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Haha...bight...
/r/seduction08/04/12 10:00 PM
2

I'm the highest comment...and you piggybacked to make an update of dating success? Sweet.
/r/seduction11/01/12 12:14 AM
6

Touche...touche...
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:26 AM
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In high school, a guy said this to me as I was checking my appearance in window in the hallway. This was five years ago and I still remember it as the best flirty one-liner I heard in my entire high school career.
/r/seduction09/01/12 08:42 PM
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Ay, there's the rub. Neighbors, perhaps? That's not as easy, though, I admit. Hm, new idea. Think about taking some kind of class - maybe something creative or exercise-based. Hopefully you'd be able to talk with some people (ladies?) and turn it into a "let's grab a beer later". Worst case scenario, you learn a new skill. Bitches love skills.
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:14 AM
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Have you talked to coworkers about places to go? Better yet, have you had a chance to go out with some of your coworkers? That seems like a natural way to start - get to know coworkers, hopefully get to meet people through them, and learn where the locals go.
/r/seduction22/12/11 05:37 AM
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As a woman, this is a big yes. Yes, a woman likes to get your specific attention. But if she sees you ignoring her less-attractive friends, you'll come across as rude. Also, remember that some of the girls who are beautiful now may have been that awkward girl that used to be the ignored one, or at least has had to console a girlfriend who was/is the ignored one. This heightens female sensitivity to seeing a guy who only talks to pretty girls and builds into an instant turn-off to him.
/r/seduction22/12/11 12:46 AM
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As a woman: thank you. As a redditor: "Fuck the Sex." I loled...oxymoron...
/r/seduction15/12/11 09:54 PM
2

Sure, good luck on your date! ;)
/r/seduction07/12/11 02:39 AM
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Well, what works depends on how you guys are physically situated. If she's leaning her head to your chest or shoulder, that makes for a good opportunity for you to stroke her hair; if she's relaxing with her legs over your knees, that's a good opportunity to have a hand on a knee/thigh or cup a calf. As for when to initiate, moving hair out of her face is a good thing to do when you're talking - we take that as a big, "he's gonna kiss me" gesture. I would say that attention to the hair and face …
/r/seduction07/12/11 01:17 AM
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This is a good question to bring up - definitely an unexpected turn of events. When I'm watching a movie with a new-ish guy like you describe, there are certain kinds of kino I like - arm around shoulder, stroking it now and then, moving a piece of hair out of my face, maybe cupping one of my calves. The touch is exciting, especially when you know it's a taste of what's to come. It's hard to figure out what's going wrong, so I'll just give examples of kino-escalation. Usually, I guess when touch…
/r/seduction06/12/11 09:40 PM
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I am pretty liberal in judging that. In one sense, I could analyze that as meaning that as signifying that you are socially awkward. But also, I could analyze that as meaning that you aren't on Facebook very often because you are out in the real world. Usually, I determine from what I know about the man which I think it is. Real examples: There was a guy I was into who added me on FB and didn't have a lot of activity. But I knew that he was a very artistic person who spent a lot of his free time…
/r/seduction05/12/11 07:25 PM
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The key to complimenting a woman is to keep it simple ("you look nice" or "that's a pretty dress" are great) and say it almost offhand, almost like you're commenting on the weather. Don't give up on complimenting altogether, I'm sorry for these responses you've been getting!
/r/seduction05/12/11 07:05 PM
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I like nice boots, some preppier styles...usually, leather is good. Sneakers aren't always out, but white is usually "meh" and depending on the occasion might look unimpressive.
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:52 PM
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Here here.
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:19 PM
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Oh yes. Similarly, I have felt no attraction to very good-looking guys. A guy with a good sense of humor will always attract me to at least some degree, as will a man with notable talent, like an artist of some sort. And if a man is seductive, his looks will not matter as much as his innate sexiness. Similarly, even if a man is very good-looking, this does not mean that I will be attracted to him. If he's a douche, if he's cruel, if he is desperate or clingy, this cuts off my attraction.
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:22 AM
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These "high quality" men are attracted to women who they see as compatible at their level - women who have a strong sense of self-worth (no narcissistic dolls, no girls crippled by low self-esteem), women who are able to hold witty and knowledgeable conversations, ultimately, women who know what they want. Even if your friends don't know what they want, if they at least want to know what they want, that desire in itself is a mature one and a strong start. It deeply, deeply saddens me how many wo…
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:12 AM
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Me too, that's not a bad idea!
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:11 AM
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American girl of mostly-Italian descent, but with some Bohemian, Scottish, and Dutch. There isn't an ethnicity that I would not date, there are just some that I am more consistently attracted to than others. I am most consistently attracted to men of the Mediterranean regions, European and Arabic; I love dark features, maybe that's it. What I care about is the way a man carries himself, his ambitions, his attitude and manners, how cultured he is...these transcend any ethnic preference. =)
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:44 AM
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You caught on to the most important thing - judging on an individual basis. In this case, it sounds like she is interested, even if there was no kino. Dropping a text sounds fine. Part of the reason for my previous response is that when a woman is interested, she will usually respond to the first text, not only because she's pleased that you messaged her, but because we know that if we don't, you might think we're not interested.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:23 AM
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I'm sorry, is this a mean response on my part? =( There are just times where I try to be gracious, yet give a hint that I'm not interested in a non-embarrassing manner. I appreciate every respectful compliment I receive.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:14 AM
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Totally! PM me and I'll take a look. =)
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:08 AM
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For me, kiss on the neck is very sensual - totally IOI. BUT, I'm 5'3", so when kissing a tall man on the check, I sometimes miss and kiss the neck! Usually I'll follow this up with a light joke about his height to try to clarify.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:01 AM
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Oh, they are so great. Cute and classy.
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:58 AM
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About that...
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:52 AM
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Oh dear... I've never been in a relationship, so that hasn't been a problem. But men interested in me do tend to get jealous and competitive. Also, going out with my guy friends doesn't stop me from getting hit on, but it changes the came into a competitive one. That ends up making the potential suitor look comical, actually. And to be fair, I've had those platonic friendships I thought were innocent, but where the man ended up making a move. =(
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:07 AM
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I may be thinking of this the wrong way, then. I think of platonic as meaning "just friends".
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:46 AM
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Okay, sorry. For me, yes. But, as you may be starting to guess, I also have a specific tendency to gravitate towards older men. If he was younger, unless he was somehow precocious, I would not be interested. Hope you get another opinion on this one from someone who is actually older than your actual age, seeing as I'm not.
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:41 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. Funny-flirty messages have always been my preference in that kind of situation. Don't need to talk every day, but every couple of days is good. Overall, sounds fun! Good opportunity for text-flirting and, hopefully, a good meet up! To the second question, I will initiate texting yes, but if I find that I'm always the first-texter, I cease. Similarly, if I find that he's always the first-texter, I will make a point of starting the next conversation to prove my interest. I p…
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:39 AM
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Haha, we know it. ;)
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:23 AM
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I still think vests are sexy, but want to agree that a 3-piece suit is a very appealing. Honestly, classic pieces are always sexy. AND SHOES! We will notice your shoes!
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:22 AM
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All of them offer interesting looks into the male-end of flirting, so I truly find all of them interesting. In particular, I'd say that I like the posts where seduction-strategy is discussed, especially in a "let me share my success story" kind of way.
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:18 AM
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Sounds like a game. There's the approach involved in getting near you, but a coy, mysterious kind of result in the back-to-you thing. Also, women know you'll look. It's very likely that they were standing their with their hips cocked in a certain way or hair off of the shoulder to get you looking at ass/bare skin/hair/etc. - very much a tease.
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:14 AM
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About 70% of my friends are platonic male friends. To give you more reference, I will also add that most consider me a "hot" female. Honestly, the rule is to treat them pretty much like one of your male friends, only talk about sex less. At least when you're still getting to be friends. Conversations on culture stuff, like movies/video games/music and common-stuff, like coworkers/mutual friends/frustrations are always good. Joking is natural, so keep it around. Teasing is allowed, too. =P There …
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:10 AM
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What exactly is your question, I'm not quite sure. To give an attempt at an answer, I'm also 21, and I usually am attracted to men in their late 20's-early 30's. Even freshman year of college I was not terribly attracted to even the upperclassmen...it's actually to the point that I cannot see myself dating someone my own age. I feel very cliche and pretentious in saying this, but I find that the maturity level of men 5-10 years older than me is much more compatible to my own maturity level. I am…
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:02 AM
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If it gets to a point where you're always the first to send the texts, that's one sign of things simmering down. I think calling a girl up is a couple of steps beyond a text - mostly because talking on the phone has become a little odd in our society of text-based conversation. In your case, it's one of two things: either the texting is getting boring and it's time to meet up, or she has just lost her interest. Best way to find out is to send a funny, light text to her and see what the response …
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:55 AM
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I'm going to share with you the SECRET WEAPON OF MALE FASHION. Seriously, the article I'm about to tell you about is something that makes me swoon every time, something that flatters every male figure, and something that my lady friends and I have been known to talk about with dreamy eyes. VESTS. VESTS. VESTS. VESTS. The way they give definition to the chest, yet emphasizes the shoulders...rawr.
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:48 AM
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Usually it is. I'll add that sometimes, a girl will dish out her number because she feels badly about saying no when asked for it, and sometimes they end up ignoring the texts as a way out. Don't call her. Another text maybe, but calling would come off strong - consider it a decently big step beyond a text.
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:26 AM
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Thanks for inviting the other ladies to join, too - this is fun!
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:22 AM
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First, it might be relevant to know I'm 21, seeing that there is a degree of age that plays into this. I've been hit on by guys of varying ages with receding hairlines, and it's never really been a turn-off for me. It's not ideal, but it's not a deal-breaker; I also think shaved heads can be very sexy. It is a bit awkward if the man presents self-deprecating jokes about it, though...shows insecurity.
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:20 AM
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Always start with a smile! When you approach, a nice thing to do is to comment on what she's doing, but in a relatable kind of way; like if you're at a Starbucks coffee bar and she's stirring cinnamon into her coffee, you could say something like, "I like that they have the extra spices here - makes me feel like a master-barista." Because I'm a dork, if you were to replace "barrista" with "alchemist", I'd laugh.
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:09 AM
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I am a FB judge, I admit it. I know guys will search through our pictures and walls - we do the same. This is always interesting for me because I've evaluated male FB pages of men approximately 20-40 (okay, up to 60, but those were quick instances of check the age, walk away). ME GUSTA'S: Family on profile, like siblings in profile pics - it's sweet, similar with wall posts of pets. Witty status'. When not a lot of profile info is given, because it leaves some mystery. Giving funny answers to qu…
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:41 PM
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I love to be seduced. If a guy went for it like that, in that kind of mind-reeling "I've got to have you" way...honestly, one of the biggest turn-on's for women is being treated as though they're irresistible. Also, there is a certain seductive thrill in that moment for women when it's like, "should I be wary...or excited?" Has the potential to be very hot, just requires the correct execution of location, a private but non-threatening place.
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:27 PM
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In addition, posting funny pics and posts to her wall every now and then would be a fun way to keep her thinking of you. That's nice and light, plus you'll make her smile.
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:14 PM
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THIS. I would appreciate an e-mail like this; also, it's nice that you're interested in a platonic friendship anyway. She'll probably appreciate that. As for the junk question, trimming.
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:11 PM
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My GREEN LIGHTS are usually picked up on, like lightly touching the shoulder if I leave for a moment. But it's the RED LIGHTS that usually go unnoticed. Big one is when a man gives me a flirty compliment and I am not interested in his pursuits, I say "thank you", but then quickly change the subject, usually to something very neutral; men usually don't understood this as a game-stopper. EDIT: I may need to explain more. If a man gives me a compliment and I am interested, I will do any combination…
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:08 PM
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THIS.
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:54 PM
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1) I've been hit on while at memorial services (ie: wakes)...that is incredibly unattractive. Especially since I'm vulnerable to begin with, it just ends up upsetting me. Not saying you'd do this, but it happens. Also, don't care for it when I'm hit on while with my dad...eek...you'd think these would be obvious? Double whammy - was once actually hit on at a wake while standing next to my dad. No me gusta. 2) Bragging isn't my cup of tea. Examples like, "I can pitch 93 miles an hour", "I own all…
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:50 PM
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21 [F]. Just that initiative to start up a conversation is great. I love the joking around, casual flirting game, so I'd love a convo-starter like that; the absurdity of it allows the conversation to start off in an instantly fun, memorable direction. One time a guy actually asked me, "what's the best pickup line a guy's used on you, so I can use it?" That might have worked if he wasn't married.
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:19 PM
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Yup, you got it.
/r/seduction12/11/11 07:22 PM
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Confidence is the sexiest damn thing for a man to have. Complete agreement. Also, I'm going to say that I find a dominate male to be one of the most alluring things in this world. When I say "entitlement", I'm thinking of a certain attitude I find in some men who approach me. I've encountered this attitude a number of times: "I'm good looking, I'm smooth, and you're gonna sleep with me tonight because it's impossible that you don't want to." Two things are big strikes here. One, flirting is supp…
/r/seduction11/11/11 08:26 PM
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I'm not going to go for modesty now - I'll give you the straight answer. I pretty much know that if I leave my apartment, I will be hit on, or at least checked out. It happens while grocery shopping, walking on the street, on any form of public transportation, when playing shows (I'm a singer/guitarist), at friends parties, at my parent's parties, and of course, at bars (often by bartenders, not just customers). I've even been hit on while driving before - dude's asking for my number at red ligh…
/r/seduction11/11/11 08:19 PM
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Lady here. Alright, so I'll fess up - lady who gets hit on constantly. IMO, this is good advice - no matter how seemingly ridiculous the propositions I get are (ie: men with granddaughter's my age), I always admire the bravery it takes for these men to make these addresses. Worst case scenario, you'll end up flattering me. So go ahead and take a shot at this - there will always be a flattery the woman can appreciate. BUT, the article advises to have an air of entitlement. FALSE. This attitude is…
/r/seduction11/11/11 04:48 PM
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Another helpful tidbit.
/r/seduction02/05/11 01:57 AM
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