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Question For Womenanthrovillain/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:15 AM
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Make prostitution legal safe and regulated it's a lot more beneficial mentally for men to hire an escort than to watch porn. I don't think onlyfans should be banned but I think men would be a lot better off if they quit watching porn. It's a harmful addiction that's affecting men and women in many negative ways causing ED and hypersexuality decreasing confidence increasing depression and lack of self worth. Porn brain rot is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:30 PM
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What is this a fucking psyop?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:23 PM
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They take some effort and money but I don't consider those things as real self improvement looking good is nice but ultimately you can dress nice and get your hair styled with little effort if you have the money. Make up is a little more difficult but if you go light with it like most prefer anyway it's like 20-30 minutes of effort at the most. I've done my make up and nails as a guy and it's not that hard. What's hard is taking the time to have abs or getting a high paying career or learning an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:21 PM
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Against because it would destroy the environment and kill almost all wildlife. I don't see much virtue in the human race but I'm not heartless enough to say everyone deserves death. I just crave it often for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:55 PM
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Make up clothes and hair styling don't really count as self improvement for me. That's just looking good and ultimately it doesn't require a lot of effort. Examples of self improvement to me would be growing mentally and emotionally, getting fit and taking care of your body, recognizing toxic behavior and changing it, learning how to set proper boundaries, gaining life skills, getting good at hobbies, and gaining knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:35 PM
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I'm into self improvement but I'm too stubborn to do it for anyone else especially if that person isn't putting in the same amount of effort. I honestly don't think that doing the self improvement will change much anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:14 AM
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What real world help are you talking about? If you mean therapy I'm supportive of that. Getting matched doesn't mean you'll get someone that cares about you it just means they want you to care about them. If people don't want to get left behind they have to change and grow on their own. There are many ways to move forward without focusing on trivial relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:54 PM
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Not everything can be approached with logical solutions. Knowing someone cares about you and your problems can help emotionally even without the problem being solved. It's just how humans usually are. If you try and focus on a solution you'll just get frustrated because any possible solution is a near impossible pipe dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:31 PM
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Many things in life that affect people emotionally are pointless actions that don't do shit but it still makes some people feel better. That and it's at least acknowledged as a problem that exists. If it's completely ignored or devalued change can never happen either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:08 PM
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Indeed life is completely unfair and full of suffering and it's only getting worse. I can't wait for it to be over personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:01 PM
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It might show that they at least care about men and their well-being to some extent. There are no real solutions relationships and dating are so unequal and require so much compromise that it seems pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:56 PM
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Honestly improving yourself to such an extent just to date a woman under your league sounds like a lot of work with little pay off. I'll keep improving myself in the ways I feel I need and want to improve in for my own satisfaction. I feel like men just need to focus more on their own happiness and success instead of wasting time on women that don't even deserve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:37 PM
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Men actually do like having their nails done it feels good. Also although men do have one night stands I'd say overall men are mostly interested in sex with someone they're close to and attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:20 AM
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I know you got hate for saying this but I do think the mental effect is what tends to make people more attracted to big ones. I also prefer for women to be honest with their preferences rather than hiding them out of trying to be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:02 PM
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I mean I pretty much am already doing that but I also kinda wonder how long I can put it off without it getting to a point where it's too late. I don't care that much about being single but eventually I want to live off grid and it seems like I'll need someone with me so I don't embrace insanity from isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:43 PM
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This is good advice but I think I've become too apathetic to the point when I do go on dates I feel nothing and just want to leave to go do something I actually enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:49 PM
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As a man you can train yourself to have orgasms without ejaculation it's not easy but it's definitely possible. You can also train yourself to have longer orgasms too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:46 PM
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Thanks I'm still working towards recovery as far as trauma goes. Yes findom and using men without caring or providing aftercare isn't the same as being femdom I think a femdom should care about the person they're dominating not damaging them and creating more trauma. I think that really depends on the dominant and sub what they both desire and what they're personally into can change the relationship a lot. Personally I'm not into lifestyle domination which would be a dominant led relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:25 PM
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I'm a man and the only sex I've ever had was duty sex because I had no desire to have sex but it was the only way for me to have a relationship. Admittedly it is much more difficult to pull off as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:31 AM
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I'm more of a switch but there are multiple reasons. One is traumatic events in my childhood that led to development of specific kinks. Another is I feel so much pressure to perform and be successful that letting go of that need to be strong and dominant makes it feel like I'm being accepted and loved in a moment of weakness and inadequacy which is healing. Beyond that assertive dominant women are attractive to me. I will say I don't support the exploitation of men many femdoms encourage. I also…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:44 AM
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Unfortunately it seems I do not have that option thanks for talking with me though I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:04 AM
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Any hobby group can be described the same way as the cooking class so all that leaves is online dating or getting lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:01 AM
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Yeah you're not wrong I've always wanted to be close enough with women as friends to discuss it but it's never felt that way. It feels like if I open up about it they're going think I'm a loser or incel or something. Idk I just have this general feeling that women dislike me so if I give them any ammunition they'll use it against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:55 AM
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Yeah I have one left I see fairly often and some friends I rarely ever see. I'm honestly not sure if I'm really close enough with them for them to be comfortable talking about it. The one I hang out with regularly is also my friend's gf so I don't want to accidentally make things awkward. It's also very hard for me to open up about because I'm a very walled off person and reluctant to let people see the weaker sides of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:41 AM
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I appreciate you saying this it's nice that some women still care. I've avoided relationships all my life because I'm very uncomfortable with sex due to being S/A as a child. I feel like I could move past my trauma if I was in a relationship with someone willing to put in the effort to build trust and make me comfortable or not engage in sex but no one wants to deal with that and trying to explain that on a date is so uncomfortable I figure why even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:34 AM
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Maybe? But I don't think I'm doing anything like that seeing as no one's ever mentioned it before. Also as far as therapy goes I'm going to try another therapist again but I've been through a lot and none of them gave me any valuable input. So I figured I'd try and use whatever resources I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:24 AM
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Pump those numbers up be more evil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:13 AM
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I really only envy the dead and am excited I'm going to be there one day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:36 PM
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They don't seem approachable to me because of my low self esteem social anxiety and fear of women judging me. it's all in my head and nothing is going to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:33 PM
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I don't think you're lying but most women don't seek out men as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:10 PM
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I really don't know what options you're talking about if you don't use dating apps or have a large social net you're not going to meet anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:01 PM
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I don't think that's true but I do think a lot of women dislike men in general. They may like their partner or close friends but I think many women automatically assume the worst with men they aren't familiar with and are very judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 PM
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For me it's that most women are unappealing to me As anything more than friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:32 PM
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Why would I want to have meaningless sex? My biggest difficulty when it comes to dating is when people want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:13 PM
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I hate online dating because I don't like meeting people through the Internet. Every time I've done it, It feels unnatural and it gives me anxiety. The dates I did go on I really didn't like any of the people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:25 PM
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Part of it is once you get old as a man and you're single everyone in your life slowly abandons you for their relationships and families. Because their romantic partner requires all of their attention. If you stay single as a man you're left facing the world with no one on your side. Most men don't want to be left behind. I've avoided relationships most of my life now other people's relationships have ruined many of my friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:17 AM
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They are definitely not being asexual if they were it'd sure benefit me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:33 AM
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Idk I'm asexual and women definitely are judgemental of men that don't get in relationships or have sex a lot. It's like you're seen as invaluable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:01 PM
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I think both are causing problems it's not one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:52 PM
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Something a lot of women also don't consider is that capacity for violence is necessary in this world it always has been. Without men capable of violence the human race wouldn't exist. It's all about how that violence is used. Ultimately around 4 percent of the population is doing the majority of violent crimes it is a minority of men. Demonizing men isn't going to fix the issue it's just going to make men lose respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:44 PM
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Asexuals desire romantic relationships it's just a very difficult situation to work around for the majority seeing as most people want sex. What you're thinking of is Aromantic people they don't desire romantic relationships but platonic friendships mean a lot to them usually. Almost everyone needs close human connection psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:04 PM
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I'm good at both
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:46 PM
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Thanks :) I'd really love to meet some other ace people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:41 PM
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Don't know never have asked them just seemed like they might find it weird if I asked. It's also more difficult to find a match for me because I'm Ace/demi-sexual so not many people are compatible with my kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:35 PM
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I didn't say that I have no women friends I was saying it doesn't automatically make you good at finding a girlfriend. I have women who are my friends I've asked women out I've been in relationships. It doesn't hurt to get better at it though especially when you have an anxiety disorder. Also you say that about your husband like it's a brag but I don't think having a lot of sex is an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:03 AM
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Maybe so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:17 PM
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I wouldn't, I was playing devil's advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:06 PM
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Assuming that drink and conversation gets you anywhere I guess. Finding someone to be interested that you're also attracted to is the hard part. I'm different from most men because I'm asexual so I know I have no option but to be single. I'm sure it's still difficult to date as an allosexual though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:40 PM
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You mean the work already required for you to stay alive in the world anyway? It's not like all of them are extremely expensive. You could easily save up the money to pull it off and if you don't have the street smarts to get one locally then save up and take a vacation somewhere it's legal and easily accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:10 PM
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Well I'm no expert but it shares many of the same beliefs that most Buddhist religion does. The primary ideals are developing yourself spiritually, acting with compassion, living in balance, and embracing the void. Personally I believe more in daoism/stoicism when it comes to living. I've never really been a fan of living though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:00 PM
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If they were actually a victim they wouldn't feel that way I know from experience they're just fantasizing like many women do to. When it actually happens you feel powerless lose all self esteem and life becomes tainted it doesn't feel special anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:45 PM
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I've had my fair share of delusions of grandeur once the delusions over there's nothing left of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:40 PM
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I guess, but it gives men with a strong libido a way to relieve that urge without having to put in effort to attract someone or date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:30 PM
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That's good advice I don't think having women as friends is super effective. It helps but the social dynamic is pretty different. The improv class sounds very uncomfortable for someone that's socially awkward but it isn't a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:26 PM
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Well you have to die first but the tibetan book of the dead can point people in the right direction especially when it comes to the clear light. I'm excited to see if I can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:12 PM
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I've chosen to give up because my dating pool is 1% of the population I haven't met a single person sexually compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:06 PM
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No I'd be much more focused on survival techniques making sure I have a shelter and a steady source of water and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:54 PM
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Prostitutes exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:28 PM
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Why is it a travesty? Having a successful career and being highly skilled can enhance your life more than most relationships ever will. A relationship can make your life extremely complicated and shitty as much as it can enhance your life. Investing in someone other than yourself is extremely risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:07 PM
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Even if you're asexual many of us want relationships it's just that many of us accept we'll never be in an asexual relationship because we are roughly 1% of the population. So we do what is described in this post. We focus on hobbies and friendships and learning to find comfort in being alone. It is absolutely possible to live a fulfilling and meaningful life without a romantic relationship. That said it's not easy you have to put a lot of effort into friendships and into self growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:02 PM
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That may be true but I'm ready to escape the karmic cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:55 PM
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I've always been an analog man. Our brains aren't built to deal with this level of technology. There also isn't nearly enough regulations to make technology ethical. Look at places with limited access to the Internet their social communities are much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:43 PM
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I feel like some people also label asexuals as incels which couldn't be further from the truth. I hate how society sees sex as a virtue and a sign of being successful as a man. We are beyond reproduction being what makes a human valuable in society. Without the social pressure many men would pursue more virtuous and valuable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:36 PM
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Is there any way men can to learn how to improvise without being able to get a wide range of experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:16 PM
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Why does splitting a bill mean they're undesirable. I've always split bills on dates. I pay on special occasions for people including friends but not on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:57 PM
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I don't care about where people stand politically I prefer to judge people as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:20 PM
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Splitting bills doesn't have anything to do with what I just asked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:38 PM
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Pretty sure I'm intimidating but in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:27 PM
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What's the point of being with someone that doesn't find you desirable. They obviously don't care much about you as a person and are using you. How can there be any real sense of love and affection in those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:49 PM
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It honestly is bad for me because my options will just decrease but it's extremely hard for me to find anyone to date because I'm Graysexual. I've only ever met one other asexual person. I've pretty much given up on meeting anyone but I do hate that not being in a relationship as I get older will make me less desirable and even less likely to meet anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:40 PM
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So you're saying attractive men are to blame because they try to hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:30 PM
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If the man is struggling to find one woman to date then how successful are they going to be with a poly relationship? Why should a man be open to being cucked just to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:27 PM
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They're keen on abusing boys mentally and sexually that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:48 PM
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You do have to consider most violent crimes are perpetrated by 3-4% of the entire population and violent crime is much easier for men to commit physically. Women are also less likely to be convicted of a crime in front of a jury. The other thing that's not accounted for is the amount of women using men to commit violent crimes for them or support men doing violent crime. Men are absolutely committing more violent crimes but I'd say it's likely the statistics aren't completely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:42 PM
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I haven't asked out many out. Of the ones I've asked I've had about 4 rejections and 6 accept. The rejections were a bit difficult. Being told I had the job I was trying to get for 2 years and then them telling me it was a mistake and they had no openings crushed me a lot worse. I do care about money more than sex or relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:41 PM
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It does make me less biased but I could see how you'd come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:11 AM
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Couldn't say, there's a lot of factors leading to loneliness. I'm not one of the men struggling socially though so I'm probably not the best to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:49 AM
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Yeah I didn't agree with him or his post. I was trying to point out that what you said didn't make sense at the end of your comment in the edit. I got overly involved in the comments my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:32 AM
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Bonding with the boys? Absolutely it's one of the most emotionally satisfying relationships a man can have. I don't know how many men get to experience it but I'd say it's a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:27 AM
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Yeah I know I was joking around with that comment Since we're such a small minority I gotta represent 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:19 AM
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I think it does for the most part at least for me personally. Sure there's times I get lonely or crave a relationship but I think most people want that on some level. I think it's important to have women as friends too though. There's a level of empathy and emotional intelligence that a lot of men aren't good at reaching. It's nice to have variety and it means I get to do girly things too I love that . There was a time I would only hang out with men because that's my comfort zone. I can't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:14 AM
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Right on, I hope your journey is a rewarding one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:58 PM
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You took by we don't talk about it much as on we don't talk about our emotions dreams and traumas. That's not what I meant. I meant we don't make a big deal out of it we're there for each other when we're needed. Also the things the other comment said are true too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:48 PM
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No but I'm Ace/demisexual so I don't really desire to have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:40 PM
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Yes we do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:38 PM
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The last thing you posted in your edit wasn't a question. You said if a woman is interested in sleeping with a man they do it as if men are so cheap they'll just accept that desire and sleep with them. I'm telling you that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:26 PM
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Oh I doubt I'll ever have enough trust in anyone to absolutely rely on them I've only done that once and it scarred me enough to never do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:18 PM
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Men draw closer by actually doing things for and with each other not by just talking so that can be confusing. I'm glad you mentioned that though because I always just saw it as annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:08 PM
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You're assuming those men would want to sleep with them. I've had to end friendships from women wanting something sexual with them knowing full well I'm demi/asexual. I do consider it a dilemma though because I'd only be interested in dating someone I'm already friends with since I don't trust people I don't know well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:56 PM
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She was bonding with him by talking about all her fuck ups and bad relationship decisions? That's the quickest way for me to stop talking to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:40 PM
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This is just plain wrong you've really created a narrative for you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:29 PM
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Women definitely want to fuck more than I do lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:28 PM
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Well I'm demi sexual so it's kinda different for me. Emotional/personal details and Interaction with men is really nice. I think most men are very real with each other and work as great support for each other. Men just don't talk about it much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:25 PM
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It's definitely not possible to do that. I'll try, letting go of trust issues and accepting people for who they are is something I still need to make progress in. Other people complicate life in unfortunate and beautiful ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:06 PM
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The world's a slaughter house always has been. People can cry victim but no one really cares. Being victims will never work for men. If we want something we have to make it or take it through blood sweat and tears. Why care what some feminists do it's not gonna change your reality that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:56 PM
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If I had to guess I'd say a big part of it is simply lack of natural physical gestures not using body language with a neurotypical is going to subconsciously impact their view of you constantly. The other part of that is they don't understand body language as well so it's much more difficult to read someone else's emotions. It's like not being fluent in a primary language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:45 PM
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That journey is so far from my reality it's not really worth considering at this point. Maybe something will change to make it happen but pretty sure I'm meant to walk a solitary path.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:43 PM
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I guess I don't care about rejection as much as I just hate dating when I really think about it. Actually being rejected is kinda a relief. Dying seems more comfortable than going on a first date with someone I don't know well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:44 PM
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Feeling unwanted isn't the best feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:28 PM
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Yeah, but when you get used to it you tend to give up trying though like if you expect rejection why bother in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:24 PM
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Why would an ambitious career oriented man need to attend events like that? Men tend to think of events like that as a last resort and if those men have other options they're going to take them. Not only that but going to those events takes time and energy they could be putting into their career or using the short amount of spare time they get into enjoying time alone. As far as other men go who wants to spend their nights off having random awkward social interactions with strangers that will li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:17 PM
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To me a job rejection is more shattering than being rejected asking someone out but maybe that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:58 PM
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Well finesterides average for ed is 1.3% that seems high for a medication to me. Personally I decided I'd rather shave my head than spend that much money on something that might make my dick not work while putting added stress on my internal organs. There are healthy ways to regulate your hormones and it helps if you get them tested so you can find the correct balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:54 PM
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If Something is subjective it can't be universal at the same time society and genetics influence attraction but social conditioning and genetics are also subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:41 PM
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Yeah it's unfortunate and causes sexual trauma making it more difficult to be in a healthy sexual relationship. I'm over average in every country and it still bothered me for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:34 PM
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Looks are subjective to an extent too it's not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:22 PM
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It's really just common sense. More people need to let go of that hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:16 PM
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Ye I know that now but I was a dumb insecure teenager and I actually believed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:11 PM
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I'm 26 and have had multiple relationships and when I used tinder I got matches. You're assuming I value my self worth based off of other people's opinions or how attractive I am to the opposite sex you couldn't be more wrong. All self improvement I do for my own satisfaction without the goal of sex or a relationship. So no I'm not settling for mediocrity I'm gaining skills and mental strength everyday while evolving my personality without changing who I am or what I prioritize in life. Career g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:08 PM
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The personalities women like aren't necessarily good personalities though so trying to base it off personality is highly individualized and random which makes it mostly luck based.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:44 PM
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Honestly can't speak for all men but I prioritize compatibility and personality and at a certain point it makes it more difficult. Once you pass the baseline the more effort you put into growing as a person the further you get from where most people are mentally emotionally and spiritually. I've given up on trying to find a partner for the pursuit of personal growth and enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:40 PM
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No I would find that annoying there's plenty of masculine things I'm capable of doing than opening jars but I guess some men might want that if they need that kind of validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:58 PM
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The men that hate women tend to feel the same way they perceive that women hate them so they hate women. It's almost like people want to be treated like individuals and not be prejudged by whatever gender they identify as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:11 AM
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If men tried to do that women would only mock them more and shame them further. It would accomplish nothing and the men involved in the movement would be called out and harassed. Feminism is supposed to be based on equality. If the majority of feminists actually care about equality then they'd care about men too. Instead the movement tends to encourage hate towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:51 AM
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Women mock fat men too and in my experience women care more about weight than the average guy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:34 AM
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minoxidil and finesteride come with a very high possibility of erectile dysfunction and it fucks with your hormones. I don't consider drugs that will physically harm a person worth any amount of hair anywhere on someones body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:31 AM
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It's definitely not easy especially if you have an eating disorder. I've been overweight most of my life. It is still changeable though. You can't change your size or whether or not you're going to start balding as a man though. The amount of facial hair a man is capable of growing is also purely genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:23 AM
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That happened to me and I'm well over average size my ex would body shame me quite often and it destroyed my self esteem and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:59 PM
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It goes far beyond feminism and dating apps. Social media porn and the bad economy in a materialistic, egoist, individualist, culture is causing brain rot on a massive scale. There's nothing that's going to change it anytime soon either so you can whine about it or figure out an alternative way to live a somewhat meaningful life..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:45 PM
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I'll keep being myself and take my chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:27 PM
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The pills are "make believe fantasy" the same as most social belief and tradition. The pills are more labels to use because people are tribal and labels make people feel special and included.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:33 AM
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True but some women are very good at hiding it and there's always excuses so a lot of men end up falling for it. Blaming men with good intentions for falling for the scam is a bit cold hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:17 AM
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It really is a good option. It lets you focus on improving your life, gives time for hobbies and side hustles, and you have the freedom to live however you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:49 AM
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I'm not above average due to being overweight. I still got matches, I had a good profile and high quality pictures. It's mainly a waste of time if you're looking for a LTR or anything serious that will actually work out. Meeting people online cheapens connections for the sake of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:36 AM
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It is pretty cool to play with and you can jerk off comfortably without lotion or lube. If you're gay or bi you can do docking which is an interesting concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:32 AM
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The reason men who are circumcised aren't bothered about it is because they have no memory of what it's like to have one. I'm uncircumcised and the idea of being circumcised is horrible. It seems so dried out and exposed to the elements.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:30 AM
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Not gonna tell you what to do but I do know a lot of men that hold resentment towards their parents for making the decision to have them circumcised. Also I imagine it's pretty traumatic to have surgery as a new born I know it's traumatic to have it as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:21 AM
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Just to chime in I'm an anarchist and I really don't find wealth and political influence as negative traits. I see that as a way for me to infiltrate the system. I do agree to some extent though. Being creative and an artist has been the main way I've attracted people. I'm extremely niche but if the panda can figure it out so can I.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:05 AM
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Women will throw their lives in the garbage to cheat the same as men will. I've seen it happen, but it's not a big deal because captain save a hoe will always be around to keep them from ending up homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:52 AM
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Based, although the cia does have something to gain by dividing society and socially isolating communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:10 AM
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Based, although the cia does have something to gain by dividing society and socially isolating communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:10 AM
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I've noticed most people that use dating apps are usually looking for meaningless sex or have a million red flags and put in zero to no effort. That's why no one should base not being able to find a ltr from any dating app as a sign people do not want a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:45 PM
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No I'm an anarchist I don't like bootlickers and pig lovers otherwise I don't really care because their vote isn't going to matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:43 PM
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Honestly I don't think living as native Americans did or early civilization would be that bad and a change in societal values would be good. Power corrupts despite gender and society will be unfair and have an abundance of corruption and injustice no matter what. Humans as a species will always prioritize themselves. Whether things would be better or worse who knows it would depend on a lot of factors that aren't really gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:32 PM
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I mean it's kinda fucked up because it makes us feel like we have to be actively having sex to be accepted by society. I'm demi sexual and I forced myself to have sex which left me with a lot of trauma. Everytime I did it it would feel like I was reliving when I was abused as a child. I can't enjoy sex at all now because of it. When you're a teenager the nuance of why people are saying it to specific bad people doesn't really occur to you and you think you'll be labeled in a similar fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:20 PM
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All these social movements are CIA psyops. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:01 PM
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I mean personally I'm considering choosing homelessness over the shit jobs that I have as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:52 PM
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Personally I cannot be attracted to anyone if they are a bad person. Cruelty to other people or animals is absolutely unacceptable and that should be an obvious standard. For me something as small as mistreating a customer service employee is enough for me to not want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:10 PM
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Personally I think there are much bigger issues to be addressed. The rise of technology has created a huge gap in human connection in many ways. Financially it is hard to make time for finding an ideal partner or self improvement. A rise in mental illness has led to an increasing amount of social anxiety. Body standards for men and women have increased to an extremely unrealistic extent despite body positivity movements. This trend has led to an increase in body dysmorphia which kills confidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:45 AM
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If acting that way makes them better that's it's whatever but no self respecting men respect women that behave that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:54 AM
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I didn't vote for either I only vote on props and amendments. All politicians that are capable of making it into office are crooked or will become corrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:41 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if it's part of a cia psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:34 AM
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What about it? It's their choice. Statistics are not going to make you anymore successful in the dating world. You're better off not wasting mental energy on things you can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:30 AM
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Honestly sex isn't worth that much effort at all. If you want meaningless sex you can hire a sex worker. Or better yet do sex tourism. Personally I don't care enough to even do that. Also not every man has such low standards to just accept and deal with all the faults a woman has out obligation to be able to have sex in fact that just sounds desperate and pathetic. If a man puts in effort into self improvement and growing as a person settling for someone that's not doing the same will only drag …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:56 AM
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