anotherBrokenMug Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Tonight's the night for a real talk		anotherBrokenMug	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 02:50 PM

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3	Men Please Help! You're not 'stuck' but, yes, you can't cut ties completely. I stayed in my first marriage for several years longer than I should have because I didn't want to put my girls through a divorce. I finally had enough and simply had to end it. It wasn't that long after the dust settled, maybe half a year, that I realized I should have done it when I first thought about it. Waiting because I wanted to protect my children did absolutely nothing to improve the situation. It only extended the turmoil and …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/21 01:02 PM
2	My soon to be ex moved out today, but not before I played the ultimate prank! Again, I think r/divorcehumor needs to be a real thing. This story is awesome.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 07:46 PM
9	How to respond to the question: why do you want to throw away 20 Years?" Why hang onto things that no longer work for you? Speaking for myself, I can't let the past 18 years dictate the next 30-40 years. We had a great time early on, raised our kids, did lots of fun things together. We had issues that we worked on. Some were resolved and some still exist. That's not who we each are any more. We've both grown into different people than we were and now the "we" doesn't necessarily work for me. I haven't found happiness in life for many years now and a large portion inv…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/21 07:56 PM
1	Good grief I agreed to all of it can we finalize now?! It could be a mental barrier for her. As long as it isn't finalized then your marriage isn't over, the divorce isn't over. Once it's finalized, she has to face her future.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/21 02:22 PM
2	Tonight's the night for a real talk Thanks for asking. We talked the other night and a lot more yesterday. It was a good talk in that it did not turn into any arguments, it did not become a blame game, and it did not get illogical. I laid out my thoughts, concerns, wishes, and needs. Of course she was taken by surprise and since then we've had more talk looking for more understanding. It began by asking her if she was happy and she quickly confirmed that she wasn't either. No surprise there. We could see it in each other over the …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/21 01:17 PM
5	Same sex divorce cased must be Hell for judges. How do they know who to screw? Is r/divorcehumor a thing? Should it be?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/21 11:19 PM
1	Tonight's the night for a real talk I think it's possibly salvageable if we both really want to work at it and sacrifice some personal needs. In the past she's been uninterested in owning her issues and when she has, her attempts were short lived. I've worked on the changes I am willing to work on but there are still several key differences that each of us value on our own but conflict with the other. I'm not sure how much I really want to salvage the marriage but I'm willing to give it another honest attempt. We've been in couple…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/21 01:51 PM
4	Tonight's the night for a real talk They say a lot of things that don't apply to me. I'm not leaving her to chase someone else.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 06:30 PM
4	Tonight's the night for a real talk That's the last thing I need right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 06:30 PM
1	Tonight's the night for a real talk Like some other person? Nothing like that at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 06:23 PM
4	Tonight's the night for a real talk Deep down I know the outcome. There's no way I could remain in this relationship and be happy with myself. But there's still a part of me that is still questioning if it's the right choice and there's still a fear tied with going through with it that's tied to some childhood trauma. I'm convinced that I need to do it. I need to convince myself to actually do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 03:12 PM
6	Financial question You need to consult an attorney. They can help you develop realistic expectations based on your state's laws.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 03:03 PM
1	Can I call the police if my ex’s mother refuses to give our daughter to me or hides / lies about her location? Probably a good idea to record any/all conversations with your wife/mil and save them somewhere. Record 100% of everything. You'll end up with more documents and files than you need but you will not miss out on something relevant becasue it seemed innocuous at the time. Record audio and video if possible but at least get things down on paper.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 12:46 PM
1	Now she wants to review her attorney’s feedback? Later down the road when/if you're questioning your decision, remember this post.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/21 02:58 PM