antarctica6 Archive

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–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? Well that's an insane jump. The types of guys who work out, do cold plunges at 5AM, listen to motivational podcasts on their commute, read Atomic Habits and Rich Dad Poor Dad or whatever, dress old money, etc. They're attractive to a specific type of woman. That type of woman typically is hot, fit, likes being wined and dined, flown out to exotic locations, etc. They typically make their own money but usually not over six figures. They tend to have expensive tastes that can't be possible without…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:56 PM
–	CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sex I'm sure she would have agreed that she turned him down 90% of the time You have clearly never been to r/deadbedrooms lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 03:19 AM
-3	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. You're literally not even wrong, but dudes on here will still find excuses. I'll take the "interesting" concept a bit farther and repackage the question as "What sets you apart from the majority of other men?" That's the question you really have to do some soul-searching on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 02:23 AM
–	Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do? Just use one of those gender-swapping AI apps to see what you'd look like as a woman. I tried it and it generated an image that looks exactly like my cousin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 04:57 AM
15	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? As a non-white minority from a "progressive" city, this has never surprised me lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 05:35 AM
1	On the dating book for women "Why men love bitches" Just from personal experience but I've noticed the healthiest relationships among the people ik were ones where the woman was the "boss" of the relationship. Not the one who makes the most money or runs the household. If the man is the dominant one in the relationship, it tends to mean that the woman just doesn't communicate what she wants and will eventually resent him. If the woman is the dominant one in the relationship, it's cuz the guy is just chilling and is content with how things are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:06 PM
25	When dating, I believe women are given more grace to be honest. Pretty sure there was another post here recently exactly about how a woman's percieved sense of danger can be and is used to excuse literally any behavior on her part. Worth checking out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 09:14 PM
3	There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you. I kinda-sorta agree. But I also think if he waited that long to tell you there definitely would've been some signs that were totally missed by either you, him, or both. If the girl has some sense she would pull out the "OMG you're like a brother to me" and nip that shit in the bud when she notices something is off. If the guy has some sense he would either register that his feelings aren't being reciprocated and either leave or just stick to being actual friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 02:49 AM
10	There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you. That's literally my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 11:08 PM
29	There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you. I totally agree. Now as a woman, how would you be able to tell the difference? Because Bob "inserting" himself into Liz's life and "weaseling" into a friend group is entirely a matter of perspective. That perspective is entirely dependent on whether or not Liz is attracted to Bob in the first place. If it worked out, Liz would say that Bob entered her life (not inserted/weaseled) and that it “just happened.” A dozen different jumps in conclusion and mindreading needs to happen for the opposite t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 10:42 PM
3	The low bar for men is reflection of women's actual value in dating market There's a certain level of narcissism and lack of self-awareness that comes with being able to say the bar is on the ground for men. Strange thing that is overlooked is how this is based on the assumption that a lot of women tend percieve themselves as more emotionally and mentally mature than they really are. It's meant to deflect accountability. Anybody who's dated girls can tell you that they're not saints and perfect communicators and emotionally intelligent geniuses either. Just like guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 08:31 PM
2	why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them? I'm from one of those places and can guarantee you that anyone who says they're "struggling" while making 150k, let alone 200k, is either full of shit, terrible with money, or both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 04:19 AM
2	What is creepy? Just wanna say you really didn't have to writesuch a detailed response to kind of a simple question but you did it anyway and I commend you for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 04:16 AM
1	Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating. Being conversational doesn't have much to do with how interesting you are or what hobbies you have. I have a lot of uncommon hobbies for someone of my background and ethnicity that is totally out of line with my perception at work considering I work a "boring" white collar job. I'm not super close with people at work so I tend to tone it down a lot too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 12:38 AM
1	Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating. I think it's also worth pointing out that the advice of getting hobbies is almost always directly at men and never women. Truth is the average girl is just as uninteresting and boring as the average guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 09:28 PM
37	Marriage is protection for women. Pre nups are protections for men Marriage is protection for both men and women. Prenups are protection for whoever has more money and/or assets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 10:01 PM
2	Young women's view of their own maturity is highly overrated and sometimes narcissistic Young women believe they're more mature than guys their own age because they're chronically online and watch Tiktoks by other girls talking about "emotional intelligence," "boundaries," "gaslighting," "narcissism," etc. and think that makes them more mature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 12:06 AM
1	“Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominant Dude. It takes more effort to start from scratch with someone you've never met compared to someone who already knows people you know and is literally right in front of you. People generally like doing things that make your life easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 05:10 AM
1	“Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominant The same mindsets are not predominant. More often than not, the girl will choose the cute, funny guy who asks her out at a friend's party over whatever hundred random Chads trying to shoot their shot on app. I'm on the shorter side so I haven't had much success on the apps. But I do fine irl. Girls will tell you that they "don't care about height" but the simple fact that there's a quantifiable number underneath your picture will always have at the very least, a subconscious effect on their deci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 04:34 AM
5	Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approached Online dating will not decline in popularity for the simple reason that they're based on the same psychological ticks as slot machines and sports betting apps. Men are suckers for gambling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 07:07 AM
–	Moral character has no bearing on sexual success I agree with your title but you completely lost me as I kept reading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 05:15 PM
3	Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do? Definitely in an individualistic culture. You have more freedom to "be yourself." Less pressure to put on a machismo facade or whatever the female equivalent is. However, you will have a better financial safety net in a more communal culture if things ever go south.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 10:25 PM
2	Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do? I mean, I'm originally from a culture where the "nuclear family hyper individualism bullshit" is less prominent and autistic people aren't well received either. In fact, conformity is even more enforced in such cultures so ND people are even more exposed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 10:19 PM
5	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Weird how there isn't a law preventing women using a donor if you're in a financial position where you need the government to fill in for the income of a second parent to begin with. I don't think the adoption process has this oversight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:38 AM
-5	RIP to Japan, you guys had a good run That's an even more useless take. If the bottom 30% have flaws that aren't fixable and they "can't" fix them on their own, then they're SOL and it's nobody's problem but their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 10:22 AM
–	Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her? men are jealous of casual sex Short answer, yes. and believe that casual sex is more valuable and meaningful than sex with a loving partner. That's disingenuous. A lot of women who have casual sex with a guy do it in the hope of them eventually committing only to get dropped for someone else. It's not unreasonable for a guy to assume that someone who was "sexually liberated" with other guys in the past and not with him isn't actually it into him the way she used to be with other guys. You can al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 06:00 PM
–	Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her? That wasn't a good analogy. A better one would be if a guy took you out to Olive Garden on a first date and you find out that he used to take other girls to Nobu.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 09:38 AM
–	Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her? What does consent have to do with it? I don't understand. Everyone creates preconceived notions about people based on their previous sexual history, man or women. If you don't think that you wouldn't also percieve a guy differently if he hooked up with a new girl every other week compared to a guy who's had just 2 or 3 long term relationships, you're lying to yourself. This has nothing to do with insecurity and entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 09:34 AM