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...personality??
/r/seduction18/08/26 08:11 PM
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If he were actually my friend then he would know that i dont do hookups or fwb, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:01 PM
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Doesnt that mean that men dont "only care about getting our dicks off"? It sounds like its a lot more than just that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:49 AM
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You seem to be getting very emotional about this. Where did you get the idea that literally all men feel the same way that you do? Do you have any evidence for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:42 AM
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I think that youre projecting your own perspective and assuming that all men feel the same way that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:12 AM
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So you want good head and anal sex? How are you going to get that from a pocket pussy? Yes, I lost my virginity at a 12 age That sounds messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:05 AM
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Yo are you gonna answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:50 AM
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What things cant you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:23 AM
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Have you had sex with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:18 AM
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Accepting sexual taboos does not mean you have to participate in them. Am i homophobic for not being gay myself? No obviously not, and im not anti-sex just because i dont participate in those types of kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:09 AM
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Are you sex-positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 05:27 AM
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Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:03 AM
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So if i dont join in on bdsm parties then that means im not truly sex positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:54 AM
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You have an amazing username
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:42 AM
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One month of time would get you the shittiest wedding venue in the city. Youd need a lot more tine to get some decent bookings, both for the venue and whatever flowers you might want (and basically everything else).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:52 PM
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Idk i thought youd say 70 or something. What sort of 20 year old doesnt know how to share links?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:02 AM
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So how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:00 AM
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25-45
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:56 AM
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You not knowing how to copy and paste a link might show that youre out of the average age range of posters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:55 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:54 AM
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Why do you assume its because of insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:53 AM
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Women don’t typically think as long term about the bigger picture - they see money as immediate assets. Because they don’t have the pressure of being expected to be the ones to buy homes, etc. Among people ages 18-25, young single women account for 30% of home buyers while young single men are only 17%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:49 AM
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You dont need to be rich to pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 12:06 AM
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What does having rich parents have to do with paying for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:21 PM
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I guess. It sounds weird to me but you live your life how you want to.
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:29 AM
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Well theres your problem
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:28 AM
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Ok so dont go out with her???
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:24 AM
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Youd probably find it if you werent so frivolous with who you look for
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:21 AM
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How do you have love and connection if each of them are easily replaceable? It sounds like a such a surface-level "love""
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:19 AM
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Idk what that has to do with what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:22 AM
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And I'm allowed to point out that that is entitlement and narcissism, and not actually a real human relationship. Its a business transaction. Yeah no one is stopping you. Go find your 50/50 lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:28 PM
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Ok so what? Youre whining about this thing that helps you get sex, but youre still going through with paying anyways. It seems like y'all think its worth it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:25 PM
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If he were like that then i wouldnt have dated him. Similarily, men are allowed to look for a woman that also does 50/50, and women are allowed to look for men that will pay for everything. Its all about personal preference. After my boyfriend graduated and got a decent job, he took it upon himself to pay for all the dates and ubers, in addition to many gifts he gave me (because he wanteed to).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:30 AM
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I think thats very reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:33 AM
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When my first boyfriend was broke and homeless, and i payed for all of our dates and ubers with the very little money i had. Why do you think i did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:29 AM
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So in other words, theyre doing it because they think its worth the effort. Idk why you have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:09 AM
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Idk. I figured they like doing something nice for people they care about. Paying for dates is one way of doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:40 AM
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Did it occur to you that maybe some men are perfectly okay with paying for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:33 AM
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Who is they? Your past girlfriends? All women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:40 PM
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I cant imagine why anyone would care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:04 PM
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I have one thats bigger than any of my previous partners, and it is my least used toy because it does not feel good. I use it so infrequently that i dont even remember the last time i saw it. And my most used toy is dufficult to compare to a penis, as it vibrates and is weirdly shaped, but regardless it feels more like getting fingered than what a penis is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:41 AM
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Idk what being lead on and lied to has to do with shame around bodycounts.theyre literally unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:26 AM
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Well i was a child back then so i dont really remember who liked it and who didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:12 PM
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Thongs with low-rise pants originated in the 2000s, when its was incredibley undesirable to have a big butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:01 PM
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What monstrous things did feminists do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:45 AM
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Idk what youre implying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:33 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:38 PM
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I ask because it sounds like he has a fear of women in general, not just a fear of asking them out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:57 PM
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Was that your girlfriend or a random stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:07 PM
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Of course, we ask about literally everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:03 PM
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Male friendships seem sad if you cant even ask for a couple of tips
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:00 PM
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Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:51 PM
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Why dont you ask him how he does it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:46 PM
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This reads more like an over-emotional rant that a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:31 AM
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Most of the people murdering and sexually assaulting men are other men. Thats why it isnt considered androcide or misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:21 PM
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What do you consider to be "simping" vs how normal relationships should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:03 AM
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I think its cute
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:55 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:50 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:32 PM
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Every society has comminted gang rapes during war. Every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:16 PM
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Ai is designed to reinforce whatever opinioon you give it. If you had said the opposite then it would still agree with you. And it isnt a lie, you can google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:15 PM
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My job is to literally read throigh and edit shitty Ai responses, so yeah i think i know how Ai works and its stupid. And idk what anomalocarus has to do with this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:49 AM
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Lol Ai said it so it must be true. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:17 AM
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The point of gang-raping isnt possesion, its to dehumanize
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:28 AM
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They were gang-raping the women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:28 AM
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All guys did it. Idk why youd think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:51 PM
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Men in that time would rape the women that they were attacking or go to brothels. Why do you think they were virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:01 PM
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No 18 year old is going to want a 42 year old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:31 PM
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How does grindr prove that the male gaze is superior? female nature has been exposed so men are opting out on a massive scale Every dating app out there has wayyyy more men than women, so it doesnt seem like theyre opting out very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:28 PM
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What point are you debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:07 AM
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Yeah how is that a bad thing? If i have a desire to get a job then im going to hand out resumes and email employers to show myinterest and make myself an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:24 PM
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How does him pursuing someone mean that he sees them as an object?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:15 PM
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I dont see how thats a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:12 PM
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I dont see how taking social skills and behaviour into consideration is unintelligent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:07 PM
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What does toxic masculinity have to do with these dudes not asking me out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:19 PM
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What does that have to do with what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:17 PM
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Ive had a weird amount of guys on dating apps be extremely hesistant to ask me on a date, even after having a nice and genuine conversation. I always chalk it up to them just not being into me enough to actually ask but maybe its something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:15 PM
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Didnt that happen in iceland or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:33 PM
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I wouldnt seriously date guys that dont speak spanish, but that doesnt mean i see non spanish-speakers as negative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:25 PM
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Dated one and it was the worst relationship i had. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:26 AM
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How does womens preferences perpetuate rape culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:28 AM
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I think men are better now than they were in the past, but that doesnt mean much tbh. Things were pretty shit before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:36 PM
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Men see themselves and their own perspectives as the default, anything outside of it is "abnormal" (because they were never raised to have empathy lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:02 PM
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Never in my life have i felt this way about a man ive never spoken to, and ive never met a woman who felt otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:02 AM
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Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:30 AM
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Havent women always worked tho? Like even children worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:52 AM
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Just my two cents, owne gray and gattouz are also great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:36 AM
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There is a market, but it populated by gay men rather than hordes of horny women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:33 AM
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If men werent so desperately horny then there wouldnt be a market for this type of stuff and onlyfans wouldnt exist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:38 AM
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There is one Bonnie Blue, and there are thousands of men fucking her on camera
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:35 AM
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Its surprisingly easy to find tbh, you just have to know where to look
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:32 AM
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No thats a small portion of whats out there. If youre serious, just go tumblr and search "literally any male character x you". For example theres "dean winchester x you" or on AO3 but i dont really use that as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:42 AM
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Honestly i barely do that rn, birth control has killed my sex drive. But back when i did, id either use my imagination or fanfiction of whatever fictional character im into at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:33 AM
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Regardless, the focus is always on the woman. Most of the time you cant even see the guys face (which imo is the best part)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:29 AM
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The guys are never the center of attention, and theyre literally always middle aged white dudes, of which i have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:27 AM
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Imo the guy in the message was rude and pushy, but not a rapist. Do you think what he said was fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:00 PM
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So literally one person??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:34 PM
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I havent seen any people calling him a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:20 PM
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I saw a lot of women also defending the guy in that video, so maybe youre algorithm is just feeding you slop
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:45 AM
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Both of them are uncanny to me. If i could i would pick neither
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:10 AM
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You should have an option that says "i would never have a one night stand"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:59 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:01 PM
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No it doesnt lol. You can x people or like something on their profile but theres no swiping involved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:46 PM
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All of my prompts are very unique, and i have decent photos. They arent the best but it isnt 6 mirror selfies in a row. Ive gotten a lot of comments from dudes that say my profiel is super unique and diffrrent from the rest but still, it seems to attract everyone including the duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 AM
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Im on hinge so there isnt swiping in the way other apps work. I dont send out very many likes though because i so rarely see anyone interesting, and most of the guys who have sent me a like are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:02 PM
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From my experience the well-educated guys are more disciplined than to be driven by purely sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:59 AM
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Interesting point. I think thats worth making a debate post about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:29 AM
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The mere possession of ANY degree at all lowers a man's chances of a promiscuous sex life by a huge margin. Did you consider that maybe men who have earned degrees arent interested in having promiscuous sex and thats why its so low for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:22 AM
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Funnily enough i get a lot of comments on how unique my dating profile is, and yet i still attract nothing but duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:09 AM
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I think he saw being submissive as not doing anything until he was specifically told to, like he wouldnt ever touch me unless i specifically told him to. He also never asked for anything (other than wanting me to slap him or call him pathetic or something), never said what he liked and disliked. He was dead silent everytime. I got bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:59 AM
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I used to really really like submissive men and after dating my first boyfriend it is now my biggest turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:16 AM
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You know men and women can be oppressed simultaneously? It just happens in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:19 AM
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Ok if its so obvious why did you bother asking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:29 PM
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You need to take a chill pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:29 PM
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Well im single now so it doesnt matter much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:03 AM
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Honestly sex doesnt even cross my mind anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:57 AM
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Idk they spent a lot of time working out and at their jobs. I think they just didnt have the energy to see me more than twice a week. They probably were jerking off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:04 AM
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Those types of things only come up if someone is complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:56 AM
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No idea, me and my friends dont really talk about how much our ideal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:53 AM
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Well right now im on birth control thats completely wiped out my sex drive, but back then my ideal wouldve been everyday, maybe even a couple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:50 AM
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It was insanely annoying but that paired with the other problems they all had led to the relationships ending. If they were better boyfriends than i probably couldve dealt with it, but they were really boring and joyless overall and id rather be by myself if im getting literally nothing from them. Ive started taking birth control so i wouldnt be horny all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 AM
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In all of the 4 relationships ive been in i was the one with a higher sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:33 AM
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You gotta see the other stuff this guy has said. He schizoposts unlike anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:09 AM
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Schizoposting as per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:07 AM
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If god meant for it to be that way then women wouldnt have sex drives until after getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:09 PM
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The upperclass STEM and university educated women in typical passport bro countries are dating other upperclass university educated people from their culture. Most passport bros arent going to Colombia and immersing themself in the language, culture, and religion, theyre going to Cartagena to do coke and fuck prositutes. The "high quality" women that passports bros supposedly look for are seeing this behaviour and thinking you guys are all gross losers. And im saying this as an upperclass Colomb…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:52 PM
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Women still get approached by old, ugly, broke men all the time so it doesnt seem like the blackpill did anything. And old, ugly, broke men still manage to find relationships too. Its just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:54 PM
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When did i say anything hateful or disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:26 AM
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So you have no actual feedback that i can out into practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:23 AM
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Ok and then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:14 AM
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Ok, and what should i do about it? Do you have any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:09 AM
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Of course you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:09 AM
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https://www.ohchr.org/en/press-releases/2025/08/evidence-mounting-about-russian-tactics-sexual-torture-against-ukrainian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:05 AM
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Damn i need a man like that. Ive tried many times to get the guys im dated interested in my hobbies (not just crocheting of course) but they seem to never care 😢. Thank u for being nice and polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:03 AM
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I'm literally asking for advice. If you arent going to say anything useful then keep it to yourself you dingus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:00 AM
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My future husband is gonna be like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:56 AM
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Oh what wars? And what were the death counts? I didnt realize there arent enough dead people for you to care yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:53 AM
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??? Ok so youre criticizing my choices while also having no idea what im going through or what i should do??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:52 AM
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So then how do i pick a man that doesnt have all of that silly baggage? Im the opposite of everything you described and i want to find a guy who is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:51 AM
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What sort of direct feedback do you think i have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:48 AM
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Honestly most of my interests are incredibly feminine or intended for old people so thats a dead end. I doubt ill find a man my age in a bingo or crocheting group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:47 AM
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Thats nice i guess. If youre fine with having boring, uninquisitive people in your life then good for you but it doesnt sound very pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:46 AM
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Why are you even friends with them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:41 AM
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More than 16,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:37 AM
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Do you have any advice on how i can pick someone who isnt boring? I try to match only with men who seem fun but it never turns out how i hope it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:35 AM
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Dude... what is russia doing if not murdering civilians? Your head is buried in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:33 AM
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Did they leave to be sluts or did they leave so they wouldnt be raped and murdered by russians?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:29 AM
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The more i date the more i realize men are really boring and uninquisitive. Idk what to do with that information but im bored of how dating is lately. Edit: also im open to advice if anyone has any!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:24 AM
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It would be nice if they could watch chick-flicks without making a big deal of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:11 AM
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You dont need to be beautiful to have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:11 PM
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Yeah its never-ending
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:02 PM
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What point are you debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:45 PM
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Looks do matter. Personality also matters. This is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:13 PM
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This sub is good as background entertainment when im doing homework
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:26 PM
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Idk what about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:34 AM
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What could a woman possibly do to resolve this situstion? You cant just make someone want more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:01 AM
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Ok so then your joke isnt really a joke. What is the funny part of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:57 AM
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Its a stereotype about men, that when they have a female friend its becausw theyre secretly trying to get into their pants. When you make your jokes about women your female friends are probably thinking "why would i gossip behind my friends backs?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:55 AM
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Yeah the reason why women dont find those funny is because those arent jokes and youre just making fun of them. Imagine if you offered to drive your female friend somewhere and she said "no i dont want you to think that i'll have sex with you".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:52 AM
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Can i hear a couple of your jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:48 AM
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You gossip about women behind their backs? What part of that is a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:46 AM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:42 AM
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I think in this specific context it should be on the man to break up (or not get married in the first place). OP seems to think its on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:03 AM
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It was all through university or highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:59 AM
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They dont despise him, one of the other girls (Sarah) had a crush on him??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 AM
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This is the dumbest take ive ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:24 AM
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Your girlfriend having a lower libido than you doesnt make you a victim dude. All it means is that you are incompatible with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:12 AM
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In my experience it doesnt depend on the man because theyve all done this shit. Ive had plenty of bisexual and lesbian friends and none of them have hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:09 AM
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Yes thats my point. If he is unhappy and speaking up doesnt solve the problem he should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:06 AM
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Switch the genders in your previous reply. If the man is unsatisfied with the amount of sex, he should be speaking up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:56 PM
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How about people who are unsatisfied in their relationships should either speak up about it or leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:53 PM
3

Ok and what about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:52 PM
3

You literally just said that sometimes women dont realize there is a problem. It doesnt sound like shes burdened by anything considering that she doesnt see it as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:47 PM
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All ive gotten so far is that they will try to fuck, so what benefit is there for me to continue attempting friendships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:39 PM
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How is she meant to address a problem in the relationship if she doesnt even realize its there? This is why im saying that the burden is his to carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:37 PM
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Well so far 100% of them wanted to be with me. If 100% of the dogs i pet try to hump me, why would i keep trying to befriend dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:35 PM
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Is that even a thing that happens? Most of what ive seen is that a happy couple gets married and then life circumstances (like pregnancy or menopause) lowers the womans libido, or a man marries a low libido woman and then is surprised that it never gets better. And in they situation youre talking about, it seems like the unhappy party would be the man, not the woman. So if a man is unsatisfied with the amount of sex he is getting from his gf/wife while the wife is perfectly fine with how things …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:27 PM
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Why is it on her to deal with his problems instead of on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:14 PM
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Idk i guess your friends shouldve picked better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:13 PM
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You think that im discriminating against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:05 PM
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Well maybe they should take charge of their own choices and stop screwing up their lives for some dopamine. How is this in any way women's responsibility? Men are not little babies who need to be catered to, they have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:05 PM
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Men should be adjusting to their own needs, as should women. You are responsible for your own wants and desires, and its on you to find someone that is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 PM
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Why is it always about women's agency and never men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:58 PM
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Men that have high sex drives should not marry women that dont like sex as much as they do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:54 PM
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Every male friend ive ever had has hit on me, while knowing that i was not interested in that way AND that i was in a relationship. I just dont make friends with them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:47 PM
2

What was that supposed to clear up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:01 AM
4

I dont understand what youre trying to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:57 AM
5

No one said anything about marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:45 AM
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Is english your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:14 PM
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I have no issue with guys that just want sex, the problem is when they know they only want sex and still get into committed relationships only to whine about the expectations that come with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:39 PM
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Can you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:11 AM
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Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:59 AM
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The incels that hate women are the ones consuming the most porn dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:28 AM
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I think its annoying how men are the #1 client base for prostitutes, strippers, and porn yet theyre also the ones complaining the most about when these women choose to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:22 AM
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Im not op?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:13 PM
5

Are you serious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:48 PM
0

How's that going for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:59 PM
5

In my experience so far they all basically feel the same. What made the biggest different in my enjoyment was how hard they were, not their size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:43 AM
1

Yeah this is why everyone thinks youre a schizo-poster
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:32 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:18 PM
2

Ok man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:44 PM
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Because women care more about personality than looks. Looks arent enough to gain most womens interests, but talking to them will allow a glimpse into what type of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:48 AM
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Not that its any of my business but i wish youd reply to him seriously so i can see what else he might ramble about. This is very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:41 AM
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All of those are things that should be discussed with your partner, not with strangers online. If your girlfriend is cool with paying for everything then its really no ones business whether its ok or not. Same goes for custody and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:02 AM
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Yeah that guy is weird. One of my experiences that has yet to be recreated was with a guy where we kissed and held hands the entire time. No other guy has been able to capture that type of emotional intensity from me, and it had nothing to do with some crazy tricks or dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:24 AM
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Theres a lot of objectively handsome guys on hinge that come across terribly because all of their photos are at the double-chin angle and completely lacking even a hint of joy in their faces. Ithink if they had better photos and captions OLD would be easier.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/26 03:09 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:30 AM
3

Doesnt them moving back to the phillipines defeat the original purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:33 PM
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This is a lukewarm take
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:06 AM
2

Say "Theres nothing more intoxicating than the clear absence of a penis"
/r/seduction03/06/26 10:36 PM
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Just stop hanging out with him? He sounds like a shitty friend anyways
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:54 PM
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Sometimes i would ask why they never did it and theyd say something along the lines of "oh sorry i'll do it more often" and then just keep not doing it. So i never really got an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:09 AM
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Everyone should care about sexual violence because anyone has a chance of becoming a victim of sexual violence, including men. The best way someone can avoid becoming a victim of rape is if they completely avoid men in their entirety, which is obviously not possible for heterosexual women or gay men. The best way a man can avoid being a victim of a gold digger is by not willingly opening their wallets for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:02 AM
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I said that they arent equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:42 AM
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And im using logic to say its a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:38 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:29 PM
1

Crazy that your comparing women who want expensive dates to men who rape and abuse. As if theyre equivalent in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:18 PM
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Sorry that youre upset about being an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:17 PM
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I know enough about what ive seen the past 10 years to have an opinion. And unfortunately i dont personally know very many old people, nor do i have their facebooks or instagrams.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:43 PM
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Am i supposed to guess what these older people looked like 10 years ago? How do you suggest i find that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:33 PM
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So far the guys that were hot in highschool are still hot, and the ugly ones got uglier. Im talking from what ive seen so far, but maybe itll change in the next ten years. You dont need to be a prick just because im open-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:28 PM
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No thats ridiculous. I have a vibrator that i can use repeatedly for a single payment of $80.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:02 PM
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I'm saying youre complaining about something that hasnt even affected you. Why do you care if some women are golddiggers when you can be with a girl who doesnt care about money? don't see any woman saying they're happy with cheap dates or impressed by how much money he saved or didn't spend. Ive seen plenty. You havent because you look at ragebait instead of what good women actually say. You think women dont like financial responsibility? Go to r/ debt and see what women have to say about it all…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:01 PM
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Squirt or pee, whatever. He thought it was gross. And the more i do that stuff the worse it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:52 PM
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Did the women that you went out with complain about it? I see plenty of men online complaining about small boobs but the guys i dated seemed to be fine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:48 PM
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If you read my previous comments you can see why i feel this way. And the guy im currently dating said its that i squirt. Not all me are like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:44 PM
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I suppose. Im still ony 23 so i guesd ill find out in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:31 PM
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The ones that are already hot when young are the ones aging like fine wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:26 PM
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Where is this idea of women feeling entitled to be taken on expensive dates when your girlfriend seemed to be fine with cheap dates for 7 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:09 PM
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You took your girlfriend of 7 years on three dates?? And youre complaining about putting in too much effort. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:58 PM
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How many dates have you been on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:46 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yeah but i didnt want to tel him that lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 07:35 PM
2

So confirmation bias then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:54 PM
2

Youd just walk out the room without saying anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:54 PM
1

All of the guys i had sex with were relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:36 PM
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Is there some way to tell ahead of time that they are like this? I dont want to keep jumping into bed with a new guy just to be disapointed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:31 PM
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Unfortunately i really like doing it despite not getting anything back 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:29 PM
2

Yes obivously. What would even be the alternatie to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:29 PM
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So men are alwaus just tolerating cunnilingus?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:28 PM
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All of the guys i slept with were long term and im 5'3 and 105 pounds. And ive been told by them that i taste really good. They really just didnt want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:27 PM
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Were you sitting in the cuck chair when this happened? Why are you watching married people having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:25 PM
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They were always already hard when they asked me to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:23 PM
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My first boyfriend was a huge nerd and he went down on me 5 times in 3 years, despite him talking about doing it allll the time. He was also the worst ive had in bed, by far. Then i started dating hot guys and they're significantly better but they still dont eat it. And im not gonna increase my bodycount just to find yet another guy that wont eat pussy. You dont know what theyre like in bed until you get into a bed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:18 PM
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Ok so go sue the hospital you were born in then?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 06:10 PM
1

I dont want to ask them to eat me out because tbh im not sure i even like it at this point. All i feel is anxiety that theres something wrong with me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:09 PM
1

Hopefully youre different now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:08 PM
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The funny thing is they all were relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:39 AM
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You want $10 million because a guy was racially discriminated against and won the case? If you want to get that money then you have to be the one to hire a lawyer and make a case for it. Theyre not just gonna hand you the money.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 09:00 AM
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Nothing changed for drug trafficking and sale, those remain crimes. What changed is that less people are dying and police are able to focus on more severe crimes Which scandinavian country? Do you know what happened and what changed in their law and what consequences it had? Or are you just mentioning Scandinavia by default whenever there is some discussion about "country good"? It was all the scandinavian countries. Back in the 60s and 70s they had a reform which included reducing long-term and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:52 AM
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No id just do it more often with whoever im dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:28 AM
1

Scandinavia. And portugal's decriminalization of drugs led to a huge reduction in drug-related deaths and hiv.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:26 AM
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I do it for way longer and way more often. I can count on my hands the amount of times someone has gone down on me. Meanwhile i must have done it at least 500 times by now. None of them have ever made me orgasm. It's so bizarre because talking to guys, you'd think they'd live down there if they were allowed to from the way they talk... Yes its all talk. They dont actually mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:49 AM
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It depends on the specific guy im doing it with but heres generally how it is We make out and then he asks for a blowjob I blow him for awhile We do piv until he cums Sometimes he rolls over and falls asleep, or we cuddle until we both fall asleep (depends on which person it is) 2/4 guys were like this, the other two did more foreplay. None of them have eaten me out for longer than 2-3 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:34 AM
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I highly suggest you get off this sub because it will leave you feeling jaded and dissillusioned like i did. Mens rights are important but the stuff on this subreddit is brainrotting.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:28 AM
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Do they not bother to go down on you? They dont If they cum first and they don't wanna taste themselves because it's kinda gross, don't they at least use a toy to finish getting you off? Thats literally never happened Is it really a lack of effort thing? Lack of technique? Cluelessness? Women are just more complicated? What's going on? It seems to be a combination of all of those And as a follow up, if you're not getting off, then why are you continuing to have sex with them? Hell, why stay with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:54 PM
2

Yeah. Just not from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:01 PM
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Well none of them have ever made me cum so idk they werent all that good anyways i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:33 PM
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Yeah and social media is bad for people, and especially for kids. You should be going to the arcade or playing mario cart, not posting on reddit.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 05:52 AM
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Why cant i tell him that hes the best sex even though ive had bigger? Wouldnt he like to hear how good his skill is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:51 AM
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You shouldnt be on reddit.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 05:45 AM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:10 AM
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Ill try it if their dick is smaller than that one guys was
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:03 AM
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I did it with the first guy to see if i liked it, and i found out i didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:02 AM
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So i should do anal even if i dont like it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:32 AM
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Thats really dumb. Because i tried incredibly painful anal sex with my first boyfriend i should do it with every other guy? Should i also hold hands during sex with all of them because i did it with the one i fell in love with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:00 PM
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Yeah sounds fun until it happens to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:20 PM
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Have you ever been pumped and dumped by someone you wanted a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:09 PM
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Dude this is like announcing to ppd that you have insanely graphic cuck fantasies what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:01 PM
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Day long sex sounds terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:56 PM
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Im talking about the men ive seen on reddit who know what its like, like when theyve been pumped and dumped by someone they wanted a relationship. Idk what your experience was like, maybe it was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:04 AM
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Men who know what it feels like to be completely objectified know that its a horrible thing to experience. All these guys that want it think it sounds good because they dont know whatit really feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:51 AM
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I dont think you should be talking about the female experience during sex considering that you arent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:46 AM
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I love my mom, we have a great relationship. I think my mom would agree with my points, however she thinks me being on reddit is a waste of time and i should do something better with my life (shes right). My dad would also agree with my points too i think. Theure both pretty big on the man paying dates and making her feel special (honestly my dad is the one that makes a big deal of it if im being honest). I think both of my parents are representative of what a good healthy relationship looks lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:36 AM
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No she has the complete opposite of what id want in man. I love her but she would be an incredibly annoying person to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:16 AM
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Ok man. Any job is better than being unemployed id say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:56 PM
8

Ok. A job will not gaurantee a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:49 PM
9

It seems like op doesnt understand how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:45 PM
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Omfg dude it isnt about leniency. People with sexual disorders need therapy and treatment, putiing them in jail isnt going to keep them from being rapists. If france made drugs legal and controlled the supply of them then the drug traffickers would have no way of making money El salvador is a one of a kind story. Youre the one cherry picking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:49 PM
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Its not about leniency, its about offering people other avenues to make a living. I think all countries should follow the model scandinavia has. Also japan is notorious for giving lenient sentences in rape and sexual assault crimes so its a shitty example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:19 PM
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Nice spelling too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:00 PM
2

Okay edgelord
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:59 PM
3

You think rejection is a violation and somehow im the stupid one here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:56 PM
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Do you really think being emotionally vulnerable means to be lash out at rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:54 PM
3

Men and missing the point be like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:52 PM
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Yeah stop taking out your emotions on other people. The therapist is not encouraging you to react agressively when being rejected, and that isnt emotional vulnerability. Youve clearly never actually been to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:50 PM
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Maybe men should stop being so emotional and semsitive Arent y'all the logical gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:45 PM
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Yes and harsh punishments are what make normal people become career criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:42 PM
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Youre just too dumb to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:39 PM
3

And they were still defending him. Female politicians and celebrities did the same thing. So i guess they cancel out eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:30 PM
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Rehabilitating offenders is better for society. Lower rates of recidivism and people contribute to society by getting jobs instead of being career criminals. Its illogical to be pro punishment if someone can be reformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:28 PM
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Men were also upset about his murder. Why are you making this a gendered thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:20 PM
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Ok well most people arent as jaded and vengeful as you are, including other men. Youre the weird one here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:20 PM
7

Do you think he deserved to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:17 PM
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I dont think he deserved to die. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:13 PM
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In my opinion the death penalty should be abolished because there are a lot of people that are executed and then found to be innocent when its too late. Thats not protecting convicts, its protecting innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:07 PM
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Women werent protecting him they were talking about how hot he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:01 PM
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Because ive never seen anything like this and have no idea what hes talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:00 PM
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Can you show some specific examples of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:56 PM
2

You can post a picture to your profile and pin it to the top
/r/seduction12/05/26 06:53 PM
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Trades jobs make up to 6 figures. You get money in exchange for doing a job, not a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:52 PM
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My motivation to have sex with a man depends on whether hes my type and if i like talking to him and being around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:10 PM
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Idk, ask your friends for advice then
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 10:05 PM
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Do you dress well too? And hows your hair? Are you muscular?
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 10:00 PM
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Well theres more to it than just being thin
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:59 PM
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Well if you want people to think youre hot you have to be hot. I think with enough effort youll get there at some point.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:50 PM
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No offesne but are you good-looking or just average? People only get compliments if there's something notable or special about them.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:47 PM
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Most people use stacy to mean a woman who is especially attractive or above average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:38 AM
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That not what most people would call a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:28 AM
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Damn dont let her catch you saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:24 AM
1

Why cant women show their support in that way too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:24 AM
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According to your post history one of your only two friends is your ex girlfriend. Was she also a pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:14 AM
1

So how can a man show that he cares about short average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:09 AM
2

Is it the only way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:03 AM
2

Do you think the only way a woman can care about someone is to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:58 AM
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Who do hot women choose to give sex to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:57 AM
1

Do you ever want to have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:55 AM
3

It was before the neolithic revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:27 PM
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If men dont want to do it then just dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:30 AM
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Why are you criticizing feminism for being pacifistic? Are you anti-pacifism?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:56 PM
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Im aware but OP clearly doesnt understand the nuances of feminism so im trying to dumb it down for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:26 PM
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Ok, so then men do find it worth it to do these humiliating rituals. Sounds like theyve made their choices and are accepting it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:25 PM
1

So they have no relation other than being in the "elite"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:23 PM
1

How is blackrock related to feminism? How is metoo related to pedofilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:18 PM
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If you dont want to perfomr humiliating rituals for female validation then dont do it. You are free to abstain from it. Lots of people choose to stay single because dating is such a hassle. If you dont think its worth the effort then just dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:12 PM
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Im not asking if you are pro-making-men-fight-for-womens-rights. Im asking if youre pro-violence. Are you pro-violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:10 PM
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So pedofiles ssupport feminism because the pedofiles get arbitrary power, and they can then accuse anyone of stuff without needing evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:09 PM
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Didnt answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:03 PM
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What are the horrific gender roles men are expected to fulfill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:03 PM
1

So why did you bring up afghanistan as part of your argument? What relevance does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:03 PM
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Are you proviolence or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:02 PM
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Source? And what is the point of your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:46 PM
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Feminists don't have the balls to take up the arms and go fight. Feminism is pacifist and anti war. Do you want them to go out and become revolutionary? It sounds like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:45 PM
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I dont see how keeping women from leaving their homes is in any way looking out for your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:40 PM
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So some feminists are protesting against mens rights and you equate that to the taliban literally banning women from leaving their homes or even speaking out loud? Do you see how thats an exageration?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:39 PM
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Women in the west arent banning men from leaving their houses unattended, nor from speaking in public. Afghani women arent even allowed to see doctors anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:04 PM
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What do pedophiles get out of supporting womens rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:53 PM
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How are pedofiles supportive of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:39 PM
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So what is your point? Should western society follow in afghanistan's footsteps because metoo went too far or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:38 PM
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If anything this just shows how men will subjugate and oppress women if they are able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:27 PM
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Idk you dont hear me complaining about it. I just stay happily single if i dont find someone i like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:25 PM
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Thats what its like being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:46 PM
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For me its dressing sloppy and having greasy hair. These things are so easy to fix too, yet somehow half the men i see are dressed like slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:22 AM
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The most attractive guy ive been with so far was this little twink with a mullet who did mma. He had some piercings and a massive back tattoo and he was super strong for how thin he was. I asked my friends who they thought was the most attractive guy ive been with and none of them said it was him lmao. He didnt look like a typical alpha but he definetly acted like one. He was super protective and possessive of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:34 AM
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Well i figured id give insight onto your situation but nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:47 AM
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If i knew one i would ask, but ive never met a guy like this irl. They seem to only exist on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:46 AM
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Are you having sex more than once with these people? Or is it just one night stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:43 AM
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Yup. Men wouldnt be complaining about these issues if they raised their standards, but it seems like they thinks it worth putting up with if it means easier access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:34 AM
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I dont hook up like that. I go on a few dates with a guy and every so often the conversation turns sexual. Its not necessarily a deep conversation but more like asking eachother what we like and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:32 AM
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Personally i always have discussions about what i like and whats off limits. I think its super important to establish boundaries beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:08 AM
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It sounds like you have bpd or some type of disorder. None of that is normal or healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:35 AM
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Most men are good people. Most hot attractive men are also good people. The dark triad manipulators are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:27 AM
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I just asked a question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:22 PM
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The first guy is at least 35, second seems young but i dont like blondes, 3rd is at least 30, and the last one is pushing 40 and has way too much botox/cosmetic surgeries. And im 23. And maybe its just me but i dont really like white guys all that much. And theyre too lean/muscular. I also like longer hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:07 PM
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That guy isnt a chad. Hes an old guy with hair pomade. And those screenshots are even faker. Why are the text bubbles so long if its an app on a phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:55 PM
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Huh? Do you think OP has a personality problem or not? Its a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:53 PM
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Im aware that mistreatment will make people resentful. That doesnt change the fact that his personality is repulsive and not doing him any favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:50 PM
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Ok. So you think this guys personality is fine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:49 PM
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Because the text in those screenshots are way too small for the bubbles theyre in. It looks fake. Also maybe its just my personal opinion but those guys arent even hot. They look old and douchey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:45 PM
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What word would you use instead of sourpuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:40 PM
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Im not saying hes sad, im saying hes annoying and rude. And regardless of what came first, that doesnt change the fact that he has a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:39 PM
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Media literacy should be required for everyone to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:32 PM
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Those people are real. The screenshots are fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:32 PM
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Theres no way you actually believe those painfully fake screenshots are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:16 PM
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What point are you trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:14 PM
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If he wants an answer he can post a picture of himself and ask for an honest rating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:55 PM
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Because your replies are rude and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:28 PM
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Theyre not gaslighting you. You have the personality of a sourpuss based on your previous posts, and you might also be ugly. Maybe work on both of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:27 PM
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It might be your looks but its pretty clear that your personality also contributes to your dating problems too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:26 PM
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Ok, well then post a picture of yourself when you talk about your dating struggles. Then people can have the full context and give you a better answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:52 PM
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Do you want to post a picture of yourself and we give you an honest critique? Or what do you want exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:48 PM
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No what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:44 PM
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Unless they have a picture alongside their post about dating struggles then we have no way of knowing whether theyre ugly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:42 PM
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Yeah and a woman coming up to every ugly guy she sees and calling them ugly is just as strange
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:03 PM
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Do you expect women to come up to you out of nowhere and tell you how ugly you are? What exactly are you expecting them to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:56 PM
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I think your problem is that women do honestly tell you how they feel attraction and you just refuse to believe it because it doesnt align with your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:53 PM
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Proven guilty? Not really, theres lots of attractive men out there that dont do it for me. I have a very particular type so its more than just a nice face and body. Also I find a hot guy physically attractive, but not enough that i actually want to be with them. Id have to get to know them first before i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:51 PM
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Whyd you delete your thread? Im just going to copy and paste what i said. Im attracted to good-looking men, however if the man in question has a repulsive personality then no amount of hotness is going to make up for it. Personally i find jeremy meeks trashy and gross, and i question anyone that finds him good enough to actually interact with. All he is to me is eye candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:44 PM
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Im attracted to good-looking men, however if the man in question has a repulsive personality then no amount of hotness is going to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:25 PM
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No, they are bad to us because of our moral skip. Some people seem to think its ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:55 PM
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Yeah eating people is bad. Rape is bad. Glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:52 PM
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If my moral code says it’s okay to be racist and sexist, would you still tell me to follow my moral code Bruh the victorian moral code is exactlythis. And idk do whatever you want. Do you want a peer reviewed study on whether or not powerful people were sexually abusing children? So we're talking about the moral code of the victorian era, and youre bringing up epstein island? How is that relevant in anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:20 PM
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Then whose moral code should we follow? Youre own. But of course it’s a laughing matter to you. It sounds like you just made something up honestly. Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:10 PM
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Theres an island dedicated to eatung mummies and skull-based eugenics?? The point is that victorians werent all that great and we shouldnt base our moral code on what they thought was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:01 PM
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This hasnt been true in my dating experiences so far but maybe its because of my age.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 05:00 PM
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Look up victorian mummy parties and phrenology
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:23 PM
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Ok, good for them? They also ate people and thought intelligence was based on the shape of ones skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:09 PM
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Oh that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:02 PM
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Yeah im not particularly concerned about what people in the victorian era were up to. Im talling about people in the modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:01 PM
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Do you have a source
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:00 PM
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I guess things sre different in canada
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:01 PM
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Do you live in a small town?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:47 AM
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Im surprised to hear that. Im the lowest of everyone i currently know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:20 AM
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Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:16 AM
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I always wonder if i should tell them a bigger number so i can gauge their reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:10 AM
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Am i crazy? 4 isnt a lot at 23 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:07 AM
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Of all the men and women i currently know, i have the lowest bodycount. I think youre underestimating how much people get around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:07 AM
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Do you think 4 is a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:00 AM
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If you want an example im right here. 23, 106 pounds and bodycount of 4. Are you acting like that type of woman doesnt exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:03 AM
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You equate hotness to attraction. That might be true for you but it isnt for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:00 PM
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Not sure what point youre trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:53 PM
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How should a woman show accountability for her actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:55 PM
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They werent hot. I was still attracted to them. I guess i should keep going for chads and not let a normie get a chance with me anymore, even if i do want to have sex with them. Great advice ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:52 PM
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Should i only date people that are conventionally hot? Or should i date the people im attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:39 PM
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Ok, my bad for being attracted to nerds. Poor them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:30 PM
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Why should i have dated hot guys when i preferred nerds?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:13 PM
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Maybe youve never heard this before, but glasses make people look nerdier. Sorry that you dont like that im attracted to nerds. And why would i call them hot? The reality is that they arent hot, and i still like them anyways. Idk what your point is. Do you want me to lie? Sure, i think theyd be better of with someone who can help them with their problems, and that definetly isnt me. Hence why i dont date nerds anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:01 PM
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Dude im physically attracted to nerds, to the point that i very strongly encourage the hot guys i date to wear their glasses more often. It just seems to be a pattern that real nerdy guys are super insecure, and make it a big problem. I tried to date another nerd a few months ago and it was the same thing with him. The hot guys at least dont make their insecurities a huge deal in the relationship. Sorry i dont like neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:47 PM
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Personally i decide at some point during the first date if i like him enough for a second one, and in my experience so far if there's a second date that means we're gonna be together for at least a few months. I dont have sex until they get tested first though.
/r/seduction06/05/26 05:26 PM
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Of course they have insecurities but they have yet to make them a big problem in our relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:14 PM
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No i wanted the nerd, and he unfortunately made our relationship crash and burn from his imsecurities. He was literally all i wanted but he took me for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:51 PM
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Ive been choosing better and men on this subreddit get mad at me about it because im dating hot guys instead of insecure nerds now. Y'all will never be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:30 PM
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I only sleep with people that i like, so i guess they stood out in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:54 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:24 AM
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Men are more dangerous to women because there are so many of them. That doesnt change the amount of danger, nor does it change the necessary precations we have to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:05 AM
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Statistically, women are far more likely to be killed by a man than by a bear or by a child. There are enough dangerous men on this planet that every woman has had an encounter with some time of predator, to the point that we always have to be on gaurd watching and preparing for the next one, much like what you would do if youre hiking in an area with a lot of bears. Let me say it again for emphasis. Every woman has has some type of encounter with a predator. The same cannot be said about homici…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:16 AM
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If you had the experiences that we did youd feel the same way. Every single woman i know has a story about a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:10 AM
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Why is it unnecessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:52 AM
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Yes, unless it is self defense that is absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:51 AM
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Far more women are attacked and killed by men than by children and/or bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:50 AM
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Far more women are attacked by men than by bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:27 AM
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The whole point of the man vs bear thing is that theyd rather risk being eaten alive by a bear than risk being raped and murdered by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:26 AM
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Is that a no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:25 AM
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Do you think a woman is too picky if she expects a man to listen to her ramble about the kardashians or the newest fenty lipgloss?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:02 AM
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Well if you dont ask then youll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:56 PM
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Why dont you ask her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:48 PM
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The guys i dated got laid like crazy and were still kind and genuine people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:04 PM
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I think most men are actually quite nice and kind, or at least in my dating experience they are. You kind of sound like an asshole and a player though, so maybe its just you projecting your mindset onto other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah i have small yiddies and if they say "i like all sizes" unprompted, then i know theyre trying to overcompensate for how they actually feel. If theyre like "you got nice tits" then i take it as genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:57 AM
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I prefer uncircumsized but thats because they go in more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:35 AM
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Fair enough. I dont tell them when they have wierdly shaped balls. And id rather not hear their opinions if its something that i cant do anything about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:33 AM
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Ive very recently realized that my past 3 boyfriends had at least 2 piercings in each ear. I wonder what that says about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:45 AM
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Yeah how are we supposed to know that lol. The only comments ive ever gotten in it is "nice bush" or "i like your flaps"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:19 AM
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First kiss at 18 First sexual experience at 19 Im on my 4th partner now. All except my first relationship started as casual and eventually became more like boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. I went sexless for stretches of up to 11 months during my relationship because we were long distance, but outside of that maybe 3 months. I used to be obsessed want sex and affection basically all the time until i started taking birth control and now i almost never think about it. My best experiences in life ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:40 PM
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Hopefully the women you do that to are okay with having casual relationships? Idk if its because of my looks, i think those guys just really liked me. And a lot of women have replied to me with similar experiences so it doesnt seem as rare as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:00 AM
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The saying "men only think about sex" also comes from a ton of men on here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:11 AM
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Unfortunately ive never gotten it for longer than 2 minutes so i guess i'd say... wanting to do it for longer than 2 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:05 AM
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If i met a man that was good at it and liked doing it i'd probably be hooking up more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:20 AM
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I dont find them ugly, i just dont find them attractive. They're just another face in the crowd most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:02 AM
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I occasionally see guys like that but it doesnt make me want to approach them anymore than any other person out there. Its kind of like "oh that guy's hot" and then i immediatley go back to whatever i was doing.
/r/seduction02/05/26 10:11 PM
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They cant imagine any mindset outside of their own beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:35 AM
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Agreed. I dont fuck guys that i dont feel compatible with. We can go our seperate ways and find people who fit into what we each want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:01 AM
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Yeah like, let me debate you into caring over something you dont care about??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:13 PM
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You don't have to care, just go live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:21 PM
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It also has 10 sources that you can refer to, if you want to fact check whatever people add to it. How about you go fact check the page and tell me if i'm wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:02 PM
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She said shed be free to see him after 10 days and hes there texting for to hookup 3 days in. How is that the opposite of what she said?
/r/seduction01/05/26 09:22 AM
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That is common, but what makes a pick me is that you do it to make a man like you or think youre better than other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:08 AM
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Thats up to personal interpretation but i'd say its measured on how satisfied and content each partner is with it. Some couples are happy with no sex life and others couldnt imagine their lives without it. Im ok with never getting eaten out while a lot of women arent, but to me its not that big of a deal, i like wieners more. And some people are satisfied seeing their partners once a week, i'm definetly not and i need more than that. So idk, it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:48 AM
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Right, and you dont think thats true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:49 AM
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Well at least you're consistent. Honestly i wish more redpillers were like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:28 AM
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If you want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:27 AM
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Its not a generalization, its my own choices in my dating life no one needs to follow what im doing and i dont expect anyone to either. How am i generalizing when im emphasizing that this is all in my own personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:27 AM
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No, i honestly think more people should sleep around. Shame around bodycounts is keeping people from finding what makes them happy. I'm just making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:16 AM
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True, im sure most people out there arent like him, but it's a fear i hold that i dont think i can get over, and regardless i dont really need to because most men out there have at least some amount of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:15 AM
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Lol. I know the first one i ever gave was downright painful for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:03 AM
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Good lord some people are just messed up. But i think you're partially right, this desperation for virginal women comes from the insecurity that you can never be as good as what shes had before, but for some its with wanting someone "untainted". Which i find weird that some people think having sex is equivalent to defilement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:01 AM
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Ok. Everyone wants the best they can have. This applies to men to, maybe y'all should stop sleeping around so you can be happy with your wife who never blows you instead of fantasizing about the one night stand you had with a woman who never wants to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:57 AM
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That isnt the definition that most women use.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:49 AM
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If my ex treated me better than a new guy then why would i stay with him? I broke up with my ex for a reason, i'm not gonna stay with someone worse than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:42 AM
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Ok... i meant in quality of relationship and sexual skills. Like good communication and mutual care, not whatever youre on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:41 AM
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I think for some people lack of skill is important. My first boyfriend had no experience, and he was incredibly pushy while also having no boundaries for himself. Now i avoid inexperienced guys because at least non-virgins have have a better idea of how communication and sexual boundaries should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:39 AM
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Shit, i lost my virginity at 19 and i had a TON of baggage. So did my virgin boyfriend at the time. Lack of relationships doesnt mean lack of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:36 AM
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Im not saying you need to sleep with a buttload of people, but a person who has been with one person for a long term relationship has a lot more skill than a complete virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:33 AM
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A woman has sex with who she wants. So, when a man has a vibrant sexual life, that means that he's got his shit together - one way or another. When a woman has a lot of sexual partners, that just means that she has horrible judgment and self-control. So, not only do you not want to be compared to all of those other men, but you also don't want to attach yourself to a woman who acts as reckless, selfish, and immature as a woman like that. Couldnt the same be said about a man who has an enormously…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:31 AM
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My first boyfriend was like that. I didnt realize that it wasnt normal until i broke up with him and started dating. Life is better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:29 AM
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isn't spoiled by what other guys had to offer You mean doesnt know theres better out there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:28 AM
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What part is worse for men than for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:24 AM
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I'd rather be single than in an unsatisfying relationship. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:21 AM
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Thats a sad way to live. You're allowed to want a well-rounded partner. I know i'd rather be single than with someone who sucks in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:19 AM
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Yeah, that seems easier than sleeping with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:14 AM
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It doesnt need to last. I just think it seems easier than finding a new one for each day. And once it ends you find a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:12 AM
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Whats the point in sleeping with as many women as possible? Why not find one who wants to everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:10 AM
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They get better with practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:09 AM
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If he has then hes missing out on good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:05 AM
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Maybe you need to pick better. Im talking about blowjob skills, riding, enthusiasm, and openness to trying new things. If all the girls you have sex with are just laying there, you either have bad taste or are not very good at what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:48 AM
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I dont understand why theyd care about virginity. The less experience a woman has, the worse her sexual skills are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:35 AM
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Maybe youre just wrong and theyre right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:27 AM
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She was as clear as she couldve been
/r/seduction01/05/26 02:41 AM
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You type kind of like john locke
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:50 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:49 AM
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Most of the women in this thread seem to agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:45 AM
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Yeah, and theyre wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:46 PM
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No, some peoole throw the term around because theyre bitter but thats not what it actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:40 PM
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The feminist movement is against the draft in its entirety. Theyre fighting to get rid of it for you guys too.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:44 PM
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The fact that this is the wikipedia terminology imples that youre definition of a pickme is in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:43 PM
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Shes being called a pickme because shes demeaning other womens choices, not because shes young and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:59 PM
5

Here is the wikipedia page for the term. A Pick Me Girl, also known as "Pick Me" is a term used on the Internet to describe a woman who seeks male approval by regularly belittling other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:50 PM
6

Can you elaborate? What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:11 PM
-2

All the stuff youre talking about has nothing to do with the definition of pickmes. And personally (as an outsider from an afrolatina perspective), the black community is so divisive and critical of eachother than its fragentation is coming from internal conflict rather than outside factors. Basically, y'all need to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:31 PM
5

Alright, then which definition is legitimate then? Id say wikipeida is the closest to being a "defining authority".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:03 PM
3

Yeah, and men do the same to other men too. I think we should all be nicer and to eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:01 PM
4

From the replies ive gotten it seems like most women understand what it means and the men dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:59 PM
0

In case anyone wants to know the actual meaning of a pickme here it is. Here is the wikipedia page for the term. A Pick Me Girl, also known as "Pick Me" is a term used on the Internet to describe a woman who seeks male approval by regularly belittling other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:52 PM
5

Good for you. What does your fiancee define a pickme as?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:51 PM
8

Idk what rock you've been under but this has been the meaning of the term since the beginning. Women my age were the ones who coined the term, i'm inclined to believe i know it better than you do. Here is the wikipedia page for the term. A Pick Me Girl, also known as "Pick Me" is a term used on the Internet to describe a woman who seeks male approval by regularly belittling other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:50 PM
7

The ones that have to act like pickmes are deseprately trying to find whoever they can because their personalities are so miserable that they end up repelling any nice men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:48 PM
6

Here a copy of my reply to someone else. No, you're also misunderstanding the term. A pickmen is a girl/woman to puts down other women to seem better than them, especially around men. For example, lets say i have a friend who is kind and normal when its just the two of us, but when my boyfriend comes around, she insults my looks or personality and hypes herself up in comparison. That would be a pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:46 PM
9

Yeah some would, in those cases they'd be using the term incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:45 PM
11

No, you're also misunderstanding the term. A pickmen is a girl/woman to puts down other women to seem better than them, especially around men. For example, lets say i have a friend who is kind and normal when its just the two of us, but when my boyfriend comes around, she insuts my looks or personality and hypes herself up in comparison. That would be a pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:44 PM
9

Have you ever dated before?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:22 PM
13

So you think people liking eachother and putting in effort are simping or pickme behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:06 PM
29

Yeah youre right. OP seems to think any woman in a happy relationship is a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:52 PM
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A woman that's pleasant, loves being around him as long as she looks good enough it's no problem. This isnt what a pick me is. What you're describing is a nice attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:06 PM
7

Alright. Well i think you should do what makes you feel most comfortable.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:28 AM
-5

Im kinda having a hard time understanding what you're trying to say. Are you saying you prefer to be friends with straight women over queer women?
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:19 AM
-16

You might find it easier to make friends with other queer women rather than straight ones.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:41 AM
1

I think a lot of gen zers couldnt handle the culture shock if they did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:29 AM
1

Its ok, i'm glad you learned
/r/MensRights30/04/26 01:13 AM
1

The reality is that women are weaker than men. The mysoginistc thing to say is that women are just plain weak (which we know isnt true).
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:14 PM
1

The point is that voting rights arent tied to conscription. You're making leaps in logic.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:11 PM
4

I think the draft just shouldnt be a thing. The US military is well and capable of operating based on voluntary conscription already.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:00 PM
1

Puerto ricans are required to register for the draft and dont have the right to vote, as well as all the other territories of the US.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:57 PM
0

Ok? This person is still being nice and respectful. Other radfems being rude doesnt change anything.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:28 PM
-2

I've personally gotten dm's from people calling me a bitch and a whore. You don't see me posting it wherever, because I understand that there's a person on the other side of the computer. Despite them harrassing me, I don't want people to go and harass them. Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:07 PM
5

I think women are equally capable as men are to do all of those tasks, but the reality is men are physically stronger than women, and im saying this as a woman. Alos your wifes friend sounds really cool and accomplished, those, i feel like those "traditionally male" tasks should be taught to everyone so that we can all be self-sufficient, or at least id like to be one day. I see so many men whining on these subs, wanting a "traditional female", but forget that requires them to be the "traditiona…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:03 PM
-3

Shes being so nice and respectful. If you think this is rude then you must be very sensitive.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:58 PM
-4

I think its kind of rude to post private dm's of people who are being respectful. Sorry you disagree with her but like at least censor her username?
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:24 PM
3

Yeah, theres practical reasons for why the draft is designed the way it is. Regardless, i think it should be abolished becaise no one should be forced to be cannon fodder.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:21 PM
7

To be fair those women were a rarity, the vast majority of their armies were primarily men (and the vietcong are basically uncomparable to any modern army out there, it was made up of children and families defending their lands).
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:04 PM
13

If you remember the title or authors im sure you can find it on another database. Or you can email the publishers/authors and theyll send it to you directly.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 07:27 PM
-2

The reason why women were never drafted was based in the mysoginistc idea that women are weak and need to stay home and take care of the kids. This has been a thing for hundreds of years before feminism was created.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 06:51 PM
1

Do you have a source to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:48 PM
3

And you're here to avoid questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:34 PM
3

Every reply on here is a personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:31 PM
7

No blue pill is telling you to be submissive to women. Where did you even see that? Maybe you misinterpreted whatever they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:21 PM
4

...yes thats what opinions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:59 PM
3

I dont think it is. Thats why i emphasized that its my personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:52 PM
3

Well the grown men i date have to have mullets, otherwise i wont date them. An man keeping his appearance well groomed improves their SMV No duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:50 PM
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2 weeks is too often for a haircut imo, but personally i like mullets and long hair. 15% body fat is kind of too low, but once again thats my opinion. One of the core disagreements between blue and red pill is the importance of looks with red pill advice being much harsher on the appearance of men. Yeah red pill advice is harsher, but blue pill still tells you to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:46 PM
1

It doesnt. It just also emphasizes personality and social skills too. Im a blue piller saying this. You're hearing it straight from the horses mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:37 PM
0

Lol all of that advice is terrible. The stuff that ive heard is workout, dress nice, look good overall, and have a good personality. You're picking and choosing bad advice and claiming that thats all blue pill has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:34 PM
10

Can you give some specifics?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:31 PM
7

Blue pill advice is also about self improvement too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:16 PM
8

You act like being with a different woman every week is the ultimate goal. Like it's objectively preferable to being in a fulfilling, meaningful relationship. Yup. The guys I dated who had a track record of hookups and ons were happy (and at times desperate) to start a relationship with me. I think once men have a lot of casual sex they realize its not that great and one someone to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:06 PM
2

Her track record is par for the course for celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:00 PM
3

Youre telling me that your hookups didnt buy you bentleys and houses???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:40 PM
5

Multi-millionaire men rather marry a hot cardiologist In their same tax bracket .Or a non-famous woman Not a woman who showed her body for a decade and has a backlog of ex's. So why on earth did he choose to date her instead of being with a hot cardiologist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:39 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:37 AM
4

You would dater her for the money but why would she date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:20 AM
2

Millions of people disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:16 AM
2

Ok, your opinion changes nothing i said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:09 AM
2

Its not much but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:48 AM
3

Sounds good then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:45 AM
4

To add to this, my mom is 57, menopausal, and still gets hit on. Youre just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:44 AM
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Choosing between a lying, cheating, hot chip eating 24 year old or a loyal, low body count 33 year old... which do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:43 AM
2

Yeah i think it happens but it isnt as common as these guys think. I agree with you for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:41 AM
3

I guess but they arent so scrwed that they cant even find a mid guy. Youre totally exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:39 AM
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Date older women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:39 AM
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Ah yes, any female born after 1993 can't cook... all they know is mcdonald's charge they phone, twerk, be bisexual, eat hot chip & lie. Its tough out there ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:37 AM
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Yeah menopuase generally doesnt start until 50 and youre talking about it as though women become old wrinkly crones once they hit 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:35 AM
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Which generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:33 AM
6

30? Have you seen what 30 year old women look like? No offense but i think you dont know what youre talking about. If you had said 40 that would be more reasonable but even then 40 year old women sleep around easily. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:32 AM
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You said she doesnt want mid guys, so why would she settle with one mid guy when she can have way more? Also, men on this subreddit always say that women are able to sleep with guys more attractive then them. Im assuming this hypothetical woman started as average and was able to sleep with above average guys. So once she becomes below average, shes still able to gaurantee a bunch of mid guys who want to sleep with her. You said even a mid guy isnt a gaurantee. Why not? Do you disagree with this …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:19 AM
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If shes sleeping around for the sake of sleeping around then clearly she isnt concerned about stability, shes concerned about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:11 AM
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Ok she cant get attractive guys anymore, so what? She can sleep around with mid or ugly guys then. Theres no need to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:05 AM
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If she werent the committing type then why wouldnt she just keep sleeping around forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:59 AM
2

Im not seeing it? Which thread are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:48 AM
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Maybe she isnt "settling" and just found someone she likes enough to commit to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:43 AM
1

What is WR and SEC school?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:42 AM
3

I dont idolize her. I think she seems like a nice person but thats as far as my feelings go for her. I think most of the people defending her in these comments feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:40 AM
2

What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:34 AM
2

I thought he played football??? Isnt he brothers with Taylor Swifts boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:34 AM
2

I think more people know who Megan the Stallion is than Klay thompson. And shes been nominated for almost 200 awards and won 57. Even without being inducted into the rock and roll hall of fame shes still incredibely accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:33 AM
6

Same i knew him as an extension of Taylor Swift and Megan the Stallion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:27 AM
6

Can't recall another manosphere influencer's name but he's married to a single mom while he tells other men to never deal with single moms Is it Andrew Wilson from the whatever podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:26 AM
5

If they're opting out then they arent an option for these older men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:18 AM
5

Im starting to understand how you feel. Ive dated a few guys that havent had any long relationships and its pretty obvious why the girls never wanted to stay with them (but also how do you ask that without making things awkward?).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:16 AM
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Yes, rich people date other rich people. In fact, almost everyone dates within their economic level. That isnt unusual. Also, shes gorgeous and has men falling over themselves to get to her, including millionaires. She'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:01 AM
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The world famous, award winning, multimillionaire Megan the Stallion does not and will never need a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:38 AM
8

This isnt related to mens rights Also the reason why nuclear energy isnt very popular is because of rthe pil and gas lobbying, not because of women.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 10:47 PM
7

Girly all you ever do is strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:30 PM
2

You're repelling any potential female allies and giving the mens rights movement a bad image
/r/MensRights28/04/26 09:28 PM
12

I think women should do the same too for the same reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:22 PM
7

Most posters on this subreddit are perpetually online and have never had an actual relationship. They arent talking from their own life experiences, they just repeat talking points that they've seen elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:04 PM
1

Id rather die single than deal with either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:06 AM
1

Ive never been harassed by a women, ive bern harrassed by several men. And my boyfriends have been harrassed by men too.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 11:30 PM
1

OPs argument is dumb
/r/MensRights27/04/26 11:29 PM
5

This is why i never ask out or pursue men, i always wait for them to come to me first. Guys on reddit say they want to be pursued instead of it always being the other way around, but then they also say that theyll go along with any woman that approaches. Seems like they just want it easy without even putting in effort to discern compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:18 PM
2

Wow i never thought of that, im gonna try it too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:08 PM
7

Agreed, they seem to love locking me down more than just having a casual fling. My experiences are like the exact opposite of what most men say on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:40 PM
1

Lol i get it ive been there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:30 PM
4

Girly you cant start getting mad just cause you thought a man responded to you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:26 PM
3

Huh? Thats not what i said. Im talking about men wanting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:24 PM
7

Its more common than you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:20 PM
12

So far all of my casual relationships have ended up with them wanting to be in a committed relationship with me. I think men want it as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:16 PM
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Ok so you havent then. Take what everything you see on the internet with a grain of salt, it doesnt reflect reality in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:43 AM
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OP have you ever dated before? None of the complaints youre brought up are things that irl people are concerned about. Those to be internet talking points that dont reflect actual dating. The growth and boundaries that youre talking about have to do with how theyre treated in relationships, not about "short men" or "body count".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:30 AM
3

I think everyone needs to care less about what other people think and want of them and just focus on creating happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:39 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 09:32 AM
5

Well OP didnt show that happening so.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 09:28 AM
5

Ive dated a couple of guys that used to be kinda ugly and had a glow up at some point. Not sure if it changed their datinglives very much but theyve had a lot of casual relationships and hookups.
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:25 AM
28

Thats an AI response that you created?
/r/MensRights27/04/26 09:20 AM
1

I didnt say anything about what emotion is the worst, you did. I dont think any emotion is any worse than others, they all play an important part in different things. Im talking about expressing emotions in a healthy way instead of shoving them down and letring them fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:17 AM
1

What part?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:10 AM
5

The best way of building familiarity with me is through chatting. Thats how i get to feel comfortable with a guy, by knowing that he cares about my opinions and feelings, and also by getting to know his own. Its a way of mutually connecting.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:36 AM
0

I dont understand how sexual imagery has made you dislike women?
/r/MensRights27/04/26 03:17 AM
1

very "convenient" that the largest difference between men or women just "coincidentally" happens to be what is "obviously unhealthy" Idk what you mean. Are you saying that yelling and throwing things in anger is healthy? Are you saying that men are the only one doing those things in anger? Personally, I think the emotion of jealousy is the worst and most unhealthy emotion, it's unfortunate that women are constantly encouraged to engage in it and there are billions of dollars and vast corporation…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:16 AM
2

I dont downvote or upvote anything, thats other people disagreeing with your opinion. Also theres ways to express anger in a healthy way, but insulting people, throwing things, yelling, and beating people is obviously unhealthy. And no one specifically mentioned anger in the first place, we're talking about how men are made to supress everything that isnt happiness or anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:46 AM
1

Police officers are fighting off tigers and lions on a daily or even yearly basis. Thats like a once in a lifetime thing for most of them.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 01:43 AM
0

Most of the cold approaches ive had were fine and respectful. Most guys have some level of awareness and "reading the room" i guess, where theyll ask me out while im having fun shopping or at a park, and not under dark overpasses or alleyways at nightime (or anything similar). I think if more women had my realtively positive experiences then theyd be more open to it, but it seems like the men in my area are much more respectful than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:39 AM
2

You need to send proof so that other people can know you arent just making it up. Not everyone has attended college and is aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:34 AM
-1

Whered you see the screenshot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:26 AM
0

Its always a redpill man being rude on here. Never anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:39 PM
0

Yup. Hes acting like he doesnt know its rude to generalize women as though we allll stop maturing after 16. Aure it might be true for some but obviously not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:28 PM
1

NAH WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:26 PM
4

You took the original comment as though it was a direct attack on you and then had a temper tantrum riddled with typos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:46 PM
1

Men on this subreddit dont know how to debate without gettinng their emotions involved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:44 PM
4

Ok dude. Im just talking about what has worked on me
/r/seduction26/04/26 01:44 AM
6

Best way is honestly by chatting and really getting to know eachother. Ask a lot of questions and show that youre genuinely interested in what the answers are.
/r/seduction25/04/26 09:55 PM
1

Thank you
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:18 PM
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Ive had the exact same experience. The guy that treated me wayyy worse than others was a lonely mid nerd with no experience. Meanwhile all the hot guys i dated treated me phenomenally in comparison. Desperation doesnt make a man treat you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:16 PM
1

Making things look nice and comfortable is childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:12 PM
2

So then the spaces are still male only and youre whining about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:08 PM
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Thank u queen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:07 PM
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If you guys want a mens only space then go to the gay baths or clubhouses. A lot of them are fully decked out with a gym, steam rooms, and showers. However obviously theres a lot of gay things happening, but obviously you dont need to participate in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:06 PM
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Well the cookie selling is part of that. It teaches them to be independant and self-sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:01 PM
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Do u have any reccomendations? All i ever play is gta online or 4d minesweeper. Its getting boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:59 PM
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So then women are playing videogames?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:56 PM
2

No definetly not a sleeper build you look fit and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:48 PM
6

Damn which post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:36 PM
1

Can you provide me with a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:29 PM
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As a woman i think youre mostly correct except for #2. The feeling that i get when that happens is not that he is below me, but that he is annoying and disingenuous. It makes me put my guard up emotionally. Other than that i agree.
/r/seduction25/04/26 09:34 AM
-1

I think it isnt the best idea, as it makes it harder for boys to socialize normally with the opposite gender.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:30 AM
3

Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:24 AM
-1

How is it a privilege to always be portrayed as a weak helpless victim?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:22 AM
4

You are part of the problem if you view expressing healthy emotions as inherently feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:21 AM
4

Do you have a link to the study?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 08:07 AM
-7

Lol, no, women are far less interested than men in putting their lives in danger Doesnt that imply that there would be less crime since women tend to avoid danger?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:43 AM
5

Yeah i agree. OP is the one bringing gender into it.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:39 AM
-8

In that case wouldnt other dominant women be also doing the protecting then?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:36 AM
-20

Women need men to be protected from other men?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:30 AM
4

Me too that behaviour is so lame. Why put up with it when i can easily find someone who actually likes me and wants to spend time with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:44 AM
4

Is there a problem with thinking that? Youve basically described my exact type
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:42 AM
1

Acting slightly detached for weeks/months, keeping options open, being unpredictable, leaning into push-pull instead of direct interest, manufacturing constant disagreement to generate the need for approval (big one), etc does work to spark attraction in many cases. Im gonna start doing these things and see if it works better than just being nice. Thanks for the tip!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:37 AM
3

Oh lol i guess i fell for it. I thought he was just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:56 AM
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Well he seems a little dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:54 AM
5

I dont think you should tell him that bc he might take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:48 AM
1

Nvm the guy i dated was more chunky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:24 AM
1

Im kinda curious, are there any celebrities or people online with your body type? I feel like ive dated somone who has your body type but i wanna confirm i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:23 AM
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Why dont you ask the women that actually told you this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:16 AM
1

I guess you have a sleeper build then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:15 AM
1

Sure send it to me
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:20 PM
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This is actually also a critique that feminists have of horror films, that the women are always being victimized and graphically tortured, often in sexual ways which never seems to hapoen to male characters.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:18 PM
-2

No its that youre generalizing feminists to hate men. Also you could just ask the mods why your posts are getting deleted.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:14 PM
6

Yeah they want women to not just be sympathetic but also be the ones that solve all of their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:10 PM
-1

This is mens rights not womens rights, and not anti womens rights
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:07 PM
14

I love how you and all these other women are acknowledging mens problems and giving them sympathy, and yet everyone still has reples from men that are... mad that youre acknowledging their difficulties ? Like what do they even want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:03 PM
7

Honestly same. It was absolutely shocking once i got my first boyfriend. They eat so much without even getting fat. I cant imagine the grocery prices they deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:56 PM
1

The thing youre thinking of is adaptability and intelligence, which are both evolutionary traits of humans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:39 PM
1

What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:25 PM
5

Yeah thats super unhealthy. Its kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:12 AM
1

Honestly id love to get married and grow old with someone but all of your points are what make me hesitant to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:30 AM
1

The single women in my life are single by choice because they dont like dating and prefer to be alone. So i guess it is a matter of perspective.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 10:28 AM
2

I think a big expensive first date is really dumb and ive never heard someone suggest that as advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:06 AM
3

Do you think women should stay in abusive relationships then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:02 AM
-1

Idk what age you are but from what ive seen the stats say that single women in their 30s/40s are the happiest demographic out there
/r/MensRights24/04/26 08:18 AM
3

A lot of women feel that way and a lot of women dont. Theres 4 billion women on the planet, every opinion on earth is going to have some level of support from them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 08:14 AM
9

that undying love was conditional on the type of relationship they had before. And loyalty to sports teams isnt related to romantic love. Personally, im loyal to the colombian soccer team because im colobmian, but idk how it works in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:12 AM
13

It exists for family and children, not in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:07 AM
18

If women were perfectly content being single, they would not be posting online sharing all their intimate feelings and heightened emotions of how much they hate the dating market and how men are trash-with dozens of women in the comment section validating said opinions. If it was truly indifference, you would simply not see women talking about it at all-but it's quite the opposite, in fact. The women that are fine being single are not online complaining about it. Theyre different people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 05:13 AM
1

No. If you do it in the right circumstances no one will care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:58 AM
81

Women also have ai boyfriends
/r/MensRights24/04/26 04:54 AM
1

Two women is more acceptable, however a week is too little time. No one wants to be second pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:53 AM
1

I still dont believe they are neutral but for the sake of the argument, lets say i agree. Neutral tools can still be used in positive or negative ways, in thos case it is negatively being used as a tool of patriarichal oppression. The tool being neutral does not make it ok or acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:50 AM
1

I wouldnt care. The only reason its happening is that someone felt strongly enough that they needed it. If a man felt the same way for whatever reason, i wouldnt care. I dont care about the lgbt room at my universty, nor the black students room either. Everyone should have a safe space.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 04:48 AM
1

No, approaching every woman in your social circle in front of eachother, is a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:44 AM
11

Yeah all romantic love is conditional. This applies to men and women equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:41 AM
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Id rather be single than take either of those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:24 PM
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Apparently hes extremely underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:06 PM
1

Yes. Women dont like being #2 or #3.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:57 PM
0

Well i asked a couple question. What do you think the answer is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:54 PM
3

Thats not shit testing, shes flirting with you. Just tell her leave you alone or report her to hr.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:34 PM
2

their trust is conditional to the way you make them feel and how they feel about you Isnt that true for everyone? Its not like you blindly trust every stranger you meet.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:31 PM
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Women are generally happy to be single. They only get into relationships if its really worth it to them.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:26 PM
2

If you go to a party and ask out every single woman out there theyre going to think youre a desperate loser. If you ask one girl out and she rejects you no one is going to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:23 PM
1

I wouldnt go as far as saying that objectification is completely neutral, i think it depends on the context it happens in. To say that consenting makes objectification ok doesnt mean it is ok in itself. Its only ok in certain contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:19 PM
2

Im comparing it to your argument on grouping women with prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:16 PM
0

Gynecologists go elbow deep when they need to reach up into the uterus after childbirth when the placenta isnt detaching. Do you you think that it feels good for the woman? Do you think women want the penis to split open their cervix into the uterus?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:15 PM
0

8 inches doesnt even fit in most vaginas dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:00 PM
1

Uhh what? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:54 PM
2

Fair enough. But why single out only women getting welfare? You are also "providing" for all the men on it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:53 PM
1

Honestly its pretty rare for me to see a man thats shorter than me at 5'3. But i dont really have an opinion on them? The only man i can think of is a family friend and hes been married with a happy family for 20 years. But personally i wouldnt date someone shorter than me. I prefer to stick with guys between 5'8 and 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:50 PM
1

They eventually get used to it or at least realize that its never going to attack them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:45 PM
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Women do not financially need men anymore and it isnt because of the government, its because theyre going to college and getting jobs. Most women arent using welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:44 PM
1

What makes it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:42 PM
1

So then this whole thing is mens fault and not womens?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:41 PM
0

Ok i understand. Now what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:40 PM
4

I dont mind waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:40 PM
1

The harm in objectification comes when it is done without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:29 PM
2

Tigers are grouped as carniverous becasue they all get their primary food source from hunting animals. Obviously not all women are prostitutes. In fact the vast majority of women arent and never will be. So why shoulf the be goruped together? Should i group all men together as rapists and pedophiles because most of them happen to be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:27 PM
1

You know men do the same as well? Theres thousands of male prostutes out there working alongside women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:23 PM
5

Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:12 PM
2

At no point did she say anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:11 PM
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Should welfare be taken away from the elderly or disabled? They contribute less to taxes afterall, and they likely would never date you anyways. The goverment should only provide for people that are open to dating men i guess, jist to make it fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:07 PM
8

You bring that up all the time and i still havent seen anyone defend or sympathize with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:53 PM
3

What are you expecting women to do about it other than saying they understand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:52 PM
1

I do actually, men are also victims of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:47 PM
3

I have yet to see anyone defend or say anything positive about that bachlorette lady. Every gossip subreddit is on the husbands side and they all celebrated when she was arreested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:46 PM
2

No and i disagree. Men arent stupid little animals, youre self sufficient humans in control of your actions. You all can and should do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:14 AM
2

Source?
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:53 AM
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Yes it was all in the evil plans of the scheming hivemind that all women share. Its not like youre excusing men from taking accountability for their actions or anything. Its the womens fault as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:52 AM
2

So what do you think then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:38 AM
1

Whats your opinion? Are men sex crazed animals that only care about pussy? Or they normal people in control of their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:32 AM
2

Men and women were largely equals up until the neolithic revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:07 AM
2

Men arent my oppressors, the people in power are. Men are just cogs in the machine like everyone else. We are all being taken advantage of and it would be stupid to hate someone whos is the same difficult spot that im in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:13 AM
1

Well the effort they put into their appearances made them above average, but if they didnt try at all then yeah i guess they would be average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:07 AM
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They all were well dressed and had nice hair all the time and theyre all super fit. Now that i think about it all of them did some type of mma stuff or muay thai. Idk about genetics though, i think they just put effort into their appearances. Ive seen photos of them from before their glowups and honestly i wouldnt have dated them if they still looked like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:03 AM
1

Are you trying to get me to hate all men or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:00 AM
1

Yeah they all were good looking, i only ever date people who i find attractive. I dont like big height differences so i date under 6ft, but i prefer somewhere around 5'10 (im 5'3).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:36 AM
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Yeah listen to women, and also use logic and rationality at the same time. That lady thinking that women are more moral then men doesnt equate to women being perfect and without flaws. I don't see you pushing back against this bad messaging, just making excuses for bad behavior and blaming men for being manipulated. Dude you must be stupid if you got "manipulated" into thinking all women are perfect. Like just use your eyes and look around at the world. You can very easily see flawed women all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:34 AM
1

I think if men organized to do something similar no one would care because it doesnt affect them.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 12:30 AM
0

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:28 AM
3

Yesh but the men here arent representative of all guys, most men are decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:29 PM
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Idk why youre asking me. Go email the school or something?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 10:27 PM
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Uhhh what? I have no problem with femboys or gay men so idk why youre implying that i do. And i dont get why you replied to my comment with a rant about femboys and feminism. And the way you talk about it you seem to dislike femboys while simultaneously denouncing people that also dont like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:26 PM
0

Ok, her opinion is her own and doesnt contradict with the fact that women arent perfect. And honestly i cant believe i have to say this, how do you guys not already know that some women are stupid and impulsive? Why do you need to be told that as though its news?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:23 PM
1

Ok, so go to your university and campaign for it like the people in the article did.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 10:17 PM
1

No, who you sleep with and pursue is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:14 PM
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They act as though they are animals with no agency or control over their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:11 PM
8

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:10 PM
4

Maybe they didnt want you overworking the meat?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 06:41 PM
6

What did the sculpture look like?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 06:35 PM
1

You wouldn’t even be on this sub if that’s the case…that doesn’t even make any sense lol. Why wouldnt i be on this subreddit? I dont know what you mean You’re defending strategic plurism as we speak right now, the other scenario doesn’t work that way. What scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:22 PM
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Idk how this is so surprising to hear. You know girls like that stuff too? Not that i like it, i just like guys who are interested in that stuff. I like learning about new bits of media and pop culture that i dont normally get to experience, and men are good place to find that. Its not that weird dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:21 PM
1

Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:12 PM
1

Why is that a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:09 PM
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How are claiming that theyre invisible when i said that i notice them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:09 PM
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You want me to become a single mom because my boyfriend is 5'11?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:07 PM
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I like nerds and dorks but I just don’t want to deal with them anymore” grouping people like that is again subconscious aversion, Toward non attractive I like nerdy guys. i like nerds that play videogames and mtg and pokemon. Thats genuinely my type. And the "chads" i date now still have those hobbies lol. Why is it that men on this subreddit always talk about how women should take accountability over their bad dating choices, and then get mad when women actually do it? Here i am taking accounta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:05 PM
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No, but the hairy nipple part in my comment was about him. The next guy i date will be shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:59 PM
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Yeah the 3 upvotes i get really do it for me. All that clout is gonna get to my head some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:59 PM
1

Yeah i didnt say it was
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:57 PM
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My bf is 5'11
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:57 PM
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Ok. Well different people have different opinions. Id rather be able to have sex in every position than be with someone very tall. I have an upper limit to the height that i will date after having been with a very tall man. I prefer 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:53 PM
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Im not married?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:51 PM
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What is the hypcritical part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:46 PM
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Not sure what that has to do with what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:45 PM
2

Wow sounds like you did a good job raising him. Congrats thats awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:41 PM
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I dont like tall people and i dont get why everyone is so obsessed with it lately. Big height differences make sex terrible. Every positions takes serious manuevering to make it work, and you can literally never do it standing up. And if youre in missionary and you open your eyes, all you see is a set of big hairy nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:39 PM
1

The point is that you can see average people anywhere in public spaces, and statistically speaking, most people you see in public are average, not models.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:35 PM
1

No he never stopped being gay. My point is that he was open to experiencing something new. Men who struggle with dating women could do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:33 PM
1

Lowkey i feel like everyone is bi to some extent (including gays and lesbians), but social stigmas are keeping people from realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:31 PM
1

doubt he’s actually was your first you didn’t mention that until you made it up now because that the only way to make yourself not seem entirely abhorrent Youre free to look through my post history for all the times ive mentioned him (i post a lot tho so you might have a hard time). That’s a good way too make it seem like the nerd ruined you Uhhh he didnt ruin me. I learned my lesson and adjusted my dating strategy. Hypergamy or not, im being treated better now. Idk why youre upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:29 PM
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Lack of orgasms is a big reason why women dont see the point of sex outside of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:24 PM
2

Karamo from the queer eye got a girl pregnant when he already knew he was gay. Apparently he and the girl were besties andvboth virgins, so they decided to just go at it ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:22 PM
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Theres a group of people on here that believe all straight women are secretly lesbians doing comphet. The pushback hes referring to comes from straight women that, well obviously arent doing comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:18 PM
2

Not that its any of my business but if your son is looking for a relationship i think hinge is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:16 PM
4

No, thats just an example of where you can see average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:14 PM
1

No he put in next to no effort. I stayed for 3 years because it was my first relationship and i didnt know better. Now that ive dated a bit more i know that better is out there. I dont think i was much of a placeholder considering that he posts on r/ugly about how no one will ever want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:10 PM
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What age range and general location are you looking at? Genuinely curious, i havent looked much at what men see on dating apps but where i am it seems to be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:06 PM
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Male models can sit in public transport, but the proportion of average men sitting in public transportstion is way bigger. Its safe to assume that most men in public transportation are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:03 PM
1

The nerd i dated put in the least effort too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:56 PM
1

Im not villainizing him, im explaining the things that he did that made him a bad boyfriend. I like nerds and dorks, but i dont want to date them if its going to be the same cycle of making their insecurities my problem. Ill stick to something else instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:55 PM
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Yeah, the average guy for me changed when i moved from texas to canada. Now everyone is white instead of black or hispanic. Lowkey a culture shock moment for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:53 PM
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But I’m asking specifically how you come to the conclusion that most people who complain about singlehood on reddit are not only guys, but also guys with no social lives Well normally they say that they are men, and sometimes they also complain about how they have no friends and no job. Ditto for women, like Lilithofbablyon Yes exactly. Shes genuinely my least favourite podter on this subreddit, most of her arguments are so incomprehensible that i dont even bother reading them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:50 PM
1

You definetly got the plumber/mechanic thing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:46 PM
0

Well at the time i loved im him and thought he would get better eventually (which he did for some time), but then everything got way worse and i couldnt take it anymore. And im explaining myself because you made a lot of incorrect assumptions about me that i wanted to correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:42 PM
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I notice them, im just not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:38 PM
1

A lot of posts on this subreddit are dripping with bitterness and anger, especially when it comes from guys that are struggling with dating. This guy is just asking a genuine question instead of letting his frustrations get to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:34 PM
1

I have talked to her friend way more because she sits in between the girl I like so more rapport has been built, but its like a wall almost. Could you ask the girl you know to maybe set you up with the girl you like?
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:20 PM
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Most people on reddit that complain about their perpetual singlehood are guys who never socialize and spend all their time falling for ragebait instead. You are an outlier and i hope you find someone. You seem like a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:14 PM
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What i consider to be the average guy is whatever men i happen to see on a typical day out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:41 PM
-3

Well here i am claiming it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:27 PM
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Not to be rude but youre using the wrong form of their. It should be theyre instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 PM
0

Why dont you understand that women are humans who make stupid decisions too, just like men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:22 PM
1

If an intelligent woman dates a known criminal then she isnt actually intelligent. Smart people know to make good choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:19 PM
-1

Clav doesnt get sex his dick literally doesnt work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:15 PM
2

It seems more like men decide who they see as role models based on how many women are there. And youre somehow making it womens fault that men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:11 PM
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No offense but you mentioned femboys more than anything else in your post and it seemed like you have a fascination with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:05 PM
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Ive had a handful of casual relationships, but they were all like regular ole dating, just with a known expiration code because im moving across the country in a few months. And yeah dating apps have been pretty easy for me. I nornally wait for my inbox to show someone whos my type, and then i just chat with them. I have been ghosted plenty of times by guys i was interested in, but it never felt like much of a big deal because im pretty happy to be single anyways. The way that i pick for casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:02 PM
1

That, “nerd” was the only one that tolerated you for 3 years lol, them other dudes didn’t, Lol Ive never been broken up with so i doubt that they were just tolerating me. They would rather play the most dangerous game(hypergamy) then get with the young plumber or mechanic lol, that’s for the ephipany phase. Idk what youre trying to say here, but half of the guys i dated worked in trades. Are you saying that trades workers are unattractive? Theres a buttload of women that like that, me included. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:38 PM
15

This guys tiktok algorithm is full of femboys and he thinks everyone else is seeing the same content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:29 PM
6

Im only 23 so i have no idea Im aware that women get a lot more validation, but most of it is coming from other women or at least for me it is. I dont really go to clubs or anything. The 1950s were horrible for most women and minorities, so when men say that we should go back to what it was like in the 50s it sounds like a threat to subjugate women to being bang-maids just to make men happy. Idk what type of "logical debate" can get around that point in a way that would matter. I think its less …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:21 PM
1

The worst relationship ive had so far was also with the only non-chad i dated. Since then ive learned and made better choices, and now i date chads who treat me perfectly. If anything, i used to make bad choices, now its significantly better. Idk how thats "rationalizing" it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:50 PM
2

Yeah im 23 and only date other 23 year olds, i think im good on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:26 PM
0

All the chads ive gone out with have treated me better than the nerd i dated for 3 years. The chads i go out with are already nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:25 PM
1

If you meet a man who is highly charismatic, popular and charming, there is a good chance he is DT. So should i avoid dating likable, social people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:05 PM
1

My kid will have the support of my 3 generation extended family who all have a buttload of money. Kids raised by single parents can turn out normal and well adjusted if the parent has enough community support and resources, so i think im good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:57 AM
1

Nah, a ton of women dont want to get married or have kids anymore, regardless of age. And if anything, theyll just have a kid by themselves instead (which is lowkey something im considering despite beimg only 23).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:51 AM
0

Fellow latina here, finals season has a chokehold on all of us 😭.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 11:48 AM
1

Do those guys also get into relationships as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:43 AM
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You know women enjoy having sex? They arent screwing their boyfriends as a reward for taking them out, they do it because theyre attracted to their partners and feel safe and happy to do it. So women can use it to get more out of it via relationships. That's why men have to make the first move, pay for dates etc. Now i have a question. Do you think men would choose to never get into relationships if they had all the casual sex theyd ever want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:42 AM
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Are you talking about highschool football or college football? And are you friends with they guys that are doing hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:36 AM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:34 AM
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she is giving out sex for free basically. Not even prostitutes do that. Bruh what? Basically all sex is free?? Should i start charging my casual relationship for sex now? She doesn't want something subpar but for a relationship more factors matter than just looks. How he treats her and acts as a person becomes more important. It'll be more difficult to find a hot guy who also treats her nice and wants a relationship with her. So she has to go for a less attractive guy who checks the other boxes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:34 AM
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Where did you meet these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:22 AM
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Why would a woman have lower standards for dating then for a hookup? Like logically, if committed relationships last longer and require more work, why would she want something subpar?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:22 AM
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Where are you seeing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:18 AM
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Many of these men had red flags that would normally disqualify them from consideration- yet they were still thriving in the dating market. Idk what red flags youre talking about, but a lot of times theyre undetectable until you see it happen. Like the girls that date off of apps have no way to know whether the guy theyre dating is a cheater or not. Meanwhile, men who are "good" in conventional terms maybe below avg in height, don't have a car, or want to split a date often get rejected. Converse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:16 AM
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Youve seen with your own eyes, and in person, the choices that individual women have made when picking a hookup vs a relationship? Like youve seen a woman date normal nice guys and seen the same woman only hookup with super hot rich assholes? And youve gotten close enough with several women to see this happen repeatedly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:07 AM
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Its not discrimination considering theres nothing in that room that they cant find elsewhere. If it was a fully decked out luxury gym then id be on your side, but its literally just an empty room.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 11:03 AM
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You stated emotional vulnerability as a downside, but the guys that i dated who were sick of casual hookups were definetly looking for someone they could be emotionally vulnerable with. And if im being quite honest, they probably enjoyed the impact it had on sex; a relationship with emotional vulnerability and trust is like the best sex ever. Relationships have plenty of upsides, if they didnt no one would be in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:02 AM
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Did you consider that maybe theyre telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:59 AM
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Most kids say hi and you make a whole post over a handful of awkward girls?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 03:48 AM
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walking by someone you see coming from 20 yards away and pretending you do not see each other is what's weird. The point of saying Hi is supposed to alleviate the awkwardness of walking by someone and ignoring them. In case you did not know. Yeah thats something you do with other adults, not with children. You dont need to talk to kids unless they talk to you first.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 03:35 AM
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Yeah dude i dont think adults should be talking to kids they dont know, and i dont see why they would anyways? Kids are right to be wary of strangers, it keeps them safe from predators. I also think its weird that you were only saying hi to little girls and not boys. Theyd both have the same reaction to you talking to them anyways.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 03:27 AM
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How old are you?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 03:21 AM
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My university has designated spaces for women, lgbtq, and black people and no one cares because the resources within these spaces are either not applicable to them, or they can find them anywhere else on campus. A man wanting to nap on the couch in the women's room can just as easily go to the nap room or any of the other hundred couches instead.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 01:41 AM
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Yeah, and this room being off limits doesnt keep them from doing yoga.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 01:32 AM
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Its banning men from a singular empty room with no equipment for an hour 2 days a week. I feel like men wouldnt have any reason to be in there anyways.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 12:28 AM
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OP is exaggerating with his title. Men will be barred from entering one single room in the gym, and only on mondays and wednesday between 10 and 11 am. The room is also completely empty with no excersize equipment, and basically serves as a yoga/stretching room
/r/MensRights22/04/26 12:27 AM
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OP is exaggerating with his title. Men will be barred from entering one single room, in the gym, and only on mondays and wednesday between 10 and 11 am. The room is also completely empty with no excersize equipment, and basically serves as a yoga/stretching room.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 12:26 AM
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How many days/hours a week are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:07 AM
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Hiw can you possibly be a good father if you dont see your kids on a regular basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:03 AM
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and marry/father children overseas where it’s safe from misandrist policies. Thats basically divorce and child support with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:01 AM
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Do you feel them same way for women that do that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:52 PM
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Most women in these comments are saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:42 PM
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If you want to be pumped and dumped again just do a really bad job at the next time you have sex. Thats basically a gaurantee that theyll never want to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:36 PM
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Any guy that gets a lot of casual sex will tell you that he prefers sex in a relationship than just hookups. The quality of the experience is way better for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:25 PM
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Youre probably right about that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:26 AM
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Yeah, sex clubs dont have prostitutes, theyre just normal people who have orgies in clubs lol. Maybe youd be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:22 AM
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Why are you switching from present to past now? You said millions of women who are subverting the expectations, not were. They were, have been, and still are subverting the expectations. It started with previous generations of women and still continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:46 AM
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Expectations that are mostly set by other women lmao Youre telling me that women were setting the expectation that they never work and only pop put babies? They didn't need a mainstream movement to tell them that it's okay to cut their hair short. Seems they need a movement that says its ok to be a little feminine, considering how many men are literally afraid of seeming gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:08 AM
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Right, you have 17 examples of revolutionary men who wanted to implement their own hierarchies and order on everyone. How about the millions of women who subvert the expectations that society has of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:58 AM
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You mean when men let them do it??? I guess? The point is that women were fighting against the gendered expectations they had, while men still havent had any such movement because they prefer the status quo and group thought. No, we are more violent than women Yes, and you guys like rules and hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:55 AM
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Men are inherently more submissive then women. Thats why you see them going to alpha boot camps to get yelled at by stronger men, or why so many choose to join the military. Men like following, order, rules, and hierarchies, which also influences their group think. Women historically have been the ones breaking the "rules", choosing to stop conforming to gender roles by wearing pants, cutting their hair short, joining the job market, not having children, etc. That goes to show you how individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:44 AM
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So women rarely have an opinion that is truly their own. It's almost always a reflection of what is socially "safe" or what makes them look good in the eyes of the current group. Men do that as well Women rarely women disagree with the group consensus. This is also true of men Plus women speak stuff which they themselves not follow and say it just to look good Any woman thats been in a relationship with men will agree with me when i say men do this too Then they also sprout nonsense to maintain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:36 AM
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Then why did you post these comments instead of the ones making fun of men?
/r/MensRights21/04/26 03:31 AM
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Nah thats not it. Look at OPs user flair, people that are yellow pilled believe women are all lesbians. Check the subreddit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:29 AM
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Because them making fun of male fish is not the same as them making fun of men
/r/MensRights21/04/26 01:40 AM
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Think of all the poor people suffering over these fishy harlots in the comments, wont someone think of the men???
/r/MensRights21/04/26 01:11 AM
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Youre making a big deal out of nothing
/r/MensRights21/04/26 12:42 AM
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Fair enough,though some women (me) prefer to date non-neurotypicals. 3/4 of my relationships were with men that had adhd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:10 AM
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I rank men and compare the men ive dated based on their differing qualities. But what i actually look for in a man depends on whether im looking for a husband or just a temporary boyfriend. If its just a boyfriend that i know wont last, it comes down to them being hot and being nice to be around. If im looking for a husband, they habe to be hot and nice to be around, as well as having a good job, good physical health, pleasant families, not too stupid, easy to talk to, good practical skills like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:05 AM
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Couldnt you got to sex clubs and find women there quite easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:38 PM
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Well girls my age prioritize looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:52 AM
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Fair enough i kinda dont either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:30 AM
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Yeah its not "relationshipping" but it is casual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:38 AM
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Piercing babies ears isnt illegal. My ears were pierced when i was a newborn still in the hospital.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 06:16 AM
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Id say that casual dating is still dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:15 AM
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You said that your social skills improved over time, id say thats a big part of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:26 AM
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Yeah how does he not see that hes contradicting himself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:24 AM
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Im on tiktok and havent heard of most of these
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:23 AM
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Yeah they were cheering on the "lesbos", youre saying it like its a bad thing?
/r/MensRights20/04/26 02:48 AM
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Honestly if you have time id like to see a link for all of them.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 02:46 AM
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When im talking about representation, im referring to what you say about gay men.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 02:38 AM
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That was never the historical standard for anyone except the aristocratic class, and when they had teenagers marry, they would purposefully delay the consumation of marriage until the girl was older, between 17 and early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:37 AM
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You didnt say it. Im correcting you on when you say men peak later. They dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:33 AM
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Not physically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:29 AM
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Some women dont care about sex and looks and only care about money. That doesnt change the fact that men look hotter when theyre young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:28 AM
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Yeah and no woman thinks men phyiscally peak at 35 over 25. Younger guys are way hotter, they have more muscles, full heads of har, less wrinkles and skin damage, and their dicks work better. Theyre wayyy more attractive than old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:23 AM
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Women want to be provided for, so the man has to work while she conditions the children. This isnt true, most cohabitating couples have both people working fulltime jobs. Because those men were also corrupted by their mothers, thats the whole point of the post. Ok so then men also have some work to do, they need to decorrupt themselves and protect their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:20 AM
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Mens and womens physical peak happens that the same time dude. And you really need to work on your proofreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:15 AM
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Most men were primarily raised by women from the moment they were born, and women work as a collective (hive-mind) to program the children in a way that benefits women as a whole. If women are so bad at parenting then maybe men should step up and be the primary parent instead. Why are these men allowing their sons to be corrupted by their mothers? Seems like the blame should be on them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:10 AM
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Heres an exact quote from your post. Average men in general peak later in life Truthfully, everyone peaks physically at 18-25, and they peak financially in their 30s and 40s. Its true for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:08 AM
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Buffy was tortured by the turok han, and wasnt drusilla literally tortured into madness by angel? And i dont think every show absolutely has to have perfect representation of every minority group out there. The show certainly was lacking in racial representation too, but that doesnt appeal to your argument so you arent including it.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 02:05 AM
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Do you have links to all of these things? Ive never even heard of most of them.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 01:59 AM
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You said men peak later in life, and i disagree. Men peak physically at the same time as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:57 AM
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Idk what that has to do with what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:34 AM
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I think men peak physically at around the same time aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:11 AM
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You said they arent relationship material?
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:59 AM
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Were the girls younger than you?
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:57 AM
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If the men left over arent relationship material, then maybe the system is working.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:55 AM
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I think you are being too harsh on the men rhat approached me. They were all very respectful and left me alone when i said no. They werent young brats or old jekrs, they were just normal, respectful people.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:50 AM
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I respect him, i dont value the relationship. He feels the same way. We both agreed to keep it casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:23 AM
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Ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:20 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:16 AM
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Yeah and I have demonstrated that there is no reason for most of them to be in foster care. The kids that are in fostercare are there because no one wants to adopt them, and they have parents who were incapable of raising them. That's not explainable by "adoptive parents vibe with racism" without evidence in my book. They arent racist, its just that most adoptive parents happen to be white, and would prefer raising white children. are talking a millions figure for parents who want to adopt and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:09 AM
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Do you want to hear all the bullshit that my annoying ex who didnt pay for anything did? He was horrible at sex and didnt know how to kiss without getting saliva everywhere. Hes also an antisocial loser too. Who does it seem like i respect more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:05 AM
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If im ovulating its pretty much instantly. Any other time of the month, the thought doesnt even cross my mind unless this guy is someone im already dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:00 AM
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Right, im sure he would be indifferent to a woman who he pays everything for talking about his dick not working to strangers Are you imagining that hes wining and dining me every night or something? Why is that so upsetting to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:58 PM
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Wouldnt you get the same outcome if being a lesbian just became less stigmatized?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:57 PM
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Basically he thinks the majority of heterosexual women are actually lesbians who are lying about it because... reasons i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:55 PM
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No i dont think he would care. You seem to care a lot tho, maybe you should mind your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:53 PM
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What govt should do in both Europe and USA is give men incentive to fight for the war. They should give men 70 percent reservation in college campuses, preference in job, free healthcare, subsidised housing etc. Most of these are benefits that veterans already get?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:50 PM
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Frankly if he told reddit what the size if my tits were i wouldnt care, because reddit is completely anonymous and no one knows either of us. And him having ED isnt that big of a deal, youre the one making it into this huge issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:48 PM
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You missed the fulle quote. Most children would be better off with their single parents than in foster care. The might be better off in an adoptive family, but most adoptive couples are very picky, only wanting newborn white babies, while most kids in fostercare are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:46 PM
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Does anyone have that article without a paywall?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 11:42 PM
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For me, everyone that is in rhe "long-term" category falls into the short term as well. The ones that are only short term are basically hot guys with shitty personalities or big incompatibilities. So i guess if you want to be a short term guy, make yourself undesirable to be around for longer than 30 minutes, but not so undesirable that you repulse everyone (and also be muscular). Its a careful balance youd have to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:39 PM
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In my experience i only get approached by very old men or teenagers, i would really prefer if it was guys my age instead.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 11:07 PM
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In my experience guys are really bad at showing that they care or are interested, and then are super surprised when i break up with them and tell them its because i thought they didnt care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:01 PM
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The woman, because she is choosing to keep it instead of giving it up for adoption, including giving it up for "adoption" to the single father. It's just dumb then that SHE has to then pay child support or not pay support based on whether or not the father arbitrarily takes it instead of letting it go to adoptive parents. The reason why child support is a thing is because it is betterfor the child to have financial support from two peoole instead of from just one But the point is adoption is bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:56 PM
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If a wman diligently took her birth control everyday and it still failed anyways, should she ne forced to raise the baby by herself? If a man wore condoms that broke, whp should take the responsibility for the baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:04 PM
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No man who has self-respect would be with such a woman. ...Or maybe he feels the same way? We both agreed to keep it relatively casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:31 AM
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What is your proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:28 AM
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Stop lying. You yourself said you don't even value the relationship. Do you want me to ask him how he feels about us together and tell you what he says? If he didnt like the situation hes in, he would leave. He isnt a little princess who needs saving, hes a fully grown man whos in charge of his choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:15 AM
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Alright let let just disobey my parents because a guy on reddit said i should. Like I said before, some men with low self esteem dont mind being with women who use them and who dont "particularly value the relationship". There are always women willing to take advantage of such men. Yeah this hot guy with muscles and tattoos and girls hanging off of him is very low-self esteem. Someone needs to save him from the happy fulfilling relationship hes in because hes being used for mcdonalds fries. God …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:09 AM
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And it shows that she doesnt actually value the man she's in a relationship with Yeah i dont particularily value this relationship, its been two months and only going to last until i move away. Regardless, the fact that i dont pay doesnt mean i dont value the relationship, i just value my parents opinion of me more. Sorry that youre mad that they guy im casually seeing pays for my mcdonalds combo every few days. He seems perfectly happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:11 AM
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Yeah dude. I dont see the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:05 AM
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Well a lot of reasons. Sperm isnt all that valauble because hundreds of millions of cells are produced everyday, and its very easy to provide a sample. Meanwhile egg donarions requires extensive medical and psychological screenings, injected hormones for like a month, and a surgery to actually extract them. Its a lot more physically demanding than sperm donations are, and people who are up for it are super uncommon.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 04:33 AM
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Your link says that sperm donations that go through licensed facilities wont have that problem.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 04:29 AM
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Im not using him, id still be with him if he didnt pay for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:25 AM
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Id still be with him if he didnt pay, we just wouldnt be able to do anything that costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:24 AM
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How am i agreeing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:56 AM
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Ok so you agree with me then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:45 AM
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No im not using him, unless you think me enjoing his company is using him. He is the on suggesting the dates that actually cost money, meanwhile all of my ideas are free. Its a relationship based on him paying, as you've just shown. No our relationship is based on our enjoyement of being around eachother and holding hands. He just so happens to pay whenever it costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:44 AM
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You seem to like women that play hard to get
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:33 AM
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Oopsy youre right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:17 AM
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Considering that youve never had sex you really have no authority to say what type of penis women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:12 AM
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Believe what you want but im not lying about that guy. He was awesome at it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:11 AM
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Me too. My favourite thing to do on this subreddit is to poke holes in people arguments and see what they respond with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:33 AM
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I'd much rather be beaten on than cheated on. Once the hitting stops, it's as if it never happened, but cheating damages a relationship beyond repair forever. I feel like physical abuse is just as bad for a relationship as cheating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:10 AM
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So you think women care more about mens rights than men do about womens, but you still think that they dont care enough? Youre contradicting your whole post. Edit: nevermind i misread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:58 AM
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Why?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 12:52 AM
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Do you have any soucres on that?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 12:51 AM
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Alysa Liu's dad had 5 kids through surrogacy, and hes a single father. Theres others out there too.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 12:48 AM
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Why would you want it to amplify?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:42 AM
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The best sex i had was with the second smallest one ive seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:21 AM
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My parents insisted that i should never pay for dates and i went along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:25 AM
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No definetly not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:09 AM
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Youre basically putting all of the responsibility of reproduction onto the woman. Hopefully you at least use condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:45 AM
2

Well vasectomies are actually reversible, so it isnt a permanent procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:39 AM
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Are you also anti birthcontrol and anti vaccine? And if you want to know the side effects then you can ask your doctor but according to the mayo clinic, side effects include swelling, bleeding, and mild pain that lasts a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:35 AM
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This is a really gross mindset to have but yeah, one of feminisms primary goals is the freedom to choose your life path. So i guess if you want to whore around with men's wives then youre free to do as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:31 AM
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Vasectomies are minimally invasive and low-risk, outpatient procedures. The whole thing takes like 20 minutes before youre out of the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:25 AM
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It isnt beyond your control to get a vasectomy or wear a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:02 AM
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It has nothing to do with the penis itself, its more about the guys skill and how much he cares or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:49 AM
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Idk, id really love to know the real reason but i feel like it would be weird to ask. Like "why do you keep spending time with me even though we barely have sex?" doesnt seem like a very polite question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:26 AM
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Not particularily. Im a super basic girly girl who likes grandma activities like crossword puzzles and knitting, meanwhile hes a skaterboy with a motorcycle and 5 piercings. Like we're complete opposites in most ways. We both have ADHD tho, so that might play a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:16 AM
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I see a lot of men on this subreddit and others claiming that women never get harrassed and that we're all liars. In my experiences of dating, so far pretty much every guy has had a very respectful and genuine view on the hardships that women face. I was expecting that every guy that i went on a date with to be similarily mysoginistic as what i see on the internet, and im always pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:05 AM
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Honestly this is something that ive thought about too, and frankly i have no idea. I am quite pretty, and he seems to like just hanging out with me, so the most straightforward answer is that he just... likes being around me i guess. I did tell him when we first started dating that im completely broke and cant pay for any dates, so if we were to go out somewhere then he would have to cover the bill (however i also told him that im perfectly ok with cheap dates like going to parks and videogames …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:57 AM
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If you want i guess. Idk why youre asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:49 AM
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We've been together for a couple months No hes an atheist We do have sex very infrequently, like once every couple of weeks. Lowkey his dick doesnt work, and he doesnt seem particularily interested in sex anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:47 AM
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Do you remember which shows or movies specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:42 AM
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Uh yeah. The relationship im in right now is basically my boyfriend taking me on dates or going out for walks. He almost never wants sex so hes just doing all this for the love of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:21 AM
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So you know whos in your league based on how comparably good looking you are to other people? What about personality and wealth? Do you think that factors into "leagues"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:19 AM
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How is that related to what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:04 AM
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I dont think that sounds very appealing to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:02 AM
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What reward should women get after working their ass off to build a stable life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:57 AM
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Who did you hear it from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:22 AM
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If you hate dating so much then just be single. Even women don't respect them and just seem then as worms they must tolerate just for whatever resource they're extracting from them. Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:11 AM
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This is the first time ive heard anyone refer to providing as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:10 AM
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If both people mutually and freely agree to this then it isnt toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:09 AM
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Some men only provide for their partners because they want sex in exchange. Those are not the men im talking about. There are men out there that find joy in providing even when they get nothing in return. They are just happy to make their wives and families happy. Remove sex from the picture, how many men do you think would "genuinely like" providing for their partners? Most men wouldnt be down for it, but that doesnt mean that they dont exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:06 AM
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Resource extraction is always a one way street. Resource extraction isnt always a one way street. Some men genuinely like providing for their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:00 AM
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You could say the exact same thing about men and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:57 AM
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If you dont mind me asking, what is the appeal of having two women at once? Im a woman and i cant wrap my head around why people desire this, it seems like a stressful situation to want to be in.
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:49 AM
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Ill read them. Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:32 AM
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Both things are bad and if you resort to either then just break up. Genuinely, if your relationship is so bad that you become lazy and checked out, why would you stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:02 AM
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You shouldve broken up with her if you were so unhappy in that relationship. There's no excuse for mistreating your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:55 AM
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God isnt real tho so fornication is actually ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:50 AM
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If society collapses then it wouldnt matter whether guy is rich or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:46 AM
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I dont know what you define leagues as. I have my own definition, but yours could be different from mine hence why im asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:35 AM
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No its not biased against women, idk where you got that from. I wanted to read the full study so i can see their sampling method what conclusions they drew from their results. Also idk why you found it so hard to get a link for it, considering that its in both of the articles you commented. Here it is in case you want to actually read it. The studys findings support the sexual exploitation hypothesis of psychopathy, which hypothesizes that psuchopathic men "deceptively mimic the display of femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:33 AM
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The study you linked doesnt say that women go for guys that act like assholes, it said that the attraction to psychopathy was because psychopathic men happen to have a lot of attractive traits such as confidence and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:17 AM
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No? Im not trying to make women look good, Im just talking about reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:36 PM
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You linked to two articles that are talking about the study, you didnt link to the actual study. And its unrelated but its super annoying when people on this subreddit dont understand how academic papers work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:23 PM
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Yeah i dont fully understand how it works but ill cross that bridge when i get there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:21 PM
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Neither of those links are academic studies. Also, both of them say that women arent attracted to the psycopathy itself, but to other traits that psychopaths happen to have like confidence and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:20 PM
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AI hallucinates claims all the time, are you joking? Like do you find it that hard to just link a study? Do you need chatgpt to do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:14 PM
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Yeah let me sift through the search results to find the one study that is vaguelly related to the discussion. Or you can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:11 PM
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You think the girls that likes you will find it lame that you pay attention to her? I’m trying to strategize on how to be with this girl, but also show I have game/options Maybe just be normal and do what you feel like. If you feel like you want to talk to that other girl, end it with your girlfriend first and then go for it. If you like your girlfriend and you want to express it, then do it. Youre overcomplicating it by thinking that she cares if you have "game" or not. She doesnt care about yo…
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:09 PM
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How am i supposed to address the source material if i dont have a source? Ylmao dude youre the one being lazy. Its your claim, so you should be the one finding a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:06 PM
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I dont understand why you would engage with the other girl at all if you already like the girl youre with?
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:01 PM
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If you are making a claim then its your job to find a source that can back it up. You dont have to do it but im not gonna dig around for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:00 PM
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Do you have a source
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:51 PM
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Marrying a guy and living off of one wage isnt a realistic path for the majority of women. A small amount of women have the option not to work but most women still need to habe jobs. And most cohabitating couples have both people working full time jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:48 PM
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Most women are not going for sociopaths, the generally go for normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:45 PM
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Honestly the super general subreddits like r/advice or r/vent are decent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:41 PM
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Why do you need youtube channels specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:41 PM
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I want me and my husband to have hyphenated names and if he doesnt agree then thats a dealbreaker. Im colombian and thats how it normally is over there. My last name on my colombian ID is my parents names but hyphenated, and i want to keep it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:37 PM
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You dont need money to be happy does not mean that everyone is happy without money. So you should be not only completely fine but happy with being impoverished. I didnt say that. Im saying that people can find happiness despite their hardships. You don’t tell people be happy with nothing like you’re trying to. The whole point of what im saying is that relationships are not the only thing that can make you happy. There are other things out there that can make your life fulfilling, like meaningful…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:17 PM
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All fashion trends start at the top with designers and wealthy clients, which then passes a watered down version to us poor people. So yeah, your clothed are still being designed by women and gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:49 PM
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You should remain happy if you gave everything you own away if what you said was true. That is not what i said. I said you can be happy without certain things. Like under the right circumstanves, a poor person can still be happy despite being impoverished. You cannot tell someone who is abused to learn to be happy because they are surviving Not what im saying. Im trying to say that you can learn to be happy with what you have, and that women are not necessary for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:41 PM
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If you don’t need money to be happy give away everything you own Just because you can be happy without something doesnt mean you should throw it all out. Im trying to say that those thing dont entail happiness, and happiness doesnt require that you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:38 PM
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Nope i disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:24 PM
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You dont need to be wealthy to be happy. You dont need money to be happy, though it does make it easier to be happy. Similarily, you dont need a woman to be happy. You can find satisfaction by yourself. This isnt comparable to poverty, because people obviously need money to survive. You dont need a woman to survive, and you dont need one to be happy, much like how poor people can be happy despite being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:11 PM
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You want men to stay lonely and just work like a worker bee and die paying taxes his whole life Yes thats what everyone does. Everyone has to work to sustain their lives. Working doesnt mean you deserve a woman as a reward, the reward for working is your paycheck. How is this good for men?? My idea: hey boys, remember that you dont need to be in a relationship to be happy, you can find fulfillment in your friendships or hobbies. Your idea: if you guys arent tall enough, hot enough, and rich enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:04 PM
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Poor people can be happy without money, they still need it for survival. Men can live without women, they are not needed for your survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:59 PM
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The poor cannot stop being poor without money. Men can be both happy and single. everyone including men, should learn to be happy while not in a relationship. People need to be able to find happiness and satisfaction in other things. Making relationships and sex the foundations of your happiness is a recipe for disaster, and youre going to be permanently unfulfilled if you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:04 PM
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Great so you agree that most women dont go for serial killers. Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:57 PM
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Yeah this lady is crazy and evil, but thats her own opinion that no one agrees with. One individual persons beleifs dont make this a double standard situation. She would only say it if her lawyer bet the court would go easy on her. That isnt true. A male who murdered his child would not expect bail. She isnt expecting bail, shes requesting it. And theres plenty of male murderers that ask for bail too. Still isnt a double standard.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 01:56 PM
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Do you think the entire female population is dropping their panties for chris brown? Or could it be that maybe a small subset of the female population is a fan of his?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:53 PM
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My point is that women werent going for ted bundy because of his looks, they were going after him because he was a killer. Yeah i know women chase hot guys, but that isnt what happened with ted bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:52 PM
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Yeah the studies say they show a preference of whatever whatever. That doesnt change the fact that most women arent going for serial killers and necrophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:46 PM
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Remember that its a tiny subset of all women. The vast majority of women are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:44 PM
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So why post about this lady if it doesnt actually show anything about mens rights? There isnt a double standard here, everyone rightfully hates her and shes in jail.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 01:44 PM
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No. Im 23 and even a really hot, in-shape old guy isnt gonna do it for me. He has to be close to my age for me to feel anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:42 PM
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People have different definitions of the same word. I wated to know how you defined leagues. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:40 PM
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He started getting letters after he was arrested and sitting in prison. Women were well aware of who he was, thats what made them become interested. They wanted him because he was violent, not because he was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:17 PM
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No it isnt. My advice is actually good for them, and your advice would make everyone involved miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:16 PM
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Why are you in a debate sub if you refuse to engage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:09 PM
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What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:08 PM
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Looks like loads of assertions and no real evidence. A claim by ONE “elderly man”. Did you miss all the interviews, newspaper clippings, and photographs too? I feel like those should be considered evidence. Heres a quote from the paper, "As lesbians continued to challenge patriarchal structures of power outside and, crucially, within queer spaces, gay men also recognized the role lesbians played in the AIDS crisis. In the late ‘90s, “gay community centers” in America started being called “lesbia…
/r/MensRights17/04/26 01:08 PM
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Ok but is this girl getting any sympathy? I havent seen anyone say a positive thing about her. This isnt an example that has a double standard.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 12:54 PM
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Ok its in your nature, but maybe men should be taught that they can be happy without a girlfriend. It would result in a better outcome than what your post is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:47 PM
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Ok dude. I wanted to know your opinion on how you can tell whos in whos league. Im not asking because im so stupid that i have no idea how, im asking because this is a debate subreddit and im trying to understand your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:45 PM
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And who were those who actually suffered the most from AIDS? Is this a trick question? The gay men obviously. Not sure what your point is.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 12:43 PM
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Like of what?
/r/MensRights17/04/26 12:41 PM
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No he isnt. Have you actually looked at him? Hes a completely average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:41 PM
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I think everyone has the right to complain, even if what theyre complaining about is stupid. And just because one person has a fuckton of life problems doesnt make other peoples problems stop existing. Everyone's having a hard time, so everyone should be allowed to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:59 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:39 AM
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That discrepancy can be explained by the fact that women tend to date older, and men date younger. They arent all dating the same 5 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:36 AM
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Well women only value men for their looks , money or status Ok lets assume this is true. Eelven then, so what? Are you implying that men only value life because theres a possibility that a woman might like them? Maybe instead of what you say in your post, boys can be taught that their lives shouldnt revolve around pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:33 AM
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No i am expecting women to not gaslight avg men that they are attracted to them. It's all about being in the top percentage of looks. If you have that, it doesn't matter wether you're child moleste, they'd still wanna hop on your dick. I can think of multiple serial killers with a female fanbase, all of which were just regular degular looking guys. Its not about their looks, its that there is a very small portion of the female population that is attracted to violent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:29 AM
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That isnt how monopolies work. And doesnt that go to show how women are working on themselves by getting therapy instead of just letting their mental problems fester?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:26 AM
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Just because your fetish doesnt align with the majority doesnt mean that your preferences are being demonized. Literally no one is being rude or anything in the comments of your posts, no one even implied that your wants are wrong. All they said is that it doesnt count as rolereversal under their definitions. None of this has anything to do with mens rights. Cant you just find another subreddit that suits your preferences better?
/r/MensRights17/04/26 07:46 AM
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I hope you edit your original comment so people know what the truth is
/r/MensRights17/04/26 07:24 AM
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Ok... do you have a link to the paper so i can read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:20 AM
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Uhh what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:20 AM
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Sure people dont change that quickly. But the entire system in which you socialize and operate is going to be completely different in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:19 AM
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Can you tell me what parts of football are comparable to adult life? Im not a man so i have no point of comparison for what youre talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:18 AM
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Do you have a link? Theres a ton of PEW sruff from that year. Which report is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:15 AM
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Can you elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:13 AM
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God i want to copy your comment and post it everywhere. You make so many good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:10 AM
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What does this have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights17/04/26 06:47 AM
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Heres a good source i found on it. It also goes into detail on what exactly the lesbian community did during the aids crisis as well. link
/r/MensRights17/04/26 06:34 AM
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Yeah its the nurses job to take care of the sick, they get paid for it. Its a hard job and society is thankful to them. However it is a different situation. These lesbians were providing for, and adovcating for people dying of AIDs for no reason other than because they cared. The lesbian community basically adopted these people who were abonded by their families while on their deathbeds. This isnt about "womanhood" or about women at all. It was an act of solidarity for their fellow marginalized …
/r/MensRights17/04/26 05:57 AM
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I mean, theres already special education paths for disabled children, even though its a small percent of kids. I think dedicated classes for weird kids to socialize might help them become functioning adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:44 AM
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How do you know whos in your league and who isnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:21 AM
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