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| 159 | Hookup culture is a scamI never had casual sex and in my teens and early twenties are thaught I am not living my life. Now I am just glad I didn't, I just have to take a look at what men find arousing. Turns me off for several month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:11 PM |
| 21 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.I stoped reading after the first sentence. I need a new pair of eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 9 | Rapist redemption on TVO my good, I hated that ted talk. Why are we so forgiving. When I was interested in buddism, the buddist was talking about how beeing one thing doesn't define us. A few examples: If we are lazy one day, doesn't mean you are a lazy person. (You are a human beeing not a label blabla). But he was talking about rapists and even how we should not see them only for what they did and stuff. "It was just one brik in their wall. (The rape)" Humans are like a wall and we can't be defined by one brik. Men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:37 PM |
| 16 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Even if it is just the height, who cares 🤷♂️ They have to chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 57 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Isn't it funny how average height men are like the victim of the universe and dwarf men are like "I don't care, I now what I have to offer."? Men who really are affected by height now their disadvantage and try to life their best lives. I remember a woman with dwarfism, she hated people trying to help her and was very confident. I never heard of a man with dwarfism crying about their height and how unfair everything is. They are more manly than taller men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 20 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Why ..... .... is this sub so funny? xDDD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:15 PM |
| 18 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.The thing is, the men were ugly themself, because women already settle for ugly men. They just weren't attracted to the women and watch porn to masturbate. Always date men who are 100 % attractive, so you know this won't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:01 PM |
| 140 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.I know it is a serious topic, but this made me laugh 😂😂 But seriously, men were saving themself first in most tragedies in human history. (Afghanistan is a recent one.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:46 AM |
| 27 | Don’t date men that are incapable of critical thinkingOne thing I want to add: "She never told me she didn't like it." or "You should have told me before you don't like that." The man is doing or saying something to the woman or demands something from her. After the conversation escalates the man says, she should have told him before hand. A few example: "You should have told me, that you want a man who is equally responsible for house hold duties." "You should have told me you don't like bdsm." etc. pp. It puts the blame on you, even tho he is the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 60 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeInstead of asking monogamous people how they get their needs met from one romantic partner, maybe you should ask yourself why you think you need to be sleeping with someone to have a meaningful relationship with them. This should be in the handbook or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 10:15 AM |
| 19 | Strangulation BIGGEST indicator of risk of DV murder. ...(but if he has an erection while doing it we can't talk about it because that would be kInK ShAmiNgWhat I hate the most about this: Most leftists (contrapoints and other youtuber) say that these things are liberating and empowering women. We as women have to take a strong stance against this, because Mysogini has no political party. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 105 | Strangulation BIGGEST indicator of risk of DV murder. ...(but if he has an erection while doing it we can't talk about it because that would be kInK ShAmiNghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ad6bpsQmV5Q In this video men are horrified of women taking away money from men as a kink and point out how this is abusive. They can't see it if worse things are done by men to women in the porn industrie or in real life! Why can't they see that bdsm is far worse then men giving away money they don't even need? They really do not see women as human! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:01 AM |
| 10 | Aww, the famous emotional support. No looks, no wealth, basically 0 requirements.There are men out there who fit the female gaze and want to be liked by women. They don't want to be "respected" by men, because they don't care that much about men. I really wish I could be so blissfully unaware what the male gaze looks like when I was a teenage girl. I sometimes feel women try so hard to be attractive for men and men have not enough pressure to be liked by women. How can an adult man not know what women want to be aroused? Looks are important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 13 | Men are the emotional sex.men are actually way better at weaponizing their emotions to get their way THIS! Men fake cry to make you feel sorry for them and to control you! Oftentimes they are not even sad, they force themself to cry. I have never seen a woman forcing herself to cry! I have many stories of men trying to get empathy with fake stories and fake crying, fake sob stories.. Projection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:28 PM |
| 16 | "men are only loved conditionally"This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:14 PM |
| 41 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornI always felt women and maybe more so girls get called insecure wayyy to much for no real reason. Sure there is the cliche "Women who wear/don't wear too mich make up are insecure.". But even when she isn't bubbly enough some men see this as a sign of insecurity. Once a teacher said to a female student she seemed a little bit insecure during a presentation. The presentation was awesome, he only said it, because he didn't have anything to criticize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:58 AM |
| 45 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realiseWhen I am waiting for my package to arrive and don't want to open the door for the postman/woman. I look trough the peephole to see when they leave. All the men are just unaware of it, but one time a woman was the post-(wo)man and she noticed! She even looked scared, I felt a little bit sorry. Somtimes I am standing behind men and I can tell, they don't even feel that I am there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 40 | How do you feel about the squid game? Do you think it’s worth watching?The main protagonist was weird at first, but I think it calls misoginy out. It highlights the objectification of women and also other struggles women face. It is worth watching, believe me. In my opinion it is also a very clever critism of violent porn, because the people have democracy and consented to the game, however the viewer is still aware that the game is still inhuman and just because there is money and consent involved, doesn't justify any of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 13 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?LOOOOOL 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:17 PM |
| 5 | It's no wonder that men are as dysfunctional as they are... this is from a men's therapist's site...You maybe wonder "In which ways is he showing me affection"? Well my man is leaving his dirty socks on the carpet so I can wash them. 🙏🙏 Every morning. I am just greatful he is coming home every day. 🤡 Sometimes he lets me sleep in his nest. ❤❤❤ I am just thankful, I am not a golddigger my lady friends. 🤡🤡🤡🤡 Sometimes he lets me see his friends, like I am a real person for him. How is your husband showing you affection? Please let me know in the comments. 💋 He never takes me out on dates, but I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:23 PM |
| 12 | Seeing too much bad things. Sharing my favorite TikTok couple. (They’ve met in 1992). Get yourself a man who is excited to take you out.I agree, more positive stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDI want nothing less 😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 22 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.Same, I dont hate men. They never go into details what we say that is sooo awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 664 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyWomen were never against masturbation. Like ever. They don't want their partners to consume porn, thats it. They can't even masturbate without trafficking hub.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 118 | Some men say, men going for much younger women or even teenagers is just "biology". I just realised adult men who try to be with teenagers/much younger women usually end up alone.Its very eye opening to read your story, because you experienced the same as mine. Maybe it is a whole phenomenon we as a society never talk about: Older men ending up alone because they persued younger women in their 20s and 30s. What do you think is the cause of this behaviour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:05 PM |
| 58 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!"They put ugly men in porn on purpose." There was a study about men not liking porn if the men is good looking! They get aroused more if the men is ugly as hell! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 10 | I desperately needed to bring attention to this. It speaks for itself. I was once a sex worker between the ages of 20-21 and I am filled with regret and am traumatized. Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/ellyarrow?lang=enI hope you wil l get better and that Germany will find a solution to its John problems. (The prostitutes are not the problem, Johns are the cause and reason for this mess.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 24 | How are you all coping with the world?Same, I could wear short shorts and a top as a teenager, however now I am mid 20s and I cover up in baggy clothes. Men have contempt for women, they changed the past 10 years. They tend to exclude us more and on every platform for men they are just full of misogyni. When I was a teenager I was buffled at the hate I encountered from boys and men. However even now I see little boys calling women names and I live the west. They want to make fun of women and girls. However I will try to live the bes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 23 | Study suggests that I don't give afThis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 14 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itI think women also have this "right." However disabled women don't purchase this "service", I don't know the exact reasons.🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 35 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itYes sex trafficing increased and disabled men have a right to get a women from the government so he can have sex with her. It is a joke and the woke culture supports it. I don't know about the eligible benefits, but I can imagine a women in the past doing sex work and then wanting to get eligible benefits have to consider applying for sex work again to get these benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 55 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itThe sex crime numbers would go up. I live in a country where sex work is legal. Everytime a brothel opens, the area becomes unsave for women and girls. Catcalling and sex crime numbers go up. More sex work -> more sex crimes. Why don't libfems look to countrys like germany etc. to check if women are saver or not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:03 PM |
| 135 | Surprising new perspectives on male sexuality...I live in a country with appropriate sex education. It is not the solution for sexual violence/dehumanizing of women in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 8 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceWhy do women date men they don't find attractive tho? In my opinion we as a society love ugly man. I see them in TV, in advertisment. Women feel save dating them. But where does this come from? (I can speak from experience, A lot of women think they can compensate their own flaws by dating men who are uglier. But the flaws women see in themselfs are things like stretch marks, cellulite and skin texture.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:41 PM |
| 259 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileYoung men around the world show similar behaviour, sometimes they are members of the Taliban, sometimes they are incels, sometimes they are 'just joking'. Misogyni is a systematic issue, not a personal one. If people say "Who raised this boy to be like that?" it ignores the bigger picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaHey can you make an episode about leveling up? Especially for younger subscribers it would be helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:01 AM |
| 21 | Your diminished ability to “pair bond” is actually protective.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:05 AM |
| 47 | How much misogyny is acceptable?I was a pickme and libfem and now I am a radical feminist. I try to keep this in mind when interacting with people in general. If the men knows what he is doing save yourself the time and ghost him. But if he genuinely doesn't know better, say something. He has to try to see your point of view. Keep in mind, that misogynie where your life and well beeing (also your emotional wellbeing) is threatened isn't worth it. We are not collateral damage for sexist men. Even if he can learn something, if y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 17 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates."Rules are there to be broken." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 25 | oop 👀I am really honest with you. I used to say I am a liberal feminist. My logic was: Conservative men want women to tell what they can and can not do with their body. Choice feminism: Women can decide what they can and can not do with their body. If I am against prostitution <-> I am against the bodily autonomy of women. I know it is a false aquivalent. But I was a teenager .. I just thaught it wasnt for me and thats it. The idea of prostitution seemed progressive. Liberal feminists were labeling w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 195 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)When a man says he "tries" to be active and fit... He looks "regular".🤡 "Not a model but not fat either." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 12 | Female pick up artists? Pfffft don’t flatter yourself men. Women have been vetting, weeding out men and voicing their concerns since forever! Don’t act brand new.Today I googled "Why do [my country] women have less children?" The answer was because "They can work know." The clownery 🤡🤡 All the answers were a variation of "Women have rights now." 🤡 Men are stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 52 | It's a lonely fightI am here every day, in the morning (before working) and in the evening. 😅😅 I don't even look at the front page. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:52 AM |
| 23 | Let's play a Game!In one episode he tried to talk her into getting a boob job! He was sweet talking about how plastic surgery is a choice and blablabla (her best friend got a boob job after breast feeding). He was thinking "if my best friend gets a wive with big boobs I want too!". It backfired, because she was insecure about her legs and wanted to have muscle implents. Even as a child I thaught "This man is 300 punds, she looks like a model. Why would he do this?" and the show even tried to make him look like a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 21 | I don't think men are capable of seeing us as humans, everOne time I watched a documentary about prostitution. The brothel owner had 3 daughters, a wive, a house and looots of money. He tried to look like a businesman and tried to make prostitution look empowering. When asked, if he would support his daughters becoming prostitutes, he answered "I will provide them with everything so they don't have to." There you have it ladys. They know damn well, that having sex in order to pay rent is not empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 29 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with using a man as a cash cow.Isn't it draining to go an dates with losers? If someone offers to pay for me I usually accept it. But to go on dates just for a 20$ meal? I would rather spent my time searching for a second income tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 22 - Judge Lynn Toler Holds Court with The QueensBest Episode so far! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 66 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleGerman here. Just because he can't watch porn, doesn't mean he isn't depraved. It depends on the man, not the country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI love this place like no other in the internet. Not because of dating, but because of you all. I see funny posts, thaught provocative ones, I learn a different perspective. I love hearing your stories and I want to always have this place on the internet. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Link Between Widespread Attraction to Minors and Eating Disorders?It feels so validating that I am not the only one! It is not us, it is them. Normal men like women who are healthy and happy, not underweight and miserable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:42 PM |
| 50 | Link Between Widespread Attraction to Minors and Eating Disorders?I lost a lot of weight at my first job (me beeing 20, 178 cm, 49 kg). The men stoped bullying me and complimented me. They were nice all of a sudden. When I wasn't underweight anymore, they were bullying again.. A looot of men are attracted to underweight women, because it reminds them of teenagers/young children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:46 PM |
| 46 | Men's anger comes from our power - we have something they want and we won't give it to themThats my deepest fear..having a son who is like that! Hope you can talk to him.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Why an FDS scrote-recognition and block mindset is needed in the workplace. Shocking accounts of #MeToo in the advertising world, similar to how LVM treat women on dates and in relationships.DM me too please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:16 AM |
| 39 | He wasn’t yelling at you, his voice gets louder when he’s upsetOh and they get extra mad if you start to speak faster, because you don't want to be interrupted. For them speaking fast in a emotional/upset voice is far worse than screaming at your partner angrily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:09 AM |
| 70 | He wasn’t yelling at you, his voice gets louder when he’s upset"I am not yelling at you, that's just the way I am, when I am upset." "Love and hate are very close to each other." "Don't talk in this high voice to me." "Couples who love each other should be able to fight." "If a couple really love each other there are fights here and there." explodes when you ask him to stop yelling. Men who yell often get angry, if you talk with your 'high emotional' voice (because you are upset) and they scream at you with they fake deep voices. They make their voices extr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:04 AM |
| 5 | This is how you savagely troll an insecure egoI think the same, I feel like he is so young. Why is it so important for him to be seen by other people as attractive? If somebody calls me fat (or chubby) and I am not, I really don't care. I did care when I was a teenager tho. Wonder how old he is.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:47 AM |
| 7 | "Women aren't funny""Porn looks like two dining chairs banging". Can't remember who of you queens said it, but thank you for making my day! I never laugh at comments, ever. But since finding FDS I laugh out loud, because you make the funniest comments. I love this subreddit so so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Found on Dr Jessica Taylor's Facebook page, and I had to post it here - such a great analysis of how misogyny works today.Sooo true. I am going to make feminist graffiti (altough I have to practice more to make it look good). Any suggestions? I really love this post, but feel like it would be too much for a graffiti. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:36 PM |
| 53 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.As a woman in STEM I agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 11:32 AM |
| 40 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.Me too. They were all laughing like hyenas, they are truly pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:52 AM |
| 17 | Potent.We really have to love ourselfs really hard in order to make this world a better place. No excuses for men, who are treating women poorly. Not even if he says he loves us.. Love is not enough from a man who is treating women and girls as he pleases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:14 AM |
| 60 | Potent.My father found his mother dead (suicide) when he was 13. His father was so heartless, he killed his dog infront of him as punishment. The dog ran away, came back and he just called my father and shot him! When I learned rape in marriage was only outlawed in 1997 I was angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.Men in Germany pretend they don't know how to do things. They get mad as hell if the woman doesn't work, but expect you to clean, cook, manage the children for free and with a smile. They don't want women, who want to be housewives, but expect you to say bye bye to your career if you want to have children. There are expectations, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 17 | Anna Bey speaking FDS truths yet againI love her for this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InThats a really good advice thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 56 | Anna Bey speaking FDS truths yet againLMFAO She is using Leonardo Di Caprio in the thumbnail. xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InHow do you gather the confidence to go to a bar alone? I always feel so akward going to social events on my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 64 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 74 | Men who watch porn are losers.Many men think porn and masturbation are the same thing. They don't even want to masturbate if they cant watch porn. They cant even think about a world where porn was not normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 35 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.This! If a man sleeps around, he probably is bad in bed and made 0 women cum! Fuckboy = bad in bad with additional small penis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 50 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMI have to agree with you. I didn't like them implying male children in kindergarden have high testosterone?! If a boy (before puberty) has high testosterone it is a sign of illness, he could have a tumor. So if your son is having a deep voice and/or pubic hair way before he hits puberty, he should be checked out by a doctor. If puberty hits the testosterone kicks in. I would like to have a more sintific approach, because a lot of women on here are educated and this episode is not really based on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 58 | BREAK-UP PSA: CHANGE YOUR LOCKS 🔐Oh my good, when he made a joke about it he totally did it. O_o they tell on themself. I am relieved you moved out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Henning MayHow old does he look? I am a few years younger them him and he looks like my age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:00 AM |
| 24 | Henning MayDon't worry he is 29 years old xD I think he just works out, drinks water and has a healthy diet (which most men don't have lol). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 30 | What is femininity?The thing is, I agree with you 100 %. I am trying to look good for myself, take care of my health and try to enrich my life. However at the end of the day I still wear make-up (mascara and concealer for my eyes). Why is it so difficult to see my face as good just the way it is? I feel like even if I am confident, if I meet new people I have to wear make-up. I can 100 % accept natural women, but I can't accept myself 100%. Can anyone relate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 15 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteWhy do all men have this handwriting? xD Okay not all, but I have only seen one woman having this handwriting and all the other times it was men. Do they all secretly visit a course to learn this style? xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:32 AM |
| 15 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Are you from Tunesia? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Men are given opportunities to defend women all the time they just dont want to or care enough to.A male professor once made a sexist joke about women and every men "laughed" (or pretended to laugh with this ugly forced laugh) and we were maybe 5 young women. They were all chearing as if they all waited to be able to laugh at women together. Soooo many men are sexist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:48 AM |
| 22 | Anybody see thisIt is called *****. I don't really know how this site works, I don't think you can search a name or anything. Edit: I removed the name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Sexualization of Children?!? | LED LiveI 100 % agree with the beginning. However later (minute 9:10) they start to critizise homosexuality? I think childrens clothing beeing sexualised and the objectification with young children is one thing to discuss. However showing homosexual characters in tv shows is 100 % okay, if it is not about sex. Children beeing aware of lesbains or gays won't make them think about sex. And Miley Cyrus is not a childrens character, she is a person. I will watch the whole video, just wanted to put my thaugh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 21 | What happened?I made a post about this change a while ago: Women and global crises : FemaleDatingStrategy (reddit.com) They changed their behaviour, it's not just in your head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Men Intentionally Act As If They Don’t Understand How Porn Negatively Impacts Women. It’s a Power Play. They Fucking Know.Wow, great post, I am so thankful for this place!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 11:34 AM |
| 36 | “Does my emotional support woman have to just put up with my shit or INSPIRE me to wipe my own ass? WheRe IS ThE LiNE?!” - The ruminations of an uninspired scrote:This reminds me of my NVX. One time I was angry at him for not cleaning his room/his dirty stuff. He said "Yes, finally you try to motivate me!". When I said, I am not his mum, he said, I am allowed to annoy him until his room is clean, it is motivating him. Thank you sir for AlLoWiNg Me to remind yourself of doing the bare minimum. I was so disgusted with him at the moment. I tried to talk to him about his bad hygiene several times, he never changed. When he didn't achieve something, he blamed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 7 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"This is very well written and I have to thank you for your bright mind and your ability to explain so well. I am forever thankfull to have found this sub. I feel like I am part of something bigger than myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:33 AM |
| 4 | On the idea that being intimidating to men is a lie women tell to justify their failure to bag a manTo be honest I think it is projection again. I see many young men studying a in a typical male dominated field. They are average looking, but invest all their free time in their future career (good for them). They are running around with a 3 liter bottle of water and think they can get a 10 out of 10 looking girlfriend because of their career choice. Meanwhile they are single and don't really interact with women a lot. They make fun of the few "ugly looking" women in their uni and try to wear ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 4 | LVM and using mental health as an insultLove your post, FDS is a breath of fresh air. I noticed this behaviour too, so many men use mental health issues as an insult! I don't like them at all, I could never put my finger on it, I never verbalized what they were doing right until now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 45 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.I remember the teacher asked the students about sexism and I said boys our generation are getting better. How could I be so wrong? They are more sexist and angrier then the generation before us. They have no empathy. They call us bitches and don't even see us as humans sometimes. They are aroused from violence against women. They are often attracted to girls, not women. I am now in my twenties and I think female friends will be my future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 8 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️Hello, I am from europe and I want to tell you my experience living in a country where sex work is legalised. (Sorry for my poor english.) It is forbidden to enter the street in Hamburg where women are prostituted if you are are woman. They tell women, that they will get attacked/bullied by men if enter this street. I was standing right infront the street and heard three men talking about their gf. One of them asked them if their girlfriend did allow him to strangulate her yet. Human trafficking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:49 AM |
| 26 | Are men actually good at hiding that they are pedophiles?I wanna know too. Soooo many men are pedophiles, some are very good at hiding it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 22 | Really Sick of Men Killing PeopleBut how much influence do mothers really have? They can mess up a kid pretty easily and are very important for the upbringing of children. But we already are giving so much to our children and it doesnt matter. In every culture and every religion boys will become the next generation of men who are committing these crimes. They learn from men and teach boys when they are older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inWhat kind of feminist graffity do you want to see? There is a giant dick spreyed on the walls of my neighbourhood and I want to put something more beautyful on top of it. Any ideas? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:46 AM |
| 63 | This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡There are no men who never used porn. They asked a university why they did not repeat a study where they would compare the beliefs about women from men who watched porn vs men who never watched porn. The university said they could not repeat the test, because there where no men left who never watched por LMFAO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:53 AM |
| 14 | Just. What.Sooo they compare letting women know which men are rapists/murderes/child abusers with men knowing the body count of a woman? They life in Lalaland xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 10 | I'm so sick of men on social media and their hypocrisyMaybe I am on the wrong here, but the way Ellen Degeneres was treated is really weird. She did not liked beeing talked to or looked at before she performed, did not smile often and was rude (according to several men and Nikki). Soooo she is a monster, needs to be cancelled etc etc. I think in a few years people will blame the situation on Covid and will say they overreacred, because of the global pandemic. Michael Bay and all the other men have a reputation for beeing "mean" and even hostile to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 33 | On a post about men killing women, specifically women of color. The absolute audacity of putting them as victims, and blame women instead, made me mad all day.It's funny isn't it? We are not allowed to talk about men beeing violent, because then -according to their own LoGiCaL MiNd- we are making them violent. If we stop human trafficking and violent porn, they say we will be next. White men have to stoo project every person who happens to be white and male into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 102 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.Maybe he wanted to leave the royal family and she was the last straw. I would also leave my family if they would say racist things about my SO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Not Nice =! Mean; Nice =! KindI have less anxiety when I dont perform this super smily nice woman. Sure I do it from time to time, but I feel better. I wonder how it will be in the workplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | We are not immune from our own deeply rooted biases.Thank you for your insight, very interisting. I am not a native speaker, what does yt mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 34 | Reddit is a terrible place. A 17 yr old girl is called insecure cause she doesn't like that her bf is watching pornOk I have a question I want to discuss. Why do men save porn and pictures of naked women on their computer and phone? They will be searching for the next abuse images / teen pornography in less then 5 minutes after they masturbated. And they still have to have soooo many images saved? Watching abuse of women is specific enough (you can search for hair colour, ethnicity etc), but they are all saving it. WHY??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 101 | Reminder: they won't miss a beat in replacing you. His dying wife said go back to ex "he often talked about" Nah sisI don't believe him, I think he lied and said his wive told him to do this with her last breath. He is a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?If you are so invested in having the best gf/wife, why dont you give a fuck about the past and present of womens lifes? What do you do to help women fight sexual assault? I dont know a woman who haven't been raped or molested. It all seems pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 83 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.I love seeing this! When I was taking the subway to go to work the doors didnt close and the female underground train driver was asking the people to move away from the door. They didnt and she had to ask again and again. A little boy was saying to his friend "Urrgh these women cant do it right." or something. He was little, maybe 6 or 7 and was speaking this nonse. She had to get up, go to the children and ask them again in order to make them move. To this day I am thinking alot about this boy.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 12 | The same energy as "not all men" and "she asked for it"You are 100 % right. I dont want into detail, but one of my male family members assaulted a girl in kindergarten age (I really dont wanna give much details). He was only 8 years old when he did these things! He is very sexist and always tells storys about men on the internet beeing falsely accused of rape. I can't make this sh** up.. I hope you heal and wish you the best <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:38 PM |
| 13 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristWhat I dont like about the article: Why is the author so focused on Fifty Shades of Grey? I hate the movies, however porn as 10 times more violent and degrading and has way more consumers than 100 million. But whenever BDSM is critized, it is about Fifity shades of Grey or even Twilight? " Another strange sign of our age appeared more recently, with the enormous popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey, which has sold an astonishing 100 million copies .." We have to focus on porn and men creating, wat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 15 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I don't watch media made for men anymore. I only read books, watch videos and listen to music created by and for women, because I want to escape sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 18 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?A lot of men want younger women to be their wives and mothers of their children. Its a status symbol and they feel like they achieved something by beeing with the youngest woman possible. Its sad but its true, I am 25 and men my age and younger just want fun. When they are 35+ they want to start a family and dont want a woman who is 35+. Thats also the reason why older men are seen as more caring, more mature, more stable etc. However these older men are just the same as the young ones, they jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 53 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsAnd some of them get angry if their children dont have children on their own. Because for them all of this was "worthless". Even if they never raised the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 27 | Living with family?When women like you become successful they are going to lift up the whole family. I love to read about it! Men are saying this, because they wouldnt do the same if they would be successful, because they dont see a benefit in it. And because he is projecting his mindset onto you he thinks: She cant even live alone. They are LVM. There is a reason why people say the education level of a country begins with the mothers. If the mother is educated the children will be. If the father is educated/wea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:32 AM |
| 43 | The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang TheoryThe Adorkable Misogyny of The Big Bang Theory - YouTube The Complicity of Geek Masculinity on the Big Bang Theory - YouTube Please check out the videos above. I always thaught the show was off for some reason and he really explains it well. We shouldnt idolyze certain groups of men, they are not "better" then other men. Nerds are not "nice". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 09:01 AM |
| 46 | Misuse & appropriation of feminist language/concepts by men on RedditI have to say thank you for your insight. Since beeing on this sub I learned so many things and I have never thaught about your observation, it is spot on. I could never name the problem myself. On one hand there were men saying women can't take compliments, catcalling us and saying we are overreacting. However whenever a woman (one single woman) would show behaviour that was not even on the same level as catcalling, they would use the language feminists would use to identify this entitled/sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 14 | "Fetish Mining". Yet Another Way Women are Targeted Online.I want to share my story related to this topic. I was thinking about making a seperate post, but since it is not related to dating I want to comment on this video. I was the vicitim of fetish mining when I was a child. For my own privacy I am going to use fake names, fake online plattforms and fake city names. When I was 14 I met a 23 year old men who was half chinese and half british. I am from Britian and he grew up there too. I wrote to him on his birthday to leave him birthday wishes. We sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 65 | What are your dealbreakers?My dealbreakers are: Video games is his main hobby sexist (even sexist "jokes") has children drug dealer obese shorter than me bad hygiene yellow teeth stays up at night, sleeps at daytime workships Ellen Musk hunchback does not make me orgasm micro penis does not want to learn/educate himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 5 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.I moved out when I was 19 and my mother still makes lunchboxes for my brother when he goes to work (He is 30 yo). She is sooooo dependent on male approval and because she does not get it elsewhere she is serving her son. Cooking/cleaning/cloth shopping/washing his clothes/making him lunchboxes. Here is the thing: She stopped doing all of these things when I was 10 / 11 yo. And even before that she did it sloppy. I have a theory why she behaves this way: My father only brings money to the table, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:37 PM |
| 29 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.I have to watch this everyday xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:00 PM |
| 20 | All of the things he has listed, every woman does that too without pay. Are we whining like he is?His wife has to tell him to watch his own kids? Watching your own children is so rare, he has to put it on a list? And why can't he cook for himself? Did he give his children freezer meat and pasta? And why is he complaining about visiting his own father in the hospital? I can see why she resents him. If these are the only things he has done ..she had to plan the whole christmas holidays, get presents for the children, cook for them, plan their future. And she probably has to work too, because s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 7 | When he thinks he's worth 3 minutes of orgasmless sex 🥴 :Me too xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 54 | I genuinely don’t understand why male redditors have a sub for every specific type of genitalia 🤢🤢The subreddit r/simps is full of picutres of vulvas looking like they haven't gone throug puberty yet. But r/notallmen. Why is "the perfect slit" no hair, no labia, no colour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:45 PM |
| 24 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaWhat the hell. Men complain and want to have Russian wives and Russian men are doing the same? Lol. I am from Germany and the men here say the same thing! They want Russian women (or Asian women). At the same time they are bashing German women for beeing too feminist, to promiscuous and gold-diggers. This sub is freeing me from all the propaganda men told me growing up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:10 PM |
| 10 | If "sex work is work" then why are there so few safety measures to counteract occupational hazards?Because of sex work beeing legal here in Germany human trafficing and slavery is sky rockening. It is just sad and pathetic. Don't believe libfems if they say here in Germany everything is fine. It is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:42 AM |
| 8 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.How can you prevent your son becoming something like that? Serously ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 15 | *sigh* ...Imagine a man would say "sex is a service" to a woman in a relationship. Like some duty she must furfill. And sex for women in relationship is work. Every libfem would lose their head. However the patriarchy brainwashed us to think women as a class must provide sex for men as a class. Left wing men are crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:17 AM |
| 26 | Why do guys demand you tell them why you rejected them?Or their age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | FactsThats true, women are not expected to shave everything in a relationship 24/7 and the outdoor look is also considered acceptable. Leg Hair is also okay, however armpit hair (especially with friends of the SO) is a no go. But if you are intimate it is okay to have body hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:19 AM |
| 141 | One step closer!!! Pornhub has removed over 10 million videos from unverified users due to Mastercard and Visa cutting ties with the site. Don't forget how many YEARS these corporations made money off exploitation.I agree, money is more important for them. Girls who were clearly children were advitised and it was so easy to remove it. But not grown men molesting children was the motivator, no, the money.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:24 AM |
| 57 | FactsI am from Germany and believe me its the same. They dont wash their asses, have long toenails and dont use lotion/sunscreen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!”lmao the woman on the left has make up on her face. Men can't spot the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 16 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidI am also not sure if this advice is helpful, because I am not an American. But I will tell them I love horses for sure lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:15 PM |
| 11 | What an amazing story!This is why I believe wolfs were domesticated by women. They are the girls best friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone else here somewhat happy to be female?I am also not there yet. Every form of sexism is depressing and makes me think a lot. The violence I have faced is still in me and the daily sexism just reminds me of that. But we have to focus on the things we can change and try our best to create the life we want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:27 PM |
| 15 | Men, passive aggressive personality and the myth of buffooneryI googled passive aggressive personality disorder, it is like a descrition of living with a father/brother/boyfriend: Some conditions associated with passive-aggressive behavior include: frequently criticizing or protesting being disagreeable or irritable procrastinating or being forgetful performing tasks inefficiently acting hostile or cynical acting stubborn blaming others complaining about being unappreciated displaying resentment over the demands of others My older brother always got the ea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 25 | Adressing sexism in menShould I tell him that I am not going to talk to him again? Or should I just ghost him? We are at the same "Work place" (I dont want to give to much information). I feel like one day we will run into each other again. And we had plans together, I have to cancel it and he will ask why I don't want to meet him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 11:32 PM |
| 262 | Can we finally get rid of this lie "no one cares about men's mental health"? While everyone does. Women get called attention seekers, emotional and irrational for showing emotion. Mental health medicines gets always developed for men while treating women as others.and they make fun of mental health problems when it comes to teenage girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:42 AM |
| 17 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.My friend was pregnant when she was 12 years old, she was raped by her sted dad. It made me depressed and I was sad for her, I never saw her again. Hope she is ok now. I love women and girls and I would give everything for r*** to stop. It is a bitter world we live in. I was molested when I was 4 by an 8 year old boy. I pray to never have a son who commits crimes like that, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 69 | Sexualization of children or adult women that go out of their way to look like children isn't a moral grey area. Its wrong. Period."Teen porn" should be illegal. It harms teenage girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:30 PM |
| 14 | For those you were married, what made you stop feeling that you want to have sex with your ex-husband?Oh my good you dated my ex, no. 1 - 3 is my last relationship. He never slept at night! And when he slept in a bed with me he was acting like he did me a favour and I had to be thankful .. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 11 | Yeah, we’re always to blame. Your Peter Pan complex is totally our fault. Shut the fuck up and buy some furniture and eat with utensils, you Neanderthal.Hei, I also want to read the article, interesting topic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:16 AM |
| 5 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...This was me in a relationship but without the make-up, cats and alcohol and it was my ex-boyfriends stuff cluttering everything lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 16 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’tThis reminds me of the woman who said men do not love their wives, because they would cook a meal for her if she had to work longer. But they just chose the best wivey material and are lazy lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:59 PM |
| 27 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetPedophiles have the same response after they wanked to ch*** ****. There fantasies are just degrading/disgusting. They do not view women as equal, they have depraved fantasies. Thats why they feel ashamed after they masturbated. Thats why women can't relate, we do not imagine a school girl beeing tricked into sleeping with us when we are masturbating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Why, why, WHY do we mother them?Today I was talking to a male friend (20 yo) about his mother entering the work place again, 40 hours a week. He said he did not want her to get back to work. At first I thaught it was cute, I asked if he would miss her. He said no and I quote "She won't cook anymore." This woman gave up her career in biochemie (or how it is called) . Bha. I think the social programming starts young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Just saw this- literally proving we are responsible for changing men’s (poor) grooming habits?I left my ex, because he would not shower regularly. I am still missing him, but I am happier now. At the end he said, that it was my fault, that he wouldn't shower regularly. I said, that he is responsible for taking a shower and asked him why I was responsible IHO? He said it was his perspective and every one has their truth. I want to thank this sub, without you we would still be together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:52 PM |
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