annushorriblus2020 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Keep house or start fresh?		annushorriblus2020	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/20 01:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	In case of a divorce, what happens to assets accumulated before the marriage? Don’t get married.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:50 PM
1	Struggling a little bit, would just like to know I’m doing the right thing!! One year in. It’s boring. But nice not feeling judged all the time. I just do what I do. One thing I’ve found helpful, is once a week I sit down and think “what’s something is like to do one or two weeks from now”. Maybe something with the kids. Meeting a friend. Playing pickup soccer. A hike. Whatever. But always having at least one thing on the schedule to look forward to.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:45 PM
1	We have come to agreement and uncontested divorce but I am worried I may be conceding too much financially . I don’t want a whole mess but Is it possible an attorney would answer my questions just regarding financial monthly payments I have agreed to, to check if it’s fair enough? Phone call maybe ? Do several free consults and if you get the same answer four times then you know that’s the landing spot. Plus you’ve just boxed her out of hiring those lawyers, they’re now conflicted.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:17 PM
1	Have two young boys under 5. Having trouble finding affordable 3 bedroom situations for rent in the meantime. Anybody have experience with 2 bedroom apt having 2 kids ? Hoping as time goes on I can afford a house again. This sucks . The fact that you’re worried about it is half the battle. My kids have a shared room when we visit my parents, which is several weeks a year. They actually love it. Do your best, set up a great shared room for them to start, and then adapt as you can over time.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:12 PM
1	Looking for some support. This is good advice. To OP, I’m really sorry for what you’re going through. The system is kind of stacked against dads. I’m about to say “stay calm and don’t take it personally”, which is impossible because it’s your daughter, but really that’s what you have to do. Again focus on a) these are the things I already do for my daughter, b) these are the things I have a specific plan to start doing for my daughter.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:09 PM
2	Never Imagined it would happen to us. What do I do? I’m sorry to hear about what you’re going through. I agree with the others who say start calling lawyers. Even if you just do a few free consultations. You’ll get a sense of what you’re dealing with. It varies greatly by state so it’s hard to give a good answer without knowing details. Unfortunately a lot of states answer to divorce is “well keep doing what you’re doing”, which when one spouse works and the other doesn’t is a terribly unfair answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 11:06 PM
2	THIS IS THE WAY !! I have still yet to meet someone who is divorced and the man initiated. Marriage is such a scam.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/21 06:28 PM
2	THIS IS THE WAY !! $30k and counting with no signs of an actual divorce. Just wasting time and money on endless discussions and document requests. For a divorce I did not want btw.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/21 02:17 PM
2	Laws are so broken. So sorry man. 100% agree the laws are broken.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/21 10:05 PM
5	Appreciate any advice on my situation. I am sorry to hear that, I’m going through similar. To rant for a second: Someone needs to advertise Stay At Home Wife / Mom is terrible. Every divorce professional I’ve talked to said it’s such a high probability of ending in divorce. And the laws are totally messed up, they favor the stay at home / non-monied spouse so heavily. I wish wish wish wish I could go back in time and meet my 25 year old self and tell him all of this.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/21 10:49 PM
1	Peyronie’s disease killed my marriage Amen. I look around my life and think of everyone who is divorced or getting divorced. It’s seven people and the score is 7-0 for wife v husband initiated.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/20 10:53 PM
2	When does the pain stop I am so sorry to hear that OP. Some great advice in these comments. Stay strong.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/20 07:07 PM
1	called a lawyer Thank you. I did not know about Avvo.com	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/20 11:24 PM
1	Wife keeping me in suspense 4agreements is an asshole. Lots of marriages fail for lots of reasons. That’s not to say you’re right and she’s wrong. Or the other way around. But some dick on the internet saying it’s because you play video games at 10pm.....just remember it’s just some dick on the Internet.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/20 02:55 AM
-1	Wife keeping me in suspense Bad dude. Post somewhere else please. Wtf??!?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/20 02:53 AM
1	Take Care Of Yourself Whoa that took post a hard left turn	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/20 02:51 AM