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Lifestyleanonymoushandbalance/r/seduction31/01/25 07:20 PM
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That's why it's important to keep records of text messages Etc
/r/seduction09/02/25 01:06 AM
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Step back be super chill show her that u can be cool coworkers no matter what happens outside of work She probably slept with you out of desperation / not having better options, because who sleeps with coworkers and risks fucking up their work atmosphere when they have something equally as good outside of work? She probably regrets it just show her she doesn't have to worry about things being weird or awkward at work and then you can bone the fuck out of her whenever you want
/r/seduction09/02/25 01:04 AM
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God this is terrible This is like a guide for someone extremely experienced, etc. You can't run an improv theatre production in front of a woman, people have been working on their bs detector their entire life. And women have spent their entire lives having men try to impress and lie their way into sex It needs to be simple as hell especially for an absolute beginner like a 29 year old virgin. Just go up to girls approach them say hi ask them out and ask for their number. The rest will come with…
/r/seduction08/02/25 10:29 PM
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Bring ugly girls home to cuddle and watch a movie then initiate sex Lie say whatever it takes to get laid Build from there, you'll learn
/r/seduction08/02/25 10:26 PM
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Dating is not a luxury bc there are girls out there that are total losers too, every loser can get a date just find someone at your level You could easily die being a mid guy the law of averages states that most people do If you want to be the best - you have to train like the best work harder than everyone else
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah unfortunately once you've been there you can never go back.. I'm tempted to cheat on my girlfriend with extremely beautiful women even now it would be so easy and I would easily get away with it but alas where / when would it end
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:33 PM
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Don't be dumb bro, in a culture where silence is the norm and silence is an answer, all attention means something. All it takes is a girl consistently saying hello to you when she doesn't have to. That's all of a sign that you need. If she's going out of her way to pay any attention to you whatsoever approach her
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:32 PM
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What do u need help with
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:31 PM
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I am ultra anti medication just raised that way Tried Vyvanse for adhd twice in my life for few months first time and then just weeks subsequent times. had some great pros and some heavy cons, really don't like meds as I relate enormously on my self connection and really sinking into my pain and suffering and rock bottoms, etc Whats the adhd podcast I'd be interested to check them out? Don't know anything about glp-1 beyond a quick Google search
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:25 AM
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Don't give her your number Don't get her ig Get her number, verify it then and there by repeating it back with one number wrong or by calling her to see if it goes through Then u can flirty roleplay a phone call with her right there Don't try to make texting interesting, keep it in person. If u make a good in person impression let that do the talking U don't have to escalate fast at all or make it sexual. Here's a great blueprint. Ps fast escalating is attractive dominant behaviour shows her u k…
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:16 AM
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Make eye contact and smile He'll think about it over and over and if he doesn't approach u immediately he will want to Do this 2-3x, as well as all the other little stuff If he doesn't reciprocate move on
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:14 AM
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Adhd The rest is just relics from an abusive childhood and years spent as an addict et I'll read that book thank you for the rec And yes 100% agree and relate to the challenge in finding an effective therapist when highly intelligent, I keep firing my therapists they just don't have the knowledge or experience, etc
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:31 AM
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I've been in and out of therapy for like 15 years to be honest It was helpful in the beginning with the more basic stuff as I get older and more psychologically Advanced no one can help
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:24 AM
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Favorite comment so far You're absolutely right My job is extremely chill and relaxing, puts a lot more pressure on those hobbies.
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:22 AM
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Social danger, reputation destruction, breaking the fourth wall Honesty is dangerous and so is sticking your neck out
/r/seduction05/02/25 01:55 AM
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What's it like in other countries? Where you're at
/r/seduction04/02/25 02:08 AM
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Dark features, 5 ft 11, handsome, super athlete
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:55 PM
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Canada
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:54 PM
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Yeah that's a good point it's a really hot approach but that's just my style I guess know how to switch up the energy, go from super hot to cold or find some bullshit common ground reason to ask her something innocent and ask for her IG for that reason If you can get them to like you and they will they'll pass you the IG
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:53 PM
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But girls be out there giving it away for less than free. Girls be out there begging you to take them
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:52 PM
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I have no family really
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:51 PM
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Yeah I did that and that's how it started, but the busier your life gets you can't make time for that anymore. Also is kind of creepy trashy to just go out hunting for chicks, I always struggled with the ethics of approaches and justifying it to myself No matter what I was doing, I always combined goals. Same thing with dates, I would never take a girl somewhere on a date that I wouldn't just go without her. I hedged my bets so if she no showed or was terrible I could still have a good time/prod…
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:50 PM
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They blush and smile and even if I get rejected for a boyfriend Etc it's still a positive interaction and they still crush on me back I like it because it's direct honest, the truth of why I actually am approaching them, and it's great for the coldest open possible on like a public sidewalk or anywhere
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:46 PM
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I was just approaching girls any and everywhere I went. Integrating it into my daily life and activities. I'm not a club guy so alcohol drugs Etc were never involved
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:06 AM
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I'm able to extrapolate my experiences to recognize that whoring around is a death spiral and too risky with pregnancy and STIs (never wear condoms ik it's bad) It's also a huge waste of time and energy and focus The Best of Both Worlds seems like having a great girlfriend and constantly cheating on her but like I'm not about to do that There will always be new girls and More Beautiful girls, do I really have to reach rock bottom before being able to be in a relationship
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:05 AM
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I'll read it thank you for the recommendation
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:00 AM
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I have absolutely no interest in being with a high body count girl, not long-term relationship material whatsoever
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:00 AM
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Does your wife fuck other men? I don't see the point of being with a girl if she's not only with me, I'd be far less concerned about her sleeping with other girls
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:59 PM
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Yup got bored of fucking her so quick
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:57 PM
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A lot of people have been recommending roleplay and honestly that sounds great
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:56 PM
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A journey of a Thousand Miles begins with a single step. If you have the courage and consistency you'll get there
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:56 PM
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Read that book it was great but couldn't really translate it into real life
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:37 PM
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Just work on your sense of Aura and power and ability to make others feel unsafe, and you'll never get embarrassed
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:59 AM
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You're so pretty I just had to come say hello
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:39 AM
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Ah yes the endless concern of the onlooker - I dramatically relate Fuck em they're all jealous of your courage or they're vultures hoping to poach off the situation Behave and conduct yourself with class and status and you won't have to worry about a public rejection. Behave like your social status is highly and unquestionable and the women will follow your lead - If they ever try and switch it up on you you have two choices. Immediately aggressively shut them down to reassert dominance in the s…
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:27 AM
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My current relationship is an LTR Previously yes they were mostly one night stands or repetitive one night stands
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:18 AM
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All the diff types of approaches, cold, etc u name it Cold is hardest but master cold and everything else becomes effortless I'm an acrobat, athlete. I'm dangerous, dark, aggressive, rebel, and kinda lawbreaking, fearless and in exceptional physical shape. Very poor no car and shitty house lol. I've always been quite quite smart, father is an actor and I take after him. I'm a natural leader excellent public speaker and charismatic I've always been really good at reading people / knowing what mak…
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:17 AM
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Thanks ill check out his channel never seen that one before
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:11 AM
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Fuck honestly that sounds fantastic best of all worlds
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:07 AM
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27
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:03 AM
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I originally got into PUA as exposure therapy for anxiety because my family and father have severe anxiety and we were raised that way. Exposure therapy branched into approaching girls too Tldr; therapy got me here haha
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:03 AM
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Done that, it's just being single with a whole lot of lies in my personal experience Not shooting down anyone who does it, but in my personal experience truly caring for someone means not wanting to share them Edit: I never found a girl who organically wanted the threesomes just got girls who liked me enough to have the threesomes unenthusiastically I see the difference here
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:00 AM
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Well said I agree I've had my quantity time to focus on quality
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:58 AM
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Jealousy? She knows all my past and she'll know this too
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:57 AM
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You get lucky Approach enough beautiful women and you'll randomly find one that's good on the inside too I just found her at a random college campus I was walking through to get my groceries saw her and said wassup
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:54 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:51 AM
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Respect
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:50 AM
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I'll read it thank you for the hot tip🙏
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:47 AM
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Craving dopamine from action? Yes extremely possible and likely how do I fix this / read more about or research it
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:40 AM
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Anywhere you won't be remembered is where I started Any college campus is fantastic, anywhere around your age range is great, if your high school age- did you say you were 18? Go hang out around high schools or High School events and talk to girls from other schools Malls are great, just walk through the mall and look for people to talk to. Coffee shops are good sometimes, grocery stores, beaches, gyms, it takes social finesse to do this stuff and do it acceptably, the bus, bus stations, etc At …
/r/seduction31/01/25 08:05 PM
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Exposure therapy - go out there and go get rejected
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:21 PM
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