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| 3 | Is it ok to compliment a woman if it’s based on a choice (hairstyle, shoes, etc)I think it’s important to qualify her somehow since she probably deals with thirsty guys often. You’re already thinking way too hard. Too much calculation is going to make it seem weird, like you expect something. That’s bad. Expect nothing. If it jumps into your head that some girl has nice shoes, just say, “Hey nice shoes.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | So if the average young man is lacking "Alpha" traits why are young women sexually attracted to and having sex with their average(beta) boyfriends?Women are told that looks don't matter and that they just need to say some stuff like "I am smart" and then the Chad is going to fall in love with them. Who tells them that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How to approach hot guy at bar, etc to hookup?Wait until you’re one on one, don’t say it too loud, and ride the line between implicit and explicit. “You know, Krystal told me all about you. She said you were good.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | The No Makeup Makeup Look is Destroying the Dating Market and Hurting WomenHypergamy is hard to pull off. You’re competing against all the girls from his social stratum, plus all the girls from yours and lower. The girls from his social stratum have more resources to put toward makeup, fun hobbies, expensive universities, participation in the social scene, bikram yoga, whatever. Worse, they grew up with the same mannerisms and what have you. Conversation goes smoother. Microexpressions are better picked up on. Down all that, if your plan is to win with makeup, you migh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The No Makeup Makeup Look is Destroying the Dating Market and Hurting WomenI feel like there’s a pattern in women’s physical appearance where whatever is most difficult to attain ipso facto becomes the theoretically more desirable look/attribute. This doesn’t explain everything, but it does explain e.g. the emphasis women put on thinness, or sometimes on high maintenance/high expense hairstyles (think Farrah Faucet hair). I noticed this hmm 8 years ago, trying to explain to my SO that my preference and lots of men’s preference was for thicker thighs. If I ask myself wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 0 | The No Makeup Makeup Look is Destroying the Dating Market and Hurting WomenMakes sense. I was going to say she’s getting dogged for her title. “Should I be a model.” C’mon, girlie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?The prisoner's dilemma doesn't really apply when you have multiple interactions with the same person; it's only really meant to apply to a single interaction with a stranger. There’s such a thing as a Repeated Prisoner’s Dilemma. Some have used it as the basis for human morality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it really for proactive female online daters to screen out the men they consider undesirable for relationships or hookups?I’m just asking to ask. what if they turn out to be a serial killer? How much of a meme is this? I find I can’t totally empathize with women on this one. How nervous are you when the plumber comes over to fix something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Let’s be honest, they don’t care about either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | How to approach hot guy at bar, etc to hookup?A friend of mine hooked up with him awhile back and said he was good There’s a way of bringing that up that would seal the deal on the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the Male Wall?How big exactly would be my question. To be honest, I’m not even sure what the range of baldness among 30-something men looks like. What fraction have full heads of hair in your experience? Attractiveness-wise how big of a difference is a full head of hair vs. mostly full head but with a small bald spot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the Male Wall?Thank you. If the old wives’ tale about your balding being determined by your mother’s father is true, I’m set. It’s the thing with the least evidence that I have great and profound faith in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the Male Wall?I’m 31 and my hair still looks like the “after” photo. I’m holding in there, baby! 🤞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are completely right to reject the average maleIf you haven’t figured it out yet, when white boys bump gangsta rap, there’s a slight but very real wink-wink element to it. We know we’re not gangsta. We can’t take ourselves 100% seriously in that mode. Three white guys and an Asian dude from the suburbs rolling through town rapping along with their favorite rap songs are simultaneously borrowing the aggression from it and making fun of its over-aggressiveness. This goes unremarked upon in society because a) it’s difficult to articulate and b)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Women are completely right to reject the average maleHaven’t seen it. IME, guys drop “virgin” as an insult in their teens. Maybe those particular memers... are teenagers. It’s seen as dumb by grown men. There’s an obvious “I get so much pussy” implication to it, which, just to be clear, isn’t a “hot” comment to drop either. on god we gone Then again, maybe it’s a black thing. Who knows. Black culture is more accepting/encouraging of braggadocio for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are completely right to reject the average maleDo you, personally, view yourself as “not a big fan” of men? Do you have a history of negative experiences with men beyond what the average woman has probably experienced? I wish it was different, but they literally offer nothing to women. I mean, ok, but people don’t go on the internet to call things valueless just to be informative and spread unbiased information, right? Why talk about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Women are completely right to reject the average maleYou know, it’s just weird that grown-ass women throw this insult at men and think it’s a sick burn. The other weird one is “you and your hand tonight.” I can’t explain it, but it’s funny that women think that’s funny. You ever see SupaHotFire? It’s like that. The distance between how much sting you think you’re delivering and how much you really are is, itself, funny/baffling/perplexing. I mean, do you hear grown men throw “I was too busy dating” at other men as an insult, ever? Wouldn’t we, if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 3 | What types of women struggle the most with relationships?a very defined set of parameters Yep, there’s an analogy to be had with AI here. AI is very strong in a ‘closed system’ like an 8x8 chessboard, but when you force it to wrangle with grayness and incomplete information, it’s much less powerful. So maybe the true correlation is these women I know are great at taking tests because that's their comfort zone. But dating requires a bit of risk and getting out of your comfort zone. Which they are much more the stay in your lane type. I agree. That’s wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there a “red pill rage” for women?we aren’t on the same timeline, visually I like that phrasing. So if he were 35 but looked 30, that would be a plausible match for you ta 25? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 08:32 PM |
| 3 | What types of women struggle the most with relationships?Yeah, it’s called the Variability Hypothesis. It makes sense; women are supposed to play the evolution game conservatively, so naturally evolution should give them the more conservative phenotypes. Tbh, a lot of high-IQ men have personality issues (high disagreeability, etc). As for school focus, I definitely buy that for a high fraction of them. One gets the feeling that they’re like a train on a track, and the track is what they know and what they’re comfortable with. I do tend to think, thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What types of women struggle the most with relationships?What kind of test scores we talking about here? However... conversing with someone who is clearly less intelligent than you every single day? Constantly having to make points and explain things and your partner just doesn’t get it? Never being challenged on her ideas? That’s going to be a turn off that these women are constantly reminded of. Luckily for your friends, the tail end of the bell curve is populated with a lot more men than women. Note the dotted line. It’s the male:female ratio. Hits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Women have turned into the men they complain about. DiscussMasculinity is not the absence of femininity, nor vice versa. An unmasculine man isn’t necessarily feminine, nor vice versa. This is worthwhile to remember because there really are limitations to how masculine women can be. For example, I think the male conception of honor is simply not to be understood by women, period. Honor is one of the very few things I feel I pursue/preserve entirely for its own sake and not because of what it might mean for me down the road. When, as a man, you’re confron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there a “red pill rage” for women?It sounds mean to say, but I really didn’t imagine when I was younger how rapidly women in my age cohort would age. I’m 31, and and some of these girls my age look 40-45 to me, especially the ones who are in the sun a lot. Suffice it to say, it’s an automatic ‘no’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How does Becky looks like?career-women_trans_ ............ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 11:30 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/cver89/whats_on_your_kinklist/ There’s a thread with examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I don’t have experience with any apps, but even that basic color-coded kinklist popular on NSFW Reddit (do you know the one?) imo falls short of satisfying its raison d’etre. For obvious reasons, users need crystal clarity in communicating what exactly they like and don’t like; that chart is pretty ambiguous in a couple sections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Touché, but it’s worth noting that dating apps took a long time to work out the right model. Who knows, maybe by the time we’re too old to care, they’ll figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:17 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Not answering your question because I’m a man, but the variety of answers ITT is why I think the next big dating app is going to solve this exact problem. The way around it is to have people be honest about their kinks with a third-party broker. It hasn’t happened yet because dating apps are conceptualized as a numbers game first and last, which is why they offer only limited ability to fine-tune your search scope: they don’t want you to go crazy with your wishlist and delete the app because you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?No way. Really? She’s otherworldly good at it if so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Oh, cool. I’ll do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I don’t know what that means. I’m new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?For the sake of brevity, I’m going to reply to all three of your questions at once: yes, yes, and yes. You get what I’m saying. Thanks for confirming my theorizing with your personal experience, by the way. I’m slightly basking in the glow of having a pet theory confirmed. I’m less certain about the following, but I want to throw it out there. You’re right that it’s uncomfortable to think about certain races being more attractive than others. People tend to push back on this pretty hard, even go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?I like your posts. Can I ask where you’re from? You seem very familiar with Asia, yet you have very natural English (by natural I mean ‘better than fluent’). There are Asian women out there who will treat Western men better than Western women do. Unpopular opinion, at least in society at large (I’m new to this sub): Interracial coupling (and perhaps inter-nationality coupling) has a unique, undiscussed upside: the fact that both parties know that they come from different cultural contexts can (c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?O/T: ‘babushka’ is one of my top 5 favorite sounding words. Rolls off the tongue like a motherfucker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?That’s not precisely the same thing, though. I’ll be honest: I read the accusation as one more variant of “guys don’t want me because I’m so great.” It’s literally ye olde false dichotomy. “If guys dislike x or y about modern women, it means they want women to act like it’s the 1800s.” I’ve never, ever, ever heard a guy say, “Fuck, that bitch demure as all get out. Hnnnn.” Demure isn’t something we want; it’s something you don’t want. It found its way into that sentence to serve a purpose, not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?And she married him because? Glowing personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?And you’re more annoyed with stray sexual comments than actual death and disease in the third world, aren’t you, Satan? L’disgust! You ever consider the possibility that “seeing is believing” and we don’t see it happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?Honestly, after the millionth time reading some version of this comment, one stops giving a shit. I don’t give a flying fuck what most feminists purport to want or believe; I care what the societal effects of feminism are, chiefly those experienced by moi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?Ha true story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 38 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?I think Westerners are attracted to them because of this fantasy that they're demure and obedient wives I’ve seen this hypothesized hundreds of times, but not once have I heard a guy say it about himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What do men look for when they're looking at girls?So when is the moment where men ask themselves questions about a girl's personality? Is it during the first seconds they see them from afar? Is it during the first conversation? Is it after she starts showing a personality traits that you like? For me, it’s when we need to “coordinate” somehow, like when we’re driving somewhere and the driver and navigator need to work together. Some people, male or female, you are much better at coordinating with for reasons that are hard to pinpoint. I very mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 03:24 PM |
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