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Nah bro if I'm not excited to see her naked, I'd rather pass.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 05:05 PM
1

Just ask them what days work with their schedule and pick one of the options that work for you. They might not be busy all the time, but just being told a random time and place by a stranger will raise their defenses.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:18 AM
1

Get closer, look at her left eye, look at her right eye, look at her lips. If she wants you to kiss her she will start glancing at your lips too. Grasp her around the neck, or chin, pull her in slowly and kiss.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:46 PM
7

Have you considered...NOT paying for her part?
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:47 PM
3

Risk. SJWs go after people they hope/know won't fight back, for mostly nonsense. Civil Rights Activists fight actual oppression, often against powerful people/governments.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:37 AM
39

Decent analysis, but tying it to the DrDisrespect situation is grasping. We still have no idea why he's banned, but judging from the clips of his last stream which ended abruptly with him looking around and going "FFFFUUUCK" - it seems he was raided by the cops. So probably more serious than cheating.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 09:29 AM
35

Women face a wall, men face a mountain. It's up to us to keep standing at the base whining about it or to conquer it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 06:52 AM
6

Charlotte is actually tied for 2nd (w/ Carrie) with 18 men across the show.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 07:43 AM
84

The skinny on IQ seems to be that men are more variable, more geniuses but also more absolute idiots compared to women who have more in the average range.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 04:21 PM
1

Start with the basics. Hit up H&M, pick up some crew neck t-shirts (black, white) and a pair of black chinos. Dark washed non-distressed jeans. Athletic or Slim fit everything, never skinny. Maybe buy a bomber jacket, peacoat or leather jacket while you're at it. Fit is king.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:45 PM
2

Cutting is always going to be a balance between your patience and how miserable you can stand being. Personally I just try to get into ketosis and do fasting or <1500 calories for a few days at a time then refeed and repeat.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:42 AM
2

3 to 1 non-fiction to fiction ratio is a decent guideline
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:39 AM
2

If you absolutely love tv/movies/video games, look into monetizing that shit with a podcast or Twitch/YouTube.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:55 PM
1

5x5 or Starting Strength to start, then move to PHUL/PHAT depending on available days.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:05 AM
2

Keep busy, first of all. Workout and work on your mission. If you're watching a lot of porn, ween yourself off. Whatever depraved shit you're watching -> Hardcore fucking -> Lesbians -> Solo girls / Webcam girls. Obviously do it less and less, too. Once a week maximum in a dry spell. You can go two ways if / when you actually do wank: do it only using your mind, thinking about women you have a realistic chance of fucking. Or make it into a training exercise to last longer, doing kegels or edging…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:53 PM
2

Show him real life is an RPG with superior graphics.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:49 AM
1

Hard cut to 10% in January, then lean bulk until summer. Increase income Move closer to big city
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:26 AM
51

Do what you want, I like to check stories once in a while - good way to start chatting up girls or keep in touch with a funny comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:39 PM
3

Lots of acquaintances I'm not intending to make a move on, but not really friends I hang out with regularly.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:39 AM
5

The girls you approach seem to like you.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:35 AM
36

Consciously or sub-consciously wanting you to lead.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:41 PM
3

First you want to save up gold for Proudspire Manor, do the Wolf Queen questline to qualify for Thane status and get your housecarl, and pickpocket as many rich looking folks as possible. In all seriousness though, meditation and productive habits like reading and learning.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:38 AM
28

Likely long enough for some reddit mod to go "Hey this subreddit has been quarantined for xxxxx amount of time, we should just ban it."
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:48 AM
1

Played WoW instead of going out, hitting the gym, or working.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:50 PM
3

Opposite escalators unfortunately. Next time!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 03:31 PM
12

This works, the few times I've done it I've seen good results. Just today I played with it while commuting on cute girls passing by - not even smiling or approaching, just "I want you, right here right now" eye-contact. Some held eye-contact longer than usual and one even ended up smiling and looking down.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 01:37 PM
30

Or they've been told by friends and media that rejected men being dangerous is super duper common
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 05:21 AM
1

Notice a lot more glancing from women when I go out in a suit compared to any other style of clothing. More respect from men, too. Just started dressing up though so not a lot of data. ​ Photofeeler example - Left is in a suit, right is in a fitted t-shirt
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:07 AM
1

Add dumbbell (incline) bench to your repertoire. And dips.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:14 AM
8

Why do you care? So you used the same opener on two girls. It's not illegal. The worst thing that can happen is they respond "You used that with my friend too lol" and maybe unmatch.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:09 AM
2

Meet them in whatever manner you want, just meet them. ​ What "free validation"? You can talk to girls without compliments and ego-boosts. If you talk with only 1 girl in the class, maybe she'll think that you're only interested in her. If you talk to a lot of them, they'll just think you're a social person.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:34 PM
3

You definitely should at least talk to them, it's good practice and can set things up for the future with them or their friends. I recently took a female-dominated class mostly to practice my social skills, was one of the first people who talked to people (several girls called me "very social" for the first time in my life), made a few friends and most importantly got more comfortable just talking to women. Only asked one out, probably should have tried harder on that angle.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:08 PM
3

If she likes you enough she'll clear her schedule.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:33 AM
2

Endurance and strength athletes who are vegans are the outliers, though. The vast majority of vegans are unhealthy and weak, because it takes a lot of time/effort/education to adopt that lifestyle properly.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 07:30 PM
3

Correct, however the more your body is "used" to being in ketosis the more effective it will become at processing fat and the shorter amount of time it takes to get back into ketosis after a cheat day.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:48 PM
1

Our monkey brains aren't wired for it. It's basically the same as peeping on someone else having sex, instead of having sex yourself.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:16 PM
1

Your body-fat is good, but work on adding some bulk. Especially in the chest/lats/shoulders. The v-shape is killer. Chin-ups, overhead presses etc. Wear fitted shirts. Tuck your chin back a bit, got a bit of nerd-neck going on in the pics.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:54 AM
0

Self-deprecating to absurdity from a position of strength works fine. Examples: If you obviously lift, joke about being weak and not able to lift something super light. If you're stoic joke about being very emotional. If you're quiet joke about being a blabbermouth.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:56 AM
1

If you're insecure about it, it's an issue. Either own it, or make it clear that your house is off-limits until/if it gets more serious.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:22 AM
2

Keto and fasting, it's easy and relatively fast (pun intended).
/r/askTRP12/05/18 09:15 AM
1

Been noticing all kinds of shit in lyrics on the radio lately, it's quite weird Some examples: "It ain't my fault you came in looking like that" - She can't control herself around Chad, not her fault though. "I'ma hate myself tomorrow, but I'm on my way tonight" - Knows Chad won't commit or change, but tingles. There's even that one song (Rihanna?) about having "rules" so she doesn't end up going back to Chad for the umpteenth time. Been listening to classic rock a lot more, lately.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 06:09 AM
1

Why would you want to wallow in deterministic negativity like that?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:49 AM
1

"The lighting looks off, it's better at my place."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 01:22 PM
7

That's a FWB situation more than a friend zone, we definitely friend zone women we're not interested in having sex with just like women do with men.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 05:35 AM
4

Yup. Thinking about it from an evolutionary perspective it makes total sense, too. Periods of feasting -> store extra energy as bodyfat Periods of fasting -> try to burn bodyfat first while sparing muscle mass which will aid in survival / gathering / hunting
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 04:21 PM
18

From my (way too extensive) experience of WoW I agree, most women played exclusively healers or a class that COULD heal (like Shadow Priests or Feral Druids).
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 03:59 PM
2

It's possible, but very hard. Don't fall into the trap that keeps 99% of people chasing the "recomp" goal and ending up being stagnant for months/years. I've been guilty of this obsession, once I realized it just hindered me I dropped 25 lbs of bodyfat. Cut bodyfat, then bulk.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:10 AM
1

It's pretty self-correcting that way. Too heavy? Maybe you're only strong enough for 5 reps this time, keep the same weight. Gotten stronger? You hit your goal and increase weights. Too light? You do high reps and increase weights even more next time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 12:48 PM
0

Why not both strength AND volume? Reverse pyramids is the shit, especially with AMRAP (As Many Reps As Possible - with proper form). If you hit or exceed the goal rep, add weight next time. 1x8+ Heaviest 1x10+ Decrease weight by 5-10% 1x12+ Decrease weight by 5-10% Further reading: Leangains - The Reverse Pyramid Training Guide
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 10:25 AM
11

Sitting home alone playing WoW instead of working/socializing/lifting.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:05 AM
1

Very hard to cold approach, but once you get in they can be pretty great.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 12:19 PM
11

Read more, do more
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:02 AM
7

Been doing static holds for a few weeks for posture and forearms, quite enjoying them. Just standing in front of a mirror and pick a kettlebell up with one hand at the side and squeeze that sucker hard while maintaining good straight posture for a minute or so.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:39 PM
1

If pheromones are a thing they can probably come from elsewhere other than your smelly armpits. Use antiperspirant deodorant, skip the cologne if anything.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:29 PM
22

Remembering my first teenage girlfriend, we were both shy as hell. When my mom found out I had a girlfriend, her first reaction was "don't pressure her to do something she doesn't want". That sentence fucked me up for years. Never got any further than hugging with my girlfriend, told myself she was equally as shy. After I broke up with her she called a few months later to let me know she lost her virginity with some other dude.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:51 AM
13

Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:39 AM
3

Go, game all of them, isolate if possible - bail if it fails, mentioning other plans.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:04 PM
10

Dude was acting like a bitch, after delivering that smooth line to the girl you should have said "Excuse me for one second", turned around and went full Ari Gold on him. A bitch slap for a bitch.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 06:34 AM
2

If you appear self-conscious about it. Otherwise they don't care or think it's hot.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:00 AM
1

Talking at her: Barely paying attention to what she's saying, just thinking about what you're going to say next. Talking with her: Listening to what she's saying, and keeping the conversation relevant to that.
/r/seduction15/02/18 10:34 AM
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Congrats! Unless it was literally for hours, there's not really such a thing as too much foreplay.
/r/seduction29/01/18 07:34 PM
1

Highly doubt that, you've just put the pin back in the grenade for now. She won't just forget.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:44 AM
3

Experiment with fasting, found it very effective for minimizing loose skin.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:42 AM
2

Just put up the shit you have right now, and delete / remake after you get better pics.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:07 PM
5

Rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:52 PM
3

You tell that negative voice inside your head to shut the fuck up and proceed as usual.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:05 PM
45

Just be patient and keep being you. As many men he has probably heard of or experienced women "faking" their way to commitment by acting like someone they're not, then change drastically once they get it. The more time he spends with you and sees you're for real, the more he'll come to believe it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:05 AM
22

They probably met when he was a relative nobody, loyalty matters.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:50 PM
3

The amount of swiping women do compared to men is pretty staggering, dude. Just look at another site/app, Badoo. It lists exactly how many people have voted on any given profile. For most men, it's in the low hundreds - meaning hundreds of women have seen their picture in the swiping, and most have around a 50% like ratio or less. I've seen plenty of women there with TENS OF THOUSANDS of votes, some have hundreds of thousands. Even showing up in the swiping queue without using Tinder boosts and …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:05 PM
3

Baby steps progress. Good: Back in the gym Introduced myself to cute receptionist there and got her name and smiles Minor chatting with 5 or so gym-people, and girls on the bus / train Abs coming in while maintaining weight and gaining strength 52 days into NoFap, aiming for the 90 day milestone as a challenge Feeling much less socially anxious & more dominant, having solid eye-contact with people as I go about my day - had a big black guy nod approvingly at me for not breaking eye contact first…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 05:03 PM
1

Legally yes, everyone will still think you're a creep if you flirt with anyone under 18.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:21 PM
3

Lift, be sociable. Become the guy that talks to everyone in the first weeks, and the guy who knows peoples names and can introduce people to each other.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 08:43 AM
1

iTailor looks pretty cool, definitely checking that out later, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:19 PM
1

This is the best chart I've found: Bodyfat vs Muscle development
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:32 AM
3

Unless you have good muscle development 186 lbs at 6ft doesn't sound like skinny territory, sounds more like 20%+ body fat. For comparison I'm currently lean-bulking at 6ft 170 lbs.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:51 AM
4

Watching porn is like trying to satisfy hunger by watching other people eat.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:01 PM
2

This is TRP, not nofap. You're arguing on the wrong sub. We're not in it for magical superpowers or "semen retention", nor will anyone pat anyone on the back and blame addiction over the man for failure, it's about discipline and breaking destructive habits.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:41 PM
10

That's the dopamine talking, there's a reason the most recommended duration for a "reset" is 90 days. I'm definitely feeling less depressed and socially anxious so far.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:06 AM
66

I'm down, already 28 days in.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 09:13 PM
2

A full suit at the campus is definitely too much. A nice pair of chinos with a well fitting shirt will work better.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:04 PM
3

You gave away your manhood and you're surprised you lost your woman. Also there's no question here. Read rules, this sad story didn't need several different threads.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:27 AM
6

Gorillas don't eat a lot of protein or build up their muscles, they're mostly genetically gifted. You don't see a lot of skinnyfat gorillas, even if they're starving. They do get some added protein from insects and larvae on their plants, though. We humans are genetically predisposed for a lean runners body, gorillas are heavily genetically predisposed for a muscular one.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:08 AM
135

You missed a hair-style. Thinning/balding: shave it off, don't fight it - rock it.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 06:17 PM
5

Your sisters boyfriend isn't angry your friend broke the bro code, he's concerned someone who gave his girlfriend a "screaming orgasm" could be in closer proximity to her by moving in with her brother. Let it go, if this is the only issue you have with your friend.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:53 PM
3

There's a big different between being a confident man and being a dom, in most peoples minds dom and sub conjures images of whips and bondage.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:35 PM
1

So up your attractiveness by testing, something like photofeeler is good - or female friends I took two pictures within a week in the same place/lighting, only difference is I wore a nice shirt in one vs t-shirt and smiled more. Result I'm sure I can up it even more with some social proof (pictures with other girls, at an event or doing sports).
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 11:16 AM
60

Lift Shower Wash your face, brush your teeth Moisturize Properly fitted clothes Done.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:55 PM
2

Legally it might be 15, but socially it's definitely 18 if you're an adult.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 10:51 AM
5

Need to work on good eye-contact, so today I went to the mall and walked around a bit to see what popped up. Ended up with decent progress, no numbers or anything but some solid eye-contact and smiles with a very cute girl at a cash-register (a good candidate for later), sideways glances with another girl, and a funny situation nearby that made me grin which made a third girl nearby smile and seek my eyes. Should have followed that up with a comment and conversation, but wussed out there. Progre…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 03:26 PM
2

Okay so you have two different niches, "bimbo" and "nerdy". Bimbo is the largest niche, so that's going to have the largest sample size who likes that. Nerdy is a smaller niche, but that niche would be more likely to REALLY like that. Does that make sense? There's also the time aspect, a bimbo might be what the most men like for short-term relationships but someone nerdy with (shared) interests and a personality for longer relationships. Don't forsake things that you like, but if you want to gus…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 06:54 AM
4

Sounds like you stopped escalating after she touched your sweater. You should have progressed the kino to holding her hand or her waist when you were out walking, and especially when you were playing pool is a great place to show her "proper form". If she was into you during pool she was probably dropping mad hints there, looking at you while bent over or aiming her butt at you to give you a show.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 08:01 AM
2

Monk mode can be very helpful, but you cannot ignore interacting with women while doing other things for months on end. I'm currently in monk mode I suppose, focusing on training/reading/career, BUT I also have talking to more women on my list. Improving your social skills should definitely be on your list, even if the goal is not sex you get more practice leading up to it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:19 AM
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If you can't afford the gym or have the time to go, get yourself a kettlebell or two and a door-mounted pull-up bar. You can get a lot done with those and bodyweight exercises.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:57 PM
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Yuup. Should've responded with something like "Oh you're gonna tattoo my name on there? That's moving a little fast, at least buy me a drink first"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:00 PM
2

Pretty new here, been reading up for the past week or two. Started a new kettlebell routine Studying The Sex God Method, as well as other TRP reading list offerings Messaged a few girls on dating sites, but definitely need to start approaching more irl for practice
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:06 PM
1

The PUA game seems to me to be a lot of manipulation and other immoral stuff focused on short term gains, which falls apart after a while. Many a PUA seem to play their games for a while then abandon it after they find it doesn't really work for anything longer than a one night stand. I'm much more interested in the concepts of self-improvement, frame and developing natural masculine dominance.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 02:21 PM
1

Stop with the extra step. Link directly to the YouTube video, not to another forum post.
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 12:05 PM
2

This really is some inception like advertising going on on this subreddit. It's either a) text post leading to nothing but a youtube link b) link to another forumpost with a youtube link
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 04:59 PM
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