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CMVanitapk/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:06 AM
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CMVanitapk/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 08:55 PM
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CMVanitapk/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 02:40 PM
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They do, but if we are playing no true Scotsman I'm not with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:31 PM
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Not the ones I'm talking about. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:28 PM
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They are pretending to be worried about women's wellbeing. I'm fine with people complaining about what affects them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:12 PM
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I find the "concern trolling" from trp irritating. These women are adults and they are making choices. The majority of them are eventually going to lead normal lives and the only thing trp guys care about and should be more honest about is that they're lonely, or have a very little dating pool. It comes off as patronising and dishonest. It's ok to be angry about being left out of the dating pool, there's no need to pretend that you care about hoardes of women getting pumped and dumped unless it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:19 PM
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As far as I know women tell other women what they like, exactly who and what men should women give detailed descriptions of who they like? Their ugly orbiters, so they can crush them? Adults say kind or necessary lies all the time when the truth is inconvenient and lies aren't harmful, some people can't see the truth unless its outright spelt to them and are oblivious to it. I guess if you're too dumb to see that generally heterosexual women don't like ugly people it's a good thing to go down th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:12 PM
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She says "I want a [hot] nice guy". Hot overrides nice in all cases. Nice isn't a hard requirement, unless the guy is so hot that he has too many women he can juggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:05 PM
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How can men using violence against women ever be equal? Men and women's punches will never be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:28 PM
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Exactly, but even then a guy good enough who likes me will know when to make a move because I'll let him know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:42 PM
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Nah, I want a guy bold enough to make the first move, I'm confident enough, I don't need to do what a guy should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:02 AM
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Try being poor and see how fun it is to not be able to pay for dates even Dutch, not being able to participate in activities, not having money to meet people and have fun nights out and tell me if it doesn't hinder you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 09:16 PM
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Men want sex because they want sex, their bodies push them to have a stronger sex drive. Them not having physical attentions could be a totally different issue if it is an issue for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:57 AM
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Men gave women freedom, not the other way around. Tell men to stop fucking anything that moves or to grow wombs and become the more fragile sex then you might achieve """""equality"""""
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 02:31 PM
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From my experience beautiful women could get away with crazier and higher maintenance requests while less attractive ones couldn't. It also depends on the difference of attraction ratings between the two people. I think men want attractive women and they happen to be more likely to get away with doing crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:37 PM
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But what study do you have to prove that men don't satisfy you and all other women???? If you can't statistically prove it it's not true you're lying and women are just conditioned lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:33 AM
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Nothing "should" have anything. It wouldn't sell, so it shouldn't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:07 AM
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You can do that, but the more men opt out the more men will find themselves a bigger dating pool. And I think men should, especially when it comes to expecting not obese partners - if I remember correctly men and women's obesity rates are similar but BMI works differently for a tall guy rather than a short woman, when he can be categorised as overweight while he has a very little fat while a woman might have a BMI of 24 but look overweight. I mean something should be done about the obesity crisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:39 PM
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What I meant is not a one night stand FFS. Yes it's all about semantics and people trying to willfully misunderstand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:16 PM
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Have you ever seen a woman initiate a flirt and approach a guy? I have quite a few times. It does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:12 PM
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Discussing on Reddit is but it's something we do when we are bored right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:17 PM
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Most people get together amongst people they know. I have tried to decipher female signs too, we can't always be right but it's worth trying if you're interested. Sometimes there was interest, sometimes I was wrong. Just like guys. I never said they were always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:51 PM
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2/4 weeks is slow because it's not immediate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:40 PM
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Women except rich ones were never stay at home mothers lol, everyone picks and chooses, you can choose not to be with me or with someone who has standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:40 PM
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Women don't go up and talk to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:35 PM
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Yeah that's exactly what I meant! Thank you for paraphrasing, you certainly know all women!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:16 PM
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They aren't if they're interested, people get to know each other slowly usually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:15 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:14 PM
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They don't approach like men do, just like they don't fuck people like men do because they don't have a penis. Still they approach and fuck. They don't always flirt covertly, yes they send iois, yes if someone ignores all that and denying that they approach maybe it's a good thing they're missing it because they're socially blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:43 PM
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They don't offline. They are obviously women though so the man might have to do the manly part of asking out. In a fantasy world you could take women's risks if you want to give up yours. Still no one is forcing you to do anything, you can look for a woman that will swoop you off your feet, and maybe more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:40 PM
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Yes. They don't if they're not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:34 PM
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The manly approach.. yes? Because men and women are different...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:32 PM
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Yeah, no, women flirt too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:32 PM
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It was high school shit. I know exactly what I mean by average when I say it. Come take a look around. The majority of young People (below 40) are a normal weight, healthy bmi. There are mostly no sports players, no models, most weren't even averagely tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:31 PM
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I'm not forcing anyone. You're free to go for whatever women you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:27 PM
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That's how women approach though, especially if they know you. They don't approach like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:26 PM
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I've had women flirt sometimes out of nowhere. You flirt back and see what the reaction is, you get to know each other before trying something. flirting doesn't have to be met with "let's date"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:21 PM
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Taking things literally, too seriously, like people with asperger, being constantly "actually...", Going on and on about gender roles and expectations...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:13 PM
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It's still a minority of cases I think. I doubt that if you really like someone you wouldn't try something after a while of flirting. I understand that common places like workplace and gym are awkward to visit if someone turned you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:12 PM
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If you have to scan for something is it really there? I don't think so. Flirting together means exactly reciprocating. I'm not forcing anyone to do anything. People have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:10 PM
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I don't care what other people say about gender roles, I fit them and want a man who fits them as well. The fact is that it's not so indirect or hidden if you're over 20; flirting goes two ways in most cases and offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:06 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:59 PM
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ok, you can make your own op if you want to talk about them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:57 PM
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I just said it takes two to tango and that you're not expected to make a move after a frigging hair flip. Read what I wrote again. I'm not holding out for anyone, I'm happily engaged to someone and we built this together, flirting together and getting to know each other, Together. The fact that you see flirting together in two different ways as being mentalist is quite a trip you know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:56 PM
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It's ok, I'll go for someone who understands at the first request of sex xD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:53 PM
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It's not my job to explain to people how women work. Women approach in a more covert way usually but it's different from being friendly, it can be confused for "women never approachl men" by people who don't get approached. There's people on Reddit who take everything literally and imagine that human interactions are "woman flips hair and expects the man to do everything" it's not like that. People get to know each other, they engage in conversations, they flirt. That's what's being denied here …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:47 PM
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Why is everyone acting like women don't make it clear when they're interested? Has anyone here who claims otherwise had an organic (not online dating) relationship start, with flirting and all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:40 PM
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You brought them up but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:31 PM
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Nah, I want someone who can take things on and see where they go along with me without me having to frigging spell it out. You don't have to kiss someone because they flip their hair, you get to know them more when they approach you if you like them and see where it goes. Interactions are a two way street, and lots of men describe women as completely passive. They're not! You're putting words in my mouth and describing mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:30 PM
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I've told guys I liked them too but never actually liked the enough to do something more. I think the majority of men who date online (and women as well) have had no luck offline. Most people I know met organically. Almost no one below 35 uses online dating for relationships. I also don't know single mothers and very very few obese people below 35. I am not talking about me and my friends but what I see around me, men and women. I don't select hot guys, I always dated average or a little above a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:29 PM
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Why engage then? I never mentioned incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:15 PM
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Yeah that's probably why some people are mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:15 PM
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I obviously meant the subset of men who want women to approach in a manlyway. The majority of others wouldn't complain if women actually approached and flirted like women do, like op says
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:13 PM
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They want women to approach like men do, not how women approach. You haven't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:06 PM
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Sexual attraction doesn't change based on what year we're in though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:04 PM
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I 100% agree with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:04 PM
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Nope I want a regular human man that understands social interactions, it's too much to think of for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:58 PM
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It's a very common experience for the women I know, not specific at all. I am describing the reality I saw amongst people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:55 PM
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You haven't but it's ok, the class is almost over you all helped me stay awake :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:52 PM
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You're not trying to change my mind about the op though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:50 PM
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I never said anything about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:49 PM
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Ok. Women approach men they like. Change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:48 PM
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The majority of cases it's a woman punching above her weight in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:46 PM
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Have you ever seen someone flirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:44 PM
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Have you found out now that the majority of people have normal social interactions and someone interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:39 PM
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It is exactly outside where most people can read social cues and interact even with flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:36 PM
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Make your own cmv post if you have other things to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:35 PM
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Just because most women and men act differently when doing the same actions doesn't mean it's not the same action. You aren't trying to change my mind, you're expecting the sexes to be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:31 PM
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Yes definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:29 PM
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Yeah, made up by me and how the world offline works..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:29 PM
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Who says there isn't? Please answer the post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:26 PM
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They expect women to act like men, and it's not what I'm referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:25 PM
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That's your problem and doesn't change my mind or answer the original post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:54 PM
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Repeat the question with approaching. Women approach differently from men but they do and I don't believe the majority of men don't experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:53 PM
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Athe majority of men haven't had women flirt with them in real life out of real interest? Where do you live? Anime conventions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:49 PM
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Hence women approach, the men who say that they don't aren't approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:44 PM
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Not really...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:37 PM
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It's probably hard to understand for people who didn't have issues but I sort of agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:36 PM
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So? Women don't approach because the orbiter zone exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:33 PM
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No, it means someone who makes mistakes as does everyone who tries but mostly understands what's going on and when to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:29 PM
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Most guys in reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:28 PM
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Duh, I know what approaches are. This doesn't mean that women don't approach at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:55 PM
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Tolerating flirting? Maybe people who have social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:54 PM
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Yes, it's definitely a possibility. I do not disagree with red pill, I recognize that some people need to be told what to do or how to act with women because they didn't learn by socialising when young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:53 PM
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Argument what I said, not what you think I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:51 PM
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Yes because women are not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:22 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:21 PM
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It doesn't, it's two types of people, just like people have kinks people have preferences for approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:56 PM
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Edit my mistake I thought it was another thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:41 PM
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Lots of people don't agree with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:34 PM
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Yes I've always said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:17 PM
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Talking and learning happens also during flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:10 PM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:08 PM
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Neurotypical people enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:07 PM
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Apparently not for the socially challenged people of Reddit xD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:46 PM
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Oh I thought if they wanted only sex or also a relationship. Yes it may be that or the other options they have available.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:43 PM
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That's what I'm trying to say!!!! Edit: I mean I strongly agree with you and I forget sometimes that many people on Reddit have the issues you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:37 PM
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But if you agree this bcomment will be deleted you should post it under the automod post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:34 PM
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Yes i realize that being good looking and socially adept isn't a choice for some people, but that doesn't mean women are 100% passive beings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:33 PM
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Men and women approach differently. I don't care why men do or don't pick up flirting and/or approaching, it's not what I'm discussing. I don't date men who use subtle hints and flirting, that's what I've dated women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:22 PM
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The woman approaching in this case has clear intentions and flirts, and before something starts between two people there's usually more flirting and vetting. That's how it works usually for neurotypical people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:19 PM
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I mean the only attention I looked for was real interest, as in someone willing to spend their time with you in a relationship leading t something more important. I agree with you and understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:56 AM
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Yeah i mentioned that, before glowing up as they say I had a few people ignore me. It's ok. It hasn't happened after being 20 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:41 AM
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Yes I fully agree with that too. I included it for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:39 AM
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You're willingly misunderstanding. Approaching includes light flirting like some women like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:38 AM
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Men I heard like during a flirt to make the most "aggressive moves"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:37 AM
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I don't want douches nor guys with no guts, and never had problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:35 AM
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Shame is something you feel not something you do. I made an observation of something I noticed, change my mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:35 AM
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Nah bitches who don't approach ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:30 AM
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The definition of approach isn't specific of how aggressive you are in flirting . It says "getting closer to something" or "speak to someone for the first time" which includes what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:29 AM
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It's not here, most young women are regular BMI. One is obese Edit: I'm in a room in class, 40 people. Age from 25 to 60. Ten overweight. One obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:20 AM
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Behaviours aren't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:19 AM
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Most guys I know ? They like to act like men as I heard saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:18 AM
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Exactly! I want a guy who learned how to act around women from experience and a strong male figure not someone who had to learn from what other women told him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:17 AM
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A man doesn't fuck a woman with a vagina either, the two sexes are different
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:15 AM
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Who cares about plausible deniability? That's not what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:09 AM
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Yeah I thought it was highschool, I think hormones make everyone act their gender stereotypes a lot more! How did your mum shit test you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:06 AM
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Flirting is approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:58 AM
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That's interesting, how old were you when the insults happened :O? If that's how they wanted things to be they were maybe unknowingly weeding out guys who don't approach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:41 AM
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Yes that's what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:31 AM
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Men and women are different, men will just have to risk it. I have my own risks too, just different. I want what I want and I always had men who understood my flirting, I don't have a problem, men who complain do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:26 AM
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Yes cuckquean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:14 AM
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The whole Reddit isn't America. You do you, I like men who understand social interactions and ignore the rest ( not single but being socially adept is my most important requirement)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:14 AM
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I don't want sex and never wanted sex with no commitment, I'm not ugly I'm slightly above average but not everyone wants to be with someone long term just based on looks especially while living in a reality with different options, so guys who had girlfriends and flings in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:09 AM
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I'm happy if my flirting such as touching, looking for you, making more jokes and looking at you a lot turns off guys who want to be explicitly approached such as "go out with me" because that's not the person I'm looking for. Majority means average, normal, the people I see around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:07 AM
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Even regular dudes who have a regular number of girlfriends don't make a big deal out of rejections in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:04 AM
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Yes I agree wit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:00 AM
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Mmm I don't agree with you, the majority of women I know flirt impliciltly, and lots of men love this game. We probably have a different definition of overt approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:55 AM
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I meant about taking rejection personally. Yes I haven't met many beautiful smart women who were single for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:51 AM
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Nope, I ended up knowing they weren't interested. You don't have to be aggressive, you can flirt back. That's what usually happens. If a guy doesn't flirt back I'm dropping it, I want someone playful who gets things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:49 AM
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Flirting can also be implicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:46 AM
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Yes, I agree! Do you think it's the same for women? I've been humbled by rejections when young before glowing up but I'm just me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:45 AM
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I find it flattering but if he doesn't understand rejection immediately when I say no thanks it gets awkward or scary. It rarely happens though. I don't know how straight guys feel being hit on gay men, many said they'd react bad but a few of my friends were actually flattered haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:34 AM
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I'm not interested in other guys but I'd think about it if he only wanted sex and no emotional attachment. It's my fantasy though even though I haven't told him yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:33 AM
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What isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:27 AM
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Nah it works for guys who are socially savvy and like to make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:06 AM
1

Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:31 AM
1

I think it's good to weed out the guys who have no experience or who are socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:41 AM
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Really? I have the opposite problem, I smile and laugh at people and socially awkward guys take it as me flirting and get clingy. Can you provide an example? The only time dropping hints didn't work for me was when the guy wasn't interested. Edit to add: I wouldn't want a guy who can't pick up hints so it's ok if someone doesn't pick them and doesn't make a move. Usually as I said they weren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:34 AM
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I think people who find the opposite sex boring aren't seen as interesting from the people they interact with and these people don't put much effort into conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:58 PM
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I totally agree with you! It has to be the complete package. Heck I might even like someone with less pronounced secondary sexual characteristics if we get along and have regular primary one!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:51 AM
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People are usually attracted to both. I want a functioning real penis and a functioning real vulva. The smell and the taste of them are too hot in the moment and are part of your experience with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:49 AM
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It's not impossible to tell a man from a woman, and a real vulva from a mutilated penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:46 AM
1

Yeah but no, it's wishful thinking but whatever makes people happy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 10:18 PM
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There's tons of fetishists around, and I could tell you that I've never been rejected too and you'd have no way to prove or disprove it, so he can say whatever he wants it doesn't mean that men who cut their genitals become women or cure their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:42 PM
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Personally I'd never be sexual with a man who created an artificial wound and dilates it everyday and who tries to imitate women, and neither the opposite of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:33 PM
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Because being able to do what you want to do with money to burn is amazing. Achieving things at work is amazing. Having a child is expensive and tough, especially if you want to raise him right. More than one is even harder if you want to give him proper education and a good chance at life. I want kids but dread the moment I'll have to give up our freedom as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:54 AM
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They're attracted to XX chromosomes so someone who was born with a vagina, not someone with a gaping and infected wound who is a man that got his genitals cut and stuck inside. People like what they like; I'm pure bisexual and I'll never sleep with someone who butchered their genitals. Anything else, just nothing romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:51 AM
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They shouldn't, and neither should men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:16 PM
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I don't expect answers from rant subs, but I don't expect them either from groups where people may have a "survivor bias" or have no clue how they got to where they are in life. I'm in a happy place but didn't work harder than people who are worse off than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:18 AM
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Some women might be as horny as men, but the majority aren't, they wouldn't be as selective as they are and the male sex industry wouldn't be mostly sustained by gays like it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:05 AM
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I think there are two reasons. Sometimes people like to think that their choice in a partner is virtuous and based on good indicators like being a good personality match, how hard working a person is. The truth is that we like who we like, and sometimes this person isn't the best for us, or we sometimes ignore red flags. These incels see this and can't understand. These are people that didn't socialize properly, sometimes also because of how they've been bullied for their looks or social awkward…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:40 AM
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I Need an outlet for my very strict thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:35 PM
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I don't know, I think John has to be very ugly too or to be extremely socially awkward, both which you can't fix by becoming a bully, or faking confidence, so he doesn't actually have a choice in most cases. It mostly depends in my opinion on how you and whom you were born to. He should try to improve, because in some cases men like these have their heads up their asses, but I agree with John, it sucks, and it's ok to go on the internet to vent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:22 PM
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To expand for the sake of discussion, I like people that look good naturally, that have a good body structure by remaining slim like I am and doesn't care too much about his looks. I find that to be a feminine trait. I'm in a happy relationship so thanks for worrying but I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:36 AM
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Lol I'm fine the way I am, thanks for worrying though kind internet stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:14 AM
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I'm objective - I'm slightly above average so I will not go for someone that's way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:10 AM
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It doesn't matter. I got my point through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:05 AM
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Then it's not what I meant. I usually read it as "someone who expects a lot in all fields". Although most guys in the gym are average looking and them having muscles doesn't change that for me. Edit: not everyone on Reddit has the same level of English
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:37 PM
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I didn't talk about time related maintenance, but expecting their partner to be fit. Isn't that what people say about high maintenance women? That they have high standards? That's what I meant. I don't care about the time spent, I don't have the same goals and I don't want to be with someone too hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:10 PM
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Nothing forbids actors who don't fit Hollywood beauty standards to make their own awards to reward their talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:09 PM
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Define muscular man. 3/4 times a week are usually enough, more than that is usually not needed. However to be as muscular and lean all year long as represented in movies you usually need some juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:22 PM
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Personally I don't do one night stands or fuck buddies because I can't stand not being someone's number one priority when it comes to partners. But as I already said of course muscular is better!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:19 PM
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Yeah, I just think a muscular man is too high maintenance. Of course I mean men with a good body AND muscles, not someone who compensates with muscles. You know, gotta have large shoulders and narrow hips naturally, you're not going to gym all your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:00 PM
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Women would manipulate men into thinking that they're not like other girls and that they're special. they'd get reeeeaally good at it because they'd know how to trick hem and men would think they found a unicorn. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:57 PM
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It makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:45 AM
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Yeah I thought so. I have a hard time imagining my current and past SO bring rough because apparently it wasn't their fantasy but probably it could be with someone else. Or maybe they get off with something else. I can't complain although I do a little. I'm the opposite; if I love you i want you to be rough xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:31 AM
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You can be socially ostracized from bullying. Hopefully he'll be handsome though xD I've been bullied but I'm a girl. I grew a little above average looking and it stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:50 AM
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I hope that having a strong father figure and a nurturing mother figure will help. We can just hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:34 AM
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Regular people, I don't know how to define them, I met them through friends, Ive never had ons only people I date for a while. They're normal, they had girlfriends before me, my current So was married and is divorcing. I don't know if this is what you were asking. Edit: they're very sexual, which is great, just very sweet and hardly rough. They have a hard time being rough too. Almost everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:24 AM
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That's what I meant in not being an easy victim, however I agree. I hope he doesn't look and act like the weak wimp to pick on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:23 AM
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I don't care about your categories, I was pointing out the fatlogic in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:26 AM
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It's a certain way to be unattractive. I'm just pointing out the fatlogic, I understand that people can be butt ugly even while fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:03 AM
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I wish men cared less about my pleasure and were more degrading! I always find them too gentle and sweet. However I agree that the phrase about being a slut is stupid, but they realise they're happy that we (in the case of significant others) don't do it. I honestly find that it takes a while to enjoy sex together - I can't orgasm if I don't trust someone as it takes a while and you have to do specific things I truly wish more men were or had been harsh with me, that's the problem of my sex life…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:36 AM
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It doesn't matter why, a man trying to help other men or women will not have the samr success, hence women have a bigger safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:28 AM
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There is no possible way someone remains fat if they eat a healthy dose of calories. Calories in < calories out, for frigging sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:27 PM
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You out it better than I did. everyone's life sucked back when all jobs when dangerous and there were no antibiotics. Everyone worked, including children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:25 PM
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Women have a bigger safety net and more people likely to help, but I do agree that when people talk about the other sex they often refer to the top 20% of that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:24 PM
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He shouldn't accept bullying, he should be able to defend himself. Hopefully he will not be an introvert and an easy victim and he'll find a role in life, some place in the world for him. hopefully he'll find strength to become who he wants to be, I'll love him no matter what but I'll try to point him to the right direction. The father will be a great role model. I hope he doesn't get addicted to things like cigarettes, videogames or drugs, but we can work it out if he does, anything but death h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:22 PM
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You gotta be confident and not be afraid of talking to a crowd, along with being over average. Having a lot to go on socially isn't as easy as everyone says.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:47 PM
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Nah, being attractive makes people want to fuck you. People don't want to fuck your lack of judgement, that's just a plus (and some people might even not care then). Being "likeable" isn't as easy for everyone - it's usually a result of positive social reinforcement when young, and not everyone had that. So some people are socially inept with no fault and have to work through that before they canbe successful with the desired sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:03 PM
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Career. You can build a career and do everything else; not so much being a housewife or a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:47 PM
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That's the equivalent of "get out and put yourself out there" which I still find useless for the people who get constantly rejected - try to improve what's making you unattractive to people (looks? Social ineptitude?) then put yourself out there. It's low effort advice in my opinion. Plus not many places have hippie people nor would everyone like to join (I'm repulsed by their line of thinking but I'm notoriously realistic and judgy)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:45 PM
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Nah, there's some people who are too ugly and that tanks their chances with the opposite sex, it's undeniable. I've met rude people that were attractive so they had no issue, and sweet but ugly and insecure (especially guys) people who had no luck. The world isn't just only because we want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:40 PM
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I am very judgy and divide men into categories based on how attractive I find them, how socially able they are and how socially strong they are. It's not the same lingo but it's the same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:38 PM
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Except that some adults fuck like teenagers and that's what some people want, instead of being someone's safe choice or a partner they're bored of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:36 PM
1

People can't multitask? They can't study and date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:29 PM
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It's a stupid word. People don't choose to see something in a sexual way and seeing something as sexual doesn't exclude all the other purposes a person could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:26 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:19 PM
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You see your reality, I've seen some as well. The problem lots of men have isn't meeting women, it's rejection I don't know if I'm discussing this with you in the other thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:59 PM
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You don't only get rejected when you approach. People get rejected beforehand. People many times make it clear when they aren't attracted to you and don't appreciate your presence, sometimes just because of looks and because they think you'd get clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:57 PM
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Rejection doesn't only happen when one person approaches, many times it's before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:42 PM
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Yeah they aren't too fussed until they start missing, including marijuana and/or alcohol. You're describing ideal hippies. In any case, I don't see how this advice can be translated to reality for people who's problem isn't to meet women but that they're constantly facing rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:38 PM
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Yeah I've never met a large group of people who defined as hippies where the majority didn't make use of drugs. I don't see how this specific advice can relate to reality where people deal with consequences of actions, maybe it's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:32 PM
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Picky women aren't the problem, I think they're not someone I'd be interested in. I think people work their way out and many just want to complain. I don't know what works, I've never had to come out of a cocoon and I'm not a man. If women reject you meeting more is just going to lead to more rejection. That needs a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:26 PM
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Hippies are junkies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:24 PM
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This argument is usually dished out to shut up people complaining when they're unhappy that it hasn't worked. Telling People to stay around junkies isn't a great advice in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:21 PM
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It's not as simple as that. People who you see go out and be happy weren't people complaining on Reddit who decided to just go out, they're people who were probably never here to complain to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:07 PM
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It's got more to do with the women willing to live a hippie life style than anything. Sure, having a solid social circle and not being socially inept help, but that's something that's easier said than done for the people that have actual problems socializing due to negative interactions when young or bad looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:05 PM
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They don't want to believe tha something that's hard to change, genes, can affect your ability with women. It's a hard pill to swallow. There are things you can do to improve but positive socialization throughout childhood/teenage years and looks are very hard to balance. So they don't even allow people to rant otherwise they'd have to accept this world view. Not everyone can be a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:07 AM
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I see some Gendercritical feminists who seem to think about what's best for them and to look for good partners. They're what I consider "pink pilled". I don't know though, I agree with many of the things they say but some I don't, so I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:18 PM
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Don't date someone like me again. Look for the fucking red flags, don't get boners from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:14 PM
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People aren't born with experience. Advice from people with experience helps starting out or with someone who might not know what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:08 PM
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You're clearly misunderstanding. This isn't either about two people who know each other well or you two specifically but the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:00 PM
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You ask for subtle or few things, not everything and how to do it. That's autistic, as I said. Also in my experience lots of women want men to "get it" without being told, because being told ruins the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:53 PM
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But don't ask advice to who you're fucking either, that's borderline autistic unless you're asking for subtle things. Some people don't have experience and need guidance; I agree with the whole "ask the fisherman and not the fish".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:28 PM
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Some men can't attract that life no matter what, so the manosphere helps them vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:19 AM
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Except they don't. The good ones sell you an experience that borderline makes you believe they'd do it for free if they could because they just like you so much. There's nothing wrong, they're just as honest as anyone who sells their service through flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:24 PM
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Also... You claim to be redpill but forget one very important thing; you don't ask the fish how to catch fish, you ask fishermen. In this case women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:22 PM
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If only there was a way to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:18 PM
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There's a middle ground you know, but you seem to only think in absolutes. There's a way that normal women can stand out and improve how they look with clothes, you're denying reality if you don't realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:46 PM
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I added it in my edit. Competing with each other for men raises the average that men expect. It's ok, I never had issues even if I'm not in an Anglo-Saxon country and I enjoy grooming myself, just like I expect my partner to. Let's not pretend that the majority of men despises women grooming themselves because it's a bold lie Edit: I never said men's standards are too high or unrealistic. I think they should raise them in countries where obesity is so high Edit2: there is no truly average. Avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:48 PM
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I don't care about women's magazines or their standards. Even average takes work you know? For some women I takes a lot of work to even be average. That's what men don't seem to realize. I don't care about what you like, I have my own standards for women but don't feel the need to tell them as if my experience accounts for everyone. Women take care of themselves because it works for men. Edit: in a world where most women shave, use make up, dress up decently it's not "average" unless you do. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:39 PM
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This isn't about you but most men. I am saying that wanting to be fit, striving for a nice figure and not dressing like an 80 year old russian grandmother increases your chances with most men and some women if you're into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:45 AM
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They go to trp because they either lack normal socialization or are too ugly to have success with anyone. There is nothing unethical, some people have to be taught how to interact with others and how to overcome their weaknesses, becoming less scared of women by no longer seeing them as deity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:41 AM
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Calories in and calories out. The rest is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:22 AM
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It doesn't seem to me that the majority of men wank to slobby, flat assed and flat chested, cylinder shaped, no make up, shitty hair, granny dressed women. And of course women care about quality men, why would I want to be "enough" for an ugly or stupid guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:44 AM
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What men say and what men go for is very different. Many when talking about the ideal woman will describe a peta Jensen or Margot Robbie lookalike, doesn't mean they won't find a regular Jane attractive. Also it depends on the options the guy has, or what he sees around. Younger guys tend to have higher standards, but regardless of age I think men have a higher tendency to settle and find attractive many types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:32 AM
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Sorry, my dictionary isn't updated to millenial and new generation speech. I don't care what it means - my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:54 AM
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That wasn't my point at the beginning. I said that women who don't have sex don't miss the random sex, they miss men wanting a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:53 AM
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It doesn't matter that they're number is negligible - what matters is that women don't care about being a fleshlight for men and I was using that demographic to show you. I never talked about numbers of women who have a hard time finding men attracted to them. Men wanting to fuck you doesn't mean they're attracted to you or would like to be seen walking beside you. Sometimes guys just want to get their dick wet and they go for the easiest thing. Ever heard of practice girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:00 PM
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Nope, some men will fuck anything, especially what they think are easy targets. Go take a look at trufemcels, lots of women complaining about the lack of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:43 PM
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I don't see women who can't get casual sex crying about it. They want relationships usually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:28 PM
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Yeah, the fact that people want to have sex with women helps them, sex itself doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:27 PM
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Apparently until you have sex with them, there is no set point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:29 AM
1

Yeah, it sucks for women, I can't imagine what a hormonal birth control would do to men :c
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:38 AM
1

I've never been with someone who didn't snore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:55 AM
1

That's not what introverted means. If I'm not wrong it means struggling or being bothered by social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:31 PM
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I agree, men should at least stop orbiting... For their own sake
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:30 PM
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Standards are defined by the people around you. If most people are obese the few fit ones will have even more suitors to choose from. I agree that it's crazy, but as long as overweight people are coddled and parents overweight children suffer no consequences it's going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 12:09 PM
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This is interesting, I've rarely ever seen rich families with sahm, just traditional ones or those that couldn't afford the expenses of working (car and childcare). If money and personalities allow it it can be a good arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:29 AM
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I see it as mostly poor people or people that can't afford vacations or set much money aside. It's just my feeling. I don't see why not going back to work at least part time once the kid reaches schooling age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:27 AM
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Where do you live that women are at the mercy of men who flirt with them? I realize most men do the chasing but women can and do make themselves visible to the men they like. They approach, flirt, joke, look for excuses to be around. If a guy is interested and he picks up the girl is trying to send signals then you'll get a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:26 AM
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Men should be more picky. It's the only way to make sure that women have to work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:24 AM
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Only if the woman is young and good looking, otherwise it's useless. So a minority of women. I've met very few men that would be happy to let a woman lead and/or be submissives in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:17 AM
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All sorts of shit happens when we're kids, what kind of behaviour do you expect from teenagers? Having orbiters is the least of a whole list of bad behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:15 AM
1

Unless it's temporary I'd have a hard time. I'm very ambitious and passionate about my job. I want someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:10 AM
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I agree with you, no idea why the downvotes. People don't understand that different crimes require different legal definitions and consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:08 AM
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Not if you're ugly. In that case no amount of status or money will help. I don't disagree with the rest, I guess it gets equal towards the top with very very handsome men having a few more useful years (very rare ones, most men's looks decrease as their bellies grow and hair starts thinning)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:03 AM
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Why do men frigging stick around? Everyone's going to take what they can, legally, if you're not careful. The "orbiter zone" exists (friendzone doesn't exist, because friends are something important and rare), why can't men be more careful about who they wine and dine? Because rejection sucks, I know, and some guys punch way out of their weight class. The point is you can control what you do, not what women do. Don't be stupid, you know what women are like when they like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:01 AM
2

Of course he'll struggle with an introverted personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:45 AM
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Why should a woman choose a worse option if she has a better one? Men would do the same if they could. If men as a whole started being pickier everything would be balanced. I understand your rant though, although men tend to evaluate themselves and others by their rmv rather than the smv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:42 AM
1

If you think everyone can see through anything then you're pretty naive. I agree that major red flags are missed by morons or people that are too good thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 03:53 PM
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You give the impression of thinking that everyone is in control of everything. Sometimes people are good at hiding things or making them look waaay better than they are. We aren't robots with incorporated lie detectors. In the case of serious red flags being ignored I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 03:30 PM
2

That's plain stupid, I hope they had a good reason besides people complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:09 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:53 AM
1

Ok so a few men who get rejected by women and stop using tinder will make dating apps lose money and go bankrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:18 PM
1

Even then tinder makes money off people that fail or those who look for more fun, not those who get married happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:59 PM
1

Tinder cares to sell tinder premium, if it can make you think 9$/month will get you more matches it great. There will always be a lot of men on dating websites. Mgtow won't make dating apps fail, no matter how much they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:53 PM
2

Meh I never understood them. To each their own, I just prefer men serving in military and police positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:51 PM
1

What jobs did women ask for that require strength? Military? I agree, that was stupid. Some rights should include deciding before pregnancy, not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:32 PM
1

I agree we should correct the system, I never said it's right or fair. I said that giving men the same rights women have without giving them the burden of pregnancy and being the weaker sex, because it's impossible, will make things worse in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:19 PM
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I didn't say it's ok or that it's fair. I said it's the lesser evil. I didn't say all men don't want to. I said that they can easily abandon women they got pregnant even after agreeing to it. What would be fair would be to decide based on each singular case, but that would end benefitting those that have the highest paying lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:38 PM
1

What's the point? Why use the wrong words for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:21 PM
-2

Sexual mating strategies are dualistic and different. Allow men to get away with getting a woman pregnant and telling her to screw off and you'll start seeing all sorts of people doing it. Had an agreement to have a child but changed your mind since your lover became pregnant and no longer caters to your every whim? Financial abortion! It's not fair but it's the less worse of the two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:00 PM
1

Tinder lives by the 80/20 rule, or 95/5, so I doubt it's of importance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:11 PM
-1

It's impractical, if men's side wins it will not benefit families in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:39 PM
-6

When women are given the upper hand, they make children with unwilling men. When men are given the upper hand they rape and pillage. So..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:06 AM
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Having a string of relationships not defined by betabuxing and being average looking is my definition of success. Yes, you realize when someone checks out even without announcing it. The few ones I know (the plural of anecdote is not data I know) who stopped pursuing women were the ones who were constantly being shot down, or had horrible divorces and/or kids. Tons of people on the internet announce it, and it's ok, everyone should feel free to rant or talk on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:59 AM
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I doubt that single men who have never divorced actually check out completely, especially if someone comes along the way. The few guys I know who checked out of women did so because they were forced to. We rarely hear of successful men checking out of the dating scene. So I agree it's mostly cope and it's fine, it's just funny when they act like the world will crumble without them. Most men are doing fine, life is no longer fun after a certain age for many people not just married ones. I'm glad …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:21 AM
0

Nobody said like 20 years old where did you read that? Just still lust and want each other. Sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:19 PM
3

Some people still have an active sex life in their 80s, to the point where they're worried about their hearts not making it through the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:25 AM
1

You've never heard people in their 80s who still love and lust for each other? There's plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:36 AM
1

If I have to write it you're too much of an insecure person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:30 AM
1

The men who are obsessed with it are usually those who have no luck with women. My issue isn't with the preference, it's that I've never heard someone who was good looking talk about it, even in real life. That's my red flag, I see it as a slight form of autism or associate it to their bad luck in dating since men who do well with women at least don't talk a lot about their virginity or n count preferences. Lots of men rightfully want a virgin woman because they're virgins themselves, and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:37 AM
2

They're the only ones that can make other men do it. No woman will ever be threatening enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:48 PM
24

That's setting you up to be a walking amt. Most men don't have an smv as high as women to begin with so the drop isn't as high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/19 07:49 AM
1

What podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:46 AM
1

I just see her as someone who has the same innate or acquired capabilities/motivation/hard working as the men who are good at it. Not everyone's good at stuff starting right away, men have to overcome obstacles and handicaps too, just less women excel in fields that men do but it doesn't mean it's easy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 03:02 PM
1

I see the extra credit as a vagina ward, you know? You did something, cool, no need to make a big deal about it because you're not a special needs kid. You're a person good at it, you get the credit that people good at it receive, based on how good you are (or whatever the metric for credit is)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:54 PM
1

I was in high school and until a few years ago actually. I've gone off the other end now and it serves as a purpose to be as judgy and as bitchy to others a fraction of what i am to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:54 AM
1

I have tits but I don't want a man with tits. I'd love to be a sahm but I wouldn't want a man who aspires to that. Everyone has double, triple, quintuple standards because we make choices that benefit us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:24 AM
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Less rational? Yes. Inferior? No. I don't believe men by nature are anything you listed, neither that women destroy societies. I believe that someone is loyal, emotionally, virtuous etc if they prove to be. otherwise amalt applies. men are more romantic because they are required to. Men and women are good in different things and when a small subset of women want to claim that all women are as good as all men in male dominated fields I think it's wrong and demeaning to the few women good at it. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:21 AM
1

I knew one outspoken feminist... Sigh... Me >.<
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:50 AM
2

I mentally lump together trp with pua (males only), mras with mgtow but mgtow with incels too, I don't lump mras and incels together though. I know they're very different and can sort of tell, I just lump together the kind of men that you're more likely to find in these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:01 PM
1

They're all taken where I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:41 PM
2

Omg are you me? It's sad really, although I think there was only a brief moment in history where many women didn't work. Poor people always did. The difference was that high earning jobs were left for men who could in turn provide for families. We could survive on his wage but we'd be in middle/lower class like you say. How old are you? Are you in USA? How much do you want as a nurse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:33 PM
2

Depends how much you're paying me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:30 PM
1

Bdd is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:28 PM
2

I must misunderstand what large jaw means. Both the model you consider ugly and manly and the genetically elite one have big jaws for me. This woman, a famous model, has a big jaw http://www.glamour.com/images/beauty/2015/05/rosie-huntington-whiteley-blush-makeup-mad-max-1-main.jpg but she's attractive and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:19 PM
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There's plenty of beautiful women with large jaws and beautiful looks. Above average doesn't mean "genetically elite". Edit: the pic you posted, the model has a big jaw as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:13 PM
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Small nose, nice jaw and chin, nice full lips, round cheekbones, eyes are pointed downwards but they have a beautiful shape. I don't like her hairstyle but her bone structure is good. What's above average and feminine to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:42 PM
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Those girls are above average. They have very pretty feminine features and look slim. What do you consider above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:09 PM
1

I don't know about other people, I never discussed such things before sex, they weren't required for trust (and most men don't require trust to be down to fuck)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:20 AM
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Yeah it makes sense. I'd include participation in abortion fees if needed. As long as it's signed before sex, although I can't imagine many guys bringing it up before sex and ruining their chances!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:09 PM
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I think it's neutral, and I actually am happy that my so doesn't see all my flaws like I do. He's just turned on and it's reassuring. I actually notice though that women tend to post handsome men that aren't as polished as the ones posted by men. They are more rugged, manly and with flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 02:23 PM
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Well most women don't want to fuck other women, when they do it's not that hard, most are super picky of themselves and many see "rough elbows" on women that are a 9.9999999/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:32 PM
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There's all sorts of discrimination, most people choose a field where they don't have the odds stacked against. When women enter male dominated fields it makes sense that people are more likely to trust men, at least until women have proven themselves. There's a reason why some fields are dominated by one sex, and many times it's because one's more suited for that job. Changes take time to happen and if it will happen it requires hard work, not shoving down people's throats that they're monsters…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:30 PM
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Yeah it was more of different kind of sexy or something. If I can find it we can discuss it better, I don't think i passed the message well!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:21 PM
1

What would you change about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 10:33 AM
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Someone a while back, it must be Atlas, posted a difference between cute and sexy features on women. Cute ones were more related to neoteny and femininity, such as triangular shaped face, soft eyebrows and others I don't remember, while sexy women had a mix of masculine features such as wide jaw with high cheekbones and other features I don't remember either. The girls you like are the ones I imagine all guys in university falling in love with because they are extremely pretty but not too over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:44 AM
1

I don't get it either, there's some doctors that did awful stuff when kids yet we respect them for what they achieved as they turned their life around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:27 AM
1

There's no role for punctuation either apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 10:14 PM
2

That's the one thing i envy the most of women who don't work, they don't have the hardened shell that working shitty jobs gives you and which you can't survive without.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 10:10 PM
2

Yes, even having it from curves alone and not fat is almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:17 PM
1

Up to a moderate use, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 11:25 AM
3

How rare, attention seeking women who do everything to claim they do their job well instead of working. Unless they're actually facing problems (beyond those of economical nature such as paid mother leave) I don't see what this aims to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:35 AM
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It's only a minority of the population who workout enough to skew the results while having a low bf%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:30 AM
1

Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:24 AM
1

Probably yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:15 AM
1

And if only feminism arrived back them it would all have been different, for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:11 AM
1

And women were definitely better off alone, unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:08 AM
1

I'll stand corrected, marriage existed to oppress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:06 AM
1

I'll try!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:55 AM
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The majority of women don't look like Kim at her BMI, they look fat. Just like it's only a minority of men with a BMI of overweight or obese that have a low fat %.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:54 AM
1

Whenever women say they aren't aroused by muscles I'd post a picture of a hot, muscular doctor dressed in his uniform and I'd still like to see how many wouldn't take him over a regular bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:45 AM
1

Nope I didn't, do you suggest them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:34 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:28 AM
1

XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:22 AM
1

Nope, people got married because oppressing women was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:22 AM
1

It's been many years..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:21 AM
0

Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:59 PM
1

I was about to say "but they can lose weight" but then I remembered it's not true, it's a mental illness..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:41 PM
1

I'd pull a good old iron maiden...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 08:23 PM
3

Rereading I missed the attention part. I'm not sure I agree that bp is wrong because I have never read that there's no man on earth that the majority of women wouldn't fuck even in their minds. I mean it's not rp though, isn't it well accepted that most women would love to be wined dined and bedded by some super hot celebrity, like a 2000s brad Pitt? Besides the loud minority that wants to signal how much they wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:21 PM
2

I don't think I'm passing my point across..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:12 PM
3

Yeah what I mean is that flirting is cheap, it costs nothing, a player is someone who fucks women not someone who flirts a lot without concluding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:07 PM
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There's Women that flirt with anyone and have a flirty way of acting. Some do it on purpose, my mom used to call them "perfumers" because they make guys smell the scent with no intention to give anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:01 PM
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Flirting is nothing compared to fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:59 PM
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The fact that these men exist without needing guidelines and that most women don't fuck these guys actually proves the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:33 PM
1

Yeah, they survived on air only and worked for glory /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:24 PM
1

Oh god I discovered my favourite dish ever I'm Briancon.. tartiflette!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:22 PM
1

Nope, I even touched boobs that looked like fake but were real and i somehow prefer the fake ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:21 PM
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Much better than real ones, real ones are too soft haha! I prefer both looks and how they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:47 PM
1

Southern France??? What part? I love France I visit at least twice a year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:47 PM
1

It's a litmus test
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:17 PM
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I'm no feminist but it's common sense to consider any man dangerous until you get to know him better. My granma told me not to go in cars, houses or tents alone with stranger men I didn't know, or even with older ones. What's wrong with taking generalized precautions regardless of your "ism" or pill affiliation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:08 PM
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I know that where I am, Italy, it's illegal but there's websites with reviews of prostitutes. What they do, what they don't, if they practice starfish sex, how much they cost, phone numbers. It's cool, I'm sure there's websites like that everywhere. I wouldn't go to a streetwalker either, well I did once because I wanted to feel how fake breasts felt on the hand as I was considering getting them xD but that's another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:51 PM
2

If men stick around the quality of kid's life goes up by a lot though. Don't most men have to initiate things themselves? Or did I misunderstand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:44 PM
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I don't think people will actually adhere enough to make it significant, but try going to an ER that day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:36 PM
1

I don't know if it's doable in other less rich and less social states, it could have its use, even though I don't know if going for a prostitute is that hard even where it's illegal, or it's just people who don't like the idea of going (because paying for something that most people do for free sucks) and postpone it with the excuse that it's illegal, if you know what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:30 PM
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Oh I think it's more of a man's job to teach male kids how to interact. And even then most people do fine without muscles or specific learned game, just by not hearing bullshit and wrong things such as putting a blame on the kid, which I feel is what women do when they claim that men are pigs - when getting closer to puberty everyone develops sexual needs and saying that they're wrong is damaging to development. The things we discuss are all first word problems, it doesn't make them less importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:28 PM
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No you didn't say it yet, and I'm curious. I don't see it harmful either, there are many women that don't choose it (especially very low price brothels even in places where it's legal) but if a woman chose it it's a service she offers. I like the idea of offering the disabled sex a few times a year, there should be a way to include extreme loneliness inside disabilities. After deciding this and seeing how much it would cost it could be doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:19 AM
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I'm curious of the brainwashing you received. Were your parents married? What was it like? By well adjusted I mean physically and personality wise, not being chubby of course! Having friends, a girl or two, doing ok in school, not being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:15 AM
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Whoops I stand corrected! I guess information don't need to use another person's body while sex does? What do you propose, government paid hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:59 AM
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Yeah, I'm talking about attraction, not offspring and how a beautiful stupid woman has better chances than a man, because he can't shut up Well adjusted boys don't need trp to have success. If it comes natural it's the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:55 AM
1

Bruh you're the only one saying internet is a human right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:51 AM
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I love how emotional this all is, it's like you're trying to hit all the stereotypes checklist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:43 AM
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I'll survive even if you avoid me sweetheart, I'm with an equally disgusting sexist man and we will happily make little disgusting sexist kids 8)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:26 AM
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Rp refutes feminism and tries to be rational (fails but doesn't get emotional about things), feminism hates rp but doesn't even try to be rational, it mostly appeals to feelings and emotions so they're opposite in strategy and end goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:18 AM
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No, internet is not a human right either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:14 AM
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Being good looking is more important than being nurturing from the looks point of view. Take it this way; a handsome son will have positive reinforcement from society leading to confidence and other positive character traits, an ugly one won't, he'll work with tides against him. This is an absolute example. Plus being an attractive woman doesn't mean you'll be a bad mother, positive reinforcement works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:14 AM
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I'm actually straight but I've had my share of fun with ladies too. It's nice to read the emotional jerk reaction of "I disagree with you so you must be a low success sexist male"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:12 AM
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The post talks about attraction not about being a good mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 09:23 AM
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1 how is it damaging? Lol people you see on screen are like that so someone is in the world. 2 yes, women feel threatened otherwise they wouldn't claim that those things are unrealistic. They are real because they do happen. 3 cool, porn isnt supposed to be equal, it's a market that sells a product which works fine. There's porn geared towards women too you know? If you're not happy with the way your sex life is it's on you. 4 lol k sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 08:31 AM
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Please reply in the main post next time if you're inquiring about it. Unrealistic? That's exactly the point of my edit. Porn is a fantasy it shouldn't be realistic. It's women who are setting a standard that's too high for the majority, enjoying anal, facials and thinking about men's pleasure first (like some women do during regular sex as well gasp) What, are men going to be expecting porn like sex from women, to focus only on their pleasure? Who cares about women's pleasure during porn, porn i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:29 AM
2

I was asking myself if all hose posters were gay with those hunk pics in their sigs but them I remembered that on ED forums girls all have models in their sigs..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:03 AM
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As a man you still have many options to fuck up. As a woman much less, if you're incredibly beautiful and stupid (but smart enough to recognize it) just shut up and you'll be seen as quiet and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:55 AM
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You should read the whole conversation above if you haven't. If you have tell me what's not clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:49 AM
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Replying to people above who don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:33 AM
1

Bringing food to the table doesn't sound like teamwork to you? Working fields together? Nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:31 AM
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I've heard people say that sex and human company is a need, not a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 09:09 PM
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For what? Feminism that fought for sexual liberation? Or the "oppression" of women sexuality? I've seen that happen irl, I don't think everything needs to have a peer reviewed study to be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 09:07 PM
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A strawman read from feminist's opinions. No one's a true feminist and they're all strawman huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:12 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:08 PM
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Safe and effective abortions and contraceptives didn't exist. Yeah patriarchy meaning women who didn't want other women to make sex too available and lose their commitment to men. Most men would jump on the idea of free sex. It wasn't as barbaric within societies but things went wrong more than they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:04 PM
1

A minority did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:02 PM
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If a girl feels shame for her actions she should question the reason why she's doing them. Regardless of what they are. Shame should be questioned not buried down because it's "wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:01 PM
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I mean you hold women to a lower set of standards than you hold men to. A different set of standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:01 PM
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Controlling women's sexuality is equally as important, if not more, to women. The problem is that we think those things are backwards, but life was tough for everyone and having a happy ever after ending was not an option for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:00 PM
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Women didn't fight wars. I'm looking for source about the property+vote it was an isolated event.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:59 PM
1

It doesn't sound like you're trying to change my mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:10 PM
1

Yep there's few handsome old guys but those that are good looking are really yummy. Doubly so if they're taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:55 PM
1

It does it does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:46 PM
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You should tell that to people who make those claims. Why say we should be equal anyway? Men and women are different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:45 PM
1

I didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:44 PM
2

Yeah bitching is a women's thing, not men's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:34 PM
1

Men have the option to rape women, women don't, monogamy is their best option in most cases as it has ensured survival for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:33 PM
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That's what I refer to expecting people to like whatever you are. They don't like expectations, just when their choices aren't the ones appreciated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:29 PM
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I don't agree with feminism, I'm stating why people don't like people who talk about others like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:27 PM
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The one I posted in op
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:21 PM
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You seem too passionate Women don't fuck guys they don't like and guys who talk like that sound autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:08 PM
2

Guys dump women too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:05 PM
1

No one was free except the few rich people. Women didn't want other women to be sexually free is the point of the post. Men did (except their wives and daughters)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:03 PM
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Do women say so? Women have a different love language afaik Did something specific happen to you? I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:01 PM
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Nothing has to do with feminism, feminists aren't feminists, nothing is feminism except feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:58 PM
2

Men have a higher need of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:55 PM
2

That still leaves a room for lots of handsome men!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:53 PM
1

Nope, even hundreds of years before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:52 PM
2

Oh that happens to anyone who isn'tt clingy and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:51 PM
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Now imagine a time when you wouldn't be able to survive well alone and pregnant without a man, in that case traditionalism - getting married in your 24/25 to a man who helped support your family - doesn't look so unappealing. Women needed traditionalism for the family to survive when technology didn't exist is what I mean. Most men if they could would fuck whatever moves that looks good, without worrying about marrying one woman to have many kids and support her in the old age. They'd at least h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:51 PM
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Women don't want "men" they want someone they like, and they'll fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:43 PM
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I am talking about sex positive feminism and all that is sex positive opposed to traditionalism. I am stating that these cultures and power structures it's trying to change are upheld by other women and benefit , or used to benefit, said women. Most of the cultural structures were enforced by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:31 PM
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I can see how one can confuse them, lots of pink faced people /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:27 PM
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I dont see why we should care. I mean it's a high risk regardless which I personally wouldn't take and I wouldn't advise any of my friends to take. I don't trust men with too many options and since I can't control other people's actions I control mine and avoid them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:25 PM
1

No point discussing then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:21 PM
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They weren't more oppressed, they were more protected. Glass ceiling and glass cellar. I'd like to go back discussing op.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:21 PM
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It doesnt matter because life as a lonely woman was worse, i don't see how you fail to see that. Have you ever studied history? Did you know how people lived and how violent times were a few hundred years ago? Imagine being a single mother in 1300s Europe. You'd go running to a husband who beat you when drunk in a hurry. A bad marriage was better than being a low life woman struggling. Struggling in two was better than struggling alone. Even with a violent husband because surprise, the world was…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:20 PM
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Yes everyone's life sucked, but if you didnt pair up with someone it was harder and impossibly hard to raise a family. Patriarchy and marriage 1.0 was required to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:01 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:52 PM
1

I never said they were happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:52 PM
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History isn't only made of England in 1800s. Never said matrimony is rosy, don't know where you read it. I'm saying that being married was better than not being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:51 PM
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I didn't bring them up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:47 PM
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I didn't say they were wrong. Just that their enemy was mostly other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:42 PM
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I am? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:41 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:38 PM
1

Nope, want to discuss my op? You can make your own abolitionism post if you want and put words in other people's mouths as much as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:37 PM
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Cool, want to make a post about it? I'm discussing how feminism worked mostly against the female social matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:35 PM
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I don't understand why it's so hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:34 PM
1

Others in history still weren't so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:33 PM
1

When enough women wanted the vote they got it though. It took a while but they did, and with non violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:32 PM
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They did. Try imagining living a life in those times as a woman, on your own because men aren't supposed to commit to women but cam just get them pregnant and leave. Instead of one man maybe beating or raping you, you had more than one because no man was there to protect you from other low lifes. No one to look out for you or bring food home when you were recovering from child birth. You'd be fine only if you were rich as a single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:31 PM
1

I didn't talk about abolitionism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:28 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:27 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:26 PM
1

Others in history weren't so lucky, women were always a protected category.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:26 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:26 PM
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Sur they didn't, but there were close to no deaths, one if I'm not wrong. 60 years is fast when there's no deaths involved. Some populations didn't get freedom with blood even longer than that. Do you really believe that there were no women against women's vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:25 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:21 PM
1

Black people fought and died for the vote, women didn't. There's proof of just one death if there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:21 PM
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Lower class winner benefitted too, all women did when times were tougher. Read in my op why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:20 PM
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Religious households have an interest in giving women insecurities when very young about sexuality for the reasons I explained in the post, and which is what happens until a few hundred years ago (and until a few decades ago elsewhere). A woman who's too free with her sexuality is a threat to other women. The majority of us aren't in hyper religious contexts and having sex, unless deviated when children or practicing dangerous things like multiple ons with strangers and unprotecred shouldn't nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:18 PM
1

Is it abnormal to feel guilty about multiple one night stands with strangers? There are limits of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:14 PM
2

Slaves fought and died, women didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:14 PM
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Considering that there was no blood shed it was quite fast yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:13 PM
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Yes, I actually meant the sexual revolution feminism. I still believe that customs which ALL feminism fought against were customs which did benefit other non feminist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:06 PM
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Reading back I meant not first, not third, second. The sexual revolution? I'm not even talking about the vote in the post, id like your input on sexuality. Back to the vote.. They did have power because as soon as they wanted the vote they got it. When the majority stopped believing that awarding votes to women would be bad for families and that only people who fought wars or held property (yes, even women who had property could vote) should have the right to vote they were extebded the right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:05 PM
1

How is it normal to have sex and feeling guilty about it? It's notnin my book, it's either too careless or too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:59 PM
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It's not contradictory, it's simply a rebellion against older women and customs which benefitted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:59 PM
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The majority of women. In other non mixed countries in benefitted most women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:58 PM
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Those customs benefitted women, and feminism has mostly rebelled against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:57 PM
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Responded above
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:57 PM
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Many women were fine with limiting women's power because that meant more power to their husband and didn't want other women to vote as they didn't see them fit to make decisions. Men had power but this meant that their wives had power too. If single women were being awarded power too it would remove power from the family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:56 PM
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"All those rules which people were against when rebelling were set in place because times were tougher and a pregnant woman couldn't survive on her own (sometimes even with a man), why not punish women who watered down men's commitment?" Times were tougher. Feminism would've done nothing in times like those because to survive you needed to couple up with a man. This is why women rebelled against men's and older women's rules and protections, times changed with technology and it was no longer req…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:53 PM
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Don't put words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:47 PM
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Either my English is bad, which is possible, or you're willingly being obtuse. I'll be clearer so you can't pretend to misunderstand: Patriarchy benefitted women, and some think it would still benefit them (I dont know how many and I don't know if it would)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:46 PM
5

Again, what is modern law in a jungle or medieval times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:44 PM
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Society is a mass of individuals. Being lgbt is like being a different race, opening your legs and feeling bad about it because some people don't like you for it is on you. Anyway, agree to disagree because I'm not changing my mind (on this in particular) and neither are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:43 PM
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Women against the female vote were fine with limiting other women's power ans legal rights. There's no secret whatever, just people doing their own interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:41 PM
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Legality and equality mean nothing when women aren't protected
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:41 PM
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Of course they don't, except when they do. Yeah, patriarchy was upheld by older women and physically enforced by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:40 PM
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Race =/ actions Harmless to a certain point of course. Anyway agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:39 PM
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Women have been against women's vote, have you missed that part of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:37 PM
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If you're altering your life because of someone commenting maybe you're not too happy about your life choices, aren't you? No one can make you feel shame except yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:35 PM
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Sure, another true Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:34 PM
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Technology has given pregnant women the toolkit to survive. Try surviving as a pregnant woman in a jungle or in medieval times and see how much feminism helps. The majority of people lived like shit for most history, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:34 PM
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Against the institution of marriage, except when they upload engagement rings pics to Instagram. You missed the point, or I failed to explain that these societal rules were enforced up to a few decades ago by women, and women fought them. The topless thing.. exact. Some women want them and some are against it. It's all a war between women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:31 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:29 PM
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They can do whatever they want, however I found that it's easier to not care or to avoid doing things that create problems, and it's what I'll teach my kids. Why try to change people's mind about girls sending nudes being whores when you can try and avoid doing it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:29 PM
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Cool that you don't care, this isn't about you, it's about history and how these rules have existed for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:27 PM
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I'm talking about first wave, not just third. All those rules which people were against when rebelling were set in place because times were tougher and a pregnant woman couldn't survive on her own (sometimes even with a man), why not punish women who watered down men's commitment? I see this behavior that's not only protective of their offspring, but bothered. Men don't stop liking the female form just because they get older, and women don't stop desiring lustful sex as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:26 PM
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It does when slut shaming is considered anti feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:21 PM
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Yes absolutely. It's funny that it's called feminism as it's against men. It's not, it's rules set up and enforced by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:18 PM
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It does for many people though. In any case adults who make informed decisions should be able to live life even though someone expresses dissent, disagreement or judgement, we can't all expect to live in a sterile world to avoid hurting our feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:14 PM
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You cal it worthless, in truth people pay for it and a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 10:41 AM
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He wants sex with her, she doesn't want sex with him. She can agree to take lawn cutting as a form of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 10:38 AM
2

How are things you do not part of who you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:26 AM
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He's trying too hard to hand out tough love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:23 AM
2

I've seen it happen in younger people. Among Women the most vocal about it are sluts, the less vocal are more normal girls who comment among themselves and spread the word. Young guys are terrible, I've seen them tease women who had sex with their friend or acquaintance. They probably think they don't have a chance or straight out don't like that girl, or think she's such a slut she'd sleep with them anyway after the teasing. It can be pretty brutal from both men and women, older guys seem to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:20 AM
1

I don't know, I don't have a measurement in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:14 AM
2

Handsome, tall, fit, socially smart, charming, well off economically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:11 PM
1

How dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:04 AM
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They're called freedom units
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 08:45 AM
1

You can learn to fuck better but not to have a bigger dick. A decent size dick gives better orgasms, somewhere along that line is the "above average" beyond which it becomes unpractical, and it's quite low personally because I'm small down there. My so was surprised when I called his dick a monster dong. Above average>average>small
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 08:44 AM
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Isn't this a basic expectation, to want to be the best and last for your so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 03:05 AM
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You should worry about yourself and not about women, because clearly something's not working out for you and you're hoping that women will turn around their act to benefit you. The sad truth is that most of the ones who aren't ok with the dating game are those who are losing at it; guys who never had a chance and in smaller proportion women who had a chance but should retire. Others just don't care and look for someone with their values. Edit to add: your thinking doesn't come from morality but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:59 AM
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I know it doesn't matter to you but I'd like to see the mental sanity of the women chasing these psychos. I know that a hole is a hole, but I'm pretty sure they're not mentally stable. Chasing someone like a rapper or a rich old guy I'd understand, but low life power? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:55 AM
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I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:51 AM
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get on their moral high-horse I've never seen this happen offline, but is it that surprising when there's ugly millionaires with young wives, maledom erotica and handsome guys getting laid all the time? I know you said surprise isn't the while story but is this some kind of epiphany men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:49 AM
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Why is this surprising? I mean before stuff like fifty shades of grey went mainstream I could understand guys being oblivious but women are naughty for the men they like and sometimes that means accepting straight forward avances or actions. Besides we're only seeing success, not the hundreds of women who ignored him or insulted/rejected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 10:12 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 06:10 PM
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It is unless one (read: the man) had too much sex to stop considering it special Shaming Take your Tumblr speech elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:53 PM
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Nah they think you're a sucker who won't say no and they think it's worth a try
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 02:02 PM
1

Really? I'm tired the whole fucking time. I envy them, I'm in bed by half past nine every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:57 AM
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Danger situations increase romantic and sexual feelings, there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:55 AM
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He'll never know what he's missing out on if he doesn't partake in it. Anyway he should do what he wants and I'd advise women who are looking to form a family to find a man who hasn't gotten sex out of his system but who still finds it special.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:49 AM
1

I've recently fallen in love with Christy Mack and her work, even though I hate punk chicks with tats! I was reminded of you and how you like those things instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 08:39 AM
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Yeah that kinda gave it away besides the critical/borderline trolling/fun posts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:40 PM
1

Are you the user sips sparkling water? Your posts are like that person's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:35 PM
1

Yeah, full lips. White people aren't just Anglo-Saxon pink with pink skin and no lips! My tan looks like that in summer, it's bad for skin but it makes people look better, as if you don't need concealer. How is hair dye fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 09:37 PM
1

Yeah I always saw men's rating more nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 08:49 PM
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Really? I have 4 degrees which I rate men with, the scale is 1 to 4, where 1 is a stern no and 4 is a fuck yes. A 2 can turn into a 3 with enough alcohol or personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:30 PM
1

not hard or expensive to get. Oh god the envy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:33 PM
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It doesn't fail a lot. People fail taking it. You're missing my point, go and read about past societies!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:14 PM
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I don't know, I think they miss that women aren't turned on just by that, but given the choice of having a guy like that with a manly personality, a good job, a healthy social circles women would take it. Don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:11 PM
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It's not fail proof like bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:10 PM
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It wasn't a thing like now. Now men can jizz inside you and if you take your pill regularly you won't get pregnant in two lifetimes. I meant that commitment has always existed alongside sexual liberty but there has never been a successful birth control and safe abortion, along with women being self sustaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:04 PM
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Sure because people still need to pair up to grow children and make a family. There never has been an example before of all this (sexual liberty and "modern" society) with people opting out of having children and growing families thanks to birth control. That makes women hypothetically able to be side chicks forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:54 PM
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But pictures of abs do work in attracting girls on online dating, they don't work if you're an ugly mofo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:52 PM
1

What? Who says that whites don't have lips and tan? Her hair looks very much like a white person's hair, and if died hair are fake then most women are. I'm just not seeing this fake look, she has very attractive features and a small frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:51 PM
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The r is a typo :) Women wouldn't get commitment, it would be fleeting and men's resources would be divided among many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:36 PM
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Hot young guys can do whatever they want and girls will still want them. Drama, cheating, if he's hot it doesn't matter. An ugly lonely guy sees this, hears all the complaints about the asshole and advertises how nice he'd be, except he doesn't have the choice to be an asshole, so he doesn't think he's lonely cause he's ugly/socially awkward/whatever you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:36 AM
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You don't? I thought it was jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:27 AM
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Woman 7 looks quite real to me, the farthest from fake except the contacts. I can't help but think that there's a bit of "pointy elbows" mentality, but I'd do them so my opinion almost doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:24 AM
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Good for you, have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 10:10 PM
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Meh her job's not to look good and it shows. I don't understand why people choose to wear these shirts and make themselves easy targets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 09:59 PM
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Yeah that's how I imagine feminists to look like. She probably fired him for other reasons and wanted to cover them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 09:25 PM
1

Does it matter less if the guy was hotter than you? Would you rather someone who never had first date sex? Would you be interested in a woman if you could know that you're the first time she fucks someone on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:30 PM
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This is the reason why i blame women for chasing married men. I consider all men too weak to resist sex, women are the ones choosing. If men could choose they'd fuck everyone so it's a non choice. ARMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:14 PM
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The hypocrisy is that most men do not like whores who sleep around Who cares about what men want? These women are looking out for what they want. I am asking in all honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:50 AM
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She wants good hot guys to commit. Besides that before seeing the other side I never understood why doing one thing (having fun) means I couldn't love and be loved, how it made me less human, less me, less interesting. I still don't see it but I understand the preference. She's giving it more easily to these guys because they have what it takes to get quick pussy, unlike uglier guys. And they're doing all this because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:40 AM
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That's been my experience. Guys so jealous they won't let you go out without them or sometimes get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:56 PM
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Women get away with shitty behavior because someone puts up with it. I feel the equivalent is to avoid handsome but cheating/abusive/maniac/ultra jealous guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:09 PM
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O don't know about others but I don't care. I've always found it flattering and since I found out that men don't like to be strung along I let them know there's nothing in for them and they don't bother me. Men's attention is worth luttle, not zero. It's the sum of all attention that validates women imo. The idea of knowing that you could find a date in two seconds, even something that doesn't lead to sex but genuinely spending time together and getting to know one another is something give for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:28 AM
1

Assuming that what you see is what you get 7 10 5 9.5 9 0 9 0 Edit: formatted votes into a more readable format
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:19 AM
1

Thank goodness I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:01 PM
1

Who cares about engineering, you make acquaintances before getting to university or working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:07 AM
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I don't look for red flags within women as I don't date them. How does someone whohas a social life not have women acquaintances unless they're avoiding him like the plague? Yeah if he doesn't have female acquaintances it's a red flag. Why does he live in sausageland lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 11:42 PM
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Social circles shouldn't be only work related. If they are it's a red flag too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 11:24 PM
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How does a normally adjusted person avoid acquaintances of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 11:14 PM
1

Friemds no, acquaintances yesm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 11:03 PM
2

Social conditioning as in words doesn't work. Consequences for the actions of men do, for the most part. What it doesn't work on is men who don't care about consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:43 PM
1

Younger men also have more access to young hot women than older ones, making the latter more "excitable"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:56 PM
1

Oh my god that must be quite a sight to see!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:07 PM
1

I used to want a male, thinking it would be easier to love him, seeing how many issues I had with my mother. I realized my mom is a half psycho and now I would like both to experience both sexes and to love unconditionally a daughter, and make her feel unconditionally loved, without abuse, jealousy, emotional incest/wheelchairing, huge expectations. I don't know, men and women can do whatever they like in this day and age, men are more likely to realize their careers but are expected to do so wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:06 PM
1

I find these traits arousing if they are paired with attractiveness and a firm, slightly dominant and manly personality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 09:02 AM
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Maybe if you leave your progeny to nail other women your kids are less likely to survive, that's the first thing that comes to my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 09:00 AM
1

Thanks for an early morning laugh xD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:31 AM
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Leggo da diversi anni.. non ricordo. In un momento di bisogno di thinspo leggevo fatlogic (ho problemi che sfogo col cibo esagerando sia nella restrizione che nellabbuffarmi ) e sono arrivata a un sito dove parlavano di una donna giovane che a avuto un figlio e poco dopo era dimagrita, li c'erano commenti della trp e un link ad un altro articolo molto di destra e da lì ancora sono arrivata a trp, poi qua :) tu?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 09:49 PM
1

Si :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 09:00 PM
1

I had no idea we're the only ones who have this system :0
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:05 PM
2

I agree with this a lot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:29 AM
3

I've had the opposite problem, men caring too much. Someone who isn't focused on your pleasure can have his attention shifted, someone who cares too much gives me anxiety and looks like he's trying too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:18 AM
1

Start a business and give the majority of your earnings away to maintain others. Countries which have a strong welfare already pay a ton of taxes with the majority of the population working. In a scenario like this I do imagine that gender roles will be stronger than ever, men working to appeal to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:43 PM
1

Yeah who maintains the machines? Who does those jobs that will always require humans? Who gets to choose who works and gets more benefits? Why them and not someone else? Also, what happens in case of a prolonged power shortage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:07 PM
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Sure they can revolt, but you can't even force people who work to share their money with people who don't. People won't live the life they're living now anyway so it's impossible to compare the gender norms and sexual uses of now to a future which will either be the socialist dream (where a few mules pull the work for everyone) or a war for those who get the benefit of being useful and rewarded for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:59 PM
1

Who says that if there aren't enough jobs those few that work will want to share their money with everyone who doesn't work? The majority of people could starve or die of malnutrition like always happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:51 PM
2

How ugly would the face be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:17 AM
1

Trudeau is handsome, women would choose the handsome one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:51 PM
1

Depends in what way you are bad and how successful you are at it. Also who it benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:47 PM
2

You asked being villain which I understood being a powerful bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:44 PM
2

Making your rules and being a villain, which means how I understand it to succeed (is this word correct? My phone doesn't like it). Being selfish isn't as easy in many cases, many people can't afford to be for fear of losing people, those who do know the people will still be there for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 06:19 PM
2

It takes more balls to do the wrong thing than the right one, it is easier to play by the rules than to create yours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 06:03 PM
1

The majority of women offline match with who they like that is at least a few inches taller. How can someone make you happy if you're with them against your will? Hint, they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 05:59 PM
2

If I didn't have a uti I'd be spilling coffee all over my smartphone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 02:02 PM
1

It's funny how in Italian negro used to be the correct term and "Nero" which literally means black was the offensive one. My grandma's much more immigrate friendly than I am and she still uses the word negro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 09:10 AM
1

What backgrounds do you think these women are? And about point two, what do you mean with obsession with avoiding superficial attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 10:34 AM
6

Women are victim when they aren't faced with positive bias and the have to prove themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 10:28 AM
3

I think she must like being spanked and choked a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 10:25 AM
1

Or, along your line of thinking, punish the woman for allowing herself to get pregnant with a man that didn't marry her, bringing a child into this world without the security of two parents. The number of pregnancy "accidents" don't match the number of birth control failure rates, so it's mostly not being careful enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:42 AM
1

No, men give a kind of love and support which friends don't. It's not about the money even though when he pays the date it feels like a treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:22 AM
1

Oh wow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:00 AM
6

But I don't, that's the point. We agree on important stuff and that's lso why we're together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:00 AM
1

Yeah, his.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 04:57 AM
2

Maybe having less to invest in life such as less strenuous work or stress makes one care less about kids being hai own. If you're sweating blood to raise them they better come from you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 08:56 PM
1

It happens in some animals (they kill offspring which doesn't belong to them) but all men are actually closet cucks /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 08:54 PM
12

Nah I want someone who can make decisions and whom I can trust with my issues to be the rock of the family Doesn't mean he's gotta be a dictator
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 08:39 PM
1

How can you find time to work with all subreddits you have to mod :0 I was reading a post on the front page from tumblrinaction and I found out you mod there too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 02:47 PM
2

That's a flair we need!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 02:38 PM
2

I do. War's not a new thing nor does it only occur between people who have money as currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 04:59 AM
2

Who cares what people think? He'll do what he decides is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 09:05 PM
2

Yeah I'm sure you and me know better than people actually making the decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 09:03 PM
3

Own it girl!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 05:21 PM
1

drug wars Don't use drugs and no one will wage war on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:12 PM
1

To those who are starving and want resources someone else has or to those who want to live better than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 01:47 PM
3

Depends. If we were in a poor country I'd go with the one that feeds me. Otherwise I'd go for bb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 01:34 PM
1

Best 1.5 euro I ever spent: getting an iced San Miguel on a beach from a walking seller
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 06:06 AM
1

Yeah it sucked. Mine was figuratively an incest, I was her emotional wheelchair, she didn't act like my mother except when it benefitted her and she was very violent for two years until I outgrew her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 05:18 AM
1

Try doing cardio /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 08:33 AM
2

I read it once on raised by narcissists, when a parent over shares things which a kid shouldn't hear from them. Abuse stories, sexual stories, rants about the other parent and his parents, I was her emotional dumpster. I coincidentally talked about it in therapy and said I didn't have the courage to stop my mother; he said I didn't lack the courage but the capacity as parents shouldn't overburden kids like that. It's ok, I enjoy ranting about it on Reddit every once in a while, there's more peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 08:27 AM
1

No problem, i felt the need to specify because it's seen as less creepy being the same sex but it felt bad. I enjoy little vents when I have the occasion and remind myself that there's amazing women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:09 PM
1

I've seen it happen even with working parents. Even when responsibilities are shared women seem to make more problems out of nowhere and getting anxious when it's not needed. That's just how I've seen it, I'm not saying how it applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:02 PM
1

Oh my father was amazing. A fucking enabler, but he's sorry. I'm a woman and it's so stereotypical that she became jealous of me after I blossomed into a curvy teen-ager
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:00 PM
2

He is sexually. He's an amazing human being but due to his illness he has less sex appeal than the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 06:34 PM
1

Nothing directly sexual but huge emotional incest by my mother, and lots of abuse. Made me very red and unforgiving towards women and the wimpy men who enable them instead of fucking smashing their face when they abuse children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:23 AM
1

Might have been the people I grew up with (not talking about my family as it's pointless) but I've generally seen that as common. Women age and become naggy, men remain fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:19 AM
1

You don't need to be desired to have a man to want to have sex with you. Have you seen some of the women that manage to get dick? Some men fuck inflatable dolls for fucking sake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:13 AM
1

Personally the hot guy/ugly wife shows make me uneasy. I felt uncomfortable being in her place and wondering how jealous I'd be, so maybe I'm not alone and others feel similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:11 AM
5

Haha no. My so crushes me even if he hugs me on top of me and "lets go" of his bodyweight with no intention to hold me down. I can't imagine if he wanted to. Something guys who ask us women why we fuck "dangerous" guys instead of feminine weaklings don't understand is that while women are vulnerable during sex compared to men, a couple having sex is vulnerable to other men or predators, so it's better to be with someone who can at least protect you from dangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:48 PM
3

This, I'll treat every man like a potential rapist or killer when getting to know him, but not on grounds of law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:23 PM
4

Have you ever had sex with someone 50% bigger than you? I can't reach his balls or the phone even if I struggle. Men are stronger than women and most of them can overpower women in sex. And it's hot as fuck. But it's always a tiny risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:00 PM
2

This argument is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 07:54 PM
3

Some women perceive men's preference as hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 05:32 AM
1

Or the good old "he's overcompensating with a big car"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 05:29 AM
1

Men love sluts, women hate them as they make commitment from men harder to get. I agree that it's fruitless to focus on a number, but it's mostly women who have an issue with easy lays, not men. When games are over and they can't find a guy to be a husband and father because he's busy getting poon that's when slut shaming happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 09:16 PM
3

Lying about wanting kids then getting a vasectomy in secret sounds pretty similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:33 AM
2

I don't know, I was raised to ignore guys like you, so if girls still choose you it's also on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:07 AM
2

We don't. Read the whole comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 04:39 PM
2

Take away make up, heels and shaping clothing and I doubt that remains true. With all those enhancements yeah, and trp often cites the okcupid stats where women rate most men below average and even the ugliest woman gets more messages than the handsome Mann.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 01:27 PM
5

Or maybe he's boring and full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 08:45 PM
5

It's an egotistical attempt to 'defend the homeland' I'm not from USA. Europeans like foreigners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:03 PM
2

You didn't refute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:51 PM
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It's easier to be attractive when you're a foreigner from USA visiting other countries. I don't think you're too smart compared to other men that women are blinded by your intelligence. Edit: if you think there's places where 4/5 of the women are attractive does it mean you'd fuck elders too there? I think you meant 4/5 of younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:47 PM
1

Can it get worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:39 PM
2

I don't know, friendships with people that don't wanna fuck me make me feel more safe and wholesome. Yes I share the feeling of avoiding sex (that's what you mean by getting fucked right?). Aa as alcoholics anonymous? I'm having some beer issues but drinking it in my PJs after work..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 08:48 AM
3

Omg link
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 08:00 PM
2

I like to think I've perfected this firm but gracious thanks-but-now-lets-move-on response. I call that "avoiding flirting like bullets in Matrix" you know the whole bend backwards stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 07:52 PM
1

I am as well. A general openness is well received by everyone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:46 PM
1

Yeah, I'm having a hard time expressing myself. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 12:03 PM
3

it doesn't and it's not comparable. Men can fall in love without a woman having more money than them or status, most women beyond teenage don't except broke bad boy chasers which are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 11:58 AM
2

manlet That word cracks me up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 09:52 AM
3

If he's 5"7 yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 09:46 AM
1

I've found many people uneasy with flirtiness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 09:39 AM
5

That doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 09:39 AM
1

It's been my experience that a fun without flirty attitude has been more successful with women as well. Being too flirty with everyone alienated some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:07 AM
5

Have you ever seen teenagers fall in love? It doesn't happen much out of teens and it's a complaint I read from men here: women get older yet their requirements increase (because unlike in their teens they're looking for someone to live a life with)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:01 AM
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It's best to catch them while young than searching among leftovers when everyone's paired up and when your looks get you less attention. Just see how much parents start to worry when a woman's single beyond 30, much more so than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:34 AM
1

I used to, a lot. Much less now, and it works better on both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:31 AM
1

She does, she can't call them out for things she probably did too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 02:06 PM
2

I feel that she can do it. She doesn't do it because she's lazy and entitled and wants to be pursued in her 30s or whatever her age is like she was in her 20s. I meant that she can't call other women whores
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:18 PM
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And no friggin pregnancy or lactation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:46 AM
1

I wasn't exactly answering op, just the comment I replied to. I was serious, not sarcastic :p
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:30 AM
1

Yeah it sucks that it's harder to stop working once you have kids because women weren't happy enough and could only see in the near future. Positive discrimination was a good thing, keeping women out of higher paying positions, so men could provide for their families and the woman only work when she wasn't pregnant or her kids young... Since women always worked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:07 AM
1

Besides being overweight they just aren't handsome. Where I am people aren't as fat, the problem is that to look handsome you need the facial features and the body. Women look slightly better because of make up and clothes, remove all make up and flattering clothes and I think the percentage of meh women matches men imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:02 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:00 AM
2

This was so interesting, thanks for taking the time to write it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:59 PM
1

Damn that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:37 PM
1

How old were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:31 PM
1

In your case. Thanks for answering, I'm very sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:23 PM
1

Most people do to a certain extent, and we all have friends and acquaintances that talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:22 PM
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Nope, most guys don't reach the handsome threshold. It's a compliment, not as good as hot, but better than "why's he even trying dressed like that" It's only not a compliment when grandmas use it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:17 PM
2

Because reality doesn't think of what should be, just what actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:16 PM
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I think she wants to scream WHORE to the women who reach out for men, forcing her to move her ass if she wants some tool, but she can't because feminism. I think many arguments feminists, even those who talk about "serious" things are about criticizing the players (men) but not the game that women run - porn, hookup culture, raising beauty standards multiple baby mamas and stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:15 PM
1

Do you know where it stems from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:12 PM
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The status I was talking about was more about social networking, not being a hobo or working a low paying shit hours job, being fun around peiple, being the friend of many people, connections, stuff like that. More social status than specifically class and economical status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:11 PM
2

your sex life or lack thereof should be private. It should but reality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 08:09 PM
1

Can I ask about your dimorphic disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 04:35 PM
1

Not for someone whose problems were looks and social status. They improve for handsome guys who had to become even more manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 04:33 PM
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Politicians have to take decisions which don't benefit everyone and sometimes they straight up hurt some people. Being feminine and nurturing will only make this process of decision harder and less rational. People pay more respect to someone they look up to for being authorities rather than soft. I trust a soft woman with my feelings, not my vote. Also non conservative women running in politics always pull the vagina card during elections and that's so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 05:04 AM
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I don't think so. I think that being an outsider in a foreign land makes it harder to have sex already and if you add the forbidden fruit image to it it becomes more irresistible. The ones who have a successful sexual life are no lonher obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 04:59 PM
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It becomes less of a big deal when you can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:53 PM
1

Beyond a certain female attractiveness money gets where looks don't for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:51 PM
1

Or they need a far more attractive man to be enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 10:11 AM
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Well teen girls like handsome teenage looking guys, wherever they're from if their peers like them too. It's still a niche thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 05:09 AM
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Being abstinent is definitely better than sleeping with 100 guys, even 20 just from an std and reputation point of view, but a future guy could prefer a sexually lax woman. I am agreeing with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 05:06 AM
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That drove me fucking crazy. Seriously? SERIOUSLY? Is this the problem? She had fake tits, how could she be a child??? People probably supported him because it benefitted them, they wanted to take advantage of the laws he made too. When it came out he was living the dream people started getting mad. God that blew my fucking mind. I've always hated him (I'm right leaning but wouldn't vote for anyone in the right) but I actually stopped in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 05:04 AM
2

Every leftist girl I know is bi Except when you get down to it, it's all pretense (like you say)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 09:08 PM
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Men want kinky shit. When the norm among regular women becomes anal anyone who doesn't do that is giving less value. It used to be sex before marriage a few decades ago. Every choice we make in life has a consequence, even choices that are considered "better", and no one owes you a relationship just because you kept your legs closed. It does make finding a relationship with someone willing to wait for your times much harder because everyone's giving sex along with companionship and closeness muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 09:07 PM
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I considered her uglier in face and it didn't even register to me as manly. Body is something else though, and somehow her eyes make up for the jaw in my opinion. But she's more believable as a fighter yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:58 PM
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I know that the ones who go are usually the ones who have no luck with women, so there isn't much to say but it's only about those that I know of. Prostitution is criminalized in Italy in some sort of way (some legal loophole but you're fucked if you pick up a girl and police sees you, I'm not sure ) and when it wasn't prostitutes were the ones doing the ugly work such as anal and blow jobs according to my mother's drunk ramblings who heard this from her drunk mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:57 PM
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Is she butch because of her face? Yeah I like slim women but don't like when they're unbelievably strong... Like no Edit: oooh casting as in movies. Yeah more believable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:31 PM
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The actress who plays Ana Lucia in lost is one of the best shaped bodies I've ever seen. Her face is nothing special but her body is everything except dyke-y! Besides that people on the internet discuss about more stuff and you're more likely to talk about stuff you don't touch offline. Many times it feels good to say that actress x which everyone wants to bang is not your type. I truly doubt that any straight man given a consequence free world wouldn't bang the actress I talked about. That said…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:17 PM
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What does legalizing change actually? It's still dudes paying for something that women give for free when they like you. Law has barely anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:09 PM
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Because violence mostly affects a part of the population while everyone enjoys and (has the possibility to) pisses off wives/girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 10:30 AM
1

Oooh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:17 AM
1

Older women are naggy and less fun. They complain a lot more, probably because they have more responsibilities, they're more jaded, it takes more effort to surprise them, they can easily drop whatever they're doing to do something with you (I miss school so much, a little scheduling and we'd hit the road!!) and they miss that fun spark that younger women have, always ready to flirt and play. It's a difference I see in men and women, where women just grow older inside faster. What happened two ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:04 AM
1

Yeah women aren't seen as harmful if they've never had a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 09:33 PM
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Old unmarried women used to take care of their nephews. Middle age single men were interesting only if they were hot rich bachelors otherwise people always looked at them with suspect. People still fear older single men, the first thing they seem to think is that they're pedos
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:14 PM
1

Don't forget that the father of the girl was always involved, unlike now. Even in regular families fathers don't vet suitors like they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:02 PM
1

Really? Finding maledom with women I like is quite hard
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 05:51 PM
1

Dammit I was really hoping to impress you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:34 PM
1

agency #girlpowah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:13 PM
1

It's not labelled sexual education and if a woman has issues with her pleasures it's because women always had problems. It took me years to find out how to feel pleasure during piv! If feeling pleasure was as easy for women they'd be having a lot more ons. The thing I'm trying to say is that maybe they are fine this way, maybe sex is no big deal (it's like that to some women), or they still have to figure out what they like. Or how to express it. Sometimes sex is a quick release for both and I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:04 PM
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In this century where every chick is trying to masquerade as a landwhale, I don't get this. There's cellulite asses being celebrated everywhere, and don't tell me they aren't because everyone can pull poses and wear tights that hide it. Beyond that I agree - sometimes an uglier woman just wants to fuck and is super happy to please yoou while a prettier one might be more interested in herself and what she can get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:44 PM
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It wouldn't drastically improve, the few ones who were incel because they had a hard time coming out of their shell would benefit from this and possibly become normies. The ones who are too fucked would probably enjoy 50$ legal fucks every now and then but would still be pissed they have to pay for something that's free to most of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:28 PM
2

This comment wins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 11:09 AM
3

How do you know they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 11:02 AM
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Your pleasure is on you. You don't need someone to baby you and if you aren't feeling pleasure you should take action, not blame it on porn, men or illuminati. Most porn caters to men because they're the big spenders. Women in porn sell a fantasy which women compete with, but they all willingly do so. Some women might not care about their pleasure, maybe they mostly find pleasure in pleasing men, some might like half and half, some might still need to come out of the shyness shell. Reducing it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:30 AM
1

Yeah it's almost hare to find the opposite in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:27 AM
1

Yeah beyond what men think it's just cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:10 AM
1

Yeah beyond what men think it's just cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:10 AM
5

It changed mine a lot and now that I'm off it I have noticed some changes I can finally get wet during sex I sometimes am wet even before foreplay so I'm ready to have quickies especially during mid month! during mid month I'm horny like a mother fucker. Like terribly so. It's amazing. I had pimples for a few months but they're gone now. They were very teenage like but they left. I didn't even change partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 02:38 PM
10

In vino veritas, so if you want to cheat you're more likely to cheat under the influence of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 06:10 AM
1

I don't get it :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:59 AM
1

Oooh we say that French stink because they don't have the bidet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:48 PM
2

Nah there's no hairy pitts here except older or unkept women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:52 PM
1

I think it depends on standards. Women too used to not shave but once many of them started to shave the ones who didn't looked weird because shaved/trimmed is sexier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:01 PM
2

God yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:00 PM
3

Jafar was so fucking hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 04:43 PM
2

sex with as many partners as you are able to attract That's a losing situation for all men unless they're dating waaaaay uglier women and they themselves are very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:24 PM
1

Sex symbols aren't created, they become ones because they're sexy. If women wanted hairy guys magic Mike would've showed your typical Sicilian butcher
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 11:30 AM
2

Ugly women don't get cat called unless they're dressed flashy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 11:26 AM
1

Don't take it personally, I wasn't talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 11:25 AM
2

I believe that the majority do, making it harder for real episodes to sound true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:59 PM
4

I think men don't just like one type, they can like Olivia Wilde's angular face but also Monica bellucci's softer face. Edit: I also think that men rationalize their taste to get turned on the most by what's most available to them. They associate some traits to being more available or more loving and like pavlovian conditioning they get more turned on, avoiding to waste time on women that wouldn't give them time of the day. Out of curiosity I rarely see lady boner pictures with tons of hair. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:51 PM
1

I have a high threshold personally. I still prefer having more options even if it means rejecting guys I don't like than having less. The number of women actually killed or abused by rejected men is so low that I'd take the risk if having to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:44 PM
2

So much for Italians being always considered too insistent ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:34 PM
2

Nope, I don't live in a bad area though. Guys just moved on and the ones that insisted too much were sent away by my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:21 PM
5

Yeah I don't get it I'm flattered by attention, I cannot imagine how it could be a problem beyond women who bragplain. I understand that it's not the case of what Atlas is saying but many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:53 PM
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I don't agree because it's almost impossible that all options are bad and that among those there aren't suitable men. With high numbers you get more chances to find interesting guys even if it's one in a hundred. I do agree that it's stupid to compare between men and women. The comparison I like is a man with the option to pay for a dinner date with hundreds of women - one or two might be interested in him but most will waste hisbtime. Women don't have to pay for the attention they receive, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:51 PM
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Only the ones with extremely high standards or really shitty circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:36 PM
3

Death by snoo snoo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:29 PM
1

Yeah me too. Sounds like something that happens to old women with high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:27 PM
2

A woman that finds herself in this position should've looked sooner or change social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:26 PM
1

I have a feeling that some women who stay with abusers are abusing themselves and that being abusive is the only way both know of getting along. These women are just better at hiding it. Most times I think it's lack of self esteem or women with abusive childhoods that are looking for the same behaviour their parents or whoever had in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:22 PM
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It actually happens often among circle of friends to see couples pairing up. They go from acquaintances or friends to a couple. The issue is when the interest in one sided only, from the guy to the girl. i agree with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:26 PM
1

It's a good thing we have c sections then!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:10 AM
4

Back in the patriarchal times everyone lived like shit, not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:08 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. It's a place for men to discuss and to improve, they like to use crass language to get their points across and don't give a fuck. They have a certain idea of women which one might not agree with, and the ones "hating" usually do so from a position of no power; they've been hurt or had bad luck with women. Misogyny has lost its meaning, but I'm so used to regularly hearing same things about men that I don't associate them with misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:05 AM
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Hello there!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:01 AM
2

Op asks women a personal question, so I'm talking about me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:59 AM
2

I meant someone who follows what they say and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:58 AM
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It's a huge red flag. Yeah cool, one trp success story out of how many? I don't care, I care about what being a follower of trp means and the consequent problems people have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:27 PM
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Nope, I don't want an idealist. Just someone that can still fall madly in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:26 PM
1

Because we're talking about trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:25 PM
2

Take the number of socially adept people and compare them to the number of economically successful people, anyone can be socially successful, most people are integrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:25 PM
1

XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:33 PM
1

That really looked like a dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:30 PM
1

That's unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:29 PM
1

:0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:01 PM
2

I never said that there's something that has to work for everybody, and I'm talking about guys who I'm already attracted to and which I've already invested time in. Otherwise devotion is repulsive. I don't know your situation and I find most of the advice stupid. I'm sorry though, it must suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:55 PM
2

Posers? Metal posers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:54 PM
2

Being a social cripple just makes everything harder. Why go for that when the majority of people are more or less well adjusted in a social environment? Without counting that being a cripple socially and being on trp guarantees being cynical and jaded. Oh my god. I get it that you're all trying to find a HA! moment but most people face difficulties, they just don't need to become social cripples with no friends, kissless virgins or be NEET to become well rounded beings. That's what bottom, socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:53 PM
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I don't care about failures. I don't want to date a social cripple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:47 PM
2

Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:47 PM
2

Because thw majority of people don't know what Reddit is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:46 PM
2

Talent, earned talent, work, something that's more difficult than simply learning how to act around people, or not being unlucky to be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:46 PM
2

Already got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:33 PM
2

Yeah so? I also want him one foot taller and bigger than me, talk about that imbalance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:26 PM
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Probably, it's not my experience and I'm not interested in a guy who needed help from internet to learn how to socialize. There's plenty of hot interesting guys who are so naturally if I wanted to catch a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:21 PM
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That I want a man who can dream and trust me completely, and who'll think sex with me is the greatest shit because he hasn't had much sex, just enough to not be totally unprepared. No, I don't think anyone's lowering themselves to be with someone they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:18 PM
2

I am not understanding, although I agree that you can't negotiate desire!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:14 PM
2

Anitapk was suggesting that merely having a vagina means men should be awed by and admire women. Nope. I said that a jaded/cynical man that's in love with a woman is less likely to be in awe and admiration. I'll be taking fucking good care of you so you better pull out the puppy eyes along with your masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:10 PM
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I've seen and felt (feel) awe and admiration. It's magical and lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:08 PM
2

That's never gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:06 PM
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Saving this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:03 PM
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Being a social cripple doesn't make you any stronger. Being a well rounded and well adjusted person who learns to deal with difficulties growing up and can recover from hits they take is what I'm talking about. Having a good social network, not being ugly, having friends and girlfriends. A good family possibly. Never said people only have to go up, why take things to the extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 07:59 PM
2

Most people have basic socials skills Being a successful entrepreneur actually requires talent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 07:54 PM
2

Arpalt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:43 PM
2

I prefer people who can pull themselves up without reaching the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:42 PM
2

Nope, in a world where you can't compare apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:42 PM
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Have you seen old family pictures? People were slim but I've hardly seen any lookers except the rarity. Most women didn't have time, money or the habit to make themselves look feminine. Having sex meant risking pregnancy or risky abortions later on, and many men saw prostitutes so marriage sex life mustn't have been that great. It's better for the majority of men just for the way women look (in Europe), most of them have sex before marriage and they even dump prudes who don't put out. It might'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 03:07 PM
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There's different kinds of admiration, not just the one you reserve for your father or the people you want to become like. Anyway, you get the point. Jaded =\= no bueno Trp men are welcome to chase whatever works for them, I wouldn't date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:58 PM
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Choose whatever words you will, whatever words to describe how men who aren't jaded treat their loving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:32 PM
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Awe and admiration for women and relationships is why these men touch the bottom and reach TRP Most men do fine with awe and admiration, living relationships spontaneously. Those who don't are either ugly or socially problematic. I don't care what women do, I don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:24 PM
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He's less likely to expect it whereas a girl who tried anal already might piss him off by turning down the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:53 PM
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It does. Someone who starts life with better tools is much more likely to make it through better. I don't care how much you worked, if you were a socially awkward person and now you're less so, it still makes you less socially adept than me. Let's not forget that being cynical and not able to fall madly in love is another reason for not liking terpers, I mentioned it above.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 11:33 AM
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Life's not a videogame where you get a reward for choosing the hardest difficulty Right parents teach you how to live, allow you to make your own mistakes and don't damage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 11:27 AM
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They may not have touched the bottom (but most have so arpalt) but they still had issues in the sexual marketplace and all reasons leading to that are something that turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:20 AM
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It probably affects very ugly women too who go for guys less ugly than them, hardly Chad top percentage types like op says.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:33 AM
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Most women don't hook up with high tier men unless they're very hot themselves. Hypergamy is due to women being very picky and tons of men looking ugly or with no personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:05 AM
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Nope, I want a genetic winner, someone with a strong family background, not someone who had to touch the bottom to reach trp and there learn how to act, losing all awe and admiration for women and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:02 AM
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Let him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:00 AM
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Why is she not quality? You sound happy! Edit by quality did you mean the first sentence? How close is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:16 PM
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A slut will be expected to give more for less. A man wouldn't ask a good girl for anal sex and next her if she declines
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:12 PM
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Because someone can like them aesthetically more than others? Stereotypes exist for a reason and if there's a higher chance to find some traits amongst a population why make the research harder by looking elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:11 PM
1

What do you think about the relationship between wm and af?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:07 PM
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Define quality? Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:05 PM
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Considering how I once said at 5'4 a woman weighing 150 lbs was the example of being low smv I was told it's not that bad in USA I was shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:02 PM
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But if a prejudice is true and someone likes both how they look and how they act among with loving the person for who they are isn't it a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:56 PM
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Might be for you but I disagree that's the whole reasoning behind blaming men for having yellow fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:54 PM
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Yes, I agree with you. Ive lived in Sea and the stereotypes are quite true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:49 PM
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Love knows no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:56 PM
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Are women that bad in us?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:52 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:48 PM
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I don't believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:46 PM
1

Yep it's pretty commonly read on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:44 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:43 PM
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The moment a nice woman falls for them they're back at square one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:41 PM
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Yeah dunno why I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:41 PM
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What if said quality is more present amongst a population? Doesn't it make sense to look for someone among them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:40 PM
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Heh so basically people saying guys have yellow fever are afraid of competition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:39 PM
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I see why this may piss of people included in the stereotypes, I don't see why other women care if not for jealousy. Thanks for explaining!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:10 PM
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I'm not into them particularly Like nothing against
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:06 PM
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Hey maybe some are into that :0
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:58 PM
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That gives people signs that you're weak and want a pet toy dog cause you can't handle a normal woman. Isn't it rude to associate some people to pet toy dogs? Don't you think these women have agency? I don't see any honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:57 PM
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Oh I believe that stereotypes exist for a reason so that's probably why I don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:55 PM
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Russia is fetishized because of the Cold War Eastern European women are very attractive tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:53 PM
6

Yep Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:51 PM
1

I assume that people a preference for Asians like those who are attractive, those who have traits commonly found in Asians which are attractive. I've found people in SEA to be more quiet and polite honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:51 PM
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Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:43 PM
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So they are considered more attractive by some people. I think everyone likes best what they're more attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:43 PM
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Double fever!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:42 PM
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I wonder why that happens less or it's less heard of in Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:42 PM
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Either men or women gtow can't be compared to religious or eating beliefs as it is very rarely by [their] choice (it's often other people refusing them and them deciding to stop trying) I respect anyone as long as they don't thin they're doing me or an entire gender a disservice by removing themselves from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:41 PM
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Most kind are ideally better if explored naturally but those that involve your partner looking control over his lust for you even more so. It's good to just try stuff and see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:38 PM
1

What is the difference in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:33 PM
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So is it the same if I say I only want tall guys, I can't love a guy who's tall because all I care about is that he is above 6 feet? Can't that just be a requirement? Sincerely asking because I have difficulty understanding and there aren't enough integrated Asian people where I am to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:33 PM
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People rarely choose to stay lonely so the things aren't comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:22 PM
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I don't think it's about being scared, it's no longer hot if i have to tell you to pretend to be so turned on by me that you can't hold yourself and you pin me down and fuck me. Edit I also think it's a mix of "not wanting to organize your surprise party" and being embarrassed. If it truly made your fantasy come true you'd say it though but since from the moment you suggest it it becomes a sub par experience it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:18 PM
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Tbh there have been moments when I didn't care about pain Wish he could too and tell me to suck it up once in a while Sigh why arw we so delicate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:08 PM
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I've never read these studies but it's been my experience as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:01 PM
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I wonder what my boyfriend would say if I linked him to some of it... oh boy. Mine would say "lol you can't even change position without complaining about pain during piv "
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:01 PM
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I think that men are more likely to have fetishes and parafilias but the majority are extremely happy with vanilla sex (their fantasy is probably more women) while women are more likely to have more kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:56 PM
1

What a powerful and beautiful sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:53 PM
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I have the feeling but maybe I'm wrong that it's women pushing for bdsm more, some men just like rough shit and would do without bdsm's protective status
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 01:25 PM
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Nope haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 09:59 PM
2

Did Ken M start reading theredpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 09:54 PM
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Manipulation isn't a sign of intelligence in men. Achieving things is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:20 PM
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Be attractive and manly Be stronger than other men Be a dick to everyone except your oneitis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 05:49 PM
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Having sex wasn't the goal of marriage, surviving and raising kids was. Let horny young women fuck who they want and there's no reason for men to stay with the same woman forever and raise her kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 10:24 AM
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Yeah It did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 09:36 AM
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Because you want to fuck someone and their body not their bank account
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 12:00 AM
1

Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 02:09 PM
1

Agree with you op! I've met many and they're usually in good relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 02:08 PM
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You got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 02:01 PM
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Pm'd :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:49 PM
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Always! I love bad guys more than good ones. I want to answer this so bad as I have a major crush on a bad guy but it's an old show everyone watched and I fear spoilers :(:(:(he's an ugly mofo too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:39 PM
1

He's a cupboard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 11:13 PM
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When women's survival is tied to a man making sure that younger and careless women are kept in check allows them to tie down a man and make sure he provides for her in change of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:23 PM
1

Oh you're absolutely right, I thought it referred to men interfering!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 11:51 AM
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This beneditted women more so than men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:37 AM
1

That's definitely it, ugly ass guys just aren't generous enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:34 AM
1

Nope but it's easy being gay when you're top and not bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:34 AM
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It's always you :0
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 12:51 AM
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It makes sense, where one can compensate with more partners they'll look for the best, and where one can't get there with quality they'll get there with quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 12:51 AM
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Resources are finite as you don't eat technology and not everyone is interested in stabilizing births especially lower economical brackets and iq population. Working 8 hour jobs paid a decent wage isn't status quo, it's decent living conditions which not everyone has because then we wouldn't be able to afford shit for cheap. it's still us against them because we wouldn't pay so little for slave hours in our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:32 PM
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I'm operating under the logic that people are stronger when unified than when divided, and so if I'm hungry it makes sense that I try to feed others and others try to feed me. The amount of resources available marks the limit of the people you can feed and keep alive. Beyond that it's just more mouths to feed. Groups always got larger up to now and they've always fought or subdued others in order to secure the most resources. Globalization is that - people on top living better and people on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 07:00 PM
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It's not shallow when your people are friends, relatives, people you grew up with. We all care about our interests and those of peoppe close to us. The only people who want "unified" cultures are those with resources to spare, and even then not when it's coming out of their pockets directly. Try being hungry and see how much you're willing to unify with people different from you who'd kill to survive just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:35 PM
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It makes sense to want to keep resources for yourself and your people, and to want to have more than others, doesn't it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:20 PM
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Haha it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:28 PM
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It's a fantasy and I want it to remain one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:08 PM
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I'm an outlier (cucquean fantasies) but what's important is resources. Don't pay to fuck, don't dine her, don't get her pregnant, don't fall in love, don't stick your dick in crazy, don't get her gifts. Besides that be discreet and make sure no one knows especially me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 10:46 AM
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Yep that's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:22 AM
1

I like sweatpants if they are stylish. They're pretty sexy if they look good on you and you're fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:20 AM
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That's the point, it was a joke/ironic remark
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 10:39 PM
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But will find a man We have a saying that "everyone's gay with someone else's ass" :P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 10:23 PM
1

You'll find someone willing to bend you over for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 10:17 PM
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Another thing I thought of, to be faithful yoou need options. If you have no one to cheat with you're not proving your faithfulness, if you do you're choosing me. I'll never believe self reported things because of this; I am not saying that being a 10/10 asshole is the way to go, but being an 8/10 is better than being a 5/10 and most attractive men aren't mean/assholes/ignorant/socially clueless enough to make ugly guys stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:40 PM
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That's definitely it, ugly ass guys just aren't generous enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:35 PM
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I agree. You can have all of those qualities except being attractive and I won't be attracted to you. Meanwhile if you are at least the baseline of attractiveness we may start to see how you fair as a possible mate, doesn't matter if you dont have everything. I realized this reading and associating it to my so; I agreed at first but what caught my interest at first was his looks and the fact that we were in a similar social circle, things which you can't fake
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:32 PM
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These women must be really lazy or they're hoping to bargain sex coupons for house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:28 PM
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The simplicity of this incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:43 PM
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I'm not passing a guy I don't like to my friends, there haven't been instances in my life where I rejected someone that was a friend of mine's type. We either met all in the same social network and pairings occurred or I'm not sending my rejections which can become annoying on to my friends, they can find guys they like themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:46 AM
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I don't disagree with that, I can't imagine being overweight for starters. I think it's a strawman to say that all guys who don't get laid are fat, it applies to those who are of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:35 AM
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Smart good looking men with careers are rare. Good looking men are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:17 AM
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I have said it before, but I still wouldn't fuck the majority of the non overweight population, even the groomed ones. So it comes down to genes and/or having an amazing personality, or being a bit crazy, which most people can't fake. I speak for myself of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:03 AM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:58 AM
1

If they had options they wouldn't go their own way therefore it's not better for men who have options, which are the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:43 PM
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I didn't state that and didn't talk about feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 08:07 PM
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Feeling aroused =\= a woman's attractive You could dump your hard dick into a land whale if she begs for it enough and you're horny, doesn't mean she's attractive. I didn't say anything about the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 08:07 PM
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She's attractive nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 08:05 PM
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The issue isn't that you say it's awesome It's when they talk about hurting women with their decision as if women ever cared I'm fine with complaining, I don't care, but if all you talk about is women the movement is more of "rejected men stop trying"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 08:05 PM
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Nope much more on the attractiveness of the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:58 PM
1

Whqt exactly happened to you? I am curious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:34 PM
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I don't have a problem with the advocacy part, the go your own way part + advovacy part is sily. One who goes his own way goes, they don't keep asking "missing me yet? I'm ignoring you why don't you see it!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:14 PM
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Because women's sexual decisions depend on the emotions and feelings she's having right now and knowing how to manipulate that can result in her putting out more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 11:55 AM
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Trp doesn't care about women, it cares about men and their interests. Women shouldn't be taking it as advice. It doesn't look out for what's best for women. Rpw and rpwi do although I don't like when men give advice on there. The description you gave at first isn't a beta, a beta is someone who gets whipped by his woman. Having a woman who pulls in money doesn't mean being pussy whipped, it means just having someone who pulls their weight economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 11:54 AM
1

Yeah I said that as well you're such a mind reader
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:30 AM
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It is a requirement men have, it just doesn't make them hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:10 AM
1

Ok Just, personal advice, find someone who's working already and finished studying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:09 AM
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Do not take advice from men such as to give it off quickly. I'd personally make sure you know how to please yourself so you're not completely off guard then look for someone a couple of years (3-10) older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:02 AM
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I thought we were looking to reduce their complaints, it can have the same meaning You're barking at the wrong tree with the "waw" effect dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:41 PM
4

if you say you go your own way you go, you don't turn around and keep seeing if someone's missing ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:27 PM
1

Tell me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:25 PM
1

Op asked about biological reasons, and yeah I agree with the economical thing, I quickly explained in the first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:25 PM
1

I don't know, just saying what I read. They look similar but young woman/old man pairings are more successful than the opposite in non incestuous contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:39 PM
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Yeah when it comes down to their relationship with fathers. If I'm not wrong a little bit isn't pathologic but quite normal. I read somewhere the other day that menopause in some species is to avoid competition between mothers and daughters, so there might be something evolutionary to Electra's syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:27 PM
2

Yeah that is exactly what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:53 PM
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Yeah I have nothing against those who go monk mode for 6 months or decide to live their lives separately. I still believe it's an outlier decision and due to something wrong with the person or the experiences they lived, but it's their choice. It's just funny when they do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:14 PM
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"I'm ignoring you why aren't you acknowledging that???"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:03 PM
2

In countries where there is no state elder funds sons work and provide for both their original family and their new family. Besides the economical reason I think women are jealous to a point of their daughters (and vice versa) so they form less of a same sex bond that happens with fathers and sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:49 PM
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Suicide and depression post break up aren't affecting the majority of men, it's a minority and lonely men who never had a woman are still worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:44 PM
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Since being left out is something that only a minority of the population experience I don't see how turning everyone into social cripples would benefit the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:36 PM
1

Men could take over women's jobs, I don't think they'd be worse at it. We could allow chemical castration for those who want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:29 AM
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Because unless women want to fuck you they won't let you know they're promiscuous because it's none of your business, and you might want a piece too. Or they're keeping their act clean in an effort to preserve their image.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:05 AM
1

Women are more weak towards manipulation because their decisions depend much more on how they're feeling right now and the emotions you give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:02 AM
1

There's different types of awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:39 PM
1

You sounded mad, I apologize if you weren't, that's why i said "sound" mad. Good day to you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:21 PM
1

Wow. People who don't do day shifts like me to either afternoon 7 hours -morning 7 hours - night 11 hours, then the rest after getting home from night shift and a day off, or one extra afternoon/morning before night. It sucks balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:15 PM
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The only times I did 12/14 hour shifts was when someone was missing so I didn't get compensated with rest, just more money, but I'd be curious to see how it would be to work 40ish hours a week with long shifts. What system do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:02 PM
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I do 40/45 per week. I heard they have 12 hour shifts in many places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:56 AM
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Socially awkward people aren't only quiet. They sometimes don't understand social comventions and with that they don't understand nos. I am not saying it's right, I am trying to understand why that happens, making conversation, no idea why you sound mad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:55 AM
1

How many hours a week? In a hospital?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:29 AM
1

Never said it's fair, just saying what I see. It's usually socially awkward guys who are repetitive. Also some women seem offended when they're asked out by guys much uglier than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:25 AM
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Yeah I imagined. I had a job offer for UK and they have 12 hour shifts with lots more days off, I'd give a leg for that. I have 6 days of 6/7 hours shifts and Saturday free. If I did shifts I'd have different hours but night's too tough for my back. The pay's shit too, the only positive thing is that it's not hard to find a job if you're good at it. Sorry for the rant >.<
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:24 AM
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Not in us. Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:16 AM
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You can't here, it's almost impossible to go part time. I have seen moms quitting and getting back on, you have to study and catch up, you're also less likely to be hired if you have children because too many women use them as excuses to skip work days, but you can also put your job on hold for 2 years and take it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:13 AM
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Because some guys ask over and over? Yeah, people who react with "eww gross" aren't exactly the nicest around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:11 AM
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I would but mostly because he appreciates me being home and being able to go on vacations whenever he has them, I can't take them whenever I want being nurse, but it's too much of a weight for gin to pull on his own and I like working. I'd like to stop for a couple of years once I have kids like you, more of possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:51 AM
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You can do both - have a light job and take care of the house. I find it funny it when guys make shit money yet expect you to either be a sahm or to work and do all cleaning. Bitch if you want me to go traditional you have to bring in your weight too. How I see it trp guys don't want sahw because it translates into higher alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:15 AM
1

Even then it's not manipulation, it's regular flirting and making yourself stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:12 AM
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Women like hearing crass things during sex what's to say they don't like it before sex by men they're attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:11 AM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:10 AM
1

Is this what English speakers call straw man? Making up something and attacking it? Because it looks like it. Look, let's agree to disagree. It's clear we aren't going anywhere with this, I don't like discussions when they get to the point of slipping into emotion driven fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:56 PM
1

Exactly right along where I said you should wear burqas and ask for permission before you talk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:41 PM
1

Why does it work then? Not everyone has the same reactions to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:38 PM
1

I am not justifying, and you aren't understanding. It's ok, don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:34 PM
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I'm claiming they don't What exactly do women not like about being physically appreciated by good looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:28 PM
1

discussing the tactics of manipulating men in order to get sex from them How ugly does a woman have to be to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 07:33 PM
1

Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 06:39 PM
1

Not part of the big herd means below
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 06:12 PM
1

We were talking about success and I told you why some guys do it, because it works sometimes. It's wrong? Hell yeah, but if someone's extremely averse to such behavior they know what avenues to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 06:12 PM
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Yeah they were good looking of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:45 PM
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For fucking sake no, but I'm as far from feminism as it gets. I don't mean to be emotionless, just to not be whiny and lunatic like women are. Also not to take every pms moments I may have. Ignoring my tantrums when I'm pissy is the best cure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:08 PM
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Someone who hurt you, someone who took a decision you don't agree with, someone who did something that benefitted them and not you, someone with a bad personality which you can't smack. A creep is someone below you socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:00 PM
1

I have personally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 03:55 PM
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I don't think it's acceptable but it happens because it works with enough girls to make it worth it. If it didn't work guys wouldn't do it, so I just suck it up and don't consider it a downside in dating, just something that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 03:26 PM
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Cunt implies some power to he person you're telling to. Creep robs that person of credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:36 AM
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The intent is to avoid this situation from happening again which "ew creepy" gets, and it's much easier than explaining you're not interested. Just describing how I see things with no moral judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:51 AM
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It happens often in clubs, it's the only place where it's ok if it happens. It would be if it happened elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:49 AM
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I didn't say he doesn't move on, I both feel sorry for letting him down and because he stops courting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:48 AM
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I have seen different scenarios with ugly chicks approaching hot guys, there was no nicety and thank yous. The ugly guy should play in his league if he cares so much about not being called a creep, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:25 AM
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Why do people shun compliments so much? Like thanks for taking time to give me a compliment. Of course it feels better if it's from a well adjusted dude than from an African immigrant who probably hollers at all pretty women below 40
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:23 AM
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Yeah legit creeps are rare thankfully. Most people however do feel creeped out by ugly people approaching them so it's them describing their sensations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:20 AM
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If that's what you call harassment I understand why you're often harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:17 AM
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When women say creep it's because they want someone to stop doing something and it should be taken with a grain of salt because it's not a big deal. That said it's a double standard but that doesn't make it bullshit - think of it if hot Cindy approaches a guy, grinds her ass on his cock and kisses him. Think the same situation with 400 lbs Twinkie finger Linda; most men except obese fetishists will react differently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:15 AM
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It's valid because it's what people feel when they accuse others of being creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:01 PM
1

It happens to you an awful lot more than other women it's curious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:00 PM
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Didn't say they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:16 PM
1

I'd be curious to see you to see if there's something you give off that makes you subject to so much harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:57 PM
1

If you dislike being approached roughly so much at clubs and there's nothing you can do about it why do you keep going?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:34 PM
1

Maybe it's my lack of understanding of English language, but aren't clubs where people go to either hook up or get flirted with and free drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:21 PM
1

¯(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:12 PM
1

Ice cream too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:02 PM
1

No one here is trying to impress you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:01 PM
1

Life's not a videogame where you get rewards for being it on hard mode. It's your choice and some guys have different choice which you can disagree with, just don't bring it down to equality because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 07:01 PM
1

Except it's sex and not boxing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 06:58 PM
0

When I go clubbing I do not go to pick up guys. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 06:57 PM
1

How is it hamstering saying that men and women are different and so are their preferences? And who says that low n count women have less experience? One long relationship is enough to learn what you like, what counts is the number of times you had sex. Heck, even knowing how to give yourself pleasure counts as experience as it's not easy to learn for all girls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:31 PM
1

Conquering only virgins sounds tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 03:29 PM
1

Women like players though so he's got all reasons to puff his chest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:52 PM
2

Lol nope Just like I'd wanna be a house mom but would hate to have a house husband Or I like tits on women but don't like my man with tits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:50 PM
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A woman's choice is preference, a man's choice is an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:40 PM
2

Why are we talking about lesbians now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:39 PM
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I avoided guys like that because I knew they wouldn't stick along. More like the sour grapes, I've lived like that to avoid disappointments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:03 AM
2

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:58 AM
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The amount of work is inversely proportional to how not ugly and socially inserted someone is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:56 AM
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There must either be something wrong with the mixed messages you send or you live in a shit area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:54 AM
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I've hardly ever been harassed and neither have most people I know, probably because we didn't spend too much time in the drunk club scene. What I dislike about rejecting guys is that they stop the monkey dance they were doing to attract you and move on to ignore you. It literally feels bad for this and because I feel sorry for them. I've never felt threatened nor been in a position where I was alone with a stranger who I felt threatened by. I don't know if it's hard for women, men always came m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:45 AM
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I want a tall guy yet I'm short. I want a guy with a dick but I don't have one. Just because we want something different from what we offer doesn't make us hypocrites, it's part of the sexual dimorphism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:37 AM
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There isn't a big difference between a virgin and someone who's awful in bed, besides that men don't like the thought of another dick having been in a woman they love and I don't see how this is so understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:35 AM
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Because they don't reach those standards and because women would rather stay alone than with a man that disgusts them, even if their counterpart would be obese like them, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:32 AM
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That women decide when the carousel starts and when it stops, men want sex regardless and they'll look for it either with ons or relatoonships, along with company and love. I haven't seen men denying they like hot women. Men's taste is quite clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:30 AM
1

I've seen plenty of low fat guys with weak jaws or maybe the ones I like are too big!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:27 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 09:34 PM
1

Yeah all of it boils down to how well they look and how high status they are, while for women it depends on how much they are willing to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 06:40 PM
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The difference is that most women can choose to have a high n whole men are limited to the amount of women wanting to sleep with them. Men's n number is determined by genetics and status, for women it's a matter of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:16 PM
1

Forget genetics Speaks about chiseled jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:47 PM
1

Yeah everyone does except when you go from extremely skinny to normal!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:33 PM
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I don't even see why they care. I understand ppd where people enjoy discussing, or bp where they enjoy making satire, but I don't see why people are concerned everywhere else. It works for some people, good for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 02:46 PM
1

Losing weight is like playing scratch cards, you never know how good someone looks until they're down to a normal weight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 02:43 PM
1

A big nose paired with a tiny chin is especially disruptive, big important noses are manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 02:31 PM
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You'll see how much it matters if you have a tiny chin, huge ears, big nose, small jaw and other things like that. If you're average I agree it will be usually fine, but most handsome men have handsome manly features or a mix of feminine and manly Like high cheek bones or big lips
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 10:20 AM
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Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:13 AM
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You're working against your sexual imperative with the lies and misdirection. It's working perfectly fine so far if it didn't work women would do things differently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:09 AM
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Because the majority of people watching TV are women and there's tons of whales in UK?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 10:30 PM
1

I didn't deny that in some cases it can change, just that in most cases it won't turn you from unfuckable to fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 10:30 PM
1

No, if women are violent men should retaliate. Especially when they are abusive against kids, it should be accepted by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:55 PM
1

Of course face matters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:43 PM
1

except for a few points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:40 PM
1

A woman with all temporary, short term and long term fixes can raise her smv a whole lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:22 PM
1

In the few cases I mentioned it can change, they are the minority, irl isn't Reddit where everyone is an introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 08:31 PM
1

Nope unless his smv is deeply flawed to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 04:04 PM
1

Women can use make up hairstyle clothing which adds much more than for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:29 PM
1

Women's body
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:00 PM
1

If somebody buys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:00 AM
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Being socially awkward and fat is included in those huge flaws which give a huge hit to smv. This is for the person who doesn't have these things and still is a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:04 AM
1

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:02 AM
1

What's that to do with smv?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:01 AM
1

The average bloke that's not on Reddit doesn't have the issues I listed, except for being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:00 AM
2

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 09:13 PM
2

That's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 09:13 PM
1

Ive travelled abroad and by comparison men aren't any uglier than elsewhere where obesity rates aren't as high as us, so to answer your question it's not a matter of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 09:13 PM
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That it doesn't matter all that much as long as you fall into normalcy, you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 09:12 PM
2

So they don't complain that people complain about their complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:42 PM
1

That unless your an aspie, terribly anxious, depressed or socially awkward, if you're like the majority of the population you'll fit in somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:39 PM
1

Among countries obesity rates change a lot, I'm in northern Italy and it's hard to see severely fat people unless they're old. The few obese young girls I see are mostly foreigners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:36 PM
1

huge flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:33 PM
1

Nope, im saying that fat isn't an issue for people outside of us, and most men still aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:23 PM
2

Yeah if it makes them feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:22 PM
1

Nope unless there's huge flaws that undermine his smv
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:08 PM
2

I think it doesn't count too much for the average bloke outside of Reddit. Most people are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:26 PM
5

Stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:24 PM
1

Fame is rare that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:23 PM
1

They aren't wheee I am and I rarely see attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:22 PM
1

She just needs to work instead of being a Barbie doll
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:21 PM
1

The one about anxiety and personality issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:13 PM
1

Nah it's that they have ugly faces
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:12 PM
1

How much is it really due to attitude though? Realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:12 PM
1

Never said it's useless just that you won't go from 4 to 7 unless you have good features under a huge layer of fat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:12 PM
1

Nope it's about smv and it includes flaws which can sink smv a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:55 PM
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I didn't say anyone should do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:55 PM
1

Unless you are a hobo you can't change that much to make people wanna fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:54 PM
1

It's stated in the op that this doesn't include famous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:54 PM
1

Personality is interchangeable and I find the big character issues that sink smv are the ones I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:53 PM
3

Didn't say that but body has a higher weight on smv
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:47 PM
1

Didn't say you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:59 PM
1

Men's body characteristics are less important so clothing improves less. It makes the difference between slob who can't get a job and a functioning human. I think the smv scale is logarithmic and going from 5 to 6 isn't like 4 to 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:40 PM
1

The one that's not about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:31 PM
3

They're minomum requirement, not something that turns a 2 into a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:29 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:17 PM
1

Not saying you can't. Just that unless you have big issues you won't get a big leap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:05 PM
1

It's not just about looks why is everyone ignoring the part that doesn't talk about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:04 PM
2

You need experience to get experience in many cases
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:03 PM
1

Nope I included flaws which sink men's smv
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:02 PM
1

I don't have issues getting women thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:57 PM
1

I included anxiety and other problems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:55 PM
1

I included personality flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:55 PM
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The harsh truth but was aimed at people saying that you can always increase your looks as a man. Sometimes you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:52 PM
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Men need smv to not get doors shut at approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:44 PM
1

Surgery can't fix everything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:44 PM
1

Niche
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 11:56 AM
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Nope seen it happen many times. The covert contracts thing I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 11:35 AM
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I'm not saying to look your worst, just that the increase is very limited unless you're in one of those categories I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 11:04 AM
3

Put a woman in front of a kissless virgin and see how much she cares less about sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 10:32 AM
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Because the men who complain about being friend zoned are unattractive and people don't like to hear about unattractive men's woes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:31 AM
1

Yes exactly They'll rape you ass to protect theirs too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 11:28 PM
2

I'd be interested in seeing that cartoon!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 11:12 PM
1

Go to some war torn third world country and tell me what's scarier
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 11:11 PM
1

I agree with your position more than egalitarianism. I want more power over men, I'm happy to keep the one we have now, silently, while still criticizing women who do this shit loudly and want too much without giving back. I want shit for me, not for all women on earth and not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:06 PM
1

How could they help? They can't share their superior genes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:02 PM
1

Eeeh it's quite easy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:57 PM
3

Fears aren't rational. Cucking doesn't make harm you physically, it doesn't make your body bleed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:57 PM
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Instinctively I'm more scared of a man wanting to rape me down the street than my brother of a woman trying to baby trap him in an alley
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:56 PM
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Hahahahaha I haven't heard that in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:07 PM
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Doesn't matter, it's about perception that people have and who's more threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:06 PM
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Because a man who wants sex can rape, a woman can't force a man to have a relationship with pain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:25 PM
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Well they're short I don't need another reason beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:23 PM
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I hd no idea nurses in the us out earned other jobs like fire fighters. Sigh I have awful hours and a shit pay. I think most women want their partner to earn more than they do, and it's something I agree with because I want to quit working for a couple of years when we have kids and we can't if I'm the top earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 01:35 PM
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First off I thought something different when I read manual labor, this sounds like normal stuff, things which I do at home. I think it's because if you so it other women will be expected to do it too. Not now, maybe in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 01:33 PM
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Unless you're threatening me you better not ask anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:50 AM
1

Assuming only men have a reason to slut shame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 10:00 PM
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Yes I'm speaking about the nice to have which isn't too much but which is just perfect. Hehe gotta see the goods first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 05:01 AM
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I don't care about people being good or bad. People have an issue with the preference and it's called a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:38 PM
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Sexy proportion Fat Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:26 PM
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Well someone who has no issues dating wouldn't need trp hence people who read there aren't the best looking or more socially adapted mofos you can find. The thing I disagree with is basing value and credibility based on your ability to have women's company. Being a virgin doesn't mean you're a shit person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:23 PM
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I am requiring something in men which I'm not respecting though. Not much different from men who have or are looking to raise their n number but want to ltr women with low n number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:18 PM
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Why don't you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:29 PM
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But what's the difference between n number and the examples I said? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:44 PM
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I don't see how wanting different things makes people hypocrites. I'm short but I like tall guys. I like to take it in the ass but don't want a man who takes it up in the ass. I'd love to be a sahm but wouldn't want a sahd as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:09 PM
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I suspect the false sense of normality this stuff creates plays a part in the 'entitlement'. I don't understand this sentence. Who feels entitled due to this normality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:08 AM
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Totally agree with this I don't see entitlement when someone asks the universe why the fuck he is lonely just curiosity and sadness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:16 PM
2

Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:10 PM
3

It's silver digging at best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:07 PM
1

Milfs in porn look nothing like the average 30/40 year old mom, and many times it is an expert woman who's so lusty that will take initiative, instead of a young woman who gets seduced into sex. A milf is also more likely to want NSA sex as she's probably married and has kids. So a sincere sexuality (in the fantasy), not a sex aimed at getting commitment or whatever else. Edit: we can't exclude that pornhub manipulates data in order to attract more women to watch porn since they're the ones who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:57 PM
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I love porn with fake bimbos but I only date men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:24 PM
1

Oooh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 10:04 AM
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I see them as people with a mental illness but my view isn't indicative of all rp, just personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:22 PM
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Mica tutti ciccioni qui come in America xD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:19 PM
1

Ciao! Di dove sei?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 08:12 PM
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I don't know about him, but I don't even consider fat people as someone I cohld date, so I don't even rate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 08:12 PM
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