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They're there, though, none of the apps really guarantee a HVM over any others, imo.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 02:25 AM
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It very much depends on what questions you both answer. If it’s “do you like scary movies” versus “do you want children” or “are you a feminist” you’ll get very different percentages of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:31 PM
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Thank you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:56 PM
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I met my extremely HVM, late husband, on OKC. 99% match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:05 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:42 AM
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It’s a covid thing bc men who will want their dick sucked after dinner are now going “well, bc of covid we could go on a walk, with masks?” Boy, bye. We all know you’re lazy as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:08 PM
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Another mistake. Stay sober for the first date, or 2, or 3. IMO. Not to like “be good” but because you cannot objectively evaluate someone when you’re not sober.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 07:17 PM
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Nope- this is one reason why I am against starting something officially until the world opens back up. I need to see how a man treats an old person, a homeless person, a server, etc, before I can make an opinion.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 07:07 PM
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My late husband was very handsome, very much a HVM and an inch shorter than me. They exist- they might be shorter than you think, though 🤭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:04 PM
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If this was a first date- there needs to be a time limit IMO. My time is valuable, and until someone is worth that time.. I don’t invest much 🤷🏻‍♀️ read: I still invest if I’m interested, but a sleepover? Gotta prove to me you’re worth my safety, time and effort, with your actions. Not words.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 07:02 PM
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Wanted to share an update: at 6pm he texted asking if I am available now instead of 7pm (our planned time). I didn’t respond until 645 saying no, I am available at 7. At 705 he sends me a photo of him in a Walgreens “long day sorry trying to find somewhere to talk” He video calls me at 725. He’s in his car. 🥴 I said “uh, you’re driving? We can have a 5 min phone call instead” his response: no, this is fine. I’ve got 5 minutes to get to know you!” He spent 4 minutes talking about himself, and the…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 02:42 AM
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I suppose it is just a video chat. I tend to overshare so thanks for the info! I need to revisit the handbook before we chat.
/r/askFDS24/02/21 03:13 PM
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Trust your gut, this seems very much like “ask that nerdy girl out to prom, it’ll be hilarious” from a teen movie. Are they all going to sit around and kiss and tell? Trust your gut.
/r/askFDS24/02/21 05:47 AM
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I love her so much. Always have, always will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:41 AM
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Basically if he didn’t feel the need to marry you BECAUSE he was moving further away- I take that as a red flag. Yes spending time apart as newlyweds isn’t ideal, but it would show a level of commitment to you.
/r/askFDS22/02/21 08:18 PM
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Wow, saving this. This puts into words so well my experience with my ex NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:02 PM
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If him moving didn’t PROMPT him to marry you... bye!
/r/askFDS22/02/21 04:42 PM
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Even on OLD when men say something unfunny I’m like ok? Then they say “it was a joke” and I say “usually jokes are funny” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:41 PM
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This is my situation, except I’m 33. I was widowed at 27 and if I remarry I lose affordable health insurance, benefits and income that is very helpful while I’m still in school. So I’ll never legally get married again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:49 AM
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I’m trying to stop using them at all- I feel like I’ve gotten dumber since the pandemic (and stuck at home with a young kid) and I’ve found myself using them more because I can’t English anymore.
/r/askFDS22/02/21 06:43 AM
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You are the company you keep! I am proud to say I am friends with the women close to me, and I’d trust them with my life. I judge men harshly for those they keep. Should have recognized that more in my NVM ex.
/r/askFDS19/02/21 07:56 PM
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I am definitely overthinking it, that’s my middle name. I guess I more so wanted clarification on the “marriage-minded” terms I see in the handbook!
/r/askFDS19/02/21 01:48 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/askFDS18/02/21 09:40 PM
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Is marriage the only true commitment though? I feel like it’s a stupid financial decision to lose something I cannot get back over a man. Also, if I don’t have children with that person and we had legal paperwork for things like POA, etc, I feel like we’ve crossed those “legal” checkboxes off in case of death or emergency. However- school and my child is 100% my focus now. As well as pickme rehab and even identifying what I want in a future partner.
/r/askFDS18/02/21 09:23 PM
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I’m talking about way down the line- not anytime soon, I swear 😂
/r/askFDS18/02/21 07:14 PM
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Oh yeah that’s my plan- I am wondering what would be equivalent to that level of commitment. Co-habitating?
/r/askFDS18/02/21 06:57 PM
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No, I have cohabitated previously. Unless it’s a legal marriage document- it is not in jeopardy.
/r/askFDS18/02/21 06:29 PM
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I am! Should have added, I’m in nursing school and also working. Bottom line is, it seems like a dumb idea to ever lose that pension simply in case of emergency, etc. Even just to invest it. That’s my ultimate goal. Also- in absolutely no rush! Just while going through the handbook I was wondering how it works if marriage isn’t the ultimate goal.
/r/askFDS18/02/21 05:35 PM
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This. I spent the day with a friend, we played video games, ate bomb food. It was amazing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:39 PM
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This is my ex, and my daughter’s father. “I watched her while you worked!!” AS. YOU. FUCKING. SHOULD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:11 PM
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