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| 1 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?No it isn’t. Patriarchy =\= men (for some reason the slash above doesn’t show on my phone by there is a slash through the equal sign)Also you’ll find plenty of better definitions of the patriarchy outside reddit. Yes, if you read my quote above, people who subscribe to the patriarchy (women and men and everyone in between) do oppress others. I mean of course you have to chuck capitalism in there and all that jazz and you have a fucked up soup of shitty ideologies and belief systems that fuck eve… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I am directly responding to people saying that all feminists inherently hate men. So I am asking them if I should assume all mens rights activists hate women. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I can believe women are oppressed by the patriarchy which is upheld by some men. It’s also upheld by some women. Men are also oppressed by the patriarchy. This isn’t a man v woman issue. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:24 PM |
| -1 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?Those male issues exist because of the patriarchy. I did answer the question. The patriarchy is a systemic structure in which many countries operate under. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:22 PM |
| -1 | The art world openly discriminates against men.I did not concede that. I said if you have a problem with the way men are treated, go do something about it. Absolutely black men have it harder than white women. These concepts aren’t black and white (pun not intended lol). Just because people are working on womens rights, doesn’t mean they aren’t also working on rights for POC. They aren’t mutually exclusive. And states are already banning abortions. So glad you understand that the onus to not get pregnant is put predominantly on the woman. I … | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I’ve never heard of the FDS sub. I think people fail to realise that there are spectrums to these kind of ideologies and there are always extremes which do mirror each other. I think the internet is a dangerous place of echo chambers and confirmation bias. Reddit is a pretty severe case of that because you’ll find extremists will huddle all in one group. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I’ll use the issues I mainly see in this group: Male mental health: Men are not considered vulnerable beings, you are taught from a very young age that to be masculine, you need to be strong and tough, don’t cry, be a big boy, don’t be a bitch. Men internalise this, don’t know what to do with big feelings and it ends horrifically. Men are more likely to be hurt in workplace accidents: Ties into the above but again, taught to be big and strong, women weren’t allowed to do labour jobs historically… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 01:04 PM |
| -10 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?It was a lot of words to blame women on something that is built so deeply into society’s structure that women did not have a say in building. Just as you say feminists blame men, why do you blame women instead of just getting on with the issues you care about? If you care about men’s mental health, go fucking fight for it. If you care about custody for men, go fucking fight for it. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:58 PM |
| -6 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I didn’t misunderstand anything. I read the quote, other people can too if they wish. The quote had no substantiating evidence and was some guy on a rant. So no, I won’t be addressing to further x | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:53 PM |
| -4 | The art world openly discriminates against men.How have the men in power benefited women? We literally saw the other day the powerhouse of the western world take away reproductive rights from women. We see every day in other countries where women are subject to extreme violence and oppression and are treated like dogs. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I believe that men and women are subject to the patriarchy. The patriarchy (I am using this term as a systemic social structure, not in reference to men). This creates struggles for both men and women. I identify as a feminist because I actively oppose the patriarchy. I hate the ideology of the patriarchy as all it does is promote violence. It means that men are taught to be tough, to never cry, to do the hard yards and never talk about it. It means that women don’t get any say in their reproduc… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:50 PM |
| -15 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?Ok, so should I assume that mens rights activists inherently hate women also? Cool, will do. Also that comments reeks of such misogyny, I won’t even address it. It was a lot of words to say “I hate women.” But cheers for tagging a comment from yourself a year ago. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:40 PM |
| -6 | The art world openly discriminates against men.You literally have men in power all over the world. If you have a problem with how men are treated, change it. I’m sure the men in power would agree | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:37 PM |
| -15 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?Feminism hasn’t “gone too far.” There are always extremes on every single line of spectrum, wherever you go. I’m sure there are mens rights activists who want to burn women at the stake, but let’s not lump you all in together right? Your type 1 feminist discrimination is interesting. What discrimination against men and boys benefits women? Genuinely curious. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:34 PM |
| -16 | Outrageous or not: is it possible to be a feminist and not hate men?I’m a feminist and I don’t hate men. This reddit makes it a lot harder not to, because there is a lot of misogyny steeped into what some users say. But I figure if I don’t hate men, then surely some mens rights people don’t hate women. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 0 | Its Scary To See How Women Who Generalise Men as Predatory are Skirting The Line of Radical RacistsThis whole reddit is about claiming victimhood and how you all are victims because you are men. Also, if I am a white woman, black men have it far worse than I do. It’s almost like you need to look at issues with an intersectional perspective. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:28 PM |
| -4 | PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.The side effects are so severe. If you’ve ever been on the pill and gone off it, you’ll realise how bad it is | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Adobe female exclusively scholarship is discriminatorySo Adobe should do nothing about the imbalance now? What are they meant to do in fields that aren’t their own? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 09:57 AM |
| -12 | PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.Yes, but being on birth control for years has a severe effect on womens reproductive organs as well. The onus should not only be on women to put hormones into their body to prevent pregnancy. This needs to happen on both sides. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 09:53 AM |
| 0 | "The Leading Causes Of Death In Men Should Be A Wakeup Call To Everyone"That is absolutely not the main cause of depression. You have simplified a vastly complex issue for your own purpose of trying to blame women for the fact that men commit suicide because they are “average joes.” Not to mention, plenty of “average joes” (although arguably subjective as to what is an average joe) have plenty of friends they can lean on and get support from. The issue is men do not reach out because that have been told it is weak or similar. And that is the issue. Not women not pay… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | 17 years for killing a 5 year old #believeallwomenI’m good, thanks for the concern though! Really appreciate it xx | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 09:28 AM |
| -2 | 17 years for killing a 5 year old #believeallwomenThe original comment was a whataboutism - what about if it was a man! So I just responded with one 😂 Y’all can’t handle your own tactics Not to mention, she did get life, if you can read. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 09:27 AM |
| -3 | Gefer women now have to pay 20% less entry into public placesYes, but that’s not the case. So… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:52 PM |
| -1 | It's been something that's been bothering me for a long time now.. But in response to the Roe V Wade overturn.. I am DONE being silent on men's lack of reproductive rightsPeople can absolutely sign away their parental rights if it’s discussed and agreed upon. I feel like everything in your post is so case by case and dependent on the beliefs of the person. Also statistically a lot of men have absolutely no issue being absent dads. I’m really not sure your point and i’m totally bewildered by your ability to make this about men. Also the whole point about Roe v Wade being overturned is that nobody gets a choice. That baby is coming whether the mum or dad likes it o… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:33 PM |
| -5 | the women who would hold out sex with men because of the Roe versus Wade dismissal are PROBABLY the same women who would lie in family Court to try and control you and prevent you from seeing your kids.You seem really bothered by the fact that women can have sexual agency. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:25 PM |
| -13 | I told an HR administrator to stop saying that I (and male coworkers) belong to the Patriarchy. In fact I told her if she says it about me again I would sue.Jesus, and you lot claim to not be misogynistic 😂 | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:21 PM |
| -4 | "The Leading Causes Of Death In Men Should Be A Wakeup Call To Everyone"This is such a blatant ignorance of mental health. There are plenty of “chads” committing suicide. Mental health does not discriminate. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:16 PM |
| -65 | 17 years for killing a 5 year old #believeallwomenThere are countless men who rape women and get out in six months. So, not seeing your point. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:15 PM |
| -10 | Domestic violence observationsThanks but your anecdotal evidence doesn’t really live up to statistics and studies done on DV. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:13 PM |
| -3 | Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic?Because mens rights don’t need to be fought for. Everything in this society is catered towards men. And it was only created in response to women’s rights movements. So yeah, creating a movement to derail the women’s is misogynistic and embarrassing. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:12 PM |
| -22 | Its Scary To See How Women Who Generalise Men as Predatory are Skirting The Line of Radical RacistsThat’s a jump, skip and a leap from calling men predatory to calling them racist. Also, historically, men are predatory. There is not a single woman you know who hasn’t experienced a predatory man and who hasn’t been affected by predatory culture. Also, the difference between women calling men predatory and white people calling black men predatory is the imbalance of power. Women are punching up, white people were punching down. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:11 PM |
| -6 | Gefer women now have to pay 20% less entry into public placesYes, women make less money. So this makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:07 PM |
| -33 | Adobe female exclusively scholarship is discriminatoryIt’s not discriminatory. Women do not get the same opportunities in the workplace as men. So I’m not understanding why men are having a cry that they are trying to even the playing field. Quotas suck (especially when a female hire finds out about them) but they work. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:07 PM |
| 4 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?The understanding is that one person in this affair has made a commitment to another person and isn’t honouring it. In this case, the woman has made absolutely no commitment to the other woman. So in that sense, only one person is having an affair and it’s the married man. I’m not saying that the woman is ethically sound if she knew he was married but again, she’s made a commitment to nobody. If my husband had an affair, I would be mainly angry at him. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 12:05 PM |
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