anomanderforPOTUS Archive

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1	The reason for high male celibacy is mostly due to video games and porn rather than dating apps The burden of pursuing a relationship is typically heavier on the man. They are also experiencing the brunt of the rejection in our matching system. So it makes sense that if an alternative, even a heavily diminished one, is available that men who have a lower chance of success might just abandon the system for a lesser one without rejection and work. I play games. I watch porn. But none of the other things apply to me. Hell, I need rejection just to keep my ego in check. Women play games, yet t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 12:03 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? You state that there isn’t a way to determine after making a determination. I absolutely did not. I stated that their opinion is irrelevant unless they have success. And success of such a thing on reddit will be very hard to prove.. That is saying it is largely a moot point. Saying something lacks merit unless provable and saying something is hard to prove isn't a contradiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 10:00 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? My wife got pressured to take a district administrator position four years into teaching first grade. In a closed door meeting with the superintendent he begged her to take it citing that he rarely comes across a teacher with her rationale and composure. And he said that what they need more than anything are women administrators who think with logic instead of emotion. My wife is the most rational and logical woman I have ever met. My wife was pre-med and got into many medical schools. I got int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 09:36 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I've never really cared about statistics. I'm not average so what applies to the average person rarely matters to me. If I based my life decisions on what statistically would be best I wouldn't be anywhere near as happy as I am now. My wife agrees with your assessment. Her degrees were very very easy for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 09:26 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? It doesn't make it contradictory. It makes it moot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 09:25 PM
3	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? But I rarely see people sharing it who have achieved anything worth merit. There isn't any way to figure out if what they are sharing is malarkey or actually based upon success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 08:59 PM
3	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I do not doubt we are rare. Just by the fact that we are still really happy together after 16 years. We have two kids. Oldest is 6. We didn't have kids until we had been together a decade. We are both agnostic atheists. So not religious at all. We also lost our virginity together. But have an amazing sex life, otherwise we'd have broken up a long time ago as I have an enormous libido. My wife has all the way to a PhD. I have a master's. She is a teacher and I'm an environmental biochemist. We ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 08:57 PM
1	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? Submissive from google-ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. Ready to conform or meekly obedient aren't positives in such a work environment. That is different than understanding the propriety of the position and doing your job. If someone doesn't do what I say I'll fire them. If they are meekly obedient or ready to conform to authority from the onset I'll also fire them. I don't need people who can't follow directions. And I don't need people who are m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 08:15 PM
1	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? It's like calling the CEO of every corporation ever... insecure. It's possible, but not probable. I disagree. I know two big CEOs of fortune 500 companies. A CEO worth his weight doesn't want submissive staff. That sounds like a surefire way to have a group of worthless "yes men" If you want to stay in the game and stay sharp you don't surround yourself with submissiveness. What you're saying just sounds like a good way to make yourself complacent. If you want to be a shark you need to stay swim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:57 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? We've been steadily transferring out of california too. We only have 2 condos left, had 5 a few years ago. But my "metro" area is a lot smaller than the LA area. I make money in the city. I'd rather live in the country. And any women who needs to be in a city is incompatible with me. So it is win-win. But my wife and I are highschool sweethearts. We aren't your typical couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:42 PM
8	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? Weak men like weak women. It makes them feel strong by comparison. Whereas a strong man won't feel emasculated by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:36 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? Well I've been with my wife 16 years, I don't think she minds. I have a small farm but I'm an environmental biochemist for the state. So we aren't tied to it like most farmers because it isn't our livelihood. We can leave all the time and go on lots of vacations. We also are only an hour away from a decent metro area. I have other properties too. In southern California for instance. But they are just investments. I've got relatives that are farmers in the US. It's incredibly difficult to find a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:26 PM
3	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I don't see myself as a holistic leader in our relationship. I see our relationship as egalitarian. Leadership is divided among us. Now if someone breaks into our house my wife is going to do what I say as my experience takes precedence. But we don't make unilateral choices. We are a team and don't have a leader. I cannot fathom asking for submission. If I wanted that I'd make it so, it isn't something one asks for... But that just holds no interest to me regardless. I feel like someone who want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:15 PM
4	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I'll just stay out with my farm fucking my wife until death. But I get the jist. Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 06:38 PM
3	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I find something pathetic about not being able to figure out something so integral to one's own happiness by oneself. That kind of dependence is just antithetical to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 06:27 PM
2	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I'm not in favor of the best friend and roommate model for marriages And wife should be a confidant... yes, but she should never stop being the object of your desire. I just don't see why you views these things as mutually exclusive. I've been with my wife for over 16 years. She is my best friend, without a shadow of a doubt. We share everything. I'm also ridiculously lustful of my wife even after all this time. If we go 2 days without sex, it's a long time for us.. We spice up our romance and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 06:02 PM
19	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I would imagine because that isn't something they value in a woman. They want someone more easily manipulatable. A women with her own set of skills who is intelligent is too much for their insecurities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 05:48 PM
8	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I don't even find TRP to be anything close to an effective methodology for me. But I do find it very interesting for those who feel it works for them. I just find it to be a terrible procedure for finding a decent partner. I can't imagine how much worse it would be to pick a wife with it. I don't follow other people's so called dating strategies. I deduce my own strategy based on my experiences and my personality. MRP had always seemed more to be a place that men regret their marriage than one t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 05:08 PM
10	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? I don't think you try to choose a wife if you follow TRP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 04:16 PM
3	Tradcon/TRP gaves terrible life advices to young girls Nothing is perfect. If you try to adhere to a philosophy that doesn't work for you and you fail miserably then you're the one who reaps the consequences. That's why I think it's funny when anyone puts all their eggs in a single basket with these philosophies. A lot of these philosophies don't really even come off as an attempt to achieve success by using them. More of just trying to indoctrinate people to behave certain ways for ulterior purposes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 06:43 PM
20	For women who settled for their partner - was there any sexual attraction at all, and if so, did it wane over time as a result of settling? Dead bedrooms are just from a loss of intimacy in a relationship. That can be from a lot of different reasons and I do not think settling is a predominant one, just one of many reasons. Mismatched libidos very frequently cause dead bedrooms because of the pressure it puts on the low libido partner can put a negative stigma on sex. Between stress and just everyday life there's a lot of things that can add to that. I feel very lucky that my wife and I still have a very active sex life after being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 01:24 PM
3	Fatherhood is a social construct, motherhood is a natural instinct Domesticated animals do have an inmate difference in nature. Typically they are of mutant varieties of the wild animal so they don't produce as much of their stress hormones near humans. It doesn't change their species but it does change their nature. That is why even from birth a domesticated vs wild majority wouldn't survive in the others' environment. Tamed is a different matter. You can tell the difference based on what rules we make. We have to make rules to make monogamy even exist and cul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 05:57 PM
3	Fatherhood is a social construct, motherhood is a natural instinct Like most species of animals humans are a hybrid of the two. You can throw out your presumption that we are holistically consider a tournament species but we are not. Even among humans it ranges drastically how mating dynamics/behavior plays out. Most the people I know can't even fit into your definitions of how the majorities should be. My value to my wife extends far beyond sex. I'm not even capable of polygamy. Most all my friends are in similar situations too. We exist in very different envi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 02:17 PM
2	Fatherhood is a social construct, motherhood is a natural instinct My sister left my nephew on my and my wife's doorstep. I think some do, some don't. But as a male it was also extremely instinctual for me to care for my children and them become the most important thing in the world to me. Needs are a pretty simple thing to understand. Especially in children. So it isn't a gender dependent thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 02:05 PM
14	Fatherhood is a social construct, motherhood is a natural instinct They both are social constructs. Everything after birthing a child is a social construct. But they both have people who instinctively have traits desirable for them. I've wanted to be a dad since I was a young child. Now I'm a father and it really feels pretty easy and instinctual. My sister is a terrible mom, she just seems inept with kids. Women aren't instinctual mothers and men can be instinctual father. Although these examples are seemingly in the minority. But my dad was also a great dad. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 12:37 PM
1	Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for. Culling the herd isn't a bad thing. My wife was perceptive enough to figure it out just fine. Plenty of quality women do. If women of lower quality don't that is no skin off my back. If they can't figure that out before it is too late then that is on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 02:25 PM
1	Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for. People who can't figure out what is important to themselves and their partner are extremely unlikely to be happy. If you have ridiculous standards and don't meet anyone else's then you will simply be alone. The problem kind of works itself out. Others might value it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 02:16 PM
2	How do men want women to behave? I want women to behave however they naturally behave or else it is not a very sustainable behavior. Acting like something you aren't is just going to cause issues in other areas. But respectful, strong willed, independent and easy to communicate with are all very important attributes to me. I don't think anyone really expects them to act a certain way unless they are manipulative. They want them to be themselves. They just have preferences about certain things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 11:08 PM
5	If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear. Because they aren't good at communicating... I express both because for me it is both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 02:49 PM
1	Male Vulnerability True	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 09:24 PM
1	Male Vulnerability I do not have either so I honestly have no direct experience with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 09:08 PM
1	Male Vulnerability I couldn't give a shit less. Or whether I was up 100 or down 100 votes. But I'm pretty sure men are more numerous on this sub than women. And if you don't want to express that stuff to your partner then don't. It's your life, do whatever you want. Who the hell cares how other people view your choices about your life?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 08:32 PM
1	Women, why do you even care if your bf breaks up with you? You have sooooo many options nowadays And? If men aren't all the same wouldn't it be logical to assume that how much a woman likes being with a man will vary from man to man. So that easily explains why it matters to women. Because not all men are the same...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 06:54 PM
2	Women, why do you even care if your bf breaks up with you? You have sooooo many options nowadays Not all men are the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 06:45 PM
2	Male Vulnerability My first gf asked me to open up to her and not hide my emotions. So I obliged. I couldn't care less how other people think a relationship should function. To me only what me and my partner think matters in that regard. And she wanted me to, why wouldn't I? And we (33m & 32f) have been happily together for over 16 years now. I can't even fathom how a relationship is worth it if you can be 100% open about emotions with your partner. The people arguing with me the most on this are redpill men and F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 06:14 PM
15	Male Vulnerability I would like to think so. I think that's how any healthy and well-balanced person is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 10:24 PM
82	Male Vulnerability I've never hid my vulnerability from my wife. Not when we first started dating, not now. If I can't be 100% open with a partner I wouldn't be with that partner for long. That is kind of one of the great things about relationships. I've also never regretted being vulnerability with my wife. At least not once that I can recollect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 06:56 PM
1	For both genders, is it better to be alone than be in a crappy relationship? Without a doubt, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 02:33 PM
6	Women bully each other into hypergamy My wife and I actually waited until after we finished our masters before we got married so we wouldn't lose scholarships. We were at least smart enough to wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/21 11:23 AM
12	Women bully each other into hypergamy Only one out of 5 got pregnant as a teen. Sounds like formerly jealous girls in a state of arrested development now that they’re women. Yeah. And it's funny because a lot of the things are totally illogical now. As in I'm lazy and a mooch. Since I have a great job with good money. And it is pretty chill so I have plenty of energy to take care of more than my share of the chores/housework. It is also obvious I'm a super involved dad. But they just can't let go of their jealousy or whatever. And i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 04:21 PM
55	Women bully each other into hypergamy I never said I was married for 16 years. I said I've been with my wife for 16. We will be married 10 years in a few months. Sorry if it was unclear. Someone also brought this up. And her old group of friends is pretty much the same way now too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 02:49 PM
27	Women bully each other into hypergamy Well it isn't a large place we live in. We still see them around and they behave the same way. The just never grew up from being teenagers. We occasionally hear from someone that they were bad mouthing me. We are all in our 30s now too. But to be fair they bad-mouth most men	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 02:45 PM
24	Women bully each other into hypergamy Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 02:38 PM
138	Women bully each other into hypergamy When I started dated my wife her friend group thoroughly disapproved of me. It eventually culminated into them giving her an ultimatum, them or me. They lied about me a lot. They said a lot of things that just didn't even make sense once my wife got to know me, like I slept around a lot, or was violent. I treated her better than anyone ever had so it wasn't that difficult of a choice. But still, they had been her friend group since like 3rd grade. They are all still friends, barring my wife. And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 01:07 PM
0	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Leaving before being direct is absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 11:19 PM
4	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Mostly for OP but it ties into your point also... I (33m) only have sex with someone is I love them. I turned down a lot of sex because it isn't something I want to share with just anyone. That's why I've only ever had sex with my wife. And we are atheists so it isn't like there is some religious overtones. So I found a woman who values sex like I do a long time ago and we've been very busy with it ever since. Even after 16 years together... So when a system doesn't include either me or my wife …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 08:45 PM
3	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? I feel I'm BP from everything I've read here. I don't think hypergamy doesn't exist, that's absurd. I just don't think it is a ubiquitous thing with all women. Or even most judging by my friends. I'm an atheist so I though FSM was flying spaghetti monster. I've never heard of the female social matrix until just now reading, but it definitely isn't absolutely bullshit. It just can't be used as a monolithic rule. -AWALT I do fine to be absolute bullshit. No group is ever monolithic on such nuances…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 08:34 PM
9	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? That is a much better explanation than most I've seen. I think most all of it is bullshit so I'm probably blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 08:25 PM
2	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? We both waited until we finished our undergrad and master's. We didn't want to get married before we were done with college. That sucks. I'm sorry. Well if she is in that big of a rush for it she'll likely make a poor choice in partner. Would be a lot quicker to just tell you when it started bothering her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 08:24 PM
1	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Oh ok. Totally misread that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 07:33 PM
3	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Your wife wants the best for her and the children, and you're expectedly contributing to that as a father Unexpectedly? How so? One reason we both wanted to be with each other from such a young age is that we both wanted the same thing. It was without a doubt expected of me to be a great partner and father. As it was expected of her to be a great partner and mother. That is what I've wanted since I can remember. Find someone, fall madly in love, young. Have a family together and grow old. I feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 07:24 PM
5	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? I do. But I actually have been trying to explain to her that if I took off I'd have no inspiration. I think having no job would kill my imagination, I'm not sure why I feel that way. But she proposes after our kids are older because at this age (6f and 3m) I'm unlikely to find any quite time to be able to write. And she knows I need quite. My wife and I genuinely want what is best for each other without one of us trying to maneuver to a superior advantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 06:56 PM
7	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Sorry, I wasn't explicit. I do no think me making a lot less money would matter to her in the least. Just as long as I wasn't a lazy unemployed person. My wife has proposed me take a year or two from work and write a book when our kids are a little older. I can't image her caring of I took a pay cut that wasn't outside of my control. We could live of just my wife's paycheck fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 06:46 PM
10	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? If I thought that would make some kind of systemic difference in our relationship I wouldn't be with her. My wife and I are both very frugal people. She is in no way a money grubber. We were dirt poor as kids. Middle class feels like we are rich. Also, I'm an environmental biochemist. I work for the state protecting our waterways. I could make three times what I do working for industry. But I wouldn't like that, so she doesn't want that either. I do the majority of the housework. Like 60/40, not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 06:38 PM
10	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? That probably would work fine then. I find it all very interesting. But I find some truths in all the varying views and perspectives. But I have an issue with how absolutist everyone is about it. Simply by me and my wife, and our friend groups, I know plenty of men and women who destroy that absolutist logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 05:34 PM
14	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? Zero I (33m) met her in highschool and we've been inseparable since. But I do spoil the shit out of my wife. And make more money than her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 05:25 PM
1	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? I have not. I'm not much of a self help reader. I figure out shit fine on my own. If it was free I might read it as I do enjoy books in general though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 05:24 PM
15	Are there any REGULARS here who are blue pilled men AND have been married for at least a decade? I'm definitely not of the red pill. Not sure what I am tbh. I've been married to my wife for a decade, together 16 years. I'm probably decently close to what you are looking for. I'd probably call myself a purple pill man, lol. You might call me blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 05:12 PM
2	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. Well I'd be that guy who was with her from 16 to whenever it ended. So if someone else was with her from 35 on that would suck but I'd definitely still have had a lot of happiness and fun from it when we were together. And we have great kids. Lots of positives, regardless if it ended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 10:04 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. You have a post attacking all women and essentially calling them worthless. You will receive comments in kind. People who open up with such divisive language on a CMV aren't wanting their view changed. They are wanting a fight. Life is pretty much that way. If you think all women are this way then they will probably treat you that way. And you will always see them as such. I don't know what universe you are in that all women are this way. Or that any such monolithic declaration ever hold to for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:59 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. Well according to that philosophy she is too old to be viable for the dating game anymore. So she is all dried up and used now, can't get the Chads. So I guess we'll have to settle for the rest of our lives together. You'd think after 16 years together we'd have gotten sick of each other... But damn if we actually want to be around each other more. Even if the end was tomorrow it would be a great relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:43 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. You deleted your other comment so I'll respond here. What did you really expect? You have an extremely volatile and antagonistic view. You are slamming all women ubiquitously. What women wouldn't be here to attack you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:38 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. The majority of people seem to be shit, imo. Finding someone worthing being with is going to be even more rare. A lot more realistic than what most are saying. But for whatever reason the caveat of a "minority" rings truer than the OPs (and many others') monolithic slams against all women. Since my wife alone proves that to be wrong. And most her friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:36 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. Or simply don't be with the majority. At least she isn't being totally monolithic about her views unlike OP. I wouldn't want to be with the majority of women. Dating is kinda how you find the needle in the haystack...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 09:29 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. In what environment are you witnessing women treating men this way? Because I don't see this. And I'm around a lot of social interactions between both genders, both romantically and platonically. In my opinion people who have such a skewed view typically absorb this bullshit from social media. Which is about as close to real life as a soap opera. I will occasionally find someone with a really messed up viewpoint that you're describing but that isn't the majority and it isn't accepted. At least n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 06:53 PM
2	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. I think with all the easy sexual gratification one can receive outside of a long-term relationship many more people have just become lazy about relationships. For women I feel that that is predominantly because hookup culture. For men I feel that is predominantly because of pornography. That's just my personal speculations obviously, it's not like that is from a study I've read. But for whatever reason it's easier to "get yours" now and people have gotten lazy because of that. And as a guy I've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 05:48 PM
3	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. This is how I feel. I'd rather be single than with the majority of men. That's true for everyone, If what you want is a quality relationship. Whether you're a man or a woman is irrelevant. Viability in a happy, long-term relationship is not possible with the majority of people. To have that kind of compatibility you need to find someone who works great with you. People are very different creatures and the chances of you finding someone who you work with that well is very small. Wasting your time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 05:32 PM
1	CMV: women really bring nothing to the table, relationships are a scam. I'm baffled where you find these women who behave that way. You can find garbage anywhere if you look hard enough. I have a big friend group. I also have a big social circle because of my job. I know a lot of women. Without a doubt the women you were describing are a minority of the women that I know. And are ridiculed endlessly by them. I (33m) have been with my wife for over 16 years. She is awesome too. What is there not to like about having someone to spend the rest of your life with who you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 05:22 PM
1	Womens dating standards arent as high as men act like they are I don't agree with the ubiquitous use of women. It is by no means all women, I'm not even convinced it's most... But if a woman does that then she will likely get those results. Or if a woman doesn't, for instance my wife, she gets a great loyal guy for life. If someone does that they likely will never end up in a great and meaningful relationship. Their loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 06:06 PM
2	Womens dating standards arent as high as men act like they are I think women dating standards are on average ridiculously low. In my experience women only have dealers choice in the hookup scene. If they are looking for a relationship with deeper substance than simply sex they don't have an advantage anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 04:24 PM
1	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:40 PM
1	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? Thanks for the explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:39 PM
2	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? The paper is not trying to establish causality which is an important distinction, this means that it has a leeway when it comes to needing a representative sample. 100 is weak sample size of college aged, all white adults if you want to try to extrapolate the results to the general public. But that is in no way a failing of the research or author. That is the failing of the person trying to make the claim of what the study implies in the real world. As someone who has a heavy mathematical backgr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:29 PM
1	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? And selecting a group of individuals who signed up for speed dating is in no way a representative sample. Especially when trying to use such a narrow study while extrapolating it to the population as a whole. So... My point exactly Social sciences can't get larger pools because the cost of funding an experiment involving so many people is ludicrous given their overall funding. So it is just accepted that they can't have larger sample pools. But it does matter. Which is why the level of confidenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:08 PM
1	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? Your subcategories are interesting. What is direct game?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 11:59 AM
0	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? This is why I laughed when you refer to their "proof" as science. I am an environmental biochemist, so science is my job. What exactly does the first study prove? The sample size is 108 people... What kind of holistic conclusion are you going to be able to make on such a vast subject as dating/attraction but only studying 108 people? Also, how is it even relevant to use it for generic courtships when the context was entirely based off of speed dating? Selecting speed dating participants inherent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 11:56 AM
5	Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it? As soon as you said blackpill disproves it with scientific studies you lost me. I absolutely think game is a real thing. There are plenty of variables outside of raw looks that go into the calculation. I also observed a lot of dating shows and I noticed no matter how confident and charming a guy was, the woman had made up her mind whether she wanted more with him from the moment she saw him. I could tell if a woman was attracted just from her initial looks and body language with a man in those f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 10:35 AM
1	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? No. I like it. It is a part of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 06:10 PM
3	The issue with PPD is that all of our arguments don’t focus on the bigger picture, allowing for hypocrisy I even read another post of your's hoping to find something to argue. The title gave me hope about "men should pay for dates" but then you covered my view anyway. Which isn't that men should cover it, but that who asks inherently has that responsibility. I have fairly conservative relationship views in things like n count or past infidelity. But I hold myself to an even greater standard than I would a partner. I have a lot of standards though.. Most are for compatibility, many are for quality. F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 01:26 PM
2	The issue with PPD is that all of our arguments don’t focus on the bigger picture, allowing for hypocrisy What a let down. Here I was looking forward to a good debate from a genuine person... You summed up my views quite elegantly. I can't give much debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 01:13 PM
1	The issue with PPD is that all of our arguments don’t focus on the bigger picture, allowing for hypocrisy without talking about other things. That sounds like a great point. What other things? I am genuinely curious because you keep alluding to them in a roundabout and ambiguous way. I don't think n values matter that much. I think a slew of other factors override them. I am not going to say that they don't ever matter though. But I really would enjoy to hear your other topics that need to be brought into this debate (n count) so I can think about possible implications in areas I've maybe not though…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 12:29 PM
3	The issue with PPD is that all of our arguments don’t focus on the bigger picture, allowing for hypocrisy In what holistic way does your argument for tradition and value change the importance of n values? Or make my views hypocritical? You do make a great point. Dissecting each small facet of the whole argument can totally lead to a completely erroneous understanding of the whole. But you didn't really give any direct examples. I don't really belong to either groups you've mentioned. I don't think my views have a group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 12:23 PM
2	Abortion proves women dont want children I'm the same. I (33m) love kids. But I know lots and lots of women who don't. I'm more of caregiver to kids than most women I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 08:00 PM
6	Abortion proves women dont want children I don't want any women who don't want children to be having children. That just seems like a no brainier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 07:59 PM
2	Men care about N count because they feel emasculated by high N women I have lots of great friends who have slept with a lot of people. Doesn't bother me at all. They are mostly great people. But they value sex much differently than me and I wouldn't ever date them because of that drastic variance in the view/value of sex. I enjoy feeling emasculated I'm bed. I just don't want it done by someone who doesn't value the same things as me. And a high N count is very subjective too. I also don't believe it ensures an increased rate of cheating. The woman I know with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 07:55 PM
5	Im a salt daddy AMA If you are in the business and not smart enough to figure out you'll get scammed like that then all you are doing is teaching them a valuable lesson. I mean, it is a dick move, and hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 07:44 PM
1	What is the incelest incel thing? Why isn't this top...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 04:32 PM
1	How much past can you accept? Depends of the holistic situation, impossible to tell	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/20 04:31 AM
12	How come women do not like emotional men but at the same time call emotionless men “dull and boring”? I'm emotional and women always seem to find it refreshing. Now I'm not trying to have sex with them either. But my wife really enjoys me being emotional. What is wrong with being emotional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 02:20 AM
1	Are women unware of the dating crisis affecting young men? Everyone is dealing with their own crisis. If it isn't affecting them in at least an indirect way chances are they don't put too much thought to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 04:27 PM
1	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I'd never recommend you to date someone who ignored you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 07:45 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I couldn't agree more. It removes so many potential issues. We split everything 50/50	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 08:24 PM
6	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s My wife makes like 98% of what I do. She isn't a SB	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 06:09 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I'm (33m) married and a dude. But admittedly I'm not really an alpha or a beta. I'm just a normal dude. But If you had to force me into a group I would imagine it would be beta, as I am a successful biochemist. Psychology statistics, lol. I'm a biochemist I don't head psychology that much. Take a look at any major psychology study and it has an ulterior motive. And for ever study you find touting one side you can find another touting the other. I just know a lot of women and your assumptions are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 05:15 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I'm not quite sure either how sleeping with a lot of guys in your 20 equates to poor financial and professional choices... Most the women that I know who slept with lots of guys in their twenties have decent jobs now. I don't care what someone's past is I'm not going to get involved with someone who's a financial liability. You take one statistic and extrapolate an entire personality based around that. and then you make the assumption that anyone who has that statistic must be this exact way. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:31 PM
1	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I never said or implied that. Take that up with people who tout such views. I think men and women are way more alike than that would imply. And it is just that some women mature in a way where that lifestyle has no draw anymore. It isn't like it takes all women to reach their 30s for this to happen. Some never will, some just take longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:29 PM
1	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s And more mature. Funny how that also lines up with the timeframe... Maturing. But go ahead and assume all women are lying. With that assumption why is a SB any better? The money just gives you the illusion of control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:18 PM
4	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s It seems like you just gather everything from social media. If I only went by reddit/Twitter I'd likely have a much worse view of things too. I know plenty of women who regret their pasts and/or want something deeper and are completely fine partners. If you can't have a meaningful relationship with an honest and sincere partner then don't. Plenty of people are fine with that as long as they are being honest. Sometimes people aren't honest, but that is just life. I'd take a real partner with a pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:17 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I am not "assuming" this is all women. I must have misread this. I don't think all women who had sex with multiple guys in their 20s are damaged. I'm sure some are, but that is just true with anything. Most women didn't go around sleeping with every chad they could in their 20s either. Furthermore, even if the female magically became attracted to the beta when she got older, what benefit does he get from an LTR with her? Having a LTR from someone who sincerely cares about you is awesome regardle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:51 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s That is because the relationship between a business owner and a contractor is 100% financial. One between romantic partners isn't 100% financial, hopefully much less. But to say there is no financial transactions included into a romantic relationship isn't the same as saying a professional relationship is different from a romantic. Obviously they are different. I'm saying they aren't mutually exclusive. Saying they are different is obviously true. I'm saying they overlap. To which you have still…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:45 PM
3	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s I am not "assuming" this is all women. Whenever someone makes such a wild holistic assertion about such a large demographic it is pretty obviously subjective drivel. I know women in that group that are not that way. I know some who are too. But no group is monolithic. It isn't even a majority of people I know but a large minority who are as you described. Saying it is all women in that situation is absurd. When you take a negative and pessimistic person who just wants to validate their own perce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:41 PM
2	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s There obviously is a difference... All you did was point out that there are varying magnitudes of financial relationships. How does that in anyway disproof what I said that they aren't mutually exclusive (with a romantic relationship)? That isn't a counter it is an arbitrary statement	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:19 PM
7	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s Lots of romantic interactions also involve financial transactions. They aren't mutually exclusive	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:05 PM
6	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s You are making a lot of assumptions about a relationship you are not part of... A women is totally capable of being sexually attracted to a guy who isn't a 8 to 10. Some might not be, but dump their asses to the curb. Never settle for someone who is settling for you. But it is absurd to assume any group of people is always a certain way. Finding a great partner isn't easy. Yeah, lots of people settle. But they aren't all Stacies either. Just like everyone who had sex with a larger amount of peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 03:04 PM
7	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s Not a fan of SB, but do you think being settled for as a provider for a post-wall woman is a meaningful relationship? I would never propose that being in a relationship with someone who was settling is ever a good idea. They lack resolve and will likely never be invested in the relationship to anything close to the same degree. But I also don't think that such a relationship has to be settling. Many people come out of their 20s and are totally dated and finished with it. And they genuinely do wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 02:55 PM
10	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s You can objectively determine the financial cost of partners. A post wall woman who settles with a "beta" after she got banged out by "Chads" isn't much of a relationship either besides financial. But you can't objectively set a value for a relationship like that. You don't know how much of a relationship it is or isn't. You can find a meaningful relationship with anyone. It might have a lower chance of working out than with someone else, but that doesn't mean it won't work out great. Just as me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 02:28 PM
29	CMV: 30+ year old "successful beta" males would be better off sampling Sugar Market than commitment to women in their 30s Sugar baby isn't a meaningful relationship for me. That isn't an adequate substitute in regards to my happiness or satisfaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 11:56 AM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? But that in no way addresses what I said. I was a virgin. Obviously not partaking in that situation. So it wouldn't make me less empathetic as I was right there like anyone you are describing I'm not empathetic too. My age is irrelevant. I wasn't sexually active. My lack of empathy stems from the whining and lack of action. When I was fed up with my situation I changed it. When people whine and want others to change it for them I just can't empathize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 06:03 PM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? Sexual prime? I was a baby when your long term cited study started. And I was a virgin when your short term study started. Also, I've only even had sex with my wife ... So my n count is ONE! What crazy assumptions have you made about me? If you personal assessments of me are any indication of your logic and reasoning I can't take anything you say seriously. I still cannot fathom how you have made such an absurd assumption. doesn't empathize with young men today who are now in the hardest time. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:59 PM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? I didn't read your edit. That study is at least large enough of a time frame to have merit. I'm not sticking my fingers in my ears I'm reading the post as you posted it and I didnt look back after you change it. But a picture of a graph is a farsight less than an actual study. What you linked has absolutely no information about where that information was ascertained from. But it is at least something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:52 PM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? You cited a source that didn't refute my claim. I am not going to be swayed by a statistic of ten years when making such a holistic statement about men through the ages. All you can say is that it has gone down since 2008. What was it like in 1990 or 1950? Taking it all the way back to the mid 1800s is just you trying to make an appeal to extremes to prove your point. I never said that long ago. You just wanted an easier target. What happened in the 1900s is pretty relevant. That tiny snapshot o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:48 PM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? That is only looking at 2008 to 2018 and comparing them. "According to the survey, a whopping 23 percent of 18 to 29 year olds were celibate in 2018. That's up from 8 percent in 2008" That survey in no way proves the OPs point that less men than ever are having sex. It only shows that less men are having sex in 2018 as opposed to 2008. I did look it up and found no cited evidence proving it either way. A ten year comparison study is a pretty tiny timeline for making the extrapolated claim that "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:41 PM
6	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? Interesting. It was just a guess. It seems like all the women at our local dog park are single. If I go with my kids I get flocked by them. And they are often way too forward. I'm pretty sure if I was single they would magically all be in relationships. Lol I didn't mean to imply you were being dishonest I meant to imply that they were. ( or that that's just how the universe works that if you're single they're all in relationships) Just anecdotal observations	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:03 PM
1	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? We know there are more sexless men than ever. Do we? I'm not so sure that those percents are what you might think. Of course the number is higher simply because population increases. But it isn't like we have any data to compare it too. Just speculation. I(33m) don't think women have it any better. In fact I think men like me have it best. Edit:. I did conflate sexual marketplace and relationship marketplace. In a purely sexual nature I think women have more options, but that doesn't always mean…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:59 PM
8	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? That is because they lie and tell you that they aren't single because you are creeping on women at the dog park...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:58 PM
9	Why do men say they prefer experienced women IRL and not so much online? You are conflating different ideas. Experience and n count aren't always directly related. My wife and I have only had sex with each other, but we are very experienced in bed. I've also had my friends tell me about women who starfish and were disappointed because they figured since they'd been with so many men they might know what to do... Wanting a virgin is weird to me. But there is nothing wrong with being out off by the number of people someone has slept with, gender is irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 05:36 PM
1	I think this idea that both red pillers and blue pillers seem to have that attractive men benefit from hookup culture is not necessarily true. Promiscuous attractive men benefit from hookup culture but not all attractive men. All men who are serious about monogamy should hate hookup culture. I'm attractive and I like it. It makes it a lot easier to find someone who wants a long lasting monogamous relationship. Just don't have sex right off the bat and you filter out all the people who don't want what I want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/20 03:54 PM
1	What exactly is a desirable/marriageable man, anyway? Me, haha. At least my wife's friends seem to think I'm the epitome of a great partner. And many of my friends too. But why wouldn't I be when my wife is one too? I'm a very resolved and strong willed guy, no women who isn't also those things is going to work in a relationship. Weak men want weak women. I'm attractive but not extremely. I'm in great shape but not ridiculous (light 6 pack but not ripped). I have a great professional career but I don't make an insane amount of money. Environmental …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 05:12 PM
1	Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex? It isn't for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:53 PM
1	Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy? I kind of always presumed this was always in the back of one's head anytime considering a partner so it was irrelevant to mention but from the responses here I guess that isn't always true. Finding a relationship that makes you happy is really, really important. But that alone isn't enough. You also need certain overlaps to make it work. I've only ever pursued relationships that I believed would make me happy. I would think that is the most common situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:50 PM
1	How is hookup material much different to dating material? I've never been a fuckboy and am relentlessly pursued. So I must disagree. The difference between the two is the same as between finding someone you will enjoy sex with and finding someone you enjoy sex with and also enjoy being around with an overlap in life goals/values	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:26 PM
1	Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standards A real and lasting relationship is much harder to come by than lesser relationships. If you want to increase your quality of relationship you must increase your quality of candidates if you want any chance. This isn't even gender bound	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:10 PM
1	Anti Hero vs The Villain: People are attracted and gravitate to others who are somewhat messed up but also show humanity. RP is mistaken when they assert women fall for dark traid men. Those are not their only qualities and sometimes are overlooked due to being HUMAN not a woman. There are often redeeming qualities present with people who are like this. I'm ASPD. Was diagnosed as a child but it has evened out a lot as I aged. My wife also says I'm a ridiculously good husband and father. We've been together for 16 years. I see a lot of traits that give me such an advantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:59 PM
1	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? Exactly. I'm sure it relates to a lot, money also seems like a legitimate area where it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:46 PM
3	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? In my subjective and anecdotal experiences, yes. That is exactly what I think. Being very attractive just makes one get a lot of attention from insincere women who fake themselves in the hope that one would fall for such a facade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/20 06:47 PM
2	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? Celebrity status essentially ensures you won't find a happy, long term relationship. I do find it interesting though. I have started to think that successful relationships graphed against attractiveness will form you a bell curve topping out at about 6.5 Being attractive doesn't help you after certain point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/20 06:26 PM
2	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 02:24 PM
1	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man And I'm only 5'9	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 06:19 AM
1	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man This coming June I'll be married 10 years... My wife is also ridiculously fucking awesome (like me) Anything else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 06:03 AM
1	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man I simply haven't experienced the issues you are bemoaning. Maybe that is just you? I've never felt my dick was so easily replaceable and in practice it has never been an issue even now when I'm 33. In fact, I get way, way more attention now anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:58 AM
6	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man I said what I meant and meant what I said. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 06:53 PM
2	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man That doesn't make it any easier... Best of luck to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:40 PM
5	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man I (33m) have been with her for 16 years now. Yeah, that sucks. I could never date someone who is in the military. My dad was and it isn't something I'm willing to deal with in a relationship. Way too much time apart	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:34 PM
9	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man Lucky for me I found a super high quality woman a long time ago. But from what I've seen with my friends it is rough out there trying to find anything of quality	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:25 PM
4	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man Yeah, pretty easy work for making me an apex partner. And i have luck of genetics on my side too. And I have a fancy sounding job where I make good money so that helps a lot too. It really isn't all that difficult as I feel the bar is really, really, low	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:12 PM
40	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man I love the abundance of terrible dick out there. Makes me a lot more valued	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:00 PM
6	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man The way I see it most women don't have high standards though. They (on average) just value different things. And men (on average) value different things. But if attractiveness is your "end all-be all" metric for judging partnership compatibility then I think you are overlooking a lot of what people want in a relationship. As a guy (33m) looks really aren't all that important. For me looks are a yes or no. At my age I know a lot of men with similar views too, and women too obviously. But it makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 03:30 PM
4	Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years! Agreed. It just baffles me how easy it is for me when I know people who excel at many things find it ridiculously difficult. I didn't have a good model to go by either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 04:47 PM
11	Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years! Yeah, we have regular sex. Nearly everyday. We really like sex. Don't get me wrong, I'd be down for more. But I'm also very happy with about everyday and it is a good amount for her. No I can't buy whatever I want but that wouldn't be any different if I was single. But my wife and I both make good money and do not have very expensive tastes. So I have a lot of stuff for my hobbies, pc gaming and camping/fishing/hunting. She spends about the same on her hobbies. We have a very egalitarian relatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 01:34 PM
16	Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years! I've (33m) been with my wife for 16 years, married 10. I'm not sure what most people find so hard about it...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 11:47 AM
1	Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospect It isn't wrong by any standard but it would still be a relationship disqualifier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 11:45 AM
8	CMV: Men can be better parents than women. Anyone can be a better parent than anyone else. And two good parents beat one good parent. My wife and I greatly compliment each other. To think one gender is programmed to be a better parent is absurd. It takes two to make a kid and it takes two to raise them. You need both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 12:40 PM
1	Is there any circumstance where you'd be willing to stay together with your partner for the sake of the kids? It’s more like, teaching them “responsibility” and that in the future, once you have kids, you cannot always prioritize your own happiness, and that is simply life. I will teach them all that. I'll also teach them that sometimes you just have to call it quits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 01:53 AM
1	Is there any circumstance where you'd be willing to stay together with your partner for the sake of the kids? Of course I'd try. But if I'm unhappy then it's because I've exhausted all other options and we just aren't going to be happy together. I'm not going to stay in an unhappy marriage. I'm not someone who could fake such a thing. Even if I could I'm not going to teach my kids to deal with unhappiness in a relationship simply because they should, if it is something that can't be fix. I'm already teaching my daughter not to tolerate such a mediocre partner/relationship. When my son is older I'll teac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 01:19 AM
1	Is there any circumstance where you'd be willing to stay together with your partner for the sake of the kids? I didn't even bother with him. He is a bit of an incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 12:57 AM
3	Is there any circumstance where you'd be willing to stay together with your partner for the sake of the kids? But it seems like parents are divorcing at the first sign of personal unhappiness, instead of caring about their kid’s happiness. I rarely every find such an instance actually happening. But I see a lot of unhappy marriages that are toxic and have no business being together as I see what it is doing to their children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 12:55 AM
13	Is there any circumstance where you'd be willing to stay together with your partner for the sake of the kids? No. I'm (33m) not going to indoctrinate my kids into thinking an unhappy relationship is the right kind of relationship. I wouldn't do it because of my kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:40 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread It's just that in practice they don't really often do that kind of reflection. But I've read a lot on it and they do say that in the generic guides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:37 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread As I said in the above comment it is both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:35 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I think it should be both for the best efficacy. I actually teach both my kids FDS. I just am not toxic about it, especially since I'm a guy and pretty much used the FDS principles to find my awesome wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:30 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Well I am a self labeled atheist. But that is simply because I lack faith, so I define myself accordingly for when/if people inquire about it. But to be exact I'm agnostic atheist. And I live in the US (the South) and get asked a lot... I do think that faith is one of the most dangerous things in human civilization. To trust and believe in something without proof can be great, and it can be absolutely horrible. But it can make people do things they would never do otherwise, and that is dangerous…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:18 AM
5	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread If you keep finding horrible matches that make you unhappy then I think being more picky is exactly what you need to do. I think everything me should be much, much more picky with who they pick to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 10:07 AM
9	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I (33m) find FDS to be legitimate in theory and as an obtuse guide to be helpful. But when you have echo chambered communities who preach it, it somehow devolves into a group of sexist bigots who just want to trash others. I'm an atheist. But oftentimes I feel the atheist sub can get the same way. People get to worked up about their fanaticism and it turns to blind hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 06:55 PM
14	You get what you f*ckin' deserve! How dare you defend yourself?!?!? You're supposed to let her attack you! Bitch got what she needed	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/06/20 02:08 PM