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If we apply the leftist logic to the situation, she has benefited from SJW practices her whole life. She has had "systemic advantage". More people encouraged her to go STEM. It was easier for her to get into a university STEM program. The profs and TAs and everyone helped her more. etc etc etc I would take an asian male CS over a black woman anyday, (all other things roughly equal) because I know that that race / sex combo didn't get any help in school. It's like the uncomfortable example of doc…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 01:52 PM
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I've personally never met a PM that didn't have a master's degree or at least 10 years experience. Then maybe you should think that she didn't actually earn it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 08:12 PM
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Women trying to sext. Women sending nudes. Etc... It's eye opening to see how aggressive women can be when they find you attractive. FTFY. But I agree with your point. Adding to it, the top 20% of tinder men aren't necessarily the most attractive. They are attractive, but they have something that other guys do not. A picture that is perfect, that catches everyone's eye, along with a perfectly worded thing about them. That can be the thing that every woman goes for... it makes the break between t…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 08:07 PM
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I live in one. I understand how this works.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 03:17 PM
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So if you buy a house and your wife's name isn't on the deed, she can find a bridge to go live under. Name a state where spouses get to keep what's in their name. That doesn't happen. A judge will not let a wife "go live under a bridge".
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:53 PM
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And it's not even completely about the sex, it's about him demanding it from her. He based his LTR around her deciding what to give him, when to do things, what to do. It dosen't matter if those things are sex, money, chores, whatever. He wasn't leading the relationship, and she resented him for it. It got so bad, she resented him so much that she threw her virginity away to the first person that simply didn't look like a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:51 AM
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Prenups aren't the saving grace that people think they are. They can protect things you come into the marriage with, but anything after that is fair game. A judge can throw out a prenup in a heartbeat. Things you can't get out of with a prenup. Alimony. Hard stop. No. You will pay it. I don't care if your prennup has an infidelity clause and your wife slept with the whole town, did drugs and then murdered someone. You will pay alimony. Hard stop. Custody of your children. Nope. Toss it away now.…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:49 AM
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Then OP had the fucking audacity to leave a essay to finish her drama filled chapter for her. That's exactly what she wanted so she still won. Yeah... he gave her an out. It's kinda bullshit... but also, fuck her. If she wants to think it was okay, she was only hurting herself. And that is a great metaphor for OP. He thinks that by being nice to her he is helping her. He isn't. She is worse off than him. She is down her virginity and her 4 youngest years. He is wiser for it, and avoided marrying…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:41 AM
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They urgently want to be dominated and "mistreated", but they don't want to say so, because then they don't get to be the "victim". Eh, it also ruins the mood. Losing control isn't real if you have to ask for it. If it's planned. Women want real domination. Asking for it isn't real.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:54 PM
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You also have convinced yourself that sex with someone that dosen't give a fuck about it is what you like. Sex with someone that is unattracted to you. Maybe you are starting to wake up. Go find a thick (try for solid, not fat) girl that actually finds you attractive. That will ACTUALLY submit to you. Your wife is not. We see this when she dosen't give you a BJ. She won the shit test. She didn't submit. If you like submission... great. You are like every other male in the world, ever. What you n…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:51 PM
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So overall if say yesmy SMV is much higher than hers but she thinks otherwise Maybe she is right. Maybe you are. Either way, you said yourself you have room to improve.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:48 PM
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This is the thing. A fairy tale (or any fiction) is "fake", but it's moral is real. The lessons are real. It's believable because it talks about human behavior. Maybe this post is fake. Maybe it's not. I don't care. I don't know this guy, I don't give a fuck about him. I don't care what he does. What I care about is that it could be real. This could easily happen. What I care about is what people think about the situation and how to handle it. That is what is valuable for us here.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:46 PM
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Is that what Blue Pillers want? They want to be in better shape. They want people to respect them. They want all the things evolution taught them to want.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 06:07 PM
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If you are starting, get a variety pack of blades. Use them all, find the ones you like.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 03:05 AM
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You target the beta bux by making a product more masculine. You show them what they want to be. You sell an idea of them. No one is wanting to be the guys in this ad. Maybe some people approve of it's political / social message... but that doesn't sell. Beta Bux want to be more alpha. They wish they were. You can use that to sell products. Not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 03:03 AM
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This needs to be higher. It really is textbook. What people here need to know is that this isn't a cone time thing, or something that can be un-learned.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 02:15 PM
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Thirty years ago, women died in the delivery room because of hemorrhages and pregnancy-induced blood pressure spikes. Now they are much more likely to die because of preexisting chronic conditions like heart disease or diabetes. Let me guess, the medical industry caused people to be fat as well? Or maybe you are saying that if only mothers gave vaginal births, their diabetes or heart disease wouldn't kill them in childbirth. Oh wait... no, it turns out that neither of those make any sense. I als…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 12:04 AM
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If my product is modern medicine, then yes, I'm defending it. If you disagree with modern medicine, feel free to have your wife give birth over a bucket and die due to hemorrhage... You know, the "natural" way.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 12:20 PM
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You are an idiot. IF you ever get married, /u/incel9876, please don't try to force your wife to have a baby without a doctor, outside of a hospital.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 12:18 PM
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The United States has the most fatal pregnancies of all modern nations, it's so bad we have more per capital than Libya because doctors insist on forcing women to push up against gravity since it increases the likelihood of "complicated deliveries" which make a lot more money. This is absurd. We have complicated deliveries because women are very unhealthy in the US, and have babies much, much, much later than the rest of the world, and our health reporting is a lot better. As someone in medicine…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:22 PM
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the only thing concerning here's the lack of sex drive. Everything else can be addressed very easily. Talk to him about clothing, and reach an agreement where you make up outfits for him that he wears to social occasions where you care about his clothes. If you want him to wear matching socks, do the laundry and sort his socks into pairs for him. the reality is that it's not really your decision if he wears matching socks, it doesn't really matter. he is socially awkward, so what? your entire li…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/18 10:57 AM
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Don't forget the prospect of finding a job. Average salary means nothing if you can't get a job in the field. Look at actual employment numbers from the university he is graduating. If they don't have 1 year post graduation employment numbers and salaries from their department... don't get a degree from there. Any respectable department will have that data.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 12:39 PM
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What's him being rich got to do with anything? Lawsuit target This has nothing do with "liberalism" - if this was an SJW issue then people would defend Spacey as he is a gay male whereas his accusers are 'privileged' CIS straight white men. Most of his accusers are gay... including the main one.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 08:34 PM
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If you sexually assault more than 14 people, you DON'T get to have a career. First, those are accusations against a rich man in an era of #metoo. You stating it as fact shows you aren't objective here. Secondly, sexual allegations have no logical connection to having a career. Grow a pair of balls and stop being an outraged liberal pussy. welcome to ignore.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 12:20 AM
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If it was a one time thing, I would steer towards the side of letting him keep his career. It's not fucking up to you if this man can continue to work. FFS. You are as bad as the #metoo people Don't like him? Don't watch his shit. What you don't get to do is tell the man that he can have a career. Fuck you and your entitled sense of societal intervention.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 10:40 PM
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Eh... A gay kid went to an actor's party in NY, alone, after being invited. Waited in his bedroom till everyone left. Spacey came in, tried to kiss him, the kid decided he didn't want to be there, so he left. End of story. What's the lesson here? Don't go to a gay party alone and hide in the host's bedroom after it's over if you don't really want sexual attraction. Is Spacey kinda creepy? Sure. Does he like them on the younger side? Sure. Was anything he did illegal or really that wrong? No. Whi…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:12 AM
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My point isn't that you don't value it, it's that men value yours being low more than you value theirs being low. You would also ghost an unemployed man with no prospects, whereas a man wouldn't do the same to a woman. Men and women value things differently. "I am just saying that n counts are of different value to men vs women, just like earning potential, leadership, strength, etc etc etc No one has issue with the fact that a lower N count is generally better for marriage-able men."
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 11:43 PM
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And that is fine. I am just saying that n counts are of different value to men vs women, just like earning potential, leadership, strength, etc etc etc No one has issue with the fact that a lower N count is generally better for marriage-able men. What I am arguing is u/glitterchild saying that n counts are the same between men and women. They really aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 08:17 PM
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Look, fuck whoever you want. I am just saying that sleeping around just to get your n count up is a horrible idea. Feel free to disagree. (but also maybe read some of the sidebar stuff....)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 08:15 PM
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It might actually be a good idea to have a short-term relationship to increase your n1 to n2 and then hold out after doing so until marriage. I don't think that is a good idea at all. Don't go into any relationship (esp where you fuck the guy) with the intent of it being short. Yes, you should experience guys before you get married. Maybe try one or two in college, then your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 08:08 PM
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Ehhhhh Sexuality is as different to men an women as anything else. Men want virgin(ish) women. Women want providers. If a guy were to say "I want a woman that makes at least as much money as I do, and will continue to over her life", that would be fairly absurd. IMO. If a woman was to say "I spent my 20s fucking around as much as I could, now I want to get married" I would say... "pass". Maybe your opinion is different, and that is fine... I am just warning you that most men don't agree with you…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 08:04 PM
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Being successful isn't a turn off in an of itself. It's the attitude some women get when they do that that is. Anyway, maybe you can fold "asking him" into "supporting him", with things like "is there anything I can do to make the house better for you?". That is being pro-active, but also kinda prodding him as to why he dosen't like to be inside with his family.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:41 PM
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Have you asked him why he hangs out in the car rather than in the house with his family? If it was worth him telling her, he would have already. We aren't hearing the full story here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:28 AM
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This is weird. You are also painting yourself to be perfect here, I doubt that is the case... so at least be realistic. I have tried being my very best, wearing new clothes, getting new undies and make-up and jewelry Those are all things you buy. Let's get real here... are you in shape? After the kids? There is some reason he is not wanting to be in the same house as you. Figure that out. There is more to this story, because this behavior is weird.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:27 AM
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real winner there. I mean.... genetically he probably is more successful long term than most people.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 09:36 PM
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I don't think Peterson builds an audience upon frustrations of young men. I think fairly little of his videos are about that. He got popular with the gender pronoun thing. I think that a lot of people want to paint him that way (popular with sexually frustrated young men) to discredit what he is saying about everything.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 05:19 AM
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do you really not understand?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:31 PM
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And? So catholic school dosen't teach you to be religious. Most people would see that as a plus, not a negative.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:09 PM
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public education by putting them in an expensive, sub-standard, science-free, for-profit, Jesus school. What? Private schools are (on average) MUCH better than public ones. And they teach science in them. Where are you getting such ridicilious claims?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:07 PM
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I can tell you every single home school kid I ever had was way, way, way low. Talking reading comprehension several grades below and terrible math skills. Eh. Sixty-five percent of the eighth graders in American public schools in 2017 were not proficient in reading and 67 percent were not proficient in mathematics. https://www.nationsreportcard.gov/ The average public school student is below on reading and math. The most brilliant people I know were homeschooled.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:05 PM
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Now is NOT the time to think about this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 05:20 PM
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Parents used to. Now society has taught them that doing so makes them a bad parent.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 06:35 PM
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so many regular guys leave their wives for someone half their age its the tale as old as time. I doubt you will find a lot of guys just randomly leaving. What happens is the marriage falls apart and the guy moves on. The woman thinks she can move on, but realizes she can't too late. It seems the consensus is that once a woman hits the wall she's lost her worth Worth changes. Give a guy a couple kids and be key to his life, and your worth will shift from sexual to integral to his life. If you are…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 01:56 PM
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. I was explaining what the benefits might be from practicing this ancient tradition. Not once in this conversation was anyone talking about people a millinea ago doing something for religious reasons. We are talking about the here and now. If you want to discuss religious practices of ancient cultures, feel free to do so in the appropriate subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 11:05 PM
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And none of them would call that "dating". It's a casual fuck buddy. That is fine. No one transitions their fuckbuddy into a relationship. That's laughable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 10:38 PM
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This is your personal opinion. Where's the evidence for this? If you don't have evidence, at least explain your stance with logic and reason. You're making an assertion. If you spend 8 days with no sexual contact with your husband by choice how attracted to him are you really? Secondly, if you are cool with him having no sexual interaction with you for over a week, are you doing a good job as a wife? Many ancient cultures practiced this. For religious reasons. And that is fine. What we are talki…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 10:33 PM
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I would go so far as to say that your SO would like a long, good massage more that he would want a BJ. Either way, it's unreasonable to engage in nothing sexual for 8 days a month, and people that do that have deeper issues that need to be resolved. This is especially true if you also expect him not to masturbate (you should never have such an expectation IMO) Agree. That is unreasonable and silly. Obviously it's a problem if your SO is choosing masturbation instead of having sex with you, but t…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 06:02 PM
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There are a lot of people here characterizing male behavior in anamalistic terms.... as if they can't control them. If you are sleeping with someone, and they are sleeping with someone else... you are being used, and the guy dosen't care about you in any serious way. Hard stop. Maybe you can benefit from a conversation at the start of a relationship that essentially states "once your penis goes in me, we are exclusive, committed and serious about this". That is reasonable. What isn't reasonable …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 05:16 PM
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A woman who's against period sex but cuddles up close with her man during her period while expecting him to lay off of sex, is not being reasonable or consistent. ? Not having sex on your period dosen't mean that you can't cuddle or show intimacy. It's not like vaginal sex is the binary marker of a man's sex drive. NOT being intimate during your period just because you don't want vaginal sex is inconsistent. (putting aside mood disturbances that are common during menstruation) I guarantee you th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 05:07 PM
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Don't wake him, you're not his mother. He must take care of that by himself. Agree with the caveat of making sure that he needs to be up at that time. Maybe he really dosen't need to be up for 30 mins and wife just thinks that he does / should be up, so she pesters him. Either way, just don't do it. Let him set an alarm. Tell him that you don't like double-dipping/licking of jars and that's not ok with you and you need to be respected about that. And drop the matter. Disagree. If it's just a few…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 06:07 PM
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No, just young professionals that are socially awkward.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:54 AM
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Yeah. Or. The million people trying to network after reading that highly successful people book thinking they are inflating someone's ego by saying their name are really shallow in their attempts. Becuase everyone does it. And they aren't good at it. I mean... it's what you are doing. For the reason you claim to be doing it. You really can't argue with that. You aren't trying to be nice and chill, you are trying to inflate peoples egos and network. You said that. I am sorry if you think that I h…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:43 AM
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because she used to go through domestic violence. She doesn't want the same thing happened to me. So;a house as protection. I mean... a second house rented isn't going to stop you from getting hit. Hate to be harsh here... but it's not. at the same time not letting him take advantage of me later? Financially? How could he? Hiding money? Unless you have a prenup, everything that you do now is both of yours. Not yours. Not his.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 10:40 PM
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Both, they always do. My name is pretty unique though, it's not something like Ben or Tom.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 10:35 PM
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Say the person's name when addressing them. "So, Wendy, how did you get into [her job she just mentioned]?" That way you won't forget their name and people like hearing their own name. Disagree. It's always so awkward when people use my name pointedly in conversation. It feels way less personal that just talking. It seems like they are trying to add me to a roledex rather that just chill and talk... which it seems like is kinda the point.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:22 PM
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I think you should see a doctor to talk about these things. I know that will be a hard thing to do, realizing that on some level there might be psychologic issues, but you would benefit from it.
/r/altTRP19/03/18 02:27 AM
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Be honest. Not having had a ton of relationships is a good thing. I would be more interested in someone like you than someone that had been dating for 10 years and was still single.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 07:43 PM
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This is great advice. I would much rather date someone who has only had a few relationships than someone who has had a ton.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 07:41 PM
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She is choosing toxicity in her life. Ergo, she is toxic. For reals. I would never date anyone who purposely had someone in their life that was a"wannabe thug" who said shit like they were going to shoot someone else. Grow up. Date an adult, not a child.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 10:25 PM
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Re-read this exchange and try to learn how NOT to communicate like this. Remember all those things that people in here said about "just listen"? Yeah, you aren't doing any of that. Because you didn't address anything I said, you just said what you 1) felt about me and 2) felt about the way I said it and 3) refuted what I said I assume the irony of that is lost on you. and that's exactly why I'm asking for help. You aren't. You are asking for someone to validate you. When someone gives you help, …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 12:20 PM
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Mostly sad and vulnerable, but peppered with angry outbursts. So basically passive aggressive. None of what you describe is attractive. Vulnerable can be attractive. Fiery can be attractive. What you are is the worst of both. Sorry for that... but it's what you are saying here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 02:43 AM
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You have a lot of "double speak" in here. Phrases like "and he wanted to hurt me in the way he has been hurting" and "I am prepared to listen and talk through some things". What you are really saying with those speak volumes to how you really feel. How can I control my emotions enough to let him express his feelings without going into his shell or getting even angrier with me Really? How do you let him talk? You shut up and listen to him. It's not hard. I'm doing my very best to expect nothing f…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 02:39 AM
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Blaming stuff on you is weird imo. Eh. He might be feeling out other guys, using her as an excuse. It sounds like he is insecure here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 10:53 PM
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Just start crying after sex. They will leave in no time, and you don't even have to pay for the uber.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:01 AM
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So maybe it's bc I'm getting older I crave a different type of sex. I've probably always craved it but didn't know. I want him to take me and use me for his pleasure. I've told him this, and all he does is laugh and act a little embarrassed?! Is he afraid to do anything about it? I dress and act feminine, I always go down on him before sex- but he has little enthusiasm beforehand. I can sense him holding back. First, tell him what you want. Not vague things, but specific things. Tell him to pull…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 08:43 PM
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Because it forces particular acts that she is comfortable with, and he knows it. Saying "I want you to use me" dosen't explicitly rule in or out anything. Saying "pull my hair when you fuck me from behind" is very specific. He can do that and not question whether he is going past a line it would be hard to come back from. With specifics, you can allow him to safely express himself more without fear of embarrassment.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 08:38 PM
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Eh... disagree. People have always had affairs. There has always been sexual tension in the workplace. None of this is new. What is new (and we will see if it lasts) is men having reason to actively avoid dealing with women in professional settings. It's not MGTOW, but it is giving women the cold shoulder professionally, because the risks are too high. Men will always chase after a few minutes of fun. They always have. The only thing that is backfiring here is women getting stonewalled in the pr…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 04:07 PM
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Examples of things I would find fun: going to see interesting historical sites; playing a board game; karaoke; just generally being silly, or doing something spontaneous Meh... pass on all of that. What you conspicuously haven't once said is what he likes to do for pleasure. You have said what you like to do, that he dosen't. Look at his day, and figure out what he likes to do in his free time. If you can't live with someone like that... don't. If you don't share interests with him... leave? I b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/18 03:00 PM
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I think the difference is that (in that example) you are questioning her, putting her on the defensive about her likes. That is different than asking "genuine" questions... ones where an opinion is required. Think things like... "What do you think about X?" (you should be leading with what YOU think about it, then she can agree/disagree if she wants) "What do you want to do/eat tonight?" (YOU make the decision, she can react if she wants) In your example, you aren't really asking her a question,…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:40 PM
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yes and no. "good" patients definitely get better care. One of the biggest shocks of medical school was that. How different treatment options were for good/compliant patients vs the others. It's not even doctors being mean/bad, it's just that if you have a suspicion that a patient won't be compliant with their meds, you switch to a medicine that may be less effective, but has a higher compliance rate. Maybe instead of a 10d course of moxy you do 5d of azithro. And yeah, the azithro has some resi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 02:44 PM
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Meh, take it as an opportunity to pamper him IMO. It happens maybe once a year, and if he is seeking a few days of being cared for... maybe it's more of an excuse to seek that behavior rather than him just asking for it outright. It's nice to take a break from everything every once in a while.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 05:51 PM
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This. Enthusiasm is the most important thing. I would so much rather have a partner that was completely inexperienced and enthusiastic about being there that the opposite. Be honest about what you want during sex. If you don't love something, but your partner does, do it for them, and enjoy the pleasure it brings them. Don't pretend that everything that happens in the bedroom is orgasmic for both people. Also don't forget that simple things are extremely pleasurable. A back massage / scratch is …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 04:30 AM
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No, sorry, I am not going to do that. You can ban me if you want, but I am not going to apologize for calling someone out on them blatantly lying. If that is the kind of sub you want here, then I don't want to be a part of it. Reply to me with what you chose.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 12:18 PM
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It's very misleading to say "women can't have in depth conversations and learn as much" Except he never said that. Not at all. What he said was that teaching math to girls the same way that it was taught to boys didn't work as well. You are just making up quotes that are so demonstrably untrue it's sad. Why this is upvoted is beyond me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 03:15 AM
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Why is this downvoted? It's 100% correct. In male conversation / argument, you build your argument piece by piece, making sure it's solid as you go. When you get to the end, your foundation is secure and it's impossible to argue with your conclusion. It's your "circling the idea" thing, just with a tower metaphor instead. It's also exactly what /u/girlwithabike said... every step in the argument is a challenge. Every piece of the foundation is an argument, you build it up concept by concept. You…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 03:13 AM
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Yes! It's interesting that men tend to methodically and painstakingly rehash every microscopic detail, even though how many glasses of water he consumed really doesn't matter. :) I would add that men often don't know what was relevant or not, so when they try and puzzle something out, they give the detail that they know, thinking that there might be clues there that they don't understand. The reality is that the clues that they didn't understand they never picked up on, and therefore never knew.…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 03:08 AM
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You may do when you're replaced by an automedic in a few years. Apply to any profession. Will some professions in medicine change? Sure. They do all the time. Which is why no one is going into cardiothorasic surgery anymore. Or radiography. Maybe anesthesia. But primary care doctors and ER docs aren't going away for a while. If we make a robot that can do that job, we have MUCH bigger problems as a society than me being forced into early retirement.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 07:44 PM
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i don't know where you live, but self research is extremely important in your own care. if you don't take responsibility for your health, then don't expect some doctor you see for 15 minutes every 3 months to give a fuck. in fact most new age doctors prefer their patients to advocate for themselves and discuss their concerns, more of a partnership than a reliance. that is the type of healthcare system we need. I agree completely. That isn't the guy I responded to though. That also dosen't mean t…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:55 AM
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It's not really self-aggrandizement when he is the one that will eventually see a doctor, and I am the one that still won't care. Life isn't fair. Grow up.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:50 AM
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I would NEVER do a blood draw at a doctor who specializes in TRT. You're almost guaranteed to get a low T score from them This is like saying that you should never go to an oncologist because all the patients have cancer.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 04:01 AM
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so I've started looking into plant sources of protein- they're harder to eat for sure, but I don't like the idea of having high estrogen levels You are probably going about this completely backward. Soy kills T levels. Have fun finding easy plant protein that don't have soy.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 04:00 AM
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I urge you never to seek the services of a doctor then. But you won't. You will come crawling to a doctor when you have the first medical issue, and you will be a passive aggressive bitch in the office/ER/hospital to the nurses, but when it really comes down to it you will take your medicine. Or you will die. The thing you don't understand is that doctors don't give a shit what you think about them. You are free to die in the streets if you want. We don't care. If you are honestly making a probl…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 03:55 AM
2

So what doctor overlooked what?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 03:50 AM
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Optimal for not turning testosterone into estrogen? .... 0
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 03:48 AM
3

Some women have career goals and child goals. Some only have one or the other. Lol. Tell me from a RP perspective, which is the better mate? Quit deluding yourself that men want a woman that focuses on her career. They don't. If you want to be in a sterile (or no) relationship... fine... but this subreddit really isn't for you then.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 03:20 AM
2

How in the world did you get that from my comment? YOU are the one that said it would be a "step down" for a wife to stop her career to raise her children. I am done here, welcome to ignore.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 03:19 AM
3

I am not threatened, just sad that even here (/r/RedPillWomen) people think that having a job is more important than their children. There really isn't any community left that holds traditional values outside of conservative churches, and that makes me sad for our generation, and the next.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 02:12 AM
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You aren't having a discussion here, you are just talking because you like to hear yourself talk. You found the right woman who stepped down to help raise kids No, I found the right woman because she didn't think it was a "step down" (as you call it) to raise our kids. Maybe you think that your career is more important than your children, but I am certainly glad my wife dosen't.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 01:57 AM
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A woman who has to lower her career goals to help with children because her husband isn't helping equally, probably has a husband that didn't help equally with other things in the first place. Men and women aren't equal, and it's silly to pretend (or try and force) that fact. They are good at different things. Not even mentioning that even IF they were equal, it makes no sense to not divide labor in a relationship. You claim that a man that dosen't help equally with childrearing isn't doing his …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 12:53 AM
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Dude, it's sexist to even say there are biological differences between men and women.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 05:13 PM
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I would disagree with the guy you replied to. Make your life (and the orgs you associate with) about YOU, not about your sexuality. Get involved with groups that deal with issues that you care about. Animal shelters, food banks, tutoring, whatever. Don't make your whole life about the LGBT culture / community. You are just a guy that likes other guys. That dosen't need to define you.
/r/altTRP22/10/17 04:00 AM
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I think they would. You don't bring home a plumber to mommy and daddy if they paid for your law school. You don't go out with your social peers (example: other lawyers) for drinks and bring along a tradesman. You will be embarrassed, he won't fit in, no one will have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 08:26 PM
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Eh... men and women get together because men pursue women. That is the way the human dynamic works. No one is pursuing bitchy women. Even the average joe that is lucky to get laid on a friday night isn't going after these people. He will pursue the much more average female instead. Male "rejection" is failure to pursue someone in the first place. Female rejection is saying no to attempts at pursuit.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 08:23 PM
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The ISPs won't be able to censor content They can effectively do this by blocking tor exit nodes (easy to find). So I just don't think that they could subtlety go about it without really bothering a lot of people If there is anything to be learned here, it's that people aren't bothered by anything. Hell, the activist part of reddit is screaming for more government control of ISPs, not less.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 01:54 PM
1

I am not assuming anything. I am saying that "A loss is a loss, regardless of whether you know it at the time or not." Which is why I said that and that alone. If I wanted to comment on the situation with the guy and the girl, I would have.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 03:05 AM
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Ya, because to her it isn't a loss A loss is a loss, regardless of whether you know it at the time or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 09:28 PM
1

If they "went back to work" after a break, then by definition they don't have the same experience. It's you who doesn't understand the wage gap.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 01:25 PM
1

Sure it does... every SAHM that used to have a job fuels that perceived wage gap. Every SAHM that starts working again after a number of years fuels that perceived wage gap. Women staying at home for any length of time instead of having a dedicated and continuous 50 year career is one of the major reasons women as a whole earn less than men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 02:09 AM
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I mean... I hear you. Either it's something about the way you are asking for sex that is bad, or you are just unlucky with guys. It's shocking to hear people like the person I was commenting in reply to not understand how un-feminine and unattractive their views are.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 08:39 PM
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And what if the OP dumps guys and fucks her way into a Brave New World? We are no one to judge her but to encourage her to enjoy sex What are you doing on a red pill subreddit? That attitude is about as far from RP as you can get. You are encouraging her to lower her value and to continue actions that drive men away. But two guys felt she was too strong for their liking? That is not what OP said at all. You are hardcore projecting. She said (very clearly) that two guys dumped her for not being f…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 06:10 AM
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is OP's fault for wanting to have sex? No, but she needs to learn that they are consequences for actions... and her actions have led two different guys to dump her for the same reason. Is there a way she can learn to get sex all the time and have her SO still like her? Sure, there absolutely is. But she isn't doing that now. The problem was a bruised ego If you are constantly bruising the ego of your SO, they absolutely should leave you. That is what happened, and it's absolutely her fault. OP, …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 05:42 AM
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The idea of not being feminine enough is a clear sign that the guy is a jerk and needs some sort of macho validation. This is not true at all. I would never say that to girl, but it often crosses my mind with people I meet. We should take a big step back here and re-evaluate things if OP says that 2 different guys have said or implied that. That is telling. There is a difference between someone who wants sex all the time and a girl that isn't feminine. One can exist with or without the other. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 05:15 AM
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You don't respect the guy you are with, and you don't even respect yourself ("the disrespectful, misandrist, materialistic myself again"). This is a "you" problem, and there are tons of ways to go about fixing it. TRP is about relationship advice / ways to engage in healthy, lasting relationships. That isn't what you need. You need to fix yourself first.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 02:03 PM
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Karma' is just a beta concept to make people feel better about the injustices of the world. Eh... the point was that she fucked herself here... she is worse off after this event than before. Could another rich, attractive, great guy swoop in and take cris brown's sloppy seconds? Sure, it could happen. But the odds are that she will come out of this worse than before. It's not a cosmic force of karma... it's basic consequences for actions.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 12:06 AM
1

Men want to dominate the first woman. They want to prove to her that they are better... they want to earn her respect.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 04:01 PM
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There have been several long term studies on people and what form of birth control they used. None are very effective over a long period, but NFP and / or pulling out were actually very surprisingly effective. Even if you don't use it, every woman should know when she is ovulating and should be tracking her periods... even if just for health reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 04:04 AM
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I acquire this infection and my body is re-introduced to it every time we have sex. Not the way infections work. Is there really enough research out there to definitively say that I won't start to develop abnormal/pre-cancerous cells on my cervix, or start to have outbreaks of warts? You would start down a path of changes in cervical cells that could lead to warts (which can recede) or cancer. Note that this isn't a fast process. This can happen if you keep getting infected with different strain…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 03:55 AM
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For the last time... The risk of HPV is through continual infection. Your CDC link states that. I, as a medical student am confirming that is what we are taught. HPV dosen't cause cancer once you get it. You get cancer if you are continually getting it from different people over a 10+ year period. Yes, you do have a risk of getting HPV from someone with multiple sexual partners in the past year or so. Don't sleep around. No, in a LTR, that isn't a large risk, because there aren't multiple sexual…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:52 AM
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Again... the number of partners a woman has increases her cancer risk through her having a (more or less) continual HPV infection from different men. Infections normally last ~8 months or so... so even if you are sleeping with one new guy a year, you are continuously infected. That is the risk. If you are with a guy... after 8 or so months there is no more HPV. He isn't carrying around the strains that he might have had in the past anymore that you are. His past number of sexual partners matters…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:42 AM
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You are misunderstanding what I said, or what the CDC says. Your risk of HPV increases with the number of partners you have, because you are getting HPV over and over. (in reality, it's different strains, but the effect is the same). It's like hanging out at the airport and getting the flu every year. If you marry (or LTR) a guy that slept with 100 people before you... you aren't at risk. (for recurrent HPV) He may have had recurrent HPV infections, but they have cleared... they don't stick with…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:31 AM
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I mean... I agree that people shouldn't be having casual sex with multiple partners. If you are screwing a lot of guys... yeah... don't do that. If you are worried about the HPV risk in a long term relationship... don't. That was what I assumed the original comment I responded to was about.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:20 AM
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Yes, I know, I am almost a doctor. The type of HPV has nothing to do with the length of infection. The type has to do with it's relative risk for cancer. In terms of HSV, there is no functional difference between type 1 and 2. The "cold sores" are the exact same thing as the genital sores, just in a different location. You can get HSV 1 in the genital area, or HSV 2 on your mouth. They aren't different viruses, they don't do different things. There is actually a rumor / story that the company th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:01 AM
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Not trying to downplay the risks here... but HPV clear fairly quickly. It's like the flu... it doesn't stick with you. The risk in women is getting it multiple times, each time there is a risk that it will cause cancer (the high risk strains) or just lead to inflammation that can cause other problems. HSV is, of course, a different story. But, to be fair... it's really not that big of a deal. Unless you are one of the few that has recurrent, painful outbreaks... it's not really a problem. It's a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 01:40 AM
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Don't do a LDR. You should have been on a break to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:50 AM
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There is a world of difference between "feisty" and "bitchy". One is great, the other is the worst quality (imo) in a woman. That distinction usually revolves around whether the attitude is directed against someone or something vs passively against the guy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:38 AM
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Okay, so assuming a woman hasn't gotten pregnant or an STD, does she need to worry about being a bad partner ? If you have had multiple sex partners, you probably have HPV. Hard stop. 40% of women have it. 45% of men. That leads to PID ⇒ ectopic pregnancy / spontaneous abortions, and cancer. Probably HSV as well, although that is less damaging, long term. Okay, so assuming a woman hasn't gotten pregnant or an STD, does she need to worry about being a bad partner ? I mean, those are the physical …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 02:11 AM
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HPV into cancer, Chlamydia/gonorrhea into uterine scarring causing infertility or etopic pregnancy. All three of the above plus more into inflammation causing both of the above, HSV causing a lifelong incurable infection. Single mother pregnancy and the disaster that that is for both mother and child. Abortions causing severe physiological harm, not to mention direct links to etopic pregnancy later, increased spontaneous abortion, decreased birth weight, placenta previa, etc etc etc etc
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 01:38 AM
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Oh, haha, it's funny that sometimes communication online often just "misses". Anyway, thanks, your comments have at least given me some hope here. Have a good night.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 01:07 AM
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You think that is the problem? I guess maybe white knight types? It seemed to me most of the shitty advice here was coming from women that were projecting. I would think most guys would say basically what I did... OP is a slut, the guy needs to get his shit together.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 01:00 AM
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No, it's fine. This whole thread is just a large shock to me... it's the most anti-RP thing that I have seen here, ever. Not just the OP, but the comments.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 12:54 AM
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Okay..... but that doesn't invalidate any of the points. Maybe I should have listed more to this line... You're using the arguments you'd use on men on women.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 12:42 AM
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Am I damaged? Am I less capable of being loyal? You are taking this to heart and losing your objectivity here. Look... that's fine... but don't pretend to be some random, impartial observer here. You are arguing because you don't want certain facts to be true, because it would mean something about you if they were, and that would feel bad. From a RP perspective... yes you did damage yourself by giving your body to multiple people. From a scientific perspective, yes, you are less capable of being…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 12:32 AM
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Having sex doesn't get you pregnant if you're doing the whole birth control thing right. Having sex doesn't make you fat. You missed the analogy completely. I think you even missed the fact that it is an analogy. Having sex has no physical reprocussions(sic) on your body. Completely and frighteningly incorrect, from a medical standpoint. The effects of an N count are largely in the eyes of the person who feels an N count is a bad thing Completely untrue, from a social standpoint. N count directl…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 12:27 AM
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I agree but compatibility is most important for a long term relationship, so she should find a man who doesn't find her past reprehensible. I mean... I agree, but it's not really her "past" is it? It's the way she is currently behaving. It's her present... it's who she is at this point. She explicitly says that she doesn't feel sorry for fucking her FWB, and she had sex with this other guy on the first date. You will notice that she didn't even bother giving any excuses for why she did it... the…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 08:32 PM
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Right, because this is open knowledge that everyone knows. It's not. So what? Some people don't know to wear condoms when having sex. That dosen't get them any less pregnant. Other people don't know what kinds of foods are healthy. That doesn't make them less fat. The real kicker here is that OP fucked this guy on the first date. Even she dosen't seem to know that she is lowering her value. And half the comment here seem to agree with her. Infact, objectively it doesn't make you less valuable be…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 08:05 PM
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I mean I agree that if she's incompatible with his RP values, then he should leave her. Agree... and it sounds like that will happen one way or another. I was raised in blue pill, sex positive society. A society that never told me that sex / purity was valuable to withhold and that it could be used that way. Ok, that sucks, but it still damaged your value as a partner. Not to mention that OP still is behaving that way. And everyone is surprised when a guy dosen't like that? I mean... duh. A girl…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 07:58 PM
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He fucked her on date #1 but was somehow surprised to learn that she has a sexual history that includes casual sex. I think probably more "disappointed" He hamsters away her fucking him on the first date with some kind of, "Oh, that was okay because we both knew we wanted a relationship after the first date." As though any guy who's worth a shit is ready to commit to a girl after one date. Especially with a girl that fucked him on date #1. Sure. I don't think that he is a super experienced guy. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 07:49 PM
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Why would you want to wait? Because it lowers your value when you fuck your friends and every first date that comes along. Guess who no one wants to marry? A slut.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 07:37 PM
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Why don't you just explain to him that you weren't raised to view sex as an emotional activity and you were actually conditioned by society to feel the opposite - that it is a meaningful, frivolous, pleasurable activity , not a deeply meaningful CONNECTION between two people. Jesus Christ.... what subreddit are we in? Maybe you can explain that values like this aren't objective and he was raised to think x and you were raised to think y. Exactly. OP puts out for everyone, including this guy on t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 07:32 PM
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Agree. This thread is weird with people shitting all over the guy for wanting traditional, RP standards. End of the day, this is a OP that sleeps around, and fucked a guy on the first date. Guess what? He dosen't respect her for that. He shouldn't. No one here should.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 07:28 PM
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Listen, my advice is to respect yourself and ask for respect in return. Meh. I have done things in the past that I don't respect... I am certainly not going to ask someone else to respect them. I get what you are saying, but it is often misinterpreted. he is likely insecure and projecting those insecurities on to you Probably true. Doesn't mean it's incorrect. It also dosen't mean he has to say it. It dosen't help that OP fucked him on the first date. That cheapens their relationship in his eyes…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 06:16 PM
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It's hard to save money and not spend it lavishly. If you were making 4+x what the average guy was, would you be driving a 97 corolla? The point is that he isn't spending the money that is falling into his lap... and that is hard.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:14 PM
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Aight can we just be clear, there IS a difference between TRP and hating women. Shit like "Don't believe women right this well" is what makes people think this sub is just a bunch of fat lonely virgins that LOVE to make people think they've got a good life. I think you missed the point. That guy was making fun of the other because he can't spell, in a sentence where he is bashing women for not writing well. This isn't women hating... it's making fun of someone for hating women... And it got 36x …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:11 PM
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He is frugal and not wasting money, even when he has it. That is better than 90% of people out there. I would hope that in the same situation I would do the same thing. But the odds are against that. He also displayed great stoicism and self restraint in his personal life. Those are good qualities that most people don't have. Yeah, he probably needs to find a purpose in life, but all in all he seems to have his shit together in ways that the majority (even here) do not. I have no doubt that if h…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:07 PM
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Yeah, i agree that RPW really has an idealized, romanticized version of a man that isn't really reality. It's kinda like the whole "cooking" thing. People here don't really (from what I have seen) "get" that it's not just cooking... it's handling the food for your family. That means making sure your husband is eating correctly and healthily. The food is your responsibility now, not his... you are in charge of it. And as a man... that sounds fantastic. There is nothing I would love more than not …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 12:44 AM
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All you have to do is say it. It dosen't matter if he gets mad after and tries to save face by making it an argument or whatever. If you say something important, he will mull over what you said and it will take time for him to think it through. He will be hurt. That is fine. He will get over that. If you say what he needs to hear, it will hurt him, and he will be angry and embarrassed and a bit resentful. Those things will pass, but only after he makes a change.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 12:12 AM
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I think that's why I'm just encouraging him and being compassionate. I don't want to tread the waters of being controlling. And where is that getting you? Posting online about considering leaving him. No one thinks you should control your relationship. But sometimes the ship is headed the wrong way, and you need to correct the course. Or run aground. I've just heard of so many couples where the woman thinks she "made her husband into the man he is, he should thank her" and I don't want to be tha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 11:53 PM
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I wrote in another thread he had all these big ambitions that he hit his head again many many times. He's frustrated I know. He admits he's lost his fire and maybe he just wants an easy life and to "settle". You need to be the hidden hand here. Even if you were married, people have ups and downs. You need to figure out how you can best help him through this if you are going to stay together. You should know him better than he knows himself... in that you have a unique perspective here. Help him …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 11:21 PM
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I dunno. Honestly the bigger issue is how are you going to change your fundamental attitude toward sex and boyfriends. 8 hours ago you were saying that you were "hesitant" to have sex with him, and had already promised him oral for a gift... after dating less than a month. That is a long way from remaining chaste. No one changes that dramatically in that short a time. You really need to think about this, long and hard. What might help is you actually telling him that you aren't going to have sex…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:23 PM
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What were her boundaries? ... She had clear boundaries that were the same as yours 99% of the time above the waist. We both knew where our lives were going at that point, and that we would be at different colleges. We knew we weren't going to get married, but it was nice to "have" someone in highschool to share things with, and making out and all that was a nice plus. I guess we were probably more "friends with benefits"... but actual friends. She is a lawyer now (happily married to another), an…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:09 PM
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Honestly? What you need to do is tell yourself that you absolutely aren't going to have sex again. Make that a part of your life. Make sure that whoever you date knows that. That is the change you need to make right now. You need to fundamentally accept that one of the most desirable qualities you posses is your sexuality. That is hard to accept when you have the world telling you that you are special and unique for who you are. But it's the hard truth. Just like it's a hard truth for guys that …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 03:37 PM
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I've kinda hinted to him that I might give him oral on his birthday, and I don't wanna disappoint him but I have warned him that its not definitely gonna happen. It just seems like a good time to give it to him Everything about this is wrong. Don't use sex as a gift or for favors. Don't play those shitty games where you hint at it, then deny it or not based on how you feel or how he acts. That not only is a shit-test, but it makes sex a negotiation. It's not. It's your decision yes or no. Be rea…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 03:15 PM
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I can't stand her but I feel a bit bad, morally, to cut her out of my life. Like I'M the one being too judgmental and not accepting enough. RPW supposedly being helpful and understanding women. Sounds to me like you understand her just fine. It sounds like she is just a shitty person. Nothing you said about her is positive. So remove her from your life. Do less with her and call her out when she is acting like a bitch. We emulate what we surround ourselves with. It effects us. From what we read …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 12:11 PM
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I mean, I guess you could make a "Stacy" steryotype... but it would be different than Chad, because she isn't getting more sex than anyone else. Any woman can be a whore, but it takes being a Chad to be a male whore. And again, I am not opposed to creating an easily identifiable steryotype so people new to TRP can identify characteristics in it (good or bad)... that is a very useful thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 10:41 PM
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I guess, female Chad, would be the object of resentment/envy from the cliche career-woman who openly or covertly regrets having sacrificed her personal life. So female Chad would basically be a "traditional" woman who this way is both happy and cherished by her husband, family and friends. Maybe a bit "too" traditional, and thus even more "surprisingly" happy with it, since being Chad isn't meant to be sth purely positive. I was going to say this... but it dosen't seem that that steryotype works…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 10:30 PM
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You know Chad, the guy all the TRP men are jealous of... is there a girly version? Well... I wouldn't say TRP men are jealous of Chad, just that they want to emulate him in terms of getting laid. There is zero association with Chad and his life... no one says Chad has a great job or is intelligent or interesting (all things TRP promotes)... just that he gets easy sex. In fact, there is a bit of disdain for men like Chad... guys that only get sex even they have no job or prospects. The pool boys,…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 04:36 AM
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It's not scary, it's simply reality. He is looking around... you should be as well. If everything he is doing is completely innocent... fine. Maybe if he sees you casually looking he will realize how that feels.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 01:53 PM
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The problem here isn't that he is doing these things... the problem is the drive to do them. You are nagging him by trying to change the external events. That won't help anything. The root problem is still there, and now he knows that you monitor his facebook and instagram. No good came from what you did. If what you describe is the truth, move on because he isn't satisfied with you, and dosen't respect your relationship the same way you do.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 01:38 PM
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Harsh, but the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 01:36 PM
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I told him to stop equating a timeline to a deadline and nobody expects him to 'set the date' as such. Yeah.... except that you would be lying if you said that you wouldn't do this. Because everyone would. because I can definitely see on a daily basis that he is building towards something with me. So your relationship is moving forward. What is the problem? He seems (although you didn't say) like the kind of guy that is okay with marriage... and you are working toward that, and seemingly getting…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:50 PM
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I mean... read all the replies here. There are RPW in here that admit that there are soft and hard "no"s. It's that fact that leads men to not always stop when someone says "no". Long story short, it's irritating when a woman says "no always means no, and if you don't respect that, it's a red flag", then other women (who are also RPW) say "wellllll.... there are times when no means no, and other times it's a "soft" no, or it just means not right now. "
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:30 PM
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Was it? read the follow ups. The fact that there is a soft vs hard "no" only leads to men doing exactly what she says is a deal breaker. And look... I am fine with the soft/hard no system. It's reality. But I don't like when women say that "no" always means "NO", when that is clearly not the case, as you admit.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:26 PM
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When a woman says something she dosen't mean, I am not bothering with her token resistance that is only designed to make her feel like she isn't what she is. Not to mention that there is a dangerous line there with a rape accusation. That is different than a woman who dosen't want to have sex yet / before marriage. One is respectable and moves someone up in my book tremendously. The other is a red flag. Like I said, there is a difference between a "no" and a "No". No always meant no when I said …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:41 PM
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Your opinion that my preferences are "wrong" seems pointless to me. I mean... that works both ways. We disagree. That dosen't make either of us "wrong" per se, or our opinions "pointless". I'm not the majority of women. What the majority does is irrelevant to my private life. Ok. But realize that you are in the minority. Most women want to be married and have kids. Most women want a man that is at least sometimes aggressive. Most women want a man that will pursue them. If you don't, that is abso…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:59 PM
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Eh. Show me a man who never has gotten pissed and been physical with something. You can't. The difference is that most men know the difference between taking out their anger physically on objects vs other people / animals. Secondly, "no" dosen't really mean "no" 70% of the time. It means "I want to prove that I am not a slut by putting up a token resistance". I am not advocating rape or anything... but something hysterical to watch is when you just get up and leave / walk away as soon as a woman…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:24 PM
4

One thing I would say is to try not to be overtly "motherly". Don't say that he should come to bed because it's late and he has work. If he is falling asleep, maybe you should head to bed as a reminder. If he wants to sleep out there and live in pain, that is his decision. The way you phrased it in your paragraph made it feel to me like you were telling him to do something, and then guilting him into doing what you want, not helping him. He knows it's late. He knows he has work. He knows sleepin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 08:40 PM
34

He won't learn, he will just blame her for being a bitch. And sure, she is. But it's harder to admit that he is the problem in his life.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:26 PM
7

Reverse it. Do you (or can you see yourself) picking out clothes for him? Most wives do that, to make their husbands more formal, more "adult", etc etc.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 12:53 PM
10

The first is a girl. The second is a woman. Both are attractive. Pick which one you want to be.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 12:51 PM
1

A SO can certainly let a man be a man. I view it not as changing into something, more like learning a different way of social interaction that is more natural than what someone is accustomed to. And people will do that. Any male will enjoy the gym... if he can participate in it without ridicule. The reality is that there are a TON of guys that won't start because they don't want to look like they are trying to get in shape, in case they fail. Any male in most situations wants to lead... if he ca…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 11:13 PM
1

I like how you describe a man that has great qualities (other than being well below average height) as a "beta". Average income, active lifestyle, stable job, above average views, can keep his mouth shut. but they've given up finding a woman who isn't horrible just as plenty of us girls have gotten hopeless in the search for a man who isn't horrible. They settle for bitches and become dissatisfied just as women are settling for manginas and becoming dissatisfied. This is every man over 25 that i…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 11:06 PM
5

That's really what this comes down to. Money was spent to encourage girls in engineering. Oh no. Eh, money was wasted trying to force a round peg into a square hole. Adults really want girls to go into STEM, so we spend money on it, and it leads to these absurd situations, where we are wasting money just to deprive kids from toys that they like. Girls just want to play with their dolls.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 06:58 PM
2

Eh, I feel good after a day of hard work, and most good things come from hard work. Example: I feel good after the gym. That is about as basic of a definition of "work" as you can get. But why? What benefit to you, your soul, your spirit, your loved ones, of "hard work" alone and without context? I feel better after running on a treadmill, and not for the calories I burned. I get that there is a difference between a 9-5 soul crushing job and other forms of "work"... but work itself isn't bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:14 PM
10

Besides this is a false dichotomy, I would rather die with 0 networth, having personally utilized all that I worked for. Just say it... hookers and coke.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:09 PM
14

Id rather the police thought I was a creep than get prosecuted for rape.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:37 PM
5

I think there is still value though... you can always tell her that there is a tape before it goes to trial. She might / probably won't bother with if it she knows there is evidence of her making a false rape accusation.... she will change tactics. Worth the chance either way.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:36 PM
13

I mean... at some point it's worth it just to freeze some sperm and have a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:01 AM
13

I just simply do not know what to do. Yes you do. Leave. The sooner you leave the sooner you will find someone decent. He wants to sleep with other women. He is acting on that now. What do you think will happen in 10 years when your body starts to fade? This isn't even RP advice, this is just basic relationship advice. RP advice would have been to leave when he made his first sleeping with other women demand.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 08:19 PM
17

Surveying highschoolers is a pretty stupid thing to do, they know nothing of real life. Not to mention surveys can say one thing but reality will say another. If you give a survey to someone asking whether they support some PC measurement they will say yes, even if when push comes to shove they don't agree. Just like all the polls about Trump were wrong. Men may like the idea of an extra income, but end of the day they like a supportive wife ready with dinner when they come home, not a wife that…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 03:32 AM
6

So if he is a real alcoholic, he won't change until he reaches rock bottom. IF he wants to change, and isn't completely dependent upon alcohol yet, there are options available outside of therapy. Drugs that either stop cravings or increase hangovers so that you naturally drink less. Forget about your marriage for now, you need to seriously consider the fact that you may have married an alcoholic, and that is very serious.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 06:51 AM
3

I'm a little mystified though by the suggestion that a couple who has knock-down-drag-out fights over routine things can solve the problem by allowing the person with the penis to make all the decisions. That just sounds a little unrealistic to me ... YMMV. I mean... if you want to be a captain... be one. Don't marry one. The reality is that the person with the penis is biologically driven to make decisions and lead others. Of course this isn't the "make all the decisions" as you imply... but th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:28 AM
2

Yeah, of course. When they were saying "sexy clothes" I was thinking more lingerie.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 05:16 PM
9

If men are looking at women wearing sexy clothing then we also feel compelled to go out and purchase sexy clothing to keep him interested. I mean... to be really honest here, most women shopping for sexy clothes are doing it for themselves, not for their spouse. The sexiest I have ever seen someone look has been when she was wearing a pair of my sweat pants and one of my undershirts. IMO most of the sexiness comes from the woman feeling more confident about the things she is wearing, not the thi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 03:18 AM
3

I think it's more important to be concise and interesting in texts than the timing of them. Think about it this way... (much like real conversations) always take time to think about what you are going to say... and more importantly, to think about what he just said. I re-read everything aloud before I send anything. Both what was said to me and what I said back. It's rare that I don't change something in my first draft reply. This does two things... it makes you more interesting because what you…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 08:16 AM
18

So what is the point of this post? You don't want commitment. What do you want? People online with no clue as to your relationship to tell you that the rest of your life will work out splendidly?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 12:16 AM
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What? Marriage is a commitment, a commitment so that you can devote yourself to each other. If he wants to spend the rest of his life with your and his child, he will marry you. If he dosen't want to marry you, he will probably leave you in a certain number of years... especially if he starts being much more successful. Get married so that you can devote yourself to supporting him. If you don't want to get married... what is the point of this post?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:48 PM
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