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Discussionanotsmallthing/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:20 PM
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That’s not a statement a man would say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:21 PM
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<image> Why are you tagged redpill? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:18 PM
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equating behaviors between two sexes with different biological imperatives never goes well shit-testing is built into female behavior and tests men's ability to not be blown over by a woman just acting like a woman negging is part of an array of behaviors and techniques that humble a woman and assert dominance in the tacit dominance game that exists between every human ever especially men and women it's not telling her eyes are lopsided and she's fat and waiting for her to break and drop to her …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:55 PM
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They have to be willing. RP = change and most people are looking for x y and z to change without doing a b and c. It takes finesse, patience, measure, wisdom to influence people even if they're close to you. The best way to do it is by simply living a good example and following your own philosophy. People feel it when your truth is in your bones. That being said, when you accept that not everyone is willing, and those that are will do it at their own pace, you can spread a lot of it here and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 03:43 AM
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Yes, that is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:32 AM
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Yeah everyone on earth will tell you that’s not true, you probably have some other problem like not knowing how to integrate into flirting and game. Or a hunchback and clubbed foot you’re not telling us about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:05 AM
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I mean yeah I wish I was born with a billion dollars and didn’t have to work and eat and shit. It is what it is. A lot of these disadvantages can be turned to advantages if you develop yourself. Good luck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:34 AM
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Super whiny + title doesn’t match content. Yeah porn and internet and sexual revolution was all bad, and bluepill conditioning worst of all. You’ve identified a lot of the problems, now fix it and help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:54 AM
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Idk if it’s normal but it’s definitely stupid. Focus on now not the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:36 AM
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Yes it is because the dogs can’t consent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:58 PM
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Deranged take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:06 AM
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Idk what modern RP fake manosphere crap is out there but OG redpill was always amoral strategy and description of lived experience. As for all the other claims like women being adult teenagers, men being attracted to women at the peak of their attractiveness, not caring about what flavor of homo gross homos are, and bloopies being whiny losers, yes. That’s how the vast majority of normal men in the world think. Bluepilled low T western men are the exception, and the reason guys choose redpill is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:23 PM
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well that’s all fine Im just saying your energy would be better taking the Patrice pill or sth instead of trying to beat a whole class of bad faith hatefilled unaccountable people with their own tricks. win like a man not a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:13 PM
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yeah well that’s gay and feminine af yeah be a normal masculine man not some weirdo who thinks reverse feminism is anything but some midwitty gotcha. “holding them accountable” yeah uhuh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:57 PM
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yeah I find your whole egalitarian schtick and men who try to use feminism in reverse (like a lot of modern manosphere guys) whiny and disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:32 PM
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We fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:00 AM
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no shit, it's their chance for ideal fantasies which often includes a self-contradictory man who's simultaneously transgressive but perfectly respectful of their boundaries at just the right time like porn for men where she's a pretty soft nubile girl who's also experienced and slutty and available for your use like ok, yeah, next>?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:19 PM
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OP is literally braindamaged It happens, it’s always happened, whatever Ti-powered fantasy you’re living in doesn’t change it Source: it came to me in my dreams. And random sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:49 PM
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idk, i just read the sidebar & random articles over the years, i kinda got what i needed from it and moved forward. a lot of people who were pretty good got batty with time. Rollo's a good example. you've gotta take it with context. it's not meant to be nice or moralize, or for women's eyes, it's naturally horrifying to you, like FDS is to men. there's also a lot of humor and hyperbole and differing views and different generations of emphasis and who was popular, like any community. but anyway t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:15 PM
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“I am INTx bc I’m super smart and logical and autistic” 😂 yeah well most ppl into it get consistent results over years, I pretty much always get INTP wherever I go even when I thought my answers would surely give diff results (times in my life where I was more or less sociable, in my feels, etc.) being around friends or internet ppl who are into it and know you helps a lot. The PPD Discord is good for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:27 PM
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You sound like P. J’s tend to be pretty obvious and rarer imo. You prob already know but mbti extroversion is related to but not synonymous with typical meaning of extroversion. My ENTP brother is more reclusive than me. ENxPs are some of the more alone timey E types ime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t think there’s enough room in my brain for more personality crap 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:22 PM
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Some kinda sensor probably ChatGPT’s sometimes ok at it, you can ask it to try to figure it out conversationally in simple terms and hand the phone to him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:22 PM
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My own thing, kinda tongue in cheek. My view is that Patrice’s Black Philip Show gives 90% as much good instantly practicable relationship advice to guys as like 5 years of reading TRP stuff. So I point people toward him bc it’s just 12 eps of a fun, free old radio show, no grift no macho read crap, that’s worth listening to just for its own sake bc he was a hilarious dude with a great philosophy. About keeping women and staying happy, so it’s more like Married/LTR Redpill-lite. He didn’t even k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:15 PM
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Yeah, people aren’t used to outgoing INTPs. It’s amazing how INTPs can social chameleon and mirror too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:56 PM
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Yes I just meant what country you’re from. Idk how to explain it any clearer that women having very different brains and biology and imperatives and different predictable patterns of behavior from men doesn’t mean they don’t have human brains with different roughly categorizable cognitive styles. They’re not contradictory unless you’re insisting TRP sees them as dumb animals, which it doesn’t. (I’m not counting and don’t subscribe to any fake modern manosphere fresh&fit weird post-thirdworlding-…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:58 PM
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Uh, no. Neither discounts women being human beings with different cognitive functions and experiences of the world. What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:38 PM
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As Prof. Sam Hyde once said, stop expecting your woman to be like you, bc then she would just be an autistic man. What compatibility is lacking where it’s hard to find a woman? I’m a nerd and I’ve dated dunces and smart chicks, I can’t imagine finding a girl incompatible bc she didn’t share enough intellectual pursuits or sth I get not wanting a partner who’s utterly intellectually unstimulating, but the key element you’re missing is a lot of what you desire in a woman has to be trained into her…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:24 AM
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It’s ok, I mostly just wanted to see self-reported types and what opinions ppl had on it. MBTI’s useful to me but not some thing I live by. What’s a “good” dating app? Expecting most women to care deeply about big ideas is insanity. If you find a girl autistic enough to care about some of that, hold onto her but respect her autism. I haven’t heard of those but I’ll check them out now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:58 AM
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I feel that bc I’m pretty Fe-coded. Someone online thought I’m ENFJ which is crazy! They’ve never seen me go to a bar and just smoke alone in a corner happily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:19 AM
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You’re friendzoning yourself. Listen to some Patrice O’Neal Black Philip Show. It’s fun, not some rp grift
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:09 AM
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Within genders wat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:07 AM
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INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:49 AM
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Well homeboy’s gone, and there’s women that need reminded of the wall 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:33 AM
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The :/ says it all INFPs are disproportionately deep hearted eternal sufferers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:23 AM
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Good. Like anything it can be used to help you under the world better, or more likely to be insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:14 AM
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It’s a rather rare and intense type. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:13 AM
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This is mixing the jungian(?)/typical definition of intro/extro, but do you feel more charged up or battery drained from being around ppl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:12 AM
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Yeah lol. My eternal response is “yup, shut up nerd” I don’t put stock in astrology but when someone says im such a Virgo I don’t go SOURCE??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:10 AM
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Experience. It’s not gospel, it’s just surprisingly predictive and fun to play around with Asking for a source is the most hilarious example of redditbrain I’ve seen today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:07 AM
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Also if this is STR, come back muhfugga
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:01 AM
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It is, but it’s insanely eerily predictive. As are IQ tests. I’m not an evangelist for either but turns out that smart ppl tend to do better on IQ tests and MBTI types tend to hold up when typed correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:00 AM
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I know about its origins. I don’t care. It works surprisingly good. It’s great for categorizing other internet weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:46 AM
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Why are personality tests unhelpful? If there’s an eerily predictive system to help people understand vast swathes of otherwise unintelligible people, isn’t that valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:44 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:58 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:58 AM
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Prob a good representation of these weird grifter faux-TRP manosphere podcasts, (I don't know, I don't watch them) that cater to kids and foreigners and guys that prob don't have sex much or at all. Not a good representation of normal average joes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:34 PM
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it’s not youre just not confident or interesting or smart some people dont get to reproduce sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:49 AM
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Exactly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:15 PM
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Think it's best summed by the types of guys who called into Patrice O'Neal's Black Philip show or most relationship advice shows. Stuff like "I love my wife and don't want to lose her, but she hasn't given me a blowjob in eight years" or "she nags and walks over me so constantly I just nod my head and say Yes Dear," or "she gained 100lbs." I.e. "My love is chosen, but hers she has no choice in it." I have my opinions on how true that is and how it varies between couples and the two sexes, but I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:55 PM
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Obviously that’s f*male rationalization, but there’s a huge element of truth to it guys gotta take note of— women don’t need men as much anymore now that they’re not dependent on them economically and for physical protection. They can make their own money, have their own apartment, date if they feel like it, and die potentially happy alone with their cats. Or kids— the single mother route is viable too. What you have is an epidemic of guys that expect a woman to give her whole life and youth to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:39 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:36 PM
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In most ways BPD (when it’s serious and not just self diagnosed Tumblr accessory mental illness superhero origin story) is just normal girl shit on steroids
/r/TheRedPill02/03/25 02:19 PM
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I’d see hoe_math for this, he’s pretty spot on. But non-neurotic people don’t think rigidly like this. Wives and especially gf’s are different levels of girls just sticking around and growing on you and becoming more a part of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:08 PM
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Can you cite your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:01 AM
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Gold nuggets. 7, 9 and 10 especially speak to the kind of mindset changes that were just as or more important than techniques. Listen to your gut, call shit out, then move on. If you're having multi-hour/day bitchy passive aggressive cold wars you're in a world of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 08:36 PM
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They have more options. Same as anyone else. All the other stuff is crazy internet people cope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:43 PM
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Awesome post. People completely forget class reality when talking about dating/pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:19 PM
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Have you ever met one? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:41 AM
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How did your nonsequitor reply come from my reply? Just going off vibes or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:51 AM
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I know it’s not normal (or true) to state that you are equally happy married or single. Just weird PPD posturing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:09 PM
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No prob, it’s not personal or a need on my end, just pointing out your first reply was irrelevant and the second proved my point. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:48 PM
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I don’t believe you. And saying there’s zero happiness difference between marriage and single for you just proves the kind of weird developmental stuntedness you get from lacking good relationship modeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:13 PM
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Same, we started off with daydrinking adventures and roadtrips and sleeping in car, tents, RV, etc. Young of course Now in a nice house with jobs and starting a family :) A lot of dating problems are bc guys think you have to follow the format of going to the same boring unnatural dinner-interview you’ve both been on 4000 times instead of doing something fun you actually normally do and inviting her. Not only boring and shows your boring, but reinforces being a meal ticket instead of someone she…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:44 PM
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Then the prob was your dad, not that you shouldn’t have had two parents with a functional relationship. And don’t “need” doesn’t mean not worse. You don’t need both arms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:35 PM
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Those 3 great. Things that are harder to fake for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:30 PM
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Based adventure hobo game
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:25 PM
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Been with both, I prefer to set the speed instead of being expected to rise to whatever adventure they come up with next. It’s of no particular value to me that a chick’s backpacked Europe or loves skydiving or whatever, usually the negatives outweigh it for an average Joe. (Expensive tastes, high bodycount, overweighted self image, etc.) In general guys are gonna go with B bc they, esp the guys posting here, are closer to B than A and ppl prefer someone who matches their energy, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:08 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:21 PM
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Enthusiastic sex, taking care of herself and the house, being into me and our stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:21 PM
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Except it did. You say that and ignore people like me and others I know irl that applied rp principles successfully. Are there lots of larpers, especially now? Sure. Probably more than not. It’s easier to flex online than change. We’re on the same page there. I wrote a comment on this post describing the hordes of foreign blackpill-adjacent incel “rp” larpers on PPD and across the web now. I pulled TRM out of my ass for somewhere to start. I really just mean read early redpill stuff, not random …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:28 AM
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wtf are you on about ??? me and a million other dudes use rp stuff successfully and haven’t spent a red cent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:58 PM
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That’s fine, I’m not here to defend Rollo, he was always grifty and got much worse with time. A lot he said was true and useful too. That’s the way it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:48 PM
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Any compendium or best of is a pretty good start. Or The Rational Male etc. It’s not expected to know everything, but at least a lot of the core concepts like hypergamy, plates, the definition/purpose of rp. If someone doesn’t have a decent understanding of these things, they have no place spewing their general relationship opinions on PPD, they should be on r/relationships or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:26 PM
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It’s why the majority of debates here are inane and circular. The core of PPD is debate between redpill and bluepill (ie not-rp). But vast swathes of posters do not know it, let alone practice it, or even come from a culture where it is relevant. So at best you get general debates about relationships with no reference to pills, and at worst you have foreign incels using it as a soapbox for their fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:20 PM
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So you didn’t read what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:10 PM
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See my reply a moment before yours. You’re arguing about people that are as redpill as Muslims that believe in Jesus as the Messiah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:01 PM
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Look, TRP has a body of accepted canon that defines it. The types of people that you’re talking about don’t know that canon, don’t practice it, often aren’t even western, it’s just a label they adopted because they think it means “I think girls are bad and I’m Chad and I have sex” What I said in my top comment that you replied to is what redpill guys have always said, not that crazy other stuff that foreign internet incels larping as rp now say, which is what OP is talking about. Call them what …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:58 PM
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Posting on PPD. Nah, it’s a vibe. The best insurance against being seen as creepy is socializing a lot so you’re good at it and reading vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:19 PM
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What does that statement have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:13 PM
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Again, you’re quoting random internet nothings. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:11 PM
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Pwned
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:33 PM
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If you were to actually continue the debate on this debate forum instead of tapping out, you may very well prove me wrong! 🥊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:22 PM
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As Rollo Tomassi pointed out in The Rational Male: “Women age like bad milk, men age like a fine milk Tom Cruise is a young looking old man. Most milkmen age like women, Tom Cruise ages like a postman, who delivers wine Most women age like specialist postmen who deliver milk, also known as milkmen. Tom Cruise ages like a postman who delivers wine, a wineman It’s real. Tom Cruise aged like a fine wine. The lady aged like a milk Fine wine ages like a 56 year old cheese. Milk ages like a Tom Tom Cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:05 PM
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Predictable as a confused chick ejecting out of the discussion when she starts getting the feeling she’s wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:02 PM
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Ya whatever nonsense you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:01 PM
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“These spaces” is the key, if you want to point out that most of the men here (and many of the women) are internet weirdos unrepresentative of the normal dating population, I’m with you. As far as disagreeing that men TEND TO age better, you can’t argue with my eyes and what everyone’s always known. Women flower earlier and faster and men later and slower. The many exceptions like men that bald at 26 and women that look great for 45 don’t disprove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:48 PM
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If they’re a beggar, they’re definitionally not redpill, or at best are a novice just starting their journey or stalled in it. Again, you’re talking about largely foreign internet incel-adjacent larpers, not people who actually know and follow the source material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:47 PM
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Redpill doesn’t claim the average man can’t find a girlfriend. It does claim that modern dating norms (bluepill indoctrination) generally produce similar outcomes, weak man, dead bedrooms, stagnation, failed relationships. Separately, used up 30 year olds with a belly and debt and tats and kids and a laughable independent larp have a harder time finding a good man than a fresh 20 year old who wants to lock down a good guy early. See r/redpillwomen You didn’t answer my question, so I’m safely goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:44 PM
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It’s startling how every convo with a woman about gender is immediately turned into “well it must be equal then right??” Watch, it’s ubiquitous. But nothing’s ever equal in the real world. Guys TEND to age better than women. Not always, but at least significantly more often. They tend to peak at mental maturity significantly later. In my early 30s now, I’m better than myself at 20 in virtually every way mentally and physically. Most girls can’t say the same, especially physically. Nor can every …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:39 PM
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Huh? It just acknowledges the reality that 18-25 are generally hotter and less baggage like kids and jadedness. I don’t think almost any guys would hard no a chick JUST for being 30. It’s just the chances of them looking like a chubby pack of cigarettes with 3 kids from 4 different babydaddies goes drastically. This reads like someone with very little understanding of rp, how many articles from their sidebar have you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:29 PM
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That’s chill, you seem fun and happy like the horde of other clucking thornbacks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:14 PM
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Projecto Extraordinarum! 🧙‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:31 AM
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It must be exhausting maintaining the expenses ledger to sustain that fantasy of equality in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:21 AM
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Well obviously they like sex workers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:18 AM
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I’ve never seen more women in one thread here that are so uniformly and completely utterly full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:17 AM
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Virtually anyone that uses Reddit regularly, especially the big subs. It’s all bots folks, some of them just have physical bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:14 AM
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all things being equal maybe sure a guy who actually talks to girls, has a decent mindset and is social will beat out body builders and ppl with money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:07 PM
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If you did, it didn’t make it any clearer. They’re not? I see it everywhere I look. “Why don’t you be taller?” What? The message guys should get is that they’re the agents of their lives. Whining about how the board isn’t set in their favor isn’t doing them any service.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:30 PM
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It does add fuel to the fire. Blue & blackpill further rob people of their sense of responsibility & agency. It’s unmanly to blame society for all their woes. Life sucks, you have to make something of it yourself, including building a circle of good friends and finding a girl and job and life you can get on with. So why all the whiny man threads? And in particular, if what OP is saying is true then good. You pretty much do have to pick yourself up by your bootstraps. Who’s coming to save men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:24 PM
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if you're happy being a single "mother" you have a mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:37 PM
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Because they don't bring this week's batch of political whining into every subreddit in existence? Maybe it's because they have jobs and citizenship. Men and specifically white men take advantage of welfare less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:44 PM
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Good, so what's the problem? In reality most are already decided on their doing or not doing something so they'll likely just take it as sign 4,000,000 to give up and become blue or blackpill and blame everything on everyone but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:19 PM
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Highly regarded blabber, disregards the many evidently non-psycho men who use rp to make them and their women’s lives better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:44 PM
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Because people get together unplannedly then evolve thru different stages of life where new needs and deficiencies show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:11 AM
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All you have to do is replace the "telling" you want a hookup with the actions that get you a hookup, and then she's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:16 PM
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tl;dr: generally, yeah, but "simply" no, wat? Sure it does with power dynamics sometimes, you even mentioned emotional baggage. Why would a guy want to deal with some mouthy used-up old hag and her kids and seven evil exes and whatever shit unless that were his only option? We see what dating looks like as you get progressively older. The title "physical prime" and then mentioning emotional baggage (which is a good point) contradicts the "simply" in the title. Anyway.. Power dynamics isn't inher…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:26 PM
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@ everyone not op: I thought all this was common sense, but the weird nonsenseland internet discourse on it baffles. Men I know don't want a weird bimboed out plastic-surgery-face girl with big fake lips and cheek implants and BBLs. That's FSM stuff. Not-noticeable work is probably fine if it fixes something that brings you up 2 points for example. Makeup, it's an enhancer unless it's excessive or weird in a way he's not not into, but who cares, it's makeup, it goes on and comes off. A dealbreak…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:49 PM
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She can do whatever he wants. Whether it's good or bad for her or him or the kids or whether we feel bad for the guy isn't really RP's domain. If he's left that as the best (or seemingly best) option for her, that's on him. Someone with that kind of age gap-- or really that age at all-- should have the experience and force of mind to stay attractive, knowing it's going to be tough to stay in the game as they get older. Sweet nothings of being together aren't going to save you if you start slippi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:47 PM
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That’s what makes it fun. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:54 PM
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Replying to top reply because this is tagged as a debate for some reason. OP, this isn’t a debate, this is just the central issue of redpill phrased badly by someone who didn’t bother to read trp sidebar well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:56 PM
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Of course. Chemistry and relatability develop and turn into sticking around. My super obvious point is average western guys, (i.e. who redpill is made for, and no one else, not serious religious people, not foreigners with non-western values and dating culture,) don’t go out to the bar or club going “Come on fellas, let’s go find our soulmates!” or “Let’s find someone who shares our weird autistic niche hobbies!” They are looking to take a girl home. Then see what comes next. If a guy ISN’T like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:40 PM
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Women are always taking a risk. If you have more than sex to offer, maybe he’ll stick around, maybe he’s got better options. Do you want a guy that talks about marriage on the second date and waits four months before he fucks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:50 AM
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If you can do it with his dick in your mouth then you’re definitely instant marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:36 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:34 AM
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Do you take everything this literally? Every warm blooded guy who isn’t strictly religious wants sex on the “front end,” as in as soon as possible. That’s what women have to offer early on. She’s certainly not going to be able to talk about sports or guns or World War 2 with him, that’s what his buddies are for. As they bond and rub off on each other and he sinks time into her (his value he brings to the table, equivalent to her sex) he starts to value for more than just that. Twitter/TikTok one…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:19 PM
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If you think 25 year olds can make good decisions alone you haven’t been paying attention to the hordes of adult children that litter this disgusting website hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:20 PM
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Another day, another guy on PPD writing a manifesto on why he can’t stop being a sperg and talk to a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:38 PM
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Not men in general, a man you love who loves you and is better at leading in most things. That is a man you can submit to safely and happily. It’s a moot point, because if you had that man, he would cause you to submit anyway. 😌 Why? See my op. Because it’s better for him and better for you to have roles and have one person with leadership/veto rights and not have to fight for authority all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:49 PM
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Some probably young probably foreign chronically online weirdo being hyperbolic isn’t what normal people whose opinions’ matter think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:34 PM
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Love the downvotes from people who can’t explain themselves. I’m still right. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:31 PM
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Giving birth and being more competent in every single thing are very strange standards to decide whether your man is worth following as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:30 PM
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Your dog poop story is so crazily disconnected from your premise that I shook my head in amazement until my eyeballs fell out. Anyway, it’s less that they should or shouldn’t have empathy, but that they lack an understanding of female nature (that’s the point of redpill) and an ability to read the situation (that’s the point of socializing, which is part of redpill.) Go clean up your big dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:20 AM
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No. And if you’re 25 and that’s been the only girl you’ve even called girlfriend or held hands with, theres something wrong with you and you should fix it. What’s important is persistence and effort, and strategy for those who aren’t naturals. A right mindset. They put you in “right places” and help you pull the trigger at the right time. Poker players don’t fold or go all in or walk away from the table every time, and if you’re a quarter of a century old with no gf except a random act of God, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:14 AM
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If you’re basing anything off what the neurotic sexless 2/3s foreign boys here say, you’re bound to be disappointed. I’m talking normal western guys you meet irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:00 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:57 AM
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It’s not. It’s not how you communicate to women. It’s not disagreeable unless you think women communicate like us. They don’t. Women can be changed but only under the direct and consistent pressure of a strong male presence. They’re not gonna be convinced of it by some half-confident redditor who doesn’t even understand how women work. Read trp sidebar. Take a ride. Instead of hunting for unicorns who will turn out to be autistic ugly women at best, accept female nature and see what you can do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:55 AM
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You shouldn’t care about discourse with women. You’ve already stated they don’t care about yours. You are wrongheaded in thinking that communication, in the male social sense of the word, as in logically and as peers, is the solution and that there is now a new problem that hasn’t existed since mankind walked the earth. They aren’t interested in a productive, give and take discussion. It’s revolting to them. It feels like getting water from a stone to you because it is, it always was, it’s suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:12 AM
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Weighing the options and outcomes referred to considering your strategy wrt to age and marriage. “At what stages of my life do I want what, and how attainable will it be at those ages?” Asking for wisdom and insight from outside parties who are experienced and care about you is just common sense. It’s not asking your family to decide for you whether he’s a loser or marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:35 AM
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If you’re frustrated and depressed, you do care personally. Who cares what a bunch of screeching vaginas demand from strangers? That includes the screeching vaginal men. To expect strangers to care about your woes is childish. To expect strange women to is insane. As is expecting equality. You’re on the right track though: stop caring about equality and playing females’ own games back on them. They are hypocrites. To the bone. Unconsciously. They don’t care. No one does. Your power as a man is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:27 AM
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No, can you read? Women are bad at that. Must be your biology. But yeah, people are generally happiest fitting in with the roles that their biology makes them best suited to. Which means go make me a sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:21 AM
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If you’re young and reasonably attractive it’s not hard. I didn’t say to get married at 30, or to get flippantly married at 20. I said to weigh the options and outcomes. You’ll never be 100% sure. Getting them vetted and well known by experienced people who care about you, hopefully your family know them and theirs, helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:03 AM
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You count the rings in the penis or vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:56 PM
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Is gender essentialism what they call biology and socialization nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:53 PM
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Why do you care whether some ho online sympathizes with the pain of getting a shaving cut on your balls? We’re never going to understand each other’s lived experiences. We only need to know enough for what we need, like living together without smashing each other’s heads with a frying pan. This whiny “why doesnt female understant me!!” crap is regarded. Why do any of you think you deserve to be understood? People pretend to care about what girls feel because they have at least the vague promise …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:12 PM
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Because women want a man that is more and not less competent than them. If he is, it is sensible for you to defer to his decisions as a rule. If he isn’t, you shouldn’t be with him. Having specialized roles is good for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:56 PM
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So you’re just blabbering nonsense, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:20 PM
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I mean specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:55 PM
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What’s ambition to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:39 PM
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Being submissive is good for women, they just need to have someone they view as worth submitting to. If they submit to a weak, unattractive man they will feel cheated and unhappy. If they try to dominate a strong man there will be tension till she backs down or he leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:32 PM
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No guy thinks like this. It’s neurotic female paranoia. If a guy is marrying a woman it’s a commitment to stay with her even when she’s 30. What kills relationships as they age is challenges of marriage and keeping it interesting and fulfilling, dead bedrooms, etc. The question you should ask yourself is whether you’ll get a higher value man if you wait till 30 instead of younger and what a decade of sleeping with a lot of guys is worth wrt to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:28 PM
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They are single and sexless because they don’t fix themselves. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:27 PM
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Tell that to all the married/LTR/Christian/etc redpill guys including me who saw it make their relationships much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:18 PM
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right in the sidebar bookmarks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:52 PM
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by other sexless goblins and foreigners with a culturally foreign idea of submission. that's a reason to ask *them* to specify, not to stop using the correct word correctly there's a discussion on the discord atm if you're on it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:39 PM
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Submission- The action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. (modern Oxford dictionary) The act of submitting; the act of yielding to power or authority; surrender of the person and power to the control or government of another. (Websters 1828) Acknowledgment of inferiority or dependence; humble or suppliant behavior. Obedience; compliance with the commands or laws of a superior. -- no there's nothing wrong with the word just bc some …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:20 PM
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Name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:07 PM
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If it’s anime or CGI porn does that make it ok? No? Thought so. I’m not advocating for or against porn. I’m pointing out that 1) women usually make it a Problem In Their RelationshipTM for the wrong reasons. I.e. it hurts their feefees. Which is why most women would still have a problem with cartoon porn. It’s only chronically online reddit women that have the nerve to pretend it’s about bigger picture stuff like the industry being bad or “rewarding other girls.” Those are just justifications th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:39 PM
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“If he watches porn it’s the same as me making porn!” Brazenly typical. What you conveniently leave out is your reasoning on why they’re equatable at all. Anyone can have any boundaries they want. If she doesn’t want a man who smokes or drinks, that’s up to her, but you can see how that’s different than having a problem with a guy who is producing and distributing it. My point is an average girl’s negative reaction to their man watching porn is “uh! That’s yucky! Stop!” If he put his foot down o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:04 PM
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Women worrying about their men watching porn is a control thing and a reflection on their own insecurities. Usually if they did their job (which is a guy's responsibility to make her do btw, and in her own interests to see to) it wouldn't be an issue. Still not good for the guy. Horrible death industry, bad for the brain, hard to control. Occasionally a guy is a genuine addict coomer and it affects their sex life, and assuming that's the case and she's giving good head and sex and not just prete…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:39 PM
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You definitely have to to keep one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:18 PM
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Not if you look closely. Then you might see that the not-conventionally-attractive man that has a personality that keeps his better-looking girl subscribed to him. You'll see people who simply settled. You'll see an 7.5/10 fit guy with a 4.5/10 fat girl who's annoying and bossing him around because he's content with what he has and don't know or care to do better or make her act better. You can always find exceptions. Redpill is just the rules as those men have collectively discovered them from …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:17 PM
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Psychological defense against change. It takes nothing to declare that the system is stacked against you but takes a lot of work to change to become successful in that system. "The economy sucks so I'll always be poor."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:07 PM
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You assume they don't care about women, but that's loaded. Some do, some don't, like anyone. What of the bp guy who just goes with whatever to get laid? What if a rp guy gives a girl the best time or sex of her life? What if a bp guy intends to care for a woman, but makes both their lives miserable because he's incapable of acting out his benevolent intent? Which matters more, intention or outcome? Women are only likeable (esp longterm) if men guide them so, otherwise they lose their effort with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:04 PM
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You have to believe that because otherwise the rp philosophy would make sense. Yet our philosophies exist exactly because of our interactions with women. We tried to do it the way we were told was good and it went disastrously. Redpill doesn't moralize in its descriptions, what people do with the info is up to them. A lot use it to spin plates, others to keep their relationship or marriage strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:44 PM
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Great comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 PM
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tl;dr: Different sides of the same question, "what do I think/do about dating women?" Sure, at least at first. Flip sides in outcome and effective results and in remaining gynocentric? Nah. Or as another guy put it, it's not about women, it's about humans' sexual strategies. Bear with me, there's some important nuance here. Patrice O'Neal's philosophy on the Black Philip Show was the catalyst for me to take redpill thinking + techniques and synthesize them into an internalized and acted-out life…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:16 PM
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Being annoyed by women because they're annoying (or vacuous, or hypergamous, or whatever) isn't the same as hate. I don't hate women. I like them, which is why I changed how I interact with them in a way that is honest both to myself and more conductive to what I want to trade with them. It's like trying to communicate to a foreigner or your dog, you have to tailor your approach, right? It's not gynocentrism to do so, anymore than it's sinocentric to communicate effectively to a Chinese person o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:50 PM
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Your definition of love is glaringly absent here. It’s not clear there’s “no love involved if it’s transactional.” Different people and sexes have always had different needs, and the historically biggest factor in relationships is whether someone can help you fill those needs. Love doesn’t help if you’re starving or sexless or miserable. If you want proof, date a girl (because you think she’s pretty, smart, etc) then have her stop taking care of herself, depend on you for everything, gain 200lbs…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:22 PM
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My reply: You nuked the convo because she annoyed you, which is exactly what every guy complains about chicks doing all the time. The difference is they feel entitled because they have 200 other matches to flip over to, and you don’t. “I shouldn’t have to…” Sure, but if you repeat this with every other chick who acts boring and goofy you’ll get literally zero success. This wasn’t even an egregious case like asking for money or saying she’s an adult model. She was giving you a basic level 1 shit,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:56 PM
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It’s like two monkeys in captivity who forgot how to breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:27 PM
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Yes, so she gave him a shittest, and he immediately spazzed out because it hurt his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:25 PM
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Dave failed himself, but if he’s as willing to change and act as the post describes, about every man in his life failed him too.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/24 09:54 PM
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<image> You're right, but there's more to it and it's rooted in men's failings. Women's intuition is dangerous and often wrong in that it's shockingly whimsical and generally raw and reactive compared to men's. It is not carefully balanced and informed by years of experience and deep thought on what works and what doesn't like a mature man's is. Worse, it's framed by self-damaging and societally-destructive thinking that is scientifically engineered to atomize all people to sell more products an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:14 AM
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That being untrue and also from Buzzfeed aside, I could not date her. Being at that weight says "I do not care enough to become healthy and attractive." If she is not attractive, and worse, does not care about being attractive (and healthy) why would I date her? That being said, if she wanted to increase her market value, just be extremely feminine and submissive, and have a ridiculous head game. Big girls knew this 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:34 PM
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Those numbers don't sound correct and therefore I reject them. Take the skinnypill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:19 PM
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Oo goodie. Identity crisis haircuts/makeup. e.g. Brightly colored, short, shaved, dreads, egirl/Belle Delphine makeup/outfit, anything you did in a hurry to shout "this is the new me this week!!!" works well. Facial piercings. The permanent scars are nice. Gauges, bigger the better, you want to be able to stash both your iPhone 14s in them. Tattoos, tattoos, tattoos. The more ludicrously basic, non-thought out, common, large, unfeminine, badly done etc the better. Bonus for lame text, neck, knuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:10 PM
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Your post makes it sounds like that was a problem for you, so that's an understandable sentiment. We've all seen people where someone's parent(s) were constantly butting in and sabotaging. Strong ties across all levels and generations of family are ideal, but there has to be boundaries and the father needs to let her man do his job and respect his authority. A father trying to support a married/dating daughter should usually be doing so by giving good advice privately and respectfully with her m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:40 PM
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Better hope she doesn't rock fake tits. That'll cost extra, she's taking a box of lobster rolls home for her girlfriends too. Clearly the only solution is to have more expensive makeup and fake tits than her. Better call the doctor. This sentiment they're shamelessly parroting off TikTok is bullshit of such typicality and obvious wrongness that it can be dismissed outright, except that it's adjacent to the truth they're actually touching at: "my pussy gives me such market value that you should o…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 04:30 PM
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That's because girls in your scenario aren't involved in you sitting and gaming at home alone. It doesn't equate. OP had fun and his idea of success because he had a little adventure which involved them and in which he casually made himself a superior-feeling figure. I play games with my girl sometimes. She appreciates that I am better than her in it and teach her how to play. It's fun that we share, and at the same time my superiority shines thru. When I was single and with a girl, sometimes I …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 03:38 PM
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"The happiness trickles down from you" - total opposite of "happy wife, happy life" mentality that has men pandering to girls who don't even know what they really want anyway. Great share.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 03:11 PM
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It’s a symptom of younger guys coming in especially. They don’t know who they are or who they want to be yet. Hand them a seemingly magical ruleset to land tang and the results are usually what you’d expect. A big part of experience and personality is socialization with other good men. Casual mentoring, encouraging them to read, find hobbies that enrich them, and build a circle that sharpens and builds them up. You are who you hang around etc. Ex. I randomly replied to a local post from another …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 01:55 PM
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