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Laughs in being an autistic woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:09 PM
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Once again, never said it applied to the entire one. I'm saying I made an observation based on this, statistical data, autistic women I know irl who've told me the same thing, etc. Autistic moms I met who lost custody of kids. etc. This wouldn't be an issue if once again, there wasn't a full blown online bullying task force towards anyone who doesn't fit trad lifestyle. Like a single woman getting death threats from matt walsh's fans because she posted a video of her quiet relaxing weekend. My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:40 PM
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https://www.practiceupdate.com/content/mothers-with-autism-face-higher-rates-of-postpartum-depression/96067 I'm sure there are autistic trad wives as it is a spectrum. However with things like sensory issues and other things it can make things difficult. The expectations on stay at home mothers are insane. I'm an autistic woman who grew up with a full time suburban home maker mom, and it doesn't look appealing to me. A lot of burnout and emotional labor. I think it's a good guideline especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:27 PM
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It's not a weak argument, because every human being doesn't fit a perfect mold. And I never said the trad lifestyle couldn't be like a guideline. but actual trads don't treat it that way. They bully and antagonize people into it. The comments on trad wife instagrams about some invisible "fat feminist" strawman are some of the most raging, pissy, hateful comments I've ever seen. These people seem very unhappy and not very self actualized. They're spending more time being obsessed and unhinged abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:32 PM
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Personal experience as a childcare major + someone who’s worked in multiple college childcare centers: some of the childfree teachers are legit some of the best, most empathetic teachers I’ve ever worked with. Super patient and sweet. And my lead teacher rn who is INCREDIBLE with kids isn’t having any of her own because she likes teaching them better and realized how tiring it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:38 PM
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Well we don't teach them how to be adults by that age. We keep them within the child sphere until 18. And when I was 14-15 for example I was extremely immature and would not have even remotely made a good mother. And the data shows teen pregnancy majorly increases abuse rates, and rates of tearing open from childbirth. Historically the maternal death rates and child abuse rates were also much higher. I think it's a good thing we don't HAVE to do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:35 AM
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And I'm sure that no matter how trad a woman gets, that woman would be very grateful for a childfree auntie/uncle who could babysit the kids for a while so she could relax
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:10 AM
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Matt Walsh: Waited until he had an established career and was 30 to have kids, yet tells 14 year olds to get prego. I worked at a community college childcare center and cared for children of teen moms. Not glamorous or trad. Even the ones who had rich parents who had an extra room in the house for the baby still had a really rough time and the father was often absent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:26 AM
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I’m beginning to understand this when the last post I made, people did not understand my original argument or counter a lot of the things I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:16 PM
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It’s definitely latching onto a single decade
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:42 PM
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I agree regarding the childfree role. In a lot of species like termites, members will voluntarily not reproduce in order to help with the young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:32 PM
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Not right now obviously, but through bullying and coercion it can become a heavy force. Humans are easily swayed by social pressure and conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:20 PM
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Huh? I never said that. I think it's totally fine if one income can do that. I was just saying that I think we should have a mentality of "it takes a village" for caring for children, regardless of if the mom is working or stay at home. In plenty of societies women have help with the kids. In other species women had help with the kids. In the caveman days, women didn't just sit in the cave and eat bonbons while the men hunted. Otherwise humans would've died out. The whole village helped with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:26 PM
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Yes, growing up and even now in college everyone i know wants to be a famous youtuber/tiktoker/twitch streamer. and agreed 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:22 PM
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Thanks. Being an autistic woman myself, I realize a lot of the social standards neurotypicals put on themselves and each other are a bit strange so I try and look at it from a neutral perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:11 PM
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I think having a mentality of "it takes a village" for both working and stay at home moms would be helpful. Sort of like how stay at home moms have their kids at elementary school during the day so they can have a break, I think under 5 it'd be helpful as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:56 PM
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As I mentioned, third places are being destroyed. Human beings are being increasingly pushed onto online spaces by a lack of irl activities and social groups. Then these "third spaces" are being filled with toxicity. Like when a woman simply posted how she had a relaxing weekend as a single woman and had a quiet morning/healthy breakfast, matt walsh sent his followers after her and she got flooded with death threats. I'm one of those people who cracks under pressure due to being raised by strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:55 PM
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We're all early 20s zoomers. Most of them do still live with parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:50 PM
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Why is it always having a career makes one a "drone"? Plenty of people have careers they love such as taking care of animals or working with the community. Seems like you're projecting your own hatred of work. I hated sitting around the house all day during 2020's covid lockdown and I like a balance of being at home and being at work. And that's completely false that most people work because they need to. My mom was a full time homemaker for years and was so happy when I got older and she could …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:26 PM
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I find it very interesting regarding the red pill, around half of men will get mad at women for having jobs, saying they need to "stop being CEO girlbosses and let a man provide for them" and then the other half is calling them a gold digger and telling them to get with a man with no money. It's very contradictory and I can imagine creates a lot of infighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:57 PM
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No problem. I'm a childcare teacher myself, and I am constantly arguing with relatives over this. The group of 3s I'm helping take care of at my university's childcare center aren't traumatized or saying they want to be at home, they love coming to school and playing with their friends. A lot of their parents are professors and teach on campus so they're usually there 9-4ish. I'm so happy for you and your husband! I'm glad that you guy's love goes beyond any form of ideology. That is what is mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:45 PM
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Well I haven't been on CC and have been celibate for 3 years and working on myself since last LTR. But the thing is I noticed from friends who did get on the CC, it wasn't by choice but because men would do a bait and switch and pretend like they wanted marriage and babies and do what I like to call the old trickaroo. The guys then cry and manipulate and then all the sudden leave. But I'm in southern California so it may just be the men here. But I noticed in RP circles, even women just being si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:12 PM
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Yeah absolutely. A lot of my female friends want to be tradwives and I've never told them not to. I've been 100% supportive of it. If it makes them happy, that's great. But to say it's a 100% mold that everyone with a uterus/vagina fits is what I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:05 PM
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Social media has made everyone's standards completely unrealistic. Are people supposed to get plastic surgery for you? ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:01 PM
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I’m autistic and work in an all female job, and the few guys i know don’t sleep with me and just see me as a friend and are nice to me. I’m just hearing this secondhand from tons of really good high value women I know who are being lied to and manipulated by crappy guys in my generation. Also I believe in all those things. I don’t think they’re myths. It’s why I dislike a lot of animes actually due to the misandry/male abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:38 AM
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I don’t know man, all the men here are just saying they’re not ready to commit and they just want to “chillll man” and that they just want FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:45 PM
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nope. CC is a myth. Men are the ones refusing to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:22 PM
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The bro social circle is always a bad idea. If you break up the whole group spreads rumors about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:44 PM
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Feminist lady chiming in here. (I always get so excited when I see redpill women because I rarely see them in the wild and it's a chance to share opposing beliefs!) Personally I'm trying to be as careful as possible in my 20s right now about who I choose to date and spend my time with as I've heard nothing but horror stories from female friends. I'm also autistic and can be very gullible (As autistic women also have far higher rates of being abused by a spouse) So I've been really careful, I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:50 PM
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It was because they wanted kids then realized how hard it was
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:42 PM
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I worked at a childcare center at a fancy college. Tons of kid's dads left them to live childfree party lives and get with younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:34 PM
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I've seen it happen a huge amount, especially in younger couples who have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:13 PM
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I want a househusband!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:58 PM
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I'm in California and I've known several stay at home dads and it wasn't that situation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:57 PM
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Well the men do control reproduction. Many of them will not even give a woman a chance to be their gf if she's not on the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:53 PM
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Modern life is sure comfortable for men to leave their kids while the women support them as single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:51 PM
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It’s also shitty when you get friends with benefits zoned. And then when I started declining FWB because I only want to let people with the intention of marrying me within a few years to be able to sleep with me. And they’re like “That’s way too much to expect from someone” So apparantly that’s too much to expect to not want to be a placeholder fleshlight until they actually find a girl they want to cherish, travel with, and make their wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:22 PM
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