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Escalation & Calibrationannoyinover/r/seduction15/02/22 07:28 PM
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Fundamentalsannoyinover/r/seduction24/12/21 10:03 PM
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I wouldn’t ask about body count. You’re not gonna be happy with most of the outcomes. Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:49 PM
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Post some of your text conversations, that’ll help give us a little bit of an idea into how you interact with women
/r/seduction29/07/24 05:10 AM
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Yeah you have no idea how to pick up on social cues. You expressed how you felt (always a bad idea btw), she rejected you and you continued to do things to make her uncomfortable. You noticed her body language and still thought it was a good idea to try and kiss her? Use this as a lesson and be smarter when you go after someone else. This is finished, move on
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:08 PM
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The thing that’s worked for me is not giving a shit about the result, just say what you’re feeling (obviously with tact) but just be flirtatious and funny
/r/seduction17/06/24 06:36 PM
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All good man it happens, just don’t let it keep you down from going on more dates. We all go through it
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:40 AM
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I mean how did that happen, did the date just go horribly?
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:21 AM
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Wait so how did you end up fumbling it
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:24 AM
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This shit never works my boy
/r/seduction05/05/24 04:26 PM
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I’ve taken her out for a movie date before and other separate occasions though that’s the thing. Which made her comments and lack of receptiveness weird in that situation. I felt like I did set the frame and the escalation, but I’m guessing she either was being daft/leading me on or she just thought I wasn’t serious. Thank you for your responses btw man, I really like your insights.
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:31 AM
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You’re right. Let’s say I’m open to the relationship idea, how would you say to proceed? Also you’re saying that she wasn’t giving false indicators but she just knew I wasn’t interested in something serious?
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:49 PM
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Not really no, I think the part of me that does is suffering from the sunken cost fallacy.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:21 PM
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I think she wants a relationship, can’t say whether it’s with me or not. But it seems she got the impression I wanted something casual, hence the mature/immature comments which I believe came from her thinking I wouldn’t be able to stay friends once it ended.
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:48 PM
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Yeah, she knows I talk to other girls and all. So she probably just doesn’t want to be added to that list and wants something exclusive tbh. I’ll just show I’m not phased and let it slide after that. The mature comment could’ve been her thinking I wouldn’t be able to be friends if we end things.
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:33 PM
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Yeah it bothers me but I wasn’t expecting / looking for an LTR. More so annoyed I was led on in a sense? We’re always hella flirtatious and the banter is always on point. Plus the touch barrier pretty much doesn’t exist. I was thinking of just messaging a meme just to show I’m not salty / butt hurt and then leaving it at that. As in not furthering convo or creating plans. And ya I don’t get the immature / mature thing at all 😂
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:28 PM
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Legit have no idea. From what I garnered she wants a proper relationship but I’m confused as to why she’d let me escalate like this all the time and do non-friend things?
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:23 PM
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Right? I mean I’m not offended but it’s more so annoying that this person kinda led me on in that direction. All that stuff is not stuff you do with just a “friend”. I’m thinking of just playing it cool like nothing happened and then seeing how interactions are next time we’re out and potentially trying again.
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:59 PM
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I see, I guess I was looking for clarification on if I messed up the escalation or misread the signs. I was thinking there’s no way she isn’t interested/attracted if she let me hold hands, cuddle that close and touch her upper thigh, etc.
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:44 PM
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