anonymous7499 Archive

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4	Can a woman ever truly love you? Love in and of itself is not a stable aspect to base a relationship on. You bring up the fact that if a woman could ever truly love you, that all would be well. However, that is a common mistake that both women and men (especially in the secular West) make. Love is a feeling at a minimum. When that feeling goes away, the thing that kept her with you is no longer there. If you had no other superficial qualities to keep her, then that's when she's out the door.	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/19 12:52 AM
3	Online dating websites - don't do it ! Ohhh, that kind of dinner date (at home). The context of your message above implied that you're were taking her out to dinner for the first time. Fair enough.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 07:05 PM
2	How to get girls The world does change and will always do so. Gender identity has been expanded, and many men are adapting to the changes. The world will always change, but not always to a person's will or liking.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 06:47 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. Your post applies to many Western women, or women in general, who hold not true values towards finding a good mean. Whereas women of quality will sometimes attempt to break a man's image to see if it's real or not. If it's not, then she may no longer care what image a guy has. After a women shit tests a guy specifically for superficiality, it shows that she cares of a man's sincerity with his character. That means if the man is a player and pretends to be, many women will get turned off, regardl…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 06:44 PM
-3	The most important trait a man can have is being able to laugh at his failures I disagree. I know of a male surgeon who deliberately botched an operation to harm a person he knows. Me made that mistake and forever paid the price in exile. It depends on the mistake men make. Not all of them are humorous.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 06:40 PM
1	Online dating websites - don't do it ! Yes, except the lunch meeting thing is something that her friends should do with her initially, not a potential lover. I would advise you not to put dinner dates an alternative experience to online dating. Also, it's not necessarily so that a message from a guy means she sees him as a loser. It depends on the girl and the content of the message. For instance, there's a difference between a guy that uses online dates as another option versus a guy who needs it to get a date. As you can predict, o…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 06:37 PM
1	Why so many guys look towards settling down before they hit their 30s if they haven't already. I mean you don't have forever to live, so....yeah. This is all assuming that these high SMV men can live healthily past the age of 40. I know most men by that age have blood and cardio problems (like most Americans do). A person wouldn't be good to settle down with when the bones start getting brittle.	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/17 10:59 PM
9	Never Stop Gaming: Especially If You're In An LTR I'm ambivalent about this. Replacing thoughts in your head of other females is highly likely to help you get over oneitis. However, this idea you bring up is the exact reason why most men and women out there cannot be trusted to the point of having a stable LTR. It has gotten to the point where both sides are likely to burn the other. I emphasize that this method definitely helps you keep focus off of one girl. But that makes you less trustworthy.	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/17 10:57 PM
8	Some thoughts on my last relationship and frame slipping Your first mistake was thinking that a woman who messes with two men in a LTR was LTR material. What I don't understand is why you started to fall in love with someone like that, then expecting something different to happen. Did you think she was going to somehow be a good person out of nowhere? As you said, you were thinking emotionally, probably because you just wanted her. In this scenario, you were acting like the good girl, chasing the bad boy. You may describe yourself as being "alpha" in …	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/17 09:27 PM