anotherdoggif Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working? What kind of men do you think I’m aiming for? You clearly are ignoring/not understanding what I’m pointing out here. I’m a feminine, attractive, gentle, warm woman who loves to cook, sew, and is great with kids. My daily life is full of positivity, I’m loyal, I’m surrounded by lovely friends who believe in community and friendship/family. It’s weird that you speak as though any of those descriptors above that you seem triggered by preclude my other traits or that a good man wouldn’t see them. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 01:31 AM
–	Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working? Your question and post doesn’t really make sense. I’m a “feminist” and would be considered by most to be a liberal to moderate woman. I’m bisexual but monogamous, and dearly, fiercely want to start a family and have kids (in a dream world, ASAP). I’m the oldest of six and want to have up to four myself. But it’s very simple: 1) A quality partner just simply hasn’t come my way where we care about each other, are attracted to each other, our lifestyles and goals are compatible, they are emotionall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 09:24 PM
8	What are the most common reasons women get divorced? Your comment really needs to be upvoted more. Thank you for understanding that a lot of this career driven attitude is in response to not being able to be safe and secure with a male partner. Men DO have a tendency to associate bringing in money with justifying certain behaviors that make one a bad partner. Many, many women have decided they’d rather be a working parent or 50/50 partner than have financial support be held over their head. I would LOVE to be a stay at home mom and raise my future…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 03:37 AM
1	Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for men I mean, you do have to interact with others to… meet others. Depending on your level of introversion— this can be as simple as finding a subreddit or discord for your interests then branching off into an R4R sub; or you could go to conventions for your interests. The hard truth is the only way you meet new people is going to where the people are or at least interacting with others. Maybe ask existing friends to set you up or “keep you in mind” for others? Maybe organize a game night or something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 09:47 PM
1	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? The comments seem already inclined to not believe women, even when you ask and we answer… but for OP: I wouldn’t be “mad” but it would be a huge red flag. Lying about obviously verifiable physical attributes is just a really, really weird thing to do; and it would make me wonder what else he thinks he can lie about so brazenly. It also means he probably is insecure in some way or weirdly stereotypes all women as wanting the same things. Like if we’re meeting not in person, don’t shoot yourself i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:42 PM
1	Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous? Ah I gotcha, so it IS a gender based double standard. Good luck with that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 03:22 AM
1	Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous? Do you also view men who do those things that way, do you let your male friends know that when they talk about their sexual escapades, and do you make sure to not engage socially/stay friends with men who do so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:45 AM
1	Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous? You clearly chose not to read my comment. How is simply having past relationships baggage? Are you coming into a relationship with zero dating experience? Most likely, no. So why is your romantic/sexual history not an issue to be judged by, but hers is? Take people at face value. Remember anything about someone’s past could be a lie, but the way they treat you and make you feel is what you are actually experiencing and can corroborate. Obviously if you have a confirmed and verified criminal reco…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:22 AM
2	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? Just like men, it goes in waves. I’ve gone 2 years without it then suddenly feel a wave of desire and find a regular partner (when I wasn’t in a great mindset for a relationship). For the last year or so that I’ve been open to a relationship again, my sexual activity has been in a new/unusual for me pattern of “meet someone, I’m interested in dating them, they know that and treat me well, we finally have sex and then they say they didn’t want a relationship” and then I go celibate for at least a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 11:30 PM
1	Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous? Because a committed monogamous relationship is completely separate from how many or when someone has had sex with others. Any sex before marriage is technically “promiscuity”- you don’t know the reasons why she had sex with her previous partners or how she felt, and that is private (as it should be). One’s “worth” or whether they respect loyalty and respect is not tied to their sexual history. And to address your comments about things like “sexual adventurousness” or threesome on multiple points…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 10:50 PM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay Marriage also is a security net for them as a parental team, not JUST a separation deterrent. If I die in childbirth at a young age without a will, custody could be contested by bad actor family members etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:02 PM
1	Women in no kids relationship with a man who severely outearns you: do you reciprocate his contribution in any way? When I’m with someone, I already treat them fantastically. I already enjoy cooking, surprising them, most of the things guys want to feel treated well. If he gets a promotion or bonus, I’d want to offer to treat him to celebrate— but I would do that even if he made less than me (the way my partners who have made more still celebrated my successes). I’ve always made less than my male partners because I’ve tended to (for better or worse) date a little older. With an age gap (of any gender pairing)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 10:32 PM
3	Women in no kids relationship with a man who severely outearns you: do you reciprocate his contribution in any way? That’s a completely different scenario than what OP is asking. OP is asking about two earner households. And it’s not that your wife isn’t “working”— you’ve just made it so she ONLY has to “work” on the household. Running a household- laundry, dishes, groceries, cooking, scheduling- is still work. If more men respected house work as work and viewed it as the job their wife does to make their lives easier, you’d see many more women happy to stay at home. I want to be a SAHM. I think child rearing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 10:13 PM
2	Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy women Business travelers are always the wildest and horniest of both genders. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:31 PM
1	Cardinal sin with women --am I wrong? You’re welcome, but truly the bare minimum. 🥲	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:30 PM
13	Cardinal sin with women --am I wrong? This comment here. I once dated someone who told me “you’re not supporting me right now” when I said it was appropriate security pulled him aside when he drunkenly called someone a slur for being Indian (🇮🇳) and that I called him out when he called me a c*nt and power walked ahead of me back to our hotel (left me in a risqué cosplay in the street at 3am knowing my feet hurt so I was moving slow, never looked back once to make sure no one harassed me). Love is not BLIND support. And real love wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 06:31 AM
1	Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy women That’s a very specific situation that doesn’t really apply to the general conversation being had on this thread then. You sound like you come from a worldview that would see even a casual weeknight brewery outing as “trashy” so I’m not entirely sure what you’re looking for in this thread. Best of luck though! I’m genuinely curious, you have no social connections outside of your faith that would lead to meeting a great woman who either shares your faith but drinks socially? Do you just not consid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:28 AM
2	Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy women Thank you for having a sense of humor about it, I realized my comment may have sounded blunt to the point of rudeness/personal insult. 🥲 Hey Toronto has some good spots! I’ve liked passing through. But I think in North America in general, any bar-centric meetings have a lower chance of leading to something quality/real. We just have a different culture around drinking and meeting people at bars than Europe or South America.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:23 AM
9	Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy women But also maybe look at the quality of bars and nightclubs you’re going to? Like people say, life is a mirror: if you’re constantly finding yourself at trashy places or around trashy people… maybe reflect on the common denominator (you, and the company you keep).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 10:42 PM
15	Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy women What do RP guys think bars and nightclubs are like? Some women genuinely do go to clubs just to dance with friends, or because their friends invited them out and it’s a rarity. I enjoy dancing and have liked themed nights since I was 18- I’ve literally never hooked up with someone from a nightclub. Bars often offer trivia nights, open mic nights, board games and beers. And even at dive bars you could potentially meet someone cool who just happens to be there. Focus less on discounting people bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 10:41 PM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Height is by no means the #1 thing that women look for or care about when dating. Your observations only apply to the women you observe or pursue in your social circles/geographical region. Speaking as, you know, an actual woman: I have quite literally, and in no way exaggerated, EVER heard a female friend ever bring up the height of the guy she’s seeing except as an afterthought or part of a general physical description. No woman I know has ever cared to filter for height on apps (definitely no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 04:36 AM
2	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. You guys are insane for quoting LipstickAlley. That site is mostly brain dead Gen X and Boomer type wine mom’s, aka, the most shallow and bored/inaccurate representation of female gossip. Do none of you have actual real platonic female friends? I’ve dated guys between 5’5” (my height) to 6’3”— literally not one had their height be a point of discussion at any point and in any context besides the shorter men bringing it up themselves. We don’t have mental measuring sticks. I only care about my pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 09:28 AM
1	Social proof seems much more important to women than innate/natural attraction This right here	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:40 PM
2	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? That’s still based on an assumption they will guaranteed make a woman cum. I’m not being mean- no one should ever assume they can guaranteed satisfy a brand new partner. By ejaculation- I just mean the male orgasm. No one is owed a sexual or romantic partner, and I think adopting that baseline expectation solves a lot of attitude problems around dating. What we do owe to each other is politeness and respect, when reciprocated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 08:31 PM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? This right here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 01:29 PM
–	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I never said they check all the same boxes. But for men who only care about ejaculating or view women as holes (most of the men using PUA content or posting here)- masturbation should fill that need for them. If you are not ready for someone else’s feelings or to invest in an interpersonal dynamic, you should just do it solo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 01:29 PM
5	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I have. My last two partners were 13 and 15 years older than me. 22F and 34 turning 35M when we dated (for three years, he’s the one who cheated while asking about engagement rings)— and 26F with 41M was my most recent relationship. We dated for a year and I broke up with him last June.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 03:12 AM
2	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Never from a bar. But think what you want. 🤷‍♀️ No one ever said he needed to put a ring on it: it’s called, don’t woo someone if you know they want more, and communicate like an adult rather than say you want another date. Don’t the men on here constantly complain about women ghosting or not communicating clearly? So it’s okay for men to do and that makes him a Chad? Guys like you make women like me skeptical and eventually stop agreeing to dates at all. He’s low effort for not communicating, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 01:14 AM
6	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? When I’ve had casual sex, it’s with someone where there is potential for more. Like I’ve said in another comment- I don’t have sex with someone who I wouldn’t enjoy seeing again and spending time with romantically. Are you kidding me? Women absolutely have active sex drives, not just reactive ones. 🙄 Women don’t get humiliated or rejected? Seriously? I’ve gotten rejected or embarrassed myself while shooting for someone before. It’s called not getting hung up on it or taking it personally. Neithe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 01:07 AM
6	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Yes, you, a man, speak for all women. Classic reddit material. You’re absolutely trolling now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:49 AM
6	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? So you’re pursuing women who want relationships for sex, just because you can, then don’t understand why you’re being rejected or why you’re not happy single? Sex is not the most important thing for women. Literally every post on here (and a majority of comments on this post specifically) reinforce that it’s the only thing of value for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:22 AM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Yep! Identify your needs then identify ways to meet them yourself. Thinking another person will solve all your problems and meet your needs for you- a good partner should be a bonus, not a life raft.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 11:58 PM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Nothing of what you’re saying makes sense. Plenty of “unattractive” women are also happy and content single. I was also celibate for most of the last year+. This assumption that high sex drive means you have to be constantly having sex is wild. Masturbation, toys, porn all exist. If all that’s missing from your life is sex, stop acting like you want a relationship or care about being single or not. Men have so many advanced sex toy options now, and there’s a whole wide world of sex workers and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 11:57 PM
8	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? 1) Or why don’t you try pursuing people who mirror your energy? Or stop thinking good first dates have to be a huge affair? My favorite kind of first date is usually a coffee date and a walk. I only “expect” more now because a lot of guys have taken advantage of that to mean they don’t need to put it effort. Also, are you not open to women suggesting the plans? My last good date, I was the one who suggested a local art museum, on their free weekend day. That part went well so he was the one who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 11:49 PM
0	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Gotcha!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 11:40 PM
10	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? You probably missed my other replies where I clarify it’s not as fulfilling and using sex toys is safer emotionally/physically. Men can scratch that itch with sex toys or sex workers, they just don’t want to. This is why horny guys will lie to lock a woman down for a relationship then waste her time when she wants real potential but they just want sex on demand (which having a girlfriend does not guarantee). I’m honestly a strong advocate for masturbating before a date- for both genders. You’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 11:40 PM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I’m not mad men are thirsty- I’m annoyed they’re directing their thirst at me when they know I don’t want what they do. Thirsty? Great, go pay for an OnlyFans subscription, watch porn, hire sex workers. Don’t waste my time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 09:55 PM
6	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I’m glad it’s resonated with people!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:52 PM
35	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Exactly! I see so many male friends stick it out with or complain about their female partner and it just doesn’t make sense. So you bought her a laptop, take her out to dinner, then complain about how controlling she is and how she won’t do anything to improve herself? At the risk of sounding “NLOG” (ugh): sometimes when I’m in a bad mood, it’s easy to be very jealous and “I’m nice, sweet, loyal, good in bed, pretty, funny, a good cook, have a career of my own, feminine and want kids— so where a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 07:39 PM
10	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? If anything, dating is harder because I have so many people willing to lie about what they want just to get a chance. It’s really hard to figure out if someone genuinely likes me or just my body. You have no idea how heartbreaking that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 07:34 PM
12	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? We could dive down into this often repeated notion by RP men together, but you’re clearly not going to care about considering another perspective. I don’t get attention I want, and I don’t get opportunities for things I actually want. Men offering meaningless sex means absolutely nothing to me. Men who I don’t want to date wanting to date me also means nothing. (And it doesn’t mean they’re not good looking either.) I guarantee you also have opportunities and attention in your life, but you don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 07:33 PM
20	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Thank you! I think whether a woman settles or not just depends on what part of not being single matters more to them. I can’t imagine sharing a home with someone I’m less than passionate about, but to other women, “having a man” (ANY man) and a ring is a status symbol rather than about love. Those women will always settle because any man is just being shoved into her fantasy life. My fantasy life always centers around the person I’m dating or want to date, and our shared goals and dreams. To me,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 07:12 PM
6	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I’ve been single since last June (over a year) and have only had two new sexual partners IRL. I’ve chatted with some people online, hoping it would lead to more, this alt was originally an R4R alt for me. Only been disappointed by guys just hoping for nudes. 🥴 Actually- The more recent one was a first date with someone I met through mutual friends, had “talked” for ~2 months, and I made a rookie move: let myself get carried away by optimism and the romance and sleep with him because I thought it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 07:05 PM
15	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Thank you, I try to keep it real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:19 PM
146	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I think a lot of this comes down to how you’re defining happiness and if you only count what is visible to others. I think your title is the best way to phrase it: we’re simply “less bothered” by being single, NOT “more happy” about it the way some comments have said. I’m not “happy” being single- but I’m content with my life, and I’m not desperate to change my relationship status. Keeping higher standards means accepting I may be single a while. I’m 27F, relatively attractive by the standards P…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 05:55 PM
3	ComicCon has a sex worker problem Also sorry that spiraled into a rant- this particular subject is super sensitive to me because I definitely noticed the difference in how card shops and nerd spaces treat me when I show up in jeans and a Star Wars T-shirt versus a cute dress and makeup- and I haaaaaate it. :-(	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:23 PM
3	ComicCon has a sex worker problem I appreciate the reply. Basically all conventions get this way after dark- these are all people who want to meet other people who share their niche interests… plus alcohol. Basically all cosplayers know to keep it family friendly-ish before dark— keep tits and bits covered. I’ve genuinely never seen it be an issue and most parents bringing kids either have kids too young to remember anything, or old enough to have discussions around consent and bodily autonomy. I’ve been in groups where we have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:18 PM
9	ComicCon has a sex worker problem Your whole post stems from a few assumptions: 1) All women dressed revealingly at conventions want male attention. (Lesbians and women who are comfortable in their bodies apparently don’t exist to you?) - Further boiled down to the age old trope of “women dressed revealing are asking for it.” 2) All women who dress revealing must have an OF or do porn, that you must find to “catch” them. 3) Women with OF make every moment of their life about advertising it- even though you admit you had to go ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:31 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love It hasn’t changed anything amongst most ordinary people. Hot people have always wanted to be with other hot people or rich ones, since the dawn of time we’ve put a price on attractiveness. All that’s changed is now a person can reject someone else “for their looks” before the first date or meeting in person and save everyone time/emotions invested. That’s a win. The Internet makes it possible to meet people you’d never have known existed and who share your hobbies, it’s great! Physical attractio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 03:05 PM
12	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Stop acting like social media has totally ruined or changed people. If you stay self aware that 90% of what you see on social media is curated and you stay focused on getting to know someone’s personality, you’ll be fine. And don’t act like people weren’t shallow and didn’t care about looks before social media either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 02:32 PM
5	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Okay but you want a female partner who is attractive/looks good, right? Because hygiene, health, skincare, makeup— all take money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 02:18 AM
12	What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him? If a man said when we first met or started dating, long before we were ever in a relationship that when he has kids, he would like a paternity test done on them— I would be willing to consider it, and at least not personally offended. It WOULD still make me question if I wanted to date someone so paranoid and untrusting, though. But if you wait a whole relationship then ask your wife while pregnant? There IS no other message to that than to insult your wife. If you say that, you’re blowing up th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 11:21 AM
3	Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all? Jokes on him. Most immigrant women I know definitely upgrade once they learn English and settle here. Even by his gross logic, as other redditors have pointed out, a woman looking to leave her home culture/country is likely because she wants to emulate the “western women” he despises. There are loads of culturally conservative women in the US who think it’s their “duty” to raise kids, cook, clean. Even liberal women who care about being a SAHM and raising their kids with care (like myself). OP i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 05:46 AM
6	Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all? I’m a white Latina in the US and guys from DR are some of the most attractive Latino men, OP has no idea what he’s talking about past weird racial talking points. And I don’t even know why he’s acting like men in other countries are starving? Can’t perform sexually? He’s literally never heard of the Latin lover trope, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:36 PM
8	Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all? There are “western women” who want to be SAHM’s, you’re just outing yourself as someone who wants a cooking/cleaning SAHM without providing anything of real value in return- either you don’t make enough to support a family comfortably in the US, you don’t respect your partner or what it takes to run a household and raise kids, or you’re unattractive enough in either face or personality that money won’t cut it. Like if you want an American SAHM wife, there are women who want it too- but you need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:32 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? Sorry, that was meant in a complimentary way! Like “don’t sell yourself short.” I’d consider the distinction you make between “chubby” and “average” the same as the difference in how men react to a woman calling herself “fat” versus “curvy.” The average man IS a little chubby, so my advice is to just describe your body type as “average” and talk more about how active you are. :-)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:14 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? Then why even describe as chubby? You sound more dad bod territory to me. It’s great to mention you actively work out and care about your fitness, though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:09 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? What part of your appearance do you think it is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:00 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? I’m going to guess the not smoking weed/not clubbing holds you back? That’s usually the one that kills it between people I’ve met. I don’t smoke weed, no judgement, but I obviously don’t want a partner smoking it around me either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 02:55 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? Looking for a wife? LOL. You sound great, like the type of guy I wish was single in my area /and/ wants kids. Why is wanting 2-3 kids a “caveat” to you? That’s a great number (realistic, sustainable) and it’s awesome you’re upfront about what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 02:53 PM
2	No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men. I think SMV is fine when trying to be realistic with yourself or pinpoint/verbalize what is valuable in a partner to you. The mistake I see by a lot of men here is in thinking what you look for in a partner is what other people value in a partner, or what you care about for yourself is what other people look for in you. Great example: a lot of men here who can’t understand really fit, attractive, smart men with good jobs who they consider “high value” getting with thicker women/“fat” women. Or v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 01:26 PM
4	No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men. Have you- hear me out- considered developing meaningful friendships? There is a middle ground between being alone and expecting one romantic partner to fulfill all your emotional needs. There’s also no guarantee people will settle down younger- just more incentive to stay single longer, try things out, and be sure of who you’re deciding to get married to. Monogamy doesn’t mean “forced marriage to the first person you sleep with.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 05:50 PM
5	No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men. You also just assume people only settle down with other people as “objectively attractive as them” and completely disregard that most real relationships are based on more than looks. I’ve seriously dated both men considered “below” my league and way out of my league (by others, not by me). So the women you think of as attainable attractive or who “you belong with” could still be in relationships with men you think should be aiming higher. Your reply still ascribes to this weird “market value” co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 05:46 PM
2	If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual? The two are absolutely relevant. You don’t need to have sex every day of when you do have it, it’s satisfying. Women with high sex drives (like myself) are fine with longer periods between sex because we’re actually being satisfied. Straight men’s sex drives affect them differently, and thus their sex life in their relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:31 PM
1	If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/ https://www.reuters.com/article/us-orgasm-rates/after-men-lesbians-report-the-most-orgasms-during-sex-idUSKBN0GP1CM20140825 https://www.joannebagshaw.com/blog/what-can-lesbian-relationships-teach-straight-couples Quality over quantity my dude. That’s part of the problem with straight men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:29 PM
4	If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual? Lesbian couples statistically have the most orgasms and most satisfying sex, across the board, what are you on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:25 PM
17	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? This right here. Men say they want a SAHM and lots of kids but when you ask realistic questions about “can you financially support that?” it turns into “she’s a gold digger.” No, more like, I can’t afford to stop working full time to create dependents if they won’t be safe and secure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 03:27 PM
3	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? None of what you’ve described is RP. I’m a liberal, pro-choice, sex positive woman but also value someday being the one to raise my kids at home, just want a little home with a partner who loves me, financial stability, a dog or two running around. The biggest delusion RP’s seem to have is thinking that no modern liberal women want kids and a home life? When we do- we just want to have it by choice, and let other women live other lives without thinking only one way is best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 06:19 AM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? I’m not telling OP to simply wait. I’m telling him just don’t get it in his head that “no women do this.” If he’s friendly, strikes up conversation, leaves himself open to it, it’s very likely to happen. Or just put himself out there on dating apps, plenty of women love the shy and sensitive or less aggressive men. Not going to even touch your illogical “women don’t approach men that they don’t deem to be better than them.” Great example in real-time of the users on this subreddit who clearly do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 07:52 PM
1	At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man? Most women will not care. If it comes up: just be upfront in a straightforward way, don’t overplay any emotion or some women might worry you’re lying about it to get away with sexual behavior that isn’t cool (“breaking” a condom etc). The real red flag here is not virginity, it’s the falling women “females” and “learning about them on the Internet.” Big no. Don’t let the Internet influence your idea of what your peers are like or what you think they’re doing. I didn’t lose my virginity with a gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:05 PM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? Again, false. I’m a relatively attractive women and I’ve dated quieter, shorter, larger men than me. I’ve initiated the interest in them too (sometimes guys have not realized I was hitting on them because they just assumed I wouldn’t be interested). But if you’re so focused on looks- I bet you’ve been approached by women, they just weren’t visually what you wanted or think you “deserve” or whatever. Fix your outlook and your personality and you’ll do better than the attractive guys with shitty p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 04:55 PM
3	What is the appeal of submission in women? You’re not doomed. Remember this subreddit and thread are like .01% of people in the real world. Go outside, you’ll be fine. Plenty of normal women asking men out these days. Don’t let yourself shrink into believing Reddit is life. The guys commenting here are always going to have the most negative view of life, they’re only here complaining because they’re dissatisfied with their life. It doesn’t reflect on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 04:29 PM
2	the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap Condoms do not fail often enough to justify not using them at all. The science is pretty settled in ways to prevent a pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 09:20 PM
1	the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap No, we couldn’t. Everyone is allowed their choice. Men have the choice to wear condoms. Men also do not have to be physically tied to any pregnancy and have the option of things as drastic as leaving the country/moving away/giving women they date entirely fake names etc and never being tracked down. Women have the right to choose an abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 09:19 PM
2	the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap Ok and… if you don’t want to risk a baby, don’t have unprotected sex? Don’t have sex with that woman then? Or do you conveniently have NO choice here? Just say no. Don’t have sex. Close your legs. Find a partner who is responsible. And if her complaint is she has a latex allergy, just go spend a few extra dollars for her comfort. This isn’t rocket science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 09:11 PM
2	the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap No, they’re “forcing” men to help support a child they were 50% responsible for creating. They’re not forcing men to be in these kids’ lives. Wear a condom if you’re so worried. Woops, forgot it doesn’t “feel the same.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 04:24 PM
0	the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap What is red pill doing on a purple pill sub? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 04:23 PM
–	Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? That is truly horrific! At this point I tell interested men “hey I want kids, and I want to be a SAHM because I don’t believe in paying someone else to raise my kids during their formative years.” They don’t need to know that I don’t want to be a SAHM for life or anything. The reactions I get to that have been great at weeding out red flags very early on. I’m just looking for a normal “cool, whatever you want to do, we can discuss” to reactions that tell me that guy does NOT understand the inher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 03:34 PM
1	What the fuck is masculinity There’s no easy answer to this. I’ve read plenty of the books for men trying to give my younger brothers advice, be available to them (especially since my dad isn’t the greatest role model of the type of man they want to be). Focus less on the masculinity and just what type of person you want to be: Following the golden rule “treat others as you would like to be treated” (within reason) is a good starting point. Do you want to be a man who makes people feel safe and warm? Or do you want to intim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:59 PM
1	A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticed No heroes. No fiction. We just like real, truly genuine nice guys who appreciate what we give them and reciprocate our affections. I’m a relatively attractive women and intelligent, I always have many prospective partners of quality. PPD wouldn’t get it if they saw people I’ve dated- they’re either older (not sugar daddies), I’ve dated someone much shorter than me, dad bods. Women really are NOT going after “the biggest dick, most abs, most money”- we’re going after people who we can trust, feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:45 PM
–	Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? This right here. My dad had five children when he had my mom under lock and key as a SAHM and didn’t “believe” in protection as a Catholic… but the minute she woke up to the control and financial abuse and left, he tried to give her the bare minimum of his money- didn’t pay child support, used MY college fund savings to pay her alimony instead of out of his pocket to punish me for “choosing” her (I was 13/14). This is while he started building a real estate portfolio and taking my brothers on ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:39 PM
–	Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? First trimester is WAY too short a timeline. There are plenty of women who may not have even realized they’re pregnant till between 6-11 weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:37 PM
0	A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticed They/we really do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 07:27 AM
1	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think I never said I don’t care? I said YOU men in the comments are showing us you don’t care about women as a whole unless one specific one provides an immediate benefit to you, an individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 08:58 PM
-1	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think I’ve got four younger brothers idolized by my parents including one who killed himself. You like to think you’re making a point- but do not mistake women not caring about you for society not caring about men. I’m very empathetic to the difficulties of navigating being masculine in a world that is now examining the root of what it means to be a man, what makes masculinity toxic, modern fatherhood and how to be a good person… but those aren’t the questions the men in this thread are asking themsel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 08:58 PM
1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money So I’m curious: you don’t consider children children or sunning a household work? So you’re the man misogynist who doesn’t respect respond’s work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 09:24 AM
-1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money I don’t expect a billionaire partner- but if men want to say they want a SAHM partner… they need to be able to afford it, otherwise there is no incentive for me to otherwise just stay single until I can afford being a single mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 06:13 AM
0	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money You’re not making the point you think you are. I’m a proud feminist; and most feminists respect each woman’s decision to CHOOSE what is best for their family. The attitudes I am discussing are not from other women; it is from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 06:12 AM
3	Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy? This mindset is highly visible to any high value woman you pursue, and she will quickly drop you for being insecure, needy, and fake. We can tell when you are going through the motions to just try and get in our pants.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 11:52 PM
-1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money This post sums up so many things perfectly. And dear god, SO many men these days who will openly say they want kids and it’s important, but when you say “ok well I want to stay home and personally raise our kids” there’s a shocked pikachu face meme reaction. Why would I want to birth kids just to go back to an office and use most of my paycheck to pay someone else who gets to enjoy all of my kids’ big moments and shape them as a person? It’s stupid. But if you openly admit you want to be a SAHM …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 11:51 PM
1	Do you consider women who use sex appeal for gain as predatory or disgusting? You posted a Fox News link. Not an actual study source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 09:31 PM
3	Do you consider women who use sex appeal for gain as predatory or disgusting? Right? No meal is worth putting up with someone I don’t like or don’t know. It would genuinely ruin my ability to enjoy the meal having to make small talk or fake listening/laughing. 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 03:02 PM
4	Do you consider women who use sex appeal for gain as predatory or disgusting? I’ve “seen studies” that you can’t provide. Literally no woman I know has done this (or admitted to this). I specifically plan first dates to either be just for coffee or casual drinks- or something that’s not a sit down dinner so: 1) he can’t pay for dinner to try to pressure me and 2) either of us doesn’t feel obligated to sit and finish a meal if we’re not interested. If a guy insists on dinner, I’ve noticed usually they’re the type to get offended when I insist to the server to split the tab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 01:37 PM