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Yeah now you mention it most times the girl implied or proposed sex. Sometimes I’d be the one to do it but I’d have to be insanely confident or have been drinking tbh lol
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:03 PM
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No comment im holding back. But seriously your 11th grade analysis on equality is so annoying. Please try that bullshit on a 20 year old girl who hasn’t graduated yet
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:40 PM
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I’ll explain one last time. You had a knee jerk reaction and thought I was arguing about him being a hypocrite, I wasn’t I’m saying that there’s nothing wrong with his standards if both parties agree.. I said he will have a hard time finding somebody with that attitude BUT there’s nothing inherently wrong with it.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:37 PM
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He’s giving his view though, I’ve already mentioned it’s unlikely he’ll find someone like that BUT my beef is with you and others here having an overly emotional reaction to that aspect without actually answering his questions
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:36 PM
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Oh my. This is the cringiest thing I’ve read in my life. I’m not arguing with somebody who just makes up bullshit on the spot. Please stop following my posts.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:31 PM
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No it is not, this isn’t an equality issue.. nobody is saying women aren’t equal you’re just projecting that. The issue is that OP wants something while not being able to reciprocate that same “value” (for lack of better word. What I’m saying is that if he finds somebody who loves him and he loves her then what’s the issue?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:09 PM
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Yeah you are confused mate, you just had a knee jerk reaction to my comment and the OPs. I never once said the op was a good guy, I don’t give a shit how good or bad he is I’m just saying he’s allowed to want what he wants.. and if he finds a woman who likes him what’s wrong with two consenting adults being together? This doesn’t require him to have to want a partner with high sex partners.. it would be MORE REALISTIC (keyword) if he did though, but I’m not arguing that I’m arguing that if he fi…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:06 PM
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Yeah but we aren’t asking about likelihood and you know that which is why you had to make up the bullshit conditions. I am saying that it’s ok if he wants a partner with a low sex count, I even said he’s hypocritical and it’s unlikely but there’s nothing wrong with it if they’re 2 consenting adults. I feel like you had to add your 2 cents in because you felt hurt by his post somehow
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:56 PM
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are you one of those white guys who date asian girls because you think they're easier to control? It's kinda cringe tbh. Nothing wrong with interracial dating, but you've made it evident that you're into asian girls for that specific reason. I don't think they have high standards, they seem to date any middle class white guy because that's rich compared to where they're from.
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah fair point, but I'm asking why he's taking it so hard?
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah, you're entitled to your preferences. Don't worry about the loser responses you're getting here. I'm not saying your preferences are amazing or realistic but I'm just saying, if you find a girl who's happy with you and you're happy with her, then that's all that matters.. You're not forcing anybody to do anything, you're not even projecting anything on them. It's the same if people like you because you're tall or handsome, it doesn't make them hypocritical if they're ugly. It just means tha…
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:15 PM
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The logic is wrong though. he doesn't have to hold himself up to having low amount of partners, he just has hold himself up on having the desired amount of partners for the girl he wants? If two consenting adults dont mind each others pasts, what's it to you?
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:13 PM
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dude, relax. he's allowed to have a preference? He's not forcing anybody to do anything either? If a woman likes him despite his past, and he likes her a girl with low sexual experience what's the big fuss? Why should we care about your feelings when you're not even apart of the equation?
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:12 PM
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A good suggestion is to pick up something else fitness related, mma, rugby, basketball etc. all great way to meet people. REMEMBER: it’s not just about meeting women, it’s also about meeting awesome men who can get you to parties or circles where there are women.
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:28 PM
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i haven't had much experience with this, only times it's worked for me was when the girl was insanely attracted to me or i was just super confident. what works more is not so much discussing it because it can sometimes make it weird or whatever, sometimes its better to just hang with her have a few drinks or whatever and be smooth about getting her back to yours.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:15 AM
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Nice! You’ve got down 80% of the “game” which is improving yourself beforehand and not overanalysing the small 1 percenters. Now, for myself I’m quite tall so yeah i admit that’s a huge advantage, I like to keep up with fashion and dress in style but add a couple of things that are the “next wave” twist to my outfit. I put a lot of effort into shaving, haircut and outfit before going out. I try to stand up tall and smile a lot too. A big thing is to be out with a group of happy guys enjoying the…
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:34 AM
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when people ask me how do I pull or talk to girls, the honest truth is that the work you put into that is done well before you even think about going out to a bar. In my humble opinion, I like to think that you don't just "show up" to a bar and expect things. You need to work on yourself way before you're at the bar, you need to hit the gym, you need hobbies, more importantly, PASSIONS, working toward a great career or study path, have worked on eliminating or competing with that negative voice …
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:40 AM
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i woud advise against pressuring her to give you a yes or no, lol. If she's too "nice" to say no then like it's a 80% chance she rejected you.. but you have a tiny chance to redeem this if you act cool and just say something like "well, anyway I'm interested in getting to know you on another level so I'll give you time to think it through." and just don't talk to her again until she answers lol. Like it's a kinda shitty situation, you may have wanted to go romantic but maybe waited a little too …
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:16 AM
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im all for direct communication, but to be fair we don't know if her "awww" is a maturity issue, it could just be that OP is a big aggressive and she's scared of the backlash or awkwardness. Like sure, a great person will take that backlash or awkwardness on the chin, but you can't really blame someone fully for not wanting to shoot somebody else down. (Sorry OP i don't mean offense by this in anyway just covering all bases)
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:14 AM
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Wow, okay. They reject you because they’re in relationships. You can find someone attractive and not suck their dick, it’s not the wildest concept to understand. I wouldn’t get too salty about it though, just don’t go for chicks in relationships, been there with girls I didn’t know were in relationships, they are the most damaged people you’ll ever be around, it’s almost depressing.. they know they fucked up and now they expect you to handle that type of baggage. I know you’ll hit me with the “Y…
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah people think I’m weird cos I’m 28 without an Insta. Like I have Facebook I just don’t update every bit of my life on it, like I don’t have a presence. I hate it because girls are prettier online than they are in person, and I constantly get that I’m better looking in person than I am online. I would rather undersell and overdeliver than a lot of these girls who over sell and under deliver, nothing wrong with it but it shows me who they are plus I do get called weird for having no Insta alth…
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah definitley play it out and act chill you can’t really know until you get to date her properly
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:25 PM
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I see my friend at uni talk to people like this it’s amazing he gives off such warm vibes I would love to be like that
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:24 PM
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Cool I hope to make friends on campus this way.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:02 PM
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Ok gotcha just wanted to rule that possibility out. This is a weird situation, but it was probably a Hail Mary to keep you from going elsewhere, just wait it out till she responds then act all normal again until it’s time to ask her out or be asked out
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:02 PM
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do you find yourself being "old" at 29 in a college campus? Asking for a friend. Also, what was your excuse to talk to these women? I would like to make friends (not just women) and think i'd benefit by being able to cold approach people, especially the ones in my class.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:44 PM
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the whole wave/wink thing is my trick hahaha. It's low risk but quickly gagues interest. The thing where women walk near you and exist is a pretty good one too, it's not as high percentage as a girl staring at you or straight up talking to you. I've had women straight up come and approach me on multiple occasions but that's all prep-work.. by prep work i mean getting into a gym and working on your life type shit. Have had women ask me for a lighter or something like that or just find an excuse t…
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:13 PM
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is she a catfish?
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:55 PM
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being a womaniser is the same thing as just being attractive except you don't have regard for the women you date. naturally, your next question will be how to be attractive: gym, career, study, hobbies and passions. Focus on those things and you'll be at LEAST 90% of the way there, then do some personal fine tuning. Now for my personal opinion, being a womaniser is apart of being young and immature. Once you grow up you realise what you're doing is bad and wish you could take it all back. I had …
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:09 PM
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Least overthinking redditor
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:47 AM
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I have had a similar situation when younger. So obviously attraction is already taken care of, I assume you can attract the woman you want and you’re in conversation with her. The key is to connect on such a deep level with her she can’t ignore you. That doesn’t mean being pretentious and having to name every single poet or classical musician to ever live, it means being able to tune into her emotions and make her feel like you’re really listening to her and you’re interested in what she’s sayin…
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:39 AM
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I think these are the worst strategies in history, for a multitude of reasons. But let’s just all relax, op is wanting a theoretical discussion. If we disagree let’s just calmly explain why he’s wrong (which we can easily do) rather than getting all pissy about it lol.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:20 PM
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I mean I think it’s such a loser idea, but he did say he doesn’t approve of the ideas and only wanted a theoretical discussion. Instead of having a knee jerk emotional reaction why don’t we just entertain his idea as a fun discussion, and if it’s too much to do so, why not just ignore the thread? Lol
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:19 PM
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Competence, fuck yes. I say this as a guy who tries to be great at everything I do. This doesn't mean saying long names makes you sexy, it just means approaching something difficult and overcoming it is innately an attractive trait. Think about it, what's the difference between a weird, virgin basement dwelling neckbeard versus a successful, attractive positive and wealthy man? Its competence. The latter was competent enough to cultivate social skills, work toward a great job/education, overcome…
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:55 AM
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are these the cringelords who tried to imply that they fucked around with mikhayla Peterson (who is married). They got their bitch asses blown the fuck out by aba and preach. Also, they argue with bimbo women so of course they're gonna win some arguments.. this is my analysis by a person who hasn't watched a single one of their videos btw. To answer your question no, the definition of cheating doesn't change because you're high value. It just makes it easier to cheat and that people let you off …
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:17 PM
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My woman stays in love with me because I don’t put her on a pedestal man. I love her to death and I will die for her, but it’s like what Patrice O’Neil said, a woman will wanna kill you on Friday and then love you on Monday. No sane person can possibly keep up with those hyper-emotional moods. You just do you, make sure you got goals and don’t keep bowing down to her every irrelevant mood change and she will respect you as a man who can handle her. Also, she will be excited with you because you’…
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:20 AM
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It’s bad if OP wants a relationship. If you’re ok with fwb then she’s probably good. Just do not catch feelings bro she’s for the streets lol
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:32 PM
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“Well of course you were” “Great, because that’s the closest you’re gonna get”
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:31 PM
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I constantly say this to people here too: get into a gym/sport work hard at your job/studies be the best you can be have dreams and goals and work toward them This is the bulk of it, style, fashion, verbal cues etc. that’s all the fancy fluff stuff which can be attained with experience. That’s literally it guys, go wild.
/r/seduction23/03/22 11:33 AM
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Lmfao, did you read the post? She’s the type of woman who gets drunk and has sex with her friends. Nvm.. just went to that sub you posted. Explains why you’d condone that shit. Yuck
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:24 AM
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Run, king. She’s a hoe. Not saying people can’t change. But it sounds like she’s still involved in that lifestyle. Sick of this notion that men should be blind to fair judgement. “She cheated on me 27 times but I just feel like it’s a patriarchal type of oppression to judge her and I shouldn’t let my insecurities..” Bro seriously? Just because you/people use weird new age words to confuse you it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t logically assess the situation.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:18 AM
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No. We don’t want to reward average. We want to reward success. This isn’t to say that average men or “low value” men are worthless, it just means that you aren’t entitled to pussy because you were born. Why go against biology and just accept that people want great men/women
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:07 PM
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I mean he pretty much acknowledged everything you said in his OP.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:22 AM
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Glad im not the only one who embarassed himself lol.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:09 PM
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i know you probably are embarassed a little. been there done that man. imo though although i wouldn't recommend it because i know how dumb it feels sometimes the girl may have just enjoyed the attention and knows u were drunk so maybe shes excited about your "true" feelings for her. Just try to brush it off if shes still texting shes still interested or at least is curious lol.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:08 PM
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first, work on yourself second, put yourself out there
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:30 AM
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You work your ass off. You work hard in the gym you work hard at your job you work hard in your studies and you climb as high as you can and you follow your dreams. After a while you are forced to respect yourself because of how far you came. Source: used to be a much bigger loser and am respecting myself becuase of the work I put in
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:10 PM
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Exactly my point. It's just part of the social dynamic we have as humans. Like I'm not saying it's a pass or fail system, or that you purposely are trying to analyse data from a man but im saying there's alot you can learn from playing and messing with somebody. It's the same when us men bust our best friends balls, it means we feel comfortable with them and want to see how they react. Same with "shit tests" its just a womans version of banter but you can also see how a guy reacts and gague whet…
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:23 PM
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oh jeez lmao. sorry i mistook you for somebody who had intelligence. The old lose the argument and chuck insults routine huh xD
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:56 PM
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So as long as your an observer it means your opinion is correct and isn't influenced by anything else? For reference if I'm "invested" in this situation wouldn't that mean I have a more detailed analysis of what happened? In any case just peep the comment chain, you'll LITERALLY see that he replied to ME therefore he's the one who bothered me. So yeah, your advice is correct and I have stopped replying. But again, I'm just saying that you've misundertsood the situation by thinking I bothered HIM…
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:37 PM
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they're the one who replied to me first? It's them who should leave me alone. But yeah i've definitley stopped replying to them anyway, but I just think you have misjudged the situation.
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:27 PM
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yes you are, you're moving off to a different tangent one I don't give a shit about. We were talking about shit testing now you're just making this about yourself.
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:43 PM
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Yes. It’s basically female to male banter. Why are we doomed? Because we socialise in a way that doesn’t personally suit you? Get tf over yourself
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:36 PM
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You’re just being purposely disruptive now. Jog on
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:34 PM
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Bahahahahaha no wonder why you hate shit tests look at how emotional you are over a comment mate. No wonder why you get mindfucked by women.. look at how unstable you are. Nobody said to neg a woman after a shit test, we’re saying to respond with something that lets people know you don’t take the comments to heart I didn’t fall for anything, I don’t follow pua shit or even fully agree with OP that was my own explanation from my own experiences Well maybe not you, but people here who bitch and mo…
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:22 PM
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Then you have challenges beyond the scope of this thread
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:16 PM
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Then that’s a very very big issue if you’re a male. A bunch of red flags there (I don’t say that to be mean btw)
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:30 AM
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Exactly. It’s like people here on both sides (pua and anti-pua) have never been in a social situation before. Shit tests, put it this way: when you bust ur male friends balls as a bonding experience. It’s like when a female does it she does it to extract information like how you react to social cues or situations. If she goes “wow nice shirt dude” sarcastically and you freak out and say “WOW I BOUGHT THIS FROM RALPH LAUREN AND IM SUPER SERIOIS AND I TAKE PRIDE IN MYSELF YOU BITCH.” She’s gonna k…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:55 AM
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Think of it like this: someone pushing your buttons to see how you react to certain situations. Aka: seeing if your mentally stable or not. It’s like when your buddies bust your balls and say shit like “ha I did ur mom bro haha!” You don’t cry and throw your toys out the cot and say “WHAT THE FUCK MAN THATZ MY MOM BRO WTF MAN.” You say, “oh that’s weird cos I did ur dad bro haha.” Yeah it’s dumb but that’s how we bond as males. Women do shit tests to extract information.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:51 AM
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I’m not a fan of shit testing or even the explanation of it but I can confirm it exists. I’m sick of redditors who can’t flirt for shit cry about flirting/socialisation techniques women use because they want to be cavemen and be spoon fed their affirmation by others. Shit testing is just another way of saying a girl is flirting with you or pushing your buttons for a response because if you didn’t notice it doesn’t work when a girl straight up asks you “hey man are you a weird cunt?” Because what…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:49 AM
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Nah I’m bad with heights he’s definitley shortter than 5”8 then because the all the girls were taller than him
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:39 AM
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I’m bad with heights he’s probably shorter than 5”8 in any case just trust me the guy is short
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:35 AM
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Dude the goal isn’t to have 400 girls. The goal is to be happy with the girl you have. In between the mma there’s no time to piss around with 100 girls. I have rugby playing friends who worked so so hard to play pro and barely had time for women and when they “made it” maybe had been with 3-4 girls because they dated them. Myself I didn’t make it to pro rugby but I slept with way more girls because I had nothing else to live for and I was way less attractive than these guys and had less status b…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:37 PM
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Being short is ONE factor of who you are. Now are you boring and offer nothing? Great then your shortness is a bigger factor in what you offer for attractiveness because being short is 1 factor and if you offer nothing else it makes up 100% of who you are. Now if you’re short but your funny, groom, athletic, dress well, confident, kind, caring, passionate, have dreams etc. then being short becomes less of a factor because it’s 1/100th of your personality because you have 99 other things that mak…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:33 PM
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Bahahahahaha. “Man I tried to hit on my friend and fucked up the friendship why won’t you enable my shit behaviour.” Bruh you fucked up. Nobody is saying to ruin your friendships the only thing you need to focus on is working on yourself gym/career/studies/grooming etc. not fucking ask your friend for a lap dance like you’re entitled to that shit and like it isn’t selfish to ruin a friendship over
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:30 PM
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im 6'5 and when i was fat and a slob my best friend whos like 5'8 (?) would be pulling every single weekend and girls would look at me in disgust. I have always been told by friends "man pulling girls must be easy being tall" and I was like fuck no. Then I lost weight and actually groomed and yeah it got easy BUT my whole life my short(er) friends would just pull like crazy cos they're amazing funny, witty and beautiful fun people to be around. I was always a negative nancy when i was fat and i …
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:55 PM
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Lmao imagine being this buzz kill idiot because you misread the thread
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:31 AM
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I know like I said you call people out when they are abusive. I’m just saying that if you’re super defensive every time somebody says something you lose
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:21 AM
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Hahahahahha I love hearing witty comebacks. I’ve noticed in any situation with women (and most men) is that whoever gets angry first loses. So especially in dating you have to play everything off even when a woman insults your mother take it as a joke and have a better comeback and you’ll win and probably be able to take her home.. (Unless of course she is constantly doing it and being abusive then of course you call her out) Yeah you have sound advice, I’m my experiences
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:29 AM
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Fair point what would you respond to “haha you old man” if a young woman said that to you?
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:45 AM
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I’d argue it wasn’t really a friendship then
/r/seduction12/03/22 03:18 AM
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Hmmmmmmm interesting
/r/seduction12/03/22 03:06 AM
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Not wanting to annoy somebody. Can somebody tell me how to get over this. When women talk to me or approach me I’m fine and can talk and pull and even times I’ve approached women but been drunk and pulled but sober I always feel like I’m annoying people. Despite never being told I was annoying anybody
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:19 AM
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