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I have been single for one year and a half now and I wasn't looking for dating or anything but he just appeared and seems to be worth my time, so I'm giving him a chance. I'm not really interested in going out with so many guys even after "covid lifts" (that is going to be at least july 2021), I'm more comfortable being 100% single. But yeah, probably just having videocalls may be the way to go right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:06 PM
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I met a cool guy last month and we have been talking and so far he has been consistent in showing his values and making effort to see me, talk to me WHILE respecting my boundaries and understanding that I am a busy person. Because of covid, I'm not confortable going into closed spaces or open dining, so we had a nice picnic in a park and it felt good but I don't want him to think that I'm a cool girl, relaxed and settling for low-effort dates, any advice for seeing him again in the future? I'm d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:44 PM
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Unwilling to implement them, I agree completely. They face it eventually and is funny how they act when they realize the fuck up. A friend of mine is dealing with an ex that used to ignore her and now that she is over him, he texts saying how sorry he is and how she is a great woman. They ended things over a year ago... I think they process differently, most of them are not in touch enough with their feelings to differentiate sadness from anger and have no intention of doing something about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:22 PM
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I think most men have the introspective skills, they just have a huge ego that doesn't allow them to communicate with others. When they fucked up, they insist on saying they don't care but they do. It hurts them deeply. I think saying that guys are unable of instrospection or unable to change is making them a favor, they're no longer responsible of doing so because they're supposed to be unable. They are able and responsible for doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:58 PM
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And most important, to let him know that she was there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:45 AM
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Just found this blog article on dating multiple men, the whole blog seems to be very similar to fds, there may be some other useful posts. Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:12 PM
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I think I agree to this in most part. I'm a serial builder gf so I wouldn't know how to recognize one from another. And still, I think a HL guy with good work ethic that is building himself is probably not looking for a relationship. In my dreams, he is supposed to be aware that he doesn't have the time or the energy to invest into a good relationship and is probably waiting for the right time. In my dreams, at least, no idea about real life 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:29 PM
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Yes, I used to disregard my intuition because I didn't had any logical reason to say I didn't like someone. But then I realized I was right after all, so I know listen to my intuition and don't give it a second thought. A great book about it is Women who run with the wolves. Is funny you mention OLD, I use a combination of basic image analysis + my intuition and I think it has been successful. The last guys I met through OLD were not for me, but they were educated, well mannered and we had great…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:50 PM
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What is more incredible to me is that they tell them to do this for a date. NO, you should do it as a part of your regular routine! Is not that hard to make sure you're clean. I mean this are just basics, I can't believe there are guys that don't do this everyday/often. I remember growing up my cousins taking one or two showers daily, keeping a nice haircut, trim nails, they were so concerned about how they looked like and it was considered just basics, not a "metrosexual" thing. They are LVM fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:27 PM
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Same here. There are SO many interesting hobbies, instead you're sitting in front of a screen for five hours everyday... ugh, what a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:04 PM
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For sure! I think I was masking my low self esteem and giving other people the task of making my ego big. Also probably avoiding working on things I had to work for myself because I was so "busy" being "selfless", helping people that needed more help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:56 PM
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I am important. My importance is not determined by someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:47 PM
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I'm sorry, English is not my first language and I may have not been clear. I'm not looking for boyfriend/dating/fwb right now. I travel frequently but I don't have time/energy for dating right now. I just want someone to text frequently. Like an online pen pal flirty situation (?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:45 PM
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I just found this sub today and realized that I was already doing many of the things listed. Some days I get discouraged and I think I'm being too picky but after reading here I realize I wasn't wrong at all and I still have some work to do, of course. I've been single and not dating for almost a year now, focusing on my personal improvement and studying/working very hard. I live in a small city and it is VERY difficult to find someone. I'm not in a rush and I know I will find someone eventually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:03 AM
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