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| 1 | Saw this earlier with the roles reversed, so let me ask: Men, does it matter if a woman is a loner? Why or why not?thats so sweet honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Women should definitely be shamed for settlingIf you date someone who’s never had a relationship, you get someone who doesn’t have the experience to know how to communicate or address conflict effectively. Im just wondering about your views on this. I am someone who has never been in a relationship and I will not be presumably until my mid 20s. Do you think having no relationship experience is really a red flag? Or maybe just that people typically aren't trying/taking the first few relationships they've had seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Saw this earlier with the roles reversed, so let me ask: Men, does it matter if a woman is a loner? Why or why not?would you rather date a 10 but shes absolutely terrible to be around, disloyal, and thousands of social media followers or a 4 who is submissive, pleasant, loyal, and madly in love with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do women go around thinking they're safe from the wall? Your time of reckoning is coming...men do age they just have longer fertility windows. I see plenty 35 yr old guys with dad bods and balding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?Why does being the best version of myself involves me making money? Well maybe that is just me because I highly value generational wealth. To me sticking with family and amassing great wealth to experience luxury and help people is very important. But for others the best version of themself could mean something different. I didn't ask for it and now I am my own person and I am making my own decisions I mean sure you can do and live as you wish, you don't necessarily owe anyone dead or alive anyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?not going to regret the fact that I haven't fulfilled my "duty" to some dead guys That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying it's motivating to know that you are the best version of yourself, that no one in your family or that has helped you has died in vain, and that your future generations will have generational wealth created by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?If all your ancestors are bad, then why wouldn't you strive to change that and be the best specimen your bloodline has ever seen. You can change that but are too lazy to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men would not be happy with an ugly partnerliterally 🤣🤣 At some point they start giving money to young hot girls so that they'll have sex with them. Glorified prostitution. Meanwhile their kids want a new xbox for christmas. I can't wait till the redpilled men find out to live that life, 1. You must be rich and 2. Good traditional women don't like red pill men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:49 PM |
| 0 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?When they were alive obviously. You're just a cynic trying to find the flaws its just a concept to show why you shouldnt waste your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?I pretty sure you're making assumptions about dead ancestors that not everyone has are you ignorant? Everyone has dead ancestors How is having children a "service" to your dead ancestors? By not letting them die in vain. Carrying on a legacy. It's respectful to them to become the best version of yourself. Our grandparents didn't die in wars for nothing. It's for future generations, it's for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:46 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men would not be happy with an ugly partneri guess they'd cheat and find someone younger, hotter... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:28 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men would not be happy with an ugly partnerwhat about when you guys start aging? How can you base your happiness in a relationship over something neither of you can control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:25 AM |
| -5 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?Its a disservice to them to give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:16 AM |
| -2 | How do you envision growing old in relationship?All ur ancestors before you died trying to make a better life for their children and future generations ultimately leading to you and you selfishly end it. Be the most successful person your bloodline has ever seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards"u sound insecure" you said it twice. we were just having a normal discussion. I said "I know i enjoy the conversation lol" in one comment. You responded with "oh wow you have absolutely zero idea what you are talking about and just spreading misinformation hahah." Which then I responded with that was a lazy response. You then ask me what my stats are in the next comment, which isn't what we were talking about so I knew you had an ulterior reason to ask this to personally attack me. This was pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsi never attacked you personally, in fact you started being rude first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsIt's like playing chess with a pigeon. No matter what you do they will strut around the board and shit all over it acting like they won... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI literally said im 120 lbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI agree, but that's only true if a woman knows she isn't on his level. Whatever your level is doesn't matter we are speaking generally about the average woman here. looks are only good for getting your foot in the door. Word But were people looked at as ugly for being jacked? Doubt it. Ive seen girls claim having huge muscles and being super big is nasty, yes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You can take great care of yourself and still be mid. I know girls who don't sleep and binge drink … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThat is realistic - for attractive women. Even attractive women dont base ltrs off of looks only. The sex appeal only lasts for a while. If he is a bum eventually he will be passed on Lots of women date guys they don't find exceptionally attractive I actually agree with you on this 👍 Yeah but was being in great shape or having a big dick ever seen as a negative? It's not that they're negatives, it's simply that they were not the beauty standard at that time. As I said, beauty is in the eye of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWell I was thinking about it. I think if you cry over something stupid then a woman will lose respect for you, whereas a man wouldn't. Like if you see a bug in your house and you jump up and start crying over it, I wouldn't take that man seriously. Or if he cried to me because of a joke I made that he took too seriously. But if he was genuinely opening up and crying? Why would i lose respect for him. When I saw my dad cry when his mother passed I cried with him and I didn't lose respect. I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsSure the accuracy can be debated, but this picture was similar to the ones in the videos i saw where the girls picked their favorite bodies. 15-20% isnt the average male body fat. 18% to 24% is the average male body fat, it certainly overlaps just as i said. no not everyone has a 6 pack when they flex. seems like you dont have much experience with the male gender What I meant is we all have abs just like we all have biceps and glutes. Some bigger than others 🤣 you are also ignoring muscle mass. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsLots of takers, I'll tell you that much. The idea that women don't love ripped, muscular guys is insane. Not saying we dont, just saying most women are okay with something more realistic in ltrs. No. Some things are objectively attractive. Being fat, chinese feet binding, large foreheads, and tiny penises were also at one point seen attractive. Not saying there arent attractive people at all tho 🤷🏽♀️ Look at the picture of MBJ I linked. Every woman is going to admit that he's attractive. Sure, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsnotice how u didnt respond to my points tho. especially the 1st one. lazy response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI'm 6'2, 187, 9% body fat. Trust me, girls love it. Hot ones, too, I don't go for mids. I look similar to Michael B. Jordan in Creed 1. any askers? 🤣 There is no universe in which I would look better with 15% body fat. You can do whatever you want with your own body but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. All I'm saying is there are plenty of women who find men at higher body fat percentages attractive as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsbut your kind of confirming his opinion by saying that 15% body fat is normal and easy to achieve and maintain I dont think I'm confirming OP at all. If most women are fat is it unreasonable for a guy to say I'd like a healthy girl? I don't think so at all. 15-20% body fat isn't an unreasonable request and it even overlaps with the average male body fat %. cause it looks like a guy with a 6 pack who is bloated and not flexing. Bro technically everyone has a 6 pack if you're gonna say this ☠️ not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsbroke guys disagree w me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?To me this is just disgusting behavior. Im Christian and I would only marry a virgin man who highly values sexual experiences inside of marriage only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?then they know they’d have to bring something else to the table to attract a man, other than their sex appeal. Women already know this. Is this satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWell sure women like abs just like men love feminine bodies, but in the context as OP put it, he made it seem like women/his wife wouldn't even consider a man fit or attractive if he didn't have abs which just isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsi dont rly know how to use imgur but here. I think 15% is a quite reasonable request. I dont think a visible 6 pack is a great standard to go by for fitness or attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:09 PM |
| 10 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI wonder how much of the 'guys need to be jacked' mentality comes from men themselves. True, I think men put more pressure on themselves to not be a bitch or wimp than women do. Like so many red pilled guys say if you cry in front of your girl she will never respect you when I've never heard a woman say a man can't cry in front of her. In fact I think many girls think it shows trust, intimacy, and vulnerability to be able to console a man they love who is sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:01 PM |
| 12 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsIn her eyes a guy wasn’t fit unless he was jacked like a beast. I watched a lot of videos where random women picked out the best body fat% on a guy and most liked around 15%. They said it was because the more jacked guys physique was unattainable year round and quite unrealistic. Most guys get married and most guys aren't jacked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingthe top men dont care tbh it's all about looks first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingthis is mans fault not mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumhavent men enabled us to have the value we do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themSo I found the study you are talking about and I wanna say... 9 out those 12 states land in the top 10 list for porn consumption, This doesn't mean you can imply that Christian men in those states watch the same/more porn than non Christian men in different states. Ultimately its not true or helpful to say that all men watch porn when No fap and religion exists. We must acknowledge there are in fact men who believe porn is bad and are stopping their addictions to it!! If you look at the GSS it s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themThere might be a lot of men who claim they don't look at porn. If they claim it, what other choice do I have but to believe them. Many religious guys I know and even online, openly preach about the negative effects of porn. No fap is a strong movement I don't think Jeff Bezos Elon Musk, surgeons, or multimillionaires are browsing hub in their free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:02 PM |
| 3 | How many LTRs have you been in?samesies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themThere are plenty of men who practice no fap or live religiously which means no porn or sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumNot saying you did, not saying you caused her to cheat or that it's your fault or even your issue. It's just a bitch move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumclearly the girl who is already taken by another man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumits giving pick me energy. imagine if a girl said this 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumI dont see the relevancy to my previous point..moving on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 07:41 AM |
| 6 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumwhatever dude have fun with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumshe's literally taken ☠️ its just an asshole thing to do. especially if it's your friends girl. i guess people like you are okay with ignoring what right in order to have 10 minutes of mid sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don't necessarily want the best men, they just want a guy better than themwow I 100% agree dude this is facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumBecause she has a boyfriend? Are you into forbidden love or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumIf not him then she would have probably found some other guy. then that guy is an asshole too 🤣🤣 like what Not really. Im speechless. You are truly a minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumits an asshole thing to do to cheat on someone u know is in a monogamous relationship. if one of ur guy friends slept with your girl wouldn't you cut him off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumit def is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you know why youre attracted to what youre attracted to?im attracted to guys with cute eyes and soft hair. my type of men has never been one you could say is "conventionally attractive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Mens height is just a natural form of peacocking, knowing this, average to short men can compensate by actively peacocking.i just totally disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumwhy would u fuck someone in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more.can we just stop shaming each others genders for having standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more.a LOT of women out there are interested in a mans money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?i could fix him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:58 AM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?So you're saying you know a lot of beautiful women who are staying virgin till marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:09 PM |
| 13 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?i feel like most women who are virgins and ready for commitment are Christians who would likely only want other virgin men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themIf it is over anyway, enjoy the decline the best you can. I dont think its over. Ever heard the quote "Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times" Porn is a response to that, not the cause. If porn is a response to lonely and sad men and you say its been a great service to them, why are there still lonely and sad men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themVery well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themPorn makes more money than the NFL NBA and MLB combined, yet it's totally free to watch? If it's so beneficial to men, why is it free? The reason is because you pay with your soul 🤣 Men who are addicted to porn are weak. Porn does nothing good for men and it doesn't make you less sexually frustrated. It's instant gratification without having to put any work in, and that's all it is. It affects your brain in awful ways and gives an unrealistic image of what sex is. Some men watch porn so much the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing?i guess the inviting a girl over would be indicating you want to do something sexual with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 10 | What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing?Men should not expect sex on a first date The majority of men who ask for sex on a first date don't really expect it, they just know that there will be no consequences for asking. This might be interesting to see. Almost every girl in the comments said if man asked for sex the first date, she would find it off putting and stop seeing him 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:10 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What do you think of a dude doesn't try to escalate to full sex the first night?If a dude did this to me I would never speak to him again. I'm religious and would only date other virgins waiting till marriage. I would make this clear so to avoid any man hungry for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:31 AM |
| 23 | Social awkwardness is the biggest death sentence for menBut why is it that socially awkward men tend to be below average in looks? lower looks -> lower confidence -> socially awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:12 AM |
| 4 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?my college is literally so fit wtf 💀 I've seen maybe 7 or 8 obese people walking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:02 AM |
| 8 | Their is no incentive to date as a manI saw this and I checked his posts. I'm dying bro 💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Their is no incentive to date as a manI agree the system has failed many people. However there is always incentives to date as humans will always have a natural need for relationship, connection, and sex. i just want to be loved by someone who actually ask about my day and stuff understand my emotions I thought your goddess did this for you many men will easily not look further then looks You're saying this but at the same time, you clearly want a women to care about you and understand you on a deeper level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 20 | Their is no incentive to date as a manTbh the internet is no supplement for an actual relationship with someone. If you only want sex from girls I assume yes, maybe there's no incentive to date. But being intimate and committed to someone you love is something many people want. I only agree with your 1st point that men expect women to initiate. This is true on a large scale. But the fact that you said women just have to "look nice" on dates kind of tells me everything I need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Men are more honest and faithful than women.any askers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:42 PM |
| 13 | Men are more honest and faithful than women.Most relationships aren't polygamous though. The problem is you vowed not it cheat when the relationship began. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Men are more honest and faithful than women.Isn't it a stat that men leave their sick partners at 6 times the amount that women do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:11 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.I mean is it wrong to be picky? Do you think men marry women they find sexually unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:39 AM |
| 36 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.I hate to say it but at the end of the day, most women with delusional standards will end up unhappy. Either alone, not with the guy she wants, or for recreational use for the guys she does want. I feel like there are a lot of women who would genuinely rather be alone than to marry a man whom she knows is not adequate out of pure loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.“sexless, lonely men” issue didn’t exist before. Actually only 40% of all men who ever existed have procreated. So sexless and lonely men has always been a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:33 AM |
| 3 | RPs: Can I get a "not all men"? Or do y'all cosign this?minority of women that would be attracted to an ugly idk i feel like most rapists and sex offenders are pretty ugly 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it.you make no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableYou revert to personal anecdotes a lot it seems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | will the Gym help his dating life?the more plates the more dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 05:24 AM |
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