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OH GOD PARTNER BY FAR. no question. I have been hired by dudes multiple times for having a good conversations about frogs and/or history. I have been hired by women twice solely based on "you make amazing eye contact!" But never dated, so yeah interviews are easy, you just tell them what they want to hear while looking them in the eye lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:01 AM
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I never said anything about where have all the good women gone. And dude, you got a rainbow flag balloon... i think your boyfriend is the one digging you deeper and deeper. Dont throw stones in a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:47 PM
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Because in my years of life I have so far never met a guy who cheated on his wife, but have met many men who have been cheated on by theirs. So this "oh it is 50/50" thing is just not true. Sure it can be anecdotal, but you are seeing it more and more on here since people are noticing women's true nature. Like acting as if it is just all random people is just not the case. Look at crime data, different groups commit crimes at different rates. Saying everyone commits crime is not a viable solutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:00 PM
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Um what? Nowhere in the post did I ever say forgoing sex. That is a huge leap, but what I was pointing out is that many men try to warn other men about a lot of women since there is a lot of gaslighting on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:49 PM
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its called life... and your own eyes. You can see examples daily if you eyes are open.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:31 PM
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I totally see where you are coming from but there are huge/gigantic/gargantuan number of women who gaslight men daily about how they want a good man who treats them well and brings them flowers... but they end up dating bad boys who abuse them and treat them like dogshit, and then they complain "Where have all the good men gone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:30 PM
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I understand why people express these feelings but I just want to point out that ultimately it’s just senseless, it’s not going to change anything. They generally are not trying to change it. If a guy who has been married 30 years says to you "I dont recommend getting married" he is not trying to change the situation, but is instead trying to warn you. The posts men make about pointing out how women want the opposite of what they say they want is to warn men about the truth. So…what I would reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:22 PM
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True "nerd-ness" is a not merely a set of hobbies. Rather it is a set of neurologically-rooted personality characteristics that are essentially the same neurotype as Asperger's Syndrome. It is neurologically real. An interesting feature of this neurotype is that it overlaps with LGBT identification - 'spergs and nerds are more likely to be non-heterosexual or transgender than neurotypicals. Ok, I could maybe see this if everyone who was nerdy was also a misogynist or another stereotype, but many…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:31 PM
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oh god the comments from women on this thread are just disturbing. You cant just force straight dudes to be gay or equate it to "well if he is unattractive he needs to convert to being gay" like it is a religion or something. I have no idea how we made it this far as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:59 PM
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Sadly isn't that what dating apps are at this point? If only the top 5% or even 1% are getting dates then you basically already have that service set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:20 PM
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I swear this is becoming a more American or Western thing. And I dont even mean the cheating, but more so when someone does something wrong, the victim is then accused of causing the problem. Even today you will see people commit crimes or steal and it is like "look what you made him do!" and it likes how did I make him do that? I would see this all the time in highschool where it is almost encouraged that the victim is the one who is at fault for the actions of the perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:40 PM
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I would say the ability to be believed by default (although this is changing recently) about perceived slights against them have caused issues for me, although it has always been super rare. And also their ability to just say things that if a man said it to a woman they would get in some trouble. Example: I have been told by women, even family members, very casually that if the standards are xyz for what a woman wants, I should just do that to my body. Whereas if I said the same thing to a women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:00 AM
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Some outlets are but to them it is a "Scooby-Doo mystery" and its always economically focused and revolving around how men are the ones who need to change and it is their fault... even though they are the ones who are not dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:27 PM
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I love a lot of Roman history but when I took courses on it one thing that suppressed a lot of people was how the Roman beauty standards worked. They generally liked small, and the beauty standard for women was not actually large breasts and for males being overweight was not really seen as bad since it meant you were wealthy. Today it is sort of the opposite, but a lot of beauty standards are taught on a societal level. Obviously the examples above can very but it is interesting to see how diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:42 PM
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No. If the woman slept with dudes before on the first date but wanted me to wait until the 5th that would be like a red flag and a dealbreaker. If the woman made everyone wait a while then it would be totally fine. Overall though sleeping with someone on the first date would just let me know they are not marriage/longterm material.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:59 AM
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Nah if anything it should be the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:27 AM
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They seem to want the best of both worlds. Like full on empowerment to do what they want, when they want, without any consequences or responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:05 PM
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I postulate that more women put more effort into their appearance than men. (Hetero couples of course.) And this, coupled with men’s generally lower standards, means that the averages of both genders are not in fact equal to each other. Thats the issue... if a guy saves you from a lion, who cares how well fitted his shirt is? In the 1950's for example, if a dude had a house and lived through WW2, who cares if we walks with a limp, or has brown eyes, or does bird watching as a hobby? Today a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:00 PM
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This is the answer. I think we now call it "hoeflation"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:55 PM
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I looked into this topic a lot since I too was confused and it made no sense. Basically from what I found is that lets say you have a dude who wants to settle down and get married. He makes average money, looks average, and just is average. Ok so now lets say you have an average woman who wants the same. So generally speaking (not all), it seems that the average guy just is not attractive enough for the average woman. When you then combine this with online dating standards that are ever so incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:48 PM
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Yeah... but people just dont care. Most women it seems want to "have their fun" in their 20's and then scramble to find someone, or just end up a single mom. It is also SUPER expensive to try to have kids at +35 since it can require a lot of drugs and there can be miscarriages and so on. There was a woman the other day in an interview I saw who had her first kid at 41 and then wanted a second at like 45... I just dont know what these people are thinking. Anyways, I think the ideal age is 25-30 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:42 PM
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yeah that dude may need to go on like suicide watch or something because I dont think he is in a mentally sound state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:16 AM
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Yes... I think to a certain extent as well the women too where a lot happier (not all). But overall they knew going it in was a transaction, but at the same time it was like "if we get the homework done now we dont have to do it later" meaning if they worked hard and had families early, they would see their lives grow. I dont know many very elderly people who had been married forever who hated it, I will say that I believe these are much more rare today since the boomers ran their marriages diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:14 AM
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nah, they would not have been happier. They did not even have the invention of the wheel until we came here. Now we got laundry machines and cars. So even forget the 50's even if we were in the 1870's the women would be happier than making camp fires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:44 AM
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Lol never said to date clones. I hate the numbers rating system but if someone is a 5 i mean them dating a 4-6. No clones involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:13 AM
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Since women dont have to ask men out usually lands on the man to do it, so if women just dont often say yes after a while it just appears unfair. Now if it became the social norm where both men and women asked each other out and people went after similarly attractive people it would tone down the issues of today and appear less unfair. I dont see this happening though and I personally think it is more of a out of touch standards issue rather than a fair vs unfair practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:55 PM
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I think what a lot of people have issues with is less so that is is unfair, but how it is more rigged or almost like a lottery system. There was a guy I remember on another sub talking about how he asked out 10 women over a few months span and all of them said "no." Some responses were sympathetic, but many where like "bro only 10! There are like 4 billion women in the world! Got get em tiger!" Now lets do a bit of math. Some studies show 75% (roughly) of women want a man to approach them. Ok, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:47 PM
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Because I dont take the phrase to be sexist. Its just an average saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:09 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:26 PM
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I miss the old days when it came to this. Back in 2015/2016 from what I remember MGTOW was around and the Red Pill was more centered around men's rights and the dangers of divorce. Also the red pill was both a dating term and a political one, so someone could be blue pilled on one or the other. Now the pills seem to be revolved around dating. Oddly the Black Pill seems like a new phenomenon, if it was true in the past though we would all be bond hair blue eyed 8ft tall giants. However, with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:07 PM
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I dont see the harm in it. Plus you can also have them done where you can see where you are genetically from and so on, so it could be a sort of cool win win. If the woman was worried about having one done that would be a bit of an issue, since I see where they are coming from due to it implying a lack of trust, but at the same time if you get one done and they are the parent then at least you know and wont have it on your mind. I will say that in many cases I am sure you would not need to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:25 PM
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Guy X eventually learns that oh fuck, it does matter in a general sense. It completely goes against the narrative he's been fed. Guy X gets frustrated. And then they tell guy X ''See, it's that frustration that's the fault! That's why you're lonely! It's your insecurity about your height!''. Him expressing his frustrations is seen as something nobody actually wants to hear and is made a him problem, even if unfairness is involved. You can see this in all kinds of areas of life that are unfair. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:23 PM
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Sure, but if we are talking about the initial approach I just dont see women doing that even at a third space, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:41 PM
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Women generally don’t want to approach men, they still want to be approached by men. I would argue this has led to more women settling for men to marry. I think this is slightly skewed. Women do sometimes approach men if they are incredibly good looking... but they also when approached do not want to be approached by men who they can perceive as creepy. As for the second part though, most women seem to be coming to the conclusion to go it alone if they cant get all the boxes checked rather than …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:29 PM
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yeah but not having any does not seem like a red flag to me since at this point I communicate with most of them online. If the internet went out tomorrow I would just have family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:41 PM
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Yeah the who "red flag" thing when it comes to friends is just sort of odd. I have had times in my life where I have +15 or more friends and a very large social circle and other times like now where I have like 2 close friends and a bunch of online friends. It also is highly location dependent too since for me most of my friends left since it just became to expensive or they went dormant and no longer leave their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:10 PM
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