antidense Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Why do you believe RP is wrong? RP assumes that most women are playing by the same playbook. They are not. A lot of them are well aware of the RP playbook by now, too.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/23 05:29 AM
20	is a coffee date acceptable as a first date? If you don't know the person personally, I believe that's the best option. If you don't click, you didn't invest too much.	/r/ExRedPill	14/10/23 03:13 PM
5	Do RP guys ever realize that grifters like Tate et al are only filling their heads full of stuff that's making them undateable? Yeah but I was kind of an asshole in those days. I wanted to have someone else to blame rather than change anything about myself. Life taught me a few lessons since then	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 06:17 PM
1	How do I stop being so easily influenced by redpill thinking? Maybe just remind yourself that it's not going to work if every football team plays using the same playbook. The redpill might work for a particular set of games, and may work at first until people catch on. Humans adapted to be adaptable, so any particular dating strategy is going to be quickly countered by other strategies.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/23 05:31 PM
4	Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not? I did even when I was following red pill and felt bad. It's hard though; they might interpret an apology as more part of your game.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/23 01:44 PM
4	Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving? Like attracts like? If your M.O. is to be manipulative, you'll end up with someone likewise manipulative.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/23 02:44 AM
1	Why am I so obsessed with the red pill even if I do not agree with it? Is it possible that there might be some truth to it, but it's completely blown way out of proportion? I think there are some things that red pill can be right about: that confidence is important, that there's a numbers game in how many people you need to actively go out and meet in order to find someone you mesh with. It's also right when there's an incorrect socialized expectation that men are supposed to "win over a woman's heart" by basically worshiping them and putting them on a pedestal. Wh…	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/23 08:54 PM
1	Help me - Older brother deep into manosphere and enforcing the beliefs on me The "women are hypergamous by nature" even if true would be a pretty big logical error of the naturalistic fallacy - just because something is natural doesn't make it right or ideal. Plus, our current environment is quite different from what it was in the past, so it's basically meaningless. What's also illogical is why humans would form one specific strategy, when they could be adaptive about it. Only relying on one strategy makes it easier for other people to counter it. Here's a good example …	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/23 12:45 AM
3	The red pill ruined my mental health and has nearly ruined my relationship Maybe find a role model to emulate if you are having a hard time breaking out of the mindset? Is there someone in your life you have a lot of respect for? Like I always admired Abraham Lincoln. Edit: here might be some more: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/ijabi9/who_are_your_positive_male_role_models/	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/23 04:50 PM
5	Leaving my red pill boyfriend + some thoughts on his ideologies Anyone who thinks that natural selection would select one strategy when it could pick several competing ones has to be smoking something.	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/22 08:09 PM
1	Is the red pill different from The Matrix movie or is it based on the samething? I mean they have a point that romcoms are not an instruction manual on how to date. Should be obvious though since they are just movies.	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/21 02:30 AM
11	Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature. I am even concerned that some of the "evidence" I see on TRP and WAATGM is fabricated. Some of them are way too consistent with the narrative to be real. If there is anything to "it" it's pretty much gaslighting and emotional abuse. There is a woman I know that keeps chasing a guy that is pretty obviously leading her on. She buys him a lot of expensive gifts, and he doesn't do anything for her in return. He even sends her pictures of him with other female friends and when she reacts negatively, …	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/21 02:41 PM
1	To create healthy and good alternative spaces to the red pill, one thing we should learn to do is to not invalidate men's experiences. Instead, engage in the toxic conclusions they can draw from it. Yes, exactly.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/21 05:02 PM
1	To create healthy and good alternative spaces to the red pill, one thing we should learn to do is to not invalidate men's experiences. Instead, engage in the toxic conclusions they can draw from it. I agree. It's definitely important to note that there are plenty of women who are selfish and manipulative and it's dubious to let them represent ALL women. Women who don't resort to petty games or have unrealistic expectations are not the super vocal and visible ones.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/21 02:28 PM
7	Q4All : what is your opinion of summer from 500 days of summer? I liked it, I'm just annoyed that the protagonist never really "learned." I think that's intentional, however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 02:27 AM
2	Do Red Pill criticizers realize that most men at The Red Pill WISH it wasn't true? Yeah I think I would suggest the same thing to women: cultivate your hobbies and interests, learn how to communicate and be assertive, develop relationships (including friendships), and follow your passions. You want to be someone that has things going for yourself. The goal would be fulfilling relationships, not just the romantic relationship but also friendships, family, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/17 02:45 PM
10	Do Red Pill criticizers realize that most men at The Red Pill WISH it wasn't true? The best I can answer this is just to watch Lisa Ling's This is Life documentary about pick up artists. The dudes went to a pick up artistry camp, but they didn't really learn any negging or manipulative methods to get women (at least what I think of red pill). The pick up expert taught how to portray confidence, and treat other women like people and how to communicate, and that actually worked pretty well for them. I think the two mistakes "beta" dudes make is 1) trying to attract a woman by be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/17 12:51 PM
11	Do Red Pill criticizers realize that most men at The Red Pill WISH it wasn't true? If red pill works on a particular woman, then that woman is probably not someone you want to have a relationship with anyway. Blue Pill works fine if you treat everyone the same friendly way, whether they're guys or girls, or whether or not your are attracted to them or not. It takes longer, possibly, but worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/17 12:02 PM
2	Why do so many women get fat despite seemingly being so obsessed with being thin? Don't get me started on soda...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/17 04:51 PM
1	Why are women much more concerned with their appearance than men, when women are generally the 'choosers' in the dating game? Women "compete" for the attention of the top echelon of men. They don't want to just settle for any guy. At least that's what RP would probably say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/16 01:07 PM
3	If you're in a male same-sex marriage, it's 50 percent more likely to end in divorce than a heterosexual marriage. If you're in a female same-sex marriage, this figure soars to 167 percent. Looking for BP thinking on this. Also, I'm sure stigmitization of being gay can add additional stressors to the marriage that heterosecual couples may not experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/15 12:50 PM
5	If you aren't RedPill (or even if you are personally opposed to TRP) have you learned anything useful from RedPill? I thought love didn't exist, and then I saw a patient who cared for her husband with Alzheimer's for years. Questioned everything I ever knew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/15 01:59 AM
2	Talking to girls- i feel like im doing all the work. And if she doesn't re-initiate conversations? Drop?	/r/seduction	20/05/15 11:15 PM
2	Girl wants to know me better through text before going out What about over phone? This girl seems to be all over me now after we talked for an hour.	/r/seduction	09/05/15 10:51 AM
5	What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds? Yeah but how do you deal with all their drama when they see you dating other girls? It seems like they often want to keep you single.	/r/seduction	06/05/15 01:48 PM
2	What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"? "You mean not with people other than me" :)	/r/seduction	12/09/11 09:51 PM
2	There's truth to this Well depends on how you ask it...	/r/seduction	12/11/10 09:08 PM
1	How to respond to being looked at What do you do if you wave them over to you, and they just shrink away?	/r/seduction	24/10/10 04:17 PM
1	Please help me write a letter. University's 'Women's Only" programs hinder my schedule, and seem highly discriminatory. TIL enroll can have one "l". http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/enrol	/r/MensRights	18/09/10 09:24 PM
9	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. Mine wasn't directly b/c of religion though, only b/c it was the norm >__<.	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 02:54 PM
1	is there a /seduction that's aimed at women seducing men? Pursue what you love and be awesome at it.	/r/seduction	18/08/10 03:04 AM
8	Debate: Are men physically incapable of monogamy, or is fidelity simply a state of mind? Simply put, humans are adaptable to multiple mating strategies. The best mating strategies depend on factors like STD's, environment, etc. It can be more productive for males to hang onto one female at a time (or forever) and have multiple babies with her, especially in an environment where parental investment is a huge factor in mating success of their offspring. It can also be productive for males to not put all their eggs in one basket, since they can't always be sure if their kid is theirs. …	/r/MensRights	27/06/10 04:01 AM
1	Have any of you tried this? (repost from /r/sex) Thumbnail still shows up though :/	/r/seduction	06/05/10 06:21 PM
3	Where's the Sex Advice in Men's Magazines? ♫ I bet you think this link is about you ♫	/r/MensRights	05/05/10 02:42 PM
5	What can a girl do about pickup? Develop you're own hobbies and skills and get really into them. It's a big turn on to see a girl who's really passionate and good at something unique, whether it be pets, gaming or a sport. It also helps in conversation. Moreover, lay off TV. It gets annoying if that's all you can talk about.	/r/seduction	28/04/10 05:30 PM
8	Army Wife Divorces Husband, Gets Custody of Son; Neglects to Tell Husband About Divorce; Neglects to Tell Court About Son If she cheated on him... I wouldn't be so sure of the son being his.	/r/MensRights	28/03/10 03:00 PM
1	"That's fine, as long as he isn't a pedophile." Someone said this to my wife about me being a stay-at-home dad. Agreed. Just watched a Married with Children episode where they adopted a little boy and let him sleep with their teenage son and it wasn't creepy.	/r/MensRights	02/03/10 07:16 PM
3	"That's fine, as long as he isn't a pedophile." Someone said this to my wife about me being a stay-at-home dad. BUT DID THEY ABUSE YOU?!?! sigh... i hate this.	/r/MensRights	02/03/10 07:13 PM
1	True Facts. Sigh... why should I feel guilty for even looking at a little kid?	/r/MensRights	25/02/10 04:48 PM
6	Listen up, women: why you should settle. Well it's more like, "geez just give me an frelling chance." Like she said in the video, women seem to just be so caught up on superficial things, that they don't take the time to realize what's underneath, which can be very valuable. Otherwise they have some exact romantic idea of how things should happen, and are inexplicably disappointed when things don't work out that way.	/r/seduction	06/02/10 08:27 PM
5	Soul-searching: is there an essentially "male" way of dealing with problems, both emotional and practical, or is this a result of gender roles arbitrarily imposed by custom? Men cry publicly in other cultures, yet you hardly see it in Hollywood movies. So, I do think it has a lot to do w/ customs and gender roles. I also don't there is an exclusively male way of dealing with stress. I play video games, go for walks, exercise, get drinks but those activities are often with women. Some guys go hunting or golfing to get away from the women, but I still feel that's also a cultural gender role thing.	/r/MensRights	10/12/09 04:12 PM
1	Fast Flirting - These guys have made a site with all sorts of free, games that help improve pickup. Well, you better see it by yourself, it is difficult to explain ... how did it work out?	/r/seduction	15/10/09 02:56 AM
1	Pepsi Makes Hilarious Amp App, Feminists Hate It Because It Amuses Men More Than They Do. I reddit friended you if it makes you feel any better.	/r/MensRights	14/10/09 06:23 PM
2	Why I was banned from /r/women Well now we also have the ability to downmod subreddits off the front page, so there's at least an incentive to be a good mod.	/r/MensRights	10/09/09 03:47 PM
1	Effects of Fatherlessness (US Data) seems like it's self-perpetuating... fatherlessness leads to teen pregnancy, which pretty much guarentees fatherlessness for the next generation.	/r/MensRights	19/12/08 08:30 PM
7	Another male-bashing article from Yahoo - "Dating 101: Will Your Guy Cheat on You?" Cuz, you know, women never cheat. Is it just me or does it seem like women want to promote the idea that men cheat so they can somehow justify themselves cheating?	/r/MensRights	26/11/08 06:46 PM
2	Ask Reddit: know any statistics that counter the "for every dollar a man makes..." argument? I'm with you on this, but I'm wondering about your thoughts (or anyone else's on this subreddit) about gender-dominated professions? Can feminists really blame society if housekeepers tend to be female and construction workers, male... is there some point where biology actually draws a line?	/r/MensRights	15/07/08 01:17 PM