anonhoemas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) That's not my assumption. It's not ALL MEN obviously, but that attitude is certainly present in this sub is it not? Tinder is not even a close comparison. If you're on tinder then you're looking to meet people. When you swipe on a woman she has already agreed she's open to it. I have no opinion on tinder, I don't use it. But I can say I've never had a good guy cold approach me. Seriously never. I do have an idea! I'm not straight! I have social anxiety as well, I understand why they're sweaty. I…	/r/seduction	08/07/22 02:12 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Why shouldn't you care? Because human decency. You should care if your actions are making someone feel uncomfortable and unsafe. A busy park in the middle of the day, a perfectly safe place to approach someone. Cornering a woman that's alone at night, incredibly creepy and scary. The problem is this sub doesn't seem to make any effort to differentiate the two. This subs message is just go get those numbers. There's no thought and awareness put into how it should be done to be respectful of women…	/r/seduction	07/07/22 12:31 AM
2	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) I'm not telling you not to take risks. Live your life and shoot your shot. You need to figure out how to do that without being a forceful creep. And this sub is not encouraging polite behavior.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 03:50 AM
1	Cold approach help Hard agree about the makeup though. Unless she never wears it and it an all natural girl she might appreciate it. But if she does she might think you're a bit dumb	/r/seduction	04/07/22 02:07 AM
1	Cold approach help If you genuinely think shes pretty, then she's been told every variation of that plenty of times. Being told they're cute by some random guy is nothing special. And it shouldn't be. How silly would it be to pick partners and instantly be into someone because they think you're attractive. That's the lowest bar and baseline for having a partnership	/r/seduction	04/07/22 02:04 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) OPs post is not the only one on this sub. My issue is with this sub and ideology as a whole. There are absolutely "game" strategists who recommend those things. It's not a disdain, it's a fear. I wouldn't go out if my way if it simply rubbed me the wrong way. I've been sexually assaulted in a single stall bathroom. A man saw me go in, pushed the door open before I could close it, came in, locked it, and proceeded to sexually assault me. That was not the first time, not the last im sure. I wish w…	/r/seduction	02/07/22 12:36 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Impossible. Dick weeds like you don't change. This was never about you, I'm talking to the guys following you. You know that you're an asshole, then you sell them lies and dress your advice up pretty so they listen to you without feeling like they're an asshole. But this is asshole behavior, so the best I can do is try to show your followers what you really are, and what they're really subscribed to.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:21 AM
0	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) I've literally never heard a woman complain about men not approaching them. Anyway, go read one of my other comments. My problem isn't with men approaching women, it's the creeper behavior. Being in this sub, and listening to pos like op is instilling creepy behavior in you. You stop seeing us as people, and we're just numbers to you. When your mindset changes, your behavior changes. Go ahead and talk to that girl that caught your eye! Don't go to college campuses and malls to stalk as many wome…	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:18 AM
2	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) By being a normal person! Go talk to women! Just don't record us like numbers and search us down in places you don't even belong! Un sub from this misogynistic bullshit and go be a normal functioning social person. It's okay to approach people, the problem is when you're soooo focused on getting your numbers, getting your dick wet, you stop treating us like people and it shows	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:12 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Ahh yes, peak intelligent response. You have reverted to your true form. If you're going to be a piece of shit, just say it! Don't try to make bullshit excuses	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:10 AM
2	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Yes I know, that's how normal people meet! There's a difference between approaching a woman you happen to see at an event, and going to college campuses and malls SPECIFICALLY to hit on as many women as possible. The issue isnt meeting women, the issue is treating us as less than human numbers to hit to impress your game daddy. You're missing the key point. Everyone has to reach out and make social interactions in their life, the issue is when you turn it into a GAME to be played. You stop think…	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:07 AM
2	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Hahaha, that's funny. I guess you don't know this, but women regret relationships and hookups with assholes all the time.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:01 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Is this advice, "don't ever talk to women"? Fuck off. Don't try to hide behind that. You can have connections with women without treating us like brainless trophies.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:00 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) I'm not condemning cold approaching though. I'm condemning this sub specifically. I'm not crazy, I'm not saying that men should NEVER approach women. I'm saying it becomes a problem when you all group together and make it a part of your life to consistently hit on women wherever and however you can. Men giving advice for guys to just go to college campus just to find young girls to hit on. Try to make connections and talk to women, I don't care. Don't subscribe to the misogynistic bullshit these…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 11:59 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Yea but who do you think these people are? They are from this group. You can call them outliers, but they're still with you! And men that make these kind of posts are fueling them and egging them on. I found this sub because one of you posts got put up on another sub. The post was of a man here complaining that he got banned from a mall for harassing women. All of the comments on the post were reassuring him, telling him he did no wrong, that women are just bitches. Someone even told him to just…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 09:45 AM
0	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) The issue is that it is about sex for ALOT of guys. I'm a pretty attractive girl. I get approached like this plenty. It's always creepy and abnormal. They almost always steer the conversation to sex, and when you reject them they get angry. I have several angry voice-mails on my phone of angry men calling me all sorts of slurs because I didn't answer their calls. I've had men call me consistently FOR TWO MONTHS STRAIGHT when I never answer. "Well why did you give them your number?". Because the …	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:27 AM
3	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) That's a lie you're telling yourself. 90% of people meet because they were put in the circumstances to meet: at work, through a friend, at a party, at school, etc. Places that two people ended up, because of a COMMOM factor. There is nothing linking two people on the STREET. there's a huge difference. Having a conversation with someone new you happened to meet is totally different than a man seeing you in public, going about your day, and interrupting it with a very obvious advance based solely …	/r/seduction	27/06/22 09:46 PM
8	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) This was brain rotting. I WISH I could teleport you guys onto the other side of this "approach", "pick up" whatever. It SUCKS everytime. And this guy knows it. I like how he clearly acknowledges these girls are UNCOMFORTABLE and yet he continues. Why? Because girls don't know what they want 😂 Do you ever consider what we feel and think when you do this? It's something like this: "who is this man? Oh he's talking to me now. Okay I guess I'm engaging with this person. Oh God is he hitting on me?? …	/r/seduction	27/06/22 06:39 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Tell them they're foolish. I can't imagine pursuing something that isn't giving the vibe back. You don't know how many girls will simply put up with your behavior or try to give you hints they don't want it without hurting your feelings. If she's not pursuing back, move on!	/r/seduction	27/06/22 06:29 PM
1	Anytime someone argues that average guys are trying to date models and need to lower their standards, just hit 'em with facts. This is a dating website, not real life. This does not represent real world dynamics, or include any subtlety. Women do look better than men on dating sites. Most women wear makeup, know their angles, and use good lighting for their pictures. Even attractive men often have shit pictures that make them look worse because they just don't know how/don't put in the time and effort to look their best in a photo. Most catfish are known to be Women (when its the same person not totally fake) because we…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/04/21 02:51 AM