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| 37 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillWhy don’t they call them “people with testes”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.This is why you should at minimum get a pamphlet when you get married that spells out marital law in your state at the time of marriage, with a clause that laws change and so signing up to get married might not even be what this pamphlet describes. But the pamphlet should spell out that all money earned during the marriage is equally owned by both spouses. Because it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 14 | J.Lo and Ben … ultimate pickme?Women want men who are at least as rich and successful as they are, so this puts a woman like J Lo in a really really tough position. Her options are way more limited than any of us. She had some sort of real connection with him in the past, and there is trust in his intentions at least. I don’t feel for her in terms of life being hard or anything in any aspect except for romance. There is the known Oscar’s curse. Any actress who wins an Oscar their love life turns really difficult. Not sure if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 19 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himShe’s asking for support to leave him, I think building her up is what she needs right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 16 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himAw huge hug to you! Do NOT BLAME YOURSELF OR YOUR BEHAVIOR. No. No! Stop it! “If only I acted better, he’d be what I want….” This guy does not give YOU what YOU (rightly) want: Reassurance when he’s busy Expressed enthusiasm Considerate contact He is punishing you for having normal needs. You have not even expected enough from him, and in your mind you expected “too much” and pushed him away. That’s a common horrible error women make. Good for you for coming here for support to hear it. You do n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Stay. Away. From. These. Bum. Ass. “Estranged”. Single. Dads. (P.S - baby mama? Baby mama?….You mean the woman whom he impregnated and to whom he had two children? Girllll i-) the tomfooleryI’m sorry that happened to you. Glad to see you understand your parents should have prioritized you! I have so many pickme girlfriends who can’t connect the dots between being second class to their parents and thinking it’s okay to get second class treatment from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Stay. Away. From. These. Bum. Ass. “Estranged”. Single. Dads. (P.S - baby mama? Baby mama?….You mean the woman whom he impregnated and to whom he had two children? Girllll i-) the tomfooleryNo, single child free women should date child free men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Why are men often so short sighted they sabotage themselves?I think the problem is they are genuinely short sighted and actually don’t have longer term goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Traditionally feminine means both of those things to me I suppose, sundress and latex mini. Feminine being defined as skirts, long hair, dainty shoes, breasts, hips, small waist, emotion, receiving, gentleness. You know I used to sneer at women who wanted the attention of overtly female sexual outer appearance, as it seemed desperate for lust, which was sort of a low level way to get attention in my book. But I was desperate for attention in another way, which was to seem talented and smart. In … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 04:02 AM |
| -8 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.I don’t think there is a single thing wrong with wanting male attention. Modesty isn’t the only virtue. Being sexually appealing is a pretty normal unshameful human desire. And I don’t think fashion or feminine norms originated solely from mens deranged brains. Sephora is fun to me, it honestly is. I love long hair, I love makeup. I love clothes that celebrate womens bodies and are beautiful. If a man sees me, thinks my hair is sexy and my taste in clothes is awesome, I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.That’s interesting I had the opposite experience. When I was more traditionally masculine leaning in my demeanor and appearance around men, I attracted men who used me financially and did not love me. When I embraced a more traditionally feminine appearance out of the spirit of being more genuinely myself and breaking away from a bad relationship, I found men who had more an attitude that they should pay for dates, open doors for me, and I have to tell you that kind of treatment after decades of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:41 PM |
| -3 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.I respectfully disagree and don’t see this as internalized misogyny. Feminine is different from masculine. Embracing what our biology, culture, conditioning, world reflect as feminine with what lines up inside of us as feminine and not seeing it as shameful or lesser is very important. To believe what our culture categorizes as feminine is simply catering to men is not accurate in my experience of embracing femininity and learning to stop judging myself or other women based on an ultra feminine … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.I think sexual attraction is a combination of innate instinct and cultural and familial conditioning. Men learn to be abusers from the dads in their families. There is research about attraction and your mothers eye color. Women who choose to look like bimbos, whether they are intelligent or not naturally intellectually gifted, should never be shamed as I don’t think of this as pickme behavior since my self esteem skyrocketed once I started doing away with not caring how I looked to men to wantin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenJust some advice to men reading this. Romantic overtures are very different from sexual overtures. If you have a female friend you actually have feelings for, you need to address the feelings without sex being on the table at all. The reason girls say this is it’s often just during a moment of hanging out as friends that sexual things are brought up. Ask her on a proper date if you have genuine feelings. Pay for the date. Text her afterwards, ask her out again. Pay again. Don’t see other women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | What we can learn from model Paulina Porizkova (the latest Aba & Preach video)I don’t know if this has anything to teach anyone. The only way a rich husband is guaranteed useful if if you have children with him. And women should never have children with men who make less money than them. Otherwise, I don’t particularly feel sorry for her financially but I do feel sorry that she obviously was not deeply loved and has not experienced that yet in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?Absolutely. Screw her. My career dumped me like a LV starter husband dumps you. Hard. I actually realized women who married rich men? They get a chunk or a stream of money funneling at them- even when dumped- they don’t have to go work to earn. Smarter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 4 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣Exactly— these coaches I think aren’t totally off the mark in some respects. I think a lot of this coaching is actually how to stop compensating for dumb men, not getting rid of power or assertiveness or brains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 71 | A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They CheatFirst I hate someone using the word “folks” it feels like a word used in socially divisive conversations and is a red flag that the speaker is being manipulative. An “unmet emotional need” for men is usually meeting their “need” that is based on entitlement and using women. How can they proclaim to love their wives whilst hurting them, and how can they be ok with using the woman they are having the affair with? Their “unmet needs” can ONLY be met by using and hurting. Is that really a human need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 8 | "The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩We must have all had our moments that brought us here. I really did not fault these women.my heart aches for learning this lesson in the most brutal way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 3 | I think he told on himselfThe “when I scolded you…” Please read “why does he do that?” It’s about the mindset of abusive men, and I do think men fall along a spectrum of severity here, but the mentality can manifest in psychological abuse like this. Men believe they are entitled to control women. When a woman criticizes a man, he punishes her for it. Criticizing is usually what starts normal fights between people and he seems to have been able to act normally until now. But the telling “when I scolded you…” his view is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 66 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteShe’s in denial because she is in love with this guy. This is why abused women never leave, there is a part of you that had dreams with the guy. But she will get some good perspective from people insisting she go to the police asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 41 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteI’m her defense this is so upsetting I can imagine being frozen. She knows she needs to go to the police and that is terrifying. I’m sure she went to the internet to get the courage to go to the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Why is there so many "crazy" mother-in-laws? (Let's discuss from the perspective of FDS)I do think it is from a basic need for men to protect you in this world from other bad men. We learn this from our dads. A good strategy for being safe from all the bad men (which is like, almost all) is to have a good man. Now a mothers son is the ONLY man she doesn’t have to worry about raping her, beating her up, yada yada. Her special status is confused with the fact that she’s does something for him: laundry food love etc. She fears the new wife in his life doing the laundry food and love a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?Ive found my first negative judgement of a man is the reason I leave him years later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateThe going to out to dinner to celebrate is like, tragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 19 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsThis 44 year old I know - his last girlfriend was 23. I asked him if he felt embarrassed going out with her- what people would think. He said he didn’t think they looked very different in age or seem very different in age. I was like, oh you think she’s dating you because you seem like you are in your 20’s? I started laughing so hard. I was like, “she’s dating you because to her, you are REALLY old and she has daddy issues or something where your old-manness is playing out some broken thing in h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 7 | sEx pOsiTivitY 🤡🤮It could also just be fueled by rich men who realize they can brainwash a lot of women into pleasing what men want in sex and never realizing they have a right to what they want. I mean, old rich guys having a way to cultivate young women into overlooking their natural disdain for infidelity? Encouraging them to think of things that bring them zero physical pleasure as “sex”? This stuff is a goldmine for combatting women’s rising power in the economic and status arenas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youThis makes me want to cry actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:28 PM |
| 11 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersPoor thing had to edit to apologize. No apology, this world has brainwashed women that the pill was going to change their psychology and turn them into men. Nope. We still have different needs and desire than men do! An equal relationship is not just everyone acting like dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Sex work is not a "pure" service job like being a barista or a maid, it is undergirded by the commodification of the female body. Women are viewed and treated like goods.I believe that most women would be deeply psychologically harmed by sex work in the same way sex abuse survivors are harmed. We as women are wired to have instincts around attraction, for sexual sensations to release oxytocin and bond us. Once you decide you will accept money to permanently damage these things you don’t get them back, neurologically you don’t heal. Your brain wires connections meant for you to have children and bond to a beloved man to connections of disgust and violence. Nobody… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Texas Abortion Laws Mega-ThreadI had a condom break, and then a morning after pill fail. Even if you have totally unprotected sex and you don’t do a thing it doesn’t mean you are less deserving of an abortion than someone in my position. The how the pregnancy happened is in my mind completely and totally irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Texas Abortion Laws Mega-ThreadAnd you know there are many ways the pill fails right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Texas Abortion Laws Mega-ThreadAbortion is not just about whether there is money for the child. A woman sacrifices so much more than that to continue a pregnancy. A ban is medically inhumane, emotionally inhumane and the issues are much more profound. I’m guessing you don’t have children you birthed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 4 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?I think you are trying to get around a very basic fact of the risks of sex here. With this opinion, I’d avoid it entirely if this is what you would do to somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 8 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?I think any man who sleeps with a woman under the age of about 50 knows that there is a potential birth control can fail, and a baby will be made. I agree with you wholeheartedly on this and can’t believe there are men who find this anything hut obvious that sex carries a risk, and the woman bears the brunt of consequences and it just is her decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:17 PM |
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