knowledge base x quick thinking. Let's say that you've grown your knowledge base on relevant topics and if you had the time you could probably tell a funny joke. It just takes time to construct. It's the quick thinking that brings forth the knowledge and arrangers this into a comical and quick comment. So you need to get faster at your responses. So the question is how do you do this ? First you need to be checked into your environment, observant of everything and everyone that's there. N… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 10:30 PM |
| 1 | We hear a lot from RP guys in their 20s and 30s, maybe some 40s and 50s, I am interested in what happens to the ones in their 60s 70s?Well let me ask you, are you happy now ? And have you ever span plates ? the reason I ask is, if you have never done it and simply dislike the idea of it, how do you really know. The reason we suggest to spin plates is to simply get experience of handling women. With it comes abundance mentality allowing you to truly not give a fuck and have the ability to game a number of women. This allows you to maximise your choices and find someone that you want. We really don't suggest LTRs until you have … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 11:02 AM |
| 2 | We hear a lot from RP guys in their 20s and 30s, maybe some 40s and 50s, I am interested in what happens to the ones in their 60s 70s?You're conditioned to want what your grandpa and grandma had. It's natural / was natural. Times have changed, there's different variables and economics are different. I'm not saying that it's impossible or you shouldn't seek an LTR like what your grandparents had. You should do what you want. Understand that the best way to make that happen for you, is to spin plates and work on your SMV. From there you have the nessasary skills to make that happen. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Low libidoTo add to this- eat eggs for the cholesterol (5 minimum). Add vitamin D3 to your diet, it indirectly raises test also. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/16 12:54 PM |
| 5 | What are your opinions on these contradictions between 48 Laws of Power and How to Win Friends and Influence People?Agreed. In addition to this, it doesn't contradict with "use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim". | /r/askTRP | 05/03/16 11:05 AM |
| -1 | A RPs guide to ColombiaYeah I agree whites do appear higher in SMV worldwide. I think that's more to do with advertising/movies than anything else. If you're paired with high value expensive items and are the go to for showing off lucrative goods, you will be paired with higher status. I'm sure you're not. My point is if you're interested in fucking exotic women around the world. Try London, 2.1 million women there that are not white-British. I've been at party's with hordes of Spanish women that turned me down as the… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 01:48 PM |
| 5 | A RPs guide to ColombiaGo to London UK, you get every nationality there and it has the highest rate of interracial couples. Sure it's not exotic but if you're hunting for interracial puss, you will get it there ! I know girls that come from predominately white areas in the UK and swear away from black cock, only to end up in London and say "fuck it". | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point being too aloof and stoic makes girl give up?There is a discrepancy between being "stoic" and not reacting at all, which is counter productive. It's knowing when to use stoicism and when to show emotion and enthusiasm. When someone's trying to gauge an emotional reaction out of you that would result in you appearing in a bad light e.g. Jealousy. Then stoicism is the best applied. However should a situation cater negatively to stoicism e.g. A party where you need to be energetic, or if someone verbally abuses you and you need to protect you… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 01:19 AM |
| 44 | Travelling is the cock carousel on steroids for womenIt's completely normal for them to go hardcore cockcarousel mode whilst traveling. Just like it is for Men to also want to fuck as many foreign girls as possible. As humans we're attracted to dissimilar immune systems and divergent genes. All to produce the strongest offspring. Accompanied by the fact that they've abandoned the societal pressures of "slut shaming" adds to this phenomena. Having been in a relationship with a professional slut traveler, heed my warning. Stay away, they are profess… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What triggered your Red Pill journey?I've always been an Evo-psychology believer . TRP has sooooo many parallels with Evo-psych, it's just good common knowledge diluted by society. Essentially it aligned with my beliefs and what I had already witnessed but gave me new ways of talking about what I had already witnessed. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Enough About Women. Let's talks money... the TRP way. If you have alternative revenue streams, are in an unconventional occupation, or live an unconventional life style... SHARE IT! [Discussion]Thanks for the suggestions ! Added to my reading list. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Enough About Women. Let's talks money... the TRP way. If you have alternative revenue streams, are in an unconventional occupation, or live an unconventional life style... SHARE IT! [Discussion]Inspirational ! I would love a suggestion of books if you have the time. I'm making the transition from in-person sales to writing web-copy/SEO, the books I'm reading appear a few years outdated. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 06:43 PM |
| 4 | 48 Laws of Power used against me - Work helpYour reactions are all that matter. Should she be spreading rumours about you, own them and agree & amplify by adding ludicrous examples on top. Weakening her case. If she has more power and offers more value than you can. Find a way to increase your own to your colleagues. And finally, encourage her and predict her moves to make it appear you're in control. Any time she acts in a manner you don't like, encourage it, set it up even and prod her to keep "dancing" for you. Predict her behaviours "… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 12:21 AM |
| 6 | I have an idea for a post, but there are much better writers on here - Would anyone want to write out a post based on my topic?Do it :) | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 09:09 PM |
| 4 | They just sat around and waited while their married friend to get fucked.A good dicking ...... I joke. A masculine friend to talk with and hang out. He's often surrounded by effeminate gay guys and women, it gets too much for him at times. So I'm someone he can console with, rip on him and give him direction, just like any other normal friendship. He's a really nice guy when you push the machivalian bullshit aside. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 04:02 PM |
| 5 | What Jobs allow you to develop and improve as a person?Sales It will eat you up and spit you out. The path of most resistance is the one you're going to learn the most from. Increases your wealth, your game, your frame, your social circle. Don't expect miracles over night. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Aggressive black guys coming on to my girlfriend and harassing us, any idea on how to deal with the issue without getting into major trouble?Should you decide to argue back ..... Autistics guide to winning verbal attacks | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend dreams of me cheating or leaving.Thought, is she playing sincere to gauge your reaction ? I.e. Fabricating the experience to judge your commitment and boundaries of the relationship. The foundations for nightmares like this come from early attachment and insecurities. If she's reliant on you for her happiness, her biggest motivation in life will be the fear of loosing you. This will be played out in her dreams. It will actively be her main focus in everyday life as she desperately tries to avoid loosing you. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 03:13 AM |
| 13 | They just sat around and waited while their married friend to get fucked.Have a double agent gay friend. It's a quality symbiotic friendship, let me explain my madness. A lot of "party girls" grow up wanting 2 things a gay bff and a Disney Chad to marry. On introduction to her, she's already planning on getting social value by bringing him to her next event, or hooking him up with someone. He goes along, swears allegiance to the puss and feels out the group for you. If shit goes down he will tell you. For some reason girls always confess their deepest darkest secrets… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 01:15 AM |
| 15 | Guys wearing ear tunnels. What does it say about them, what is the common perception about them?Non conformist, conformist. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | 2036; the year you don't have a job & your SMV is based on different parametersNot at all, just recognise the field you're playing in. The third or fourth biggest lender in the the UK is a fintech company (funding circle). They own no money, have been around for less than 10 years and are essentially a tech company. They have also been operating at a loss for the past couple of years. These p2p tech companies have spotted an opening in the market and are capitalising on it; yet they don't know how to run their company efficiently. They lack the finance knowledge. Finance i… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | 2036; the year you don't have a job & your SMV is based on different parametersThanks for the suggestion, I'll add it to my reading list. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 11:53 AM |
| 1 | 2036; the year you don't have a job & your SMV is based on different parametersThanks for your response. With 3D printing it's to my understanding that it's been around for the past 20 years. I think that's what you're referring to with Stereolithography ? 3D printing has evolved past the typical, print a prototype. With various R&D companies experimenting with metals amongst other materials. It's at the stage where printers have a series of injectors for using different materials, allowing complete products to be printed. For example some companies are printing complete c… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | 2036; the year you don't have a job & your SMV is based on different parametersIt can play flappy birds..... That's scary haha | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Those who went from emotionally fragile to strong, how did you do it?Second this. Choose the path of the most resistance. Hit rock bottom Experience a shitty break up You essentially become desensitised and blunted. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Social Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem, I feel like I will never improve.I started writing an article for guys like you a couple of months back. (It's no where near finished), however it's important to know that stoicism isn't the be-all and end-all. There appears to be confusion within the community of being “the strong silent type”, whilst also portraying “the life of the party”. A conflict of interests. Whilst the life of the party can certainly shut up, the strong silent type can not become entertaining with ease. Often they succumb to their comfort zone and avoi… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 05:09 PM |
| 13 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.I like the whole "not mate guarding". However reacting to her action instantly I.e. By going out with Jodie from marketing. Is too "in your face". At the most say "my girlfriend would never do that". With girlfriend being a position any girl can fill, not her specifically. Should she go ahead, she's not your girlfriend and you gave her fair warning. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Evolving past a Negative ParadigmGorilla mindset. Short read, straight to the point. Reach a chapter every 2 weeks. This is all you need. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Evolving past a Negative ParadigmI'm going to go against the grain here and don't expect many people to agree with me. Don't. Don't eliminate all your vices in YOUR circumstance. Why ? The number one killer is stress (hard to prove though). Sometimes it's the vices that get you through the day, something to look forward to. Everyone has vices ; whisky, smoking, fucking. However should your vices be distracting you from your overall goals and vision, I.e. Making new friends , meeting new women, making more money. Then you need t… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 11:25 PM |
| 5 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessGreat post and I'm looking forward to your future posts. In Kevin's scenario he should never have placed a charge over his house to begin with. Just take the expensive unsecured bridging loan as it will save you a headache/ stress from your creditors. Unsecured > secured. The more expensive the money the bigger the risk for funder. The cheaper the money the lower the risk. Always negotiate a stage payment from customers. 50% on day one ; 25% halfway point and the final 25% when they're happy. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Using emotions to my benefit?I'm going to arrogantly push one of my older posts but it will help. What you didn't know about Emotions and People It boils down to tonality and body language. Pay attention when you talk to people, if you feel that they're boring, you will convey this. When you trick your internal state (by focusing your thoughts on the positive attributions they are displaying) you will seem naturally more interested. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 01:30 AM |
| 20 | Super beta is so beta, that his oneitis causes him to be a transgender woman's personal ATM machine and provider, gets nothing but lies and abuse in return, and still doesn't leave the relationship because "I am nuts about this girl".mentally Ill men True and it's a topic many won't touch. They have an anxiety disorder, which has ties with depression. From there they get an identity disorder (another anxiety disorder). They loose the ability to think healthy (normally) which usually ends up with them developing bi polar / schizophrenia. On top of that 40% of post ops kill themselves. Why ? If you're mentally unstable pre op it doesn't solve your cognitive thought process post op. Unfortunately many are motivated to go throug… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with the thought of cheating?All people cheat. If you respect the person, you don't get yourself into a situation where you will cheat. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksThanks for your lengthy response, it achieved a few chuckles on my end. The point of handling the confrontation in the manner I depicted, is the guys needing this strategy are at ground zero. I.e. “Autistics guide”. They typically don't know how to handle themselves, let alone make an efficient agree and amplify. The aim is to hold frame, make the other guy lose his frame, whilst scoring social points. The great thing is, it requires no wit; you just point at what's happening in real time. The p… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksHaha indeed, the whole post was mobile. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksTrump is an excellent example, love him or hate him; you can learn a lot from his persona. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksWhatever you do, don't show that you're affected by the nickname. Own it. Wear it on your skin, use it before he can use it. It's your nickname not his. Should he keep calling you it, smile at him and just say "cute". Any unwanted attention from him you should frame as "he's hitting on you". Just like I said earlier about framing the reaction, frame the reaction! "Awww are you blushing ?" , "stop trying to hide it", "I don't swing that way bro, can you stop hitting on me". From now on the nickna… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksWhilst I agree that you should be in a position in life where people would think twice about crossing you. It takes a lot of years to get there. Simply bantering right back isn't for everyone. Try and explain the mechanics of wit and train someone to use it instantly, it's almost impossible. However telling someone to reframe a constant I.e. A persons reaction is easy. knowing you can win an argument, gives you that confidence to enter action with boldness. You can't just punch every person that… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksBullying is some of the best training ever. It just depends on how you handle it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksThanks it is often blatant aggression disguised as "just a joke" Yes ! Many people lack this awareness and respond incorrectly. The latter is you perceive it as aggression but your peers don't. In regards to the bad breath "niceee one you got me there, good one" they're still reacting. You either build up your initial attack until their reaction is greater or you move on to the loop. I.e. "It was a genuine concern, you should see someone about that"- then wait for the reaction Or Frame the react… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Autistics guide to winning verbal attacksAgreed, they are very basic examples. Maybe it's the people I surround myself with (sports teams, competitive career etc) but the duck measuring never stops, it just changes arena! I would dismiss their statements as superior would to a subordinate. Great technique, hard to pull off without having the substance/power to back it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Bitcoin: If you're actually serious about asset protection, look into foreign asset trusts.Thank you for taking your time to write me out such a well structured answer. I learned a lot there ! I hadn't even considered if a friend had also been divorced or capital gains tax. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Fuck Bitcoin: If you're actually serious about asset protection, look into foreign asset trusts.Technically I'd be fucked. Let's assume this person benefits from association to myself and wouldn't risk it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Fuck Bitcoin: If you're actually serious about asset protection, look into foreign asset trusts.I agree bitcoin is a terrible idea. Not to hijack your thread but to increase my questions exposure to yourself and others "in the know". Could this work also ? I've coined an idea based on my knowledge set and would like others to rip it to shreds / add onto it or provide an alternative. This is to prevent a man from being "divorced raped". Set up 2 Ltd (Llc) company's Appoint a friend (family member) to be the sole director Have company A purchase title of all your valuable assets i.e. House, … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 08:18 PM |
| -1 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatNo this has gone too far now. This is child abuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 08:49 AM |
| 1 | I need good male friends. How can I get them?Should you not be trolling, and this be a genuine empathy issue. I'd take the time to learn the differences of empathy first to better understand yourself. What you're describing is a lack of affective empathy, with increased cognitive empathy. The affective empathy stops you from feeling what others are feeling (you don't really care about them, just what they can offer you). The cognitive empathy helps you learn to charm those to get what you want. Novel mundane friendships will never be of in… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 12:14 AM |
| -4 | LTR says: "You are loosing me", what to reply to this?I'm sorry you feel that way | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | According to AWALT, under the right circumstances, this can happen?Yes, it does happen. You just need the right circumstances. I.e. A holiday where she will never see the guys again and therefore risk is mitigated. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 10:19 PM |
| 2 | According to AWALT, under the right circumstances, this can happen?I forgot what the question was half way through | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 10:15 PM |
| 4 | At a bar, best response to "Buy me a drink."1 Water Bomb please . Or ignore | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | An idea for preventing divorce rape. Please rip it apartJust providing a lifestyle (even one held in trust) can create problems. Interesting, this isn't something I've accounted for. Sorry to hear about the divorce i'm surprised it hasn't changed your views on marriage ! haha but at least you have an abundance mentality to wealth. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 01:05 PM |
| 1 | An idea for preventing divorce rape. Please rip it apartI thought that might be the case. That's why I'd have purchased my main large assets pre marriage. With any new wealth/ assets i'd purchase indirectly through entity's or with cheap debt (and never actually legally owning it). | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Does the constant competition/fight for status stress you guys out?Thats precisely it ! Essentially you are what you eat should be extended to you are what you consume and invest in. Unfortunately it takes a painful breakup to realize the misplaced time. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 12:24 PM |
| 6 | Does the constant competition/fight for status stress you guys out?So maybe the real question is what's so rewarding about risking everything you have? Good Question. Look natural disasters happen everywhere in the world, hurricanes, flash floods, earthquakes etc. They come and often destroy everything you've worked for. However The Vietnamese protect themselves against flash flood by building their houses on stilts, the Chinese make buildings with stronger foundations for earthquakes, the English build flood defenses and water seal their houses, the Americans … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 08:54 AM |
| 5 | Small town dynamics: "all valuable men are taken."Hypergamy increases in metropolitan city's. Small towns are like rock pools next to other rock pools next to an ocean. You might be the biggest fish in your rock pool but that's not in comparison to what the ocean has to offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 12:04 AM |
| 4 | How effective can laughter be used to deflect AMOGing or putdowns?Nope; a lot of guys (younger) think being totally undereactive is the best way to handle AMOG attempts. It's wrong, you become an easy target. Being underreactive and sniggering at someone like they're cute is only useful when you, yourself are powerful, which comes with age, wit, value and authority. Sure if you can laugh off attempts of attacks like milo does by agreeing and amplifying. "Who me a gay man? I use to be such a young sweet nice homosexual, what's happened". Then do it. I prefer to… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 11:53 PM |
| 40 | Does the constant competition/fight for status stress you guys out?Let me tell you about the opposite first. The opposite is comfort and complacent. Comfort and complacent is warm and nice, it feels better to go the path of least resistance. Why go the gym today I ache ? Fuck it I'll have a pot noodle, I don't have the time to cook. Nah I'll watch Netflix instead of reading a book, I deserve it. Then New Years hits and you realise that for the last year you've been stuck in a perpetuating state of mediocrity but at least I felt great in the interim right ? Then… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill in business?How can we both benefit. With you mostly benefiting for the new "contact" and them benefiting from the value you have to offer. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Plate caught feelings. I caught feelings. I'm fucking confused.AWALT; all women will branch swing for the right guy. The difference with your scenario is you have proof she's capable. I think you're asking indirectly, should I date this girl ? And from the way you're writing it appears that you're subscribing to the whole "soulmate hypothesis" again . I.e. This ones different. In order to prevent Oneitis spend more time with your other plates. Start fucking them again. When should you LTR a plate ? When you logically create your own list of qualities that y… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill in business?You've asked 3 very open vague questions, so I'll deal with half of it. To build business relations, you have to have something of value. To have value you have to have something they want and can GAIN from. If you have nothing tangible to bring then build your intangible skills such as being funny, your connections, a source of information etc | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Help choosing careerI studied psychology, not many careers you can get out of it and it's ran by feminists. I ended up working in finance so it's not impossible in achieving a great career, just harder. Stick with economics, behavioural economics has some overlap with psychology. There's better job prospects with economics also. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Where is all the advice on how to pick up women ?You can ask for specific advice and you will get it. In regards to tips, we advocate improving your SMV. Making the core YOU, the best that there is. So that everything that flows out of you is natural and exudes confidence. It boils down to a few pillars ; game, frame, career, lifting. Should you look for pua type canned lines head over to seddit. Should you wish to improve yourself and understand the nature of women and the world, stick around. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | A case for the pathology of Oneitis and much moreYes but love is not an attachment model. They co exist sometimes but not always. Attachment model C is essentially TRP, we teach ourselves to take care of our own needs and are unable to be pinned down. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A case for the pathology of Oneitis and much moreEssentially yes . Attachment A was shown to be at 60% within the 1970s. There's been an increase in divorce, single parents and third wave feminism since then. Attachment C is more adaptive for modern day, leaving attachment A more of a fantasy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever "feel" like you lead with a creep vibe? How do you overcome this?It's a way of trying to shame your language/advances. Just shrug your shoulders "if you say so....... Anyways" | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 10:07 PM |
| 3 | How do I cope with the fact that no woman will ever truly love me?Love is an actual need. It gives to your self esteem and reaffirms your value in the world. It releases oxytocin throughout your brain and increases dopamine. If you get anything from one source "money", "companionship" "love" , you are foolish. Donate, give to charity, spend time with your family, get a dog; alongside a relationship (or spin plates until you're ready) . Just don't put all your hopes and needs in in one person. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 09:56 PM |
| 2 | GF soon leaving for a semester abroad - Advice needed.Furthering /u/mr nate point. She will cheat. I had a similar situation and I handled it by saying "I'm not going to stop you from going away but I won't wait for you". She stayed, regretted it and blamed it on me. Everyone will cheat, you just don't get yourself into a situation where you will cheat. Unfortunately she's getting herself into a situation where she can cheat. You're telling me that if a hot girl came onto you in a private room, you wouldn't fuck her ? C'mon , everyone cheats, just … | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Are chubby girls harder to get now? It seems as hard to get one to meet as it is a hot girl. I'm wondering if every dude is like me and goes after them because they're easy with less perceived competitionGuys get desperate and date down. Girls with lower value perceive their value as greater. Girls then think their value is higher than it is making them unatainable (undateable) and the cycle continues. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 11:21 PM |
| 3 | the girl I loved turned out to be an unbelievable slutRule number one : accept sex before you accept that warm affection. You need to be fucking (seeing the whore side) before you get sucked into her warmth affection side (Madonna). Whilst in a relationship; create an abundance of affection and love from multiple sources. Either rally up options with other women. Or see family, do charity work or get a dog. Also see fantasy bond | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 12:05 AM |
| 61 | Man has 800 children by meeting women on facebook and donating sperm in motorway toiletsMy LTR at the time was aghast. Haha I've done the same, she was being a "special princess", demanding extravagant gifts for her birthday. I thoroughly convinced her I had to donate sperm to pay for her presents. What a way to ruin someone's birthday ....... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: if an influential celebrity approached a RP man's wife, will she cuck him?I completely understand, and this answer may not be the one that you're looking for. But what do you want ? If you want a relationship, great you've got the knowledge and the skillset at the tips of your fingers in TRP to make that happen. AWALT : everyone cheats. If I was in a monogamous relationship and some busty ass hot woman came onto me in a private room. I'd be fucked. Just like if a hot celeb came onto a woman in a private room, she'd more than likely cheat (unless society/social groups … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Be honest: if an influential celebrity approached a RP man's wife, will she cuck him?Apologies misread your first clause. However I think measuring loyalty is very ambiguous. I've certainly had girls try and sell me on "their loyalty", to win me over. Loyalty = what will bring them the most net value. Representative to who she has access to. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Be honest: if an influential celebrity approached a RP man's wife, will she cuck him?Yes . Source: I dated a club slut with a Rolodex of celebs in her phone/life | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Handle insults in your group?With general aggressive arguments, I follow a straight forward pattern. The objective is to get them on the defense and trap them in an unbreakable loop. Before I get started a few rules. Every question he's using is an interrogation, always. No exceptions. Never justify yourself. If he insults you let it stick and move onto insulting him, never defend the last point he made. The objective is to get him to overreact and then create a nickname for him. The nickname can then be used for future con… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 0 | My successful boyfriend and his "rules", should I accept this?Ask yourself, what do you want ? Do you want his vision, for a better future ? Do you want him as a partner ? Will he help you get what you want in life ? How does he make you feel ? Are others jealous of your life ? Could you find someone to replace him ? He appears to be a very successful guy with his shit together. He will become numb to the mundane things and "trinkets", that "regular" people do with their spare time. He will have views that go against the status quo, but it's these views an… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How does an early 20's man build a social circle without collegeWhen making friends you've got to find a regular group of people in order to make a connection. So find a hobby you wouldn't mind doing 2-3 times a week (sports are better as there's usually a social side). When entering this "group" of people recognise your position at the bottom of the pyramid. The more time, the more people you talk to consistently the less effort you need to put in as you climb the pyramid. This takes usually 1-3 months to break a new group. Ensure you're always offering val… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 07:01 PM |
| 4 | She's fat, fuck I got catfishedTell her you " Love her more than the wolf loves the moon". then let her leave. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How to Argue?With general aggressive arguments, I follow a straight forward pattern. The objective is to get them on the defense and trap them in an unbreakable loop. 1) Pin point an insecurity i.e. "you obese, diabetes dodging mother fucker" 2) wait for them to defend ( remember you never defend any points made about you just attack or snigger) 3) point at how there body has reacted/overreacted and emphasize how much 1) has obviously hurt them such as " wow i didn't realize you were so sensitive about your … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 09:48 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with girlfriend's male orbiter "best friend"Real simple. Everything he does from now on is "cute", "adorable". If you have to deal with him in public ? Call him "sport". If you can subtly make him loose his frame, whilst you remain un scratched. Then whip the rug from beneath his feet but wait for the right opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 09:40 PM |
| 6 | PSA: If you're new here, social media is a poison for you.Alternative view. Change who you follow or mute. I stick with social media, it's great marketing for myself. Although I rarely post, I allow others to tag photos of me, highlighting my best parts of my life. I occasionally comment on things my friends share as it's a low time method of investing time in them. You're a product, whether you like it or not.you're also a buyer, and your product and customer is both online. Just make sure you're creating more than consuming and keep your opinions off… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:55 PM |
| 15 | Best response to 'Be a man'?"Turn around, bendover" | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:49 PM |
| 3 | advise for my 2nd grade son who keeps getting pushed at school.The instinct of everyone involved right now is to protect and minimise damage. The school will punish to protect their reputation and to deter violence. Your son will look to protect his reputation and avoid being punished by the school. Your wife will more than likely look to keep your son out of harms way and discourage any violence. You need to build his confidence up(fighting experience), as suggested make him take up martial arts. Tell him he's got nothing to worry about from the school as … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillTake a lot of new psychology with a grain of salt. to Quote the APA Very few psychologists receive direct training about how to blend social justice work into what they do And almost half of new studies fail reproductibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Metropolitan city's; The making of Apexs and Hypergamy on deafaultThanks for your honest Feedback. discussing with a mate ... and what passes for 'acceptable sources of validation' these days is frighteningly low in quality, i.e. FB 'likes' ffs! No wonder there are a bunch of solopsistic females out there thinking they are "special snowflake fairy princesses" with mothers parents who tend to support such fantasies!... fucking hell! A lot of girls, believe they're +2 notches above their actual position. They actively seek out validation all the time from their … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | So, I feel like I'm stuck in a predicament as a 17 year old.Shit sucks, but hey you're here trying to better yourself, so good on you. I had a similar situation to yourself growing up in a shitty part of England , my mum also tried to restrict my cash flow as it would affect hers. I opted for cash in hand jobs, and eventually "signed on" whilst still at college. A loop hole that states if you're in college for less than 16 hours you're a part time student and entitled to receive job seekers allowance. I really needed the cash. As for gym/ hobbies. I woul… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I attract women with my hormonal acne screwing me over?Fuck it, wear minimal concealer. Bitches be lying to you with their faces, you may as well do the same. Best case scenario, your confidence increased and you fucked a girl because of it. Worst case, "are you wearing make up ?", "nah it's medicine". | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 01:35 PM |
| 3 | What are some practical ways to reduce tendencies to be risk averse and become more decisive? How have you personally progressed in these areas?Conflict sports; one on one. No team sports. In team sports you will still shy away from making effort, however with the latter you have no choice to engage. Also strategic fear. Can't motivate yourself to take a risk (I.e. Fear of risk coming true). Counter that by finding a greater fear to your original one. For example a salesman not making many sales for fear of cold calling could strategically place themselves in debt. The only way out of their situation is to then face the original fear. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 10:20 PM |
| 25 | The Suffering of the Lost BoysAppreciate the insight. I had the weak Dad, and overbearing/protective mother. I'd also add a common thing with overbearing mothers is they think they can advise from their childhood point of reference. "when I was your age, I'd do this\ I would never do that". Leading for masculine traits to be selected out and feminine "survival" traits selected for. Once Lost boys reach schools they will trial and error a few things from a weak foundation. Boys with stronger foundations will challenge them (a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I Was Falsely Accused Of Rape Two Weeks Ago (And Thanks To TRP I Know Why)Fuck man. Lie down, play dead ! Bitch walks in, look like you've passed out on the floor. Then you're just that weird drunk guy that passed out on the floor. You're right about her social status being damaged and her running damage control. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 05:32 PM |
| 4 | About Premature EjaculationEvolutionary theory as observed in monkeys. Premature ejaculation helps beta monkeys procreate. Whilst the Alpha controls the women and will fight any other males who try and steal them from him, speed is of the essence The sneaky beta monkeys can safely shag a female monkey and spread their genes rescuing the risk of being caught by the alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 10:44 PM |
| 9 | What are some ways in which you've implemented machiavellianism in your life/game?It's a bit different as an adult as hypergamy plays more of a role. However :- *being "the top dog" in a small town/city. Move to a big city, gain more skills then move back to a smaller town. *moving to a place in the world where your race is idealised more ( I.e. Whites moving to Eastern Asia). *extreme fitness groups - implements lifestyle isolation. *religious groups. *small social clubs which involve a lot of drinking. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:50 PM |
| 3 | What are some ways in which you've implemented machiavellianism in your life/game?Alpha of the group. Growing up I was by no means "alpha". However I was naturally Machiavellian which helped me get laid. Id create myself to be "the situational alpha". I'd find sub cultures that held a lot of girls and little competition. I'd immerse myself into it to give myself effortless options while securing the "pool of choices" from the outside. Kind of like being a big fish in a small rock pool, next to an ocean. All I had to so was change my image and pretend I cared about what they c… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I hold frame with my LTR while dealing with PTSD.I used to get panic attacks, I know PTSD is 100x worse but there is some overlap. With my ex I'd get a panic attack out of no where. I knew it was my brain playing tricks on me and that I had to get out of my head. I'd do this by naming and describing everything I can see in front of me to shift my attention away to the internal mess (takes about 5-10 mins). I'd still go white and show it on the outside. I'd get the "are you ok ?" Question and I'd respond with "I think I might have food poisonin… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 3 | What you didn't know about Emotions and PeopleThanks for the suggestion. I'll check him out. I have a friend (Dr in cognitive psychology) who is convinced that psychopaths are the next phase in human evolution. They just haven't finished evolving yet. Beliefs stem from their success in mating and acquiring resources; shown in CEO's/ bankers/ politicians etc. It's plausible. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | What you didn't know about Emotions and PeopleHaha yeah...... It is real cheesy. In his defence there's no doubt that his career is in sales. He's simply using what he knows converts "prospects". He's wrote some great guides and wants money for them but needs to "convert" the sale. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What you didn't know about Emotions and PeopleThanks for spotting this, it was the wrong turn of phrase. Changed to "Emotions are an instinctive feeling a person is experiencing relative to their current circumstances. " . | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 04:59 PM |
| 9 | What you didn't know about Emotions and PeopleThanks ! Never thought of it that way but I can definitely see the resemblance. If > then | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Did you take antidepressants, and if yes - were they beneficial?What works better is reframing of your mind. This comes from having positive feedback from life. If you struggle to push yourself then you should use anti depressants / ssris as a way of gaining this experience. If not avoid them at all costs and just grind your way to a better place. The world literally is a gym and you need to see everyday as a challenge that you're set up to beat. Good luck with whatever's troubling you. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Anyone with experience being alpha, losing it, and gaining it again?Situational alpha. There's an alpha for every tiny rock pool out there but you're right next to an ocean with bigger alphas. Translation there will be times that you can be the most "alpha" person in the group. However you live in a globalised world with bigger alphas operating in it. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Cooking for a woman... worthwhile?I'm an amazing cook, the best out of anyone my age. I will never let a girl know how good of a cook I am. Why ? Well, conversing with my South African friend regarding my old beta relationship. I told him how she would never cook for me. He dropped this on me :- "First they're grateful for the meal" "Second they expect the meal" "If you try and take the meal away from them , they demand it and expect it! ". He's right and bitches think I burn water now. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Omar the gay transgender muslimThanks for sharing.Some really good links. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Omar the gay transgender muslimYes unfortunately. He's blind to how it actually works and is lost in his vision. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Omar the gay transgender muslimNot a bad idea, however he lives a paradox of "I'm different" and would easily hamster it away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Master Of PuppetsThanks for your contribution | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 05:41 PM |
| 6 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.As the saying goes. They're a 10 at 2(am) and a 2 at 10 (am) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Lame cliché platitude: DO IT FOR YOURSELF.You're right, these men do exist. They would be at the top of Maslows hierarchy of needs "self actualisation", which follows 'love, sex and acceptance". Suggesting that you need to be fulfilled at these base levels before reaching this state. if we were to look at Hawking as an example, he supposedly cheated and defiantly upgraded his wife. He has well exceeded these levels to reach self actualisation. Could another man in his condition attain even one woman ? Let alone have options. It's a bypr… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:51 AM |
| 13 | Lame cliché platitude: DO IT FOR YOURSELF.We've reached a period in time in which becoming such a complicated organism is resulting in our own downfall. We've advanced so much that we often have far too many distractions from our own primitive drives and motivations. We can exogenously create stimuli that satisfies our short term internal needs, masking and inhibiting any 'normal progression'. This in turn weakens any long term needs. In a sense having this realisation is great as it puts you ahead of the crowd but unfortunately it bree… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 10:24 PM |
| 7 | Your struggle and pain? Women neither understand nor give much of a fuck.Why would a woman want an incomplete project ? That's all a lot of guys are, projects. Harsh truth but it's motivated the fuck out of me to get my shit together and I'm grateful for it. On the grander scale It's what's motivated men to build, conqeour and innovate. It should never be changed. If you think you're a fun person to ride on but no one wants to be seen with you in public, you're effectively a disability scooter. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | This is the War of The WordsThanks for the suggestions :) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Social Anxiety Holding Me BackIn short form experience. You need to get out there and push yourself, baby steps. Think of a scenario of when your social anxiety would be at it's highest and have that as your end point. Your starting point will differ but it has to be a lot milder. With repeat exposure to social Situations your mind will adjust and stop scanning the environment for "danger". Eventually through systemised desensitisation, it will be cured. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 11:44 PM |
| 5 | #FragileMasculinity - For When Marketing Campaigns Targeted at Men Becomes a Sign of the PatriarchyThe hypocrisy is there's tons of women in marketing, designing these brands for men to buy. Sooooooo there's women complaining about other women marketing to men. Soooo women are complaining about what other women are doing with their favourite subject, men. Nothing new here. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Neuropharmacological Self-Engineering + You, Lesson 1 - The Beginners Guide to SerotoninAppreciated the post . I would be keen to learn more about the other neurotransmitters. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Help with Harassment claims at Night SchoolDamage control; act within their frame as they control the power and your ultimate goal is to get a good grade. Let them win the battle in this one. To justify the sweetheart say something like"I call my dear grandmother by that name as it makes her beam (must be a generation thing ) as I live and look after her it's second nature for me, she's always asking for help in the same muddled manner, if it's not her computer it's her radio. I'm sure you understand blunders happen and I'm more than hap… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Learn From This Guy - Don't Try To Do Too Much At Once Because You'll Get DisappointedI Really appreciate the heads up. I'll be sure to stay away from that brand. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 08:09 PM |
| 4 | How To Be "Alpha" In The Male Social HierarchyRepeat what you said louder. Or "let me say this, let me say this ( followed by your sentence) or " I'm a tell you something, I'm a tell you something ( followed by your sentence). And then there's the whole " I'm sorry did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours" - this one needs a precise delivery otherwise you come off as weak. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Learn From This Guy - Don't Try To Do Too Much At Once Because You'll Get DisappointedGreat insight, definitely guilty of a few of those myself. Delayed gratification is the way to go. Also investing in some modifinal if you're going to commit yourself to learning something new. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Beta as evolutionary trait - why is it here?Darwinism; survive, adapt, reproduce. In groups of primates there's usually one Alpha male who does all the reproducing. If he sees a beta primate trying to fuck a female, he will attack. Now the betas have their own methods of following Darwin's laws to ensure the survival of their genes. When the alphas back is turned, they get all sneaky and blow their load into a female as fast as possible, the alpha is none the wiser. Two different mating strategies but both follow Darwin's laws. Betas stil… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What is the role of the modern man as we progress in the 21st century? flair:'mgtow'I think it was mcaffee who suggested that within the next twenty years 50% of the jobs that exist now will be non existent. -replaced To add to your point further. Western population will decrease where the more religious and of third world counties will be outbreeding us. Technology is heading in the direction of being able to create a baby without a womb. This ultimately allows women to peruse a career without having to take maternity leave , positive, negative ? Does it matter ? Education is … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Wife suggested I find bj only fwb so I did...Fuck it. If you're going down this route. Get her into Bdsm. Tie her down, blind fold her, make the other girl go down on her. Shove your cock in her mouth. Get her into it that way. Just have a solid exit strategy, start yesterday. There's good exit strategys on the main sub. Or get someone you can trust to start up a LLC or LTD company (cheap) and look into a way of moving your assets and titles into this company's name , and "rent it" back to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 03:50 PM |
| 18 | Beating Infatuation (the most common form of Oneitis)Guys that are more at risk of developing "oneitis" where often starved of love and affection when infants. They form stronger attachments and leach onto their one source of "love". Which is infact an instinctive need later on in their life. - am I loveable ? And I don't want to give this feeling up ! The remedy ? Multiple sources of validation from doing good deeds and women. Help a homeless person, charity work, mentor, good friends etc. Fill the hole for your sanity. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 06:19 PM |
| 10 | The Ultimate Red Pill University GuideSome more tips. Join a sports team (number one priority) - this will see your value rise. - you'll be in the apex pool by final year Buy modafinil- take it, isolate yourself and force yourself to revise. Befriend everyone regardless of group, personal bias - you will see an ROI from every connection at one point. When revising, don't sit with your best friend. Sit with the quite kid with a good work ethic, you'll learn off him/her. You're more likely to self justify your level of work based off … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What books does TRP recommend for Pick Up/Game?60 years of challenge. I'd go as far to say this is a lost scripture to TRP. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you stay calm/ not get scared?True answer: experience and developed confidence. To expand : experience of being in whatever situations "rattle your cage" and knowing that the outcome won't negatively effect you. Again here's where lifting helps. If you're the Apex, those below you shouldn't worry you at all. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 04:56 PM |
| 35 | Sky News: Air conditioning is sexist (not a joke)How about we segregate everyone, that'd sort the problem right ?? "well no that's sexist , you can't just segregate people, what if I don't identify myself as a woman where shall I go ? "To the firey pits of hell you cold, transgendered complain'owhore" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 10:03 AM |
| 6 | What makes men more extreme?Society as a whole upholds the ideas that what we're doing is sexist. What we're encouraging is sexist and that sexism is a cancer needing to be prevented and 'cured'. To go against these norms brings out the reactions you've mentioned from your friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 06:52 AM |
| 2 | What makes men more extreme?Precisely that ! They have to find out their own way unfortunately. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 06:43 AM |
| 36 | What makes men more extreme?You effectively bring a loaded gun to the table when you talk about TRP, everyone gets uneasy and no longer want you around. It's healthy to discuss the ideas but not as TRP. It's dangerous to live life with a confirmation bias as you might miss something or even worse, commit more time to an impure ideology. I'm lucky I have my Grandad. He's RP as they come and willing to discus these theories. Sometimes he just shouts them at me without my encouragement. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 11:11 PM |
| 11 | What makes men more extreme?The mayor of Montreal recently tweeted "don't let Roosh into any places, his theories aren't welcome here" - I'm paraphrasing However it got me questioning. "How/why does a person get to that mental position in life that they think they have the right to censor" , " is it to win the respect of the far left ?"," Or is it because of the media hype and he genuinely believes Roosh is a threat?". Either way my works slow over the summer. I'm going to dedicate some time in gathering/writing some anecd… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 10:21 PM |
| 36 | What makes men more extreme?Same goes for me. Since I was a teenager, I've always had various unanswered questions, where I've attempted to make sense and apply theory to situations. TRP had complete, sound actionable advice and answers . I still keep an open mind and challenge anyone to change my world view, I welcome it and would listen. The opposing arguments don't care for debate and stem illogical loaded stereotypes, which adds nothing and insults my intelligence. Thus in this given time, TRP is the way of life. Like … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Gaylubeoil's Introduction to Psychological ManipulationEnjoyed the post. Thought I'd share a few observations / relative methods off the top of my head. Dove pushing inner Beauty- owned by unlilever Ben and jerrys also owned by unlilever I.e. Unlilever using Dove to increase Ben and jerrys sales. Priming: If you prime people to think about their own death, you bring into their conscious and force them to confront their own mortality. They are in their most influential state( and weakest position), they seek to remove and neutralise this anxiety. I a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Haha precisely! It's all behavioural science. My friend had a similar experience. He owns a gym and he used to offer multiple program's to his clients , fully customisable. He found his profits/ customer volume increased when he narrowed down the choice. Instead of catering to joggers , sportsmen , weight loss, s&c he narrowed it down to Strongman and Weightloss. 2 options, more profit. Madness. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Sam is in by no means Alpha. I should have expanded on him a bit more, but it was not important to the thread. When Sam went travelling the first time, he had a gf at home that he'd Skype all the time.He kept himself faithful to her for those 2 years even though she was allowed to do whatever she wants. - to be honest I don't think she fucked anyone else/ many other people , but it's hard to tell. He complained a lot, all the time infact. He was incredibly insightful and a great guy to have a be… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.That's precisely my point. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Look I've subscribed to the MGTOW, it helps. It helps a lot, it's allowed me to stay focused. However the difference between yourself and Sam is you've actually done something with your life. Sam recognises the problem and checked out. He simply exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.He stayed there for over a year. He liked the place. He had some very bad experiences and some good. I think his aim is to setup a hostel there and live like an expat. However I think it takes longer than a year to completely understand a place. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Sam checked out completely, he didn't even try. He would have been better off following the majority. Any action is better than inaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Haha sorry buddy. You're going in the right direction if you're getting comfortable with a 40 hr grind at 18. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:43 AM |
| 6 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.With all do respect, if it's not me and it's not you. It's someone else making a profit. But the idea I'm attempting to convey is. Use what you know to your advantage, even if it goes against your core beliefs. If you get into a position of power, great ! Then when you're there you can remove all the scummy businessmen. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Always start a business before day game. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.People always like to be told what to do. It takes responsibility of their actions away from them. With online social dating whilst useful for the 20% the 80% will be wasting their time. Instead they should work a different niche to maximise their potential. To elaborate on the "too much choice" . Imagine you're hungry and you walk into a shop for a sandwich. You walk up to the fridge and there's like 30 sandwiches, which one do you pick ? There's too much choice. (If there where 3 sandwiches it… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.I agree they have let go of their stereotypes. However it's what you do with this information, that's what counts. If you recognise the game and decide to not play it, that's completely your choice. However our society and culture as a whole, only cares what it can get from you and what you can give. That's where your value lies, and people have an inate need to feel valued and wanted. I don't know you well enough, but if you've stopped playing this game ? Are you going to stop playing all the o… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.The balance is between going full MGTOW and Monk Mode. Monk mode allows you to build your pillars up so you can play the game stronger. MGTOW means you quit before you even tried. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Top priority: self improvement or money making?Self improvement: most people work hard seeking money. You should work hard to make money seek you. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/15 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Had a car crash. I am 23. Really eager to buy a car for 10k GBP cash. Mind is saying nonoYou could buy a cheap BMW 1 series for 5k. And you'd still have a ton of money to invest in other projects. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How to truly focus -- especially long reading, difficult material, etc.Modafinal will help | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Ltr found out I'm reading TRP what to do?I agree it would be easier to start fresh but I'm going to guess OP is emotionally invested in his SO "a magician never reveals his tricks" comes to mind here, Why ? Because it dispels the illusion, you get called out for cheap tricks, if you're an open book you're easy to read. The whole get with the program or get lost is not as valid here. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Ltr found out I'm reading TRP what to do?Logic is going to tell you to handle this in a TRP way I.e. Assert your dominance, it's none of her business, she shouldn't of been snooping anyways etc etc. Anything you do from now will be framed as TRP and used against you. She's going to be questioning a lot of your actions and rightly so. Throw her off the scent. Agree with her that this is a sexist place completely and tell her she's right and you're worried for your friend brad who pointed you here. Keep browsing to strictly on your phone… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 12:04 PM |
| 1 | The origin of success and the behavioural influences we've been subjected to as children.Thanks it does sound like something id like. I look forward to watching it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 07:14 AM |
| 1 | The origin of success and the behavioural influences we've been subjected to as children.Yeah, I'm highly introspective and looking back at it I'd always be timid in groups. Simply existing, from fear of upsetting my aggressors or my parents. It wasn't healthy and I turned my anger unfortunately on my younger brother sometimes. But there's no point dwelling in the past too much. My parents did what they thought was right with the knowledge they had just as any parent would. It sounds like you're going about it in a similar way to myself of unlearning behaviours and implementing new … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 10:41 PM |
| 3 | The origin of success and the behavioural influences we've been subjected to as children.Aye "the blind leading the blind" comes to mind. That's awesome, I've never understood this whole " let's sugar coat" everything for kids deal. No one benefits, I can not think of any benefit short or long term. But you're shamed if you don't . | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | The origin of success and the behavioural influences we've been subjected to as children.I would but there's the whole thing of introducing someone to TRP being a massive gamble. I did however start my own article a few months back on Psychopaths based off a conversation I had with him but never got around to finishing it. I do hope to at some point but I would want to read around it more and provide evidence. Here's part of it briefly : Recently I was catching up with an old friend of mine who happens to be a Doctor in Psychology. As a graduate in Psychology I have had many interes… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 07:39 PM |
| 4 | The origin of success and the behavioural influences we've been subjected to as children.I'm glad it spoke to you. I had a similar set up myself and can sympathize , however they in turn were brought up and influenced that way. You, me and everyone else has to be the change. Just remember two things "mediocrity breeds mediocrity" and "The past is irrelevant as long as you're in control of your future". | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Ask IllimitableMan - July 2015I Subscribe to the idea that i'm naturally Machiavellian to make up for other qualities i'm lacking. Consciously I seek to make new friends and acquaintances for sound logical reasons, if I take time to dissect my inter-relations with people (subconsciously why am I friends with them) , I can categorically place what their pros are and how they can offer me value ( by association, by other connections, by emotions, by financial gain etc.) For example, I have a lot of gay friends vs other guys in… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 01:21 PM |
| 3 | The best/unexpected bits of RP truth you've received from women?I became temporarily homeless .... Which permanently ended the relationship | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Has Return of Kings jumped the shark?I brought this up a few months ago in a post 9 reasons why The Redpill isn't working for you ! http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/30ugmm/9_reasons_why_the_redpill_isnt_working_for_you/ Tldr ; TRP is a market, whether we like it or not. We have our own language/ideas and people will use that to sell to us. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | High machi skank manipulating roommate into fucking up his life- any actionable advice ?Haha I spat my tea out reading this. I told him he's naive if he thinks this is going to work out. He resents me now, win some lose some. Whatever | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Hats Off to the BullCould it be seen as success by association? As in the Beta feels that this is his success for providing for his wife ? "Look honey, look what I can bring to the table, you don't see Melissa's Husband allowing this. How cool and new age am I ? Aren't I the best husband ever. How prow are you of me ?". | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Permanently damaged my relationship with my parents.Same, or similar situation with the parent dynamic. Mums a bitch, dad's an idiot. Mum was my only real influence on my life yadayadaya , I could feel sorry for my shit start to my life. Or I could focus on what I can control and that's my future. I'm now accountable for everything in my life and I hold myself responsible for any future success or failure I have. In regards to your parents and family be machiavellian. Have a mask that you only wear for them that makes them happy and just live you… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Learn to suffer in silenceI like the way you frame anxiety, however I don't completely agree with your reference of therapists. People who have genuine problems in life often want to be understood and appreciated. It's just innate, it's a need that can overspill into many areas of your life without realising it I.e. Stress, sex, sleep. In that retrospect counsellors shouldn't be scratched off if it's affecting your health. Having said that, there are other ways of meeting this same need without talking to someone. Writin… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Life TipsCome to the understanding that people perceive that we live in a moral world. The norms are that everyone is moral to keep everything fair. This is not true. The people that get ahead are the ones that pretend to be moral whilst acting immoral. E.g. Using steroids, modafinil , adderall etc. Learn this early. People are immoral as it allows to get them to their achievement a lot faster to conserve time, allowing them to focus their time on other areas. Those with more time accomplish more. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 08:38 PM |
| 0 | How does one achieve an excellent level of self discipline?Just like caffeine, don't take it after 6. Other than that I have never had an issue with it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 12:31 PM |
| 2 | How does one achieve an excellent level of self discipline?Modafinal helps with this. Take it , laser focus and you will happily study for 10 hours straight. After a while you just sort of don't need to take it anymore as you're accustomed to studying for great lengths of time. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 06:50 AM |
| 2 | GF fell for tattoo artist. AWALT.I'm sorry this happened to you | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 10:57 PM |
| 2 | First Impressions matter; how to bring him/her into your frame quicklyGenerally good advice apart from drawing attention to any negative scenarios. As humans we have what's called Negative bias , which means that we tend to focus a lot more heavily on that outcome vs the positive one. Instead a better alternative is to focus on positive outcomes only and minimise negativity at all costs. Cut all inner questions and what if scenarios and practise winging it. "This is great/ I can't wait for this" are good mental attitudes. Also thinking about everyone positively I.… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Ask a veteran consumer behavior researcher anything.Interesting that you bring up how moms shop for their baby's. I've just started up a business selling baby clothes and so have been trying to understand as much about this market as possible. From what I understand family and friends usually buy their initial clothes and accessories. After that, one of the best ways would to utilise Facebook ads and try and trigger the "awww that's cute response" ? Do you have anything to suggest or could you point me towards any interesting sources ? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Are you proud of your father?My dad no, he's a disappointment. I've just came home for the first time in a few months and he's grown a beard. Why? Because my mum told him to. He's buying a car tomorrow but strongly wants my mum to make this decision for him. He can't understand my passion for the gym and apparently I'll get fat and saggy skin from going there eventually ? My work life balance confuses him, I work too much and I shouldn't be setting up a business as it's "too risky". He's turned down various managerial posit… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 09:50 PM |
| 2 | LTR Cheating, on a lease together.In the uk we have a thing where even if you're contracted into an agreement, you can walk providing you give two months notice. You might have the same thing set up in the states. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Need Help Choosing CareerYou seem to have your mind set on making a shit ton of money, I don't blame you. If this is what you really want then don't let anyone sell you on doing what you're interested 100% interested in. Otherwise you're stuck in a job you're interested in but 90% of the time hitting a salary bracket. You're good at maths and physics so leverage your skills. Go for engineering, economics anything with heavy quant statistics. Try and include a finance course alongside degree. Try your luck in investment … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/15 05:22 PM |
| 2 | A question concerning natural testosterone boosting activities and their effects on your body and mind.I'm actually horny for once. Like I literally was starting at a girls ass in the gym the other day. I was lost in it for five minutes, it was actually annoying because I lost my set count and forgot what exercise I was doing. I was snapped back into reality when Her SO shot me a look to say "don't look at my girl". I just squinted back at him with one of those "just try me looks"and went back to figuring out what barbell exercise I'm doing. Yeah that's not normal for me. I kinda like it . | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Just had an epiphany that my LTR gf has slutty qualitiesNo you're wrong , that whole list is wrong and you should feel ashamed for encouraging that list. This is what I would say if I hadn't of fucking experienced a woman who ticked every fucking box on that list! It never ends well. But knowledge is power and learn from your own mistakes, just do it early . | /r/askTRP | 11/05/15 09:42 PM |
| -2 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.Ok you haven't started your job yet so I'll let you off the hook for agreeing. http://wallstreetplayboys.com/why-the-ninety-nine-percent-is-wrong-about-wall-street/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 06:59 AM |
| 3 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.You sound like someone who has worked in finance and therefore has impeccable knowledge surrounding the issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Protein World advert: Formal investigation launched into 'beach body ready' campaign, all advertising ceased.If marketers are smart they'd seize this opportunity. You've got your target group all in one space. That is you've got a bunch of unhappy land whales flopping about in Hyde park. Go down there and sell them their much needed solution to remove their unhappiness. Which is to lose weight. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I AM SO F***ING SICK OF SOCIAL ANXIETYWhat is anxiety ? - anxiety is something in the external environs that shouts DANGER to your psychomotor system. Your body puts itself in fight flight freeze mode ready to tackle the external situation. Being trapped inside your head you over analyse everything in your environment, looking for this external threat. Sometimes you feel that way for no apparent reason and just look for something in the environment to blame it on. It creates a negative feedback loop : I am anxious because of x must … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 07:13 AM |
| 13 | If she wants to travel without you...My ex said she wanted to do a season with her skanky friends. I made my position clear "I'm not going to stop you but I'm not going to be waiting for you when you come back". She stayed, her friends went, she resented her decision, we broke up. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone conquered forgetfulness?Omega 3 / cod liver oil 4 x 1000mg a day | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Where does mental health problems such as Depression and Anxiety lay within TRP ideology?Right I know it's far more complex than what I'm about to say but getting over anxiety is as simple as exposing yourself on multiple occasions to the cause of your anxiety. Depression is also hard to have when you have your finances and social life in order. Just adapt your way of thinking to a more positive accord e.g. She ignored me because she hates me becomes she ignored me because she is too busy/ didn't see me. And By not feeding your anxious/ negative thoughts. Feed more positive thoughts… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 05:13 PM |
| 8 | What was the best piece of advice you were ever given?That and always have a wank before making a tough decision. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 05:06 PM |
| 20 | What was the best piece of advice you were ever given?Inflict pain upon yourself, it's inevitable. Develop resistance | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 05:04 PM |
| 4 | The Covert Reason Women Hate Male SpacesI wish I could work for ten years, fuck as many women as possible and retire at 30. It's a good deal, all expenses paid and you get a couple of paid for holidays too. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how do you guys stick up for yourselves?I use to do the same. It takes time to get good at sticking up for yourself. Firstly and most importantly never go on the defensive ! If they say you suck at zyz for abc reasons never justify yourself. Always go on the attack or you will lose. Secondly write down witty responses in your notes section on your phone and practise using them. You'll get burned on a few but learn from the experience and how to deal with "the next level" Always frame their behaviour to something demeaning e.g. They fa… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a good career, need suggestionsSales , learn about business from it . Start your own business. Profit. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Long-term relationship ”We are not going to have sex are we?”Along with the standard RP advice of Self improvement, soft dread and even netting her. Try this next time as it's possibly a comfort and a shit test. Blame any escalation on her. Her "stop it!" You" how about you stop being so attractive, and I won't want to take advantage of you" Her "what do you mean/ no seriously stop it" You " look I'm only human you can't just lay there looking like that and expect to get away with it" (Whilst continuing to escalate) Keep the frame as it's her problem and … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice regarding overcoming breakupEmotional tie. That's what it is. The emotional tie becomes more weaker when you fuck more women, distract yourself and time. The reason you're emotionally tied is because you're somewhat still inexperienced. Don't strengthen the tie. You do this by thinking about her, checking up on her, talking to her, banging her. Source: been there done that, psych grad. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | 9 reasons why The Redpill isn't working for you !Making a phoney SJW blog would be a great black knighting cause. Selling them back the ideas of "the one" and how to build yourself up to ensure your love is eternal. 101 ways of showing your wife you love her that doesn't involve sex.pdf, bonus pack 10 vegan recipes that are consensual aphrodisiacs. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Man's wife cheats on him with two strippers at bachelorette partyFackkkk that's devious ! It would obviously have to be one of your friends in this scenario. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Man's wife cheats on him with two strippers at bachelorette partyWorse comes to worst send a gay bro to the party, problem solved. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Career path and getting rejectedTo quote myself, you might find this information useful "How to get a job. First things first everyone knows this and it's worth mentioning again, networking ! Every job I have had (excluding my current career) I have attained through friends, do not underestimate the importance of networking! For those who are yet to get a career started, I'm going to tell you how I got mine going. To boil it down it took 200 applications, 50 phone interviews, 8 Assessment centres and 5 actual interviews. It's … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 06:38 PM |
| 3 | The red pill are a bunch of bigots who can't get laid.Love the post, this reminds me of the point brought up in the book "how to win friends and influence people". The idea that everyone has a deep imbedded need to feel appreciated. With the given environment this is increasingly hard. Appreciation comes from various categories in life; Sex, friends, family , career. No one wants to feel worthless. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do I have a low-libido?I can empathise with you, I think I'm the same. It's not like you're unattracted to girls, it's just like you have no innate instinct to chase tail, you just don't care but you used to (or I used to at least). | /r/askTRP | 15/03/15 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I made the mistake of believing she was a rational human beingWhen I was young and naive around the age of 14, we had a class discussion on women's rights to vote. The teacher proceeded to ask the class to raise their hand if they thought women shouldn't be allowed to vote. I proceeded to raise my hand with a few other lads in my class as a joke. The teacher scolded me for it and would often bring it up throughout the class. A few years later I ended up in her class for my gcses when school started to matter. This teacher had still not forgave me for my im… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 07:37 AM |
| 3 | English footballer arrested for having sex with an underage girl.I can't remember the source but I do remember being told in this scenario a man would get away with it. This is due to him supposedly being under the impression she is of age. Honestly in city's like Newcastle it isn't uncommon for girls as young as 15 and 16 to go out, slap on a load of makeup and for the bouncers never to question it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Someone wants to commit suicide after visiting /r/TheRedPillDepression is often thought of as a point where you think the most clearly. It's moments like this where a person makes or breaks themself, never give up that internal conflict . Ask not for a lighter load but broader shoulders or means to broader shoulders. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | False Rape Accusation (Almost) Destroyed My LifeIn direct response to your answer , it's going to take time. I can imagine there's some strong negative feelings attached to women in general. As I don't know the extent of this I'm going to assume for the worse, and device a plan accordingly. Start by befriending them, but don't go into orbit or plate them yet. Treat them like guy mates and be picky with who you associate with. Invest in them as a friend and see if it's reciprocated. The idea is to build trust up again and return some faith. On… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/15 07:49 AM |
| 5 | What if women don't have higher rates of mental illness at all? (a tough pill to swallow for feminists)Came here to say this. The way we are brought up men are taught to 'deal' with there problems or they're seen as ''un manly'. if they cried they were told "stop being such a cry baby". Women were taught to express their feelings and problems freely as there was less stigma involved. The result being women are more likely to report their condition and men are more reluctant. Interestingly more men commit suicide each year compared to women. With depression and suicide being linked it causes one t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to tie me up?I have Bed post straps with Velcro cuffs attached to them. It's tough enough that a girl can't break out of them but not strong enough that I can't break out of them, might be worth investing in some. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/15 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Should I get my Testosterone Levels checked?Great advice | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Manly skillshahaha totally forgot about that, to be fair though it's got great advice on how to jump a car, pick a suit, match wines etc | /r/askTRP | 19/02/15 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Manly skillsEverymanshouldknow subreddit | /r/askTRP | 19/02/15 07:51 AM |
| 3 | You are going to slip and fall right into a comfortable sofa. Get the hell back up.My grandad is 89, literally a couple of days ago I found out he's been hiding that he has had skin cancer for the past 3 fucking years ! He called my dad and my auntie to his house to tell them he's feeling sick and he's in pain ( it must be bad if he's willing to speak about it now). I called him yesterday to see how he is, he wanted no fuss , just complained that he couldn't sleep right and that he'd be missing the gym for a while and that he's going to get bored sitting around being forced to… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Old 9 plate gets flowers on V-Day (not from me) - "Did you send?" "Of course!" - how to proceed?If she thinks it was sent by you, it's probably because she associates such type of behaviours with you, or she was hoping they were sent by you. Either way props on taking advantage of the situation and spinning it in your favour. 0 effort , nothing to loose , no expenditure and you set up something with her. Who cares about the process as long as you get results. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/15 06:02 PM |
| 0 | My LTR claims that she wont have sex with me as I make her insecure.Next time you try to engage and you get the cold shoulder try something along the aligns of "well it's not my fault you turn me on, that's your problem and if you don't want me to have my way with you, you're going to have to stop being so hot" if she protests after this, then continue with it like it's a problem. You can't control it because of her attractiveness and the only solutions are you fuck, you jokingly say she's going to have to start eating more pizza and becoming sloppy or you leave… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/15 08:03 AM |
| 2 | You don't deserve her.You need to learn to like discomfort. Rule f thumb if you're comfortable you're not progressing. Motivation is a fuel and fuel burns out. Now discipline lasts forever, get yourself disciplined to enjoy discomfort, your reward is the progress you make because of it. Don't expect big things immediately, take baby steps. It all starts with a cold shower in the morning, try it, see how long you can last , push yourself further next time. Asses the situation afterwards, I was discomfort able however … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 08:23 AM |
| 1 | NUDES/VIDEOS post break-up: what do you guys do with them?It depends. Clean break delete them, you don't want to mental masturbate over them and reminisce, she deserves respect so delete them. Having said that my ex is unpredictable and dangerous. I have her pics saved on a web template card, if she ever try's anything I'll inform her and click send and she can have a fun conversation with her parents. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | At University of Bath, the SU want a war on "Lad Culture".They're never going to get rid of lad culture. Bath being a rugby centric place is full of "lads", within university and outside. There will always be those brutal "lad" games such as "tell her" and misogynys songs such as "Chicago". They're far too fun and lads are the last people to pay attention to authority's. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 07:25 AM |
| 4 | Is girl having an older ex a red flag ?It's competition anxiety, it's because you'd feel like you can't compete with a 30 year old due to the age difference. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Womanese: "You better not come over here right now." Translation: "Please come over here right now!!"I've been in a similar situation before. Party dies down and everyone goes to bed apart from this one girl who decided she wanted to stay down stairs on the sofa opposite me. It's important to note that she had the option of staying with her friend in a bed. We get chatting and get a bit flirty and I realise I need to be on the same sofa as her. So I throw something at her, she obviously throws something back at me. I throw a cushion, she throws it back and this goes on for some time. I eventual… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Nootropics - Anybody have experience with Noopept, Modafinil, Phenibut, Kratom, etc?Really interesting, thanks for sharing. I'll be sure to check the websites out. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Nootropics - Anybody have experience with Noopept, Modafinil, Phenibut, Kratom, etc?I used modalert , I can't vouch for the others. I'd take half when I started and the other half 3 hours in. It won't ever make you want to revise, however if you can sit yourself down and begin work, time will move by quite fast. All I could describe it like is extreme focus, enjoying my work more and just feeling awake and refreshed. And yes my exams did reflect this, as would anyone's by increasing study time. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Nootropics - Anybody have experience with Noopept, Modafinil, Phenibut, Kratom, etc?Very valid point, and I'd encourage anyone to read around both before being encouraged by my antics. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Nootropics - Anybody have experience with Noopept, Modafinil, Phenibut, Kratom, etc?I have also had better and longer sex on it, it's incredible. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 11:42 PM |
| 28 | Nootropics - Anybody have experience with Noopept, Modafinil, Phenibut, Kratom, etc?Utilised and gained massive benefits from modifinal and phenibut, I'd go as far to say that I owe a lot of my success to them. Modifinal: in university proceeding ingestion my study time would increase from 45 minutes to 8-10 hours. The benefits carried over after I ran out, I'd have taught myself discipline and no longer needed Modifinal as a crutch to exceed my studying abilities. Now a days, if I ever go on a night out on a work day, I can work on 0 hours of sleep and feel fine. It's great. P… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 06:40 PM |
| -1 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.Be careful with the advice of how to handle your mum in accordance to this. I had a situation arise recently which has left me not speaking with my Mum. This is due to me siding with my Dad on an argument THEY had 2 years ago, when asked about it. Women are vindictive, accept your Mum for being a woman and don't publicly take sides or express opinions. My mums a bitch and won't speak with me as she's holding a grudge against me and seeks confirmation bias that "I'm a prick". I don't rate her wel… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?Thank you for this | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 02:37 PM |
| 1 | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?Thanks, you've provided me with the frame set and comeback I need :) | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?Cheers I will do | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Can we talk about work and improving our career prospects?If you're genuinely a clinical introvert ( can test for this via Eysencks introvert/extrovert test) then you attune to alone time by yourself, you would benefit from an IT based job. If the latter and you end up in the grey zone you should train yourself to do more things that scare you. Start with small challenges such as having a nice cold shower, slowly working your way up to harder challenges I.e networking | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 11:27 PM |
| 14 | Can we talk about work and improving our career prospects?How to get a job. First things first everyone knows this and it's worth mentioning again, networking ! Every job I have had (excluding my current career) I have attained through friends, do not underestimate the importance of networking! For those who are yet to get a career started, I'm going to tell you how I got mine going. To boil it down it took 200 applications, 50 phone interviews, 8 Assessment centres and 5 actual interviews. It's a process, it's something you can not give up on. I got l… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers Over 30: What Advice Would You Give A 20 Year-Old?I'm in my early twenties and now that I have a good career started (number one priority), I'm now focusing on a few other things to set me up for life. Start a small side business to improve your finances. This is usually done by exploiting a Hobby or interest of yours. For example a friend of mine buys old ford cars for 1k , strips them apart and sells the pieces individually and makes a 2k return on average. He does this in his weekends and some evenings. He taught himself everything he needs … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | 'Oneitus' is An Evolutionary Adaptation to Sexual FailureYou never really stop loving someone you just learn to deal with it over time. It sounds like she greatly desired you and knew how to keep you interested. Maybe she had a few unique features about her, that's great man. I feel for your loss because that's what it is. That's what it is for me also, women are great. I think we both need a debuffer period. Look at the positives, we both know that we enjoyed LTRs and we know what we want in a woman now. From our past experience with that "one" we no… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to meet up with an old ex for sexSimilar situation here. So I'm going to say this to you as I'm also saying it to myself. You don't, you deal with it. Undoubtedly you used your ex as a means of motivation to better yourself. Keep doing it, when your face is plastered all over benches of your successful retail business she'll be able to tell your successful and she fucked up with a great man. It's what I'm doing, it's what's driving me. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 05:08 PM |
| 12 | 'Oneitus' is An Evolutionary Adaptation to Sexual FailureThat's worrying, I broke up with my destructive unloyal ex 3 months ago. In that time I've got an extremely good job, I'm in better shape than ever, I've banged 5 attractive girls and yet I still want her. Fuck man I hate being broken. I'll never go back to her but I can sympathise with where you're coming from. It's horrible, I need a cure. We need a cure. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:55 AM |
| 13 | Drunk girl jumps out of car to blame boyfriend. Thankfully, he was recording their argument.Same situation sort of. I had an ex who I caught out on tinder, I lost my cool and pinned her down whilst I went through her texts real quick, to check for anything else . Chucked her out my house. I get a text the next day from her with a print screen of the message she sent one of the guys she was messaging on tinder and quoted the time. " it was 1.30 in the morning I was drunk and you weren't giving me enough attention, it's not my fault. I can move on after seeing the way you behaved last ni… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:58 PM |
| -1 | When talking to women, talk with your cock not with your brain.To add onto this, years ago I had a problem where I'd kiss a girl and I'd get horny as fuck. Sooo horny id get insta blue balls, laughable right ? Wrong! It changed my game. I would literally say to girls " this has to stop" (whilst in the heat of kissing), too which they'd respond "why?" And I'd say "you're getting me way into this, I'm getting blue balls. This needs to stop or you're coming back to mine and I'm going to take advantage of you". I'd take advantage of them, they loved it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 10:43 PM |
| 14 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.Here here ! I use to live in a 95% white area. One of my closest friends ( Chinese ) was built up to fuck and ripped, he could still pull because he didn't fit the stereotype and girls were interested in him. We both moved to a bigger city where the ratio is more like 60% white, and ohhhh boy the amount of pussy he got was unreal! His first year in university he didn't even rent accommodation, he just stayed over in different girls beds or bullied his way into staying over at a 'friends place'. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 02:19 PM |
| -4 | Reminder: There is a DIRECT correlation between a woman's sexual past and divorce rates.I'm going to go against this advice given as I'm a big advocate of self improvement. Date these women if yourself starting out. Why? You're inexperienced, it'd be like a concentrated redpill shot. Fall In love with them and quickly realise that you're in competition with every other man she's been with. That will motivate you to better yourself if you want to keep a girl like that around. Seriously as backwards as this advice is, if you're staring out or inexperienced go with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Feel suicidal at 26 in North Carolina. Health issues, possibly losing hair, can't take chances in life. I see no point anymore truly. Help?side note I think you can buy a medication for your prostate ? which prevents more hair from falling out, look into it. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Feel suicidal at 26 in North Carolina. Health issues, possibly losing hair, can't take chances in life. I see no point anymore truly. Help?I get it, it's all came at one time . Every little shitty thing that could happen to you is happening to you right now, the hair is just the icing on the cake. I get it and that must suck ! But look at you, you're alive and you're living, you don't want to die, you want to keep on living. Why do I know this ? you created a post on reddit in hopes of getting an out, in hopes that maybe someone out there will have all the answers for you. They don't, you do though. You don't want to die you want t… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Purplepiller seeks conversation/debateGraduate psychologist here. If you're looking for empirical evidence it's hard to find direct x= y studies. Your best bet is looking into evolutionary psychology. Evolutionary psychology states that the conventional nuclear family developed as it prolongs out genes. When a woman is pregnant she needs a provider who can not only feed and protect himself but her also. This makes sense because a pregnant woman is vulnerable and unable to fend for herself, therefore she seeks to mate with the man wh… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any career advice ?Cheers I'll look into it | /r/askTRP | 05/11/14 05:39 PM |
| 6 | /r/TheRedPill hits 80K subscribersAgreed and here's why. I was in my last year of university, attractive , was on the rugby team , was the most in shape guy in my uni , was getting straight As, very popular ; arguably an amazing catch for any girl. Met a girl, she convinced me into a LTR. Finished uni, became homeless for a few weeks , couldn't get a career started and had to rely on minimum wage jobs. Stressful period in my life, pretty much went from being top dog in my community and then I hit the real world and became the lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | anxiety / panic attacksWith anxiety and panic attacks you need to frame it in a specific way to stop them from happening. I framed it as " the world is my gym and I'm playing life on expert mode". Basically you need to view each time you feel anxious or an anxiety attack as an opportunity to overcome it, strengthen yourself and build your resilience. If you keep up with this mentality you'll eventually become anxiety free to a degree. Everytime you feel anxious focus on what's going on around you e.g. There's a red ca… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/14 03:33 PM |
| 2 | /r/TheRedPill and Manosphere.com are proud to Announce - #NoNothingNovember - a self discipline challenge to get rid of your vices for a monthObjective : Get a £20k + career started ( been applying for jobs the past 3 months in London since i graduated, no luck). Survive in London ( I have 2 minimum wage jobs I need another one fast !) How 1 :Shove my pride away and reinvent my C.V. and Cover Letter 2 :Abstain from masturbation to give me extra drive 3 :Change my accent ( I have an accent that people tend to be prejudice towards) 4: Internet time is limited to job search / reddit late at night 5 : Attempt to get a minimum wage job in … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 06:22 PM |
| 1 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleThanks for this. I was definitely too emotionally attached to her but I guess it's all learning experience. I'll try what you said next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 10:37 AM |
| 1 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleYeah I did. Then we tried to make things work, the first thing I said was anyone we were perusing on our break we were to stop talking to, she agreed and did what she wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 10:34 AM |
| 8 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleI've always wondered about the transition form Relationship to Plate, so thanks for answering that, I will burn this into my memory for next time. This girl is not plate material and would never be happy just being that, she defies no category at this time. This girl was the mastery of disguises she was a whore wearing a girlfriend costume and i so happened to find her naked. I left out the part where after i kicked her out, she shouted "im getting a lift off a 30 year old man and he has a nice … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 03:08 PM |
| 43 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleI recently broke up with my So. A week later we tried to make things work, two weeks into this she comes over to my place, we fuck hard , she cums everywhere and then cuddles me. She whispers into my ear after satisfying her "you're mine, I love you so much and I never want to loose you again". I had a massive smile on my face, she rolled over and went to sleep instantly. I get up to go to the bathroom , I see her phone there glistening, it hadn't timed out to its lock screen. I go to brush my t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Woman Has Sex With A Dwarf Stripper And Becomes Pregnant On The Day Before Her WeddingGet a gay friend send him on the bachelorette party, get him to report everything to you. Problem solved . | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 12:43 AM |
| 7 | To those men who are getting over an Ex. You are a drug addict.Fuck this is a great analogy, every break up I use it as motivation. I don't care who you are, you've all been through the stage where you want to "get one up on her" a lot of you are able to keep it in check. I can't but I don't act childish about it, I simply use it as motivation. I use the idea of my ex with her mouth wide open in shock when she sees me In better shape, progressed more in my career, with a hotter girl around my arm. That's what gets me through it. I love break ups because a y… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I need life adviceThanks for your story | /r/askTRP | 13/09/14 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I need life adviceThanks for your input, I'm actually persuing a career in sales (recruitment consultancy). I go to assessment centres every week in an attempt to get a job but keep getting knocked back. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/14 08:06 AM |
| 2 | I nuked my relationship with my oneitisI know, I'm going through my worst time in my life right now. I'm working 50 hour weeks on minimum wage, im living on a beanbag for the past 10 days ( temporarily as i was in between houses ). I was broke because of this new house i've had to fork a ton over whilst waiting for my deposit to be returned to me from my previous house. I'm applying for jobs and attending assessment centers every week to better myself and I've had to stop going to rugby/ the gym for a short period whilst i try and ge… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/14 12:26 PM |
| 2 | I nuked my relationship with my oneitisNo this is what I need the cold hard truth. I need the motivation to get me through the day. I need a plan. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/14 11:57 AM |
| 2 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.I just read your other comment, I'm going to treat it like a commitment test first before treating it like a shit test. It could very well be a commitment test and there's no harm in trying to approach it in such a manor. thanks | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.Thanks this is solid advice that I'll put to use straight away | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 03:44 PM |
| 1 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.Thanks for your input, this is my current way of dealing with it ( today being the one time I chased her on the subject). Each method ends in me not finding out what caused her to say it in the first place though, slightly annoying but whatever. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is the number 1 advice 'lifting' for newbies to trphit the nail on the head | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 03:14 AM |
| 1 | SO trying to set boundaries with room mate who has a crush on meCheers I will , she is manipulative. When I was first getting with my SO I had a party at my house and she invited a sort of stalker I had at the time to the party, obviously to cause shit. She hasn't done anything recently though but I'll be on the lookout. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/14 12:50 AM |
| 3 | AWALT, possible slip up on my part, and what to do from here.I recently encountered a similar situation. My SO told me her friends bought her a ticket and a special birthday girl dance to a make strip club and asked if I would be ok with it. I told her "no , not in a million years. Thank you for telling me this but your friends aren't thinking clearly and if you respect this relationship you won't be attending". Her friends got pissy , told her I was too controlling but fuck them that was a really shitty move on there behalf. She didn't go but brings it u… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | SO trying to set boundaries with room mate who has a crush on meYeah I can understand the flip situation. I've pretty much told her I understand but I'm not going to change anything you're just going to have to trust me. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 11:34 PM |
| 1 | SO trying to set boundaries with room mate who has a crush on meNot going to lie my SO hinted at my roommate being overly flirty with me, and I sort of agreed with her. I guess i sort of thought it was smart at the time because it would show pre selection raise SMV or some shit. Regretting it now. I've dealt with it now I understand why she's acting the way she is and I would if the situation was reversed but I ultimately said " I'd tone down the way i act around my room mate, won't be doing any seedy activities with her alone; however I'm not going to chang… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 11:32 PM |
| 0 | SO trying to set boundaries with room mate who has a crush on meThat's what I was thinking | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Another Pretty Lie Is Slain - Today’s pretty lie? Men are attracted to confident women.an interesting study has illustrated this in organizational psychology in respect to traditional make traits . Students where shown a video of male and female managers, they where asked to rate the managers on their effectiveness .The aggressive male condition was shown to be viewed as more assertive however aggressive female was viewed less favourably and seen as less in control of the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Never let your wife or SO got out with a single post-wall hamsterIt's not fair, sorry to her that man. She's gave you a gift though, A gift of motivation. Be thankful for this gift, every time you see a challenge such as self improvement in the gym, at work, reading etc use this scenario to push you to your extreme. In a years time your SMV will be a lot higher than it is now and she'll regret loosing a great man like yourself. There's no better feeling in the earth than knowing she regrets her mistake, she lost you and your too proud to take her back; but ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Wife is Censoring/Deleting Text MessagesDeleted messages you say? if she has an iPhone ,icloud backs up most things. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/14 04:55 AM |
| 4 | Bachelorette parties and why you should avoid themRules to prevent this from happening Pre selection Never get married A female family member from your side of the family has to attend kids first then marriage in the hopes that she'll be more mature bachelorette party when she's pregnant | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 10:37 PM |
| 3 | "You're such an asshole/douche!"who told you I was nice? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | How can I not be such a pussy in arguments ?I think you may be onto something here. I believe your problem is that you take a lot of these things very close to your personality and you're (evidently) genetically more predisposed towards showing emotion. I understand how the cube works, so there would be no truth in my response unfortunately :( | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:08 AM |
| 2 | How can I not be such a pussy in arguments ?I do indeed lift, I've been lifting for 4 years now and i'm a trained fighter. I might be insecure about something however I have no clue what it is :S | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How can I not be such a pussy in arguments ?Thanks , I like the idea of slowing things down it makes sense to me. I have suffered with anxiety before, but I've always faced it head on and as such it has gone away. The weird thing is I Tai box, and as such I have had to compete before, never had an issue in fighting other opponents. The problem only arises in heated arguments or possibly street fights, total mind fuck. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 12:44 AM |
| 1 | AMOG Attempt - "You're a lucky guy!" - How to handle?Guys that are persistent like this, even when you out wit them can only be brought down one way, unpredictable fear.This is extreme and should only be used as a last resort. You act all buddy with him, laugh with him then you put your arm around his shoulder and whisper into his ear "i've got a knife down my fucking sock, if you don't leave me and my gf alone i'm going to stab you in the fucking neck" (you don't obviously, you're a normal functioning human being. You're intimidating him and rais… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/14 01:04 AM |
| 1 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?Every breakup makes you a better man, every time it happens you feel pain. You simply construct these feelings, this cocktail of emotions into something constructive that will help you self-improve. I focused on my exams "fuck you bitch, if you won't have me now you can't have me when I've landed a successful job after uni" etc Adopt the mentality of always progressing forward and never back e.g. going back to her would be counter productive to your end goal. Use this to better yourself. Every b… | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 03:31 AM |
| 2 | What is an appropriate way of responding to someone disrespecting you ?Thanks for your insight | /r/askTRP | 14/04/14 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What is an appropriate way of responding to someone disrespecting you ?Every passive response like the one you mentioned, is just met with continued insulting. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/14 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Your Blue Pill cringe stories?As a teenager I manged to pull my oneitis 8/10 . Took her to the woods, made out with her; had her lie on top as she'd move her elbow so it made my arm move towards her arse/vagina so essentially I was rubbing her. I thought girls didn't like sex at the time, and fingering her would be inappropriate as she would only be doing it as a favour for me. She left. Oh oh and then I texted her later "I love you more than the wolf loves the moon". Its cool though a few months later I had it figured out b… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 05:12 PM |
| 2 | First date since discovering TRP...Did not go well, I think I understand why, would like some confirmation.Totally agree with the advice above. Some Rp advice only applies to those who are at a certain level, nexting her would be detrimental to your own personal improvement. Experience > Rp at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/14 05:01 PM |
| 1 | A story: The great Red Pill paradox (or, how to completely castrate an alpha)Thanks for sharing, it's a real awakening. I've now noticed some of these patterns within my own relationship. if you had the chance, what would you do different? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/14 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope for me?Confidence is quiet, insecurities are loud. I use to be insecure about my skin, I use to spend hours a day looking at my skin in the mirror with extreme detail (I was Harsh on myself ). I had bad acne scars it got me down for ages. I would always wonder when talking to people "are they looking at my skin", "I won't talk to her, Incase she notices my skin" I was loud. I was stuck in a negative feedback loop and had to break out. I focused on improving parts of my life , going the gym, playing rug… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/14 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The Cure to Approach Anxiety According to Cognitive Psychologyyou're right technically as it isn't in any of the diagnostic manuals (which is surprising when you've got some ridiculous disorders that normal people can be classified with in there) however it meets the general definition of anxiety being the apprehension of an event that is yet to happen. it has the same physiological effects of anxiety ranging from mild worrying to compete panic attack. So it Would be safe to assume that cbt would have positive effects on approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 11:43 PM |
| 2 | The Cure to Approach Anxiety According to Cognitive Psychologyiv'e often wanted to write a guide implementing psychological techniques to aid people with approach anxiety, using the ideas of CBT that you have described yourself. This is all well and good, however the model you have just described should be done as a written task at home, for something to reflect upon and to try and change a person’s beliefs and become an active part of their lifestyle However doing this level of deep logical thinking can inhibit performance in field spiralling over thinkin… | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Woman quits birth control, libido skyrockets... for alpha cock!also to add to this , there was a recent paper about pheromones and birth control. whilst on birthcontrol women were more likely to go after men with similar immune systems (however evolution favours you for seeking dissimilar immune systems) it was found that only after women stopped taking the pill that they would seek dissimilar immune systems (through pheromones) and was suggested to be one of the leading causes of the increase in divorce rate. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/14 10:43 PM |
| – | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?Would you fuck a friends ex ? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?It's not that, it's the fact that it's disrespectful. He's the type of guy to come up to you and say "what, I banged your ex get over her brah, she was shit anyways" and I am completely unprepared for a moment like this . | /r/askTRP | |
| – | We hear a lot from RP guys in their 20s and 30s, maybe some 40s and 50s, I am interested in what happens to the ones in their 60s 70s?I'll use my Grandad as a template (88). TL;DR keep active, have companionship, set targets, advise/influence, fight/ laugh. keep Active He uses the gym three times a week to do light exercise, golfs twice. Never re-marry, but seek companionship He had a girlfriend of 30 years but thinks it's idiotic to marry, he's told me to avoid it at all costs. He has his own place and visited her on weekends, to maintain his own space. He traveled the world with her also, seeking and still learning about new… | /r/askTRP |
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